Beat Your Genes Podcast
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Aug 30, 2022
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Let's look at life through the lens of our ancestors. Our instincts were shaped by their struggles in an environment much different than our current environment. Our instincts haven't changed much but our environment has changed dramatically. We blend the science of evolutionary psychology with the clinical experience of Doug Lisle, PhD to explore common problems and stumbling points in our pursuit of happiness.
New episodes come out Wednesdays at 8:30 PST. If you have a question or comment, or maybe even a complicated situation that you'd like some advice on, feel free to call us and leave a voicemail at (714) 900-2601 or send in a question through www.BeatYourGenes.org
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371: Evo Psych Didn't Ruin Anything, You're Just Focused on the Scary Part
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Dec 11, 2025 |
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370: Chasing vs. Coasting: Why the Dynamics Change for Both Sexes
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Nov 19, 2025 |
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369: Love - The Glue Between Anxious Women and Wandering Men
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Nov 06, 2025 |
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368: Great Romance vs. Great Regret… PLUS: Can the "Least Attractive" Still Be Happy?
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Oct 01, 2025 |
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367: Emotional Affairs: A Modern Problem in an Ancient Brain
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Sep 19, 2025 |
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366: Closing an Open Loop – Friend Disappeared 17 years ago
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Sep 11, 2025 |
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365: Hustle Culture, Burnout, and the Evolution of Self Esteem
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Aug 22, 2025 |
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364: Marriage: Nature's Most Optimistic Mistake?
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Aug 07, 2025 |
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363: Too Anxious to Relax, Too Average to Admire?
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Jul 23, 2025 |
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362: Esteem, Friendship, and Finding Your People
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Jul 11, 2025 |
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361: Lingering Loyalties, Distant Intimacies
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Jun 25, 2025 |
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360: Affairs, Flares, and Fantasy Matches
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Jun 12, 2025 |
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359: When They Stop Caring: Hygiene, Hope & His Libido
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May 29, 2025 |
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358: Pretty Girls, Cold Feet, and Estrogen Dreams
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May 16, 2025 |
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357: Loving the Irrational, Living with the Stuck, Losing the One
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May 01, 2025 |
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356: You Want Them to Change—But Will They? Suicide, Marijuana, and Sobriety
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Apr 17, 2025 |
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E355: I Married Him to Have Kids... Now He Doesn't Want Them!
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Apr 03, 2025 |
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354: Can't Lower Your Standards? That's Not a Flaw – It's Your Biology.
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Mar 20, 2025 |
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353: Wife hired an escort while I was working, Going to grad school to find a rich husband, Strategies for getting revenge
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Mar 06, 2025 |
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352: My son is demoralized! I married for money 25 years ago, now what? I love my partner, but I want some comparison
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Feb 21, 2025 |
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351: What is Transference and Counter-transference in a Psycho-therapeutic relationshiop? Is this Freudian concept out-dated?
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Feb 05, 2025 |
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E350: Are women delusional,humble, or just right about how hot they are? What is "the Magic 10%"? Listener wants to know why she fantasizes about women while with boyfriend, Listener is puzzled by choices of family member with aggressive cancer
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Jan 22, 2025 |
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E349: "Going crazy" after cheating on husband, Are there limitations to Personality or Intelligence tests? Are problematic/disagreeable co-workers less estrogenized? Follow-up question from E347
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Jan 09, 2025 |
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348: Dr. Lisle's Book Update, Friend acting unbothered following his wife's death
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Dec 26, 2024 |
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347: Do husbands just want sex and food? Are good looking people the only ones that can find love?
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Dec 11, 2024 |
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E346: Applied Evolutionary Psychology, Young woman dating wealthy man, Dietary disagreement in raising child, Women may feel secure when mate is right more often
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Nov 29, 2024 |
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E346: Our Last Episode, BYG is Moving on...to X
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Nov 28, 2024 |
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345: Psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD, weights in on the US Election… What is Morality?
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Nov 14, 2024 |
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E344 (343 Pt 2) How can Gay Genes stay in the population without offspring?
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Oct 31, 2024 |
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E343 Pt 1: Can you breed higher Intelligence into society?
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Oct 31, 2024 |
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342: The EGO TRAP – when expectations are too high, motivation suffers
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Oct 17, 2024 |
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Evolutionary MISMATCH is everywhere – work, academia, retirement
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Oct 03, 2024 |
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340: The TRUTH about Social Anxiety – are extroverts really the outliers?
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Sep 26, 2024 |
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339: Disagreeable people blame trauma for their circumstances.
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Sep 05, 2024 |
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338: A MARRIED man tried to KISS me! Wanting to Fall in Love AGAIN – What's my mind telling me?
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Aug 22, 2024 |
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337: I'm RICH but I DIDN'T EARN it – Can I EVER be HAPPY? Should I be CONCERNED about all the NEGATIVITY in the news?
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Aug 08, 2024 |
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336: Having SECOND THOUGHTs about fiancé – Should I marry anyway? Is waiting until MARRIAGE a TRAP?
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Jul 25, 2024 |
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335: I find ALL MEN my age REPULSIVE, Will 10 paid dates WARD OFF the casual daters?
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Jul 11, 2024 |
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E334: Some sad news...Remembering Dr. John McDougall
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Jun 27, 2024 |
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333: Great marriage but romance FADING? How do our traits OVERLAP? Are PSYCH meds EVER worth it?
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Jun 13, 2024 |
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OCD relief, Estranged parent-child relationships, Long-term relationship considerations
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May 30, 2024 |
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E331: Do Narcissists Hide their Intentions more than Most? Impact of Upbringing on Future Preferences
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May 16, 2024 |
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330: Is Life ALL ABOUT making money OR can you Beat Your Genes and feel happier?
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Apr 18, 2024 |
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329: Is there Valid Critique of Twin Studies and Behavioral Genetics?
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Apr 04, 2024 |
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328: Frustrated about Lower Income degree, Helping child increase confidence
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Mar 21, 2024 |
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327: Is Pseudoscience in Psychology CAUSED by Academia?
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Mar 07, 2024 |
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E326: Priest broke confession seal and told husband I cheated
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Feb 22, 2024 |
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325: Prove-'em-wrong Motivation, Managing child's outbursts, Aunt is very disagreeable
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Feb 08, 2024 |
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324: Is Attachment Theory WRONG? Do parents owe you support?
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Jan 25, 2024 |
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323: Can everyone be happy? Does online dating change the cost-benefit?
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Jan 11, 2024 |
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Love him when he's here, but hate him when he's away, Solving social anxiety? Are SJW's really more noble?
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Dec 14, 2023 |
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321: Processed stimulation - How social media competes for our attention
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Nov 30, 2023 |
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320: Diet considerations, Disease-reversal, Losing weight, Metabolism Dynamic, Cram circuit
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Nov 16, 2023 |
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319: Free will vs. decision making, Best political system aligned with human nature
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Nov 02, 2023 |
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318: Jen Howk on Buddhism, Philosophy, The Matrix, Simulations, and Sentience
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Oct 19, 2023 |
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317: When Nobody Else Gets It! Could my Cost-benefit calculator be faulty? Do men love their children like moms do?
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Oct 05, 2023 |
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316: Buddhism & Evolutionary Psychology, Is Evo Psych only controversial to other Psychologists? Corporal punishment
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Sep 21, 2023 |
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315: Does wealth reduce IQ? Can emotions be unresolved? If able, would men pair bond with two women?
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Sep 07, 2023 |
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314: Are men right more often than women? Own personality distortions, Getting flustered in arguments, Do children's personality evolve through adulthood?
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Aug 24, 2023 |
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313: Dr. Lisle & Nate: Why are people snobby? Why doesn't my spouse want to improve their health? Can you sleep train an infant? Single by choice but lonely
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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312: Fraud in Lancet journal, Should I stay in an unhappy or sub-par relationship?
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Jul 27, 2023 |
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311: Can you screw up a good relationship? Finding the courage to break up.
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Jul 13, 2023 |
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310: Do women dangle sex? Maintaining friends when income becomes disparate, Are Modern-day office jobs feminized? Does society prefer sons?
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Jun 29, 2023 |
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309: Resentful of Cheating Dad, Do Men Prefer to Earn More than Spouse, Moving In with Partner but Marriage is Off the Table
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Jun 15, 2023 |
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308: Dumped but then he came back, Can't eat healthy unless I live in the woods, Do introverts need to socialize more
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Jun 01, 2023 |
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307: Where Does Evolutionary Psychology Evidence Come From?
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May 18, 2023 |
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306: Romance novel villains, Boyfriend admits he kissed an ex, Socially awkward or self-preservation, Is population getting dumber & flakier?
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May 04, 2023 |
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305: AI Fears, Frustrated Serial monogamist - Am I a whore? Daughter is wasting life living with me, Looking for your hometown
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Apr 20, 2023 |
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304: Information Overload, Do Humans procreate for help later in life?, How much does income/status matter for a woman?
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Apr 06, 2023 |
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303: Awakening a Dormant Circuit, Social Climbing vs. Meaningful relationships
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Mar 23, 2023 |
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302: Abused/Battered women, Obsessed with a competitor, Overpopulation & Mental health
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Mar 09, 2023 |
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Episode 300
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Mar 02, 2023 |
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301: Genetics,BPD, Getting Your Health on Track,Group performance,Nosy Neighbors
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Feb 09, 2023 |
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299:Eugenics & EvoPsych, Child threatens suicide, Bad child blaming good parents
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Jan 26, 2023 |
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298: Depression in the modern world vs. Stone Age
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Jan 12, 2023 |
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295: Nothing satisfies, Euthanasia, Tragedies, Adrenaline junkies, Homophobia
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Jan 05, 2023 |
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297: It's the End of the... Year 2022
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Dec 29, 2022 |
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294: Cultural appropriation/Oppression Olympics, Mate choice, Finding dream job
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Dec 22, 2022 |
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296: Do minorities have low self-esteem, Interrupting, Neuroplasticity
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Dec 15, 2022 |
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293: Child behavior problems, Do men cope by retreating?
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Nov 03, 2022 |
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292: Ditzy girls, Gratitude, Quality of your internal audience, Empathy
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Oct 20, 2022 |
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291: Is addiction more likely in sad people, Evo Psych in classrooms
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Oct 06, 2022 |
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290: Need to understand, How BYG started, Childless, Bad Childhood & depression
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Sep 29, 2022 |
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289: Ideal exercise, Resentment, Frustrated with dating, Getting better tips
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Sep 01, 2022 |
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288: Anti-depressant news, Ruined by dating a hot guy, Finding a dream job
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Aug 18, 2022 |
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287: Dr. Howk on Current Events
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Aug 18, 2022 |
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286: Pair bond must-haves, Spirituality & EvoPsych, Creating an alter ego
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Jul 21, 2022 |
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285: Roe v Wade, Body Positivity in Women, Blank Slate model appeal
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Jul 07, 2022 |
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284: Dropout daughter, Autism, Social connections, Rethinking 10 paid dates?
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Jun 16, 2022 |
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283: Attachment styles, Confidence, Impostor Syndrome
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Jun 09, 2022 |
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282: Do women avoid direct help? Career confusion, Sister needs bone marrow
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May 26, 2022 |
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280: Lazy husband, Painful sex, Bf might wander, High T & agreeable?
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Apr 28, 2022 |
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279: BF's career, Women abusing men, Video games, Afraid to talk, gender theory
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Apr 28, 2022 |
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278: Sexual disgust, Meaningful and authentic esteem dynamic in a pair bond
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Mar 31, 2022 |
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277: Do ppl marry out of necessity, Assessing happiness, Contribution Anxiety
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Mar 10, 2022 |
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276: Jealousy & Possessive behavior, Crystal Clear, Deception in dating
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Feb 24, 2022 |
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275: Sex frequency issue, Cheating on Horace, Current Events
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Feb 11, 2022 |
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274: Can therapy trigger a victim mentality? Impulsive shopping, Lesbian dating
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Jan 27, 2022 |
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273: Falling for promiscuous women, Does my BF treat me bad or he just high T?
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Jan 13, 2022 |
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272: Work evaluation, Abandonment/Rejection issues, Life after psych meds
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Dec 30, 2021 |
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271: Raising children, Obese Psych, Sleep, Disagreeable distance, Abortion, Paranoia
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Dec 27, 2021 |
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270: Polyamory, Unvaxxed dating, Sharing mate with needy sibling, and more..
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Dec 02, 2021 |
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269: Where Do Epiphanies Come From, Acting different w different people, Self-destructive behavior
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Nov 18, 2021 |
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268: Evo Psych Diet, Retiring Early, Stressed in the Stone Age, Covid Tantrums
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Nov 04, 2021 |
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267: Sentimental objects, Birth control, Getting over the victim mentality
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Oct 21, 2021 |
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266: Getting over small slights in a LTR, Going mad, nervous breakdowns
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Oct 07, 2021 |
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265: Porn in a relationship, GF has a past, Is a marriage contract natural?
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Sep 23, 2021 |
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264: Current Events
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Sep 10, 2021 |
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(Replay) Food vs drugs, Longevity, Dating market while aging, Is Lust a trap?
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Sep 02, 2021 |
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263: Diff views in EP, Does Rooster Settle the Hens? Avoiding Cancel Culture
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Aug 26, 2021 |
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(Replay): Leaving an unhappy marriage, Flirting, Toxic parents, Needy friends
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Aug 19, 2021 |
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262: High ambition but mediocre action, Kid blames mom for low self-esteem
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Aug 12, 2021 |
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261: Current events (July 2021)
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Jul 29, 2021 |
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(Replay) Earning attraction, IQ discrepancy, Market-limiting cues in dating
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Jul 22, 2021 |
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260: Shaking the Jimmy Gene, Less Productive after Securing a Mate?
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Jul 15, 2021 |
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259: Standoff w Son, Partner Won't Move Out, Mean Son, Problems w MIL
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Jul 08, 2021 |
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(Replay) Myelin sheath/child development,Are private ppl missing out, Genes
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Jun 17, 2021 |
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258: Current Events
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Jun 10, 2021 |
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257: Current Events May 2021
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May 27, 2021 |
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(Replay)Calibrating to the market, Showing off genes in the cold, Finding a mate
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May 20, 2021 |
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256: Placebo effect, Frustrated at societal costs, Living with distortions
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May 14, 2021 |
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(Replay) Depression, Why does mad girlfriend ignore, 25 year relationship no sex
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May 06, 2021 |
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255: Perceptions meet reality, Where does 'sense of awe' come from?
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Apr 29, 2021 |
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254: Economics, Cryptocurrency, and Job Searching
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Apr 15, 2021 |
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(Replay)Moderation vs. fanaticism in life pursuits,Social media as pleasure trap
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Apr 08, 2021 |
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253: Vaccine passports, Libertarian principles, Social credit system
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Apr 02, 2021 |
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(Replay) Do emotions trigger relapses? How to prevent/minimize addictive relapse
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Mar 25, 2021 |
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252: State of the Unions in a relationship, Pair bonds, Disingenuous friend
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Mar 18, 2021 |
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(Replay) Being a therapist, Overcoming fears & anxieties
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Mar 11, 2021 |
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251: Am I with Mr. Right for the Wrong Reasons?
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Mar 04, 2021 |
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250: Owing parents,Child's junk affects Mom's health,Too sensitive?, Half effort
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Feb 18, 2021 |
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(Replay) Neuroticism and IQ, Creating habits, Saving a post-affair marriage
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Feb 11, 2021 |
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249: Washed Up Jimmy is Offended, Do Friends & Business mix?
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Feb 04, 2021 |
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(Replay) Minimizing distortions, Worth it to disagree?
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Jan 28, 2021 |
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248: Earning esteem, feeling pride, and self-improvement
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Jan 21, 2021 |
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(Replay) Stuck in a stagnant rut, Mirror emotions, More detail on agreeableness
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Jan 14, 2021 |
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247: Govt & Pleasure Trap, Avoiding ego trap as a celeb, Evo Psych over 60
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Jan 07, 2021 |
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246: 2020 Year in Review
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Dec 31, 2020 |
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245: Maximizing freedom, Are pets supernormal family stimuli?
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Dec 25, 2020 |
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244: Washed up Jimmy, Lazy millennials, Covid mandates/New normal?
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Dec 10, 2020 |
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243: Erectile Dysfunction, Pleasure Trap/Ego Trap: Blaming the wrong things
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Nov 26, 2020 |
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(Replay) Is effective health care possible? Sharing health info w sick friends
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Nov 19, 2020 |
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242: Dr. Howk & Dr. Lisle analysis of the 2020 US Presidential Election
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Nov 12, 2020 |
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(Replay): Pleasure Trap, Making yourself proud, Social cost of eating healthy
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Nov 05, 2020 |
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241: Spouse is Great but Unhealthy, Blamed for Child's Behavior, Feel vs act
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Oct 29, 2020 |
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(Replay) Group therapy, Plomian curse, Enlightenment trap, Being less critical
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Oct 22, 2020 |
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240: Dealing with Narcissism, Small Talk vs Discussing Unconventional views
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Oct 15, 2020 |
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(Replay) Impostor Syndrome, Parenting a mischievous son, BF went to stripclub
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Oct 08, 2020 |
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239: Down arrow, Education policy, Epigenetics, Trauma induced behavioral change
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Oct 01, 2020 |
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(Replay) Couchsurfing as a woman, Resilience vs coddling, Jealousy after breakup
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Sep 24, 2020 |
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238:Calorie budget,Baby v Adult talk,Russian women,Heritability,Corporate jargon
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Sep 17, 2020 |
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237: Desire to change others, Sibling concerns, Step-dad harsh with stepson
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Sep 03, 2020 |
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236: Read receipts, Low sex desire, Weight, High school skills, Silly animals
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Aug 27, 2020 |
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235: Underdogs, Lazy husband, Genetic politics,Disagreeable vs confrontational
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Aug 20, 2020 |
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234: Covid Update, Psychology of War, Why High Expectations?
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Aug 13, 2020 |
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233: Helping friends, Aliens, PMS, Anger management, Reducing anxiety
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Aug 06, 2020 |
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232: Sugar babies, Appearance & personality, Unconditional love, Homelessness
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Jul 30, 2020 |
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231: Post-corona dating calibration, Pushing our kids, Controlling others
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Jul 23, 2020 |
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230: Repeat Exposure, Scrambled Eggs, Pair bond dating success, Online dating
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Jul 16, 2020 |
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229: Changing political views, Dealing with grief, Current division in the world
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Jul 09, 2020 |
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228: Selfish Gene & Blueprint, Faking orgasms, Low mood stay at home mom
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Jul 02, 2020 |
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227: Genes for disease vs. personality, Parental influence, Environmental genes
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Jun 25, 2020 |
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226: Irritated compliance, Getting ppl to listen, Break ups, Marriage hesitation
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Jun 18, 2020 |
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225: AGE's,Evolution & diet, Self-esteem during recovery, Finding YOUR coalition
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Jun 11, 2020 |
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224:Current events,Growth mindset v Genes,Corona-virus compliance, Inheritance
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Jun 04, 2020 |
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223: Food vs drugs, Longevity, Dating market while aging, Is Lust a trap?
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May 28, 2020 |
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222: Stats Update Coronavirus
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May 21, 2020 |
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221: Lockdown changes & annoyance, Dealing w Burn out, How to Help a friend
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May 14, 2020 |
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220: Tension w friends, Dealing with conflict, Mass hysteria, Self-esteem
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May 07, 2020 |
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219: Increasing your self-esteem & escaping the pleasure trap during Lockdown
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Apr 30, 2020 |
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218: New data, Coronarivus Part 6
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Apr 23, 2020 |
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217: Coronavirus Part 5, Math clarification
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Apr 16, 2020 |
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216: Coronavirus Loneliness, Economy, Revolution, Bell Curves & Stereotypes
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Apr 09, 2020 |
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215: Coronavirus with Dr. Lisle and Dr. Howk
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Apr 02, 2020 |
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214: Coronavirus 2020 Part 2
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Mar 26, 2020 |
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213: Coronavirus 2020
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Mar 19, 2020 |
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212: Being a therapist, Overcoming fears & anxieties
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Mar 12, 2020 |
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211: Neuroticism and IQ, Creating habits, Saving a post-affair marriage
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Mar 05, 2020 |
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210: Well-meaning organization getting off-course, Personality cancer
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Feb 27, 2020 |
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209: Susceptibility to addiction, Dealing w family bullies,Attraction C/B
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Feb 20, 2020 |
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208: Arrogant/cocky people, Epidemic of anxiety, Evo psych of suicide
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Feb 13, 2020 |
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207: Calibrating to the market, Showing off genes in the cold, Finding a mate
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Feb 06, 2020 |
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206: Depression, Why does mad girlfriend ignore, 25 year relationship no sex
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Jan 30, 2020 |
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205: Moderation vs. fanaticism in life pursuits, Social media as pleasure trap
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Jan 23, 2020 |
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204: Do emotions trigger relapses? How to prevent/minimize addictive relapse?
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Jan 16, 2020 |
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203: New Year's resolutions, Pleasure Trap, Health questions
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Jan 09, 2020 |
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202: Leaving an unhappy marriage, Flirting, Toxic parents, Needy friends
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Jan 02, 2020 |
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201: Accessing the subconscious, Depression from illness, Brain maturity
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Dec 26, 2019 |
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200: Episode 200
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Dec 19, 2019 |
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199: Attraction tiers, Bluffing conscientiousness, Jimmy the guitar player
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Dec 12, 2019 |
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198: Earning attraction, IQ discrepancy,Market-limiting cues in dating profiles
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Dec 05, 2019 |
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197: Myelin sheath/child development,Are private ppl missing out,Measuring genes
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Nov 28, 2019 |
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196: Attraction patterns, 'Control freak', 'Emotional blackmail'
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Nov 21, 2019 |
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195: Pleasure Trap, Making yourself proud, Social cost of eating healthy
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Nov 14, 2019 |
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194: Evo psych of punishment & revenge, Fairness in male/female dynamics & more
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Nov 07, 2019 |
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193: On-Air session: Dealing with a Micromanaging Boss (replay)
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Oct 31, 2019 |
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192: Group therapy, Plomian curse, Enlightenment trap, Being less critical
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Oct 24, 2019 |
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191:Impostor Syndrome, Parenting a mischievous son, Boyfriend went to stripclub
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Oct 17, 2019 |
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190: Minimizing distortions, Worth it to disagree?
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Oct 10, 2019 |
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189: Introducing Dr. Jen Howk
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Oct 03, 2019 |
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188: Couchsurfing as a woman, Resilience vs coddling, Jealousy after a break-up
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Sep 26, 2019 |
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187: Stuck in a stagnant rut, Mirror emotions, More detail on agreeableness
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Sep 19, 2019 |
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186: Male/Female dynamics Part 2 with Drs. Doug Lisle and Jen Howk
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Sep 12, 2019 |
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185: Is effective health care possible? Sharing health info w sick friends
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Sep 05, 2019 |
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184: Male/Female Dynamics with Dr. Lisle & Dr. Jen Howk
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Aug 29, 2019 |
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183: Do rewards improve motivation? Can parents 'toughen' up their kids?
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Aug 22, 2019 |
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182: Enlightenment/Ego Trap, Trading w a Toddler, Keeping kids innocent? & more
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Aug 15, 2019 |
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181: Showing weakness, Dominance Hierarchy, Sharing Evopsych, Ego Trap?
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Aug 08, 2019 |
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180: Subjective experiences, Downsides of overshooting evolutionary advantage
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Aug 01, 2019 |
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179: Money & Esteem, Casual mating friends, Communication manipulation, LDR's
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Jul 25, 2019 |
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178: Stress of decision-making, Esteem choices
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Jul 18, 2019 |
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177: Does seeking validation hinder happiness? Role of evolutionary mismatch
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Jul 11, 2019 |
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176: Behavioral Genetics, Hiding w status loss, getting ignored in class
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Jul 04, 2019 |
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175:Ben Franklin effect, Burying feelings, Bottling up emotions, Internet trolls
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Jun 27, 2019 |
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174: Does casual mating doom pair bond chances? Evo psych & spiritual experience
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Jun 20, 2019 |
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173: Being cheap, Loaning money, Alcoholic husband, Influencing others
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Jun 13, 2019 |
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172: On-air session: Dating a salesman
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Jun 06, 2019 |
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171: Advice for an indecisive man, Advice for a teacher, Delusional friends
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May 30, 2019 |
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170: Is knitting a sexual display? Is sexual inexperience a turn off?
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May 23, 2019 |
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169: Finding a dream job, Drama at work, Helping parents find happiness
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May 16, 2019 |
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168: Why do we get manipulated? Are emotions contagious?
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May 09, 2019 |
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167: Epigenetics, Stress and health, ego-centric bias while dating
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May 02, 2019 |
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166: Where does guilt come from, where do 'body issues' come from, etc...
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Apr 25, 2019 |
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165: Dating down vs. up, Do we embarrass to assess mate value? etc...
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Apr 18, 2019 |
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164: What if kid doesn't want college? Is there anti-10 paid dates culture?
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Apr 11, 2019 |
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163: Expectations vs performance, politics questions, business partner conflict
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Apr 04, 2019 |
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162: Explaining the Ego Trap 2 of 2
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Mar 28, 2019 |
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161: Explaining the Ego Trap 1 of 2
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Mar 21, 2019 |
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160: Special Episode - Broadcasting on Facebook Live
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Mar 14, 2019 |
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159: Internal audience, public speaking, Hot/cold lovers,Getting over a breakup
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Mar 07, 2019 |
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158:Are women harder on themselves, Stuttering, Marriage problems, Is there a limit to esteem
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Feb 28, 2019 |
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157: Free time, Pseudo esteem
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Feb 21, 2019 |
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156: Keeping attention in class, When authority is altruistic, autism, war
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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155: Dilated eyes, Friendships, Romantic excitement, Live caller
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Feb 07, 2019 |
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154: Female ambition psychology, Messy roommate, roots of privacy
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Jan 31, 2019 |
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153: Falling out of love, Cultural shifts, Faced w food temptations
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Jan 24, 2019 |
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152: Anger in relationships, Falling in love w a monk, Food cravings
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Jan 17, 2019 |
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151: 10 paid dates from a man's perspective, Open-loops from casual flings
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Jan 10, 2019 |
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150: How to deal with a micro-managing boss - an on-air session (replay)
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Jan 03, 2019 |
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149: Shy vs bold men, Getting away from a narcissist, Is there a utopia?
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Dec 27, 2018 |
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148: Forgiving and letting go, Lonely older single women, Shy vs bold men
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Dec 20, 2018 |
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147: Effects of long-term marijuana, Spousal abuse, can severe OCD be beaten?
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Dec 13, 2018 |
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146: Binging on broccoli, Do we want what we can't have? Live caller
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Dec 06, 2018 |
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145: Eating healthy while socializing, during the holidays, live caller
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Nov 29, 2018 |
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144: Gaining your edge in life (replay)
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Nov 22, 2018 |
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143: Restriction/binges? Healthy mom pushing health on family, 2 callers
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Nov 15, 2018 |
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142: Why do boys pick on girls, giving gifts, people you dislike
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Nov 08, 2018 |
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141: Facial cues, Guess the personality, non-food potential pleasure traps
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Nov 01, 2018 |
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140: Anorexia, Paternity testing, Selecting for pair bonds on a dating profile
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Oct 25, 2018 |
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139: Radical Honesty, Genes vs Environment, Reconnecting w an old friend
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Oct 18, 2018 |
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138: Older vs younger generations, applying Evo Psych, genes vs environment
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Oct 11, 2018 |
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137: The Psychology of Humor (replay)
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Oct 04, 2018 |
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136: Why we feel unhappy sometimes, The meaning of life, What is intuition?
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Sep 27, 2018 |
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135: Finding the source of depression - an on-air session
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Sep 20, 2018 |
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134: Nostalgia, Studying for MCAT, Getting asked health questions
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Sep 13, 2018 |
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133: Empathy, Brains vs. Beauty:Trade-off? Male confused on a date
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Sep 06, 2018 |
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132: Being productive, Escaping the ego trap
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Aug 30, 2018 |
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131: Health questions. What to say when friend asks if she's overweight? Are there cultural shifts
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Aug 23, 2018 |
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130: Internal audience judgment, anorexia, why do people interrupt each other?
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Aug 16, 2018 |
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129: Cheapskates, Hoarders, Energy vampires, Marriage trouble
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Aug 09, 2018 |
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128: 6 "Romantic" Gestures That Are MAJOR Red Flags
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Aug 02, 2018 |
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127: Do men judge more than looks, keeping peace in the family, pop psychology
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Jul 26, 2018 |
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126: Delaying sex? Does a woman's self-esteem increase with age?
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Jul 19, 2018 |
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125:Committing to goals, displaying confidence, soulmates
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Jul 12, 2018 |
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124: Stress in the modern world vs. stone-age
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Jul 05, 2018 |
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123: Placebo effect, Stockholm syndrome, Listener's son having mental breakdown
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Jun 28, 2018 |
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122: Aren't humans omnivores? Stanford Experiment, Placebo effect, Stockholm
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Jun 21, 2018 |
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121: Dating after appearance change, Disagreeable Doug, Flooding the Circuits, Managing anger
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Jun 14, 2018 |
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120: A novel approach to cravings for junk, Personality differences & dislikes
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Jun 07, 2018 |
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119: How does our personality change? With circumstance? With age?
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May 31, 2018 |
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118: Hamilton's Rule, Altruism, Kin selection
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May 24, 2018 |
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117: Cost/benefit of displays, directing esteem cues, evo psych of economics, internet trolls, and
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May 17, 2018 |
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116: Beauty standards for women, Prostitution, and Emotional Intelligence
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May 10, 2018 |
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115: Depression, Psychedelics
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May 03, 2018 |
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114: Evo Psych in academia, advertising, music
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Apr 26, 2018 |
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113: Fear of commitment, Live callers, Evo Psych in academia, advertising, music
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Apr 19, 2018 |
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112: Intervention overconfidence, Caller question, Alcoholism, Evo Psych in academia, advertising,
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Apr 12, 2018 |
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111: Evolution of language, Emotional first-aid, helping a friend
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Apr 05, 2018 |
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110:Co-dependency, child attachment styles, advice on losing a child
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Mar 29, 2018 |
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109: What can our behavior signal to a romantic partner?
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Mar 22, 2018 |
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108: Punishing children, advice to psychology students, cynical from evo psych..
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Mar 15, 2018 |
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107: Bullying, Job satisfaction, Changing careers
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Mar 08, 2018 |
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106: Dreams, Meditation, Listener calls in
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Mar 01, 2018 |
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105: Personality traits of 'alpha' males, advice to women dating 'alpha' males
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Feb 22, 2018 |
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104:Helping mom out, Closing an open-loop
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Feb 15, 2018 |
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103: Family conflict turns into 8 years of unresolved rumination
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Feb 08, 2018 |
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102: Relationships, Time in Womb, Free Will, Evo Psych of Bad Teeth
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Feb 01, 2018 |
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101: Neoteny, Why do women stay w men who don't love them, Asexuality
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Jan 25, 2018 |
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100: Special Episode: Getting Personal with Dr. Doug Lisle
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Jan 18, 2018 |
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99: Introvert socializing, happiness triggers, Kid is flunking, Nature fallacy
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Jan 11, 2018 |
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98: Evolutionary psychology in 2018
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Jan 04, 2018 |
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97: On-air session - Daughter is having health problems, what do we do?
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Dec 28, 2017 |
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96: 10 paid dates-what now? Societal expectations of parents, future of race
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Dec 21, 2017 |
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95: OCD, Jealousy, Over-working, and advice for a naturopath
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Dec 14, 2017 |
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94: Dating on a diet, Painful memories, jealousy, working long hours
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Dec 07, 2017 |
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93: Relocating, Sexual Harassment current events, Dating on a diet, and more...
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Nov 30, 2017 |
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92: What will the future look like?
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Nov 16, 2017 |
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91: Live callers
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Nov 09, 2017 |
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90: Saying sorry, Borderline personality, Multiple personality, politics
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Nov 02, 2017 |
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89: Ex-husband & father of my kids is a sociopath. On-air session
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Oct 26, 2017 |
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88: Quitting vices: One by one or altogether? Helping your SO with their vices
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Oct 19, 2017 |
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87: Psych of Halloween costumes, talking to yourself, modern technology
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Oct 12, 2017 |
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86: What is a middle-of-the-bell-curve person like, braces, alcohol addiction .
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Oct 05, 2017 |
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85:Is online dating worth it, qualifying for your spouse..
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Sep 28, 2017 |
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84: Building a community, Getting over an ex's past, non-sexual fetishes, & more
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Sep 21, 2017 |
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83: Q &A
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Sep 14, 2017 |
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82: Overcoming height/weight/financial differences while dating
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Sep 07, 2017 |
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81: Questions for Dr. Lisle
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Aug 31, 2017 |
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80: On-Air Session w Listener & Dr Lisle
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Aug 24, 2017 |
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79: Doing good, Overbearing parents, Does birth order matter, facing death
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Aug 17, 2017 |
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78: Google's memo controversy
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Aug 10, 2017 |
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77: Child prodigies, Cat-fishing, Being born w a deformity
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Aug 03, 2017 |
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76: Dating mind-games, Binge-eating
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Jul 27, 2017 |
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75: Helping friends/family, self-confidence vs. self-esteem
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Jul 20, 2017 |
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74: Millenials
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Jul 13, 2017 |
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73: Parenting styles, Millenials, Bringing back purpose
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Jul 06, 2017 |
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72: Confidence, Intolerance, finding your purpose
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Jun 29, 2017 |
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71: Hard-wired: Nature vs. Nurture
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Jun 22, 2017 |
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70: Finding your identity - an on-air session w Dr. Lisle and a listener
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Jun 15, 2017 |
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69: Animal haters, Porn in LTR, Being a nicer person, Decision fatigue & Netflix
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Jun 08, 2017 |
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68: Explaining enablers, dating with psychiatric disorders, and having grit
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Jun 01, 2017 |
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67: About Dr. Lisle Part 2, Myths of Moderation when making health changes
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May 25, 2017 |
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66: About Dr. Doug Lisle
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May 18, 2017 |
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65: Finding your edge in life
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May 11, 2017 |
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64: Dealing with a Micromanager - An On-Air session with Dr. Lisle
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May 04, 2017 |
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63: Marital jealousy, Distancing yourself, Self-limiting beliefs,and more...
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Apr 27, 2017 |
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62: Making it to Date #2, Political Correctness, Self-Limiting Beliefs
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Apr 20, 2017 |
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61: Marxism, Affairs, Video Games, Tattoo signaling
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Apr 13, 2017 |
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60: What if your mate rival drives a Porsche, Succeeding at job interviews
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Apr 06, 2017 |
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59: How different do we act when we're being watched?
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Mar 30, 2017 |
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58: Mate-choice copying, The Milgram Experiment, Trans athletes, Darwin Awards
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Mar 23, 2017 |
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57: Listener emails, questions
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Mar 16, 2017 |
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56: How to deal with flaky/lazy children & flaky friends
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Mar 09, 2017 |
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55: Discussion about vicious cycles, listener emails, callers welcome
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Mar 02, 2017 |
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54: Repairing a strained relationship: On-air session with Olivia & Dr. Lisle
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Feb 23, 2017 |
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53: Flakes, gays, and cougars
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Feb 16, 2017 |
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52: Listener questions, emails, and comments
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Feb 09, 2017 |
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51: How to feel good, how to succceed at life improvement
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Feb 02, 2017 |
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50: What's your personality?
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Jan 26, 2017 |
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49:Overthinking, Reading ppl, family embarrasment, & what to do if you're 'ugly'
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Jan 12, 2017 |
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48: What's the point of psychotherapy, how to influence others
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Jan 05, 2017 |
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47: Free will, Basis of EvoPsych, Positive/Negative Reinforcement
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Dec 29, 2016 |
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46: Listener emails & questions
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Dec 22, 2016 |
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45: Willpower & Change Part 2
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Dec 15, 2016 |
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44: Willpower and Change
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Dec 08, 2016 |
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43: Inside the Criminal Mind
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Dec 01, 2016 |
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42: Listener questions, comments, and emails. Callers welcome!
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Nov 24, 2016 |
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41: Why is academia so left wing?
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Nov 17, 2016 |
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40: Sexual Abuse/Trauma
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Nov 10, 2016 |
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39: Procrastination
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Nov 03, 2016 |
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38: More listener questions/comments
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Oct 27, 2016 |
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37: Election 2016- Psychology of Trump, Clinton and the rest of politics
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Oct 20, 2016 |
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36: Dealing with Grief, Loss, and Sadness
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Oct 13, 2016 |
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35: Keys to a Successful First Date (for Women)
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Oct 06, 2016 |
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34: Keys to a successful 1st date (for Men)
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Sep 29, 2016 |
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33: Stress Management
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Sep 22, 2016 |
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32: Listener emails & questions
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Sep 15, 2016 |
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31: Psychology of Humor
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Sep 08, 2016 |
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30: Listener questions
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Sep 01, 2016 |
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29: Grudges, Sports, and Rivalry
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Aug 25, 2016 |
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28: Listener questions & call-ins
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Aug 18, 2016 |
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27: How to Make Great Friends
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Aug 11, 2016 |
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26: What He Says vs. What He Means
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Aug 04, 2016 |
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25: What she says vs. What she means
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Jul 28, 2016 |
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24: Keys to a Successful Relationship
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Jul 21, 2016 |
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23: Do opposites attract?
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Jul 14, 2016 |
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22: More real life examples of relationship conflict
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Jul 07, 2016 |
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21: Real life examples of relationship conflict
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Jun 30, 2016 |
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20: Common Relationship Problems & how to solve them
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Jun 23, 2016 |
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19: Common Dating Traps & how to avoid them
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Jun 16, 2016 |
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18: Which men and women "hook up" the most
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Jun 09, 2016 |
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17: Caller asks Dr. Lisle about polyamory
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Jun 02, 2016 |
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16: How much should you spend on first date?
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May 26, 2016 |
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14: The Evolution of Relations in the Human Species
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May 17, 2016 |
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13: Making Yourself More Date-able Part 2
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May 12, 2016 |
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12: Making Yourself More Date-able
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May 05, 2016 |
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11: Love, Sex, Dating, Relationships Part 3
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Apr 28, 2016 |
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10: Biological Clock, Sexual Variety, Settling Down, & Male Groupies
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Apr 21, 2016 |
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09: Love, Sex, Dating, Relationships
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Apr 14, 2016 |
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08: How to Get Along Without Going Along
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Apr 07, 2016 |
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07: Understanding your Personality
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Mar 31, 2016 |
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06: Psychology of Gender Dynamics and Differences
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Mar 24, 2016 |
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05: Stone-Age politics vs. Modern-day politics
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Mar 17, 2016 |
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04: Staying with a Man Who's Not Right For You
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Mar 09, 2016 |
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03: High Cost of High Expectations
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Mar 03, 2016 |
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02: Stepping Stones to Self-Esteem
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Feb 25, 2016 |
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01: Happiness vs. Pleasure : What is the goal of life?
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Feb 18, 2016 |