The Next Right Thing

By Emily P. Freeman: Writer, Listener, Creative Director

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Beth W.
 Aug 23, 2018
These short podcasts are my favorite way to start a Tuesday. Emily challenges me to slow down. in a world that seems to speed up every year this space is a breath of fresh air and encouragement to pursue God and implement self-care.


For the second-guessers, the chronically hesitant, or anyone who suffers from decision fatigue, best-selling author and host Emily P. Freeman helps create a little space for your soul to breathe so you can discern your next right thing in love. Because out of the thousands of decisions you make everyday, chances are a few of them threaten to keep you up at night. If you're in a season of transition, waiting, general fogginess or if you've ever searched "how to make a decision" on the internet, listen in.

Episode Date
98: Don't Preach to Your Emotions

Making a decision is hard enough. But add the unpredictability of emotion to the mix and making a confident decision can feel nearly impossible.

What do we do when we have a decision to make but we have such strong emotions surrounding that decision that we feel paralyzed to move one way or another? It’s a great question and I can’t say I have a clean, linear answer. But I do have thoughts and I hope you’ll listen in.

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Oct 15, 2019
97: Take a 10 Minute Timeout

In nearly every major and sometimes not-so-major decision, I’ve prayed for clarity. I’ve shared here before how in times of cloudy decision-making frustration, I’ve even Googled how to make a decision.

More and more, though, every time the word “clarity” comes out of my mouth, I hesitate. I’m realizing for me, clarity can be a more acceptable word for control. If I could just see the future, I could make a good decision about this part of my life.

Today's practice is to take a 10 minute timeout and consider a few simple questions in the presence of God. Listen in.

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Oct 08, 2019
96: Listen to Your Crazy Ideas

When the problems of life feel big and the way through seems impossible, the last thing we want to do is to consider what we most want or to look desire in the face. But what if clues to our next right thing are embedded in the last place we feel free to look?

Instead of talking yourself out of your crazy ideas, maybe it's time to listen to them. I’m not here to say listening to your crazy idea will lead to big things. But what I truly believe is that at least listening to your crazy idea is often the thing that will lead you home - to your greatest contribution and the place where God wants to meet you.

Listen in.

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Oct 01, 2019
95: Practice Friendship

For a few minutes each Tuesday, our directive is to do the next right thing, not to think about doing the next right thing. Of course thinking is a part of doing. But they at least have to work together to bring about meaningful change.

We practice what we want to improve and certain things lend themselves well to our idea of practice - playing piano or a team sport, learning to paint, draw, dance or sing. In elementary school we practiced math problems, cursive letters, how to share our toys.

As adults, we may still practice some of those things, but we also practice in more nuanced ways, things that have to do with our faith, our identity, and our relationships.

Listen in.

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Sep 24, 2019
94: Ask the Second Question

It’s often the simplest phrases that have the power to change our lives. Like “I love you” and “I’m sorry” and “You’re not alone.”

Since adults make over 35,000 decisions every single day, it’s no wonder that this idea of simply doing the next right thing feels like such a relief.

My goal in these few minutes we have together on Tuesdays is to make one simple suggestion that could help ease the load of your own daily decision-making. If you’re feeling stuck, confused, hesitant, or overwhelmed today, maybe it will help to ask and answer the second question.

Listen in. 

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Sep 17, 2019
93: Borrow Prayers

We’ve been told not to borrow trouble and to be careful borrowing money, but when is borrowing okay, even welcome? Listen in.

*Content warning: This week's episode references the events of September 11, 2001. 

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Sep 10, 2019
92: Point and Call

Sometimes it’s the simplest things that help to ease our decision-fatigue the most.

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Sep 03, 2019
91: Be A Placemaker

If you’re in the ellipsis in your own life right now, you might have more questions than answers, more furrowed brows than nodding heads.

But there are some things you can still choose - like making a place where roots are lacking, like believing for sure that God is with you, like doing your next right thing in love.

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Aug 27, 2019
90: Start with this Simple Rhythm

I talk a lot about the importance of creating space for your soul to breathe. One question I often hear is how?

What does it look like to create space for your soul? Practically, on a Tuesday, in the middle of your regular life?

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Aug 20, 2019
89: Come Back With Peace

In our last episode I shared about my plan to take a six week sabbatical, but going away to plan, pray, and create is only helpful if you return. Today I'll share about the equally important task of coming back. 

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Aug 13, 2019
88: Come Away for Awhile

Is there a difference between a vacation, a sabbath, and a break? How can we tell and why does it matter?

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Jun 25, 2019
87: Create Space

Creating space for the soul is part of being a healthy human. For some of us that phrase sounds delightful. But for others, not so much.

What does it mean to create space for the soul and why does it matter?

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Jun 18, 2019
86: Decision-Making with James Bryan Smith

The second most often quoted phrase from this podcast is one I didn’t even say. The first phrase people repeat the most is obvious, do the next right thing. Want to know the second most often quoted phrase? Well it comes from James Bryan Smith and here's where he'll share the story behind it.

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Jun 11, 2019
85: Hold Space When Someone Dies

Grief descends as a permanent part of our rhythm of life, coloring everything, reshaping the narrative, changing us in ways we would never ask for but there it is anyway. Death changes every part of life, including our ability to do our next right thing.

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Jun 04, 2019
84: A Beginner's Guide to Self-Reflection

This is a practice that has changed my life and, I believe if you do it regularly, will change yours as well. Here's a step-by-step explanation of how I reflect on my life and some questions I ask that make it both simple and meaningful.

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May 28, 2019
83: Remember What's More Important Than Your Decision

Today I’m stepping away from the daily nuts and bolts of decision-making to remind us what it’s all about. Yes, we want to make better decisions. More, we want to make decisions in a better way — but what does that mean, exactly?

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May 21, 2019
82: Find the Beginning in the Ending

Are you facing the end of something but find yourself dragging your feet to the finish line because you aren't sure what will come after?

Today I'll offer 3 things to consider just before or right after an ending as you discern your next right thing.


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May 14, 2019
A Blessing for the Mothers

Today I’ll offer a short blessing for all the mamas everywhere - both the newest ones, the most experienced ones, the ones who are still waiting as well as those who don’t think of themselves as mothers but they mother us in their own ways.

Maybe you'll see yourself in a few of these lines or maybe you'll see a friend, a sister, a cousin or a daughter. We all need to be mothered and this is a small celebration of the mother-work all women are doing in the world.

I raise my coffee mug to you.

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May 07, 2019
81: Listen to This Before Graduation

If you are a graduate, have a graduate, or love a graduate, this episode is for you. It's help for that question people keep asking: So what will you do after graduation? Here are 3 things to remember as you respond and plan your next right thing.

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Apr 30, 2019
Bonus: Myquillyn Smith, The Nester

Do you have a no mentor? Someone who helps you find both your brave yes and your life-giving no?

If you’ve been around here for any amount of time, you know my sister Myquillyn is my No Mentor and today I’m thrilled to host her as my guest.

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Apr 25, 2019
80: Don't Take Offense


If you feel like you don't have enough time in the day, here's one way to open up some space: Refuse to take offense. It's not easy, but it is interesting. Let's get curious about it. 

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Apr 23, 2019
Bonus: Kendra Adachi, The Lazy Genius

Do you prefer to make decisions quickly, acting first and thinking later? 

This episode is part of a short series we’re doing this month to celebrate the release of my new book, The Next Right Thing.

Today's guest is sitting my dear friend Kendra Adachi and I’m sitting down with her to talk about her decision-making habits, regrets, quirks, and questions. 

You may know her as The Lazy Genius and she hosts a podcast by the same name where she teaches us all how to be a genius about the things that matter and lazy about the things that don’t.

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Find Kendra at and if you just can't get enough of the two of us together, you can listen in to another conversation on The Lazy Genius Podcast episode 102.

Want to know your decision-making style? Join over 15K people who have taken our decision-making style quiz: It's short, it's fun, and from what we've heard, it's pretty accurate. Go here and click on "quiz" at the top of the page to get started.

Apr 18, 2019
79: Find Relief From Regret

What if you try to do the next right thing but later you look back and realize it wasn’t the right thing after all? What do we do when our next right thing turns out to be wrong? And how do we handle regret?

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Apr 16, 2019
Bonus: Annie F. Downs

If you've ever felt unable to move forward because you’re worried there’s only one right answer and you don’t know what that right answer is, today’s episode is for you.

This is part of a short series we’re doing this month to celebrate the release of my new book, The Next Right Thing. I’m sitting down with a guest to talk about their decision-making habits, regrets, quirks and questions.

Today I’m thrilled to talk with my dear friend Annie F. Downs, bestselling author, nationally known speaker, and podcast host based in Nashville. Her recent books include Remember God and 100 Days To Brave and you may also know her from her fantastically entertaining That Sounds Fun podcast.

Listen in to more Emily + Annie here: Episode 131 of That Sounds Fun.

Apr 11, 2019
78: Feeling Stuck? Start Again

If you set a goal and haven’t been able to meet it, it doesn’t mean you set the wrong goal. Maybe it means you’re measuring it the wrong way.

Instead of starting over, here's how to start again.

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Apr 09, 2019
Bonus: The Next Right Thing Live Show!

Listen in as we gathered in my hometown the night before The Next Right Thing book released into the world! You can now grab a copy of the book wherever books are sold - learn more at

With special guests Kendra Adachi (The Lazy Genius), and  Myquillyn Smith (The Nester).

Apr 04, 2019
77: Do The Next Right Thing

You never know how your simple next right thing could have an impact on people 100 years from now. Today is the official US release of The Next Right Thing: A Simple, Soulful Practice for Making Life Decisions -- and it all started with a little poem written 122 years ago.

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Apr 02, 2019
76: Create A Simple Morning Routine

Where is your fixed point in the midst of life transitions? I want to suggest that fixed point can be found in the morning and it's simpler than you might think.

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Mar 26, 2019
75: Tell Yourself the Truth

On Tuesday March 12, 2019, fifty people in six different states were accused by the Department of Justice of playing a part in a major college admission scandal.  

Our belief informs our action. What we believe will always direct our next steps. So what happens when we believe something that isn’t true?

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Mar 19, 2019
74: What's Your Decision-Making Style?

We all approach our decisions from our own unique point of view, our own set of personal filters, and a particular posture that’s baked in to our personality.

Today’s episode will narrow all of that uniqueness down to three simple categories we’ll call your decision-making style. Take the quiz to find out yours!

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Mar 12, 2019
73: Design A Rhythm of Work - Theme Days

Today’s episode is all about the one thing I’m doing in my work that is saving my life this year.

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Mar 05, 2019
72: Design A Rhythm of Life

If we want to make life decisions in a better way, then we can’t wait to start with the decision. We actually need to start with the life. That’s what a rhythm of life is for. I’d love to help you create one.

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Feb 26, 2019
71: Let Time Be Your Friend

If you’ve ever felt like you could make better decisions if only you had more time or wished for time to stop just for a while so you could catch your breath, today’s episode is for you. 

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Feb 19, 2019
70: The Best Time to Make A Decision

Being a good decision maker has a lot to do with timing. When is the best time to make a decision? Research has some actual answers. Listen in.

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Feb 12, 2019
69: Tell Someone

One life-giving choice I’ve made when I’m feeling overwhelmed with indecision is to decide not to walk through it alone.

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Feb 05, 2019
68: If You're Afraid of Making the Wrong Decision

If your fear of making a wrong choice is keeping you from making any choice at all, this episode offers 3 simple things to remember.

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Jan 29, 2019
67: Wait Now Go

So much of our lives are filled with waiting but no one really ever teaches us how to do it. How do we know when we need to wait? How do we know when it’s time to move?

There’s several kinds of waiting, today I’ll share four: the kind we talk about, the kind we don’t talk about, the kind that sneaks up on you, and the kind that needs to stop.

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Jan 22, 2019
66: Don't Let the Ending Define the Whole Story

When an ending is difficult, it's easy to color the entire reality through the lens of how it ended, whether it's a relationship, a job, a dream project, or a life.

The ending does not get to define the whole story. Maybe it's time to take back the narrative. This could be a life-giving part of your healing. This could be your next right thing.

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Jan 15, 2019
65: Take Off Your Crown

One question can make the difference between living with all consuming daily stress and a lighthearted sense of hope. 

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Jan 08, 2019
A Blessing for the New Year

Before you make any major decisions in the new year, here's a 3 minute blessing to start things off.

Jan 01, 2019
64: Acknowledge Your Soul

We don’t want to wait until the other side of Christmas to finally pause and say, hello soul. I’ve missed you this month.

Instead, we work to create space now. For a few minutes today, we’ll make room, we’ll take a moment to acknowledge our soul and remember the miracle of God With Us.

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Dec 18, 2018
63: Make Room

During Advent, it’s true we wait expectantly. It’s also true we’re preparing for an arrival. 

What does preparation look like for you today? Might it include creating some space? Making some room? Clearing some clutter - and not just the kind you can see?

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Dec 11, 2018
62: Sit Down on the Inside

If you want to find relief from seasonal anxiety, I would love to help. 


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Dec 04, 2018
61: Look Back - How Reflection Can Help You Make Better Decisions

Our choices define our lives - not just the ones we’re carrying now about our future, but also the ones we’ve already made in our past.

Wouldn’t we do well to bring them to mind and see what they have to teach us?

In this episode I’ll share my own simple rhythm of reflection in hopes that it could inspire you to come up with your own.

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Nov 27, 2018
60: Start Before You're Ready (PLUS A Big Announcment!)

Starting before you’re ready moving even when you’re not sure where you’re going is only possible when you have a next-right-thing mindset.

Today I'll share a story from my own life and, in the process, offer what I hope will be as fun an announcement for you to hear as it is for me to give.

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Nov 20, 2018
59: Find A Quiet Space

It’s possible to be surrounded by silence everyday and completely miss the point. It’s also possible to lead a full, loud life and still receive the gifts God has to offer us in the pockets of silent time we can find.

You can be busy and soulful at the same time. The key is in paying attention.

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Nov 13, 2018
58: Welcome Silence

In 2012 singer John Mayer had surgery on his vocal chords and was ordered not to speak for two months or sing for six. His healing depended on his silence. 

While his need was physical, perhaps silence is required for all kinds of healing: the wounds of the body and of the soul. Today's episode offers a short practice to help ease into silence, one small moment at a time.

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Nov 06, 2018
57: Don't Dread Your Weird Life

To take action and make a decision requires something of you. But make no mistake — putting decisions off require something too, and that may be even more expensive. 

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Oct 30, 2018
56: Focus on One

Focus is hard because there’s both so much going on and often not enough information. When you have a big idea but aren't sure where to start, listen in. 


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Oct 23, 2018
55: Learn to Walk in the Dark

There’s a skill to walking in the dark: you have to go slow, trust what you know, and take it one step at a time.

After the winds and rain of hurricane Michael knocked out power in the city, we navigated our way through our dark house, not a beam of light from a street lamp or a night light or even the moon.

Whether darkness comes as an absence of light or a waning faith, the way to walk through it is by doing the next right thing.

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Oct 16, 2018
54: Find Someone to Mother

In a world that seems to only value a twisted kind of angular strength, let’s find ways to receive the curves, to be nurtured by God and one another.

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Oct 09, 2018
53: Allow the Present to Be Imperfect

The rest from decision fatigue doesn’t descend upon me when my work is finally finished. Instead, it comes slowly as I'm willing to allow the present to be imperfect.


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Oct 02, 2018
52: Grow as You Go

Decision fatigue can creep into our life for any number of reasons, but one isn’t as obvious as some others.

When change rises slow or comes up from behind, it can turn your life a different color so gradually you don’t realize it until you compare things to this time last year. 

Discover what slow change might be happening within or around you and see if that might help clarify your next right thing.

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Sep 25, 2018
51: Choose A Pastime

If you are feeling overwhelmed, carrying a heavy decision, or live with what seems to be a growing imbalance between the work you do during the week and the rest you’re supposed to be doing on the weekends, choosing a pastime could be a worthy next right thing.

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Sep 18, 2018
50: Go Forward

Last year I decided to enroll in grad school. But first, I lost sleep, asked everyone's opinion, and made myself crazy. Here's what happened next.

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Sep 11, 2018
49: Collaborate

Making the decision to move forward with an idea is hard enough, but one thing that can keep us feeling especially stuck is trying to move forward with a decision alone because we are afraid.

When it comes to collaboration it takes a certain amount of courage to say yes to an invitation. But for some of us it takes courage in even greater measure to extend the invitation in the first place.


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Sep 04, 2018
48: Receive the Waiting Time

As we continue to make our way through an ever changing set of circumstances, the seasons will keep rolling on, bringing with them both dreaded and hoped-for hellos and goodbyes.

You may be holding on to a hopeful vision for your future, but perhaps you're questioning what that means for today. What do we do while we wait for seeds to grow? Listen in.

Jul 31, 2018
47: Receive One Another

When someone around us is struggling, what is our next right thing? Listen in.


Jul 24, 2018
46: Receive the Shadows and Light

Both the light and the shadows have an important role in our lives and embracing them both helps us grow towards our next right thing.


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Jul 17, 2018
45: Receive a New Beginning

We want see evidence of growth in our lives, but it can be discouraging when we can't figure out how to release old habits.

Perhaps true maturity and a growing faith show up not in our ability to stand up straight and blameless, but in our willingness to turn, again and again, back to the face of God.

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Jul 10, 2018
44: Receive Healing

If you know you need to make a move but something is holding you back, listen in.


You can read the transcript to this episode here.

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Jul 03, 2018
43: Receive Silence

Psalm 139 is a familiar chapter, but what does it take to let your heart be searched by God and be led in the everlasting way?

It sounds lovely, maybe a little terrifying, but mostly out of reach. Maybe it isn't as hard as all that.

Maybe we just need a little bit of silence. I hope these few minutes will lead you right to it.

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Jun 26, 2018
42: Receive Peace

Studies show our brains process spoken and written language differently. 

We may often sit to read scripture, but how often do we allow scripture to read us?


It might be surprising how a small amount of intentional time can begin to smooth out the chaotic edges of your soul.

This continues our summer series of still moments.

Jun 19, 2018
41: Take A Breath

When we take a deep breath, it sends our body a message: You're going to be okay.

In the beginning, God breathed life into mankind -- breath was the beginning. So it makes sense this is the first step to decluttering the soul, especially in the midst of transitions as we learn what it means to begin again.

Today I'll share how I am working to maintain the integrity of my own offering to you by creating some space for my own soul to breathe.

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Jun 12, 2018
40: Keep Your Rest

Beneath our hectic schedules, our proud accomplishments, and our self-sufficiencies, we simply long to be loved and cared for right where we are, no strings attached.

Maybe in these few minutes we have together, our God will father and mother us in all the ways we need the most.

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Jun 05, 2018
39: Don't Give Your Critic Words

The voice of the critic can keep us from our next right thing. But not all critical voices are created equally. Here's help to discern who to listen to and who to ignore. 

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May 29, 2018
38: Zoom Out

This one simple sentence from a New York pastry chef could help you shift your perspective and take your next right step. Listen in.

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May 22, 2018
37: Take a Hometown Tour

With our full schedules and daily concerns, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed with even the slightest disruption to our routine.

With that in mind, today’s suggestion might seem counter-intuitive:  disrupting our routine can sometimes be exactly what we need to get unstuck.

May 15, 2018
36: Stay in Today

Two things guaranteed to make your day more complicated: unawareness of your current situation and exaggeration of your future inability to handle it.


Here's one simple practice to help you stay in today and simply do the next right thing.

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May 08, 2018
35: Be Kind (with Candace Cameron Bure)

When you're on a roll in Hollywood, you don't leave the industry. But that's exactly what actress, producer, and author Candace Cameron Bure decided to do.

In the midst of the fear and second-guessing, one character trait remained certain throughout her life and career transitions - kindness.

Listen in as she shares her story, because when you're in the midst of making a big decision, it helps to hear the decision-making process other people go through. 


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May 01, 2018
34: Pick What You Like

The decisions that add to our fatigue aren't always big and significant ones. Sometimes things in life that are meant to be fun and delightful - choosing a paint color, wrapping a present, picking out plants - turn out instead to be one more decision we feel incapable of making.

What is the next right thing in situations that overwhelm us but shouldn't? How can we move forward as a beginner in areas where we may not feel a lot of confidence but wish we did?

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Apr 24, 2018
33: Gather Co-Listeners

If you are facing a big decision that could lead to a new start, perhaps you don’t need a collection of gurus as much as you need a a group of co-listeners. Here’s how I found mine.


Find show notes and a complete transcript at

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Apr 17, 2018
32: Stop Collecting Gurus

At a time when I felt pulled in many directions, I realized I was looking outside myself for a plan when I needed to look inside for a vision.

My email inbox told me the story and this time, I had the good sense to pay attention.

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Visit The Next Right Thing for a complete transcript of this 12 minute episode.

Apr 10, 2018
31: Be A Beginner

It's one thing to experience a new beginning, to usher in a time of new roles, new adventure, and new season of life. No matter what kind of new beginning a transition might bring, it also brings a new identity for us: a beginner.

I've discovered I don't love being a beginner. I'd rather be an expert, thank you very much. But being a beginner is an unavoidable part of life transition.

Let's close the gap between the joy of a new beginning and the dread of actually being a beginner by simply doing the next right thing.

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Apr 03, 2018
30: Hold One Thing at A Time

The way we move through our days is a lot more instinctual than we care to admit. We like to think we have clear reasons for things when in fact, most times we are feeling our way through.

Do I feel safe? Do I feel seen? Do I feel heard? Do I feel in control? Do I have what it takes?

On the surface, the decision could be as simple as deciding to join the PTA or not join the PTA. But deeper down and further in, it isn’t always quite so clear cut.

Today rather than tell you one of my own stories or the story of someone who has inspired me, I want to guide you through telling yourself your story, particularly as it relates to a decision you’re carrying.

New! Grab the free downloadable Practice Guide: How to Make One Decision at A Time right here.

Mar 27, 2018
29: Remember the Real Art

When you hold a dream – to craft a song, write a book, open a shop, get a degree – it can be hard to let it go even when the dream no longer fits. It feels like more than a loss, it feels like failure.

But it doesn’t have to. In fact, what if the letting go was actually a making room?

The real art isn’t the song, the book, the shop or the degree. The real art is something more, something deeper, something good. 

Today I'll share a story of a couple who realized their next right thing was to let a long-held dream go. But because they understood the real art, the dream lives on.

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Mar 20, 2018
28: Stand on Your Head

Any de-clutterer knows the only way to make room is by letting stuff go. It's true for your house and equally true for your soul.

Today I'll share 3 ways standing on your head can make room for something good - even if you never physically get upside down.

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Mar 13, 2018
27: Stop Rushing Clarity

If you are distracted and overwhelmed by a particular decision and you just can't seem to move forward, you might feel like either something is wrong with your process or something is wrong with you.

Neither one of these has to be true. In today's episode, I'll share two things you can let go of today that will help you take your next right step.

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If you prefer reading to listening, download a transcript of this episode right here.

Mar 06, 2018
26: Choose Connection

Doing the next right thing in relationships starts with how we enter a room. It can mean the difference between connecting with them or comparing ourselves to them.

Fair warning, today’s episode is brought to you by some healthy self-reflection and a dash of narcissism. It's for a good cause. I hope you'll stick with me.

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Feb 27, 2018
25: Come Home to Yourself

The only person you’re guaranteed to be with every day of your life is you. Maybe your next right thing is to make some peace with yourself and come back home.

Feb 20, 2018
24: Look for Arrows (Not Answers)

When I have a question, the first thing I want is an answer. Sometimes answers are fairly easy to come by – How do you make pizza? What should I wear today? Who can drive to piano practice?

But so often, the questions we have in life that give us trouble are the ones that aren’t so linear. In my experience, these usually have to do with things like faith, vocation, and relationships.

Today I'm sharing about a time in our life when my husband John and I desperately wanted answers but what we got instead was a series of arrows. This is a story of where they led.

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Feb 13, 2018
23: Release Your Agenda

How can we discern our next right thing when we're confronted with unpredictable people? Today we'll explore the difference between a loving intention and a fear-based agenda. 

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Feb 06, 2018
22: Embrace Your Limits

When you finally find, name, and move toward the things you feel most called to, you will quickly discover some roadblocks in the form of some kind of limitation like time, money, fatigue, or support.

Instead of fighting those, perhaps your next right thing is to embrace them.

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Jan 30, 2018
21: Find A No Mentor

What do you do when you can't make a decision and you’re too close to even know what you want and don’t want?

You need to find a No Mentor and eventually, learn to be your own.

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Jan 23, 2018
20: Ignore With Intention

With computers in our pockets, the truth is we all have low-grade anxiety that messes with our ability to discern our next right thing.

Today I'll share practical steps to take to eliminate of one of the most common anxiety triggers: the ones that show up in our feeds, our follows, and our online accounts.

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Jan 16, 2018
19: Choose Your Absence

In January it's tempting to search the horizon for what might be next and open ourselves up to new opportunities.

But decision fatigue can set in when every opportunity that comes our way seems to have potential. How can we choose which opportunities to take and which ones to pass up? That's today's episode.

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Jan 09, 2018
18: Wait With Great Hope

Astronaut Scott Kelly was the first American to spend 340 consecutive days in space. But the night he returned home, the news cameras were looking in another direction.

In our last episode of 2017, we'll take a few moments to consider what it means to wait with great hope during one of the busiest months of the year.

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Dec 05, 2017
17: Let It Count

When it comes to discerning your next right thing, maybe this one small word will make a difference for you as it has for me.

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Nov 28, 2017
16: Walk Slow and Carry Questions

During the holidays, the transition from our regular schedule to extended time with family can be great in theory but more difficult in practice.

Here's one simple step you can take to help you be a sane person with your people this week.

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Nov 21, 2017
15: Name the Narrative

In 2014, Nancy Writebol was one of the first Americans diagnosed with the Ebola virus infection in West Africa.

What happened after that could provide surprising comfort for anyone who feels stuck or discouraged in the midst of a hard time.

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Nov 14, 2017
14: Know What You Want

Knowing what you want is not selfish; it's actually crucial to making decisions. It builds confidence, hastens healing, and is a gift to the people you love.

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Nov 07, 2017
13: Quit Something

We usually save this conversation for January, but maybe we need it now more than ever.

If you feel busy but not productive or rushing to get somewhere but never feel like you’ve arrived, it's time to focus on what is essential.

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Oct 31, 2017
12: Practice Presence

Scattered and rushed doesn't have to be the norm. Listen in for one simple way to gather yourself and practice presence today.

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Oct 24, 2017
11: Wear Better Pants

Perhaps today, your next right step is simply to release something you no longer need so that you can move one step closer to becoming who you already are. And no, this episode title is not a metaphor for something else. Today, we need to have a talk about pants.

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Oct 17, 2017
10: Be Where You Are

If your to-do list feels never ending, here is one action and one question to help you take your next right step today.

Visit The Next Right Thing Podcast for show notes + full transcript + more resources to help you create space for your soul to breathe today.

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Oct 10, 2017
09: Listen for Specifics - Moving Forward After Tragedy

This week, our country grieves after the horrific mass shooting Las Vegas. We belong to each other. But how do we move forward together without losing hope or becoming overwhelmed that we can't do anything at all?

One way to discover your next right step in the aftermath of tragedy is to push away blanket statements and generalities and instead, start to be specific.

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Oct 03, 2017
08: Expect to Be Surprised

Fear of choosing wrong or missing what's best can lead to an obsession with clarity and the quick fix.

Today’s collection of stories shows how often the best parts of life can't be planned and how God often works in small surprises in the midst of the long haul.

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Sep 26, 2017
07: Faithfulness, Fame, and the Gift of Obscurity

Fame is messing with us, interfering with our ability to discern our next right thing because maybe we're waiting for the next big thing. What a singer, a cyclist, and a make-believe boss have to teach us about faithfulness, fame, and the gift of obscurity.

If it seems like the people around you are taking big steps while all yours feel small and inconsequential, listen in.

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Sep 19, 2017
06: Know the Power of Naming

Sometimes indecision is the result of a busy schedule or a hesitant personality. Other times, though, it's because there is something within us that remains unnamed.

In today's episode: what a robocall and a New York chef have to teach us about the power of naming to help us take our next right step.

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Sep 12, 2017
05: Offer Your Work With Hope

It can be easy to dismiss our work as ordinary or even unimportant, especially when we consider all the pain and heartbreak in the world around us.

How can we simple do the next right thing in our work when it doesn't seem like enough? That's today's episode.

And here's that offer I mentioned to help you have a sane September:

The Quiet Collection - set your mind before you start your work.

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Sep 05, 2017
04: Record What You Learn

Indecision is often a direct result of overwhelm. Even the most grounded and professional among us can suffer from decision fatigue given the right circumstances.

In today’s episode, we’ll take a look at what happens in otherwise sane people when we are hit with unexpected overwhelm and I'll share a few tips to ease the burden of hustle when it comes. And it always comes.

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Aug 29, 2017
03: Make the Most Important List

There's at least one major flaw with the typical pro/con list. In today's episode, I'll share how you can make a different kind of list that will help inform all future decisions.

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Aug 22, 2017
02: Do This Before Every Hard Decision

Is there a decision you know you need to make but you keep putting it off? There could be many reasons why this particular decision is giving you trouble, but I want to offer one question you can ask that could help you move forward.

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Aug 15, 2017
01: Become A Soul Minimalist

When a decision requires the deep work of discernment, it can be difficult to move forward when our minds and souls are filled with clutter. Let's talk about what it means to be a soul minimalist and how it can help clarify the decision-making process in just 5 minutes a day.

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Aug 15, 2017
Introducing The Next Right Thing

Created for anyone who struggles to make decisions, it's a brand new podcast! Because I'm never more open to advice, guidance, direction, and discouragement than when I have a decision to make. Maybe you too? Inspired from the commonly quoted advice to simply "do the next right thing," let's move forward together to discern what that might mean. To learn more and download a transcript, visit

Aug 07, 2017