The Place We Find Ourselves
By Adam Young | LCSW, MDiv
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Subscribers: 865
Reviews: 1
Episodes: 170
Oct 25, 2019
I think this podcast is insightful on different traumas and the time it takes for different people to process them. Everyone needs to process and grieve in their own way and I think this podcast is a good reminder that it is okay.
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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as psychologist Dan Allender, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.
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173 I Am Badass: Loss, A Woman's Cycle, and Hope
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Jun 02, 2025 |
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172 Spiritual and Religious Trauma with Dr. Hillary McBride
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May 15, 2025 |
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171 Your Sexuality and Your Story: Linking Past to Present
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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170 Make Sense of Your Story: Dan Allender Interviews Adam
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Mar 07, 2025 |
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169 How to Experience the Kind Presence of God with John Eldredge
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Jan 27, 2025 |
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168 Longing for Delight and Honoring Anger
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Jan 13, 2025 |
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167 StoryWork: What It Is and Why It Matters with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel
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Jan 06, 2025 |
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166 Why Your Marriage Feels The Way It Does
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Dec 16, 2024 |
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165 A Concise Explanation of Avoidant and Ambivalent Attachment
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Dec 02, 2024 |
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164 Engaging Your Cultural/Collective Story
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Nov 18, 2024 |
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163 Implicit Memory: What It Is and Why It Matters
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Oct 28, 2024 |
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162 Triangulation: What It Is and Why It Matters
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Oct 14, 2024 |
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161 Exploring Your Sexual Story With Curiosity and Kindness
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Sep 30, 2024 |
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160 The Weight of Religious and Spiritual Expectations with Reid Zeller
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Jul 29, 2024 |
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159 Revisiting the Big Six: What You Needed from Your Parents
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Jul 15, 2024 |
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158 The Critical Relationship Between Attachment and Affect Regulation
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Jul 01, 2024 |
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157 What If My Story Isn't That Bad? Why We All Tend to Minimize Our Wounds
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Jun 17, 2024 |
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156 Five Objections to Engaging Your Story: A Response
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Jun 03, 2024 |
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155 Why Engaging Your Story Heals Your Brain
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May 20, 2024 |
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154 What Grief Is, How It Heals, and the Pain of Loneliness with J.S. Park
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May 07, 2024 |
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153 How Your Past Story Affects Your Present Sexuality with Jay Stringer
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Mar 30, 2024 |
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152 Learning To Live Inside Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBride
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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151 What To Do With Desire and Dread with Mike Boland
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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150 Trauma Heals By Connecting With Others
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Jan 08, 2024 |
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149 Why Listening To Your Body Leads To Healing Part 2
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Dec 25, 2023 |
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148 The Healing Power of Understanding Your Story with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel
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Dec 11, 2023 |
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147 Why Listening To Your Body Leads To Healing Part 1
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Nov 27, 2023 |
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146 Triangulation and Misguided Hope with Matthias Roberts
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Nov 13, 2023 |
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145 How Loneliness Affects The Heart and Mind
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Oct 30, 2023 |
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144 Embodied Sexuality and Religious/Sexual Trauma with Jenny McGrath
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Oct 16, 2023 |
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143 Finding Home Again After Religious Trauma with Matthias Roberts
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Oct 09, 2023 |
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142 Healing From Trauma: The Power of "Being With" Part 2
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Sep 18, 2023 |
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141 Healing From Trauma: The Power of "Being With" Part 1
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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140 Trauma, Resilience, and Race with Jimmy McGee and Rebecca Wheeler Walston
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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139 Role Reversal: When A Child Becomes A Parent
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May 15, 2023 |
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138 How To Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 5 with Mary Ellen Owen
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May 01, 2023 |
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137 How to Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 4 with Heather Stringer
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Apr 17, 2023 |
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136 Engaging Another Person's Story: Why It's Important and How To Do It
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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135 How Your Story Affects Your Sexuality
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Mar 23, 2023 |
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134 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 3
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Mar 13, 2023 |
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133 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 2
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Feb 27, 2023 |
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132 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 1
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Feb 13, 2023 |
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131 Engaging Your Family of Origin Story with Dan Allender
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Feb 04, 2023 |
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130 But Then Something Happened
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Jan 30, 2023 |
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129 What Gets in the Way of Healing? Four Obstacles
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Jan 16, 2023 |
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128 When Bible Verses Are Used Against You (or, Is Your Heart Really Trustworthy?)
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Jan 02, 2023 |
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127 Trauma, Fragmentation, and the Soothing Certainty of Dogmatism
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Dec 26, 2022 |
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126 When Neglect Is Not Really Neglect
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Dec 05, 2022 |
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125 Spiritual Wounding: What It Is and How To Heal Part 2
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Nov 21, 2022 |
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124 Spiritual Wounding: What It Is and How to Heal Part 1
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Nov 07, 2022 |
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123 Is Hope Reasonable?
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Oct 24, 2022 |
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122 A Pastor's Journey of Exploring His Story and Addressing His Trauma with Rich Villodas
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Oct 10, 2022 |
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121 Why It's So Important To Understand Your Story
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Oct 01, 2022 |
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120 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 4
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Aug 01, 2022 |
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119 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 3
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Jul 18, 2022 |
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118 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 2
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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117 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 1
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Jun 20, 2022 |
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116 Restorative Practices: How to Care for Our Hearts and Bodies in the Wake of Trauma with John Eldredge
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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115 Why It's So Important To Tell Your Story To An Attuned Listener with Curt Thompson
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May 23, 2022 |
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114 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It's Necessary To Name Intentionality Part 2
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May 09, 2022 |
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113 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It's Necessary to Name Intentionality Part 1
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Apr 25, 2022 |
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112 The Power of Compassion and Curiosity Toward Ourselves with Aundi Kolber
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Apr 11, 2022 |
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111 Redeeming Heartache: How Goodness Can Come Out Of Trauma
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Apr 08, 2022 |
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110 How Do You Move Through Past Trauma?
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Mar 28, 2022 |
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109 Anxiety: What It Is and How To Respond To It
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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108 Your Story And Your Sexuality
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Mar 10, 2022 |
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107 Racial Trauma: What's Going On? Part 2
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Feb 28, 2022 |
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106 Racial Trauma: What's Going On? Part 1
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Feb 14, 2022 |
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105 Complicity: Why Sexual Abuse Is So Damaging and How To Address It
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Jan 31, 2022 |
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104 When The Church Harms You
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Jan 17, 2022 |
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103 How To Engage Another Person's Story
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Jan 04, 2022 |
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102 Talking To Your Children About Sex: The Practical Stuff
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Jan 03, 2022 |
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101 Talking To Your Children About Sex: Two Stories
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Dec 20, 2021 |
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100 No Cure For Being Human with Kate Bowler
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Sep 26, 2021 |
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99 Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling (Bonus Episode)
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Sep 13, 2021 |
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98 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 5
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Aug 30, 2021 |
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97 The Story Your Body Is Telling (Bonus Episode)
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Aug 19, 2021 |
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96 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 4
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Aug 16, 2021 |
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95 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3
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Aug 02, 2021 |
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94 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 2
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Jul 19, 2021 |
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93 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 1
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Jul 05, 2021 |
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92 Your Story, Your Suffering, and Kindness with Dan Allender
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Jun 21, 2021 |
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91 How Healing Happens: Revisiting The U Diagram
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Jun 07, 2021 |
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90 The Cursing of the Body and Racial Trauma
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May 24, 2021 |
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89 Spiritual Abuse
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May 12, 2021 |
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88 When Trust Is Violated
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May 10, 2021 |
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87 How To Engage Your Story In A Way That Brings Healing (Bonus Episode)
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May 05, 2021 |
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86 How Attachment Affects Your Relationship With God
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Apr 26, 2021 |
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85 When Abuse Binds Your Heart To Another
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Apr 12, 2021 |
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84 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 2
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Mar 29, 2021 |
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83 Understanding Your Sexual Story (Bonus Episode)
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Mar 24, 2021 |
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82 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 1
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Mar 15, 2021 |
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81 How To Get Your Life Back with John Eldredge
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Mar 01, 2021 |
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80 Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 2
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Dec 21, 2020 |
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79 Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 1
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Dec 07, 2020 |
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78 When Parents Open The Door For Sibling Abuse
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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77 The Episode In Which I Share One Of My Stories
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Nov 09, 2020 |
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76 Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 2
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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75 Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 1
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Oct 12, 2020 |
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74 The Bible, Racial Injustice, and Individual Responsibility
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Sep 28, 2020 |
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73 Racial Trauma and My Story With Racism
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Sep 14, 2020 |
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72 Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me?
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Aug 31, 2020 |
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71 What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?
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Aug 17, 2020 |
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70 What's Actually Happening When You Interact With Someone?
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Aug 03, 2020 |
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69 How Trauma Affects Your Voice
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Jul 20, 2020 |
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67 Your Story, Your Body, and Ritual
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Jun 22, 2020 |
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66 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma Part 2
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Jun 08, 2020 |
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65 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma
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May 25, 2020 |
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64 Emotions: Writing Your Own Psalm
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May 11, 2020 |
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63 Emotions: Praying the Psalms
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Apr 26, 2020 |
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62 When Suffering Lingers
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Apr 13, 2020 |
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60 Warfare Part 9: Soul Ties
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Mar 16, 2020 |
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59 Warfare Part 8: Curses, Agreements, and Vows
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Mar 03, 2020 |
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58 Healing From Trauma: Your Posture Toward Yourself
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Feb 18, 2020 |
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57 How To Know If You Have Experienced Trauma
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Jan 27, 2020 |
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56 Affect Regulation: How Mindfulness Can Help Integrate (Heal) Your Brain
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Jan 13, 2020 |
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54 Warfare Part 7: The Modern Screwtape Letters
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Dec 16, 2019 |
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53 Why Family of Origin Triangulation Is Such A Big Deal
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Dec 02, 2019 |
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52 How Your Story Leads to Your Style of Relating to Others with Becky Allender
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Nov 18, 2019 |
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51 Having Conversations with God with Sam Williamson
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Nov 04, 2019 |
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50 Struggling with Sexuality Part 2: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer
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Oct 21, 2019 |
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49 Struggling with Sexuality: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer
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Oct 07, 2019 |
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48 You Need More Than God with Sam Jolman
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Sep 30, 2019 |
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47 Warfare Part 6: Breaking Agreements
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Sep 23, 2019 |
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46 Warfare Part 5 : Addressing Accusations
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Sep 09, 2019 |
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45 Warfare Part 4: Your Authority
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Aug 26, 2019 |
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44 How Stories of Harm Lead to Agreements That Bind Us
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Aug 12, 2019 |
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43 Warfare Part 3: Agreements
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Jul 29, 2019 |
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42 Warfare Part 2: Accusation
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Jul 15, 2019 |
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41 Warfare Part 1: The Reality of a War Against Your Heart
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Jul 01, 2019 |
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40 Love and War: Attachment and Intimate Relationships
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May 06, 2019 |
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39 Engaging the Younger Parts of Your Heart
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Apr 22, 2019 |
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38 The Process of Learning to Hear from God
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Apr 08, 2019 |
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37 Covert Sexual Abuse: When Subtlety Equates to Severity
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Mar 25, 2019 |
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36 How A Story From Kindergarten Can Change Your Brain For Decades
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Mar 11, 2019 |
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35 Narcissism: What It Is and Why It's So Toxic with Chuck DeGroat
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Feb 25, 2019 |
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34 Your Kingdom: The Purpose of Counseling
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Feb 11, 2019 |
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33 What It Means to Engage Your Story with Curiosity with Blaine Hogan
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Jan 28, 2019 |
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32 How Life Can Come From Death with Christy Bauman
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Jan 14, 2019 |
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31 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 2
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Jan 01, 2019 |
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30 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 1
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Jan 01, 2019 |
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29 Forgiveness: What It Is
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Dec 17, 2018 |
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28 Forgiveness: What It's Not
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Dec 10, 2018 |
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27 God Made Our Brain To Need Others with KJ Ramsey
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Dec 03, 2018 |
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26 How Healing Happens Part 3
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Nov 20, 2018 |
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25 How Healing Happens Part 2
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Nov 20, 2018 |
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24 How Healing Happens Part 1
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Nov 20, 2018 |
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23 How to Engage a Parent Who Has Harmed You with Autumn
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Oct 15, 2018 |
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22 Why the Practice of Awareness Heals Your Brain with Terry Bohn
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Oct 08, 2018 |
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21 From Shattered to Whole: Reclaiming Innocence, Beauty, and Hope with Laurie
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Oct 01, 2018 |
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20 Affect Regulation: Why It's Critical For Everyday Life
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Aug 20, 2018 |
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19 The Path To Healing: Why It's So Important To Find Kindness For The Younger You
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Aug 13, 2018 |
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18 Why Your Story Makes It Hard To Hope
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Aug 06, 2018 |
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17 What It Looks Like To Actually Grieve Your Wounds
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Jul 29, 2018 |
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16 Why Lament (Surprisingly) Leads to Life and Freedom
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Jul 23, 2018 |
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15 Choosing Kindness: Engaging Stories of Shame with Andrew Bauman
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Jul 16, 2018 |
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14 How to Overcome the Shame of Sexual Abuse with Scott
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Jul 09, 2018 |
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13 Your Wounds and the Path to Healing
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Jul 02, 2018 |
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12 Why Trauma Makes It Hard to Trust Your Gut with Janet
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Jun 25, 2018 |
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11 Implicit Memory: The Thing That's Running Your Life
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Jun 18, 2018 |
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10 The Trauma of Abandonment with Gary B
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Jun 11, 2018 |
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9 Why Engaging Your Story Requires Anger at God
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Jun 04, 2018 |
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8 When Your Story of Sexual Abuse Is Not Believed
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May 28, 2018 |
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7 How Your Attachment Style Affects The Way You Relate To Other People
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May 21, 2018 |
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6 When Your Femininity Is Assaulted with Tracy
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May 14, 2018 |
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5 Attachment: What It Is and Why It Matters So Much
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May 07, 2018 |
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4 The Trauma of Being Unprotected with Gary
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Apr 29, 2018 |
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3 The Trauma of School Shaming with Mandy
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Apr 20, 2018 |
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2 Why Your Family of Origin Impacts Your Life More Than Anything Else
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Apr 17, 2018 |
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1 Why Engaging Your Story Is The Best Thing You Can Do For Your Brain
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Mar 24, 2018 |