Creating Love Together

By TIM & JAMIE HOLLOWAY

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Creating Love Together takes you along for the ride in the life of Tim and Jamie Holloway as they create, love and learn through life and business. No topics will be off limits as the couple gets raw and real about the journey they have taken to get the relationship they have. If you desire a stronger connection, long-term success and passion, and purpose in your life and marriage, join them as they share the practical tips and proven tools to get you to where you want to be.

Episode Date
You’re Not A Victim - Just Do You
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How many women do you know that spend their whole girl’s night out bitching about their husbands or kids?  Is that accomplishing anything other than wasting a perfectly good night out?  Actually, it’s also strengthening your victim response.  Life will always have its hardships, but we magnify what we focus on so why are we making our speed bumps larger than necessary.  Jamie is challenging listeners to retrain their brains to seek out and focus on all we have to be grateful for.

May 23, 2019
The Marriage Mindset
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Today Tim and Jamie are joined by coach, motivational speaker and good friend, Gerritt Bake and his wife Melissa.  Gerritt will be the first to admit that he made many mistakes in his marriage that nearly led him and Melissa to divorce, but ultimately he took ownership.  Today Gerritt and Melissa open up about their struggles, the breakdown, the new mindset they had to adapt and the conscious efforts they now choose to put in every day.   

May 21, 2019
Ah Ha Moment - Just Do You
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Jamie is coming at you solo with her very first episode of ‘Just Do You’, a podcast near and dear to her heart.  Why are we, as women, worried more about what other people think than our own happiness? Jamie has vowed to be the woman she needed in her corner when she was younger, and she’s ready to do that through this project.  Listen in as she explains how this idea came about and where she plans to take it.   

May 14, 2019
Babe, Just Do You
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If you haven’t heard by now, Jamie has been working towards launching a new solo podcast, and she recently fell into a name for it.  She knew she wanted a podcast aimed more at women and helping us all to live our best lives, not needing validation from outside sources.  She was seeking that validation recently when she questioned whether her sex drive had become too much for Tim, to which he replied, “Babe, just do you”.  So, today we announce that 'Just Do You' launches Tuesday the 14th! 

May 13, 2019
Your Kids + My Kids = Our Kids
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Blended families are more common than ever, but that doesn’t make them any easier to navigate.  When Jamie joined Match.com she wasn’t looking for the 40-year-old virgin, she knew odds were most men would have children.  When Tim got matched with Jamie, her 4 kids didn’t scare him in the least.  Today they discuss how, through trial and error, understanding and communication, they were able to blend their families.

May 07, 2019
From Sh*t Can Grow A Beautiful Rose
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Tim is laying on the compliments today, but Jamie deserves every single one.  The couple is thrilled with the ride they’re on and are expecting great things.  Today we’re talking about taking the hard road vs easy street.  Are you doing all you can to improve your health, relationships or business? Are you coasting on good when you could be working at great?  Tim and Jamie share their experiences while enjoying the view from their road of choice.

May 03, 2019
Just Meet Me In The Middle
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Do you know someone whose motto could be, “my way or the highway”?  Jamie had to deal with this type of person and was left with a headache and wanting to know, how do you deal with these types of people.  Sometimes it’s easier to completely concede in these situations, but doing so can be a very slippery slope. Today Tim and Jamie talk about the circle of influence vs circle of concern and the importance of boundaries.  

May 01, 2019
You CAN Polish A Turd | 039
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Do you and your spouse work well together? For Jamie and Tim, starting a business together meant learning each other’s strengths and weaknesses and balancing each other out. Tim likes to dive in and get things done, Jamie has great attention to detail which takes more time. This could be a recipe for frustration, or it could be an opportunity to get further together than they ever could apart. Communication and commitment to a shared goal is the key.
Apr 25, 2019
No Time Like The Present | 038
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Tim takes a moment to commend Jamie for really taking action in her life lately, which reminds her of a powerful message she wants to share with listeners. Have you ever found that sometimes the easiest person to flake on is yourself? Do you have big ideas for your life, but when it comes time to take action you find yourself saying, “I’ll start tomorrow”? It’s time to respect yourself enough to show up for yourself, consistently, until you have retrained your brain. Start today!
Apr 18, 2019
Smells Like Teen Spirit | 037
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Being a parent to a teenager is a crazy time, helping them transition into adulthood, having them push back because they suddenly know it all. Have you ever had your teenager admit that you were right and they were wrong? Jamie got that call yesterday and is trying to not be too smug, reminding herself that she had to make that call before. Tim thought he had kept a step ahead through his continuous work with youth, but realized he’s not as hip as he thought when some new lingo stumps him.
Apr 12, 2019
Trust The Process | 036
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In episode 29 of Creating Love Together, “Destroy The Lie”, you’ll recall Jamie was working on overcoming her negative thought process of ‘everything good gets taken away’. If you’ve ever had to battle your own negative thinking you know how hard it can be, but Jamie was all in, and then that good thing was taken away. Tim was worried this would reaffirm Jamie’s former beliefs, but she says it actually taught her a lot about trusting the process and allowing something even better to come alo
Apr 09, 2019
I Have A Dream! | 035
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Jamie admits she wasn’t much of a dreamer, she didn’t allow herself to dream because she didn’t feel worthy. Then Tim came along to bust that bubble! The couple began dreaming together about their future, but Jamie was still hesitant to dream for herself, that is until Rachel Hollis started inspiring her. Now she is sharing her dreams with the world, some even Tim is hearing for the first time.
Apr 04, 2019
Jamie Jumps On The Bandwagon | 034
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Jamie is fired up after finding the first self-help book that didn’t put her to sleep. Today we’re talking individual progression using prompts from ‘Girl, Stop Apologizing’ by best selling author, Rachel Hollis. Tim is ready to smash belief systems by looking at what excuses we use to hold ourselves back, what lies we still believe about ourselves and what dreams we’re afraid to pursue. You’re going to want to jump on this bandwagon!
Apr 02, 2019
In To Me I See | 33
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Tim & Jamie are joined today by special guest, Intimacy Fitness Coach, Howard Kotlier. Stemming from his own experiences, Howard has a passion for helping couples rediscover their special connection, both outside the bedroom and in. Is your relationship clouded by blame, shame or anger caused by a lack of intimacy? The solution isn’t always as easy as trying a new position, though that is on the list, which is why Howard shares many ways to overcome a lack of intimacy or avoid it altogether.
Mar 26, 2019
Jamie Messed Up My Life | 032
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Today on Creating Love Together, Tim and Jamie want to talk about the journey that led them to be the entrepreneurs they are today. Before they got together, Jamie was throwing herself into her job, trying to find her purpose outside of being Mom. Tim, on the other hand, was content in his double-wide trailer and thought he had already found his purpose working in a treatment center for boys. Together, they found a new passion and have been full steam ahead ever since.
Mar 21, 2019
Please Forgive Me | 031
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Tim and Jamie would like to genuinely repent for losing the first take of this episode, but they accept responsibility for those technical difficulties and offer you take two as restitution. Today we’re talking apology languages; the way we tend to offer an apology and the way we need to receive an apology. If you’re not familiar with Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages we suggest you head over to 5lovelanguages.com to learn yours (and your partners).
Mar 18, 2019
Practice What We Preach
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Jamie admits to cheating on their podcast with another, but her take-away from it is all good for Tim. Instead of jumping jacks or coffee to get them pumped up before their podcast, they decide they need to have sex. After that revelation, the pair turns to a topic brought up by an Instagram follower; emotional affairs. Social media has made this form of cheating all too easy and common. Have you ever felt yourself falling into this dangerous trap?
Mar 13, 2019
Destroy The Lie | 029
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Tim and Jamie are just waiting for you to ask what they have been up to.  Their days of couch-surfing and Air BnB living are coming to a close. After nearly settling on a home that was too small, they found their dream (rental) house and are on cloud 9.  Jamie shares that she still struggles with worthiness and was in disbelief that they could have something so nice. Tim discusses ways we can all battle the lie that we are unworthy of good things.
Mar 12, 2019
What Direction Do I Go
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After Jaime finishes gushing about her new love for Instagram, the #creatinglovetogether couple set out to answer a question from a fan. The anonymous follower is reeling from her partner of 19 year’s confession that he has fallen out of love and wants to know how she can fix it. Tim and Jamie leave off the sugar-coating while still offering heartfelt advice on how to move forward while being true to your feelings.
Mar 06, 2019
Tastefully Deep Part 2
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Things get juicy as Tim and Jamie continue their discussion on what men say they DON’T want in bed. The answers to this question may take two episodes to cover, but don’t fear, they’re all reasonable and relatively easy to overcome. Join us in part two as Jamie shares a helpful app to explore with your partner and Tim gives us a history lesson on the missionary position.
Feb 28, 2019
Tastefully Deep Part 1
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In this episode of Creating Love Together, Tim and Jamie go 'tastefully deep' when they discuss what men DON’T like in bed. Do you know what makes your partner blush or better yet, what turns them off? We discuss real answers from real men and some of those perspectives just might surprise you. One thing we can agree on is that communication is key (both inside the bedroom and out).
Feb 23, 2019
Progressing Individually as a Couple
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What does it mean to progress as an individual? In this episode of Creating Love Together, the couple talk about how they have progressed since meeting each other. Jamie explains that she used to be controllable but now has the confidence to stand up and say no. While Tim states that he has developed an overall senses of better well being. Growing as an individual can mean some collision with your partner, which isn’t always a bad thing and can help you grow further.
Feb 20, 2019
Oh, To Elope!
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Weddings are a joyous occasion that you’ll remember for a lifetime. In this episode of Creating Love Together, the couple reminisces about their wedding. It is often that when weddings happen, those around us want to be involved and can feel left out if they’re not. Follow along in this episode as the couple explains that weddings are about the people who are marrying, not the friends and family around them.
Feb 14, 2019
Don't Give Up
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Have you ever wanted to just give up in your relationship or business? You wouldn’t be the only one, many people do. In this episode of Creating Love Together the couple express the importance of communication over giving up. When troublesome times and disappointments appear in life it’s important to release your frustration and communicate. This week the couple expresses how positive things can be pulled out of a bad situation as long as you don’t give up.
Feb 06, 2019
Making a Path
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Hiking on a snowy path can lead to all sorts of adventures, both fun and aggravating. In this episode of Creating Love Together a hike on a snowy path reviled different paths to be taken in life and business. Jamie points out that hiking is just like life, there are times to follow but there are also times to lead. Tim agrees with this sentiment and expresses how many times leaders are sometimes hindering their followers instead of helping.
Feb 04, 2019
Quality Time With The Kids
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Passion and children are a major part of marriage. In this episode of Creating Love Together the couple talks about how important it is to spend time with your children. Tim expresses the importance of giving undivided attention, even if it may be hard to stay focused. While Jamie explains how putting in an effort towards your passion can eventually lead to more family time. The couple also give the launch date of their website www.creatingittogeather.com, which is to be on February 7th.
Jan 29, 2019
How Often Do You Need It?
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How often do you need to have sex? In this episode of Creating Love Tim & Jamie discuss this interesting article about a woman who doesn't think she really needs sex. The couple gives advice to couples who might be experiencing this kind of intimacy challenges. Tim challenges the men who find themselves in this dilemma to step up and to begin to please their wives.
Jan 22, 2019
Daddy Comes to Save the Day
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Its hard to watch your children fail. In this episode of Creating Love Together a game of Yahtzee revealed a very simple parenting defect in Tim. A lot of times we as fathers want to come in and save the day not understanding that we need to teach our children to save their own day.
Dec 18, 2018
Time to Debrief
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Have you ever used code words for sex in front of the children? In this episode of Creating Love the couple talks about the different code words they have used for sex. It doesn't seem to work as well now that the kids are teenagers. The couples new code word is, "it time to debrief."
Dec 13, 2018
Fighting Around the Christmas Tree
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In our American culture there is nothing more fun that putting up the Christmas tree. In this episode of Creating Love Together the couple discusses how putting up the tree was a nightmare. Attitudes and tears was not quite what the couple was expecting.
Dec 11, 2018
Modeling Gratitude with Your Children
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During this time of the season we all begin to think about what we are truly grateful for. In this episode of Creating Love Together The couple discuss ways to model gratitude with your children.
Dec 06, 2018
Quit Your Lying
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Honesty is the main ingredient in creating the relationship you desire. In this episode of Creating Love Together Tim & Jamie discuss the power of honesty. Sometimes it might be difficult to be honest with your partner but the pro's far out weight the con's. Follow along in this episode and discover how honesty just might be the best policy.
Dec 04, 2018
The Power of Your Gut
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Bad things happen when we fail to listen to our gut. In this episode of Creating Love Together Tim & Jamie discuss the power of intuition. Often times we cause ourselves a lot of trouble by not listening to our gut. Follow along in this episode and learn to follow your heart.
Nov 30, 2018
Going Through the Pain
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In this episode of Creating Love Together Tim & Jamie discuss supporting each other during tough times. Life and friendship don't always go as planned, and a marriage relationship is solidified by the tough times you go through. We are guaranteed to go through pain but the pain is much easier to face when you can go through it together. Follow along in this episode and discover the importance of being there for your partner.
Nov 13, 2018
Tim`s Communication Issues
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Today Tim & Jamie talk about Tim’s communication problems and how it caused friction for them when Jamie was just needing Tim to listen to her. ~ Jamie Today we discuss how Jamie needs to work on her communication skills. I, myself, am fully in the right and she knows that she was wrong. ~ Tim
Nov 09, 2018
Treat Your Man Like a King
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In this episode, Jamie talks about how your man should be treated like the king that he is. The "woe poor is me attitude" won't get you very far, so suck it up!
Nov 02, 2018
Finding Yourself
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In this episode of Creating Love Together, Tim and Jamie discuss the need to find yourself before you can develop a strong relationship with another. Dysfunction tends to draw in dysfunction, and it wasn't until the couple worked on themselves individually that they were able to build a healthy relationship. Life happens, and we tend to think about everything and everyone before we think of ourselves; it becomes second nature to build your lives around your kids.
Oct 31, 2018
One Minute Man Challenge
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Today is a Man-Monday challenge! If you haven't listened to the previous episode please do so now!
Oct 30, 2018
MAN MONDAY - Get Back Up Bro!
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In this Man Mondays episode, I discuss how it feels to lose everything and start over again. I encourage men to press through their problems and to begin to stand up in life again.
Oct 29, 2018
Let's Talk About Sex Baby
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In this episode of Creating Love Together, coming out of a relationship that you feel like you narrowly escaped, how do you get to a place in your new relationship that brings your best self forward? Sedation and depression can rob you of your self-worth, and living your life with passion and purpose. Believing that you “are” without status, without material objects, then you can push forward and live the successful life you deserve. You already possess significance.
Oct 24, 2018
MAN MONDAY - Stuck & Out of Luck Again
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It’s all about the man on Man Monday, as I share insights solo in today’s episode. I dive deep into my own experiences of figuratively being stuck on the side of the road in every area of my life.
Oct 22, 2018
FEMININE FRIDAY - Getting Vulnerable
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Jamie has always been mature, so tackling today’s podcast solo for Feminine Friday is a vulnerable but doable task. But it wasn’t always that way. Though she had maturity, Jamie used to lack self-worth, which led to a negative, dysfunctional relationship in her life that has now given her confidence to help others see the strength in being vulnerable.  Forgiveness of others and especially ourselves brings self-pride in order to fully move on from whatever life throws at us.
Oct 19, 2018
Letting It Go
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In this episode of Creating Love Together, getting caught up in public opinion about what your life should look like is a waste of time that we all experience. Asking yourself what is important and who is your “why”, should be our focus, but the distraction of people dictating what that looks like can detour you from your destination. Emotions and feelings from your past can make you feel alone, especially when life happens and creates distance between you and your spouse.
Oct 17, 2018
MAN MONDAY - Stuck & Out of LUCK
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It’s All About the Man Monday, as Tim shares insights solo with today’s episode. He shares an experience of attending a speaking event and on his way back, having some vehicle issues in the middle of a snowstorm. The lesson from this taught him how crucial it is to avoid getting stuck on the side of the road in life. Stop ignoring the warning signs in all aspects of our lives when things aren’t working correctly. Nobody is going to save us from a situation that we “behaved” ourselves into.
Oct 15, 2018
Date or Sedate
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Tim and Jamie have gone on lots of dates before committing their relationship to marriage, but that doesn’t mean that they’ll ever stop dating! From simple to complicated dates, they share in this episode of the Creating Love Together podcast endearing ways a couple can continually get to know each other, no matter how little or long they’ve been together. The listener will be able to hear right in their voices the love, respect, and appreciation they have for each other.
Oct 12, 2018
Are We Enough?
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In this episode of Creating Love Together, coming out of a relationship that you feel like you narrowly escaped, how do you get to a place in your new relationship that brings your best self forward? Sedation and depression can rob you of your self worth, and living your life with passion and purpose. Believing that you “are” without status, without material objects, then you can push forward and live the successful life you deserve.
Oct 07, 2018