Shameless Sex

By Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts

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 Feb 17, 2019
these ladies are so full of knowledge and so willing to share in a way that is really accessible. they are really putting their heart and soul into this :) thank you!


April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. Amy is a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details.

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#102 Awakening the Pussy: Vulva Mapping With Sexological Bodyworker Dolly Josette

What is vulva mapping and Sexological Bodywork? How can a vulva mapping session help a vulva-owner to awaken sensation and expand orgasmic potential? How does this apply to lovers/partners? Our special guest, Dolly Josette, answers this and much much more (believe are probably going to want to learn all about how to get your own genital mapping session after listening to this episode). 

And guess what? Dolly is offering a FREE SESSION to one of the winners of our upcoming Instagram campaign for Masturbation May. Be sure to follow us on Insta to learn more. 

Dolly is also the lead organizer for the upcoming Sexological Bodyworker training in LA. To learn more visit 

Oh, and if you are in the Santa Cruz, CA, are Dolly is teaching a workshop at Pure Pleasure Shop on May 15th, 2019!

More about Dolly: Dolly Josette is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, & Relationship and Intimacy Coach, committed to seeing her clients relish in love, intimacy and perpetual fireworks.  Her specialties are connection, acceptance, and relaxing her clients' nervous systems so they can begin to unwind layers of shame, routine, pain, or numbness.  Dolly teaches embodiment and attunement in a nurturing and playful approach that helps her clients prioritize pleasure and expression through self-acceptance, positive body image, movement, breath, and touch. Checkout Dolly in May 2019’s issue of cosmo. Learn more at

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Apr 16, 2019
#101 How to Have Deep Connection and Juicy Sex! - With Dr. Nicola Amadora

This episode features Amy’s beloved therapist, teacher, guide and mentor, Dr. Nicola Amadora. We talk all about relationship – with the self and with others – and tools for deeper, more profound connection. Nicola teaches us how to break through our protective walls as a means of tapping into more LOVE and ALIVENESS, including “getting naked without taking our cloths off”. And we talk about how it all translates to juicy sex ;)

We also answer the sex question: My partner put on weight and I’m not very attracted to him these days. How can I improve my feelings for him?

Dr. Nicola Amadora is an accomplished leader, therapist, speaker, writer and spiritual teacher. Her passion and gift is to support people to live, lead and relate with presence, connection and wholeheartedness in the world. For 30 years she has worked both in Europe and the USA with organizations, communities, groups, families, couples and individuals. In all her work, Dr. Amadora offers a rich banquet of life experience, high-level professional expertise, a deep well of wisdom and great heart to contribute to positive change in people and our world. Nicola is known for her integrity with a fierce, tender love for all beings.

Nicola Amadora, Ph.D. holds University degrees in Transpersonal Psychology (JFK and IPS) and Clinical Social Work (FHS). She is a certified Hakomi Therapist (Hakomi Institute) , certified Dharma Leader (Vipassana Center, Spirit Rock), Mindfulness Teacher (Mindfulness Program Jon Kabat Zinn), Certified Meditation Teacher (Yogananda Center), , Universal Peacedance Leader (Sufi Order), Diplom Horseriding Therapist (Swize Equine Therapy Center), Rev. Interfaith Minister (New York Seminary), Mediator (JFK University), Parent Leader (Parentleadership Institute), Non Violent Communication& Conflict Resolution (NVC Center), Women Wisdom& Empowerment, Leadership and Relationship Trainer (International Education). To learn more visit

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Apr 09, 2019
#100 How to Find Your Kink

What is kink and how do I know if I'm kinky? How do I start to explore my kink, and how do I talk about it with my partner?  

We also answer a sex question: I'm a healthy 42 year old man, married to my beautiful queen, and I have a hard time getting/keeping an erection. Please help.

About our guest: Mike Rozycki has been active in his local kink communities since 2005. In 2018, he and his business partner started JoyMill, a company dedicated to customized kink gear. You can sign up for their mailing list and try their beta experience at Be sure to sign up for the mailing list to get first access to discounts, new products, etc.

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Apr 02, 2019
#99 The Buried Pleasure of the Female Body With Sheri Winston

In this episode we dive deep into female sexual arousal with award-winning author, Wholistic Sexuality teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Why have women’s body parts gone missing in history?   How does female ejaculation happen on a cellular level? What are some tips for female-bodied folks who want to experience more orgasmic abundance? What about partners who want to up their pleasure skills?

We also answer part 2 to last week's sex question about being male-bodied with no/very low libido. 

About Sheri: Sheri Winston is a celebrated sexuality teacher, award-winning author and medical professional. Sheri’s 2010 book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (also available on audible) won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT. Sheri’s 2014 book, the visionary yet practical Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice, offers a detailed road map to supercharging your erotic life and becoming sexually whole and empowered. With its wealth of ideas, practices and games, readers are able to access extraordinary pleasure, overcome challenges and learn to play masterfully with their inner ‘sexcraft’ toolkit. Sheri’s Wholistic Sexuality™ curriculum has over 50 classes covering subjects such as orgasmic abundance for men and women, integral genital anatomy, expanded arousal, sex and relationship skills,  and holistic sexual and women’s reproductive health. Learn more at 

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Mar 26, 2019
#98 The Science of Sexual Fantasy With Dr. Justin Lehmiller

What are the most common fantasies people have? Where do they come from? Why do we have them? And how do I talk to my partner about my fantasies? How can we bring fantasy into real life? 

Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011 and he has published articles in numerous media outlets, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Politico, and New York Magazine. To learn more visit

We also answer a sex question: I’m a straight man engaged to a beautiful woman, but I never crave sex.

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Mar 19, 2019
#97 Role-Play and How to be Dominant in the Bedroom With Midori

What do I do if my partner asks me to do role-play and I'm uncomfortable with being in the spotlight? How does one learn how to do authentic yet sexy role-play? And what about dominance? Can I learn how to tap into my most confident, dominant self (even when I don't feel it in everyday life)?

Join us for this playful yet informative episode with world renown sex educator, Midori. We talk about role-play, dominance, outing the awkward, confidence, making negotiation sexy, and more! 

We also answer a sex question: I feel like I'm the one who is always initiating sex. How do I get my partner to initiate more often? 

About Midori: Dan Savage calls Midori “The Supernova of Kink!” She is an artistic visionary who has touched lives across the globe with her expertise in sexuality, personal fulfillment, and kinky adventures. Using her “head-heart-hands” methodology she facilitates tackling challenging topics and creating space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Her passion is fully on display in her transformative small group intensives, including Rope Dojo ®, ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive, and The Wanted Man intensive with Marcia Baczynski. For more information on her upcoming classes and events, please visit:

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Mar 12, 2019
#96 Sex, Relationships and Chronic Illness (and Pain) With Dr. Lee Phillips

In this episode we chat with Dr. Lee Phillips about chronic illness and chronic pain and how they affect sex and relationships. Dr. Phillips shares tools such as sensate focus, as well as ways partners can support their loved ones with chronic illness. 

We also answer a sex question: Great sex during an affair...should I leave my husband? 

About our guest: Dr. Melvin L. Phillips, Jr., is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a private practice in Washington, DC where he treats chronic illness and sexual dysfunction, as well as the author of the upcoming book Sex and Love When You Are Sick, due to release in late 2019. He is a speaker and has lectured on topics including preventative services, anxiety and stress management, caregiving stress, depression in the elderly, mindfulness and cognitive strategies for chronic pain, ethical decision making, and the assessment of mental disorders. To learn more visit

Mar 05, 2019
#95 Come As You Are Because YES You Are Normal

We are SO excited about this episode. Emily Nagoski AKA one of our idols and author of the groundbreaking book Come As You Are joins us to talk all about female sexuality. We talk vulvas, clits, g-spots, orgasm, and all about how WE ARE ALL "normal”! 

We also answer a sex question from a female-identified listener: Are the homosexual thoughts just in my head or should I leave my heterosexual relationship?

About Emily: Emily Nagoski, Ph.D is the award-winning  author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle. She began her work as a sex educator at the University of Delaware, where volunteered as a peer sex educator while studying psychology with minors in cognitive science and philosophy. She went on to earn a M.S. in Counseling and a Ph.D. in Health Behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies.

Feb 26, 2019
#94 The Invisible Orientation - A Brief Chat on Asexuality

We have received a number of emails about asexuality, so we wanted to take a moment to speak on what is often considered “the invisible orientation”. In this episode we talk about the asexual spectrum, including aromatic and demisexuality. We answer a few questions including whether or not asexuality is real (it MOST CERTAINLY is), the difference between asexuality and low sexual desire, and more. Please note that we are not experts in this department, and we would LOVE to host someone who is, so please send them our way!

Feb 19, 2019
#93 Great Sex, Worthiness & Quality vs. Quantity With Amy's Partner

Amy's partner joins us on this week's episode as we discuss everything from how to have great sex after 5+ years, our opinion on quality vs. quantity (sex), working with worthiness issues, and communication how-to's. Enjoy!

Feb 12, 2019
Special Announcement: Join the Shameless Sex Revolution!

Special announcement about our myth and shame busting campaign on Instagram!

We are running a V-day contest + female sexuality myth and shame busting campaign - inspired by Wednesday Martin 's groundbreaking book UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. Are you ready to join the Shameless Sex Revolution? 
Prizes include complete access to our online Wild Woman Sex workshop, a copy of Untrue by Wednesday Martin, and a GRAND PRIZE of all of the above + a Rabbit Vibrator + full access to OMGyes + bottle of Uberlube + a Solo by Hot Octopus + a 12 Sexy Days kit by Bijoux Indiscrets - a total value of over $1000!
How to enter: 1. Take a selfie like the one above, 2. Either post it on your own Instagram profile with a caption similar to April's vulnerable share at the end of this post (describing this part of you, what it teaches/inspires in you, etc) + tag @shamelesssex in the post, OR send it to us and we will post it on our Instagram while keeping your name/info completely anonymous (we promise!), 3. You will be entered into the raffle! Note: To keep it uniform, please write in black sharpie on white letterhead paper. 
Ideas for what to post should it truly speak to you (but feel free to create your own): 
I’d rather be in the workplace than at home with the baby
I love (and am attracted to) my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) but I don’t (crave/desire) sex with them
I had an affair 

I'm married/in a committed relationship and I fantasize about other men/women 

I have a high libido 

I'm in a relationship (with a man/woman/insert other here) and I also love (desire/crave) sex with women (other men/people)

I choose non-monogamy...and I love it (or Monogamy is not for me)
I like having sex outside of my marriage/partnership
Feeling desired by other (men/women/people) > The same arousing touch from my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) 
I am a woman and I'm not interested in marriage and/or having children 
Join us as we break down the myths and out the diversity of female sexuality!
Feb 09, 2019
#92 Sex and Disabilities

It's myth-busting time! Most folks with disabilities are also sexual beings with arousal and desire, and yet are often treated as asexual and/or invisible in society. Join us as we chat with Lindsey, a body-worker who shares her personal journey with sex and disabilities with lovers, as well as in a professional setting. Plus plenty of info on erectile issues, playing with soft cocks, and more!

Jan 20, 2019
#91 Multiple Orgasms, Ejaculatory Control & Slowing Down With Aaron Alexander

Aaron Alexander of the Align Podcast sits down with Amy to discuss everything from male multiple orgasms, ejaculatory control, childhood wounding, good vs. so-so therapy, tricks for slowing down, and more. 

Aaron Alexander CR, LMT, CPT is an accomplished manual therapist and movement coach with over 13 years of professional experience. He is the founder of the Align Method™, an integrated approach to functional movement and self-care that has helped thousands of people out of pain and into health. He hosts the top-rated Align Podcast featuring the biggest names in movement and wellness. Aaron’s clients include Hollywood celebrities, Olympic/professional athletes and everyone in between. He teaches workshops and speaks at events all over the world. Check out Aaron's offerings at

For the astrology Amy spoke of, visit

Jan 20, 2019
#90 Birth Control and Your Libido With Fertility Friday

The research is in: Hormonal birth control can have a significant affect on your libido. And guess what? There are other SCIENCE-PROVEN non-hormonal options (other than the IUD) out there - whether you are wanting birth control or trying to get pregnant! Tune in to learn more. 

Lisa Hendrickson-Jack is a certified Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. In her new book The Fifth Vital Sign, Lisa debunks the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign. Drawing heavily from the current scientific literature, Lisa presents an evidence-based approach to fertility awareness and menstrual cycle optimization. She hosts the Fertility Friday Podcast, a weekly radio show devoted to helping women connect to their fifth vital sign by uncovering the connection between menstrual cycle health, fertility, and overall health. Learn more at

Jan 19, 2019
#89 Sex Toys, Breakups and Porn With Dr. Emily Morse (Sex With Emily)

Join us as we chat with our dear friend Emily about our top sex toy recommendations and how-to's, as well as porn (is addiction real?), and how to navigate breakups and ex's. This episode is extra special as Emily was the original inspiration for creating our own show! Check out our first episode on Sex With Emily called Orgasms, Squirting, and The Year of Anal Licking here

More about Emily: Dr. Emily Morse is the creator and host of one the top podcasts called Sex With Emily. With a Doctorate if Human Sexuality she has also co-hosted the famed Loveline Radio Show with Dr. Drew Pinsky, and starred in the Bravo TV series, Miss Advised. She’s been named as one of Esquire’s & Stylecaster’s top sex & love podcasters, and voted the #1 dating & sex expert to follow on Twitter. She is an author, masthead contributor to Cosmopolitan Magazine, and creator of her own mobile apps.


Now the longest running sex and relationship podcast, Sex with Emily is downloaded nearly one million times each month and continues to sit at the top of most major charts.  The show is available on multiple platforms including iTunes, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Soundcloud and many more.

Starting November, 2018, Sex with Emily can also be heard Monday-Friday on SiriusXM Stars Channel 109, 8pm-10pm Eastern, 5pm-7pm Pacific. As the ONLY nationally-available sex and relationship advice show on broadcast radio, Sex with Emily is now delivering Emily’s judgment-free insights to millions of listeners across North America. To listen free, Click Here.  

Toy recommendations from the show

Magic Wand

We-Vibe Touch


Hot Octopus





Jan 15, 2019
#88 Beyond Monogamy With Jamie Joy

In an open relationship and want to learn tools to navigate the (sometimes treacherous) waters? Practicing monogamy yet interested in opening things up? And what's the difference between polyamory, monoga-mish, swinging, etc? Tune in as we chat with Jamie Joy, sex educator and non-monogamy expert on all things Beyond Monogamy. 

MONOGAMOUS FOLKS - This episode is for you as well. Most of these tools apply to ALL relationships, so be sure to check it out. 

Jan 08, 2019
#87 Mommy and Daddy Issues

Aloha! This episode was recorded from beautiful Kauai where Amy and April celebrated two of the most important women in the world..their mamas! The duo share shame, daddy issues, New Years resolutions, and more. Enjoy!

Jan 02, 2019
#86 Reclaiming and Reigniting Your Sexual Fire With Ev'Yan Whitney

Ev’Yan Whitney is a sex educator, sex activist, and sexuality doula who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying folks who want to step out of sexual shame and into erotic empowerment. She's the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast and the creator of the wildly successful Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram. You can find out more about Ev'Yan's work at and see her brazenly showing off her sexuality on Instagram @evyan.whitney


Dec 26, 2018
Bonus Episode: Sex and Pelvic Floor Health After Pregnancy With Dr. Sara Tanza

In this quickie episode we interview Dr. Sara Tanza, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist (see episode #31 from previous interview) about sex after pregnancy and some of the common issues women run into - even years after giving birth. 

To learn more about Dr. Tanza visit

In or near the Santa Cruz area? Come to her workshop (co-facilliatated by our very own Amy Baldwin) on January 8th, 2019. To sign up visit the Pure Pleasure Shop Website


Dec 20, 2018
#85 An Insider Look Into the Life of a Humiliatrix

Ceara Lynch has a ten+ year career as a self-described humiliatrix, catering to a wide variety of sexual fetishes over the internet, and gaining exposure to a unique part of the human psyche. Visit her website at, as well as her podcast at to learn more. 

Dec 18, 2018
#84 What Men Wished You Knew About Sucking Cock

Episode #64 titled What Women Wished You Knew About Eating Pussy was one of our top episodes. So naturally we decided to bring back Shaun from the Love Drive Podcast to discuss What Men Wished You Knew About Sucking Cock :)

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit

We also answer this sex question: How can we both relax and not feel this intense pressure for him to get hard? Should we get drunk or something? I can't help but feel unwanted and unattractive :( And I'm sincerely bored of all the foreplay and I don't reallly want to do it anymore. 


Dec 11, 2018
#83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover With Dr. Alison Ash

There is no manual for navigating intimate experiences and too often doubt and confusion limit our capacity to feel pleasure. Do you ever wish you could deepen your intuition when it comes to knowing how to please your lover(s)? Learn how to access your intuition so you can be a more attuned and skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure! 

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and sexual empowerment educator who has been exploring the intricacies of sex and gender for more than a decade. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients radically explore and courageously express themselves.  Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. TurnON pleasure, intimacy at www.TurnON.Love

Dec 04, 2018
#82 The Truth About Women, Lust, and Adultery With Wednesday Martin, Ph.D

Wednesday Martin's newest work of non-fiction, UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free cuts through the junk science and regressive cultural narratives that have shaped our beliefs about female infidelity for centuries, revealing a truth both liberating and disconcerting: women are no more “naturally monogamous” than men; nor are their libidos shrinking violets. Far from it.

Offering insights from thirty experts as well as real women from all walks of life who refuse monogamy, UNTRUE also analyzes cultural shifts from plow agriculture to polyamory; introduces readers to two important "hidden figures" of American sex research; and takes readers on an immersive, fascinating journey—from the bonobo enclosure at the San Diego Zoo to an exclusive all-female sex party in Manhattan where most of the revelers identify as heterosexual. UNTRUE asserts that monogamy is a tighter fit for the fairer sex; that females of many species evolved to be “promiscuous”; and that female sexual autonomy may be the most meaningful metric of gender equality. Rich with game-changing data and polemical writing, it promises to take us far out of our comfort zone, and may change the way you think about women and sex forever.

Wednesday Martin, Ph.D is a writer and feminist cultural critic. She is the author of seven books including instant #1 New York Times bestseller Primates of Park Avenue and UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. She has written for publications including New York Times, The Atlantic, and the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy. She has appeared on Good Morning America, The Today Show, CNN, the BBC, NPR, and more to discuss her work on gender, motherhood, female sexuality, and popular culture. To learn more visit

Nov 27, 2018
#81 Orgasms - How to Come Better, Harder and Longer With Susan Bratton

In this episode we dive deep into the the world of orgasms with Susan Bratton, “trusted hot sex advisor to millions”. Topics include top tips for better orgasms, hot sex in long term relationships, as well as Susan’s 14-year Expanded Orgasm/Orgasmic Meditation Practice.

We also answer a sex question: I’m 23, sexually active, and never had an orgasm.

Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships. Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.” She has authored 20 books including her International #1 Amazon best-seller, Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex, and she has created and published numerous online courses including her wildly popular Revive Her Drive and Steamy Sex Ed® DVD Collection, as well as programs such as: Seduction Trilogy, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, The Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, Female Liquid Orgasm, and Keep Her Coming. To learn more visit



Nov 20, 2018
#80 G-Spots, Squirting, and Vulva Mapping With Stella Harris

In this episode Amy chats with sex educator, coach and author Stella Harris about the G-spot, female ejaculation AKA squirting, and vulva mapping.

Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Check out her latest book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, as well as her website at

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Nov 13, 2018
#79 The Power of the Pole Dance With Ellice Apostolos

Ellice Apostolos - owner of Santa Cruz's premier pole dancing studio, Steel and Grace - is back to talk about the art of the erotic dance, and how we can apply it to sexy time with our lovers. This interview was recorded immediately after April and Amy took an advanced S-Factor class, so not only are they all charged up from the sensual practice, but they also get testimonials from a few participants, including Badass Boss Mentor Meghan (see info below). 

About Ellice: 

Ellice Apostolos empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world in​ her​ fully expressed radiance. As a certified​ S Factor instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm and experience the success of a lasting and sustainable business. 

Ellice holds a degree in Theatre and Dance with an emphasis on performing arts from UC Santa Cruz. With an extensive background in dance and choreography Ellice has been performing for close to twenty year in the Santa Cruz area. She has choreographed and directed original pieces for Santa Cruz's annual What is Erotic? the past three years. This community sourced performance provides locals with or without a performance background a mentorship opportunity for discovering what is erotic to them and honing their performance skills to share their message with the community. One of Ellice's greatest delights is to support others to discover how they want to tell their story through their body, whether they want to perfect that for the stage or develop a personal practice for authentic expression. With years of exploration in the area of somatic healing and authentic expression she is excited to be specializing in the area of sensual movement for women now. In her S Factor classes, Ellice invites every woman to drop into her body's truth, eradicating shame and self judgement so she can unearth her pleasure, confidence and full emotional expression through dance. As a Board certified Holistic Nutrition Consultant Ellice adds a layer of body love and self-care through private and group nutrition education, guiding women to have a healthy thriving body so they can show up fully for all areas of their life.

As owner of Steel and Grace, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Whether you want to pole dance, learn a fun wall routine, discover your flow with floor work, unearth your sexy, learn a lap dance or add a strip tease to your play, Ellice is excited to dance with you! Learn more at

To learn about Meghan, visit



Nov 06, 2018
#78 Healing Sex and Positions of Power

In this episode April and Amy expose some of their own shame and sex/relationship struggles, followed by a discussion about consent and the dangers of positions of power - specifically in the Tantra community. 

Oct 30, 2018
#77 Fetish, Kink, and Porn with Educator and Performer Rain DeGrey

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model and Pro Domme, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear and humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style and she believes strongly in making sex education fun.

She has taught on a wide variety of topics at Harvard University, Northwestern University,, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Pure Pleasure, Stormy Leather, Folsom Fringe, The Looking Glass, KinkAcadamy, PassionateU, Mission Control, Pink Bunny, and Boundcon in Germany.

Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey.

Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients.

For information on the classes she teaches click HERE, or CONTACT HER for information about any of her services. For Rain's online Intermediate Rope Bondage Class click here

Oct 23, 2018
#76 Great Sex and Relationships After Trauma With Terah Harrison, LPC

In this touching episode Terah Harrison, LPC, shares her trauma story for the first time on air, alongside tips and tools for finding great sex and deep connection in the aftermath. Thank you, Terah, for speaking up and sharing your vulnerability with us.

Also, we answer a sex question about pegging (when a female-bodied individual tops/penetrates a male-bodied individual via a strap-on).

About Terah: Terah Harrison is a Licensed Professional Counselor and hosts the podcast Make More Love Not War which has a clear mission of helping people have more sex and less fighting.  She discovered the need for her podcast as she saw male clients at her private practice in Fort Worth Texas, who were struggling to understand their female partners.  Most of these men were striving to be better partners but their strategies to achieve this only made things worse.  Many times a simple change would improve their relationships dramatically.   

With this amazing information that would benefit men and the women they love in hand Terah wanted to reach more men but how without bending space time?  In her personal life she wanted her husband, Jeff, to go to couples therapy but alas, he would not. If a therapist’s husband won’t go to therapy how many other men are missing out on the knowledge that would get them more sex?  She noticed Jeff listening to podcasts every day and talking about what he learned from them.   The solution hit her like a bolt of lightning – create a podcast that will bring therapy to the men who for whatever reason don’t go.

Since Terah started the podcast she has been able to interview some amazing experts in love and relationships- authors, professors, therapists, and coaches.  She has also created a series that gives men a back stage pass into a woman’s mind called Whine With Wine and another series that highlights power couples as well as couples in conflict.

Terah’s podcast may be directed towards men but her EVIL Plan is really to help women have more connected relationships with men where they feel heard and understood in a way that leads to MORE SEX and LESS FIGHTING for all!!! To learn more visit

Oct 16, 2018
#75 Sex Questions: Blowjobs, Golden Showers, Clit Pumps, and More!

In this episode we answer YOUR sex questions alongside friend and guest Kristen from the high-end German sex toy company Fun Factory. 

Why are some peoples turned on by golden showers? 

What's the deal with clit pumps?

Is a blowjob really a blowjob without swallowing? 

How do I slow down during sex?

Why do I feel empty after sleeping with a lot of people?

How do I navigate (conversations about) period sex?


Our online video series

Fun Cups mentraul cups

Miss Bi by Fun Factory

Lube special at Pure Pleasure: use code OCTLUBE18 for 20% off*

Oct 09, 2018
#74 Interview With A Straight Male Escort

Join is for this fun interview with a high-end straight male escort. What is the difference between an escort and a Gigolo? Is Gigolo still PC? What does a day in the life of a high-end escort look like? How does one become a Gigolo? 

About our guest: Anthony Asanti is a Washington, DC-based Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual & professional companionship full-time to women only. A Sensual Warrior who's the world's first and only Straight Male Companion catering exclusively to women certified in Bondassage and providing it exclusively to women. To learn more visit

Also be be sure to check out:

Our online Erotic Empowerment video series

Sex Ed For Parents:

Pure Pleasure (use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off all sex toys):

Margins Wine (our FAV raw wine!):



Oct 02, 2018
#73 Slutty Girl Problems at the Sex Expo

Recorded on stage during Brooklyn's Sex Expo, we chat with Lorrae from Slutty Girl Problems. We apologize if it sounds like we were yelling; we were right next to the Sybian sex machine, so it was a bit loud :)

Slutty Girl Problems is for the self-identified women who embrace this empowered lifestyle. They offer a sex-positive, feminist, judgement-free zone with daily content to entertain, educate, and empower women around in all aspects of their lives.

What is a slut, you might ask? A slut is empowered in her sexuality. She is confident, in control, and doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself, and makes choices that are right for her.

Many people use the term “slut” to break women down and shame them for their natural sexuality. The folks at Slutty Girl Problems boldly reclaim this derogatory word as an empowering, sex-positive term – free from society’s shame and judgement.

Being a slut isn’t about sleeping with everyone, or anyone at all. It’s about having the choice to express your sexuality however you want to, and being empowered to act on it if you choose.

Slutty Girl Problems believes that all safe, sane, consensual sexual choices should be not only respected, but celebrated as a natural, pleasurable part of life. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Your pleasure is important, and sexuality does not determine your morality or worth.


Sep 25, 2018
Bonus Episode - The Pioneers of Sex Toys on Live TV

Join us for a quickie interview with Kimberly from Evine - a live home shopping network based out of Minneapolis. Kimberly and the people at Evine are some of the first people to promote sex toys on live television in the US. 

Sep 23, 2018
#72 Threesome Stories and Tips

In this episode April and Amy share their personal stories about their threesome (and sometimes foursome+) adventures. Also, a few tips on how to navigate threesomes with more grace and ease. 

Also, a sex question about how to find that third person (AKA unicorn) when introducing threesomes in a marriage. 

Sep 18, 2018
#71 Edges Vs. Boundaries With Melissa Fritchle, LMFT

Why is it important to understand edges vs boundaries? How can they lead to hotter, more exciting sex?

Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Sex therapist, a certified clinical trauma professional, a certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, and the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook. She currently runs a private practice in Santa Cruz, and will soon offer online courses. Learn more at

Also, a sex question: my partner takes too long to orgasm, and my body gets tired during sex. What can we do to help him orgasm faster? 


Sep 11, 2018
#70 Sacred Soulmates: How to Find Them & How to Flourish - Recorded at Burning Man

Recorded from an RV (don't mind the hum of the air-conditioning in the background) at this past week's Burning Man, Amy discusses the idea of soulmates with Lisa Nicks-Balthasar and Chris Balthasar - “Soul Purpose Success” coaches, best friends, lovers, mirror soulmates, and husband and wife. Lisa and Chris walk their talk, living fully in a deep loving “Sacred Soulmates” relationship after losing their beloved first soulmates to death and divorce. 

To learn more about their offerings, visit

Also listen to Chris' past episode, #43 BEmpowered, as well as Lisa's episode, #45 Heart Of Manifestation 

Sep 05, 2018
#69 Squirting AKA Female Ejaculation

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures. 

Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships. 

Aug 25, 2018
#68 Men, Authenticity and Sex & Relationships

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them.

Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship 

Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

Aug 21, 2018
#67 Dating Protocol With Dr. Hernando Chavez

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

Aug 14, 2018
#66 Sex Talk With Historian Daniele Bolelli

Is sex work really the oldest profession? How has sexual shame shaped modern day culture from a historical perspective? And where did the term blowjob come from? Tune in for more. Plus enjoy Daniele's sexy Italian accent :)

Daniele Bolelli is a writer, martial artist, university professor, and podcaster. He was born in Italy and currently lives in Los Angeles. Check out his podcasts, The Drunken Taoist and History On Fire, or visit his website:


Aug 07, 2018
#65 Sex and Religion With Andrew Jasko

Andrew was raised as the son of a minister in a Pentecostal Christian Church in New Jersey. Andrew studied Bible at the Evangelical Christian Wheaton College and obtained his Master of Divinity from Princeton Seminary. While religion was his life's passion, Andrew suffered greatly from anxiety, depression, and guilt about his sexuality. After a slow and painful process, Andrew awakened to a new spiritual experience through secular humanism, meditation, psychedelics, and sexuality. Andrew offers workshops, writings, support, and coaching that can be found at

Jul 31, 2018
#64 What Women Wished You Knew About Eating Pussy

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit

Jul 24, 2018
#63 Tantra and Ganja Yoga With Dee Dussault

Tantra is a form of yoga designed to enhance one’s experience of being alive. It’s a holistic spiritual system that connects the sexual and spiritual aspects of one’s self for integration, healing, joy, and power. Dee’s classes and sessions do not have an overt gsexual focus, though we talk about how these practices improve sex, along with all aspects of life. Dee says she helps people find their bliss through relaxation, mindfulness, and sensuality. Her clients know her for being playful and accepting, and deeply-spiritual while solidly down to earth.

Dee Dussault is a sexuality coach, Yoga Alliance-certified yoga teacher, and the creator of Ganja Yoga, with a Harpercollins book by the same name. Since 2009, she's taught easy partner yoga, vanilla tantra, and Ganja Yoga to thousands of people across the US, Canada, and Europe. 

Dee has over a decade of research and study, with an honors degree in Sexuality Studies, and an additional Sexuality Certificate, with a focus on women's sexuality. She loves inspiring others to tap into their radiant embodied selves. Her yoga training was with Ananda Shakti of Sananda Yoga in Toronto, in the Tantric tradition of Swami Satyananda Saraswati of Bihar, India.

To learn more visit or

Jul 17, 2018
#62 Sex and Pregnancy With Ashley Shakti

Ashley is a mother, doula, apprentice midwife and sex coach who has been helping to guide women through the transformation from maiden to mother since she became a mother in 2013. She is a tantrika who loves coaching women into their own sensual sovereignty through the path of pleasure, and is passionate about helping women reclaim their pelvic floor and core strength postpartum. You can find out more information about coaching with Ashley, taking a workshop or reading more about her work on her website at 

Jul 10, 2018
#61 Is There Such Thing As TOO Much Orgasm?

Is sex addiction real? How I navigate a new poly relationship? Can orgasms be too frequent and too strong? And how do I orgasm with my partner? Amy answers YOUR sex questions. Enjoy!

And don't forget to checkout: - Use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off sex toys - Delicious, raw/organic wine

Jun 30, 2018
#60 Free the Nip With Lingerie Model Kimberly K

Kimberly K has traveled both domestically and abroad to some of the most remote locations and exclusive parties, modeling for audiences with widely diverse sexual tastes. As she's met friends in all sorts of walks of life, they've peaked her desires to explore her own limits. Her new website is a photo and video journal as she explores what turns her on and the power of sex in our society. 

Jun 26, 2018
#59 Bonus Episode - The Mom Episode

April's mom came for a visit, so we decided to get both of our beloved mothers together to talk guessed! 

Jun 22, 2018
#58 Bondassage With Jaeleen Bennis

Bondassage is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your sensual repertoire. It’s a lovely way to rekindle the passion and desire in your relationship. You’ll become more sensitive and adventurous with each other as you reach new levels of intimacy and sensuality.

Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises.

About Jaeleen: Jaeleen Bennis Is a Sensual Domina, a professional bodyworker, the creator and founder of Bondassage®, and co-author of ‘Bondassage®: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers’. To learn more visit

Click here for 50% off of their online courses

Jun 19, 2018
#57 Sex Trafficking With Robin Rivera

Robin Rivera is a a wild woman warrior and feminine leadership coach working with women on a mission, as well as youth empowerment for prevention education on sex trafficking. Robin is passionate about transforming trauma into freedom, sharing her story of resilience, radical transformation, and overcoming sexual trauma and sexual exploitation from a survivor's perspective. To learn more, visit

Jun 12, 2018
#56 Food & Sex With Melissa Velasco

How does food affect our sexuality? Are aphrodisiacs real, and if so, what should I be eating?

Melissa Roberts specialized in a corporate sales consultant position of sexual health and wellness products for over 10 years. After reaching a breakthrough in her own personal sexual health struggles, it became her passion to empower individuals to heal their bodies by themselves, lead healthy lifestyles, hold lasting positive relationships, and ultimately achieve total mind, body, and spirit balance through self-love, appreciation, and care. Melissa studied at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in NY where she acquired her Certification as a Holistic Health and Wellness Coach. Now as an entrepreneur Melissa is committed to serving her community through her private practice HoneyBeeHealing Holistic Wellness & Health Coach Services. Melissa is passionate about loving and supporting her family, personal development, as well as constantly educating and spreading awareness around the principles to achieve health and happiness. Learn more + mention Shameless Sex for 10% off of her Happy Health Package at 

Jun 06, 2018
#55 Tantra Basics

We've had a few requests for more on Tantra, and while we have an awesome guest speaker or two who specializes on the subjest lined up to guest on our show, we decided to record a quickie on Tantra basics to hold you over. Enjoy!


Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas

Amy's online Tantra class

May 29, 2018
#54 Creative Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life

In this episode we discuss some creative ways to spice up your sex life. In fact, we take it one step further beyond "kiss here" and 'touch there" - to a place of deeper yet playful connection. Enjoy! Oh, and feel free to send us your favorite tips on how YOU prefer to spice up your own sex life. 


The Body Keeps the Score 

Juicebox - use code SHAMELESS for 60% off

Gabor Mate


May 22, 2018
#53 Negotiating Sex In Relationships

How do we negotiate sex in relationships? What if I want to have sex more often than my partner (or vise versa)? How do we meet each other's needs? Also, more on Attachment Theory!




Mating In Captivity 


Esther Perel TED talks 

Juicebox sex coaching app (use code SHAMELESS for 60% off)

May 17, 2018
#52 Juicebox and Low Libido Tips

We get 2-3 sex questions/day, AND WE LOVE IT! The only thing is it often takes us one month + to answer them on the air/Shameless Sex's FaceBook Live. Enter Juicebox, a quick, easy, and affordable sex and relationship when you need it. And guess what? We are now on the app as well. Tune in to learn more. We also share some creative ways to work with low libido.

About Juicebox: Juicebox is an iPhone app that pairs you with professional sex and relationship coaches from a network of certified and vetted experts. With an easy (and anonymous) messaging platform and scalable technology, Juicebox is making sex and relationship coaching affordable and accessible to everyone. Use code SHAMELESS for 60% off your first week!

Product References:


Magic Wand

Atom Cock Ring

Use code SHAMLESSPP at for 15% off


May 08, 2018
#51 Anal 101 - Round 2

This episode is a redo of episode #10 to make up for the terrible sound quality (as well as blank audio on some of the apps). Plus April is no longer an anal virgin, so we have some new ideas and stories to share. So tune in to learn how to have awesome anal! For sex toy references, visit Use coupon code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off. 

May 01, 2018
#50 Quickies

If you've tuned in before, you know that we are huge fans of taking our time in the bedroom. So how do quickies apply? How can we have great, pleasurable, connected sex when time is limited? Tune in to learn more. 

Apr 24, 2018
#49 S Factor®: Erotic Movement (and Pole Dancing!) With Ellice Apostolos

Ellice empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world i he fully expressed radiance. As a certifie S Factor® instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work day so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm as a business owner. As co-owner of Steel and Grace, Santa Cruz California's premier pole studio, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Find out more at and

About S Factor®: S Factor® is a sensual movement practice and a way of life. This is a practice that heals our relationship with our erotic body. Through this work we turn on the brilliant feminine essence that exists in all of us. We celebrate it. We revel in it. And as we see it in ourselves and each other, we bring that light to every relationship we have.

For Ellice's online programs, click here

For Amy's upcoming Tantra In Motion workshop, click here

Apr 17, 2018
#48 Bonus Episode: Sex, Drugs, and More Sex With Conner Moore

In this bonus episode we cover everything from blowjobs, the #metoo movement, what consensual means, how to keep judgment out of your sex life, and much more. 

Conner Moore is the host of The Realness Podcast (available on iTunes, Google Play, etc), as well as a strength and conditioning and Lifestyle Design Coach. Learn more here:

Show Book References:

"Mating In Captivity" by Ester Perel

"The State of Affairs" by Ester Perel

"Sex at Dawn" by Chris Ryan

"A Billion Wicked Thoughts" by Sal Goddam and Ogi Ogas

Apr 13, 2018
#47 Taoist Sex With Willow Brown, LAc.

Taoist Sex...what does it mean? How is it different from Tantra? What about the Divine Masculine and Feminine? 

Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality.

Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential.                        

Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to  experience pleasure in ALL that they do.  To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit

Apr 10, 2018
#46 Relationship Lab: The Five Love Languages

Join us as we chat about the five love languages - touch, quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, gifts - and how our understanding of them can help to deepen connection relationships. 

Also, an interview with our newest favorite woman-owned and operated wine maker from

Apr 03, 2018
#45 Heart Of Manifestation and Sacred Sexuality

Cher Slater-Barlevi, M.A. is an Artist, Spiritual Councilor, Amazon three-time best selling author, titled Dog of God: A Wild Romp Through Magical Worlds. Lisa Nicks-Balthasar is an inspirational speaker, writer, and Divine Manifestress. Lisa is the author of Believe! - an inspirational memoir through loss, grief, love and life.

Together Cher and Lisa created Heart of Manifestation, offering retreats and workshops in Ojai, CA, as well as other parts of the world.

To learn more about their offerings, visit

Upcoming retreat dates:

June 8-10th, 2018 in Ojai

November 7-11th, 2018 in Mexico

Mention “Shameless Sex Podcast” and receive $150 off one of their upcoming retreats.

Mar 27, 2018
#44 Sexual Mastery: Pussies, Vulvas, Yonis

In this episode we discuss how to up your pussy game. Whether you are a vulva admirer and want to learn how to be a better giver, or perhaps you are a vulva owner and want to enhance your own orgasmic experiences, we have something for you! Topics include arousal non-concordance (via our favorite book Come As You Are), spontaneous vs responsive desire, the "pussy hug" and touch techniques, kegels, ways to enhance your orgasm, and more!

Mar 20, 2018
#43 BEmpowered™ - Jiu Jitsu For Self-Defense

Chris Balthasar, J.D., (A.K.A. “Badass Buddha”) is a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu black belt and former Pan American Champion. Inspired by the #MeToo movement, he created BEmpowered - a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu self-defense immersion course that empowers smaller people against much larger, stronger opponents. And guess what? BJJ skills can be used for sexy time in the bedroom, too! To learn more, contact Chris at or visit

Mar 13, 2018
#42 MeToo: Sexual Assault, Trauma and Consent With Jimanekia Eborn

Jimanekia Eborn is a Sex Educator, as well as director of Education at More Than No. Her work in the mental health field for 10+ years revealed a need for more sexual education and sexual trauma support. Also, being a survivor inspired her passion for assisting and supporting those that are sexual assault survivors and/or without access to comprehensive sex education. Learn more about her offerings at

Mar 06, 2018
#41 Bonus Episode: YOUR Sex Questions!

Join us in this bonus episode as we answer YOUR sex questions! My partner doesn't like going down on me, what do I do? My penis doesn't get as hard as it used to, what are my options? Plus more! 

Mar 02, 2018
#40 Sexual Mastery: Cocks, Penises, Dicks

Join us as we discuss sexual mastery techniques for penises, including hand jobs, erotic massage, ejaculatory control, erections, masturbation practices, and more. This episode is for both penis owners and admirers :) 

Feb 27, 2018
#39 Girl Sex & How To Drive A Vulva With Allison Moon

Allison is the author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada.

Intro includes outing struggles with desire, as well as April's first time with anal sex. To skip to Allison Moon's part, skip to minute 32. 

For Allison Moon's Girl Sex 101, click here

For Bad Dyke, click here

For Diane Poole Heller's audio book, Healing Your Attachment Wounds, click here



Feb 20, 2018
#38 CannaSexual: Cannabis and Sex With Ashley Manta

Join is as we learn about cannabis-enhanced sexuality with CannaSexual® SexPert, Ashley Manta. Also, an important public service announcement about STD's/STI's - specifically herpes. 

Ashley Manta is a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. As a professional sex educator, writercoach, and facilitator, Ashley helps people navigate these topics to make sure they are interacting, loving, and feeling their best in and out of the bedroom. Check out her most recent endeavor, episode 3 of SlutEver on Viceland TV. Learn more at

Feb 13, 2018
#37 Bonus Episode - Let's Talk About Sex With Kyle Thiermann

Tune in for this week's bonus episode on desire, infidelity, the importance of play and ways to spice up monogamy with friend and fellow podcaster Kyle Thiermann. 

Kyle is a profesional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. 

To learn more about Kyle and his podcast, visit

Feb 10, 2018
#36 Breath Orgasm With Maurizio Alvarez

Did you know that we can breath ourselves into orgasm? Yes, it's a real thing! Tune in to learn more!

About our speaker: Maurizio Alvarez has been involved in the field of personal development for 10+ years. His training began in Martial Arts, and the philosophy of Bushido, the Warrior Way. Since then he has studied a variety of healing philosophies and techniques such as Yoga, Qi Gong, Meditation, Energy Work, Sexuality, and Massage. He has combined aspects of these various systems into an approach that works with the Physical, Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, and Sexual aspects of being human. His work now is to help empower individuals in each of these 5 arenas to lead a balanced and healthy life.

Check out his upcoming class at Pure Pleasure Shop

And here's the Amazon link we talk about:

Also note that the coupon code for Pure Pleasure Shop is SHAMELESSPP (not shamelesssexpp) in all caps.

And lastly, a link to Barbara Carrellas' Urban Tantra

Also available on Amazon by clicking here

Feb 06, 2018
#35 Relationship Lab: Attachment Theory With Philippe Lewis

Why do some of us want to push our partners away, while others seem more inclined to grasp and pull? And how come some people are so good at standing their ground when things get tough? Join us as we learn about Attachment Theory and how we can apply these tools to relationships. 

Philippe Lewis is a Love Coach, Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, Somatica Practitioner, Somatic Sensual/Sexual Healer, and epic event producer with ALive! Events and Ritual Magic Events. Philippe has also helped produce a number of West Coast Festivals such as the Hawaii Tantra FestivalEnchanted Forest, Ecstatic Festival, and also taught intimacy, relationships, sensuality and sexuality at Lucidity Festival, Envision Festival, Lightning in a Bottle and many more. Learn more at

Why do some of us want to push our partners away, while others seem more inclined to grasp and pull? And how come some people are so good at standing their ground when things get tough? Join us as we learn about Attachment Theory and how we can apply these tools to relationships. 

Philippe Lewis is a Love Coach, Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, Somatica Practitioner, Somatic Sensual/Sexual Healer, and epic event producer with ALive! Events and Ritual Magic Events. Philippe has also helped produce a number of West Coast Festivals such as the Hawaii Tantra FestivalEnchanted Forest, Ecstatic Festival, and also taught intimacy, relationships, sensuality and sexuality at Lucidity Festival, Envision Festival, Lightning in a Bottle and many more. Learn more at


Attached (Amy recommends this to all of her clients)

Hold Me Tight

The Game

The Truth


Jan 30, 2018
#34 Relationship Lab: Empowered Loving With Shems Heartwell

Shems is a widely sought after guide and facilitator who specializes in personal and relational empowerment. His work goes to the core of what is needed for embodied transformation by integrating the physical, mental, sexual, emotional, and spiritual.

Over the past 15 years, he has mentored with some of the most influential teachers in the fields of conscious relationship, coaching, leadership, healing, and transformation. He blends his experience and knowledge into highly effective work that is the leading edge of the human potential movement.

To learn more and/or to book your free introductory session, visit:

Jan 23, 2018
#33 Non-Monogamy With Celeste Hirschman Of Somatica

Note: This episode is for everyone. Even if you aren't interested in non-monogamy, Celeste's relationship and communication expertise may still be insightful to you. 

Part 1 of this podcast features sex questions and other Shameless info. Want to go right to the interview with Celeste? Skip to minute 21. 

About Celeste: Sex Expert Celeste Hirschman (, along with her business partner Danielle Harel, has worked with thousands of clients helping them realize their full sexual and emotional potential. She is the co-author of Making Love Real: The Intelligent Couple's Guide to Lasting Intimacy and Passion. Celeste & Danielle also co-created the experiential and cutting edge Somatica Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching. Celeste practices open relationship and helps couples make decisions around open relationships, polyamory, and monogamy.

Sign up for the FREE Somatica intro session here:

Other references: Opening Up by Tristan Taormino 

Jan 16, 2018
#32 Masturbation, How To Be An Authentic Lover, & Sex At Dawn With Dr. Chris Ryan

Dr. Christopher Ryan is co-author of the New York Times best-seller, Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships (translated into 15 languages), alongside his partner-in-crime (and wife), Cacilda Jethá, MD. Drawing upon his multi-cultural experience, Chris' research focused on distinguishing the human from the cultural, first by focusing on shamanism and ethnobotony—studying how various societies interact with altered states of consciousness and the sacred plants that provoke them—and later, by looking at similarly diverse cultural perspectives on sexuality. His doctoral dissertation was a multi-disciplinary investigation of prehistoric human sexual behavior, guided by the world-renowned psychologist, Stanley Krippner, at Saybrook Graduate School, in San Francisco, CA.

Chris is finishing a new book for Simon and Schuster tentatively called Civilized to Death: Why Everything's Amazing but Nobody's Happy, —and he puts out a weekly podcast, called Tangentially Speaking, featuring conversations with interesting people, ranging from famous comics to bank robbers to drug smugglers to porn stars to authors to plasma physicists. Visit for more. 

Jan 09, 2018
#31 Pelvic Floor Heath For EVERYONE With Dr. Sara Tanza

Wow, this episode BLEW our minds! We've always heard about kegels for a stronger pelvic floor, but in this episode Pelvic Floor Specialist Dr. Sara Tanza teaches us about the different structures of the pelvic floor, and the myth behind tightness. 

This episode is for everyone with a pelvic floor, AKA folks of all sexes and genders. Prepare to have your mind blown!

Dr. Sara Tanza received her Bachelor of Science in Bio-Psychology from UC Santa Barbara and her Doctorate in Physical Therapy from UC San Francisco in 2011. After completing a year-long residency in Proprioceptive Neuromuscular Facilitation (PNF) at Kaiser Vallejo, she specialized in the care of patients with spinal cord injury, stroke, brain injury and other neurological conditions on their acute neurological rehabilitation unit.

Dr. Tanza is a Certified Functional Manual Therapist and utilizes this approach, PNF and other approaches during her treatments. She firmly agrees with PNF founder Maggie Knott when she says “every human being has unlimited, untapped potential.” Dr. Tanza is also a pelvic floor specialist and has received special training to integrate her many therapy skills into pelvic floor therapy treatments. 

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Jan 02, 2018
#30 The Fifth Vital Sign With Erin Fisher

All women , at all ages, experience a variety of uncomfortable physical and emotional sensations in their body throughout their monthly cycle and throughout her phases of life as a woman. Some, and often many, of these experiences in the body make it quite difficult to function in their outer and inner landscape and world. Unfortunately, our culture see these sensations as symptoms of a "syndrome." We have been taught to deal the with pain, suppress challenging emotions, move on, and keep being an outward participant in society. A container, ritual, or rite of passage for women to align with their natural cycles has sadly been replaced with a pill that "normalizes" our cycles to what fits in a linear, masculine society.

Becoming in partnership with your body and re-learning to be deeply in tune with our feminine rhythm and cycles , can unlock more energy, grace, creativity, desire, and wisdom , which is waiting to be uncoiled.  Through knowledge about what is exactly going on with your cycle and hormones, detailed protocols , designed specifically for your feminine bio-individuality, and a greater awareness and knowledge on how to tap into your wisdom and feminine blueprint of your feminine cycles, I have confidence you will have the keys to unlock these doors of your wellness and your wisdom.

Erin Fisher is a Certified Holistic Nutritional Consultant and Women's Health Coach. Learn more at

Dec 26, 2017
#29 Relationship Lab: Radical Honesty With Cory Caprista

Cory Caprista is Human Performance Coach, as well as a trained Somatica Practitioner. In his diverse work with startup founders, executives, individuals, organizations, couples, and young adults he focuses on measurable, transformative results while leading with infectious passion, energy and sense of humor. To learn more visit

Dec 19, 2017
#28 The Fertility Awareness Method with Fertility Friday

Attention female-bodied folks!

Trying not to get pregnant? Did you know that your body has it's own built-in science for FREE non-hormonal birth control? 

Or perhaps you are trying to conceive, and in that case, did you know that your body offers the same brilliant wisdom to up the odds? 

Join us along with our fabulous guest, Lisa from the Fertility Friday podcast, as we learn about the non-hormonal method that few people are talking about.

About Lisa: Lisa is a certified Fertility Awareness Educator, a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner, and the creator of the Fertility Friday blog and podcast. Learn more about Lisa at



Dec 12, 2017
#27 YOUR Sex Questions Answered (plus a few tangents)

We love our fans! AND we love when you send us sex and relationship questions! In this episode we answer a number of your inquiries including: confidence and rejection in the dating world; ways to initiate sex for non-dominant people; casual sex and relationships in the workplace; rebuilding trust after deceit and cheating;piercings and stretching of orifices, and more! 

Dec 05, 2017
#26 Relationships - Speaking The Inarguable Truth

In this episode we discuss new tools for better communication when conveying our hurt in relationships. Friends, lovers, co-workers - these tools apply to anyone we desire to stay in connection with. We also answer one of your sex questions about non-monogamy and polyamory. 

Nov 28, 2017
#25 Psychadellics, Relationships, and Squatty Potties - With Kyle Thiermann

This podcast is a little different from the rest as we interview Kyle Thiermann - friend and creator of the The Kyle Thiermann Show/podcast. 

Kyle is a profesional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. 

To learn more about Kyle and his podcast, visit

Nov 14, 2017
#24 Sacred Sexuality With StellaMuse

Elise Carr, M.A. is the woman behind StellaMuse.  

Known as the ‘Pioneer of Yoni-Heart-Mind Power’, Elise mentors, councils and advises folks on a journey of Awakening from Within through Sacred Guidance, Sacred Sexuality, Spirituality & Soul. 

With unwavering enthusiasm, fierce dedication and spirited insight, she guides inspirational and aspirational souls on a purpose driven, joy filled mission away from fear, dissatisfaction and illusion, and into courageous love and mental clarity; guiding them to a live life as their most authentic, nourished and unique selves.  

Elise is also a student of the Mysteries and a certified Holistic Life/Health Coach, Tantra practitioner and Reiki Master, as well as a Writer, Speaker, Model and Artist.  

To learn more, visit

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Nov 07, 2017
#23 Sex Questions From Amsterdam - Part 2

MORE of YOUR sex questions answered from Amsterdam

Oct 31, 2017
#22 Sex Politics From Amsterdam

Join us as we talk sex politics and answer your sex questions from Amsterdam. Topics include: sex work, consent and the #metoo campaign, kegels and kegel balls, and more! 

For kegel balls and some of our favorite toys visit use coupon code SHAMELESSPP at 

Oct 24, 2017
#21 The Lube Chemist & The Professional Wanker

We are coming in hot...from Germany! And because we are at another sex toy convention, we decided it was the perfect opportunity to interview the owners of our favorite sex toy brands about their product and how one becomes inspired to start a sex toy company. 

Oct 17, 2017
#20 Queer and Trans Sex with Jamie Joy

Jamie Joy is a colorful whirlwind of ideas and radiant optimism. Transplanted from Philly, Jamie is a passionate advocate for queer communities and a dedicated activist and educator. Since moving to California, they have gotten involved with various organizations in Santa Cruz County focusing on visibility, justice, and sexual health. Jamie is trained and certified through SFSI (San Francisco Sex Information), and is also an educator and sales associate at Pure Pleasure. 

For Jamie's upcoming workshop at Pure Pleasure Shop visit:

Oct 10, 2017
#19 Men: The Divine Masculine and How to Be a GREAT Lover

Well this was a fun one! In this episode featuring Tantric healer, Alika Medeiros, we discuss men's sexuality - specifically how men can tap into their hearts and power center as a means of showing up as a GREAT lover. Oh, and did we mention he's also really really ridiculously good looking? :) 

About Alika: Alika is a shaman specialized in sexual healing and somatic therapy. He is also a yogi and relationship coach. Alika has studied multiple disciplines such as: Hakomi, Bodynamics, Kriya yoga, Chi gong, Wing Chang, body work and Tantra. He is devoted to the empowerment of men and women, and teaches workshops on Erotic Aliveness, with his partner Jayya. These courses are experiential and challenging, as well as supportive.

For Alika's upcoming workshop at Pure Pleasure Shop, visit:

Oct 03, 2017
#18 Kink 101

What is kink? What is BDSM? How can you spice up your sex life through different modalities such as sensation play and power play - both safely and with clear communication? Join us as we discuss all that and much more in this fun and sexy podcast - kink for beginners. Intermediate players - don't worry, we promise to bring in guest speakers for more advanced topics in future shows :)

Sep 26, 2017
#17 How to Keep the Fire Burning in Relationships

Most humans love the safety of long term relationships, and yet it is often that same safety and consistent familiarity that often kills desire - especially if you are in it for the long haul. So what do we do? How to we align and build strong long term relationships while keeping the fire burning? 

Sep 19, 2017
#16 Let's Talk About Sex With Gina Lepore and Valarie Moselle
Remember your first conversation about sex as a young person? Did it go something like, Don’t do it or you will get pregnant, Wait until marriage, or perhaps a mention of the birds and the bees?
What if you had received a more comprehensive education about sex as you moved through adolescence? How would your sexual journey have unfolded had you been given the tools to explore your sexuality free of shame and with the support of your most trusted educators - your parents?
In this episode Gina and Amy talk about their upcoming workshop, Let's Talk About Sex, where parents become allies for their teenagers as they learn about their sexuality, breaking through the intimidating yet IMPORTANT conversations around sexual health and pleasure.
The next workshop offering is Saturday, Sept 30th and Saturday, Oct 7th, 2017 (participants are required to attend both days) at Luma Yoga Studio in Santa Cruz, CA.
Visit Valarie's studio at for more info.
Sep 12, 2017
#15 Your Sex Questions Answered - Festival Style

Part 2 of our podcasting journey at Oregon Eclipse Festival, we answer some common sex questions about sexual trauma, open relationships, flirting, anal sex, and more!

Aug 26, 2017
#14 Erotic Superstar: Step Into Your Power!

Recorded from the Oregon Eclipse Festival, we bring you a sneak peak into our workshop, Erotic Superstar: Step Into Your Power! Tune in for our 6 step system for erotic empowerment!

Aug 25, 2017
#13 Working With Insecurities In Relationships

We are releasing episode #13 early as we will be off the grid for the eclipse. Energies are running high up here in Oregon, bringing up pesky insecurities and nourishment barriers with worthiness. So what do we do when insecurities pop up? How do they block connection, and how do we lovingly navigate them in relationships? 

Aug 17, 2017
#12 Womb Healing With Sacred Sexual Priestess Natalie Martin

Natalie is devoted to the awakening of humanity at this time of accelerated growth on the planet, and bringing harmony to the balance of masculine and feminine energies in the world. Her spiritual healing process is based on facilitating the removal of blockages that prevent embodiment of Vital Life Force Energy, and activating potential expression.

Having a lifelong fascination with sexuality, relationships, and the evolution of human consciousness has lead Natalie through a deep, profound process of inquiry which became a shamanic journey of unpacking and reclaiming her womb and embodying her power. Natalie remains committed to facilitating clients in healing their relationships with themselves and others, and embodying their personal power.

Natalie has extensive training in a range of modalities. She is a Sacred Sexual Priestess of the Magdalene Lineage and The Sisterhood of the Rose, an Energy Worker, and a Midwife of the New Paradigm.

Learn more about Natalie's offerings here:

Aug 15, 2017
#11 Prostate Pleasure and Health With Charlie Glickman, PhD

Anal August continues with our dear friendCharlie Glickman, PhD. Charlie is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him on his website ( or on Twitter (@charlieglickman) and Facebook/charlie.glickman. For Charlie’s sex coaching and sexological bodywork services, visit

Aug 08, 2017
# 10 Anal Pleasure For Anal August!

It's Anal August, AKA anal health (and pleasure) awareness month! Did you know that your anus has just about as many nerve endings as that of your lips? That's right, folks - when done right - your booty is a powerhouse for pleasure! Tune in to learn our top tips and tricks for awesome anal

Aug 01, 2017
#9 Female Pleasure 101 (AKA How to Pleasure the Pussy)

In this week's episode we discuss the ins and outs of female sexual pleasure. Whether you are a vulva fan or vulva owner, we have something just for you. Topics include orgasm, g-spots, female ejaculation, hand and oral touch techniques, and much much more. And remember, praise the pussy! Meow!

Jul 25, 2017
#8 Men's Pleasure 101 (AKA How to Pleasure the Deeyucck) - Part 2

In part 2 of Men's Pleasure 101 we discuss our go-to tips and techniques, plus safer sex, deep-throating, and more!

Jul 18, 2017
#7 Men's Pleasure 101 (AKA How to Pleasure The Deeyucck) - Part 1

We have so much today about the deeeeyucckk - so much that we had to turn this into two different episodes. In this episode we discuss everything from anatomy, erections, circumcision, masturbation, blowjobs, how to pleasure the cock whether hard or soft, and more!

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Jul 11, 2017
#6 Spice Up Your Sex Life...By NOT Having Sex!

A quick update as we return back from a wild week in the Caribbean, including tips on how to spice up your sex life by taking the usual items off of the menu. 

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Jul 04, 2017