Unladylike

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Description

Find out what happens when women break the rules - those unwritten but all too real bullsh*t expectations of how we should live our lives. Cristen Conger and Caroline Ervin (formerly Stuff Mom Never Told You) tackle questions through their trademark obsessive research, stories from rule-breakin’ ladies and a solid dose of delightful feminist rage.


Episode Date
How to Take a Hike
2315
Hiking has been all the rage lately. But its popularity also reveals uncomfortable truths about who gets to belong in the great outdoors. This episode, Cristen and Caroline cross paths with geographer Carolyn Finney and Outdoor Journal Tour founders Kenya and Michelle Jackson-Saulters to map out the duality of America's hiking trails as sites of racial pain as well as Black joy and healing. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter [unladylike.co]. And join our Facebook group! Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. This ad is brought to you by Prose [prose.com/unladylike for 15% off first order [prose.com]], Best Fiends [bestfiends.com [bestfiends.com]], and Wild Basin [drizly.com [drizly.com] code UNLADYLIKE for $5 off first order].
Aug 11, 2020
How to Do #MeToo Without Prison (2 of 2)
2201
Is it possible to combat sexual violence and support survivors without sending perpetrators to prison? Dr. Alissa Ackerman, a sex crimes policy expert and rape survivor, thinks so. In part two of two episodes reconsidering mainstream feminism's reliance on the criminal justice system, Dr. Ackerman outlines a powerful alternative to prison punishment called restorative justice and why she's living proof that it works. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Femme Fun [femmefun.com code UNLADYLIKE for 15% off], Best Fiends [bestfiends.com], Native [nativedeo.com promo code Unladylike], Tempest [jointempest.com code UNLADYLIKE for $50 off], and Each and Every [https://eachandevery.com/ code UNLADYLIKE for 30% off your first purchase].
Aug 04, 2020
How to Abolish Prison Like a Feminist (1 of 2)
2022
Recent calls to defund police and abolish prisons have raised the question: But what about rapists? In part one of two episodes exploring that question, prison abolitionist Maya Schenwar presents the case for looking outside the criminal justice system for safety and connects the dots between abolition and feminism Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Best Fiends [bestfiends.com], Native [nativedeo.com code UNLADYLIKE for 20% off], Barefoot Scientist [barefootscientist.com code UNLADYLIKE for 20% off first order], Tempest [jointempest.com code UNLADYLIKE for $50 off], and Each and Every [eachandevery.com code UNLADYLIKE for 30% off your first purchase].
Jul 28, 2020
How to Live Single, Pt. 3: Sexpectations
2156
When was the last time you had sex, if ever? In the final episode of our How to Live Single series, science journalist Angela Chen upends that question by creating romantic room for asexuality. Her book, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society and the Meaning of Sex, comes out in September. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Barefoot Scientist [code UNLADYLIKE for 20% off first order] Tempest [code UNLADYLIKE for $50 off], and Best Fiends.
Jul 21, 2020
How to Live Single, Pt. 2: IRL Golden Girls
2002
Why does living single usually come with roommates? In part two of three about How to Live Single, Cristen and Caroline get a Golden Girls reality check on the housing crises caused by breakups and aging. This episode is brought to you by Best Fiends [bestfiends.com]  and Native [nativedeo.com promo code Unladylike]. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!
Jul 14, 2020
How to Live Single, Pt. 1: Doing You
2445
What if being single wasn't sold to us as a problem to solve? In part one of three episodes exploring How to Live Single, Aminatou Sow (Call Your Girlfriend) and Shani Silver (A Single Serving Podcast) get real about how unpartnered unladies care for themselves, embrace their relationship status and negotiate the casual and costly ways that society taxes singledom. This episode is brought to you by Barefoot Scientist [code UNLADYLIKE for 20% off first order] Tempest [code UNLADYLIKE for $50 off], Oscar Mayer, and Ms. Bitch. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!  
Jul 07, 2020
How to Reckon with Refinery29
2952
A number of feminist-branded companies, including The Wing, Man Repeller and Ban.do, are reckoning with racism and employee mistreatment. This episode, we're focusing in on the digital-media powerhouse Refinery29 and its problematic white leadership. Plus, we'll examine what the #blackatR29 movement reveals about working while Black and why seemingly woke, women-led outlets aren't immune to toxicity, inequity and top-down racism. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Tempest [code UNLADYLIKE for $50 off], Oscar Mayer, and Ms. Bitch.  
Jun 30, 2020
How to Go Braless
2451
Almost as soon as pandemic lockdowns started, homebound breasts everywhere began forgoing their bras. But how is going braless still unconventional enough to inspire viral media coverage amid a public health crisis? Breast expert Jenny Burbage joins us to bust some bra myths, and author Chidera Eggerue explains why saggy boobs matter. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!
Jun 23, 2020
How to Lift Heavy Sh*t
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Weightlifting used to be boys-only exercise, but women are getting swole like never before. Cristen and Caroline find out why from competitive powerlifter Casey Johnston. Then Team USA weightlifter Mattie Rogers shares how she muscled her way to becoming one of the strongest — and most Instagram-famous — women in the sport.   Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.   This episode is brought to you Rosebud. [rosewoman.com promo code UNLADYLIKE], Best Fiends [bestfiends.com], Third Love [thirdlove.com], the Let's Go Together podcast.
Jun 16, 2020
How to Not Be a Karen
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How do you solve a problem like white feminism? Mikki Kendall knows, and the answer isn't being nice. From #solidarityisforwhitewomen to Hood Feminism, Mikki shares how uprooting racism within mainstream feminism became her mission, and why she makes white ladies uncomfortable on purpose. This episode is brought to you Rosebud. [rosewoman.com promo code UNLADYLIKE], Best Fiends [bestfiends.com], and Third Love [thirdlove.com]. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!
Jun 09, 2020
How to Be Tori Amos
2405
Tori Amos is a piano prodigy and Gen X goddess whose music was a soundtrack of third-wave feminism. Cristen and Caroline talk to her about breaking through the early 90s airwaves and find out: Why is Tori Amos such an enduring feminist icon?   Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!
May 26, 2020
How to Feel Your Pandemic Feels
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'How are you doing?' has become a super loaded question in the days of COVID. So this episode, Cristen and Caroline find out how listeners are feeling, check in with Unladylike illustrator Tyler Feder and take a much-needed Zoom trip to the therapist to help us sort through our collective pandemic emotions. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. This episode is brought to you by Truly Grass Fed [trulygrassfed.com] and Best Fiends [bestfiends.com].
May 19, 2020
How to Get Canceled with Natalie Wynn
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Contrapoints creator Natalie Wynn is among the most popular and acclaimed YouTubers, specializing in counteracting the red-pilled, radicalized voices that thrive on the platform. So why did she suddenly find herself canceled, how did she handle it, and what does it say about owning our values out loud?   Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!   This episode is brought to you by Third Love [ThirdLove.com/unladylike]
Apr 07, 2020
How to Nail Manicures
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From lesbian TikTok to a magical place called Mantrap, getting your nails done means way more than meets the eye. In this episode, Cristen and Caroline find out why writer Tembe Denton-Hurst feels her realest in fake nails, and documentary filmmaker Adele Free Pham shares the stunning story behind the rise of nail salons. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. To support nail workers who are out of work because of the coronavirus, you can donate to the Nail Salon Workers Resilience Fund or the One Fair Wage Fund.
Mar 31, 2020
How to Break up with Mom
2622

Parental estrangement is surprisingly common — and commonly misunderstood. Caroline and Cristen sort fact from fiction to find out: What happens when daughters break up with their moms?

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Mar 24, 2020
How to Break Tattoo Taboos with Margaret Cho
2451

How do gender, race and class color our tattoo perceptions? Comedy icon Margaret Cho breaks down the body politics of being a heavily inked Korean-American woman. Plus! Cristen and Caroline discover the original "tramp stamp," a stick-n-poke renaissance, and the origins of the ladylike tattoo taboo.

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Mar 17, 2020
How to Work the Gig Economy
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How can women advocate for workplace equality when they don't have a salaried 9-to-5 with benefits? With help from Freelancers Union founder, Sara Horowitz, Cristen and Caroline troubleshoot sexism for the self-employed, contractors and tip earners.

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This episode is brought to you by Third Love [thirdlove.com] and Truly Grass Fed [trulygrassfed.com].

Mar 10, 2020
How to Crash Quinceañeras
2070

Sweet 16 doesn't hold a birthday candle to the quinceañera. But why has such a ladylike tradition and its poofy gowns kept partying on? You're invited to find out, as Cristen and Caroline unwrap how today's quinceañeras are coming of age in unladylike ways.

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Mar 03, 2020
How to Unscramble Egg Freezing
2061

To freeze or not to freeze? That's today's hottest fertility question. With help from Washington Post reporter Nicole Ellis, Cristen and Caroline find out why it suddenly seems like every ovary's doing it, and whether egg freezing is all it's cracked up to be.

Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group!

This episode is brought to you by M.M. LaFleur [mmlafleur.com/unladylike], Buffy Comforters [buffy.co with code UNLADYLIKE], and Honeybook [HoneyBook.com/unladylike].

Feb 25, 2020
How to Mind Mental Illness with Esmé Weijun Wang
2038

What happens when you aren't "the appropriate type of crazy?" Best-selling author Esmé Weijun Wang talks to Caroline and Cristen about living with schizoaffective disorder, how it shapes her ambition, and the subjectiveness of being 'high functioning'.

Feb 18, 2020
How to Spot Scams
2505

Cristen has a case of fraud fever, and the only cure for it is more scams! First, Jane Marie of The Dream breaks down why millions of women go for broke with multilevel marketing schemes, or MLMs. Then, Laci Mosley, aka Scam Goddess, revels in scam schadenfreude and spills why she's pro-petty fraud. Plus, Caroline plays Who Wants to Scam a Millionaire.

 

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Feb 11, 2020
That's So Unladylike Tour
100

Description: Unladylike is going on tour this spring! For tickets, go to unladylike.co/events. See y'all there!

 

Feb 07, 2020
How to Sober Up
1964

From Dry January to #sobercurious, not drinking has recently taken on new meanings and more mainstream visibility. But what really happens when women sober up? Cristen and Caroline explore the grayer layers of female sobriety that get filtered out of Instagram hashtags and Alcoholics Anonymous alike. 

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Feb 04, 2020
How to Thirst with Bim Adewunmi and Nichole Perkins
2469

Ever feel hot 'n' bothered -- and helplessly horny? Thirst Aid Kit, a podcast hosted by Bim Adewunmi and Nichole Perkins, is here for you. Cristen and Caroline let off steam with Bim and Nicole about the evolution of thirst, the hotness of Hot Priest, and lusting out loud in the #MeToo era.

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Jan 28, 2020
How to Tilt the Lens with Sinéad Burke
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From the children's classrooms to the Met Gala red carpet, Sinéad Burke is on a mission to tilt the lens on what accessibility looks like and whom it’s for. Cristen and Caroline find out how she navigates the world as a little person, cultivates vulnerability as a strength and boldly asks uncomfortable questions. 

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Jan 21, 2020
Winter Break: How to Pass the Equal Rights Amendment
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To wrap up our winter break, Cristen and Caroline revisit their episode on fighting for the Equal Rights Amendment. C&C talk to filmmaker and activist Kamala Lopez about the century-long fight for an ERA, why we still need one, and the unladylike power we have to finally get a constitutional IUD to protect our rights from unplanned politics.

Unladylike will be back on January 21st with a brand new season!

Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.

This episode is brought to you by Ritual [Ritual.com/UNLADYLIKE].

 

Dec 31, 2019
Winter Break: How to Slam Dunk
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Unladylike is on winter break! To celebrate, Cristen and Caroline are revisiting their favorite episodes from past seasons. This week, they take on the slam dunk.

 

For women's basketball, to dunk or not to dunk has long been the question. It’s the ‘wow factor’ that WNBA haters often point to as proof that the women's game doesn't deserve the fandom, fame and fortune that the guys get. C&C talk to two dunking superstars of past and present to sort through the courtside gender politics and controversy of stuffing the net and find out whether more women bringing the slams could settle the score.

Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.

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Dec 24, 2019
Winter Break: How to Sell Weed
2658

Caroline and Cristen are revisiting some of their favorite Unladylike episodes throughout the month of December. This week, they look into the cannabiz!

Legal cannabis is America's fastest-growing industry and reportedly one of its women-friendliest. Cristen and Caroline sort the hype from the hangups around women and cannabis with help from three ganjapreneurs who are having their Big Weed Brownie - and rewriting its recipe, too.

Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.

 

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Dec 17, 2019
Winter Break: How to Feel Sad
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For the month of December, Cristen and Caroline are revisiting some of their favorite Unladylike episodes. First up, they dive into the feels. Women's anger is all the rage, but why does showing our sadness feel weak? Nora McInerny (Terrible, Thanks For Asking) shares how she stopped emotionally should-ing herself and started claiming her sadness space, even while falling in love again. Then, Therapy for Black Girls founder Dr. Joy Harden Bradford drops some expert advice on how to sit with our sorrow and recognizing white-girl-tears privilege.

Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.

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Dec 10, 2019
How to Flush the Poop-triarchy
2486

By listener request, Caroline and Cristen go full potty mouth on the ladylike poop taboo and its real-deal side effects. With help from a sh*t-talking doctor and a pair of "poop friends," they find out why women are twice as likely to have irritable bowels, how gender affects our gut feelings, and the importance of airing fecal matters.

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Dec 03, 2019
How to Take Fashion Seriously
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Before Mari Kondo-ing your closet, consider this: the average American throws away 80 pounds of clothes each year, and only a fifth of what's donated survives secondhand. Unladylike producer Sam Lee takes Cristen and Caroline along on her mission to purge her own fast fashion habits and find out how so many garments become garbage - meeting a one-woman textile sustainability machine along the way.

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Nov 26, 2019
How to Marry Off Maiden Names
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Women marrying off their "maiden names" is one of the most enduring gender traditions — and feminist conundrums. Cristen and Caroline pop the questions: What's it really like to choose your maiden name choice, and how does family, race and sexual orientation factor into the choice?

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Nov 19, 2019
How to Spell 'The L Word' with Ilene Chaiken
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In early 2000s Hollywood, Ilene Chaiken did the seemingly impossible, co-creating and running a hit TV show entirely about lesbians and queer women. But the iconic television writer, producer and occasional director is no one-hit wonder. Caroline and Cristen talk to Ilene about navigating toxic male egos, tokenization and tough audience feedback on her way to creating all sorts of genre-breaking TV shows that you've definitely watched.


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Nov 12, 2019
How to Unbridle Horse Girls with Lisa Hanawalt
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Saddle up for a ride through horse-girl country. First, Bojack Horseman designer Lisa Hanawalt shares her personal horse-tery and why horse girls' passion is so often misunderstood. Then, Cristen and Caroline ride along with writer Gray Chapman to one of the largest annual horsey gatherings and take a detour through horse-girl internet.

All to find out: What happens when we get off our high horses about horse girls?

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Nov 05, 2019
How to Demystify Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter
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For most of medical history, vulvas and vaginas have been mythologized as too dirty, dainty and/or deformed. But gynecologist Jen Gunter is on a mission to detox that douchebaggery. Cristen and Caroline get a check-up on what it really takes to take care of the V's and why haters call her the "vaginal antichrist."

Plus, Dr. Gunter answers Unladylike listeners' questions they've always wanted to know but have been too scared to ask other OB/GYNs.

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Oct 29, 2019
How to Take on Politics with June Diane Raphael & Jessica Yellin
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When politics feels like dumpster fire, how do we still take it on without losing our minds? Actor and activist June Diane Raphael is here to help us reconsider what running for office looks like and how to get started. Plus, former CNN chief White House correspondent Jessica Yellin tell us how to engage with political news, without all the yellin'.


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Oct 22, 2019
How to Be 'The Bisexual' with Desiree Akhavan
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When queerness is out of the closet, what does bisexuality even mean? For bisexual Iranian-American filmmaker Desiree Akhavan, the answer is . . . complicated. Cristen and Caroline talk to Desiree about fitting in, coming out and unlearning rom-com lies about female desire. All to find out: How do you fall in love with your own sexuality - even when you're not supposed to?


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Oct 15, 2019
How to Dive Into Fear
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Underwater cave explorer Jill Heinerth has dived deeper inside Earth's inner space than any other woman in history, pursuing one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet. This episode, Caroline and Cristen channel their inner mermaids to discover what happens when you swim towards your fear instead of away from it.

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Oct 08, 2019
How Score Equal Pay in Soccer
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The US Women's National Soccer Team might be wrapping up their World Cup victory tour, but their equal pay lawsuit is far from over. With assists from Meg Linehan of The Athletic and Maya Raghu from the National Women's Law Center, Cristen and Caroline game out what's at stake and why it's relevant to us non-Megan Rapinoes, too.

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Oct 01, 2019
How to Be Da Baddest Bitch in Hip-Hop
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Rap queens are rarely allowed to reign more than one at a time, but Megan Thee Stallion and City Girls are leading a whole stable of up-n-coming female emcees and hip-hop artists blowing up that ladylike standard. Bottom of the Map hosts Christina Lee and Dr. Regina Bradley join Caroline and Cristen to break down how female emcees have redefined sexuality and self-love for themselves, why hip-hop feminism matters, and the icons who made #hotgirlsummer possible. 


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Sep 24, 2019
How to Own Your Talent with Ashley Nicole Black
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Comedy writer and actor Ashley Nicole Black knows what she's good at. But that almost derailed her path to landing "Full Frontal with Samantha Bee" and now co-starring on HBO's "A Black Lady Sketch Show." Find out how Ashley flipped her life script, ditched a doctorate, and improvised all the way to the Emmys.

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How to Self Help Yourself
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Aug 06, 2019
How To Wear Too Much Makeup
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Jul 30, 2019
Introducing The Secret Lives of Black Women
168
Jul 25, 2019
How to Kick Off High Heels at Work
2580
Jul 23, 2019
Unladylike Hotline Advice-A-Thon
2704
Jul 16, 2019
How to Be a Phone Sex Operator
2290
Jul 09, 2019
How to Get Schooled on Title IX
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Jul 02, 2019
How to Create Feminist Superheroes
2627
Jun 25, 2019
How to Say What You Want with Geena Davis
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Jun 18, 2019
How to Solve Math Probs
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Jun 11, 2019
How to Wear Body Hair, Part 3
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Jun 04, 2019
How to Wear Body Hair, Part 2
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May 28, 2019
How to Wear Body Hair, Part 1 with Sasheer Zamata
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May 21, 2019
Ask Us Anything This Friday!
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May 01, 2019
Announcing: Unladies' Night in NYC!
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Apr 24, 2019
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Apr 17, 2019
How to Zine It Yourself
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Apr 09, 2019
How to Curse Like a F*cking Lady
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Apr 02, 2019
How to Toot Your Own Horn
2750
Mar 26, 2019
How to Free the 90s Bitch
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Mar 19, 2019
How to Be Brutally Honest BFFs with Allison Raskin and Gaby Dunn
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Mar 12, 2019
How to Feel Sad :(
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How to Tie the Knot
2706
Feb 26, 2019
How to Turn 30 with Amanda Seales
2562
Feb 19, 2019
How to Fall in Love with Herpes
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Feb 12, 2019
How to Slay Sexism Like a Professional
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Feb 05, 2019
How to Leave Dietland, Pt. 2
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Jan 29, 2019
How to Leave Dietland, Pt. 1 with Joy Nash
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Jan 22, 2019
BONUS - Focus On: The Equal Rights Amendment
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Jan 18, 2019
How to #FreeTheVibrator
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Dec 04, 2018
How to Find a Lesbian Bar
2645
Nov 27, 2018
How to Slam Dunk
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Nov 20, 2018
How to Get A Rape Kit
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Nov 13, 2018
How to Run for President
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Nov 06, 2018
How to Be Positively Morbid
2806
Oct 30, 2018
How to Diagnose Gaslighting Docs
2660
Oct 23, 2018
Unladylike Presents: This Is the Author
514
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Oct 16, 2018
Unladylike Presents: Sold In America
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676
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How to Smash the Patriarchy
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How to Ruffle Feathers
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How to Be Girl Friends
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How to Dress for Success
2294
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How to Be a Bad Mom
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How to Put on Your Face
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How to Stop Getting Screwed in the SCOTUS
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How to Reboot Sexist Robots
2689
Jul 03, 2018
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2404
Jun 26, 2018
How to Tell a Rape Joke
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Jun 19, 2018
How to Have the 🤑 Talk
2651
Jun 12, 2018
How to Argue Your Case with Imani Gandy
2595
Jun 05, 2018
How to Shoot a Gun
2874
May 29, 2018
How to Swipe Right with Nicole Byer
2495
May 22, 2018
Extra Unladylike: How to Come Out of the Cannabis Closet
1032
Apr 20, 2018
How to Sell Weed
2608
Apr 10, 2018
How to Be a Sex Queen
2113
Apr 03, 2018
How to Break the Silence
2539
Mar 27, 2018
How to Nanny Up
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Mar 20, 2018
How to Be a Mormon Feminist
2719
Mar 13, 2018
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2207
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2191
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How to Be a Boss Witch
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