Havilah Cunnington

By Havilah Cunnington

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Havilah is a wife, mother of 4 boys, author, communicator, and friend. She is a pastor at Bethel Church and founder of Truth To Table. Recently she began online Bible studies hoping to inspire the world from her kitchen table and reaching thousands through her books Radical Growth, I Do Hard Things, and The Good Stuff. www.truthtotable.com www.havilahcunnington.com

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81: Find Your Tiger Hours
00:14:41
In this episode, I want to talk to you about your most productive moments, the hours in your day that you use to build your life on purpose, with clarity and passion. These are your tiger hours. They are those two - three hours a day that are your perfect work hours, where you get so much done! I know what it's like to have a busy life and I also know that I am not the only one. So let us steward those hours well, in order to be as productive as possible. That includes setting boundaries, prioritizing our time well and guarding those special hours. When are your tiger hours? Can you set them aside to tackle those things that build and grow you? You'll be amazed how far you can go by simply investing a small amount of time each day! Thanks for tuning in! Book recommendation: Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind By Jocelyn K. Glei https://www.amazon.com/Manage-Your-Day-Day-Creative/dp/1477800670 Also, everything I do is over at truthtotable.com. A place to find leadership lessons, Bible studies, empowerment courses and more! Be sure to check it out and connect with us on Social Media (@truthtotable).
Aug 02, 2018
80: Navigating Conflict
00:17:41
In this episode, I talk about how we can navigate conflict well. Conflict is normal and sometimes we think without conflict we are peaceful people. It’s important to realize that we can’t resolve everything but we do have a part to play. Today I want to share some things with you that I use almost on a daily basis to resolve conflict and live through conflict. 1. You are fully responsible for yourself. 2. Use empathy and put yourself in someone else’s shoes for a minute. 3. Own up with what you have and ask yourself if you should have a conversation about it. What can you do without the other person participating? 4. Practice saying: “I am so sorry, will you please forgive me?” 5. Let it go and keep no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5). 6. Come up with a plan and ask yourself the right questions. I hope this helps you today. Always ask the Lord to guide you. Let go of the things He is asking you to let go of and fight for the things He is asking you to fight for. “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” -James 1:19 (NIV)
Jul 24, 2018
79: Sustaining Abundance
00:19:51
In this episode, I talk about how we grow and develop our lives especially when we find we are struggling and it feels like we are walking on water. What you are feeling today may not be directly linked to what you invested in today, prayed today or developed today. Everything is because of yesterday. The Bible is very clear that we will reap what we’ve sown, however, what we don’t often realize is that our harvest is directly linked to what we’ve sown long ago. Where are we sowing today in order to reap next year? How are you stewarding what God has given you so that you can double it by next year? What do you want to reap in 2019? It’s important to take ownership of the seeds we’ve been given to sow and steward them well because He wants to entrust more to us. Don’t be discouraged by the doing, step out in confidence and keep going because you are going to reap a great harvest in the future.
Jul 17, 2018
78: Conversations on Motherhood Pt. 3
00:38:31
We are back for part 3 of the Conversations on Motherhood series! In this podcast, my mother and I have a conversation about the joys and challenges that come with parenting children. We cover topics like fun, the importance of intentionality and taking advantage of every opportunity to sow into our children. My prayer is that this podcast will leave you empowered and ready to sow into the next generation of world changers!
May 22, 2018
77: Conversations on Motherhood Pt. 2 Havilah + Lisa Bevere
00:35:40
We continue in our series on Motherhood with a special guest and great friend of mine, Lisa Bevere. I blitz Lisa with a handful of questions on what motherhood was like for her and we'll talk about the good, bad and ugly seasons of life as a mom. *Find and connect with Lisa Bevere: www.lisabevere.com www.instagram.com/lisabevere *Buy Lisa's latest book "Adamant" here: www.amzn.to/2KNAefc
May 09, 2018
76: Conversations on Motherhood: Pt 1 Havilah + Andi Andrew
00:15:11
In this podcast, I start a new series of conversations on motherhood with a wonderful friend of mine Andi Andrew. We chat about the real-life joys and challenges of motherhood and more. This is the first of a few conversations I'll be hosting on this very relevant and fun topic. To connect with and learn more about Andi Andrew, visit: www.andiandrew.com www.instagram.com/andiandrew Get the Mother's Day gift set here: www.bit.ly/2FvuAug Order by May 9th for delivery for Mother's Day - Signed copy of my newest book Stronger than the Struggle - 12- part E-Course Mom's of Men with Havilah and Lisa Bevere - Beautiful Journal
May 07, 2018
75: How to Overcome Self Rejection
00:13:37
We are His creation. If we constantly hate what we see every time we look in the mirror, how can we trust that God has a great plan for our lives? The reality is that the picture we see in the mirror is His greatest work. We are His creation. How He created us, whether we like it or not, was part of His plan and there is an acceptance we have to come to. The message of Jesus has always been one saying we are accepted, made perfect, and loved beyond comprehension. Ground yourself in this reality and self-rejection will begin to lose its power.
Apr 24, 2018
74: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth: Part 3: Development
00:14:03
In this podcast we're continuing with our Growth series. Tune in as we talk all about "development" as a stage of growth. If we miss the season, we will miss the moment. If we don’t know what season we are in and what stage of development we are in, we can often times miss the moment entirely. In order to develop our spiritual life, we need to know what season are in. We need to acknowledge that the season you were in may not be the same season you are in today. “There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven” Ecclesiastes 3:1 (MSG) You must embrace the season you’re in because the moment you embrace the space it becomes easier. “Let us not grow weary or become discouraged in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap, if we do not give in.” Galatians 6:9 *To learn more and join our Truth to Table membership community visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership *To save $10 on your first month register with this podcast only link: https://truthtotable.com/courses/register/the-table-membership/?coupon=tttrial10
Apr 15, 2018
73: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth: Part 2: Environment
00:13:37
Can a Christian have a meltdown? We often times know that a crash or meltdown is coming but we don’t know what to do. In this week’s class, we’re going to talk about "environment." Who are you waiting for to participate for you to live an abundant life? We are called to live an abundant life without anyone else participating. How do you get your power back? Galatians 6:5 (MSG) Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life. The environment in which you are growing life is your responsibility. God is the gardener, he is the center of our life! For more information about becoming a Truth to Table member, visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership Join membership today and save 50% off with this podcast only link: https://truthtotable.com/courses/register/the-table-membership/?coupon=tttrial10
Apr 12, 2018
72: Growth: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth: Pt 1
00:19:07
In this podcast, we'll be starting a new series on Growth: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth. This series will actually give you a sneak peek into our Truth to Table membership experience. Part 1: All growth starts at baseline. It’s often the incremental growth that causes us to become who we want to be and who we are called to be. In this week’s class, we’ll be discussing subtle shifts for radical change. “I Should” is based in shame and it doesn’t allow us to be in the process. It requires us to be perfect and causes discouragement. God does not hold us to the “I Should’s”, he is the ‘I Am” and “I will”. He operates in timing and seasons. Activation: We encourage you to soak in God’s love by listening to “Reckless Love” by Cory Asbury here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xx0d3R2LoU **Special podcast promotion ==> Join Truth to Table Membership and save 50% on your 1st month. (enrollment closes April 17th, 2018) Join here ==> https://bit.ly/2GMtlYN
Apr 10, 2018
71: Stewarding the Mundane
00:13:38
If you don't steward the mundane, then you won't be prepared for the supernatural. It isn't always easy but we are all called to grow and refine the gifts we've been given. Routine is the foundation that allows us to stay diligent and become the person we are called to be.
Mar 22, 2018
70: Rising Strong w/Kris Vallotton
00:40:11
In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Kris Vallotton about about spiritual battle and warfare. There are two kinds of people in the world, those who are sensitive to warfare and those who are victims of it. Fear is faith in the wrong god and when you believe it you empower it. Havilah and Kris talk about living intentionally and partnering with the truth that will cause us to rise in strength. *This interview was recorded earlier in January 2018 as part of the Online Empowerment Summit + Kris Vallotton is the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, California and co-founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). Kris travels internationally training and equipping people to successfully fulfill their divine purpose. He’s a bestselling author, having written more than a dozen books and training manuals to help prepare believers for life in the kingdom. He has a diverse background in business, counseling, consulting, pastoring and teaching, which gives him unique leadership insights and perspectives. Kris has a passion to use his experience and his prophetic gift to assist world leaders in achieving their goals and accomplishing their mission. Learn more and follow Kris Vallotton: + krisvallotton.com + facebook.com/kvministries + instagram.com/kvministries You can get Havilah's new book Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle: + amzn.to/2nbB0av + havilahcunnington.com/shop-online
Jan 25, 2018
69: Building Eternity Now w/Christine Caine Pt. 2
00:25:09
In part two of this podcast Havilah continues her conversation with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. The fight to bring heaven on earth is real and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now. To learn more about Christine Caine and find all of her resources visit: christinecaine.com A21.org propelwomen.com To order Havilah's new book Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle, click here: amzn.to/2EWT94d To join the FREE Global Book Club visit: truthtotable.com/strongerthantthe…ruggle/book-club
Jan 17, 2018
68: Building Eternity Now w/Christine Caine: Pt 1
00:24:21
In this episode Havilah talks with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. It's a fight to bring heaven on earth and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now. To learn more about Christine Caine and find all of her resources visit: christinecaine.com A21.org propelwomen.com To order Havilah's new book Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle, click here: amzn.to/2EWT94d To join the FREE Global Book Club visit: truthtotable.com/strongerthantthestruggle/book-club
Jan 05, 2018
67: A Special Announcement
00:10:29
Today I have some exciting news to share with you! Every January over at Truth to Table we take thousands of you through a Bible study. We have had over 100 nations tune in and it quickly became an unintentional God-moment. Growing up, I often struggled and had to overcome many mountains. My goal for this book is to be your tour guide through the mountains and spiritual struggles you face. We will uncomplicate your spiritual battle by answering questions like, what it looks like to be empowered and how to know exactly what you are doing. We all struggle, so what are we missing? I invite you to come and sit at my kitchen table this January and spend some quality time receiving down-to-earth tools that will help you overcome your daily struggles. It is completely FREE but I do recommend you pick up a book for an even better experience. Purchase your book here: http://amzn.to/2zAAY0b How to join the FREE study? Visit www.truthtotable.com/strongerthantthestruggle/book-club and SIGN UP for FREE. We'll walk chapter by chapter through the book. Invite your friends to join and let’s spend 6-weeks becoming Stronger than the Struggle!
Dec 26, 2017
66: Stronger than the Struggle
00:12:54
Have you ever been in a spiritual situation that has left you more confused than empowered? In this Podcast episode, I share a story of the first time I witnessed something spiritual happen. I talk about how it left me confused and terrified. It wasn’t until I started to read and study the idea of spiritual battles that I was reminded of this moment. Many of us have experienced things like this happen, and people have shut it down. Our spiritual battle was never meant to be fear-driven and something we can’t talk about. We were born into battle. We must understand that we can't be ignorant of the enemy's schemes (2 Corinthians 2:11). When we decide to live for Christ, we are stronger than any struggle we will ever face. Does this mean we will never face any struggles? No, because we still live in a fallen world. But why does He allow all these struggles? God in his mercy does not interrupt our free-will because controlling love is not real love. No one is immune to the struggle, but our firm foundation in our faith is that we have a living hope in the midst of a hopeless world. We are stronger than the struggle because we have Christ living within us. Want to learn more about this topic? We'd love for you to join our brand new Global Book Club starting soon. You can join today for FREE: https://truthtotable.com/strongerthantthestruggle/book-club Inside the FREE book club, you'll get access to 14 videos + book club guide + an interactive online community. It’s going to be AMAZING! I invite you to pull up a chair and hang out throughout the month of January as I unpacks the topic of struggle and strength. To order the Stronger than the Struggle book click here: http://bit.ly/2B75B34
Dec 15, 2017
65: It Gets Harder Before It Gets Easier
00:09:39
Sometimes in life things actually get harder before they get easier. It doesn't always mean you're going in the wrong direction when things feel off. Radical change happens sometimes as our situation gets worse. The beautiful lesson in all of this is that God always has a redemptive plan in mind. He already has a beautiful future set out for us, we might just have to wait a little longer than we might have thought. For more resources including online Bible studies and courses, visit: www.truthtotable.com Find out about my upcoming speaking events at: www.havilahcunnington.com/events
Dec 12, 2017
64: 5 Keys to a Peaceful December
00:28:32
In this Podcast episode Havilah shares some thoughts on how to navigate your December. The more you have going on, the more critical it is to have a strategy. There is a downside of December and the feelings it provides. A lot of us have expectations that come with Christmas-time, but the reality is completely different. Havilah gives you 5 keys to a peaceful December Admit you have expectations. If you do not admit it, you will feel more and more disappointed when reality hits you. This is called maturity. What are you expecting and what are your limitations? What is most important to you? What feeling do you want to have during this season? Sometimes these are two different things. Schedule things to facilitate your feelings. What can you do to connect with your people, God and yourself? Set expectations for others. You need to get in a place of throwing things, not always catching. People have expectations, but if you know you can’t do it all, you have to say no. Consider January. You cannot ignore January in December because it will slap you in the face when it comes. But if you consider it now, you will love it when it comes. Think about the feeling you want when the new year kicks in. Set it up right now, so you are not left with surprises and disappointment. We hope this helps you today and that your December will be peaceful.
Dec 06, 2017
63: Secrets to Mothering Boys
00:27:02
* This episode was recorded during a Facebook Live broadcast. In this podcast, Havilah and her husband Ben discuss the topics of marriage and raising boys. They talk about the different dynamics of men and women and the learning process of not trying to change each other or expect them to act like the opposite sex but to validate and value how God designed both men and women to function differently. They share some personal experiences from their own lives about communication, emotions and expectations of raising boys and how boys operate and the shared responsibility of raising boys into men. *If you want to learn more about raising boys in to healthy, Godly men you can preview and sign up for the Moms of Men E-course: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/
Nov 13, 2017
62: Work With Me
00:09:33
Today on the podcast I talk about the hard work that comes with change. It’s fall and the right season for change, shift and new beginnings. I am still in the thick of transition as you might know if you have been following this podcast. In this episode I talk about how we often wish that what God asks us to do is magically easy and doesn’t require any effort. But the truth is, sometimes doing life is just hard and not fun. With change comes hard work, adjustment and a different way of thinking, a process. The acknowledgment of it being hard does not make us weak but normal and human. It’s not a definition of our purpose but a reality. I love Psalm 90:17 in the Passion Translation, it says “O Lord, our God, let your sweet beauty rest upon us and give us favor. Come work with us, and then our works will endure. And give us success in all we do!” We want favor not just our own effort. We want to come and have God’s sweet beauty resting upon us. I know this is going to be work and it’s not going to be an easy road. So my prayer has been “God, come work with me. Let my work endure with you. I need favor.” So today, wherever you are, the truth is, if you feel like it’s work, sometimes that’s exactly what it is. The fact that it’s difficult is not a sign that you’re going in the wrong direction but that you are human, moving and that life is going to ebb and flow. God is with you, and he will lead you. You are allowed to endure. The harvest is so much sweeter when you’ve had sweat running down your face. I hope this encourages you today! You can find out more about Havilah and Truth to Table below: http://havilahcunnington.com https://truthtotable.com https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington https://www.instagram.com/truthtotable
Oct 18, 2017
61: Less busy? Who am I kidding...
00:13:15
In this episode, I share about our final day to enroll in the Table Membership. It's now or never guys! We are closing membership tonight at 11:59 pm PST. Also, I share about a mistake I made recently and offer an apology if you experienced this...it's important to me to make things right so tune in. For all the details on how to join the Table Membership and get in before it closes, visit: https://truthtotable.com/membership-options/ The Table Membership is an online monthly membership to help you grow step by step in your spiritual life. We offer video Bible studies, full-length teachings, a brand new weekly class, e-courses and more. It's a community of like-minded people who want to grow their life on purpose and become all God's called them to be. You can find out more about Havilah and Truth to Table below: http://havilahcunnington.com https://truthtotable.com https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington https://www.instagram.com/truthtotable
Oct 02, 2017
60: Growing a Spiritual Life on Purpose
00:14:58
In this episode, I share about something AMAZING we've been working on over at Truth to Table. Sharing from my own personal story and journey, I talk about how Truth to Table began and what we have in the works that we're about to release. To give you a sneak peek, we developed a Spiritual Pathway Assessment you can take in just a few minutes, that will help you discover what you need in your life currently to grow the spiritual life you want. Take the assessment here: http://truthtotable.com/pathways-assessment/ For more info about my online Bible studies, courses and training visit www.truthtotable.com
Sep 20, 2017
59: The Secret to Pleasing God
00:11:10
Today on the podcast Havilah is coming to you from Brazil! We’re staying on the topic of transition as many of you have been responding to these podcasts saying that they have helped you through your transition. Hebrews 11:1 says “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things not seen.” Without faith, it is impossible to please God. It is impossible to please God by living a life worthy of the calling you have received (Ephesians 4:1) without living in faith. Living with the assurance of the things we have not yet seen is truly pleasing to God. You know that this is what you’re supposed to do, and you’ve gone far enough that you can’t go back but if we don’t have the right balance, the right effort and the right momentum we won’t make it, we will fall over. Many of us are right in the middle. We’re not going back; we’re not in the full calling and momentum of what the next season holds but being in that spot is FAITH. Faith is that space of what we once knew and what we know to be true. It feels like pausing, waiting and not knowing where we’re heading. That’s normal, so don’t change your motivation and direction. Go forward! Faith is not a feeling; it is an assurance. Without the assurance that the next season is coming, you cannot please God. The more we live in faith, the more hope we will have for the future. If you’re in transition today, know that faith is that weird pause, that in between. But don’t let your brain wander, don’t let your emotions dominate because you can’t enjoy the journey that way. Set your mind on God and let the Word of God surround you. You will get there, just keep going forward.
Sep 12, 2017
58: Keeping the Transition Clean
00:17:32
Today on the podcast, Havilah and Ben continue talking about transitions. You can’t force transition, and if you make something happen while depending more on your strength than on Gods, you will always wonder if you made it happen or if God did. He cannot lead us if we are not walking. Sometimes it’s trying to see if the door will open and we can walk through it rather than waiting around. God will be gracious enough to shut the door if it’s not the right way. Our motives must be open to hearing what God is saying. We shouldn’t try and make things happen ourselves, but we also shouldn’t be fearful of making a mess. Life comes in assignments. We might have big dreams or are in pursuit of figuring that dream out but whatever we are doing right now is our assignment. It’s not our identity, and we don’t become more valuable by entering into the next season. Being obedient to our next assignments helps us connect the things we don’t understand. Try to keep the process clean, keep the transition clean. And what this means is starting AND finishing well. How you left a season can follow you more than the storyline of you actually BEING IN the season. Whatever season you are in, think about how you can defuse any fire storm that could be following you. Instead of creating negative story lines, honor the season when leaving it as much as when you’re in it.
Sep 05, 2017
57: The Why Behind the What
00:17:07
In this podcast, I share about some big changes happening in our lives. About a year ago, God began to speak to me while my life was in full-throttle. My husband and I had four boys and were running two organizations. I was writing, traveling, and speaking, and I had a whole team of people helping me make it all happen. The Holy Spirit challenged me to back things down a little and add space in my life. He challenged me to get back to the original “yes” I felt in my heart when I first signed up to serve Him. I can’t wait to share more on this topic with you in future podcasts or blog posts. Transition is all a part of God’s master plan to move you forward and help you walk in your true calling.
Aug 28, 2017
56: Normals of Transition
00:12:27
Today Havilah talks about transition, about knowing when it’s time for change. Some people like to jump the gun when it comes to transition and other people sit in transition until someone kicks them out the door. This podcast will give you some ideas of when to know it’s time for transition. It’s interesting because the moment one jumps into transition questions rise up about whether it was a mistake and this is completely normal. You can be doing all the right things and be spiritually growing in the Lord, but then suddenly you can feel fear. It’s important to know not to buy into fear. The Bible says that it is impossible to please God without faith (Hebrews 11:6) which means it is impossible to live a life of pleasing God without living in an extra reality of the natural. Just because you feel fear doesn’t mean you are going in the wrong direction. Fear can mean you are going in the right direction. If you want to follow the calling and purpose that’s on your life, you’re going to have to figure out a strategy for fear. That doesn’t necessarily mean trying to get away from fear but living through fear and not letting it dominate any decisions. Sometimes the struggle isn’t that we don’t want to do it but that we don’t want it to cost us. But you are not able to go where you are called to go unless you are willing to pay the price. Here are four things people experience during transition: Feeling fear, which is normal. We must walk through it! Having to say “No” in order to say “Yes”. That’s the trade; the trade-off is where it happens. Not wanting to go through with it. Stay in the process! Walking from day to day. When in transition giving yourself permission to be in the day to day is so important. Don’t hang out waiting for God to make the decisions for you; God is not going to give you a prophetic word if it’s going to keep you powerless. Give something God can bless! He can’t bless transition if you’re not going to make it!
Aug 21, 2017
55: Give It Time
00:11:51
In this episode, I talk about a pattern I use in my life consistently. It’s for those seasons when I’m trying to hear from God for something. I don't know about you, but there are seasons where I'm just waiting on God to answer me. There are things in life that you have to let happen. Often we have to give things time to work themselves out. Sometimes things come through time. I want to encourage you with Psalms 25:5: “Lead me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; For you, I wait all the day long.” I love that thought that He is leading us into truth, He’s teaching us, He’s the God who will save us, but sometimes we will have to wait all the day long! God wants you to realize that this is part of the process and we can’t rush the hand and the voice of God; we can only be available for it when it comes. So whatever season you are in, have you given it some time? Have you sat with it? Are you continuing with your daily life? And are you available when God wants to give it to you? For me, God will often speak to me in those moments where I’m sitting still, coming out of rest. The Holy Spirit will whisper to my heart and reveal His thoughts to me. It allows me to be dependant on Him. Don’t keep looking at the problem because I believe if you want God’s will you will get God’s will! It just may take some time.
Aug 04, 2017
54: Three Steps to Stop Worry
00:14:02
The Holy Spirit reminded me to not worry about tomorrow’s problems. You can't solve them today. Every time I think about something that worries me, it’s usually about things that are happening tomorrow. They’re happening in the future. Matthew 6:34 says “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes. In this episode I share my three best techniques for worry: 1. Turn your thoughts into prayers. Thank Him, that He is already working on your tomorrow. "Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns." Philippians 4:6 2. Ask yourself what the worst thing is that could happen. Think about what the enemy has been holding over your head. And then define what success means to you. Perfection is not success. Success is being obedient to Christ. 3. Use the word “I don’t” instead of “I can’t”. This combination of words is way more powerful. What we say with our mouth our mind takes as fact, whether we believe it or not. So, what are the “I don’ts in your life? Find Havilah on social media: - Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ - Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ - Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
Jul 06, 2017
53: The Best Thing You Can Do Right Now
00:13:35
Did you know that how you begin something is important, but how you end something is just as important? Being faithful to God doesn’t mean staying in one place. It’s understanding that we have assignments and that our identity isn’t based on those assignments. Our assignments change, but our identity doesn’t. Galatians 6:9 says “And let us not grow weary in well-doing”. The Bible wouldn’t say that, if we didn’t have the tendency to grow weary, it’s a human condition. What assignment are you looking at today? Are you honoring and loving that? Everything you are doing today is preparation for tomorrow. *To learn more about the online course on discovering your Prophetic Personality and growing in hearing God's voice, visit: truthtotable.com/prophetic-personalities Find Havilah on social media: - Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ - Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ - Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
Jun 12, 2017
52: Serve by Observing
00:11:33
In this episode, I talk about one of the keys I’ve discovered to serving a church community. This past month has been full with traveling, and I wanted to share one of the greatest secrets of being on the road and being in new environments. I’ve been on the road for 20 years now, and I’ve realized that people often assume that they’re coming into a new community to change things, but I don’t go that direction. Here are a few keys to staying focused when entering into new places. *To learn more about my online Bible studies and online courses visit: truthtotable.com Find Havilah on social media: – Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah – Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington – Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
May 30, 2017
51: Living Emotionally Whole
00:27:50
Today on the podcast I have a special guest to share with you; my friend, Josh Cearbaugh. We have built a friendship over the past four years and have seen each other’s families grow and thrive in many ways. Josh is a Life Consultant who leads people through internal transformation; connecting people to their heart, identifying areas where they find themselves stuck, and creating practical strategies to transition us to a place of thriving. Oftentimes, the places where we get stuck are the very places God wants to give us the most freedom so we can help others who are stuck in the same environment. Josh shares how he walked through a season where he didn’t give his emotions a place in his life; they had no value and were pushed aside. During this time, he didn’t know how to care for himself emotionally or process through pain; it resulted in an emotional and physical breakdown that manifested through a lack of safe environments. He decided that he could either stay in that place or climb out of the pit. He chose to fight for his emotional health and process through emotions and deep places of pain. Walking through his past experiences, he began to dismantle areas of pain and bring healing. It began a passion for seeing others walk in freedom; helping to identify the root cause of their lack and create steps to wholeness. Thus began his consulting practice. Josh has also created an invaluable resource called the Jumpstart Your Life eCourse; pulling from years of developing the most effective tools and philosophies to see tangible change in the people he has worked with in his practice. He has invited each of you to take a free quiz that walks you through 26 easy questions on emotional well-being. You will also receive an exclusive discount for 50% off the eCourse enrollment! TAKE THE FREE QUIZ NOW: jumpstartyourlife.com/eq I couldn’t recommend this course more! In order to get our hearts to a healthy place; we need to be willing to respect our hearts, to validate our emotions and, give ourselves a voice. Having the tools in our lives that equip us to walk through these seasons is vital to our well-being. To learn more about Josh and the Jumpstart Your Life eCourse, visit: jumpstartyourlife.com Find Havilah on social media: – Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ – Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ – Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
Apr 27, 2017
50: Learning to Hear God's Voice in Your Everyday Life: Pt. 2
00:20:24
In this episode, I tackle a question I hear a lot. In fact, it may be one of the most important questions we ask on our journey with the Lord. The question is this; how can I grow in hearing God’s voice for my life? For my family? For my future? My passion is to show you how to hear God’s voice and grow in your gifting. In my last podcast episode, I spoke about the four overarching truth’s for discerning God’s voice. If you didn’t get a chance to tune in, I encourage you to go back and listen; you can find that podcast below: http://havilahcunnington.com/podcasts/49-learning-to-hear-gods-voice-in-your-everyday-life-pt-1/ As we continue on this journey of learning to hear God’s voice; there are a few things we need to understand: 1. We each hear God’s voice distinctly and uniquely. 2. We are called to steward the gift of hearing His voice. 3. God doesn’t hide from us; He is always speaking (Proverbs 3:6). 4. Hearing His voice is the fruit of relationship. I relate discerning the voice of God through what I like to call, filters. While there are countless ways in which the Lord communicates with us, how we experience His voice can be summarized in four primary prophetic personalities; hearers, feelers, seers, and knowers. If you’d like to join over 17,000 people who have uncovered the unique way they hear God’s voice, follow the link below to take the FREE prophetic personality quiz: bit.ly/tttquiz To learn more about my online course on discovering your Prophetic Personality and growing in your gift, visit: truthtotable.com/prophetic-personalities Find Havilah on social media: – Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah – Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington – Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
Apr 11, 2017
49: Learning to hear God's voice in your everyday life - Pt. 1
00:23:25
In this podcast, I unpack each of the four overarching truths to hearing God’s voice so you can tune into Heaven’s design for your life! I also mention a FREE quiz you can take to better discover your own unique way of hearing God's voice. TAKE THE FREE QUIZ HERE --> bit.ly/tttquiz To be honest, I found it shocking to discover that most men and women who follow Christ wholeheartedly are unsure that they are hearing God’s voice on a daily basis. This reality took me on a journey of translating the way we each uniquely hear the Lord so I could teach others. It shouldn’t be confusing or something we wonder about; we CAN be clear when it comes to recognizing His voice. 1. We were all created to hear God’s voice, but we all hear differently. 2. We need to learn the filter by which we hear His voice. 3. We need to have permission to hear Him differently than other people. 4. We need to practice hearing His voice. Many times we can feel less than, lost, or confused because we struggle to hear His voice in our lives. But, just because you need to work at something, doesn’t mean you weren’t created for it. You were created to hear His voice. Don’t give up; keep digging in. TAKE THE FREE QUIZ HERE --> bit.ly/tttquiz To learn more about my online course on discovering your Prophetic Personality and growing in your gift, visit: http://truthtotable.com/prophetic-personalities Find Havilah on social media: - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrshavilah
Apr 06, 2017
48: Stop the Swirl
00:10:38
In this episode, I’m talking about my recent trip to Albuquerque, NM! I had the wonderful privilege of speaking at Wonder, a Women’s Conference. I also share about a moment during the past month where I had to walk through the process of ‘Stopping the Swirl,' a habit I’ve created to pause and bring self-awareness to feelings of uneasiness. Are you swirling? Do you have a lot going on in your life? Join me today as I share how important it is to listen to our inner-man, how we can examine and discern which of the three reasons are causing these feelings and how to get our peace back. For more of Havilah’s resource including video Bible Studies, visit: www.truthtotable.com To view Havilah’s books and to purchase, visit: www.havilahcunnington.com And to see where Havilah will be speaking next, visit: www.havilahcunnington.com/events Find Havilah on Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Periscope
Mar 13, 2017
47: Getting it Right
00:10:59
In this episode, I talk about a certain principle in life that helps guarantee results in our lives. When have the right processes set up in our lives, we'll be more likely to see the outcomes we want. If we give ourselves to the small things, then the great things will happen. For more resources including many video Bible studies visit: www.truthtotable.com To view Havilah's books and to purchase, visit: havilahcunnington.com/shop-online/ See where Havilah will be speaking here: havilahcunnington.com/events/ Find Havilah on Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Periscope
Mar 06, 2017
46: Not Guilty
00:09:42
In this podcast, I talk about making mid-course corrections in life and pushing past the guilt. When we take into consideration who we're called to be and we keep our big picture in mind, it makes the necessary adjustments in life easier to make and have confidence. When we revisit why we're saying yes and no to things, it helps us stay safe and healthier in life.
Feb 22, 2017
45: Soul Food - Interview with Heather Lindsey
00:23:21
In this special edition Soul Food podcast, I interview Heather Lindsey and we talk about Soul Food, my newest Bible study. Heather and I discuss what has helped her to navigate her internal world in midst of ministry, business and family, and how she stays connected to God in her everyday life. This podcast was brought to you by Truth To Table - An online video Bible study platform. *Sign up for the new Bible study here: truthtotable.com/soul-food/ About Heather: HEATHER LINDSEY is the wife to Cornelius Lindsey, author, first lady, speaker and mother of one. She founded Pinky Promise, an organization that promotes abstinence in singleness and submission in marriage. She relentlessly teaches women that their value and worth comes from Christ and nothing else. Founder, Heather challenges teens, young adults and women to rise above cultural pressures and to stay determined to live for Christ regardless of their circumstances. Facing consequences women in previous generations couldn't imagine, ladies receive straight talk from Heather on how to say no in a yes society. Today, Heather and her husband Cornelius live in Atlanta, GA where they have established a church and a evangelistic ministry called The Gathering Oasis. Find Heather Lindsey here: Website: www.heatherllindsey.com/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/MrsHeatherLindsey Instagram: www.instagram.com/heatherllove/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/HeatherLLove Find Havilah here: Website: havilahcunnington.com/ Truth To Table: truthtotable.com/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah
Dec 22, 2016
44: Soul Food: Interview with Lisa Bevere
00:30:55
In this special edition podcast, I interview Lisa Bevere and we talk about Soul Food, my newest Bible study. Lisa and I discuss what has helped her to navigate her internal world and how she stay connected to God in her everyday life. This podcast was brought to you by Truth To Table - An online video Bible study platform. *Sign up for the new Bible study here: http://truthtotable.com/soul-food/ Find Lisa Bevere here: Website: messengerinternational.org Facebook: www.facebook.com/lisabevere.page/?fref=ts Instagram: www.instagram.com/lisabevere/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/lisabevere Find Havilah here: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Truth To Table: http://truthtotable.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrshavilah
Dec 13, 2016
43: Starting Small
00:20:24
In this podcast I share a bit of my personal story and journey of serving the local church, preaching, developing and reaching the world through the internet. When we respond and obey the Lord in faithfulness, He always shows up in greater ways than we would have thought possible. This podcast was brought to you by Truth To Table - An online video Bible study platform *Sign up for the new Bible study here: http://truthtotable.com/soul-food/ Find Havilah here: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Truth To Table: http://truthtotable.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrshavilah
Dec 06, 2016
42: Growing Your Capacity
00:11:08
In this podcast episode, I talk about what has helped me be more productive as a busy wife, mom and woman in ministry. I've been incredibly interested in psychology, how the brain works, and how habits are formed. I share a few things I've been learning from this, as well as some related biblical insights.
Nov 08, 2016
41: The Battle for a Generation (Pt. 2)
00:11:06
In this podcast episode we share part 2 of a recent message I preached. In this message I highlight that we are all in a battle whether we want to admit it or not. We can either train and be prepared, or be caught off guard and defeated. For more resources including many video Bible studies visit: www.truthtotable.com See where Havilah will be speaking here: havilahcunnington.com/events/ Find Havilah on Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Periscope
Oct 24, 2016
40: The Battle for a Generation (Pt. 1)
00:12:03
In this podcast episode we share a portion of a recent message I preached. In part 1, I highlight that we are all in a battle whether we want to admit it or not. We can either train and be prepared, or be caught off guard and defeated. For more resources including many video Bible studies visit: www.truthtotable.com See where Havilah will be speaking here: http://havilahcunnington.com/events/ Find Havilah on Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Periscope
Oct 15, 2016
39: How I learned to hear God's voice
00:17:32
This podcast was recorded during a live broadcast on Facebook where I share a few very practical steps to hearing God's voice. If you would like to learn more about hearing God's voice in your own life, I'm releasing a brand new e-course starting Tuesday, September 13th on Bethel.TV. You can sign up anytime and join the 8-week journey to growing in hearing God's voice for yourself and your life. It's a go at your own pace course complete with 8 teachings, encouragement and activation videos, as well as a complete workbook too. We were all created to hear His voice clearly today! Sign up for the E-Course here: http://goo.gl/VhsvtD
Sep 12, 2016
38: Traveling with Toddlers
00:11:06
In this episode I talk about some of the unique challenges of traveling with toddlers. Even if you don't have toddlers, you'll still learn some great tips.
Sep 05, 2016
37: Learning to be Married
00:11:54
In this episode I talk about the challenges of my marriage early on and how myself and my husband have had to put in the work and "learn" the process and journey of being married.
Aug 30, 2016
36: Big Picture Living
00:11:04
In this episode, I talk about the perfect timing of God in our lives and how He has a big picture perspective of our lives.
Aug 22, 2016
35: You Get the Gold
00:10:09
In this episode I talk about the Olympics, working hard, overcoming and thriving, because the best is yet to come.
Aug 16, 2016
34: 1-Year Celebration
00:24:00
In this episode we celebrate the 1-year anniversary of launching the podcast. I have a special guest on this podcast episode and we take a look back at the year. We also have some fun things to giveaway!
Aug 12, 2016
33: Strengthening Your Voice (Pt. 2)
00:13:43
In this podcast we share part 2 of a message I preached called "Strengthening Your Voice."
Aug 03, 2016
32: Strengthening Your Voice (Pt. 1)
00:12:12
In this podcast we share part 1 from a message I preached called "Strengthening Your Voice"
Jul 25, 2016
31: We Interrupt This Broadcast
00:08:23
In this episode, I talk about the invitation of God and allowing Him to interrupt us in our everyday life. When we make ourselves available to God, He'll come and meet us.
Jul 12, 2016
30: Where I've Been
00:11:53
In this podcast I talk about why it's been so long since my last podcast, share a few updates, and give some quick tips on recalibrating your life.
Jul 07, 2016
29: The Morning After: Dealing with Event Hangover
00:12:14
In this episode, I discuss the sometimes forgotten topic of how to appropriately respond and move forward after big moments in our lives.
May 12, 2016
028: My #1 Tool for Making BIG Decisions
00:15:52
In this episode I talk about a few areas that help me make decisions whether it's in work, family or various life decisions. I talk the different types of people related to decision making, and I share my #1 key to making great decisions. ***This podcast episode was recorded from a live Periscope broadcast.
Mar 21, 2016
27: 5 Hangups We Face When Trying New Things
00:13:43
In this podcast episode I share 5 potential hangups we can face when trying new things. In order to grow and move forward we must press through the negative feelings of facing new things.
Feb 23, 2016
26: The one word we need to stop using
00:17:21
In this episode we listen in on one of my Periscope broadcasts where I talk about a word that we often use that can be dangerous. Check out this podcast to see if you're using this word, and how it may be affecting your relationships and interactions with people. This Podcast is sponsored by www.truthtotable.com - Where everyone can learn from the Word of God.
Feb 09, 2016
25: Curing Crazy
00:13:51
In this podcast I share practical tips from my life to help you ease the pressure of life's crazy moments when you feel out of control. We must intentionally and proactively respond, rather than just react in those moments. Check out our new online platform for video based learning and connection. www.truthtotable.com - We've launched this new site with tons of content including all of my Bible study video series. Other soon-to-be-available content such as full-length teaching messages, upcoming courses, new video series on leadership, ministry, practical life lessons, and so much more will be released throughout the coming months. You can enjoy our featured FREE 20-day Bible study this month: "Eat Pray Hustle - Dream Chasing God's Way."
Jan 29, 2016
24: Happy New Year...Let's Catch Up!
00:16:12
In this episode, I talk about a few things I'm excited about to start 2016. You'll hear a little bit about my latest book and online Bible study Eat Pray Hustle - Dream Chasing God's way. I also share for a few minutes on the topic of dream chasing and how we were created by God to dream and why it's important.
Jan 06, 2016
23: Overcoming Self-Doubt
00:13:10
In this episode I share how I struggled with self-doubt as a young girl because of learning disabilities. I share important keys to dealing with and overcoming self-doubt through my own 20 year struggle in this area.
Dec 15, 2015
22: Fast Tracking to Forgiveness
00:15:19
In this episode I talk about how the holiday season can bring up a lot of things in our hearts. Some good and some no so good. I'll also talk about some keys to real biblical forgiveness and how to know that you are doing your part to forgive or ask for forgiveness. You'll also learn 3 steps to practice real forgiveness that you can do today!
Dec 08, 2015
21: Resilience and Overcoming are a Must
00:11:56
In this episode I share for a bit on the importance of being people of resilience. We must not get stuck in our problems but look for the plan C to move forward in life.
Dec 04, 2015
20: Steadiness & Obedience Whether We Feel it or Not
00:13:17
In this podcast episode we share a short clip of a teaching where I talk about how we at times will trust our feelings to such a point that they rule us. I also highlight the necessity for steadiness and obedience in our walk with God and that most of what God asks us to do may not "feel spiritual."
Nov 13, 2015
19: The Process of Your Promise
00:14:23
In this episode you'll hear a short teaching of a previous message I spoke where I talk about the process of the promise you've received from the Lord. God is the initiator of everything in your life whether it's good, has eternal value, or is just the right thing for you. He who began a good work in you, will be faithful to you and will complete the work He started.
Nov 08, 2015
18: Knowing The Will of God
00:13:07
In this episode I share a short message on being faithful with what you have to respond in 100% obedience to God. We must surrender and align our will to God's will because His will promises complete fulfillment and effectiveness.
Nov 04, 2015
17: Living A Refreshed Life
00:15:15
In this episode, I share a short portion of a message I preached recently called Living A Refreshed Life. There are key principles involved when it comes to living a refreshed life and in this message you'll hear some of these from Luke 15 and the parable of the lost son.
Oct 31, 2015
16: The Quickened, Specific Word of God
00:17:50
*Special Podcast! In this episode we take a break from our regular format and you'll hear a short segment of a recent teaching from my travels. I pray you receive all that God has for you and are encouraged by this podcast!
Oct 27, 2015
15: How to Add the Right Stuff to Your Life
00:15:35
In this episode I highlight 2 Peter 1:5. "For this very reason make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness knowledge; and to knowledge self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love." What if instead of having a life crisis, trying to get everything perfect or line everything perfectly, up we focus on adding something to our lives (add to our faith) everyday, having it all add up to be the right thing.
Oct 23, 2015
14: How To Bring Lasting Change To Your Life
00:14:41
In this episode I talk about being extreme vs being steady. This is one of the things that has helped me the most in building my life for the kingdom of God. This episode also includes continued teaching from my Radical Growth online Bible study.
Oct 16, 2015
13: Overcoming What People Think
00:19:14
Do we want people to like us or do we want to obey God? In this episode I share how important it is to have clear, personal boundaries in order to have a healthy and balanced life. We also continue in our Radical Growth online Bible study series.
Oct 13, 2015
12: Staying Powerful in Hard Situations
00:17:50
In this episode I share a personal example of feeling powerless and how I learned to stay powerful in difficult situations. We also continue teaching in our Radical Growth online Bible study.
Oct 09, 2015
11: Learning to Navigate the Negative in Your Life
00:19:02
In this episode Havilah shares how to not let negative thoughts and circumstances take over your life. We must learn to interrupt the negative thoughts and mindsets that so easily form. You will also hear continued teaching from Havilah's online Bible study series Radical Growth.
Sep 28, 2015
10: The Danger of Filling in Facts
00:17:20
Today Havilah shares about being a student of your life, honoring the reality that's in front of you while resisting the temptation to fill in facts about other people's stories. We'll also continue to tune into Havilah's online Bible study series Radical Growth.
Sep 25, 2015
09: Breaking Up With Perfectionism
00:16:41
Today Havilah discusses the topic of perfectionism and performance. Knowing when to say it's "good enough" rather than striving for perfection will help keep a healthy balance and realistic expectation in your life. Havilah also continues teaching from her Radical Growth online Bible Study Series.
Sep 22, 2015
08: Staying In Your Lane
00:14:06
In this episode Havilah shares another core value that helps her continue to stay balanced in ministry and life. Staying true to who God has called you to be and "staying in your lane" will help you have a healthier life. You'll also hear teaching from Havilah's Radical Growth Bible Study series.
Sep 16, 2015
07: Learning To Grow NOW!
00:13:16
In this episode Havilah shares another core value that helps keep her safe, healthy and balanced in life as a wife, mother, minister and more. You'll also hear continued teaching from Havilah's Radical Growth Bible Study series.
Sep 14, 2015
06: How To Make Your Sleep Sacred
00:13:18
In this episode Havilah shares another one of her greatest core values and tips to keeping a healthy balance in life and ministry. You'll also hear teaching from Day 6 of her Radical Growth online bible study series.
Sep 01, 2015
05: Core Values, Pajama Days & Stewarding The Body
00:14:10
Today Havilah shares another core value and secret tip for how she does what she does, stays sane, healthy and happy. You'll also hear teaching from Day 5 of her Radical Growth online bible study series.
Aug 24, 2015
04: Your Soul & Some Boundaries Talk
00:15:21
In this episode, Havilah shares honestly about "how she does what she does..." and how personal boundaries come into play in each season of life. She also continues teaching from her Radical Growth online Bible study with Day 4: The Soul.
Aug 20, 2015
03: The Holy Spirit
00:15:03
In this episode Havilah shares about her recent time of speaking at the School of the Prophets. She also continues with Day 3 of her Radical Growth Bible study series.
Aug 17, 2015
02: Your Spirit
00:14:19
In this episode Havilah talks about pushing vs perseverance. We can push to try to make something happen but sometimes it really comes down to waiting for the right timing. We also dive into a short teaching from her online Bible Study, Radical Growth.
Aug 13, 2015
01: Becoming Fruitful
00:18:30
In this episode Havilah talks about the recent Wonder Women's Conference 2015 she hosted at Bethel Church as well as her heart for starting this podcast. You'll also hear a short teaching from her Radical Growth bible study series.
Aug 11, 2015