The Hook Up
By triple j
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Episodes: 250
Mark Spedding
Aug 10, 2020
Hello, I'm a fair bit older than your usual participant, but glory in the frank discussion, and supportive fact based approach. Could there be a topic sometime about the changes people experience into middle age and beyond, if it won't gross out the younger audience too much...
Description
The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak, normalise shit. With Dee Salmin and Pip Rasmussen, who will probably bitch about dating apps. New episode every Tuesday.
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Am I In A Codependent Relationship?
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Apr 25, 2024 |
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To The Friend That Always Wants To Bring Their Partner…
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Apr 23, 2024 |
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Why You Need To Practise Post-Sex Aftercare
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Apr 18, 2024 |
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Is Having Break Up Sex A Good Or Bad Idea?
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Apr 16, 2024 |
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What Is A Banjo String? And What To Do If It Snaps
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Apr 11, 2024 |
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Heartbreak High's Will McDonald & James Majoos On Intimacy, Dating Apps And Furries
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Apr 10, 2024 |
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What Are The Rules For Housemates' Partners Staying Over?
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Apr 09, 2024 |
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How To Have Better Sex With Dr Tara
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Apr 04, 2024 |
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Sharing Passcodes And Going Through Your Partner’s Phone
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Apr 02, 2024 |
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How To Heal From A Breakup With Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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Do You Have To Love Yourself Before You Love Somebody Else?
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Mar 26, 2024 |
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Here’s Why You Might Cry Or Laugh After Sex
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Mar 21, 2024 |
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When You Cry, Laugh Or Get The Zoomies After Sex
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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Are Dating Apps Designed To Be Addictive?
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Mar 13, 2024 |
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Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?
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Mar 11, 2024 |
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Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn
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Mar 07, 2024 |
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The Psychology Behind Paypigs And Findom
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Mar 05, 2024 |
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The World Of Paypigs And Findom
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Mar 05, 2024 |
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Louis Hanson on Mardis Gras, Coming Out & GayTMs
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Feb 29, 2024 |
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How To Deal If You're Attracted To Red Flags
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Feb 28, 2024 |
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When Dating Green Flags Freak You Out
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Feb 27, 2024 |
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Hannah Ferguson On Why You Should Group Date
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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The Struggle Of Having Sex When You Live With Your Parents
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Feb 20, 2024 |
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How To Navigate Shitty Timing
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Feb 15, 2024 |
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Does Timing Matter In Relationships?
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Feb 13, 2024 |
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How To Do Anal (If You've Never Done It Before)
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Feb 08, 2024 |
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Are We Living In A Low Effort Dating Era?
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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The Imperfects On Learning How To Be Vulnerable
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Jan 29, 2024 |
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More Kinky History With Esme Louise James
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Jan 22, 2024 |
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Unpacking Internet Culture and Dating With Vulga Drawings
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Jan 15, 2024 |
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Dylan Buckley On Embracing Your Authentic Self
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Jan 08, 2024 |
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Madeleine Stewart: Talking Dating With A Disability
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Jan 01, 2024 |
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Your Most Cooked Sunday Secrets
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Dec 25, 2023 |
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All The Cooked Things From 2023
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Dec 18, 2023 |
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How To Open Up And Embrace Vulnerability
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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A Chat With Dr Zac Seidler On Masculinity
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Dec 07, 2023 |
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We Need To Talk About Masculinity
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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How To Open Up Your Relationship
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Nov 28, 2023 |
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Why Do We F*ck People We Hate
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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I Love Feet... Do I Have A Foot Fetish?
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Nov 14, 2023 |
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What It’s Like To Date With ADHD
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Nov 07, 2023 |
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Autosexuality: When You’re Sexually Attracted To Yourself
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Oct 31, 2023 |
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TF Is A Coregasm And How Do I Have One?
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Oct 24, 2023 |
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When Your Body Image Is Ruining Your Sex Life
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Oct 17, 2023 |
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A Chat With Madison Griffiths on Abortion
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Oct 12, 2023 |
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How To Deal If You Keep Getting UTIs
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Oct 10, 2023 |
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Can Anxious-Avoidant Relationships Ever Work?
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Oct 03, 2023 |
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What You Need To Know About Consent With Chanel Contos
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Sep 26, 2023 |
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BONUS: Getting To Know Girthmasterr
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Sep 21, 2023 |
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How To Find The G-Spot, A-Spot, C-Spot & P-Spot
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Sep 19, 2023 |
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Sex And Dating In A Wheelchair
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Sep 13, 2023 |
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Why So Many Of Us Fake Orgasms
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Sep 05, 2023 |
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BONUS: Spilling Secrets w/ Swag On The Beat
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Aug 31, 2023 |
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Struggling To Sleep Next To Your Partner?
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Aug 29, 2023 |
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BONUS: Dr Karl and Dr Theresa Answer Your Sex Questions
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Aug 24, 2023 |
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How To Dump Someone, Respectfully
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Aug 22, 2023 |
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How To Spot Emotional Cheating In Your Relationship
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Aug 15, 2023 |
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Ball Play 101
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Aug 08, 2023 |
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AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part Two
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Aug 01, 2023 |
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AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part One
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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BONUS: Getting Therapy With Therapy Gecko
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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Why Some Guys Are Scared To Make The First Move
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Jul 18, 2023 |
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Love Me Hate Me But You Still Date Me
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Jul 11, 2023 |
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BONUS: Pomara Fifth on Indigenous Culture In Drag
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Jul 06, 2023 |
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Nipple Play: How To Have A Nipple Orgasm
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Jul 04, 2023 |
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Should You Tell Your Friend Their Partner’s Kinda Shit?
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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BONUS: Linda Marigliano on People Pleasing in Relationships
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Jun 22, 2023 |
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The Slay And Flop Era of Your Menstrual Cycle Explained
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Jun 20, 2023 |
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BONUS: Dr Yves Rees On Their Journey Transitioning
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Jun 15, 2023 |
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What You Need To Know About Transitioning Gender
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Jun 13, 2023 |
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Is It Ok To Trauma Dump On The First Date?
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Jun 06, 2023 |
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To Trust Or Not To Trust From Date #1
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May 30, 2023 |
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BONUS: All Things Drag With Monét X Change
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May 25, 2023 |
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When You’re Worried About Being Inexperienced
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May 23, 2023 |
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How To Talk Dirty (Without Giving Yourself The Ick)
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May 16, 2023 |
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How To Keep The Honeymoon Phase Alive
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May 09, 2023 |
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What You’re Entitled To In A De Facto Relationship (It’s A Lot)
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May 02, 2023 |
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BONUS: Your New Rules with Chris Cheers
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Apr 25, 2023 |
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What Is Pocketing? And Is It Happening To Me?
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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Everything You Need To Know About Soft Cock Play
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Apr 11, 2023 |
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How Often Should You Be Messaging In The Talking Stage?
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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How To Deal With Insecurity And Jealousy In Relationships
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Mar 28, 2023 |
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BONUS: Rainbow History Class With Hannah McElhinney
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Mar 21, 2023 |
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How To Actually Nail Foreplay
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Mar 14, 2023 |
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QUEER LOVE BITES: An Asexual Love Story
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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What's Performance Anxiety? And Why Can It Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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QUEER LOVE BITES: The Art Collector and The Artist
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Mar 01, 2023 |
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How To Date And Find Love In A Small Town
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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QUEER LOVE BITES: Kitchen Encounter
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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When Is The Right Time To Move In Together?
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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How To Explore And Embrace Your Bisexuality
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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Can Friends With Benefits Really Work?
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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How to survive your first holiday together
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Dec 13, 2022 |
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Should you tell someone if you know they’re being cheated on?
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Dec 06, 2022 |
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BONUS: Harrison Kefford on what it’s like dating and having sex with a stoma bag
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Dec 04, 2022 |
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BONUS: Esther Perel on dating apps, the ick and the ‘perfect person’
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Nov 30, 2022 |
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Premature ejaculation: how to last longer in bed
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Nov 29, 2022 |
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BONUS: what the porn industry’s really like with Angela White
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Nov 23, 2022 |
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Is it bad to keep score in your relationship?
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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Normalise girls doing poos
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Nov 15, 2022 |
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What is quiet quitting in relationships?
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Nov 08, 2022 |
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BONUS: the history of sex and kink with Esme Louise James
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Nov 03, 2022 |
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What is pegging? And should I try it?
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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How to have a threesome
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Oct 18, 2022 |
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BONUS: Brooke Blurton on how she learnt to love BIG
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Oct 11, 2022 |
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Do age gaps matter in relationships?
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Oct 04, 2022 |
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How to love and trust again after abuse
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Sep 27, 2022 |
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BONUS: Emma Carey - The Girl Who Fell From the Sky
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Sep 21, 2022 |
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The best alternatives to mainstream porn
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Sep 20, 2022 |
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The Hook Up presents: Tall Tales & True with Tilly Lawless
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Sep 15, 2022 |
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Why did my ex move on super fast?
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Sep 13, 2022 |
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How to ask for what you want in bed
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Sep 06, 2022 |
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What is death grip syndrome? And do I have it?
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Aug 30, 2022 |
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BONUS: Your sexy science questions answered by Dr Karl & Dr Theresa Larkin
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Aug 25, 2022 |
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How to get off the apps - and meet someone irl
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Aug 23, 2022 |
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Is post nut clarity a real thing?
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Aug 16, 2022 |
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What is a praise kink? And do I have one?
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Aug 09, 2022 |
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When your partner watches porn
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Aug 02, 2022 |
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Should you stay with someone after cheating?
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Jul 19, 2022 |
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BONUS: how getting herpes can change your life for the better
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Jul 12, 2022 |
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Everyone has herpes*
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Jul 12, 2022 |
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BONUS: dating and self-love with our fav First Nations creators
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Jul 07, 2022 |
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Do breaks in relationships work?
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Jul 05, 2022 |
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The most popular sex positions
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Jun 28, 2022 |
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What it means to be intersex
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Jun 21, 2022 |
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Why it's not weird to suck your own dick
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Jun 14, 2022 |
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The truth about love languages
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Jun 07, 2022 |
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BONUS: Come Curious answer all your awkward sex questions
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Jun 02, 2022 |
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Saying I love you for the first time
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May 31, 2022 |
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Why you might get circumcised
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May 24, 2022 |
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Why you might not be getting matches
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May 17, 2022 |
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Do you care if your partner votes differently?
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May 10, 2022 |
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The libido gap: what to do when your sex drives don't match
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May 03, 2022 |
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Are we too ick obsessed?
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Apr 26, 2022 |
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We need to talk about adenomyosis
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Apr 19, 2022 |
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Is my vulva normal?
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Apr 12, 2022 |
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Does dick size matter?
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Apr 05, 2022 |
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When you’ve never had an orgasm before
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Mar 29, 2022 |
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What is a situationship? And am I in one?
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Mar 22, 2022 |
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A finger in the bum can make you cum
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Mar 15, 2022 |
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Finding your queer identity with Alright Hey! & Kath Ebbs
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Mar 08, 2022 |
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BONUS: Blasting TikTok bigots with Drew Afualo
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Mar 03, 2022 |
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We need to talk about Euphoria
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Mar 01, 2022 |
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BONUS: Kyle Prue on why he pisses off men
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Feb 24, 2022 |
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What is love bombing and is it happening to me?
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Feb 22, 2022 |
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LOVE BITES: Chatroulette love stories
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Feb 17, 2022 |
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Platonic Life Partners are the new happily ever after
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Feb 15, 2022 |
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How to tell someone you're not interested
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Feb 08, 2022 |
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Since we’ve all forgotten, here’s how to do a first date
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Feb 01, 2022 |
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What are sex parties really like?
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Dec 13, 2021 |
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Is the one night stand dead?
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Dec 06, 2021 |
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BONUS: Dr Guy Winch on rejection, heartbreak and healing
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Nov 29, 2021 |
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BONUS: lessons of love with Clementine Ford
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Nov 22, 2021 |
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How to have the condom convo
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Nov 15, 2021 |
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LOVE BITES: a stranger on a train
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Nov 11, 2021 |
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Does height really matter?
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Nov 08, 2021 |
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What is ethical non-monogamy? And is it for me?
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Nov 01, 2021 |
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BONUS: Bachelorette Brooke Blurton on sexual fluidity and making history
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Oct 28, 2021 |
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Foot fetishes: why so many people are hot for feet
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Oct 25, 2021 |
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LOVE BITES: This one time at Christian camp
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Oct 21, 2021 |
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When antidepressants break your sex drive
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Oct 18, 2021 |
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LOVE BITES: Letters of Love
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Oct 14, 2021 |
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Is coming out outdated?
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Oct 11, 2021 |
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LOVE BITES: Flight of Destiny
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Oct 07, 2021 |
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Stonewalling: how to deal with the silent treatment
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Oct 04, 2021 |
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Am I good in bed?
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Sep 27, 2021 |
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BONUS: How your parents screwed your love life (and how to fix it)
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Sep 23, 2021 |
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Choking during sex: can it ever be safe?
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Sep 20, 2021 |
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What to do if your partner doesn't want the jab
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Sep 13, 2021 |
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Vaginismus: when your vag says nope!
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Sep 06, 2021 |
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Do you have to love yourself before you can love someone else?
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Aug 30, 2021 |
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How to cope with a dry spell
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Aug 23, 2021 |
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What are ‘daddy/mummy issues’?
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Aug 16, 2021 |
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What to do if your partner’s friends are bad for them
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Aug 09, 2021 |
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How body image insecurities are affecting men’s sex lives
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Aug 02, 2021 |
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“Selfish lovers”: Should you be reciprocating in sex?
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Jul 26, 2021 |
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How to find your money match
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Jul 19, 2021 |
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What it’s like to live with constant, uncontrollable orgasms
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Jul 12, 2021 |
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What it's like to be LGBTQ+ and indigenous
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Jul 05, 2021 |
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When your partner hasn't come out
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Jun 28, 2021 |
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Semen retention: Why some guys are obsessed with not jizzing
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Jun 21, 2021 |
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A beginner's guide to sex toys for boys
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Jun 13, 2021 |
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How do we date with an open mind?
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Jun 07, 2021 |
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Should you be thinking about kids when dating?
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May 31, 2021 |
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Where are they now?
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May 24, 2021 |
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When your partner comes out as transgender
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May 17, 2021 |
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How to date without drinking
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May 10, 2021 |
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Dating in a bigger body
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May 03, 2021 |
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The Beginner's Guide To Blowjobs
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Apr 26, 2021 |
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What to do when your parents and partner(s) don't get along
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Apr 19, 2021 |
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Have you got relationship FOMO?
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Apr 12, 2021 |
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BONUS: There Is No "I" In Threesome with Jan Oliver Lucks
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Apr 04, 2021 |
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Endometriosis: what we still don't know
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Mar 29, 2021 |
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The Beginners Guide To Eating Pussy
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Mar 22, 2021 |
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Love behind bars
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Mar 15, 2021 |
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Beyond exploitative or empowering: Tilly Lawless on sex work and feminism
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Mar 07, 2021 |
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What's the deal with crystal sex toys?
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Mar 01, 2021 |
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Can people really have multiple orgasms?
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Feb 22, 2021 |
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Do you love them, or the idea of them?
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Feb 14, 2021 |
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Is the fertility awareness method for me?
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Feb 08, 2021 |
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What to do if 'the one' got away
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Feb 01, 2021 |
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BONUS: Meet the stars of BUMP
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Jan 28, 2021 |
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Are long distance relationships worth it?
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Jan 25, 2021 |
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“What are we?”: How to get out of dating limbo
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Jan 18, 2021 |
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BONUS: Are straight people ok?
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Jan 11, 2021 |
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BONUS: Zoe Foster Blake on cheating in relationships
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Jan 04, 2021 |
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Ethics of dating: What do we owe each other?
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Dec 28, 2020 |
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Dating in 2020: What needs to change?
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Dec 21, 2020 |
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How to live the kink life
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Dec 14, 2020 |
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I think I have a kink, now what?
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Dec 07, 2020 |
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Is it time to rethink virginity?
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Nov 30, 2020 |
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Why we need to talk about miscarriages
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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It's a small (dating) world after all
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Nov 16, 2020 |
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How to set boundaries and stop people pleasing
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Nov 09, 2020 |
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Are blue balls real?
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Nov 02, 2020 |
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BONUS: Cody Heller on sex dolls & feminism
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Oct 29, 2020 |
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Unblurring the lines: coercion and relationships
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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Unblurring the lines: how consent makes sex better
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Oct 19, 2020 |
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Feel so close: How to make intimacy happen
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Oct 12, 2020 |
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BONUS: Sex on screen with Ita O'Brien
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Oct 11, 2020 |
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Why it's time to stop being angry at your ex
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Oct 05, 2020 |
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Help! I've never been in love
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Sep 28, 2020 |
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BONUS: Life in drag with Sasha Velour
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Sep 24, 2020 |
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I think I'm bi, what next?
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Sep 21, 2020 |
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Have I been wokefished?
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Sep 14, 2020 |
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What to do when you can't get it up
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Sep 07, 2020 |
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Is it time to move in together?
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Aug 31, 2020 |
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Are you addicted to hooking up?
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Aug 24, 2020 |
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Love and eating disorders
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Aug 17, 2020 |
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Prostates 101: Everything you need to know about the semen factory
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Aug 10, 2020 |
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'Life is short dump them': rethinking single
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Aug 03, 2020 |
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Squirting: what is it really?
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Jul 27, 2020 |
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How to navigate mental health in relationships and dating
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Jul 20, 2020 |
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Everything you need to know about period sex
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Jul 13, 2020 |
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Love without chemistry, can it change?
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Jul 06, 2020 |
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Love on the spectrum: relationships with autism
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Jun 29, 2020 |
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Why some people have curved dicks
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Jun 22, 2020 |
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Manscaping: a guide to male body hair
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Jun 15, 2020 |
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When you can't orgasm: help for our femme friends
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Jun 08, 2020 |
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Cash for nudes: why OnlyFans is having a moment
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Jun 01, 2020 |
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BONUS: Dr Helen Fisher - The Why of Love
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May 28, 2020 |
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When your partner doesn't have their shit together
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May 25, 2020 |
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How to know if you're dating a narcissist
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May 18, 2020 |
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Everything you need to know about strap ons and pegging
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May 11, 2020 |
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Am I too picky?: When no one's ever good enough
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May 04, 2020 |
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How to have cyber sex
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Apr 27, 2020 |
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Should you have sex on the first date?
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Apr 20, 2020 |
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How to read and write erotica
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Apr 13, 2020 |
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Drones and Zoom dates: some creative dating inspo
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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Love in the time of coronavirus
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Mar 30, 2020 |