The Place We Find Ourselves

By Adam Young | LCSW, MDiv

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Subscribers: 815
Reviews: 1
Episodes: 151


 Oct 25, 2019
I think this podcast is insightful on different traumas and the time it takes for different people to process them. Everyone needs to process and grieve in their own way and I think this podcast is a good reminder that it is okay.

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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as psychologist Dan Allender, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.

Episode Date
154 What Grief Is, How It Heals, and the Pain of Loneliness with J.S. Park
May 07, 2024
153 How Your Past Story Affects Your Present Sexuality with Jay Stringer
Mar 30, 2024
152 Learning To Live Inside Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBride
Feb 21, 2024
151 What To Do With Desire and Dread with Mike Boland
Jan 31, 2024
150 Trauma Heals By Connecting With Others
Jan 08, 2024
149 Why Listening To Your Body Leads To Healing Part 2
Dec 25, 2023
148 The Healing Power of Understanding Your Story with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel
Dec 11, 2023
147 Why Listening To Your Body Leads To Healing Part 1
Nov 27, 2023
146 Triangulation and Misguided Hope with Matthias Roberts
Nov 13, 2023
145 How Loneliness Affects The Heart and Mind
Oct 30, 2023
144 Embodied Sexuality and Religious/Sexual Trauma with Jenny McGrath
Oct 16, 2023
143 Finding Home Again After Religious Trauma with Matthias Roberts
Oct 09, 2023
142 Healing From Trauma: The Power of “Being With” Part 2
Sep 18, 2023
141 Healing From Trauma: The Power of “Being With” Part 1
Sep 04, 2023
140 Trauma, Resilience, and Race with Jimmy McGee and Rebecca Wheeler Walston
Jul 21, 2023
139 Role Reversal: When A Child Becomes A Parent
May 15, 2023
138 How To Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 5 with Mary Ellen Owen
May 01, 2023
137 How to Heal From Sorrow and Grief Part 4 with Heather Stringer
Apr 17, 2023
136 Engaging Another Person’s Story: Why It’s Important and How To Do It
Apr 03, 2023
135 How Your Story Affects Your Sexuality
Mar 23, 2023
134 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 3
Mar 13, 2023
133 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 2
Feb 27, 2023
132 How to Heal from Sorrow and Grief Part 1
Feb 13, 2023
131 Engaging Your Family of Origin Story with Dan Allender
Feb 04, 2023
130 But Then Something Happened
Jan 30, 2023
129 What Gets in the Way of Healing? Four Obstacles
Jan 16, 2023
128 When Bible Verses Are Used Against You (or, Is Your Heart Really Trustworthy?)
Jan 02, 2023
127 Trauma, Fragmentation, and the Soothing Certainty of Dogmatism
Dec 26, 2022
126 When Neglect Is Not Really Neglect
Dec 05, 2022
125 Spiritual Wounding: What It Is and How To Heal Part 2
Nov 21, 2022
124 Spiritual Wounding: What It Is and How to Heal Part 1
Nov 07, 2022
123 Is Hope Reasonable?
Oct 24, 2022
122 A Pastor’s Journey of Exploring His Story and Addressing His Trauma with Rich Villodas
Oct 10, 2022
121 Why It's So Important To Understand Your Story
Oct 01, 2022
120 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 4
Aug 01, 2022
119 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 3
Jul 18, 2022
118 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 2
Jul 04, 2022
117 How To Engage Someone's Story Part 1
Jun 20, 2022
116 Restorative Practices: How to Care for Our Hearts and Bodies in the Wake of Trauma with John Eldredge
Jun 06, 2022
115 Why It’s So Important To Tell Your Story To An Attuned Listener with Curt Thompson
May 23, 2022
114 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It's Necessary To Name Intentionality Part 2
May 09, 2022
113 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It’s Necessary to Name Intentionality Part 1
Apr 25, 2022
112 The Power of Compassion and Curiosity Toward Ourselves with Aundi Kolber
Apr 11, 2022
111 Redeeming Heartache: How Goodness Can Come Out Of Trauma
Apr 08, 2022
110 How Do You Move Through Past Trauma?
Mar 28, 2022
109 Anxiety: What It Is and How To Respond To It
Mar 14, 2022
108 Your Story And Your Sexuality
Mar 10, 2022
107 Racial Trauma: What's Going On? Part 2
Feb 28, 2022
106 Racial Trauma: What's Going On? Part 1
Feb 14, 2022
105 Complicity: Why Sexual Abuse Is So Damaging and How To Address It
Jan 31, 2022
104 When The Church Harms You
Jan 17, 2022
103 How To Engage Another Person's Story
Jan 04, 2022
102 Talking To Your Children About Sex: The Practical Stuff
Jan 03, 2022
101 Talking To Your Children About Sex: Two Stories
Dec 20, 2021
100 No Cure For Being Human with Kate Bowler
Sep 26, 2021
99 Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling (Bonus Episode)
Sep 13, 2021
98 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 5
Aug 30, 2021
97 The Story Your Body Is Telling (Bonus Episode)
Aug 19, 2021
96 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 4
Aug 16, 2021
95 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3
Aug 02, 2021
94 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 2
Jul 19, 2021
93 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 1
Jul 05, 2021
92 Your Story, Your Suffering, and Kindness with Dan Allender
Jun 21, 2021
91 How Healing Happens: Revisiting The U Diagram
Jun 07, 2021
90 The Cursing of the Body and Racial Trauma
May 24, 2021
89 Spiritual Abuse
May 12, 2021
88 When Trust Is Violated
May 10, 2021
87 How To Engage Your Story In A Way That Brings Healing (Bonus Episode)
May 05, 2021
86 How Attachment Affects Your Relationship With God
Apr 26, 2021
85 When Abuse Binds Your Heart To Another
Apr 12, 2021
84 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 2
Mar 29, 2021
83 Understanding Your Sexual Story (Bonus Episode)
Mar 24, 2021
82 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 1
Mar 15, 2021
81 How To Get Your Life Back with John Eldredge
Mar 01, 2021
80 Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 2
Dec 21, 2020
79 Relational Conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Shut Down Part 1
Dec 07, 2020
78 When Parents Open The Door For Sibling Abuse
Nov 23, 2020
77 The Episode In Which I Share One Of My Stories
Nov 09, 2020
76 Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 2
Oct 26, 2020
75 Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 1
Oct 12, 2020
74 The Bible, Racial Injustice, and Individual Responsibility
Sep 28, 2020
73 Racial Trauma and My Story With Racism
Sep 14, 2020
72 Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me?
Aug 31, 2020
71 What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?
Aug 17, 2020
70 What's Actually Happening When You Interact With Someone?
Aug 03, 2020
69 How Trauma Affects Your Voice
Jul 20, 2020
67 Your Story, Your Body, and Ritual
Jun 22, 2020
66 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma Part 2
Jun 08, 2020
65 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma
May 25, 2020
64 Emotions: Writing Your Own Psalm
May 11, 2020
63 Emotions: Praying the Psalms
Apr 26, 2020
62 When Suffering Lingers
Apr 13, 2020
60 Warfare Part 9: Soul Ties
Mar 16, 2020
59 Warfare Part 8: Curses, Agreements, and Vows
Mar 03, 2020
58 Healing From Trauma: Your Posture Toward Yourself
Feb 18, 2020
57 How To Know If You Have Experienced Trauma
Jan 27, 2020
56 Affect Regulation: How Mindfulness Can Help Integrate (Heal) Your Brain
Jan 13, 2020
54 Warfare Part 7: The Modern Screwtape Letters
Dec 16, 2019
53 Why Family of Origin Triangulation Is Such A Big Deal
Dec 02, 2019
52 How Your Story Leads to Your Style of Relating to Others with Becky Allender
Nov 18, 2019
51 Having Conversations with God with Sam Williamson
Nov 04, 2019
50 Struggling with Sexuality Part 2: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer
Oct 21, 2019
49 Struggling with Sexuality: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer
Oct 07, 2019
48 You Need More Than God with Sam Jolman
Sep 30, 2019
47 Warfare Part 6: Breaking Agreements
Sep 23, 2019
46 Warfare Part 5 : Addressing Accusations
Sep 09, 2019
45 Warfare Part 4: Your Authority
Aug 26, 2019
44 How Stories of Harm Lead to Agreements That Bind Us
Aug 12, 2019
43 Warfare Part 3: Agreements
Jul 29, 2019
42 Warfare Part 2: Accusation
Jul 15, 2019
41 Warfare Part 1: The Reality of a War Against Your Heart
Jul 01, 2019
40 Love and War: Attachment and Intimate Relationships
May 06, 2019
39 Engaging the Younger Parts of Your Heart
Apr 22, 2019
38 The Process of Learning to Hear from God
Apr 08, 2019
37 Covert Sexual Abuse: When Subtlety Equates to Severity
Mar 25, 2019
36 How A Story From Kindergarten Can Change Your Brain For Decades
Mar 11, 2019
35 Narcissism: What It Is and Why It's So Toxic with Chuck DeGroat
Feb 25, 2019
34 Your Kingdom: The Purpose of Counseling
Feb 11, 2019
33 What It Means to Engage Your Story with Curiosity with Blaine Hogan
Jan 28, 2019
32 How Life Can Come From Death with Christy Bauman
Jan 14, 2019
31 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 2
Jan 01, 2019
30 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 1
Jan 01, 2019
29 Forgiveness: What It Is
Dec 17, 2018
28 Forgiveness: What It's Not
Dec 10, 2018
27 God Made Our Brain To Need Others with KJ Ramsey
Dec 03, 2018
26 How Healing Happens Part 3
Nov 20, 2018
25 How Healing Happens Part 2
Nov 20, 2018
24 How Healing Happens Part 1
Nov 20, 2018
23 How to Engage a Parent Who Has Harmed You with Autumn
Oct 15, 2018
22 Why the Practice of Awareness Heals Your Brain with Terry Bohn
Oct 08, 2018
21 From Shattered to Whole: Reclaiming Innocence, Beauty, and Hope with Laurie
Oct 01, 2018
20 Affect Regulation: Why It's Critical For Everyday Life
Aug 20, 2018
19 The Path To Healing: Why It's So Important To Find Kindness For The Younger You
Aug 13, 2018
18 Why Your Story Makes It Hard To Hope
Aug 06, 2018
17 What It Looks Like To Actually Grieve Your Wounds
Jul 29, 2018
16 Why Lament (Surprisingly) Leads to Life and Freedom
Jul 23, 2018
15 Choosing Kindness: Engaging Stories of Shame with Andrew Bauman
Jul 16, 2018
14 How to Overcome the Shame of Sexual Abuse with Scott
Jul 09, 2018
13 Your Wounds and the Path to Healing
Jul 02, 2018
12 Why Trauma Makes It Hard to Trust Your Gut with Janet
Jun 25, 2018
11 Implicit Memory: The Thing That's Running Your Life
Jun 18, 2018
10 The Trauma of Abandonment with Gary B
Jun 11, 2018
9 Why Engaging Your Story Requires Anger at God
Jun 04, 2018
8 When Your Story of Sexual Abuse Is Not Believed
May 28, 2018
7 How Your Attachment Style Affects The Way You Relate To Other People
May 21, 2018
6 When Your Femininity Is Assaulted with Tracy
May 14, 2018
5 Attachment: What It Is and Why It Matters So Much
May 07, 2018
4 The Trauma of Being Unprotected with Gary
Apr 29, 2018
3 The Trauma of School Shaming with Mandy
Apr 20, 2018
2 Why Your Family of Origin Impacts Your Life More Than Anything Else
Apr 17, 2018
1 Why Engaging Your Story Is The Best Thing You Can Do For Your Brain
Mar 24, 2018