How Cum

By Remy Kassimir

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Welcome to How Cum, the only podcast dedicated to achieving the female orgasm. At 28 years old, New York City comedian @RemyKassimir had NEVER had the big O. She started this podcast to figure out: How Cum?! Every episode Remy interviews the most interesting people about their first time cumming, and then the guests give Remy an assignment to complete in order to have an orgasm. *Spoiler alert* she completes her task. Listen & enjoy as we learn how Remy & her guests went from How Cum to How Came!

Episode Date
12 Slutever (Karley Sciortino)
01:05:31

This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk about everything from Karley’s re-definition of the word “slut”, witches on broomsticks (aka magic dildos), the switch from vagina shame to pussy power, having an “anti-social clit”, VR porn, and so much more.

Also, Remy has a sexual experience that she never has before AND Remy & Karley were both named "Innovators" in Cosmopolitan's first ever Sexcellence Awards

Karley's book Slutever is out now, you can read her Vogue column Breathless and follow her @KarleySlutever

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Follow us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

 Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

 Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

 

Mar 24, 2019
11 The Slut Whisperer (Kirill Bichutsky & Jax Dell'Osso)
01:12:11

On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked off of Instagram.  This controversial social media personality recently starred in Netflix's revealing documentary American Meme and his half-naked champagne facial parties are legendary, but we wanted to know: who really IS the Slut Whisperer? What is real versus just social media, and how do we use social media in a healthy, less stressful way?

Kirill and Remy's mutual friend & comedian Jax Dell'Osso joins us to answer these questions. We talk slut-shaming, online personas, working as an exotic dancer and the Fyre Festival. 

Trigger warning: A guest opens up about a childhood trauma & we have a conversation about child sexual abuse & the HBO documentary Leaving Neverland.

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization; donate or seek help here 

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Follow us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

Follow Kirill on Instagram for now @KirillWasHere & Jax Dell'Osso @funnygirljax

We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

 Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

 Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

 

 

Mar 17, 2019
10 The Virgin Bachelor (Ray Gootz & Freddy G)
01:01:05

“Nobody’s sex life is anybody’s business…except on this podcast.” So, we chat with comedians & sexual “late bloomers” Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray tells us about losing his virginity at 37 to a sex worker at the Bunny Ranch & Freddy explains how and why he didn’t have an awake orgasm until he was 23. 

We define several terms; incel, refractory period, and a “delivery boy” attitude. We keep it funky and fresh and talk pre/post sex vomit stories, Kelly Kapowski from Saved by the Bell, & a few times Ray mentions his friend Kristy Steffano; who is better known as comedian Chris DiStefano. This one’s a blast.

 

Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:

 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

 Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

 Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

 

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

 

Mar 10, 2019
09 The C.O.U.G.A.R. & Her Cub (KarenLee & Cam Poter)
42:05

We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. We cover A LOT with these kindred spirits of ours: how peoples’ “orifice hierarchies” can vary, sexless marriages, KarenLee’s personal definition of "cougar", Cam’s "pregnancy scare," and of course, “anal anal anal.” We also find out that KarenLee gets wet at the first note of a saxophone, Cam tells us a WILD “ball-breaker” story, and magically, Cam finds out something he DIDN’T know about his mom.

ALSO: This is our first CROSS OVER episode! That's right, didn't get enough of the four of us? Listen to Remy and Charlotte on Sex Talk With My Mom HERE!

WANT EVEN MORE?

We ended up calling OUR DAD and talking about sex with him. Check that out HERE

Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:

 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

 Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

 Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

 

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

 

Mar 03, 2019
08 The Girl Without A Clit (Mystery Guest & Crystal Beth)
01:00:22

Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus episode. This episode has everything: trips down memory lane, people's assumptions about bisexuals, and an insanely hot story about an insanely hot threesome with two insanely hot guys.

Also: can you cum without a clit? We find out. 

 

Want more?

 

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast & @thecrystalbeth

And HEY!!  Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate! 

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

 

 

Feb 24, 2019
07 BONUS/THROWBACK EPISODE!
01:08:46

We reached 500 reviews on iTunes and are thanking everyone who has rated & reviewed with a BONUS EPISODE! You guys are gonna die. We thought this episode had been lost forever due to sound issues-- BUT WE SALVAGED IT! (Thanks Alex Pischera!) 

This episode was SUPPOSED to be episode 4 of season 1; which means it was recorded BEFORE REMY CAME. (Pre-cum!) It is so crazy to hear how much things have changed. Seriously, you'll be shocked.

Our guest's voice and named have been changed to protect her anonymity; she is a powerful, high ranking woman in Finance, who also attends all-women sex parties for queer and curious women. 

You're gonna love it. (And thank you again!)

Want more?

 

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!!  Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate! 

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

 

 

Feb 20, 2019
06 She Cums First (Dr. Ian Kerner)
55:53

Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, “She Comes First.” You’ll learn SO much and laugh along the way.

We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of listener questions, get to real solutions and make lots of sound effects in the process.

 

Want more? 

Visit Dr. Kerner's Website and check out his books

 

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate! 

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

Feb 17, 2019
05 Eff’n Up Sex (LeClerc Andre & Khalid Rahmaan)
56:14

Valentines Day is coming up and BOY do we love these guests. We brought in hilarious comedians LeClerc Andre and Khalid Rahmaan (Eff’n Up Podcast) to talk about how they have eff’ed up sex and how they learned the ropes. They hit it all: ball play,  “begrudging blowies”, and more.

Want more? 

Follow LeClerc, Khalid and their podcast on Instagram:

@LeClercAndre @khalidsays @effnup

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate! 

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

Check out Khalid's Conan Set & LeClerc's Tonight Show Set here!  

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

 

Feb 10, 2019
04 A Shower Thought (Rayna Greenberg & Ashley Hesseltine)
01:00:16

We sit down with Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg from the top 20 comedy & dating podcast Girls Gotta Eat. We talk about it all: happy endings, sizing up a guy’s load (the more the better for Rayna), dirty talk, butt stuff, fan erotica, and fingering with long nails. Charlotte also joins us to talk about what to eat vs. what not to eat on a date. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, you’ll eat.

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

*Toys mentioned in this episode: The Perfect Match & Girls Best Friend

Want more? 

Follow Rayna, Ashley, and their podcast on Instagram: @onehungryjew @ashhess @girlsgottaeatpodcast

Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate! 

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

 

Feb 03, 2019
03 Human Prozac (Dr. Helen Fisher)
01:06:10

We interview Dr. Helen Fisher! She is a Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Chief Scientific Advisor to the dating site Match.com, and all around amazingly COOL person. We discuss her extensive research on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, & gender differences in the brain. She also teaches us how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. 

We talk about millennial dating culture and "slow love", how to get over a break up, the evolution of trust, and how too many choices can leave us with nothing at all. 

We also hear an INCREDIBLE story about a rickshaw and Dr. Fisher answers questions that nobody else has EVER asked her (including but definitely not limited to her first time story). 

ALSO: This is the first episode we've ever let Nanny listen to and she LOVED it.

 

Follow Dr. Fisher on Twitter @DrHelenFisher and find her work/books on helenfisher.com

Follow us on Instagram/Twitter @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us: Like, review, 5-star rate us !

Want extras? Go to our Patreon for extra content & to donate! We are going to be adding all sorts of bonus content this season and giving SHOUTOUTS! Woo!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

 

 

Jan 27, 2019
02 The Vanderhump Rules (Ariana Madix)
52:15

Charlotte had an accident and has to sit this one out but Remy is in LA interviewing Vanderpump Rules' Ariana Madix, who famously stated that she hates her vagina on reality TV. We discuss how that hate came to be, whether it is still around and what it is like to be a perfectionist with body issues. 

We also dive into the rocky waters of emotionally abusive exes and skin cancer. We explore how the show has changed throughout the years; especially in this new political climate. Finally, we discuss weed lube, having a relationship on reality TV, and "first orgasm of 2019" stories. 

I also tell a story that involves me looking at my own butthole. 

Follow Ariana Madix on Instagram @Ariana252525

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

 

Want more?

Listen to the parts we couldn't say on the podcast: 

Extras on Patreon include: 

Ariana discusses the beginning of her and Tom's relationship, "the cheating scandal," the night her dad died and how it brought her and tom together. We discuss cheating more in depth and Ariana reveals a secret about one of Jax’s cheating scandals that any Vander-fan would DIE to hear (but I don't want Bravo to sue me). Ariana reveals an embarrassing Twitter habit and we discuss donating to charity on Facebook & rape in the comedy community.

 

Jan 20, 2019
01 An Absolute Savage (Dan Savage)
52:29

We're back baby!! Season two kicks off with with Remy and Charlotte welcoming the nationally syndicated sex advice columnist Dan Savage. 

Equal parts brilliant, hilarious and kind, Dan explains how to communicate and give instructions during sex, how self-touch isn’t a negative reflection on your partner, what the campfire rule is, and how if we fake it, we will likely NOT make it. 

Dan also tells us why we should “WATCH THE GAY PORN” (we can all learn quite a bit from it) and discusses the Babe.net Aziz Ansari article from last year, explaining how we can meld male and female perspectives together to understand each other a little better. 


We also discuss the "It Gets Better Project", and growing up Irish Catholic and gay. (IN A TWIST, DAN HAS THE BEST STORY EVER ABOUT HIS CHILDHOOD PRIEST).

We finish up with a chat about how and when to tell kids about sex, why sex is not just about reproduction, and Dan’s sex-positive film festival HUMP!

Want more? 

Follow Dan Savage on Instagram @DanSavage

Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast

And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

 

Jan 13, 2019
Thanksgiving Surprise!
02:31

HELLO MY CUMPANIONS! I miss you so much. Just wanted to say hi and give you some updates. Also, how sick that we have an official name now? "Cumpanions." Some of you voted for "Cumrades" on the Instagram poll and I do still think that's pretty clever. 

((Were you not part of the vote? Are ya pissed? Follow us @howcumpodcast on Instagram and participate in all the polls! Send questions, comments, all that stuff.))

MISS MY VOICE?! We Really Love Island (My NEWEST podcast) cums out tomorrow but How Cum listeners get to hear it TODAY!!! Listen/review/ subscribe & follow us @wereallyloveisland

AND HEY! Have you rated/reviewed/subscribed to this pod? Please dew that! 

Nov 21, 2018
35 Cumgratulations! (Season 1 FINALE! With Remy & Charlotte)
02:05:12

One gigantic celebration for our Season 1 finale episode! Remy and Charlotte are back together and calling How Cum listeners from all around the world to CUMGRATULATE them on their first orgasms, and hear how they happened. We get a sick update from former guest Molly Brenner who just had HER first O too! She had to re-write her one woman show “Molly Brenner is Not Coming,” and now performs “I’m Coming!” Also, Remy has her first INTERNAL orgasm! This episode is LONG so if you want to break the stories up, we’ve included time stamps below.

Thank you so much for everyone who has gotten this podcast to where it is, we couldn’t do it without you. We don’t know when Season 2 will come out so follow @howcumpodcast & SUBSCRIBE for updates. (Did I hear there may be a pArTy soon?! YES YOU DID!)

**Starting Nov. 1 we will be available on Spotify, Soundcloud, Stitcher, Google Play, Youtube, & more!**

SHARE with your friends! No excuses, play like a champ. Talk about the pod, talk about orgasms, you could change someones life! We LOVE YOU & thank you again for listening.

(Rate, Review & Subscribe!)

Want to buy the awesome sex toys we talk about on this episode? “Cumgratuliations” was sponsored by Sweet Vibrations.

Toys Remy Mentioned:

-Girl’s Best Friend

-Pixie

-The Perfect Pair

-TuLips: Available to How Cum Listeners BEFORE its Nov. 1 launch with code HOWCUMDISCOUNT

 

Code HOWCUMDISCOUNT is good for 20% off of Sweet Vibrations products until Dec. 1

 

FOLLOW US! ESPECIALLY IF YOU WANT TO HEAR ABOUT ALL THE COOL STUFF THAT’S COMING YOUR WAY!

@HOWCUMPODCAST @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @Molly_Brenner

 

MISS MY VOICE??

Remy has a NEW PODCAST coming out Thanksgiving weekend 2018! She co-hosts with Episode 4 guest, Comedian and former X-Factor Contestant Emily Wilson. “We Really Love Island” is a BINGE PODCAST where we binge all of the episodes of British reality dating show sensation ‘Love Island.’ Rem and Em watch every episode and then break down every scintillating detail on the podcast, including giving you definitions of British slang and discussing how this show is the most insane experiment in love and human behavior ever, AND how it has become a global phenomenon with Love Island Sweden, Australia, Denmark — with a US version by CBS coming this spring. It is not available yet so follow @wereallyloveisland on Instagram for updates & reminders!

 

WANT TO SEE REMY LIVE??

Come see Remy do stand up: follow @remykassimircomedy for show dates around NYC/ all over the country. REMYKASSIMIR.COM coming November 2018.

 

WANT MORE HOW CUM RIGHT NOW?

Subscribe to Patreon.com/HowCum and bring season 2 back even faster! (Maybe) Patreon is a platform where you can support the creators who make your favorite content and get rewarded with NEW content that no one else can see. Start at $1, or do something crazy like COME BE ON AN EPISODE!

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Timestamps:

00:00:00- Remy & Charlotte Intro & Remy’s 1st Internal O

00:13:23- 20 y/o Listener Liz calls from her dorm room (Different Liz than “Liz” from ep. 33) *CRAZY O STORY*

00:25:31- Charlotte hates every word for vagina

00:33:39- Listener Mel calls from Washington D.C. to talk about her first orgasm (it was in a bathtub)

00:47:41- Listener Tuti Skypes in from Argentina! We talk about how Argentina’s import laws affected her ability to buy a sex toy and how she triumphed with her first orgasm.

01:00:20- Molly Brenner calls us! We love her and discuss how weed and flannel pajamas can actually be very sexy.

1:20:51- 32 y/o Sandy calls from California to discuss how having a tiger mom affected her views of sexuality. And how great life is now that she’s had the big O.

1:27:50- 21 y/o “Katie” from South Carolina calls in and we discuss her first O, and how she’s spreading the word to everyone she knows. TRUE PAL!!!

1:39:21- Sally in NYC is almost 25 and this year is going to be the best ever. We discuss how to be alone yet not lonely. Spoiler Alert: orgasms help.

1:53:49- Remy & Charlotte closing remarks & season 1 wrap up! THANK YOU AGAIN FOR COMING!!!

Oct 29, 2018
34 Him Too (Will Winner, Casey James Salengo & Patrick Schroeder)
59:50

This week's guests are the three hosts of the only male-run podcast with only female guests; The Good, The Dad, & The Ugly! Comedians Will Winner, Casey James Salengo, & Patrick Schroeder came over so I could thank them (specifically Will) for introducing me to the Womanizer on their podcast many months ago. 

We discuss many things including "The Him Too Movement", penis pumps, TLC shows from the early 2000s, dating new people, masturbating with roommates in the house, and copying sex stuff you've seen in movies. 

Follow us! 

@howcumpodcast @remykassimir @will.the.winner @caseyjsalengo @schrotime

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Oct 21, 2018
33 Welcome to Sex Ed (Dr. Andrew Porter & Andrea Barrica)
48:58

Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators, Dr. Andrew Porter (The Sex Wrap Podcast) & Andrea Barrica, founder of O.School. 

We talk how to manage STD's, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know doctors only discovered it in 1998? This is crazy. We also answer some fan questions!

Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @andreabarrica @odotschool @thesexwrap

Like HOW CUM? Rate, review & subscribe! 

Want to learn more? Go to O.School or listen to The Sex Wrap on Acast! AND SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH YOUR FRIENDS, THEY NEED IT!

Oct 14, 2018
32 Stories From A Superfan
54:29

I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6).

We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night...  I took her to a sex party! It was crazy.

You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended). 

Follow us! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir

Need more/ Want to support the pod? Get bonus content and donate money to me! www.Patreon.com/HowCum 

Website mentioned in this episode : www.bellesa.co 

 

 

Oct 08, 2018
31 Sex & Disability (Hannah Soyer, Chris Crespo & Spencer Williams)
01:07:10

This week I have THREE amazing guests. First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in & we talk about her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah, the creator of the This Body is Worthy Project discusses living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex, and finding sexual agency with masturbation.

I then talked to comedian Chris Crespo & writer Spencer Williams. Chris was born with Complicated Syndactyly & stars in the awesome web series Hand Jobs, despite being born with no forearms. Spencer has Cerebral Palsey and is currently writing about sex & disability for Vice. We talk about services that assist with sex for the disabled, fear of rejection, sex positions that are the most comfortable and wheelchairs: giant cockblock, or wonderful accessory? 

Follow us: @howcumpodcast @remykassimir

@cresposts @soyernotsawyer @djspencerwilliams

IF YOU LIKE HOW CUM PLEASE RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE!!

Sep 30, 2018
29 Polyamory with an Expert (Charyn Pfeuffer)
50:58

 

What is polyamory and how do you do it?*

I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes.

On this episode we discuss it all:

Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding."

*This episode is a redo, sorry for the re-post, but was necessary. (Explained in ep)

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Books Charyn recommends for those curious about in entering into polyamory:

1. The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

2. More Than Two by Eve Rickert

3. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan

4. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

5. Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx

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Follow us! On Instagram/Twitter @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charynpfeuffer 

 
Sep 30, 2018
30 Catch Up With Rem
57:06

This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?" 

etc. 

From now on I'll be taking fan questions at the end of every episode so please write in! email ourfamousfriends@gmail.com or write me @howcumpodcast / @remykassimir 

 

IF YOU LIKE/LOVE THIS PODCAST SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW!! Nice comments are oh so appreciated. Want extra content or a shoutout on the pod? Or watch a LIVE episode Check out www.Patreon.com/howcum and support How Cum! I appreciate every dollar given <3

Sep 23, 2018
28 Five Years Sober Off Dick (Seamus Kirst, Sydnee Washington, & Britni Diamond)
01:33:06

Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend; comedian Sydnee Washington! We talk about sober dating, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we’re most worried about. 

Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by ANOTHER Virgo friend Britni Diamond. We talk mutual masturbation, revealing strange fantasies to people, and maintaining friendships after becoming sober! 

Please rate, review & subscribe FOR MY BIRTHDAY!

follow us @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @seamuskirst @britnidiamond @justsydbw 

Sep 09, 2018
27 I'm So Proud of How Far You've Cum (Sofia Rose & Alyssa Limperis)
01:05:19

This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis (Crazy In Bed Podcast) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life.

We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you just have to find the right person for right now.

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EXTRAS will be out on Patreon on Wednesday -- we reaaaally had fun and over-recorded this one (hence why it's so long) and I have so many fun extras so subscribe to www.Patreon.com/HowCum if you want to listen to those or if you want to watch the Post Coitus that accompanies the episode!

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Aug 26, 2018
26 It Hit The Ceiling (Jeena Bloom & Pauline Murphy)
51:27

NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out. 

(Fast forward to the end to find out about our Womanizer Premium giveaway winners and a new giveaway that's going on on Instagram @howcumpodcast!) 

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Aug 19, 2018
25 Girl Power Squad (Ariel Elias, Molly Rubenlong, & Jen Winston)
56:19

This week is GIRL POWER week! Comedians Ariel Elias & Molly Ruben-Long (Well Behaved Podcast) and Instagram blogger Jen Winston (@girlpowersupply) join me to talk about what feminism actually means, dating in the current political climate, what to do when your heroes are perverts and more! It's a great episode. 

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Becoming a patron costs as little as a dollar but you can get exciting extras for a little more - like episode extras for $7 a month (all eps) and a Post Coitus (filmed How Cum aftershow) for $10 (includes all levels below it too!) It is very fun and you will like it. Thank you to my current Patrons I LOVE YOU!! 

Aug 12, 2018
24 Two Christians (John Fugelsang & Christian Finnegan)
48:34

Comedians John Fugelsang (SiriusXM's Tell Me Everything) & Christian Finnegan (VH1's Best Week Ever) discuss Christianity! How does Jesus feel about sex, abortion, homosexuality etc. according to the Bible? We discuss that, growing up as a Christian, faking orgasms as a man, cyber sex in AOL chatrooms, and more! 

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What is Patreon? A website where you can support this podcast and other creators. 

What do you get?

We post podcast episode extras every week and "The Post Coitus" which is a filmed Aftershow (very fun).

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Aug 05, 2018
23 Orgasm is a Human Right (Corinne Olympios)
41:44

In this final @WomanizerGlobal sponsored episode I chat with Corinne Olympios, and the notorious Bachelor contestant turned podcaster & clothing line owner lets me into her world off camera.

We talk about hang-ups with masturbation, long distance relationships, what to do if you dislike oral sex & more. Corinne’s boyfriend Jon also joins us on the mic for an interesting look into the male perspective.

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Sign up to become a Patron at Patreon.com/HowCum for as little as $1! Also, tag a friend in the giveaway post (Post will be up Monday July 29th). The more times you are tagged and the more people you tag increase your chances to win. SO EXCITED FOR YOU GUYS!!!

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Jul 29, 2018
22 Made In Manhattan (Alik Alfus)
46:09

Alik Alfus, one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea, (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths. 

If you went to high school with us-- don't worry, all names are BLEEPED but you'll know exactly who we're talking about. 

Except Gunnar. Hi Gunnar!

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New episodes are posted every Sunday but if you want extras (and I know ya do!) we release bonus content EVERY Wednesday on Patreon.com/HowCum-- this is where we put stuff too juicy or controversial for the pod and stick it behind a pay wall where we feel safe. ALSO** we have our Womanizer giveaway going on NOW- everyone who joins the Patreon in the next three weeks will be entered to win. Donate as little as $1 to get started!!)

Jul 22, 2018
21 Group Sex, Drugs, and Rock & Roll (Ralph Sutton & Lindsey Jennings)
48:26

Ralph Sutton (Owner of GaS Digital Podcast Network) & Lindsey Jennings (Comedian/Suicide Girl) join me to discuss masturbating in public, threesomes, doing stuff for the story, dating people who work in sex, and much more.

We mention last year's Skankfest A LOT and coincidentally Skanfest 2018 is going on now. Posting this ep. early in case you want to come see us!! 

Lots of awesome stories got cut for time but will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum on Wednesday! 

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This episode was sponsored by Womanizer-- WE LOVE YOU!!

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Jul 14, 2018
20 What About Ben?! (Ben DeMarco, Toni & Chuck)
51:25

You've asked for it, and here it is! My boyfriend Ben DeMarco (Comedian & Creator of Fat Baby) joins me to talk about his side of the How Cum journey, first loves, first blowjobs & his late in life circumcision. 

We interview two fans of the podcast about THEIR story- Toni & Chuck. Toni is a 50 year old woman who had never had an orgasm before listening to How Cum. Chuck is married to Toni and has WILD stories of his own. 

We had the best time, I can't wait for you guys to hear this one. 

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ALSO! This is our first #SPONSORED ep!! Thank you SO MUCH Womanizer!!! 

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Jul 08, 2018
19 Merry Vaginismus! Part II- N.Y.C. (Molly Brenner & Riley Lassin)
46:38

Molly Brenner Is Not Coming! Is a show about how Molly Brenner-- is not coming. But she came on this show! Comedian Riley Lassin joins us as we dive deeper into Vaginismus. 

We also talk about whether ghosts are watching you have sex, making barbies have sex, and how much we miss HBO's True Blood. 

 

Enjoy! 

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Subscribe to our Patreon for extras! Videos mentioned in this episode and episode one of "The Post Coitus: A How Cum Aftershow" go up on Wednesday July 4! Woo! You can see ep. 1 for a donation as little as $1. Happy Birthday America. 

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Jul 01, 2018
18 Merry Vaginismus! Part I - L.A. (Missy Modell, Nicole Aimee Schreiber & Jamie Manelis)
47:01

These three hilarious LA comedians chat with me about NY vs. LA dating, giving people yeast infections, banging people who look like you & “vaginismus;” a disorder that doesn’t sound so merry.


Also: two of them met the day we recorded this and now
they are best friends. It’s amazing.

 

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Jun 24, 2018
17 P***ys & F****ts (Kelsey Cook, Mark Harley, & Tim)
48:29

We are STILL in LA for this episode and I had the PLEASURE of having my long time friend (and person who I stay with in LA) Tim on who HATES this podcast!! WHAT?! I know. 

Conversely we have the biggest fan of the podcast on this episode too! Mark Harley is a comedian & actor from BET's 50 Central who has been a Cummer from day 1 (That's what I'm calling you guys, get used to it.) We talk about how gay frats are, putting stuff up our butts, and peeing on people. 

We also have the wonderful bi-coastal beauty Kelsey Cook on, hilarious comedian featured on The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon who hosts her own amazing pod The Self Helpless Podcast

 

I love this ep, and you guys, and sorry for posting late!!

NEVER AGAIN!!! 

 

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Jun 18, 2018
16 The Marvelous Ms. Macofsky (Ester Steinberg & Ali Macofsky)
54:53

We're still in LA for this one as Ester Steinberg (Comedian from the upcoming season of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel) and I coach 'Kill Tony' comedian Ali Macofsky on how to cum.

That's right, there are still women out there who can't! WHO KNEW?!

 

me.

 

that's who. 

 

Enjoy! (Follow up ep hitting our Patreon on Wednesday) 

@remykassimir @howcumpodcast @notalimac @ester.steinberg

Jun 10, 2018
15 Let's Have a Kai Kai (Rhea Litre)
41:32

I'm in LA!! These next few eps I am out here having the BEST TIME and talking to a barrage of UNREAL west coast guests.

My first is drag superstar Rhea Litre, one of the most requested Drag Queens for RuPaul's Drag Race; who has sky rocketed to fame seamlessly, without having to appear on the show. ::gasp::

Rhea comes from a line of famous Drag Race Queens, her mothers include Raja and Mayhem Miller. She and her sister Willem dropped "Let's Have a Kai Kai" which blew up on Youtube with over 3.1m views.  

This description is not doing this ep/ Rhea justice but rest assured,  we talk about it ALL:  Banging in drag vs banging out of drag, the art of tucking, F to M porn, and losing your virginity to someone who doesn't know that they're taking it.

We laughed, we loved, we Kai-Kai-ed.

 

follow us/ send us ya thoughts! @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @rhealitre

Jun 03, 2018
The Sum Up Cum Down (Part 2)
01:00:02

In This Part: In part 1 we left off at my orgasm after ep 6. In part 2 I re-cap episodes 7-14. Now that I can cum alone-- how do I do it with a person? What other stuff is interesting about sex? We delve into the different topics [below] and I play some highlights from those episodes, and let you know what the assignments were all in one spot. 

Guests on these episodes: Melissa Vitale (NSFW), Betsy Carroll, Polly Rodriguez (CEO, Unbound), Dan Soder (Showtime's Billions), Mark Normand (Amy Schumer Presents Mark Normand), Lisa Raduszynski, Robby Hoffman (The Chris Gethard Show), David Yarus (Founder, J Swipe), Emily Lubin/ Andrea Allen (Hot Mess Comedy Hour Podcast), Melanie Cristol (CEO, Lorals) Ian Fidance (You Up, Sirius XM), Jes Tom (Pleasurechest), @yasmingomez.official & @deeguerra

Sex Parties (Ep 7)

SexTech (Ep 8)

Laughter & Orgasms (Ep 9)

Communication (Ep 10)

Religion (Ep 11)

Gender & Sexuality (Ep 12)

Hygiene (Ep 13)

Love (Ep 14)

May 31, 2018
The Sum Up Cum Down (Part 1)
43:19

A mid-season summary of my journey so far!

This is Part 1: I go through episodes 1-6 with you and relive the journey from How Cum to How Came!

Guests: Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We Fucked Podcast), Alia Janine (Comedian/ Former Porn Star), Emily Wilson (Babe.Net), Napoleon Emill (Caroline's March Madness Winner), Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme/ @dontexpectsalads), Alex Pischera (Sound Guy/ Comedian), Charlotte Kassimir (Sister/ Research/ Last Week Tonight),  An Anonymous Nurse Named Talya, Wendi Starling (Jammerz/ The Old Pro Pod), David Goldberg (Time Out New York), and  Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3F Studios/ NSFW).

Stay Tuned for Part 2 (episodes 7-14)! Wednesday 5/30 6PM

 

May 27, 2018
14 The Three Types of Sex (Yasmin Gomez & Danae Guerra)
01:08:57

Instagram poets Yasmin Gomez (Words with Yaz/ Words with Queens) & Danae Guerra (DeeGuerra) join me in a discussion about how love and sex are intertwined! Do you know what oxytocin is? You need to. Listen to this ep because it's prob fuckin wit ya life!

We also talk about arranged marriages, physical and emotional abuse, parents who are on drugs, jackhammer sex, being spiteful, & instagram stalking. 

Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @words_with_queens @deeguerra @yasmingomez.official

 

 

 

May 20, 2018
13 Dirty Girl Privilege (Andrea Allan, Emily Lubin, & Melanie Cristol)
01:04:05

God f*cking damnit this episode is so funny. Comedians/ my friends Andrea Allan & Emily Lubin from the Hot Mess Comedy Hour podcast stop by to talk HYGIENE and **spoiler alert**-- two of us are VERY gross. And one of us I might say, is TOO clean. 

We had the pleasure of interviewing CEO Melanie Cristol via telephone (we're so high tech!!) about her company Lorals-- which make revolutionary latex panties, ideal for giving/receiving oral sex!! Their Indiegogo campaign came and went quicky (heh heh) but you can still order Lorals on their website. 

((Obv we talk about cumming, and some insanely hilarious stories involving poop and strap-ons. ))

 

Follow us @howcumpodast @hotmesscomedyhour @mylorals

 

May 13, 2018
12 They came, they saw, they conquered (Ian Fidance & Jes Tom)
01:05:54

Unreal episode with some comedian pals:  Ian Fidance (You Up with Nikki Glaser, Sirius XM) and Jes Tom, "weird queer comedy babe." 

Orgasms vs. cumming. The difference between sex & gender. What it's like to be non binary,  bisexual, or both. We talk about this stuff, growing up closeted, dating assholes, and assholes in general.

Also, where is the line when it comes to writing jokes? Should comics be allowed to say anything they want if it's funny or do we need to be more careful?  

File this one under very educational with a lot of heart. 

Follow us @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @ianimal @jesthekid

May 06, 2018
11 A Double Mitzvah! (Robby Hoffman & David Yarus)
01:00:03

Religion shapes a lot of how we how we think of relationships and sex. On this episode we delve into the religion I was born into, JUDAISM!(Le'Chaim!)

Two formidable, accomplished, & brilliant Jewish humans join me:

We talk jews vs non jews in the bedroom, being gay/ coming out, dating apps, leaving Hasidic Judaism,  and some stuff I learned on Birthright that I had questions about. (Specifically the Mikva. If you don't know what that is, don't worry-- neither did I!)

David also asks me to explain my never published dating manifesto "Date Like You Have a Boyfriend."  and I give you all some dating tips! Mazel Tov! (Oy Vey.)

Follow us @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @davidyarus  @robbyhoffman

Apr 29, 2018
10 La Petite Mort (Lisa Raduszynski)
29:43

Have you ever been uncomfy asking for what you want during sex? Have you ever tried it in another language?! This week we get a lesson on how to bang en Français (In French) from Paris comedian Lisa Raduszynski! 

Fun, oui? Oui!

Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @lisa_raduszynski

Apr 22, 2018
09 Andrea The Giant (Dan Soder & Mark Normand)
43:24

Dan Soder (From Showtimes's Billions/ The Bonfire on Sirius XM) and Mark Normand (Comedy Central Hour Special/ Tuesdays with Stories Podcast) are both hilarious, successful, objectively attractive comedians.

On this episode we discover how similar laughing and cumming are, which they'd prefer to make a girl do, and which they'd prefer to do themselves. We discuss former relationships, banging fans, what a "chuckle fucker" is— and how to avoid one. 

We discuss an article from The Atlantic called "Why Men Don't Like Funny Women" and the guys get a special treat-- they get to meet my grandmother! 

 

ITS A FANTASTIC EPISODES AND YOU DONT GET ANY TIME CODES THIS WEEK BECAUSE YOU SHOULDNT SKIP ANY AND ITS ONLY 45 MIN! Hooray!! 

Follow us at @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @dansoder @marknorm

 

rate & review if ya nasty! <3

Apr 15, 2018
08 The Shape of Water and Lube (Polly Rodriguez)
56:45

Polly Rodriguez, the hilarious CEO of Unbound chats with Remy about different sex toys BESIDES the Womanizer and the importance of lube. They get a *tiny* bit side tracked during a debate about interspecies banging (a la "The Shape of Water"), discuss a poop snafu that happened during sex, and talk about Polly's battle with cancer and how that shaped her work. 

We also discussed my assignment- masturbating with a Chakrub. Enjoy!! 

-EPISODES ARE NOW WEEKLY. GET EXCITED!-

& Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @unboundbabes @polly_claire

Apr 08, 2018
07 Remy Goes To A Sex Party (Melissa Vitale & Betsy Carroll)
01:20:07
NSFW has been dubbed "the Soho House of Sex" by Vice.com
Their 800 members range from busy New Yorkers, Fortune 500 executives to international models and entrepreneurs. The Brooklyn-based private club and digital agency connects like-minded millennials with vice-category brands in sexual wellness, cannabis and adventure. 
 
NSFW (The New Society for Wellness) hosts monthly adventures ("SEX PARTIES"!!)  including Clubhouse, Dankquet and Playdate with curated experiences  at a 4 story townhome in Williamsburg.
 
Remy got to attend one of those events and brought her friend and fellow comedian Betsy Carroll. In this episode we tell you what went down as we interview Melissa Vitale, independent PR goddess for NSFW.
 
Follow us on Instagram @HowCumPodcast @MelissaavitalePR @betsycarroll @remykassimir
 
Shoutouts to comedians Jes Tom, Chrissie Mayr & Allan Fuks who were also at the partay (and we mention in this ep)!
 
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Timestamps!
(This episode is LONG and juicy but here are some timestamps if you need to hurry! AND THERE'S A BONUS AT THE END AFTER THE OUTRO SONG!) 
 
4:00 Melissa Describes NSFW
 
5:15 REMY DOES A GIVEAWAY!
 
7:43 How Melissa Got Involved With NSFW
 
11:00 How are Orgasms Related to The Me Too Movement 
 
15:57 We Go To The Party- I Punch a Sex Doll 
 
19:13 Betsy Makes A Great Point About Tampons
 
23:00 Whips and Floggers at The Party
 
32:33 Remy and Betsy Try The MotorBunnies at The Party
 
42:43 Melissa's First Sex Party 
 
46:36 Opinions on Lingerie and An Intro to Tantric Sex
 
1:05:00 The Issue with Fingerblasting 
 
1:09:00 Remy gets AN ASSIGNMENT
 
1:13:26-- A LITTLE BIT EXTRA-- SKIP AHEAD TO THIS IF YOU WERE INVOLVED WITH THE INSTAGRAM POLLS THIS WEEK!! A CRAZY STORY OF MASS SEXTING THAT YOU NEED TO BEWARE 
 
 
 
 
 
Mar 25, 2018
06 Guys We F*cked & Girls Who Came (Krystyna Hutchinson & Corinne Fisher)
01:11:48

A VERY SPECIAL EPISODE: Comedians Krystyna Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher (Guys We Fucked Podcast) come over to chat and celebrate something VERY EXCITING!-- Can you guess what it is? REMY HAD HER FIRST ORGASM!

Charlotte (Co-producer & Sister de Remy) is in the house too. So is our grandmother but not on the mic, she's just listening to us record from her room. It's fine. 

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook!  @remykassimir @charkasstic @krystynahutch @philanthropygal @sorryaboutlastnight

 

Mar 11, 2018
05 Sexual Healing, Literally (David Goldberg, Dominus Eros & Lola Jean)
01:34:31

O.M.G. This episode is so chock full of goodness. David Goldberg (LGBT/Comedy/Things to Do Editor @ Timeout NY) co-hosts and introduces Remy to his favorite sexual healers, Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3FStudios) and we learn about all of the sexual healing classes they offer, including but not limited to:

BDSM, Wrestling, Tantric Massage, Masturbation Classes, Tantric Massage, Couples Classes etc. 

We also chat about life as a gay person, life as a pan sexual, and what it means to be polyamorous/ polysexual. THIS EPISODE IS JUICY. Get excited. 

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @goldberghawn @lolajean @dominuseros

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This ep is longer than ususal so here are some timestamps if you're in a rush (But def listen to the whole thing sometime!)

:00- Intro & Theme by Sam&Bill @funcomfortable @billlbria

1:27- Meet David Goldberg

2:06 Gay Stuff in pop culture

21:23 David's First Time Story

24:32:23- Meet Dominus & Lola

29:14:52- Giving Permission 

1:18:35- Dominus & Lola give Remy Her Assignment

Feb 25, 2018
04 Can You Say Dyspareunia?? (Emily Wilson & Nurse Talya)
01:05:53

Seriously, try pronouncing dyspareunia. I still can't-- but now I know what it means! PAINFUL SEX. On this episode we sit down with Talya, a nurse in training who guides us through the ins and outs of the vagina. We also discuss 'The Female Price of Male Pleasure'-- an article by TheWeek.com that comes on the heels of another viral article-- The Aziz Ansari piece from Babe.net. 

I invited Emily Wilson, Comedian and Babe.net producer to guest co-host and discuss all of this with me! 

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @charkasstic @therealemilywilson

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Feb 11, 2018
03 Fluffers Don't Exist (Alia Janine & Alex Pischera)
01:08:10

The Internet is for PORN! Watching it, talking about it, and for some of us- doing it! This episode features Alia Janine, porn star turned stand up comic.

Remy and guest co-host Alex Pischera interview Alia about her life on porn sets, web camming, and BDSM as Remy discusses her own journey down the rabbit hole that is PornHub.com

What is Remy's assignment this week? She must look at The "Man in the Mirror."

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @alia.janine @alex.pischera

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Timestamps (only use if youre in a hurry! this ep is very juiiicy and deserves to be listened all da way throo!)

:00- Intro & Theme by Sam&Bill @funcomfortable @billlbria

:43 Meet Guest Co-Host Comedian Alex Pischera

4:02 Alex's First Time Story

14:10 Exploring Fetishes Through Porn

24:44 Meet Former Porn Star Alia Janine

32:14 Alia's First Time

35:00 Alia Gives Remy Her Assignment

41:57 The Wonderful World of Webcam/ Life on a Porn Set

 

Jan 28, 2018
02 It Was A Hot Day (Napoleon Emill & Lindsey Metselaar)
51:16

Men are from mars, women are from venus-- let's talk about my vagina, her vagina & also his penis! On this hilariously entertaining episode of How Cum we get the man's angle on all things sex. 

Remy & guest co-host Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme podcaster & social media queen) talk about how Remy's first assignment went & interview the big man on comedy campus, Napoleon Emill. We discuss men's likes and dislikes (Do you like being called "daddy"? What about stretch marks?) and ask the age old question-- are we really that different? 

Remy also get's another exciting assignment that we encourage you to follow along with!! 

Follow @HowCumPodcast  & message us your questions!

@remykassimir @wemetatacme @lindzmetz @napoleonemill

Jan 12, 2018
01 Professional Cumming (Wendi Starling & Charlotte Kassimir)
01:02:56

Those who can't do-- interview. I'm pretty sure that's how that saying goes. Ep one starts with a BANG! (PUN VERY INTENTIONAL)

Remy and her sister/ guest co-host for this episode, Charlotte Kassimir sit down with Comedian Wendi Starling. We discuss multiple orgasms, squirting, selling panties, and being a sugarbaby-- all things Wendi has done. And THEN Wendi gives Remy a tantalizing 'assignment' for next week!

Follow @Howcumpodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @charkasstic @wendibird82

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Timestamps (only use if youre in a hurry! this ep is very juiiicy and deserves to be listened all da way throo!)

:00- Intro & Theme by Sam&Bill @funcomfortable @billlbria

:49 Podcast Basics

2:00 Meet producer/ guest co-host/ Remy's sister Charlotte

9:09 Charlotte's First Time Story

12:50 Meet Wendi Starling

21:35 Wendi's First Time Story

36:46 Sugar Baby Life

28:23 Selling Panties

58:00 Wendi Give's Remy Her Assignment

Dec 24, 2017