The Refined Collective Podcast
By Kat Harris
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In The Refined Collective podcast, host and author of Sexless in the City, Kat Harris creates a safe space to have honest conversations around faith, sexuality, relationships, politics, identity, Christian culture, deconstruction, and more. *What does the Bible really say about sex? *How does our faith impact our politics? *Is Christianity at odds with science? *Is the Bible still relevant? From purity culture, to deconstruction, dating apps, and LGTBQ+ issues—there’s no topic that’s off the table. In this podcast Kat doesn’t pretend to be an expert, or to have all the answers about faith or Christianity. And though it’d be more convenient to have easy black-and-white answers, she invites you to discover God in the grey and unexpected spaces. Her hope is to look doubt in the face, be curious, seek God, and ask meaningful questions to address any ‘elephant in the room’ with openness, nuance and grace.
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Sorry For Ghosting You
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Aug 08, 2023 |
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5 Things I’m Currently Loving
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May 09, 2023 |
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What Kind of Trauma Do You Have? with Kobe Campbell
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Apr 10, 2023 |
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Does God Want Me To Be Gay? with Mike Maeshiro
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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Doing Mushrooms May Have Saved My Faith
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Mar 13, 2023 |
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Dear Diary: Why is the Bar Set So Low? with Tutti del Monte
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Mar 06, 2023 |
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What A Sabbatical Really Looks Like
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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And We're Back!!!
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Feb 02, 2023 |
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A Closed Door Leads to a Greater Yes
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Sep 02, 2022 |
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Life in a Post-Roe World with Dr. Natalie Crawford
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Aug 24, 2022 |
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I’m Taking a Sabbatical + Here’s Why
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Aug 17, 2022 |
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Navigating Physical Boundaries While You’re Deconstructing with Alessandra Conti
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Aug 10, 2022 |
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Kat Spills the Tea: The One that Got Away
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Aug 03, 2022 |
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He Said / She Said: Who Should Pay for the First Date Though? with Shaun Galanos
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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Sex Ed 101: (Spoiler Alert) Sex Isn’t Like the Movies with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
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Jul 20, 2022 |
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The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex with Sheila Wray Gregoire
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Jul 13, 2022 |
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Ask Kat: How to Be an LGBTQ+ Ally, Interfaith Relationships, and Bridgerton
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Jun 08, 2022 |
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My Egg Freezing Experience
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Jun 01, 2022 |
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Meditation for Gratitude
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May 25, 2022 |
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Meditation for Anxiety with Jackie Viramontez
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May 18, 2022 |
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When You Feel BURNED OUT
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May 11, 2022 |
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Deconstruction Part III: What Would Jesus Do?
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May 04, 2022 |
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Deconstruction Part II: Am I Still a Christian?
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Apr 27, 2022 |
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Deconstruction Part I: What Is It + How Do I Know I’m Experiencing It?
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Apr 20, 2022 |
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I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet with Shauna Niequist
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Apr 13, 2022 |
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Sex Ed 101: Vibrators, Positions + Oral… OH MY! with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
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Apr 06, 2022 |
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He Said/She Said: Submission with Manwell Reyes
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Mar 30, 2022 |
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Dear Diary: Am I a Good Kisser? with Tutti del Monte
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Mar 23, 2022 |
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Ask Kat: Tithing During Deconstruction? Faith Compatibility in Dating + More
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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Leaving the Church to Find Jesus
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Mar 09, 2022 |
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Real Talk: Dating Non-Christians
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Mar 02, 2022 |
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Churchless: Searching for My Place Outside of Church
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Feb 23, 2022 |
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Letting Go vs. Giving Up
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Feb 16, 2022 |
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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part III
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Feb 09, 2022 |
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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part II
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Feb 02, 2022 |
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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part I
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Jan 26, 2022 |
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Tears, Fears + Searching for Vision with Johan Martinez-Khalilian
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Jan 19, 2022 |
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I Kinda Suck at Dating: A 2021 Reflection
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Dec 15, 2021 |
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Church + S*x: How Did We Get It So Wrong? with Sheila Wray Gregoire
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Dec 08, 2021 |
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How to Get Real Results From Online Dating with Kait Warman
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Dec 01, 2021 |
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Is S*xual Compatibility a Myth? with Jaiya and Ian
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Nov 17, 2021 |
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Dear Diary: Excerpts from my Middle School Journal with Tutti del Monte
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Nov 10, 2021 |
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Friendship Breakups with Andi Andrew
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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Ask Kat: Dating While Deconstructing, Botox, Legalism + More...
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Oct 27, 2021 |
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Is It the Holy Spirit or My Trauma? with Kobe Campbell
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Oct 20, 2021 |
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The Eyes of Tammy Faye with Jonathan Merritt
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Oct 13, 2021 |
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Lessons From My Therapist with Kat Harris
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Oct 06, 2021 |
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He Said/She Said: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? with Manwell Reyes
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Sep 29, 2021 |
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He Said/She Said: Sex/Life with Manwell Reyes
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Sep 22, 2021 |
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He Said/She Said: Double Standards with Manwell Reyes
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Sep 15, 2021 |
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Sex Ed 101 with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
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Sep 08, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Being Single is Hard... Real Talk with Mia Fieldes
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Aug 25, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Cheating, Ghosting, Finances + Sex with Shaun Galanos
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Aug 18, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: The #1 Dating Myth Keeping You Stuck with Stephanie May Wilson
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Aug 11, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: The Sex Talk: When, How + Why to Have it in Dating
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Aug 04, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Are You Blocking Yourself from Love? with Jillian Turecki
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Jul 28, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Who Should I Date? with Phylicia Masonheimer
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Jul 21, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Purity Culture, Painful Sex + Debunking Shame Narrative with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
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Jul 14, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Getting to Know Your Period with Kate Eskuri
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Jul 06, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Is Masturbation a Sin? Part II
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Jun 30, 2021 |
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TRC REMIX: Is Masturbation a Sin? Part I
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Jun 23, 2021 |
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Is My Body Bad? with Christopher West
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Jun 16, 2021 |
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What Does the Bible Really Say About Sex: Part II
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Jun 09, 2021 |
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What Does the Bible Really Say About Sex: Part I
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Jun 02, 2021 |
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Learning to Listen: A Guided Meditation
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May 27, 2021 |
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Are You Really OK? A Mental Health Check Up with Debra Fileta
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May 25, 2021 |
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The Science of Anxiety + How to Stabilize Once You're Triggered
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May 19, 2021 |
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Identifying Anxiety Triggers
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May 12, 2021 |
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When Is It Time to Go to Therapy? with Kobe Campbell
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May 05, 2021 |
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My Favorite ‘F’ Words: Faith + Feminism with Meghan Tschanz
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Apr 28, 2021 |
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Pure or Impure?: Reframing the Dialogue Around Sex with Brenda Marie Davies
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Apr 21, 2021 |
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Sexless in the City: My Breaking Point
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Apr 14, 2021 |
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Waiting for Marriage...Is It Really Worth It? with Nights at the Round Table
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Apr 07, 2021 |
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Deconstruction 101 with Nights at the Round Table
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Mar 31, 2021 |
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The Women Tell All: Should I Marry a Christian? with Carrie Lloyd and Kait Warman
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Mar 24, 2021 |
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Strong Women Run In My DNA: The Story of Hannah
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Mar 17, 2021 |
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Dating is a Curb, NOT a Cliff with Dr. Christie Kederian
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Mar 10, 2021 |
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Work On Your ‘Ish: If You Don’t Heal Your Past, It Will Haunt You with Demetria Stallings
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Mar 03, 2021 |
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Thank You For Rejecting Me with Kait Warman
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Feb 24, 2021 |
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Is My Heart Deceitful Above All Things? A Conversation with AD Thomason
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Feb 17, 2021 |
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Is Chivalry Dead?
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Feb 10, 2021 |
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Are We Weaponizing Scripture to Silence Women? with Tiffany Bluhm
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Feb 03, 2021 |
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BONUS: The Hard Truth About Closure with Hannah Brencher
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Jan 28, 2021 |
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Just Because You Know A Story By Heart, Doesn’t Mean It’s True with Ruthie Lindsey
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Jan 26, 2021 |
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BONUS: Want Kids One Day? A Conversation with Afton Vechery of Modern Fertility
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Jan 21, 2021 |
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Choosing Love is Worth the Risk with Jasmine Star
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Jan 19, 2021 |
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Single + Broke: How to Set Yourself Up for Financial Success Today with Anthony O’Neal
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Jan 13, 2021 |
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2020 Reflections: Looking Back to Move Forward
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Jan 06, 2021 |
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FaceTime Dates, Politics, + Double Standards: How 2020 Has Forever Changed Dating
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Dec 16, 2020 |
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Cheating, Ghosting, Finances + Sex with Shaun Galanos
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Dec 09, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: Sexual Formation + Cultivating Desire with Jon Tyson
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Dec 02, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: Marriage Prep 101: Sacrifice, Intentionality + Growth with Tim Timberlake
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Nov 24, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: Where Are All the Single Godly Men? With Ben Stuart
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Nov 18, 2020 |
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Another One Bites the Dust: Sex Scandals in the Evangelical Church
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Nov 12, 2020 |
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That's What He Said: Is Asking for a Set-Up Desperate? with Matt Jones
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Nov 04, 2020 |
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Faith + Politics Part II: Can I Love My Neighbor Through My Politics? with Stephanie Summers
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Oct 28, 2020 |
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[BONUS] Faith + Politics Part I: Why Pro-Birth is Not Enough with Ashley Abercrombie
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: How to Create a Culture of Honor in Dating with Jeff Johnson
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Oct 21, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: How to Let Him Know You’re Into Him with Jarod Nickerson
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Oct 14, 2020 |
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That’s What He Said: DM Dating // Going from DMs to Real Life with Jamal Miller
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Oct 07, 2020 |
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Dream Interpretation with Andi Andrew
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Sep 30, 2020 |
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[BONUS] The Messy Middle: When Your Shame Becomes Your Redemption with Mary Marantz
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Sep 28, 2020 |
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What If I Don’t Know Who I Am: Identity, Trauma and Stepping Into the Unknown with Jedidiah Jenkins
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Sep 16, 2020 |
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[BONUS] Why Are So Many People Leaving the Evangelical Church Right Now?
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Sep 11, 2020 |
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Is He the One?: 3 Practical Ways to Know if You’ve Found 'The One' with Addison Bevere
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Sep 09, 2020 |
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Healing Heartache: How to Overcome Rejection, Break-Ups, + Heartbreak
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Sep 02, 2020 |
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Why Does the Church Worship Marriage?
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Aug 26, 2020 |
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[BONUS] Stop Saying "Sorry": How to Lead Like a BOSS
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Aug 24, 2020 |
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Is My Sexual Desire Sinful?
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Aug 19, 2020 |
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What Dating in 2020 is Really Like…
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Aug 12, 2020 |
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What Does Being A Man Feel Like?
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Aug 05, 2020 |
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Is Married Sex Better Sex?
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Jul 29, 2020 |
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How to Fight Fair: Do you want a healthy relationship or do you want to be right?
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Jul 22, 2020 |
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Part II: Is Masturbation A Sin?
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Jul 15, 2020 |
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Part I: Is Masturbation A Sin?
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Jul 08, 2020 |
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Breaking the Cycle of Sexual Exploitation: a Story of Restoration
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Jul 01, 2020 |
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Insecure: Unpacking Attachment Styles
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Jun 24, 2020 |
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Are You Blocking Yourself From Love?
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Jun 17, 2020 |
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The Gorgeous Grey: Gratitude in a Time of Grief with Ty Alexander
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Jun 10, 2020 |
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Why Black Lives Matter
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Jun 04, 2020 |
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Soulmates = Codependency (And Other Dating Myths Debunked)
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May 27, 2020 |
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8 Ways to Activate Genuine Self-Love (For Free)
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May 20, 2020 |
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Who Should I Date?
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May 13, 2020 |
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What is Sober Curious?
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May 06, 2020 |
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How to Invest Into Your Marriage (When You’re Single)
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Apr 29, 2020 |
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Why Being a 'Good Person' Prevents You From Being Better
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Apr 22, 2020 |
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The Fertility Series: Egg Freezing 101
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Apr 15, 2020 |
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Why Self-Care Is More Crucial Now Than Ever Before
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Apr 08, 2020 |
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Is Love Really Blind? Everything I Learned From Love Is Blind
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Apr 01, 2020 |
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How to Work from Home (Without Going Crazy)
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Mar 25, 2020 |
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How to Own Your Voice: A Conversation on Consent
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Mar 18, 2020 |
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How Meditation Can Change Your Life
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Mar 11, 2020 |
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The Fertility Series: 10 Years of Infertility Led to This Moment
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Mar 04, 2020 |
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What Happens When Your Identity Is Stripped From You?
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Feb 26, 2020 |
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The Sex Talk: When, How, + Why To Have It In Dating
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Feb 19, 2020 |
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How a Podcast Saved a Marriage
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Feb 12, 2020 |
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Ever Feel Like a Fake? Tackling Imposter Syndrome 101
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Feb 05, 2020 |
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Confused by Enneagram? We're Breakin' It Down for You
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Jan 29, 2020 |
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Dating Tips, Deal Breakers and Myths
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Jan 22, 2020 |
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Comparison Sucks + Other Thoughts About 2019
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Jan 15, 2020 |
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Don't Take it Personal: Kat's End of Year Tell-All
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Dec 11, 2019 |
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From Wall Street to Career Coach: Shifting Roles and Shifting Mindsets
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Dec 05, 2019 |
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Creating Space for Grief
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Nov 20, 2019 |
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The Difference Between Diet Food and Real Food (And Why You Should Care)
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Nov 13, 2019 |
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Discernment: What it is and Practical Tools to Use it
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Nov 06, 2019 |
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Side Hustles, Career Pivots, And Learning to Listen To Your Audience
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Oct 23, 2019 |
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You Were Born To Shine With Ashley LeMieux
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Oct 16, 2019 |
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Purity Culture, Painful Sex + Debunking Shame Narrative with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
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Oct 09, 2019 |
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How To Live Authentically Without Prematurely Sharing Your Story
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Oct 02, 2019 |
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How to Plan for Marriage Not Just a Wedding
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Sep 25, 2019 |
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Staying Connected To Hope With Mia Fieldes
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Sep 18, 2019 |
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Babies, Botox + Body Image
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Sep 11, 2019 |
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CBD 101: Everything You Need To Know About CBD
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Sep 04, 2019 |
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Divorce, Online Dating, Sugar Daddies, and More
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Aug 28, 2019 |
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Everything You Were Never Taught About Your Period
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Aug 21, 2019 |
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Pursuing Purpose Regardless of Your Season
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Aug 14, 2019 |
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The 5 Productivity Hacks You Need In Your Life
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Aug 08, 2019 |
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How To Identify The Subtle Fears That Are Keeping You Stuck
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Jul 24, 2019 |
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How to Marie Kondo Your Mental Health
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Jul 10, 2019 |
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Real Talk: Dating in Your 30s vs. 20s
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Jul 03, 2019 |
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5 Tips to Unpacking Your Calling & Purpose
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Jun 12, 2019 |
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The Top 15 Questions You're Dying to Ask the Men in Your Life // The Dudes Series #6
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Jun 06, 2019 |
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How to Create a Culture of Honor in Dating // The Dudes Series #5
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Jun 04, 2019 |
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The #1 Way to Know If He's Into You // The Dudes Series #4
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May 30, 2019 |
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Can Men + Women Be Just Friends? The Dudes Series #3 with Ben Stuart
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May 28, 2019 |
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How To Let Him Know You’re Interested Without Feeling Like You’re Taking The Reigns. The Dudes Series #2 with Jarod Nickerson
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May 23, 2019 |
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The #1 Reason He's Not Asking You Out (it's not what you think) The Dudes Series #1 with Jamal Miller
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May 22, 2019 |
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How to Find Beauty in the Midst of Pain
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May 16, 2019 |
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How to Praise Before Our Breakthrough
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May 09, 2019 |
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Do I Have An Eating Disorder?
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May 02, 2019 |
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How to be 100% in Your Worth
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Apr 24, 2019 |
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How to Confront Hard Truth in a "My Truth" Culture with Grace, Humility + a Little Sass
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Apr 16, 2019 |
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How to Date Intentionally + Pursue Creatively with Audrey Roloff
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Apr 10, 2019 |
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The Top 5 Self Care Practices that Cost You Nothing!
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Mar 27, 2019 |
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The Top 10 Dating Hacks from The Bachelor
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Mar 20, 2019 |
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How to Online Date Like a Boss
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Mar 12, 2019 |
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How to Put Yourself Out There and Still Be Pursued
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Mar 06, 2019 |
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Saying Goodbye to Fear
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Feb 27, 2019 |
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Wait, Pray, Love with Jessica Shakir
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Feb 19, 2019 |
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Unpacking Toxic Masculinity with Mike Aidala
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Feb 12, 2019 |
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How to Pursue Wholeness Before Pursuing a Relationship with Amanda Blair Hopkins
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Feb 06, 2019 |
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Cheryl Scruggs A Story of Reconciliation and Marriage
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Jan 29, 2019 |
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Arise: A 2019 Manifesto with Kat Harris
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Jan 22, 2019 |
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How to Create Change Through Human Connection with Reagan Pugh
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Dec 12, 2018 |
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How to Create Community with Radha Agrawal
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Dec 04, 2018 |
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How to Confront Transition + Unexpected Change with Sara del Monte
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Nov 28, 2018 |
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Love Does: A Conversation with Bob Goff
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Nov 20, 2018 |
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Ben Higgins: Faith, Influence + Impact
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Nov 13, 2018 |
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How to Embrace Your Sexuality with Morgan Day Cecil
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Nov 07, 2018 |
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Rooted in Truth: Purpose vs Pressure with Jordan Lee Dooley
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Oct 31, 2018 |
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The Silent Hustle to Success with Davie
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Oct 23, 2018 |
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Dancing with our Creator: Singleness and Faith with Arielle Estoria
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Oct 18, 2018 |
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Freefall to Fly with Rebekah Lyons
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Oct 11, 2018 |
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A Million Little Things with Christina Moses
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Oct 02, 2018 |
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Exploring Holistic Health with Allison Evans and Kat Harris
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Sep 25, 2018 |
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How to Connect with Your Vision and Purpose with Joel Brown and Kat Harris
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Sep 18, 2018 |
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I'm Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness with Austin Channing Brown
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Sep 04, 2018 |
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Tackling Fear and Anxiety with Kat Harris
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Aug 28, 2018 |
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The Heart of Dating, a conversation with Kait Warman and Kat Harris
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Aug 14, 2018 |
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Going Scared: a conversation with Jessica Honegger of Noonday Collection
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Aug 07, 2018 |
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Jesus, Desire, and the Deconstruction of Sex with Johan Khalilian and Kat Harris
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Jul 23, 2018 |
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How to be a Powerful Woman with Carmina Becerra PS You already are one.
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Jul 17, 2018 |
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Love + Football: Female Empowerment in a Male Dominated Industry with Samantha Ponder
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Jul 10, 2018 |
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Impact Entrepreneurship with Liz Bohannon of Sseko Designs
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Jun 26, 2018 |
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The Art of Storytelling with Morgan Harper Nichols
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Jun 15, 2018 |
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Sexless in the City Part II: Developing a New Vision for Christian Sexuality
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Jun 04, 2018 |
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Chasing Your Why: Career Pivots for the Creative Entrepreneur with Jasmine Star
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May 29, 2018 |
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Building Your Business from the Ground Up with Bethany McDaniel from Primally Pure
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May 22, 2018 |
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Sexless in the City Part 1: Dating, Relationships, and Sex
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May 15, 2018 |
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Is Physical Illness Tied to Spiritual and Emotional Health?
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May 08, 2018 |
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Chinae Alexander on Failure, Vulnerability, and People.
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May 01, 2018 |
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A Woman's Worth--Not Letting Your Inner Critic Win with Emily Sexton
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Apr 24, 2018 |
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Am I really WORTHY with Joanne Encarnacion: body diversity, motherhood, and self-worth
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Apr 03, 2018 |
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Leaning In: Wellness, Transition, and Marriage with Lauren Scruggs Kennedy
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Apr 03, 2018 |
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Open Up + Show Up: Anxiety, Race, and Healing Community with Nikia Phoenix
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Mar 18, 2018 |