Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating

By Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

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Can you find love in the time of Corona? Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.” Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.


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S11E15: Is 'too fast' a bad thing?
01:19:20
In a COVID-19 word, relationships are moving at turbo-speed...but is this a good thing? Join us as we talk with Ketan about dating during the pandemic and his virtual romance that resulted in him flying across the country to meet IRL. We discuss the 'fail fast' mentality and if this is good for relationships, how the loneliness of the pandemic has changed our behaviors, and why turborelationships can be a fantastic thing even if they don't work out. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( http://betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE NEW MERCH! We just dropped our line of merch with masks, cute tanks & tees, comfy sweatshirts, mugs, stickers, and much more! Check it out today: http://dateablepodcast.com.com/shop ( http://dateablepodcast.com/shop ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 25, 2020
S11E14: What's holding you back? w/ Nikki Novo
01:34:40
What if you knew you were on the right path when it came to finding true love? Join us as we chat with medium and author Nikki Novo about the biggest things that are holding us all back from having the love life we've always wanted – whether you're single or in a relationship. We discuss releasing the anxiety and fear of the future, how to get out of our own way, and why intuition can be our #1 tool to navigating our love lives. Follow Nikki at @nikkinovo, check out her book and podcast 'The Final Swipe: Heal your heart, find your person, and end the dating search for good' on all podcast players (for the podcast) and on Amazon (for the book): https://amzn.to/32TXfaZ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Bitcast: Clip, collect, and share the best ideas on podcasts with the new social podcasting app. Available now to download on the app store: https://apps.apple.com/app/id1489982155 NEW MERCH! We just dropped our line of merch with masks, cute tanks & tees, comfy sweatshirts, mugs, stickers, and much more! Check it out today: http://dateablepodcast.com.com/shop ( http://dateablepodcast.com/shop ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 18, 2020
S11E13: New Mindset, Who Dis? w/Case Kenny
01:29:45
Like it or not, there's always gonna be curveballs when it comes to dating and relationships. The good news: you can fully control how you handle all the hurdles that come your way. We're joined by the mindset master, Case Kenny, who will help us reframe three of the most common setbacks in our love life. We discuss why being single can be your superpower, techniques to not take things so personally, and how to find your 'why' when it comes to dating and relationships. Follow Case at @case.kenny, check out his podcast 'New Mindset, Who Dis?' on all the podcast players, and get his mindset journals at https://newmindsetwhodis.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( http://betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 11, 2020
S11E12: Sex, Lies, and Videotape
01:22:39
No, this isn't a political scandal but a real-life story of lying, blackmail, and being caught red-handed on video. We're chatting with Layla about how this eroded her trust in her relationships and how she's learning from the experiences. We discuss what constitutes as cheating, why we stay in bad situations, and how to make changes when there seem to be unhealthy patterns in your relationships. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Function of Beauty: Save 20% on your first order at functionofbeauty.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/5d80f4b5-c3a5-4425-a7f6-5a446181d016/functionofbeauty.com/dateable ) Shapermint: Get an extra 10% off on your order at shapermint.com/dateable ( https://shapermint.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/4d68da3b-fe2a-4464-8fbe-902e3ff6b949/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 04, 2020
S11E11: Politics Aside: A Blind Date Experiment
01:35:38
Can you date someone with opposing political views? We set up Tom and Kiki to check-in through various points of their virtual blind date about how they're feeling from when politics are off the table to when they're open to debate. We discuss when politics should come into the discussion on a first date, how they play into our values for a long-term relationship, and how we can start to break through this divide a bit more...romantic or not. NOTE: for anyone triggered by this topic, our guests are not extremists in any way....just two people who see the world a bit differently. Without giving away too much, they were able to have an open discussion in a peaceful way. We learned a lot and hope you can too. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( http://betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 28, 2020
S11E10: It's all about the Journey
51:29
Your journey...your journey to L-O-V-E. Whether it's with a partner or your own self love, we're doing a mid-season solo (duet?) where we talk about our own journeys in finding love and how we've changed the most over the last 5 years since starting the podcast. We discuss how it's all an evolution, how to learn from our dating mishaps / past relationships, and why having trust in your own timing is so important. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. We had a BIG announcement last week where we unveiled our new creation, *'The Sounding Board'* where we are bringing all the wisdom and guidance of the podcast in a much more intimate and real-time way. To learn more, visit https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Shapermint: Get an extra 10% off on your order at shapermint.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 21, 2020
S11E9: Addicted to Love
01:21:36
You've probably heard of many forms of addiction: drugs, gambling, sex – but what about relationship addiction? We're unpacking what it means to be addicted to love with Celebrity Rehab go-to expert Sherry Gaba and how she overcame her own relationship addiction. We discuss the signs of being a relationship junkie vs wanting to find love, how this addiction can take on unhealthy obsession, and how to find your own confidence – relationship or not. Follow Sherry at @codependencycurious and check out her new book, Love Smacked ( https://amzn.to/3lG8kTV ) available today! Also, check out Sherry's Wake Up Recovery ( https://wakeuprecovery.com/ ) community Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( http://betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 14, 2020
S11E8: Puppy Play
01:13:48
This may be doggy style with a mask...but not the way you're imagining. Join us as we get a glimpse into the world of puppy play as our guest Chris tells us all about the fetish. We discuss the sexual and non-sexual side of being treated like a dog, how puppy play can be a good intro to kink, and why you shouldn't yuck someone else's yum. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Function of Beauty: Save 20% on your first order at functionofbeauty.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 07, 2020
S11E7: Hacks to Looking your Best
01:29:42
Let's be honest: looks matter when it comes to dating. Whether it's on a dating app or the first time you meet IRL, we're chatting with makeover expert Kimmy Seltzer about the small tweaks you can make today to show up as your best self. We discuss how both women AND men can dress for your body shape/height, the photos that need to be added (and eliminated) from your dating profile, and why these small changes can help build confidence from the outside, in. Follow Kimmy at @kimmyseltzer and listen to the Charisma Quotient on Apple Podcasts ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/charisma-quotient-build-confidence-make-connections/id1269595477 ) or your other favorite podcast players Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( http://betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Kerrelyn Sparks, THE SIREN AND THE DEEP BLUE SEA. You can find THE SIREN AND THE DEEP BLUE SEA wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com ( https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/ ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 30, 2020
S11E6: Interracial Love in 2020
01:23:03
Love may know no color but it doesn't mean there's not a lot to consider, especially in our current climate. We're chatting with Kofo & Theo about how race has played into their relationship and how the BLM movement has propelled it even further. We discuss why having tough conversations are a necessity, how to support your partner and fight this fight together, and what it means to bring a black baby into this world in today’s day. Follow @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 23, 2020
S11E5: Sexless in the City
01:29:43
Let’s talk sex, no sex, our relationship with sex, and more as we're chatting with Kat Harris about her conscious decision to abstain from sex until marriage – especially while living in a city like NYC. We discuss the difference between sex and intimacy, whether or not vibrators count in popping your cherry. and standing by your beliefs when dating. Follow Kat @therefinedwoman. Listen to The Refined Collective on all podcast platforms. Follow @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Shapermint: Get an extra 10% off on your order at shapermint.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 16, 2020
S11E4: The Boyfriend Manual
01:11:37
Nope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures that have a huge ROI, how to adjust your moves based on your partner's love language, and why women can (and should) also be doing these little things for their partner. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Everyplate: Get 3 weeks of EveryPlate meals for only $2.99 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code DATEABLE3. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 09, 2020
S11E3: 51 First Dates
01:30:18
When nothing seems to be going right in your dating life, the only logical step is to go on 51 first dates and document it all through a podcast, right? We're chatting with Kimmy & Liza about how this experiment helped uncover and break their bad dating patterns for good. We discuss why CGS (cool girl syndrome) is the demise of dating, how to break free of fuckboys, and why it's so important to ask what you want for in relationships. Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 02, 2020
S11E2: Love in the Time of TikTok
01:12:36
And it goes like...download TikTok, make a video that goes viral, meet a cute girl, fly across the country, and define the relationship on your road trip back home. Is this a movie or love in 2020? We're chatting with Josiah & Natalie about their turbo relationship that started virtually and has resulted in them being together as a full-fledged couple. We discuss how virtual dates can be romantic, why right now is the best time to take a risk when it comes to relationships, and how to open yourself up to possibilities of finding love in unexpected places. Follow Josiah & Natalie @itsjosiahmiller @natalieotono. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 26, 2020
S11 E1: Trust in your timing
01:19:06
Are you where you thought you'd be at 30? 40? 50? Especially when it comes to finding love, we're diving in with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', to discuss why there's so much pressure to finding 'The One' by a certain age. We discuss why certain milestone years are such triggers, how you can start living on your own timelines, and how to create your own happiness no matter where you are in life. Check out Christina's book 'Which way to Happiness?' (formerly 30): https://amzn.to/3aFuFMV Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: Download the Likee app today on your app store today to join the video creation fun and potentially go viral overnight! Just search L-I-K-E-E on your app store. Webflow: build an amazing flexible website that's code free so you don't need a developer! Use our affiliate code: https://webflow.com/?rfsn=4547774.45fe66&utm_medium=affiliate Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 19, 2020
BONUS: How to Rethink Relationships Post-Quarantine w/ Liza & Kimmy from 51 First Dates
01:19:55
From traveling (virtually) via Hinge to being #teamchrishell, we're wrapping up the dating app experiment and chatting with Kimmy & Liza on 51 First Dates about the shift in dating mindset that might occur after 2020., We'll discuss taking those socially distanced dates up a notch, the dangers of false intimacy, and how COVID has ruined f*ckboys hopefully forever. Also, 1 more week until we're back with Season 11!! Follow Kimmy & Liza @51firstdatespod. Listen to 51 First Dates on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Kate Pearce, THE REBELLIOUS RANCHER. You can find THE REBELLIOUS RANCHER wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com ( https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/ ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 12, 2020
BONUS: The Museum of Modern Dating w/ Ken Page of Deeper Dating
01:28:39
Would glory holes be in the museum of modern dating? Maybe in COVID-19 times! First, we'll run down the results of Julie's around the world dating app experiment and then we'll chat with Ken Page of Deeper Dating about the landscape of today’s dating world. We'll discuss some of our most moving dating stories, our best advice, and the most essential challenges facing daters today Follow Ken at @deeperdating and check out deeperdating.com ( https://deeperdating.com/ ) along with Ken's podcast Deeper Dating on Apple Podcasts ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/charisma-quotient-build-confidence-make-connections/id1269595477 ) or your other favorite podcast players Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out dateablepodcast.com ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Thank you to our partner for this episode: Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 05, 2020
BONUS: Redefining how we Date & Communicate w/Kimmy Seltzer from Charisma Quotient
01:03:46
So if we're all dating virtually, we can be anywhere, right? We'll kick off with a dating app experiment comparing different cities and then we'll chat with Kimmy Seltzer of the Charisma Quotient about some of the common issues that everyone's experiencing in this new dating world. We'll discuss traditional vs. modern gender roles, navigating virtual dating , and what your messages really mean between the lines. Follow Kimmy at @kimmyseltzer and listen to the Charisma Quotient on Apple Podcasts ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/charisma-quotient-build-confidence-make-connections/id1269595477 ) or your other favorite podcast players Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. Thank you to our partner for this episode: Dirty Diana, a fictional six-part sex-positive fictional podcast starring Demi Moore. Subscribe today wherever you find your favorite shows or check out qcodemedia.com for more info. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 29, 2020
BONUS: Love & Dating in the Time of COVID w/ Minji Chang from FirstofAll
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So if you just do doggy style in a mask, you're safe from COVID, right? Umm. Umm. nope. We're talking this week about sex during the pandemic and then with Minji Chang on the FirstofAll Pod about all the nitty-gritty of sex & dating during this time. We discuss our own COVID experiences & perspectives on dating apps, virtual dates, reconnecting with exes, coping with current relationships & projections of the TBD future of dating culture. Follow Minji @minjeezy and @firstofallpod. Listen to First of All Podcast on all podcast platforms. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 22, 2020
BONUS: The best & worst dating advice w/ Kinda Dating
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Love conquers all. Wait until he texts you first. Don't have sex for 90 days. There’s so much love advice out there, yet so much is so so bad. We teamed with Natasha Chandel from Kinda Dating to give you our rundown on the best and worst dating advice we've heard along the way. So strap in, decide what tips you'll take and which you'll toss. Check out Natasha at @natashachandel and Kinda Dating on all podcast platforms and @kindadating Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. SOMETHING NEW! Check out our new Amazon Store with our curated dating essentials, including everything from books from our past guests to gadgets to sexy time gadgets (you know what we mean 😉). If you want to see the full list, visit: https://www.amazon.com/shop/dateablepodcast Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 15, 2020
BONUS: 6 Ways COVID-19 will forever change dating
59:27
To say dating has changed in 2020 is the understatement of the year! We'll share our top 6 trends with everything from how singles and couples are navigating this time to why f*ckboys are o-v-e-r. We'll discuss how to make the most of your dating life whether it's on a socially distanced date or if you're rekindling an old flame. So get your masks on, stay 6 feet away, and see how COVID-19 could actually be the best thing for your love life (if you let it be). Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/generationtux.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 08, 2020
Season 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y Husbands
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What if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husband and how others can avoid these missteps. We discuss why neglecting your partner's thoughts and feelings is the demise of a relationship, how to recognize signs of this behavior even in early dating, and the importance of being aware of this now even if you're nowhere close to marriage. Check out Matt's blog: https://mustbethistalltoride.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Lorelei Parker, CRUSHING IT. You can find CRUSHING IT wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com ( https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/ ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 01, 2020
Season 10 Episode 20: I Date Me First
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What happens when you break up with your long-term, live-in boyfriend right before COVID-19? You use this time...and you use it wisely. Join us as we chat with Minji about how she used quarantine to learn how to be alone – correction, happy alone. We discuss the importance of taking breaks, doing the necessary self-work, and why self-love is so important to ultimately find the love you want. Check out Minji @minjeezy and listen to her podcast, First of All: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/first-of-all/id1260925014 Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merch. SOMETHING NEW! Check out our new Amazon Store with our curated dating essentials, including everything from books from our past guests to gadgets to sexy time gadgets (you know what we mean 😉). If you want to see the full list, visit: https://www.amazon.com/shop/dateablepodcast Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 24, 2020
Season 10 Episode 19: What's your [personality] type?
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Whether you're an ISFJ, ENFP, INTP, or whatever it may be, we're here with Frank James to share how your personality type impacts the way you date. We discuss the blind spots that each type has while dating, how we can better understand each other to resolve conflicts/ misunderstandings in relationships, and if any two types are most compatible (or incompatible). Check out Frank'sYoutube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxc0c4cOfFmSUnzX9uY7Jww Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Alexandra Ivy, INTENDED VICTIM. You can find INTENDED VICTIM wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com ( https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/ ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 17, 2020
Season 10 Episode 18: The Future of Sex Toys w/ Lora DiCarlo
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Omg. Omg. Ohhhh my god. Join us as we chat with Lora DiCarlo about the mind-blowing orgasm that inspired her to revolutionize the sex toy industry. We discuss how to get to the elusive squirting orgasm, the archaic history of vibrators, and how sex tech is continuing to evolve to help women own our pleasure. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Check out Lora Dicarlo at https://loradicarlo.com/ Thank you to our partner for this episode: Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/generationtux.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 10, 2020
Season 10 Episode 17: Racism in Dating
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With the death of George Floyd and the nation-wide protests for black lives matter this week, it's time we really pay attention to how racism plays into everyday life – including dating. We compiled a few of our past episodes about the struggles of dating as black men and women in modern times. Really listen as we talk with Yelitsa, Sofaya, and Chris about how they navigate racist comments on dating apps, the extra hardships that come with dating as a person of color, and how best to openly discuss sexual racism to help put an end to this behavior. For the full episodes: S7E7: Dating as a Black Woman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-7-episode-7-dating-as-a-black-woman/id1084105171?i=1000418697968 S8E13: Sexual Racism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-8-episode-13-sexual-racism/id1084105171?i=1000438130527 Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. A big thanks to Do the Bay for these resources to help during this time: *Consider donating to the following impactful causes:* Black Lives Matter ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=d8f3ffc43c&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) Minnesota Freedom Fund ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=10c9eaa1ab&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) Nationwide Bail Fund ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=4a1bfae244&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=ffb2efd92b&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) The Marshall Project ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=67835de346&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) - nonprofit criminal justice journal Center For Racial Justice ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=e57e60be3f&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) Campaign Zero ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=beb6db5bb9&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) - policy solutions to end police violence Protesting? Here’s a ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=cd5e224046&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) guide to staying safe ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=f6b8918810&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ). Not comfortable protesting? Here are other impactful ways to help ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=9d09aae28c&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ). *Here are some excellent resources for further education:* What is Systematic Racism? ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=51baa02b8c&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) - an easy-to-understand video series History of Racist US Laws ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=3e739ab1d4&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) and their effects throughout American history The Case for Reparations ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=260bc114ae&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) The Road Not Taken ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=7606abf6c4&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) - Housing and Criminal Justice 50 Years After the Kerner Commission Report Social Exclusion: The Decisions and Dynamics that Drive Racism ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=3351a30fe3&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) Lynching in America: Confronting the Legacy of Racial Terror ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=f4b34ea6fd&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) How To Stop Police Violence ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=b791776be1&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) - excellent Twitter thread Educational Resources via Black Lives Matter ( https://dothebay.us8.list-manage.com/track/click?e=2fb22b42c9&id=ffe784cc49&u=9d79cbeaca5dc65170e3da4ad ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 03, 2020
Season 10 Episode 16: Relationship. Are you sure you want one?
01:10:18
Of course you want a relationship...but do you..do you? We unpack if we really need relationships with Simone and Brendon, who created their own great relationship, only to un-create it 8-years later. We discuss why relationships are a choice, how to live a full-life whether you're in a relationship or not, and what's really important if you do choose to be with someone. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 27, 2020
Season 10 Episode 15: He said YES!
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Why are we still waiting for the man to propose in 2020? Join us as we chat with Lauren about how she proposed to her now fiancé and took control of her love life. We discuss decoupling what traditions matter to you, how to continue to break down gender barriers, and the future of weddings with COVID-19 Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 20, 2020
Season 10 Episode 14: The Art of Virtual Sex
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From sex parties to steamy video chats, it's getting hot in here this quarantine! Listen as we chat with Mischa Byruck about the art of phone sex and what goes down at a virtual sex party. We discuss honing in on your sensual voice, why virtual methods can be so erotic, and how to ease into virtual sex. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Check out Mischa Byruck at https://www.evolve.men/ Thank you to our partners for this episode: Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/generationtux.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 13, 2020
Season 10 Episode 13: Zumping
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You guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way better than being ghosted, if this trend could continue post-quarantine, and why the term sounds so negative despite being a respectful option right now. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 06, 2020
Season 10 Episode 12: Love is not enough w/ Mark Manson
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Love is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why it's time to ditch the fantasy, and how we can take more ownership over our love lives. Warning: F-bombs are gonna be dropped! Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Follow Mark @markmanson and get his new Audible original 'Love is not Enough' . Learn more at https://markmanson.net/ Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 29, 2020
Season 10 Episode 11: U up? Let's DFH w/ Jordana Abraham
55:25
Despite all that’s been going on, dating app usage continues to soar...and we got to chat with Jordana Abraham, the founder of Betches and the dating app Ship, about the future of online dating. We discuss how dating apps can start to mimic IRL, how DFH is the new DTF, and ideas about the next big dating tech craze. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 22, 2020
Season 10 Episode 10: Love is Blind Part 2
01:17:21
So is love blind? Find out which one of the ladies Ryan asked on a date and how their date went down amidst COVID-19. We discuss their perspectives of each other once looks are revealed, if their virtual impressions matched reality, and if a connection was formed throughout this experiment. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store ( https://apps.apple.com/US/app/id868013618?mt=8 ) or google play ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Seriously.BestFiends&referrer=af_tranid%3DxMgTPfSonQNaCnLZywFYig%26pid%3Dbestfiends.com%26c%3DBestFiendsDownload%26af_web_id%3D7cf3098d-4936-4936-b7e3-21e9368c04fc-p ) Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 15, 2020
Season 10 Episode 9: Love is Blind Part 1
54:33
We were so obsessed with Love is Blind that we recreated our own rendition! Follow along as we hear the impressions Ryan has of Rachel, Lacy & Taylor and their feelings towards him after communicating through their own version of the pods. We’ll discuss assumptions made sight unseen, how active listening changes everything, and if love can really be blind. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 08, 2020
Season 10 Episode 8: Quarantined from Fuckboys w/ Shallon Lester
01:06:28
It’s a pandemic...but luckily we got Shallon Lester to tell it like it is about how to not murder your partner during quarantine and how to use this time to self-isolate from fuckboys. We discuss the difference between fuckboys and clueless men, changing your dating patterns to find someone that treats you right, and using this time to focus on the #1 person in your life – you. Check out Shallon's Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester and her podcast 'Girl on Top': https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-on-top-shallonxo/id1463991214 Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/generationtux.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong ( http://lwong.net/ ) #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 01, 2020
Season 10 Episode 7: Six Feet Apart: Dating on Lockdown
01:34:28
From video dates to virtual sex parties, we're finding out how daters are staying connected without leaving their home during this Coronavirus pandemic. We discuss how to form deeper connections during this time, ideas to bring video dates to the next level, and the changes COVID-19 is likely to bring to our dating lives even after this passes. Buckle up, because this is one hell of a ride! Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 25, 2020
Season 10 Episode 6: Coming out as Bisexual in your Marriage
45:11
From Coronavirus to coming out in your marriage – there’s no predicting what can happen! We talk to Chris about discovering his sexuality later in life and what it meant for him and his wife. We discuss adapting to unforeseen situations, navigating change, and staying true to yourself through it all. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Empower: Download this mobile banking app and get $5 at empower.me/dateable ( https://empower.me/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Firstleaf: Get 6 bottles of wine for $29.95, plus free shipping for a year! Just go to tryfirstleaf.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/581b20fb-af2c-420e-b3d1-94d18ad16ea7/tryfirstleaf.com/dateable ) Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 18, 2020
Season 10 Episode 5: Millennial vs. Gen Z dating
01:04:43
We got a Gen Z in the house! Listen as we talk to Zoe about what it's like to date as someone who’s been using digital technology their entire life. We discuss the traditional tendencies of this generation, the different patterns with dating apps, and the challenges that don’t seem to ever go away. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and messages expiring at midnight to move the convo offline. Currently available in the Bay area (but expanding soon): https://joinflutter.app.link/dateable BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/betterhelp.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 11, 2020
Season 10 Episode 4: Too Old to Date
57:58
Tune in as we talk to Brad about the time pressure of dating as you get older – even for men. We discuss the challenges of dating in your 30’s when everyone else is settling down, how expectations change as you age, and balancing having a life plan vs. seeing how it all plays out. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and messages expiring at midnight to move the convo offline. Currently available in the Bay area (but expanding soon): https://joinflutter.app.link/dateable Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/generationtux.com/dateable ) with the code DATEABLE Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 04, 2020
Season 10 Episode 3: PHD in Mansplaining
58:03
Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between innocent misunderstandings, and how to be aware if you’re doing this type of behavior yourself. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and messages expiring at midnight to move the convo offline. Currently available in the Bay area (but expanding soon): https://joinflutter.app.link/dateable BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 26, 2020
Season 10 Episode 2: Moving on After Divorce
01:06:14
Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to assess a life partner, and learning from your past while not letting it dictate your future. Check out Tommy's podcast The Tommy Danger Experiment ( https://open.spotify.com/show/7BRIyWE7grzhkaEQ87rPpn ) Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: SunBasket: Get $35 off your order at sunbasket.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Firstleaf: Get 6 bottles of wine for $29.95, plus free shipping for a year! Just go to tryfirstleaf.com/dateable Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts ( https://app.redcircle.com/shows/1896ec4c-ab61-46a7-b4ab-16f3ae2e712a/ep/6f03be0a-fd24-4b2c-bf24-3342e7b185ed/frolic.media/podcasts ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 19, 2020
Season 10 Episode 1: Taking Sexy Back
01:07:46
Join us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire differences with a partner, and why it’s essential to explore your sexual self– especially on your own. Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her book on Amazon ( https://www.amazon.com/Taking-Sexy-Back-Sexuality-Relationships/dp/1684033462/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1KDYDHDTEITFR&keywords=alexandra+solomon&qid=1581302599&sprefix=alexandra+solom%2Caps%2C217&sr=8-1 ) Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website ( http://dateablepodcast.com/ ) for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 12, 2020
BONUS: Dateable Unplugged LIVE From SF
49:06
Tune in for a sneak peek into our inaugural live show in SF. We flipped the script and had Logan Ury interview us for a change! We discuss why we started Dateable, how this podcast changed the way we date, and what to do when there are controversial guests. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 29, 2020
BONUS: Confessions Of A Bartender LIVE from Mad River in NYC
34:24
Tune in as we chat with Ryan live at his bar, Mad River, in the Upper East Side of New York City. We discuss what bartenders observe on your dates, ideas for cheap dates outside of a bar, and why a good hookup can be just what the bartender ordered. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 22, 2020
BONUS: Live from The Wing NYC: Love (& Sex) At Any Age w/ Cirkel
31:43
Join us as we share a live podcast where we talk with a panel of daters across ages in their 20's, 30's and 40+. We discuss what changes (and stays the same) with age, lessons from the past that inform the future, and how to find the best parts about dating at any age. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 15, 2020
BONUS: The State Of Dating In 2020
42:00
Listen as we talk about the trends we’re seeing in the dating world – and future predictions going into the new year. We discuss the next wave of dating apps, changes from the initial stages of dating through marriage, and how the future is pansexual. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 01, 2020
Season 9 Episode 20: Dating With Dignity w/ Marni Battista
40:11
Join us as we chat with Marni Battista about how she regained her own dignity when dating – and why this is essential for anyone dating right now. We discuss addressing your limiting beliefs, how to spot various manimals, and what it actually means to date with dignity. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 25, 2019
Season 9 Episode 19: The Next Chapter Of Dating
51:55
Tune in as we talk to Andy about the many phases of his dating life – from being new in town/ having fun to wanting more to deciding to move abroad. We discuss the ebbs and flows of dating, taking the best parts of all life stages, and staying positive throughout it all. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 18, 2019
Season 9 Episode 18: Is Monogamy A Thing Of The Past?
51:44
Listen as we talk to Cathy about her journey from saving herself for marriage to having multiple partners – at once. We discuss why it’s so difficult to break out of heteronormative traditions, how monogamy doesn’t have to be so binary, and defining your own rules. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 11, 2019
Season 9 Episode 17: Getting (that Libido) Up
49:32
Tune in as we talk to Amit about how he increased his testosterone levels and libido to better his sex life. We discuss how ‘not getting it up’ causes insecurities, why it’s better to remedy the situation naturally, and the results that lead to multiple orgasms. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 04, 2019
Season 9 Episode 16: Attachment Theory
01:01:35
Join us as we chat with Lauren Korshak MFT about attachment styles and how they play into our adult dating patterns. We talk about the different styles, how they factor into the ups and downs of dating, and why even the most secure people feel insecure sometimes. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 27, 2019
Season 9 Episode 15: Rated X
54:52
Listen as we hear from Lou Cass about being a porn star in the ’80s and how porn has changed over the years. We discuss the highs and lows of being in the industry, filming sex whether you are a pro or amateur, and how porn skews the reality of sex. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 20, 2019
Season 9 Episode 14: The Science Of Dating
01:23:37
Tune in as we talk to Logan Ury about how behavioral science –the how and why we make decisions – plays into everything in dating from profile photos to breakups. We discuss changing our defaults, learning to avoid our blindspots, and how to make better decisions in dating. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 13, 2019
Season 9 Episode 13: Eternal Bachelor
01:19:27
Join us as we talk to Michel about his bachelor lifestyle and his existential debate between clubbing every weekend vs. settling down. We discuss the context of where you meet someone, the perception of age, and how our own belief systems impact our relationships. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 06, 2019
Season 9 Episode 12: Zipper Dick
40:22
Listen as Elizabeth tells us about one of her funny dating stories that luckily avoided a trip to the ER. We discuss how to deal with unfortunate situations when dating, paying it forward even if you don’t know someone well, and what happens when you’re presumptuous. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 30, 2019
Season 9 Episode 11: First Date In 12 Years
01:31:48
Tune in as Jeff tells us about his first date in 12 years with our co-host and producer Julie. We discuss being on dating apps at different stages of life, how the past plays into how you approach dating, and why pursuing a friendship first may not be the worst idea. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 23, 2019
Season 9 Episode 10: Falling Into Relationships
01:02:03
Join us as we talk to Dave about how he seems to fall in and out of relationships without thinking much about it. We discuss bringing awareness into your dating life, prioritizing love along with your career, and how to bring more passion into your relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 16, 2019
Season 9 Episode 9: Singles in America 2019 with Helen Fisher
39:41
Listen as we talk to Helen Fisher, a world-renowned researcher, and unpack the results of her Singles in America study. We discuss this concept of fast sex; slow love, men wanting women to make the first move, and what singles are looking for in 2019. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 09, 2019
Season 9 Episode 8: Why People Cheat: An Exclusive Interview with Ashley Madison
01:29:14
Tune in as we talk to members and the staff at Ashley Madison about why people cheat and have affairs. We discuss the motivations of the people coming to Ashley Madison, how the site is designed for discretion, and the psychology behind cheating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 02, 2019
Season 9 Episode 7: Dating as a Single Mother
54:03
Listen as we chat with Rebecca about dating and meeting her now-husband while raising her daughter on her own. We discuss making decisions that are right for you, turning hard experiences into opportunities, and prioritizing romantic relationships with it all. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 24, 2019
Season 9 Episode 6: Deeper Dating with Ken Page
01:00:02
Join us as we chat with Ken Page about the revelations he learned along the way after being chronically single for years. We discuss moving out of your own way, how to recognize and overcome avoidant feelings, and why superficial changes aren’t enough. This episode is sponsored by Audible Escapes. Listen free for one month by going to audible.com/lovedateable Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 18, 2019
Season 9 Episode 5: Broken Engagement with a Twist
46:19
Tune in as we chat with Jane about how she broke off her engagement to her college boyfriend due to falling in love with a woman. We discuss the fallout of calling off a wedding, the possibility of falling in love in an open relationship, and the difference between dating men and women. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 11, 2019
Season 9 Episode 4: The Inventor of Online Dating with Match.com founder Gary Kremen & David Kushner
41:36
Listen as we talk to Gary Kremen, the inventor of online dating, and author David Kushner about the rise of Match.com and Sex.com. We discuss the early days of internet love and sex, how online dating has evolved, and what can be brought to modern-day. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 04, 2019
Season 9 Episode 3: In Reality with Ann Lupo
56:00
Join us as we chat with Ann Lupo about her painful experience with unrequited love that inspired her movie In Reality. We discuss being consumed with the fantasy of love, obsessing over relationships, and when it’s time to cut situations that aren’t reciprocal. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 28, 2019
Season 9 Episode 2: Dating the CEO of a Startup Part 2
49:16
Listen as we check in with Josh about his journey from not having time to date as CEO of Monday Motorbikes to getting engaged to his fiancé. We discuss the right partner becoming your #1 teammate, how work factors in, and when founders commit, they #commit. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 21, 2019
Season 9 Episode 1: Is There Still Sex In The City? with Candace Bushnell
49:45
Join us as we talk to Candace Bushnell to see 'Is There Still Sex in the City?' when dating as a 50-something woman after divorce. We discuss restarting life being single, cubbing with younger men, and why Carrie should never have ended up with Mr. Big. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 14, 2019
BONUS: Our Top Episodes That Have Changed How We Date And Find Love
28:27
Listen as we share our top Dateable episodes that have changed the way we date and approach finding love. We discuss our own personal journeys and how we’ve learned from our guest's experiences and the discussions we’ve had with them. Also check us out in the 'Top 15 Dating Audio Podcasts' Feedspot: https://blog.feedspot.com/dating_podcasts Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 24, 2019
BONUS: Top 5 Tips to Spice up your Online Dating Profile with Matchmaker Courteney Kay
38:21
Tune in as we talk to Courtney Kay about her top 5 tips to spice up your online dating profile. We discuss what you can do to stand out in a sea of other profiles, authentic ways to highlight your true self, and how to attract the people you want to meet. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 17, 2019
BONUS: Everything you need to know about dating on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' with Erin Rachel Doppelt
32:46
Listen as Yue & Julie are interviewed on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' by Erin Rachel Doppelt and we talk about why we started the podcast, the biggest things we've learned along the way, the best advice we've received, and how to enjoy the journey of dating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 10, 2019
Season 8 Episode 19: Quest For Love with Ryan Van Duzer
57:54
Ryan Van Duzer tells us about how he fell head over heels in love, only for it to end almost as quickly as it started. We discuss getting through the deepest of heartbreak, how to really show up for relationships, and why love is still the most magical thing despite it all. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 26, 2019
Season 8 Episode 18: The Love Gap with Jenna Birch
59:21
Jenna Birch, the author of 'The Love Gap', shares her research about why men don’t always pursue the women they claim they want. We discuss if it’s timing or the person, the differences between men and women, and why modern day romance isn’t always so linear. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 19, 2019
Season 8 Episode 17: Can a Man Still Date in the #MeToo Era?
48:17
Matthew Solomon of ManSchool and The Good Men Project talks about how men can approach, date, and relate with women in the current climate. We discuss the reverse effect of giving up on dating, balancing consent with conviction, and coming from a place of understanding. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 12, 2019
Season 8 Episode 16: Let's Talk About Sex
43:52
Celeste shares what it’s like to work(and date) as a sex coach and how her practice differs from a sex therapist. We talk about learning how to enjoy sex more, what to do when you and your partner aren’t compatible in bed, and how to reinvigorate your libido if needed. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 05, 2019
Season 8 Episode 15: Going The Distance
59:00
David & Sammi talk about navigating a long-distance relationship over the last ~2 years. We discuss dealing with international time zones and logistics, making the most of the time together and apart, and how the best relationships can just naturally unfold. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 29, 2019
Season 8 Episode 14: Love, Dating, and Ghosting Across Ages
55:04
Amanda and Inês share how their dating lives are similar and different at age 31 and 70. We discuss the basic dating dilemmas that seem to prevail, the importance of friendship through it all, and how to embrace life at any age with or without a relationship. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 22, 2019
Season 8 Episode 13: Sexual Racism
45:34
Chris tells us about sexual racism and how this shows up in his life as a black gay male. We discuss the extreme bluntness on Grindr, what it’s like to not live up to the black male stereotypes, and how to call people in instead of out when it comes to addressing racial slurs. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 15, 2019
Season 8 Episode 12: Vagina Tingles
45:32
Erin from the Wise Woman Podcast talks to us about what it really means to date mindfully through both eastern and western practices. We discuss honing in on your body and chakras, listening to your gut feelings while dating, and how to attract your highest soulmate. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 08, 2019
Season 8 Episode 11: (Dating) Rhythm & Blues
42:07
Donovan shares what it’s like to date as a musician and how it’s not all the glitz and glamour you may think. We discuss the stereotypes associated with musicians, the challenges from this occupation when it comes to dating, and how to overcome these perceptions. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 01, 2019
Season 8 Episode 10: Don't wanna be played no more
58:16
Ali responds to Leon’s PSA to women and shares her story of how she learned to deal with players. We discuss unlearning beliefs that this is just how guys are, recognizing what you have control of in a situation, and advocating for our own needs in relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 24, 2019
Season 8 Episode 9: A Sex Journal
47:25
Caleb and Levina share how they created a sex journal for couples to reflect on and explore their sex life together. We discuss investing in your intimacy, really discovering each other's preferences, and how open conversation in the bedroom translates to the entire relationship, Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 17, 2019
Season 8 Episode 8: Breaking out of an Abusive Relationship
51:58
Ify tells us about her experience being in an abusive relationship and how she finally ended and recovered from it. We talk about abuse spanning beyond just physical mistreatment, recognizing early symptoms, and how to get help if you or a loved one is in this type of situation. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 10, 2019
Season 8 Episode 7: Hot for Ginger
50:14
Jack shares the biases that come from dating as a redheaded male – from being ruled out of the dating pool to being fetishized for his hair color. We talk about owning your identity, approaching people as individuals, and the problems leading with pure physical qualities. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 03, 2019
Season 8 Episode 6: Losing my Virginity (at 35)
39:47
Sarah tells us about her newfound active sex life at 35 after breaking away from her Mormon upbringing. We discuss experiencing all the pleasure the body is made to experience, not being hindered by inexperience, and developing your own values/beliefs about sex. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 27, 2019
Season 8 Episode 5: Saved by the Bell (Pepper)
47:19
Kiran shares one of his quirkier dates that stood out over the years – and the awkwardness that occurred along the way. We discuss making the most of the situation, when to introduce friends to your dates, and how to determine when it’s time to cut your losses. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 20, 2019
Season 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with Benefits
59:51
Julie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and how a change of perception of the “right” person may reveal someone who’s been there all along. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 13, 2019
Season 8 Episode 3: PSA to Women
42:02
Leon shares a PSA to women about how men will run all over them if they aren’t smart about dating. We discuss the tactics used to take advantage of a situation, discerning disingenuous from authentic behavior, and how to be trusting without being a doormat. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 06, 2019
Season 8 Episode 2: Gold Standard
51:51
Caroline tells us about her first love that made such an impression on her that no one else can ever live up to it. We discuss why some people make such an impact, different types of love at different stages of life, and how to prevent living in the past in order to move forward. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 27, 2019
Season 8 Episode 1: The Exit Interview
01:02:43
Jason shares how he’s had hundreds of first dates that didn’t go anywhere – and will now hear live feedback from 5 of his past dates about why things didn’t progress. We discuss some simple ways to make big changes, how to stay confident despite past rejection, and why feedback is a gift. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 20, 2019
BONUS: Top 10 Date Ideas that aren't basic for 2019
19:21
Before we start Season 8, tune in for our Top 10 Date Ideas that aren't basic to help you come up with more fun and unique ways to connect with your date(s) in 2019. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 30, 2019
BONUS: Top 5 Dating Resolutions for 2019
16:56
Before we start Season 8, tune in for our top 5 dating resolutions for 2019 to help you become happier, healthier, and smarter daters. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jan 23, 2019
BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 2
41:27
Listen as we chat with more past guests about their dating lives. We talk to Kat who set out for new adventures abroad in Season 5, Sheel who's online persona didn't reflect his readiness in Season 4, Bottle Ned who preferred to date outside of the city in Season 5, and some of our own updates! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 26, 2018
BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 1
44:14
Tune in as we catch up with some of our past guests to hear about what's happening in their love lives. We chat with Shelby who we set up on a blind date in Season 7, Chris who met his girlfriend in an Uber in Season 6, Farah who got breadcrumbed in Season 5, and past co-host Michael Vargas! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 19, 2018
Season 7 Episode 22: Marriage 101
54:27
Dr Alexandra Solomon shares how to build loving and lasting relationships from her popular course at Northwestern University: Marriage 101. We discuss navigating conflict in relationships, the changing views of marriage, and how to develop healthy emotional and sexual intimacy. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 12, 2018
Season 7 Episode 21: Single and Lovin' it
49:43
Robert, Jade, and Larry tell us why they love being single and how they embrace it instead of feeling societal pressure to settle down. We discuss the benefits of staying single, why it’s important to grow as an individual during this time, and how to enjoy life while staying open to future possibilities. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 05, 2018
Season 7 Episode 20: The Manfunnel
53:46
Megan Weks tells us how she started dating like a well-oiled machine which led to meeting and marrying her husband in less than a year. We discuss the “manfunnel” method, why linear dating can be problematic, and how it’s important not to be afraid to rock the boat. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 28, 2018
Season 7 Episode 19: Venmo John Tells All
48:39
John Graham from the Bachelor in Paradise and the Bachelorette tells us what it’s like to date on reality TV.. We talk about what really happens behind the scenes, life dating before the show, and what to learn (or ignore) about dating from the experience. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 21, 2018
Season 7 Episode 18: Just Keep Going
43:23
Valerie tells us how she met her now-husband Rob first online, only never to meet, and then reconnected with him through a chance encounter. We talk about persistence when you are dating, the paths both people are on, and the magic when things just suddenly line up. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 14, 2018
Season 7 Episode 17: Mental Health & Dating
57:56
Jonathan from Reflect talks to us about the impact of mental health when it comes to dating and relationships. We talk about the change in stigma over the years, how anxiety and depression show up when dating, and why mental health is the crisis of our generation. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 07, 2018
Season 7 Episode 16: At My Service
47:59
Ms. Emilie tells us what it’s like to be a pro dominatrix and how she transitioned from software engineer into this role. We discuss the range of services of a dom, the reasons and motivations of people seeking this out, and how technology continues to change the sex industry. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 31, 2018
Season 7 Episode 15: The Average Joe
37:42
Vince talks to us about his experience from the deep end of the dating pool as a middle-aged short guy with no game. We talk about how men also face societal pressures with their looks, how to make the most of what you got, and why average joe’s can be anything but average. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 24, 2018
Season 7 Episode 14: Nothing to Lose
46:52
Amanda shares how she took her dating life into her own hands by making the first move with men. We talk about low-risk yet bold ways to approach in real life, taking initiative on dating apps, and how the “rules” of gender roles continue to dwindle every passing generation. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 17, 2018
Season 7 Episode 13: Do Unicorns exist?
51:23
Ellis and Charlotte share their experiences dating a couple where they were the ones entering the relationship as the third. We discuss the terminology of unicorns and unicorn hunters, how perceptions differ from the reality of personal situations, and how these configurations can work or not. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 10, 2018
Season 7 Episode 12: Rock Bottom
43:43
Melissa shares a disastrous hookup story that made her re-examine her dating life and realize it was time for a change. We discuss the importance of self-respect, not letting others control your emotions, managing your alcohol intake on dates, and how to learn from your experiences. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 03, 2018
Season 7 Episode 11: Do nice guys finish last? with Tripp Kramer of Tripp Advice
44:36
Tripp from Tripp Advice and the "How To Talk to Girls" podcast talks to us about the “nice guy” syndrome and how to confidently meet and attract women. We discuss why being nice isn’t enough to spark attraction, how to break out of this mentality to lead with masculinity, and some tips on how to talk to girls. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 26, 2018
Season 7 Episode 10: Rewriting the Rules Part 2
01:06:31
Margot is back to share the most surprising and awesome twist in her love life: how she has fallen in love with a woman – with her girlfriend Elisa. We discuss being open to finding love in different forms, the journey from dating men to dating women, and experiencing love at first sight. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 18, 2018
Season 7 Episode 9: Rewriting the Rules Part 1
44:50
Margot tells us about her new approach to finding love and how she’s breaking the “rules” of dating. We discuss social constructs that disadvantage women, how to cut through the BS of dates that don’t go anywhere, and the necessity of direct up-front communication. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 12, 2018
Season 7 Episode 8: Friends with (other) benefits
42:33
Bobby shares how he stays friends with girls he meets on dating apps – and also their current boyfriends. We discuss why being the “nice guy” can lead to dating fatigue, how to date with conviction, and differentiating between what you want vs risks you’re afraid to take. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 05, 2018
Season 7 Episode 7: Dating as a Black Woman
44:36
Yelitsa and Sofaya tell us the struggles of dating as black women in modern times. We discuss racial discrimination in online dating, the judgment formed from extreme stereotypes, and the impact of interracial dating with black men and ones of other races. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 29, 2018
Season 7 Episode 6: $25K Reward for Love
52:13
Ricky shares why he offering a [now] $25k reward to find his beloved. We discuss a radically different approach, the importance of character in a match, and having the confidence that it’ll happen when the time is right. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 22, 2018
Season 7 Episode 5: Marathon Dater
35:26
Eliza tells us about her intense 24 hour date that fizzled just as quickly. We discuss the false sense of intimacy after a long date, how to keep your expectations in check, the difference between connections and companions, and why communication wins over speculation. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 15, 2018
Season 7 Episode 4: Diaper Fetish Part 2
36:29
David responds to our episode last season about adult baby diaper lovers as someone with the fetish. We discuss what exactly goes down, why it's such a turn on, how to broach the subject to a significant other, and why this is just a small part of who you are. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 08, 2018
Season 7 Episode 3: Therapy for a Therapist
48:30
Dr Rachel shares what it’s like dating as a therapist and gets real about her own mishaps in dating which has allowed for her to practice what she preaches. We discuss breaking patterns, the importance of self-work, and how to become a more mindful dater. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 01, 2018
Season 7 Episode 2: What it means to be a man
44:01
Mark Greene from the Good Men Project, Remaking Manhood, and Think Play Partners talks to us about the evolving definition of masculinity. We discuss expanding the traditional “rules” of being a man, the impact of gender roles in dating, and how to relate to one another better. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 25, 2018
Season 7 Episode 1: 2 Blind Dates
59:46
Shelby shares her experience going on two blind dates with Matt and Beau and we also hear their perspectives. We talk about the impressions you give off on a date, ways to form a deeper connection, and how perceptions may differ greatly. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 18, 2018
Season 6 Episode 15: Meeting your half-orange
55:43
Amy Spencer, the author of Meeting your Half Orange, shares how she rewired her way of thinking with dating optimism to attract her perfect other half. We talk about what you put out into the universe, why being so available often backfires, and how to become so happy that the right person will naturally be drawn to you. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 30, 2018
Season 6 Episode 14: So I went to a sex party...
55:57
Natalie takes us through her first experience at a sex party where we recorded an Organ House event and talked with other partygoers as well. We discuss what brings people to this community, why a strong consent culture is so essential, and what exactly happens at a play party. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 23, 2018
Season 6 Episode 13: The White Horse
47:40
Lori shares how she prefers to date Asian men as a white woman and how she has been the “white horse” even in the US. We talk about cultural perceptions, the differences between healthy interracial relationships vs fetishes, and judgements that are still happening in 2018. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 16, 2018
Season 6 Episode 12: Romance ISN'T Dead
53:16
Brian and Jakara aka Team BJ tell us about their elaborate engagement proposal and how they got together – including the hurdles that came their way. We discuss the importance of courage, how to handle one person not being ready, and what equal partnership really means. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 09, 2018
Season 6 Episode 11: Diaper Fetish
51:06
Samantha shares her reaction about being propositioned for a diaper fetish and what was actually involved. We talk about different fetishes, how to respond when someone shares a desire that may seem out of the ordinary to you, and ways to present a kink of your own. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 02, 2018
Season 6 Episode 10: F*CK Tinder
48:29
David tells us about his experience with Tinder that resulted in many dates, many stories, and ultimately the creation of F*ck Tinder: a love story. We talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating apps, strategies not to become jaded, and how it can be ultimately worth it in the end. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 25, 2018
Season 6 Episode 9: Gender Blender
53:44
Ariel, founder of Gender Illumination, shares what it’s like to date as someone trans, gender queer, and gender non-conforming. We discuss her own personal journey, all the terms and pronouns, challenges in dating in the trans community, and how to be open and educated. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 18, 2018
Season 6 Episode 8: Open to being Open
39:56
Jasmine tells us about being in an open relationship from the perspective of someone that never thought about non-monogamy before. We discuss making your own rules in dating, why different relationship setups can work, and how good things come from staying open to possibilities. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 10, 2018
Season 6 Episode 7: A Foreign Way of Dating
48:37
Quino shares his struggles with modern dating culture of dating multiple people at once. We talk about the differences in US dating culture vs other countries, the universal problems many face, and how to make dating work for you despite the times or your location. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 04, 2018
Season 6 Episode 6: The List
45:25
Kirra tells us about her project, The List, where she interviews and photographs all the women her friend “K” has slept with to paint a picture of him through the eyes of his former lovers. We discuss your own perceptions vs. how others see you, the impact of every sexual encounter, and how to grow from your experience. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 28, 2018
Season 6 Episode 5: An Unexpected Ride
48:22
Chris tells us about his chance encounter that led to meeting his girlfriend in an Uber, while sharing his personal journey to becoming boyfriend material. We discuss looking inward opposed to blaming modern dating, the progression one goes through, and opening yourself up to all the possibilities. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 21, 2018
Season 6 Episode 4: Weeding them out
55:15
Heidi, founder of Cannabis Tours and Puff, Pass, Paint, tells us about her slew of weird dates as we figure out why this may be happening to her. We discuss how your dating profile may be representing you, getting what you put out into the universe, and embracing all the weird that comes with dating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 14, 2018
Season 6 Episode 3: The Player Meets His Match
01:03:31
Josh shares how he mastered all the pickup techniques from The Game only to end up with Megan, a dating coach, who told him to loose all the lines. We discuss trying new ways to meet people, gaining confidence during the process, and ultimately attracting someone by being yourself. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 07, 2018
Season 6 Episode 2: When Dating IS Your Job
43:23
Meredith from The League tells us what it’s like being a dating professional by day and actual dater by night – and how through that process she met someone awesome. We discuss optimizing dates for experiences, learning about your preferences, and how to actually enjoy dating! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 28, 2018
Season 6 Episode 1: The Great Love Debate In Every State
01:02:00
Brian Howie from the Great Love Debate shares with us what he’s learned from talking to single men and women across the US and beyond. We discuss the differences between cities, the overarching issues nationwide, and the changing gender dynamics especially with the #metoo movement Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 21, 2018
BONUS: Tech & Dating with Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule
01:02:59
Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule join us at General Assembly where these industry experts tell us the best ways to navigate the paradox of choice, messaging black hole, superficiality in dating apps, lack of mystery/romance, accountability, and how to leverage tech to work for us when it comes to finding love. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 07, 2018
Season 5 Episode 16: Just Say Yes
52:04
Sheryl talks to us about a shift of attitude that instrumentally changed her dating life – and ultimately led her to her husband. We discuss the importance of energy and being approachable, the benefits of dating outside of your type, and how options equate to opportunity. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 20, 2017
Season 5 Episode 15: In Sickness and in Health
55:09
Judy and Pablo tell us about their experience with Pablo battling cancer and the impact it had on their relationship. We discuss what commitment really means, how to truly be there for your partner, and how overcoming difficult times can make you a stronger couple. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 20, 2017
Season 5 Episode 14: Three's Company
01:15:30
Jupiter, Dylan, and Sean share with us their experience being in a triad relationship. We discuss what this actually means, the dynamics between the three of them, the logistics of dates and events, and of course what goes down in the bedroom. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 13, 2017
Season 5 Episode 13: 1000 divorces
49:46
Erik from Together Guide tells us about what keeps couples together and what brings them apart – from the perspective of a former divorce lawyer. We discuss marriage, reasons for divorce, the phases of relationships, and why conflict isn't always a bad thing. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 06, 2017
Season 5 Episode 12: Dating with Tourette
52:58
Chelsea White talks to us about dating with Tourette syndrome and the details of this disorder beyond its media portrayal. We talk about how her ticks play into her dating/sex life, the impact on relationships, and why it’s more about understanding then stigma. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 29, 2017
Season 5 Episode 11: Do Millennials want love? with David Cruz
50:50
David Cruz from Millionaire Matchmaker, Finding Cupid, and Three Day Rule talks to us about love and romance with Millennials. We discuss using technology as a bridge, the InstaGen effect, modern matchmaking, and how to bring the romance back! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 22, 2017
Season 5 Episode 10: Breadcrumbing
50:38
Farrah tells us about how she is constantly being breadcrumbed by men with little bits of attention and hope, but not the real deal. We discuss why this may be happening, how to prevent it, and ways she may be allowing this to occur. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 15, 2017
Season 5 Episode 9: Love + Money
40:19
Joe from Gavazza Wealth Management talks to us about money management from the start of dating to building a life with another person. We discuss assessing your financial compatibility, having the necessary conversations with your partner, budgeting, and planning for future goals. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 08, 2017
Season 5 Episode 8: Empire (Swipe of Mind) Strikes Back
01:00:28
Jena and Kat share their reactions to our most controversial episode yet, Empire Swipe of Mind from Season 4, with Jake back in the studio. They share their opinions about the male: female ratio, Jake’s emphasis on beauty, and meekness of men in the city. With Jake and his friend Tony in the discussion, we hear the perspectives of both sexes and discuss how to resolve some of the biggest frustrations when it comes to dating Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 01, 2017
Season 5 Episode 7: I am not throwing away my shot
35:17
MK tells us how she quickly let out her quirky side when she first started dated her now-boyfriend by sending a photo dressed in full-out Hamilton gear. We talk about being your authentic self in dating, taking risks, and the importance of loving each other’s quirks. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 25, 2017
Season 5 Episode 6: Relationship (In)Experience
47:51
Ben tells us about his lack of relationship experience and the impact it's had on his dating life. We discuss recognizing any form of experience as experience, building up your confidence, and overcoming the fear of getting physical (and your first kiss!). Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 18, 2017
Season 5 Episode 5: Getting out of the Friend Zone
52:05
Chris and Amy how they moved from a platonic friendship to being engaged. We talk about how to get out of the friend zone, what changed in their relationship, being open to the possibilities, and the benefits of being friends first. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 11, 2017
Season 5 Episode 4: Yes, I have herpes
54:19
Dr. Sheila Loanzon shares her own personal experience contracting herpes and how she got back to a place of self-love and acceptance. We dig into the facts about STDs, the stigma they present, and how to disclose this to a new partner. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 04, 2017
Season 5 Episode 3: An insider's look into the pickup community
45:48
Confidence & Social Intelligence Coach DJ Fuji talks about the origins of the “pickup artist" subculture and the stark difference in its media portrayal. We get a look into this community, the surprising individuals who seek it out, and the new strategies he now teaches. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 25, 2017
Season 5 Episode 2: Every. Body. Beautiful.
55:38
Natalie Carey, author of Every. Body. Beautiful, tells us about her decades-long battle with body image. We discuss overcoming the struggles for both women AND men, learning to appreciate your body, and how this impacts dating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 20, 2017
Season 5 Episode 1: The Secret to Dating in Modern Times
45:57
Ned drops the secret of dating successfully in a city where our attention is scattered and options are plentiful. We discuss the impact of technology, urban elite cities, and how to navigate through it all to find something real. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 13, 2017
Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part III)
48:22
We’ll check in with some more of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including new dating techniques, emoji's, and additions to the family. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 23, 2017
Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part II)
43:18
We’ll check in with some more of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including some new relationships, opening lines, and self-revelations. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 16, 2017
Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part I)
38:21
We’ll check in with some of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including some marriages, breakups, and reappearances. One anonymous guest even reveals his identity! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 09, 2017
The Why Series: Why can't I meet people in real life?
02:51
On this episode of the premium ‘Why Series’, we discuss why it’s so hard to meet people IRL and what we can do about it. We give you tips and tactics to start conversations, expand your network, and places to go to meet new people. We even have a 7-day challenge to make this actionable for you all! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 19, 2017
The Why Series: Why do people flake or ghost even after a great date?
02:56
The reality is that ghosting and flaking are all too common in today’s dating culture. We've all been there – that great date that turns into radio silence or a last minute cancellation never to be rescheduled again. On this episode of the ‘Why Series’, we’ll look at why people flake or ghost even if the date seemed to go well. We'll discuss what to do when this happens and how to handle the situation if this person comes back into your life. You’ll get actionable takeaways based on our own personal experiences and learnings from past Date/able guests. You can then apply them to your own dating life to become a better and smarter dater! For the price of a cup of coffee, you can get some real answers. Join the conversation now to hear more and learn ‘why’ to this common dating conundrum. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 12, 2017
The Why Series: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything?
03:22
Introducing 'The Why' Series, where we answer some of the top listener questions and dating conundrums. The first question: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything? One of the most frustrating parts of dating is when none of them seem to go anywhere. You may be the master of the first, second, or even third date, but have trouble turning any of them into a real relationship. Don’t worry – you aren’t alone! We’ll deep dive into 5 different reasons why this may be happening and leave you with suggested actions of what to do next. We’ll give you answers and actionable takeaways based on learnings from past Date/able guests, our own personal experiences, and general observations. You’ll get over an hour of material, which includes hacks and ways to counteract the reasons this may be happening. For the price of a cup of coffee, you can get some real answers! Join the conversation now to hear more and learn ‘why’ to this common dating conundrum. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 05, 2017
Season 4 Episode 17: My Journey to be a Better Man
47:18
Dave tells us about his evolution from being a serial dater to an engaged, one woman man. We discuss becoming the best version of yourself, how that correlates to attracting the right type of partner, really being ready, and the importance of each step along the way. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 07, 2017
Season 4 Episode 16: Why You Cannot Find "The One"
30:42
Heidi Isern tells us why you cannot find 'the one” – and why hunting for that person is just too much pressure. We talk about how to navigate in a mirage of endless options, what it means to ‘settle’, and the importance of staying open beyond the ideal person in your head. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 30, 2017
Season 4 Episode 15: Empire Swipe of Mind
32:35
Jake and Nathan tell us about their experience with dating apps – in SF vs. NY. We discuss how women present themselves differently, ratios playing into the dating culture, gender dynamics in each city, and making the most of dating in any city you call home. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 24, 2017
Season 4 Episode 14: Going with the Flo
28:07
Flo and Dylan tell us about their relationship that was anything but love at first sight when they met at a silent disco. We discuss meeting when the time is right, deviating from your “type”, giving relationships time, and how to know if there’s a connection. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 17, 2017
Season 4 Episode 13: The Support Male
36:51
Don discusses changing male gender roles and being a ‘support’ male in a city filled with independent, alpha females. We talk about men’s career ambition vs being a stay-at-home dad, the recognition for a family man, and knowing the values you want. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 10, 2017
Season 4 Episode 12: Rope Bondage
42:06
Eva shares what it’s like to be part of the BDSM community - specifically being into rope bondage. We discuss getting introduced to kink, what happens in a scene, how BDSM doesn’t always involve sex, and the levels of understanding/training needed. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 03, 2017
Season 4 Episode 11: Crazy Festival Wives
30:34
Bryant tells about one of his former “festival wives” that may have gone a little crazy through text messaging. We talk about why women get the “crazy” label, how to read the signs of interest, and the importance of the context of where you meet someone Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 25, 2017
Season 4 Episode 10: The System
25:55
Jenny walks us through her system of dating multiple people at once now that she is back in the dating scene after being married. We discuss dating strategies, how your perspective changes once you have a child, and why marriage isn’t always the ultimate goal. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 19, 2017
Season 4 Episode 9: Young, Broke & Beautiful with Broke-ass Stuart
44:13
Stuart aka Broke-Ass Stuart tells us what it’s like to date as an ‘SF Cult hero” in a city where you’re bound to run into an ex or two. We talk about breaking up with dignity, the issues with ghosting in a city so small, and how to date when you’re broke in a place like SF. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 11, 2017
Season 4 Episode 8: Love in the Air(bnb)
31:27
Li and Chris tell us how they met through Airbnb when Chris visited SF from Germany. We talk about their whirlwind romance that lead to marriage, the importance of timing, overcoming challenges of distance, and the power of committing to make it work. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 04, 2017
Season 4 Episode 7: Making Moves IRL
40:20
Taylor tells us how she is an anomaly to modern dating - ditching apps for the real life approach. We talk about doing this in a non-aggressive way, getting over rejection, pick up lines that aren’t lines, and taking control of your dating life without apps. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 29, 2017
Season 4 Episode 6: Perceptions and Misconceptions
36:34
Sheel tells us about what he's looking for and ideal qualities of a partner - all while we talk about the perception he may be giving off on social media. We discuss judgements made from facebook, dating apps, and other sites and how to play this in your favor. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 19, 2017
Season 4 Episode 5: The Bathroom Bail
34:22
Melissa talks about her date’s ultimate disappearing act - while they were out on an actual date. We discuss the importance of communication, who should pay for the date, how your mood can impact the entire night, and being respectful even if it isn’t a match. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 15, 2017
Season 4 Episode 4: Levels of DTR
41:17
Aaron tells us about his bold move to meet a guy through the ‘People You May Know’ section of Facebook. This leads to discussions about what it really means to define the relationship, commit, and the importance of expressing your expectations of a partner. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 07, 2017
Season 4 Episode 3: Dating as a Muslim Woman
40:31
Amal tells us about dating as a Muslim and Arab woman, especially during the Trump Presidency and Muslim Ban. We talk about dating outside her race and religion, the challenges it may bring, and how these troubling times have actually restored her faith. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 01, 2017
Season 4 Episode 2: #Millennial
31:39
Harrison talks about dating as a #millennial. We talk about his facebook live dating experiment, stepping up your emoji game, and differences between the 20 something and the 30 something dater. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 22, 2017
Season 4 Episode 1: Dating in the Dark
33:17
Julie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- gives a new perspective. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 15, 2017
Season 3 Episode 17: Against the Rules
42:26
Kate and Boris tell us how they ditched all the dating rules - including Kate being on JDate as a non-jew - and found true love. We discuss exchanging messages to being engaged and all the defining moments along the way. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 28, 2016
Season 3 Episode 16: Full Disclosure
27:06
David shares a story where things wouldn’t progress sexually with a girl he was seeing - resulting in a shocking discovery. We discuss when to disclose secrets or anything unusual and how unexpected experiences open your eyes, heart, and views on dating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 21, 2016
Season 3 Episode 15: Let's Make Apps and Babies
27:13
Connie tells us about her dating history and how she just wants to make apps and babies - so much that she froze her eggs. We talk about the process, common questions from both men and women, and how it can help relieve some of the time pressure in dating. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 14, 2016
Season 3 Episode 14: Dating Fatigue
23:06
Andrew tells us about his many dates over the last 8 years in SF, where not even one has turned into a real relationship. We talk about how technology has made us pass quicker, judge faster (thanks, google and social media), and how to thrive through it all. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 29, 2016
Season 3 Episode 13: Masterbacon
29:41
Megan from Meet Foxie tells us about a guy she dated long distance with a freaky food fetish. She shares one of her letters declaring his fantasy involving her, eggs, and bacon. We discuss turn-ons and even do a beginners crash course in dirty talk. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 22, 2016
Season 3 Episode 12: Dating Profile Dish
29:24
We teamed up with Lively, a new video dating app from Zoosk, to do a little dating profile. Our panel talks about all the do’s and don’ts of profile pics, their change of perspective with videos, and how much context matters. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 16, 2016
Season 3 Episode 11: Open Relationships
30:50
Chris discusses consensual non-monogamy and how open relationships differ from polyamory. We talk about the necessity of communication and boundaries while navigating jealousy and other things that come with non-traditional relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 08, 2016
Season 3 Episode 10: "Double" Date
21:14
Ariel tells us how she learned something very unexpected about her new guy...and all from her best friend matching with him on Tinder. We discuss recognizing there is a ton you don't know about someone after a couple dates and keeping an open mind. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 02, 2016
Season 3 Episode 9: Yellow Fever
45:57
Dan talks about his love for Asian women as a white male. We also have Eric, an Asian male, who prefers to date white women. We talk about why they gravitate to opposite races, cultural differences, and the impact of mixed raced relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 26, 2016
Season 3 Episode 8: Married with Options
39:04
Ben and Kate talk about being polyamorous while married to one another. They talk about the differences compared to open relationships, how they got started in polyamory, and their guidelines for dating other people while still together. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 19, 2016
Season 3 Episode 7: The Dating Experiment
21:26
Linda tells us about a little ‘dating app’ experiment she did that didn’t get her as many dates as expected. We discuss why her first message may have backfired, problems with the ‘swipe culture’, and even why Hinge is changing their strategy completely. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 12, 2016
Season 3 Episode 6: Dating the CEO of a Startup
42:53
Josh talks about dating as a CEO of a successful startup and how it's not all unicorns and rainbows. We talk about what happens when you are married to your job, the sacrifices you make to run a startup, and how this plays into your dating life. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 04, 2016
Season 3 Episode 5: Love Lyft
23:53
Nay tells us about how she met her boyfriend of 2 years as the passenger in his Lyft! We talk about taking risks, making the first move as a woman, and seizing the opportunity. So take off the headphones, you never know who is nearby! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 27, 2016
Season 3 Episode 4: The Orgy Dome
24:40
Chris tells us about his experience at the Orgy Dome at Burning Man and how it impacts his outlook on sex and dating. We talk about how “play” translates to all relationships ranging from the most adventurous to the innocent. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 20, 2016
Season 3 Episode 3: Dating on a Whim
47:19
Yue tells us about her own first date using the app Whim. Eve Peters, the founder and CEO, interviews Yue and Andrew separately to hear their impressions of one another and how they cut through the “date talk” to make a true connection. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 13, 2016
Season 3 Episode 2: So I met him at Bar None...
24:23
Rachel shares a ridiculous story from her past that starts by meeting at Bar None and results in getting kicked off the MUNI. We talk about getting drunk on dates, alternative date spots to bars, and that wild ride of dating in your early 20’s. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 07, 2016
Season 3 Episode 1: You are someone I just have to meet
37:51
In our Season 3 premiere, Spencer and Carolyn tell us the story about how they met IRL and became a pretty instant couple. We talk about what attracted them to one another, the progression to an actual relationship, and how when it just works it works. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 31, 2016
Season 2 Episode 16: A beautiful breakup
24:39
Julieann tells us about a serendipitous love story that becomes her most life changing relationship despite ending in a breakup. We discuss relationships as our biggest teachers and how forever doesn’t always signify success in relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Aug 03, 2016
Season 2 Episode 15: Love, Sex, and Burning Man with Matteson Perry
40:40
Matteson Perry,, author of Available: A Memoir of Heartbreak, Hookups, Love and Brunch, tells us about his plan to be single for year and casually date tons women. We discuss how this leads to true love and self-discovery. And of course, Burning Man. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 27, 2016
Season 2 Episode 14: 24 apps and counting
23:55
MIkka tells us about using her 24 dating apps to date anywhere and everywhere including traveling to Portland, her latest hotspot, for dates. We talk about integrating dating into your life, refreshing your mindset, and how fun first dates really can be. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 20, 2016
Season 2 Episode 13: A league of her own – Part 2
24:18
Amanda Bradford, founder of the League, continues our conversation about the inner workings of the app. We hear about your league score, how to get off the long waiting list, and what happened when Amanda created a profile in both NY and SF. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 13, 2016
Season 2 Episode 12: A league of her own – Part 1
27:50
Amanda Bradford talks about dating as the founder of The League. We discuss the reasons she created the app and dive into changing gender roles in society. We also hear about her own dating life as an alpha, career-oriented woman. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 06, 2016
Season 2 Episode 11: Mr. Marina
19:06
Mark (aka Mr. Marina 2016) talks his best and worst dates ever. We talk about respecting others time, the importance of a raw connection, and dating as the bro of all bros. Lesson learned: Marina Bros are date/able too. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 29, 2016
Season 2 Episode 9: How far would you go for love?
26:11
Xavier tells us about the lengths he took to be with the girl he loved including moving from San Francisco to China to New York, and entering into an open relationship per her request. We discuss monogamy, polyamory, and how far you would go for love. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 15, 2016
Season 2 Episode 8: Hey Heartbreak
28:52
Elle, the founder of Mend ( https://www.letsmend.com/ ) , talks to us about the most painful part of relationships: heartbreak. She knows all about this topic as the founder of Mend. We talk about it all from timing in relationships, the healing process, and how to come out stronger. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 08, 2016
Season 2 Episode 7: Can't Hurry Love
20:17
Jake tells us about a Tinder date that got aggressive fast. We discuss it all here: interpretations of dates, texting aftermath, ways to vet online dates, men turning down sex, and how to know if you are in a relationship. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 01, 2016
Season 2 Episode 6: Double Booked
19:11
Alan takes us on a wild ride through his dating life including a story that happens during the recording. We talk about dating strategies, sex, finding the right person with great abs, more sex, and double booking. Warning: this episode is hilarious. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 25, 2016
Season 2 Episode 5: Plus One
26:45
Marissa discusses dating a man with kids and her change of perception as she gets older. We discuss the intricacies it brings to relationships, the different struggles of single dads vs single moms, and surprisingly the potential benefits. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 18, 2016
Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder?
19:05
Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills about her Tinder test from the Season 1 finale. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 11, 2016
Season 2 Episode 3: 2 Year Ghost
19:32
Katie tells us about a guy she dated for 2 months that ghosted after a crazy adventure trip. And then he returned 2 years later only to ghost again! We discuss the reasons someone may flake, how to deal, and the reality that you never know the full story. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 04, 2016
Season 2 Episode 2: Lost in Translation
32:12
Ketan gets deep about a heartbreak that ends with his girlfriend packing her bags on their trip to Italy. We talk about complexities in relationships such as fixating on the future, missing red flags, and effective communication. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 27, 2016
Season 2 Episode 1: The Blind Date
38:03
Yue goes on a blind date riding a Scoot Quad around the city. Her date, Matt, comes on air and we hear both of their impressions of the date. When have you ever gotten real feedback from a date? Spoiler alert: minds are blown. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 20, 2016
Season 1 Episode 10: Are you opposed to hooking up?
36:00
In our season finale, Robert tells us about his social experiment about sending hookup messages to 20 women on Tinder. We discuss how one night stands can leave you empty and the impact of male/female role reversal. We also talk about how casual dating and experimentation can help you settle down in a relationship long term. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 16, 2016
Season 1 Episode 9: Are We Or Aren't We?
19:28
Jessica tells us about her quote unquote “relationship” that spanned over 10 months with a guy that would never commit. We talk about setting the precedent of how you want to be treated and how you can learn from situations like these. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 09, 2016
Season 1 Episode 8: Market Research
19:48
Tan tells us about his date turned psychology study. We talk about being clear on intentions and ditching the small talk on first dates. We also talk about the benefits of meeting people outside of traditional "dates". Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 02, 2016
Season 2 Episode 10: Confessions of a Matchmaker
18:09
Courteney Kay, founder of Sparx and formerly at Dating Ring and Grouper, shares what it's like to be a modern day matchmaker. We get her inside scoop along top traits people look for in a partner, and problems unique to San Francisco. One guy even had a 3 page google doc checklist! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 24, 2016
Season 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and Date
23:35
One of our hosts, Yue, spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 13, 2016
Season 1 Episode 5: Frozen Eggs
22:18
John tells us about his setup with an older woman from a matchmaker. We discuss the importance of life-stage in relationships and preconceptions around age. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 12, 2016
Season 1 Episode 6: First Move
22:39
KiYonna brings a conversation with her cousin about women making the first move. We talk about gender roles and how modern dating has gotten more judgmental. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 12, 2016
Season 1 Episode 4: The $600 Dinner
18:53
Sasha talks about getting stood up for a date and how she benefited from this later. This brings us to the discussion around flakiness and being honest in dating. We also talk about standing up for yourself and asking for what you deserve. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 05, 2016
Season 1 Episode 3: The Mushroom Trick
18:23
One of our hosts, Michael, tells his own story about using a mushroom to pick up a woman (yes, this surprised us too!). We talk about being present and taking chances in dating. We also discuss instant vs. more gradual connections. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 04, 2016
Season 1 Episode 2: DTF?
18:54
Shirley spills about a sexual text message she received from a guy she met online. This leads to a discussion around being upfront with intentions. And of course, does it matter when you sleep together? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 04, 2016
Season 1 Episode 1: She loves me, She loves me not.
21:31
Kurt talks about a roller coaster relationship with many mixed messages. We talk about effective communication between men and women. We also discuss the extent of fighting for your relationship and why people are afraid of commitment. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Feb 04, 2016