Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
By Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
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Sep 10, 2019
Love this podcast so much. Could literally listen to it everyday. Great advice and great hosts.
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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Episode 423: Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral
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May 06, 2024 |
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Episode 422: This Isn't The Ending To Every Story
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May 03, 2024 |
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Episode 421: Feeling Healed? Visit Your Family.
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May 01, 2024 |
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Episode 420: My Boyfriend Isn't Curious About Me
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Apr 29, 2024 |
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Episode 419: Is It Diabolical Or Totally Understandable?
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Apr 26, 2024 |
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Episode 418: Giving Head vs. Changing A Tire
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Apr 24, 2024 |
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Episode 417: Can I Fantasize About Women AND Love My Husband?
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Apr 22, 2024 |
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Episode 416: I Was Dumped For *Not* Cheating
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Apr 19, 2024 |
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Episode 415: Newly Sober and Still In Love
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Apr 17, 2024 |
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Episode 414: How Much Meh Is Too Much Meh?
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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Episode 413: Your Timeline Is A Valid Desire, Not A Guarantee
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Apr 12, 2024 |
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Episode 412: This Is Hard AND You Can Do Hard Things
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Apr 10, 2024 |
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Episode 411: Seeking Deep Connection And Coming Up Short
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Apr 08, 2024 |
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Episode 410: This Doesn't Sound Like Ethical Non-Monogamy
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Apr 05, 2024 |
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Episode 409: Emotionally Immature Coworkers
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Apr 03, 2024 |
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Episode 408: My Boyfriend Went To A Strip Club
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Apr 01, 2024 |
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Episode 407: From Partners To Platonic Without The Pain
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Mar 29, 2024 |
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Episode 406: Watching Someone Younger Make Your Past Mistakes
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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Episode 405: Your Anger Is Safe Here
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Mar 25, 2024 |
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Episode 404: Complex Grief And The Unfairness of The Universe
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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Episode 403: Caught My Boyfriend On Bumble
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Mar 20, 2024 |
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Episode 402: Overthinking My Dating App Messages
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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Episode 401: Who Taught You Solitude Is Selfish?
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Mar 15, 2024 |
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Episode 400: It's Okay To Break Up With Your Nice Boyfriend
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Mar 13, 2024 |
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Episode 399: Were My Exes Just Experimenting?
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Mar 11, 2024 |
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Episode 398: People Want To Like You
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Mar 08, 2024 |
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Episode 397: Reaching Past The Pattern
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Mar 06, 2024 |
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Episode 396: Do You Want To Be With a Workaholic?
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Mar 04, 2024 |
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Episode 395: Should I Forgive A Cheater?
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Mar 01, 2024 |
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Episode 394: My Boyfriend's Not Hot Enough
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Feb 28, 2024 |
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Episode 393: Marriage? Been There, Done That, Never Doing It Again
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Feb 26, 2024 |
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Episode 392: I Prefer The Caterpillar
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Feb 23, 2024 |
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Episode 391: Just Move To South Dakota
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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Episode 390: Is It Love Or Love Bombing?
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Feb 19, 2024 |
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Getting Ghosted By a Friend
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Feb 16, 2024 |
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It's Not Profound, It Just Sucks
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Feb 14, 2024 |
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Episode 389: Crumbling Foundation
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Feb 12, 2024 |
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Episode 388: You Don't Need To Bubble Wrap Your Hard Edges
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Feb 09, 2024 |
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Episode 387: I'm Not My Boyfriend's #1 Priority
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Feb 07, 2024 |
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Episode 386: My Partner Is Always On Their Phone
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Feb 05, 2024 |
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Episode 385: Is It Really Over Forever?
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Feb 02, 2024 |
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Episode 384: Being Reasonably Ready
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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Episode 383: Do Not Give This Man A 57th Chance
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Jan 29, 2024 |
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Episode 382: Real Or Rebound: Dating After Loss
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Jan 26, 2024 |
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Episode 381: You Don't Have To Forgive Your Cheating Boyfriend
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Jan 24, 2024 |
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Episode 380: Stable Serious Man VS Wild Bad Boy
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Jan 22, 2024 |
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Episode 379: I Feel Bad My Girlfriend Has More Friends Than Me
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Jan 19, 2024 |
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Episode 378: I Might Actually Want To Live With My MIL?
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Jan 17, 2024 |
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Episode 377: Not Anti-Social, Just Asocial
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Jan 15, 2024 |
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Episode 376: How To Trust Your Feelings
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Jan 12, 2024 |
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Episode 375: Daddy Issues
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Jan 10, 2024 |
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Episode 374: Hi, I Dated Your Ex-Husband
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Jan 08, 2024 |
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Episode 373: Dating Is A Practice Of Being Seen
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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Episode 372: Wait, Why Weren't You Talking For 10 Days?
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Jan 03, 2024 |
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Episode 371: I Accidentally Insulted My Boyfriend's Penis
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Jan 01, 2024 |
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PATREON BONUS - Seeking Love and Safety
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Dec 25, 2023 |
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Episode 370: Coming Out As Childfree
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Dec 22, 2023 |
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Episode 369: My Husband Is Obsessed With A OnlyFans Creator
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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Episode 368: Trusting Again After Infidelity
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Dec 18, 2023 |
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Episode 367: How To Date Without Settling
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Dec 15, 2023 |
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Episode 366: Deep Cleaning Your Relationship
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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Episode 365: Your Husband's Coworker Definitely Has A Crush On You
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Dec 11, 2023 |
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Episode 364: Empathy Doesn't Mean Losing Yourself
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Dec 08, 2023 |
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Episode 363: This Is Textbook Gaslighting
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Dec 06, 2023 |
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Episode 362: My Husband Was Depressed All Year And I Had No Idea
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Dec 04, 2023 |
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Episode 361: You're Not Alone in Your Loneliness
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Dec 01, 2023 |
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Episode 360: I Can't Emotionally Connect with My Mother-in-Law
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Nov 29, 2023 |
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Episode 359: Self-Compassion Allows Us to Own Our Mistakes
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Nov 27, 2023 |
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Episode 358: A Bunch of One Foot Wells
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Nov 24, 2023 |
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Episode 357: Do Breaks Really Work?
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Nov 22, 2023 |
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Episode 356: Blocked By My Metamour
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Nov 20, 2023 |
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Episode 355: You Don't Have To Hold This Alone
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Nov 17, 2023 |
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Episode 354: My BFF Is Marrying Someone I Don't Like
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Nov 15, 2023 |
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Episode 353: Having Boundaries Is An Internal Process
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Nov 13, 2023 |
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Episode 352: Waiting On A Proposal
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Nov 10, 2023 |
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Episode 351: Not All People Are For Us But Some People Are
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Nov 08, 2023 |
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Episode 350: Middle School Teacher Drama
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Nov 06, 2023 |
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Episode 349: You're Unhappy And That's Okay
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Nov 03, 2023 |
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Episode 348: She Has a Crush On Your Husband...What Now?
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Nov 01, 2023 |
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Episode 347: He's Either A Hoarder or A Murderer
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Oct 30, 2023 |
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Episode 346: My New Boyfriend Has Cancer
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Oct 27, 2023 |
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Episode 345: Help! My Partner Is Moving In A Year!
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Oct 25, 2023 |
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Episode 344: Morticia & Gomez 4Ever
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Oct 23, 2023 |
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Episode 343: Labels Are Just Tape!
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Oct 20, 2023 |
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Episode 342: He Is Choosing Someone Who Lit Your Underwear On Fire
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Oct 18, 2023 |
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Episode 341: The Vulnerability of Shooting Your Shot
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Oct 16, 2023 |
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Episode 340: The Cliché of Heartbreak
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Oct 13, 2023 |
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Episode 339: The Emotional Gymnastics of a Yo-Yo Relationship
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Oct 11, 2023 |
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Episode 338: Unrequited Crushing On A Friend
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Oct 09, 2023 |
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Episode 337: You Don't Have To Talk About Your Abortion
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Oct 06, 2023 |
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Episode 336: This Man Is Trash
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Oct 04, 2023 |
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Episode 335: Am I Avoidant or Am I Just Unhappy?
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Oct 02, 2023 |
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Episode 334: P In V Sex is Not The Only Sex
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Sep 29, 2023 |
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Episode 333: Your Growth May Not Help Their Healing
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Sep 27, 2023 |
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Episode 332: Crushing On Greener Grass
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Sep 25, 2023 |
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Episode 331: Tired Of The "Should We Break Up?" Conversation
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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Episode 330: My Husband Didn't Tell His Mom We Got Married
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Sep 20, 2023 |
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Episode 329: Believing In Others' Capacity To Grow
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Sep 18, 2023 |
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Episode 328: How To Handle Having A Crush on Your Friend
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Sep 15, 2023 |
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Episode 327: Is It Bad To Date Someone Who Is "Safe?"
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Sep 13, 2023 |
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Episode 326: This Is Confusing Because It Is Confusing
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Sep 11, 2023 |
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Episode 325: I Can't Believe It's Not Rejection!
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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Episode 324: Haunted By A Ghost of Yom Kippur
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Sep 06, 2023 |
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Episode 323: His Silence is Speaking For Him
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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Episode 322: Caught In Communication Fatigue
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Sep 01, 2023 |
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Episode 321: Exes, Condoms, and A Private Investigator
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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Episode 320: Sitting On The Sidelines Together
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Aug 28, 2023 |
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Episode 319: Not My Best Friend's Best Friend
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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Episode 318: Hook Up With My Ex, Just Don't Lie About It
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Aug 23, 2023 |
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Episode 317: Is Marriage A Trap?
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Aug 21, 2023 |
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Episode 316: Relationship Escalator to Hell
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Aug 18, 2023 |
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Episode 315: Your Queer Love is Holy and Real
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Aug 16, 2023 |
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Episode 314: He's a Leo And An Only Child
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Aug 14, 2023 |
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Episode 313: Solo Poly Wanna Cracker?
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Aug 11, 2023 |
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Episode 312: Becoming A Stepparent
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Aug 09, 2023 |
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Episode 311: This AI Doesn't Even Know What Grindr Is
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Aug 07, 2023 |
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Episode 310: Keeping Your Friend's Secrets
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Aug 04, 2023 |
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Episode 309: Breaking Up As A Game Of Chicken
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Aug 02, 2023 |
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Episode 308: Miss Mcfeels-A-Lot
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Jul 31, 2023 |
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Episode 307: Letting Go Of A Difficult Love
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Jul 28, 2023 |
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Episode 306: The Difference Between A Boundary and A Rule
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Jul 26, 2023 |
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Episode 305: Advice for Dating Our Exes
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Jul 24, 2023 |
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Episode 304: All Of Our Brains Are Broken
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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Episode 303: You Can't Stop Bad Things From Happening
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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Episode 302: What We've Learned Over The Past 5 Years
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Jul 17, 2023 |
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Episode 301: Right Person + Wrong Time = Wrong Person
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Jul 14, 2023 |
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Episode 300: Libido? More Like Libidon't
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Jul 12, 2023 |
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Episode 299: Your Efforts Don't Guarantee An Outcome
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Jul 10, 2023 |
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Episode 298: When Their Growth Is Too Little Too Late
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Jul 07, 2023 |
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Episode 297: Tale of the Broke Bridesmaid
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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Episode 296: Spiraling Into The Anxiously Attached Abyss
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Jul 03, 2023 |
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Episode 295: Life Is Full Of Imperfect Choices
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Jun 30, 2023 |
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Episode 294: Discomfort Doesn't Mean We Are On The Wrong Path
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Jun 28, 2023 |
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Episode 293: Is It a Boundary or an Ultimatum?
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Jun 26, 2023 |
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Episode 292: Thanks For The Trauma, Mom!
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Jun 23, 2023 |
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Episode 291: Self Awareness Is Attractive
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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Episode 290: I Don't Want To Have Kids...With You
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Jun 19, 2023 |
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Episode 289: Not Awkward Is Not Real
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Jun 16, 2023 |
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Episode 288: Love Lost In Translation
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Jun 14, 2023 |
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Episode 287: Reversing the Relationship Escalator
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Jun 12, 2023 |
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Episode 286: People Need Other People
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Jun 09, 2023 |
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Episode 285: Addicted To Their Ex's Instagram
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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Episode 284: Is It Your Intuition or Your Anxiety?
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Jun 05, 2023 |
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Episode 283: You Don't Have To Act On Those Feelings
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Jun 02, 2023 |
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Episode 282: Does He Cosmically Owe You?
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May 31, 2023 |
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Episode 281: Let FedEx Return That Engagement Ring
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May 29, 2023 |
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Episode 280: You Can Let Go of That Pressure
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May 26, 2023 |
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Episode 279: Grief Has No Timeline
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May 24, 2023 |
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Episode 278: When is Ghosting Not Ghosting
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May 22, 2023 |
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Episode 277: Love Is Scary!
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May 19, 2023 |
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Episode 276: When To Let Go Of Hope
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May 17, 2023 |
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Episode 275: Everyone Knows You're Making Out in the Break Room
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May 15, 2023 |
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Episode 274: What To Wear When You Run Into Your Ex
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May 12, 2023 |
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Episode 273: Choosing The Harder Path
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May 10, 2023 |
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Episode 272: Am I A Homewrecker?
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May 08, 2023 |
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Episode 271: You're Confused Because It's Confusing
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May 05, 2023 |
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Episode 270: Their Sadness is Not Yours to Fix
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May 03, 2023 |
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Episode 269: Hot People Suck
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May 01, 2023 |
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Episode 268: It's Safe To Believe Your Own Experience
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Apr 28, 2023 |
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Episode 267: When Guilt Leads To Self-Sabotage
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Apr 26, 2023 |
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Episode 266: Holding Boundaries With Humanity
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Apr 24, 2023 |
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Episode 265: It's Okay To Miss Someone Who Hurt You
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Apr 21, 2023 |
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Episode 264: Internally Spiraling But Totally Fine
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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Episode 263: Stay Off Your Ex's Spotify
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Apr 17, 2023 |
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Episode 262: Relationships Are Not Transactional
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Apr 14, 2023 |
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Episode 261: How Long Are Our Exes A Part of Us?
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Apr 12, 2023 |
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Episode 260: Stability vs. Settling
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Apr 10, 2023 |
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Episode 259: Sometimes You Just Have To End It
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Apr 07, 2023 |
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Episode 258: Unfortunately the Answer is "Talk About It"
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Apr 05, 2023 |
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Episode 257: To Love Something So Impermanent
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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Episode 256: Punishment Doesn’t Work in Adulthood Either
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Mar 31, 2023 |
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Episode 255: You Can Only Say Your Truth So Many Times
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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Episode 254: The Emotional Block-Block-Block
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Mar 27, 2023 |
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Episode 253: Good News! You Get to Make Better Choices
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Mar 24, 2023 |
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Episode 252: It’s Literally Just… Not That Deep
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Mar 22, 2023 |
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Episode 251: Grab a Bucket & Get to Work
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Mar 20, 2023 |
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Episode 250: The Plot of Every “L Word” Episode Ever
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Mar 17, 2023 |
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Episode 249: Hormonal Hell? I Own A Timeshare There
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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Episode 248: Big City Woman Changes Her Mind
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Mar 13, 2023 |
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Episode 247: You’re Not Bridezilla, You’re Very, Very Human
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Mar 10, 2023 |
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Episode 246: Tropes Are Easy, But They Aren’t Our Truths
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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Episode 245: Seasons of Figuring It Out
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Mar 06, 2023 |
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Episode 244: Swimming Against the Undercurrent of Gender
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Mar 03, 2023 |
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Episode 243: Stop the Resentment Snowball In Its Tracks
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Mar 01, 2023 |
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Episode 242: Closure Isn’t Real (But I Still Want Some)
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Feb 27, 2023 |
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Episode 241: Now’s a Great Time to Take Care of Yourself
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Feb 24, 2023 |
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Episode 240: The Best Revenge is Forgetting
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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Episode 239: You're a Catch, a Babe, a Great Time!
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Feb 20, 2023 |
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Episode 238: Their Struggles Don’t Outweigh Your Safety
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Feb 17, 2023 |
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Episode 237: Their New Relationship is Not Your Failure
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Feb 15, 2023 |
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Go To Costco and Get That Candy
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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Episode 236: Where’s the Healthy Model for Friendships?!
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Feb 13, 2023 |
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Episode 235: The Universe Is Cruel & Chaotic, As Is Dating
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Feb 10, 2023 |
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Episode 234: Love vs. Attraction is Apples vs. Oranges
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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Episode 233: Their “I’m Fine” Is Not Your “I’m Fine”
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Feb 06, 2023 |
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Episode 232: Sex Could Be This Good THIS WHOLE TIME?!
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Feb 03, 2023 |
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Episode 231: Thankfully, Your Other Wells Have Water
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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Episode 230: Being Alone > Feeling Alone in a Relationship
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Jan 30, 2023 |
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Welcome to Just Break Up
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Jan 27, 2023 |
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If You’re Not Going To Stay, Make Room For Someone Who Will – An Interview with Yesika Salgado
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Jan 26, 2023 |
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Episode 229: Don’t Get Confused by the False Romance of Longing
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Jan 23, 2023 |
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Episode 228: What Ifs and The Relationship Multiverse
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Jan 16, 2023 |
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When You're Healed You Tell the Story Differently – An Interview with Camonghne Felix
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Jan 12, 2023 |
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Episode 227: Give Yourself Permission to Leave
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Jan 09, 2023 |
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Episode 226: Relationship Wants vs. Relationship Needs
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Jan 02, 2023 |
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Widowhood, Sexuality, and Complicated Grief – An Interview with Rebecca Woolf
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Dec 29, 2022 |
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Episode 225: Queer Heaven Has No Gates
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Dec 26, 2022 |
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Episode 224: It's More Nuanced Than Good Guy vs. Bad Guy
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Dec 19, 2022 |
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Acknowledging the Breakup: An Interview with JP Saxe
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Dec 15, 2022 |
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Announcing - There They Are: Breaking the Binary of Pageants
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Dec 14, 2022 |
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Episode 223: The Hurt Doesn’t Mean You’re Doing Something Wrong
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Dec 12, 2022 |
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Episode 222: Just Because It Looks Easy Doesn’t Mean It Is
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Dec 05, 2022 |
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Reframing Consent: An Interview with Leah Juliett
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Dec 01, 2022 |
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Episode 221: A Tall Order from an Imperfect Person
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Nov 28, 2022 |
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Episode 220: The Ever-Present Confusion of Our Early 20s
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Nov 21, 2022 |
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The Meaning of Sex: An Interview with Angela Chen
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Nov 17, 2022 |
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Episode 219: Too Much Self-Awareness Can Make Our Tummies Hurt
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Nov 14, 2022 |
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Episode 218: This is Not the Horrible Corpse You Think It Is
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Nov 07, 2022 |
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Penile Diversity: An Interview with Oscar Montoya
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Nov 03, 2022 |
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Episode 217: Are You More of An Ariel or Eric (or… Ursula)?
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Oct 31, 2022 |
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Episode 216: As If The Human Experience Wasn’t Hard Enough
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Oct 24, 2022 |
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Episode 215: Universal Chillness is Not Your Cross to Bear
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Oct 17, 2022 |
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Episode 214: We May Not Have Control, But We Do Have Power
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Oct 10, 2022 |
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Episode 213: “Agree to Disagree” Is For Books, Not Lived Experiences
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Oct 03, 2022 |
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Episode 212: Doesn’t Your Soul Cost More Than $5?
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Sep 26, 2022 |
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Episode 211: Yep, that sucks! And here we go again!
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Sep 19, 2022 |
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Episode 210: Tickling My Insecurities
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Sep 12, 2022 |
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Episode 209: You might be the toxic one if…
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Sep 05, 2022 |
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Episode 208: The Realms of Appropriateness
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Aug 29, 2022 |
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Episode 207: Yes, but WHEN do I block him?
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Aug 22, 2022 |
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Episode 206: That's Intimacy, Baby!
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Aug 15, 2022 |
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Episode 205: You Were Like A Pinball
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Aug 08, 2022 |
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Episode 204: A Lot of Boat Metaphors
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Aug 01, 2022 |
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Episode 203: It'll Be Crunchy Until It's Smooth
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Jul 25, 2022 |
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Patreon Bonus: A Heartbreaking Pickle
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Jul 20, 2022 |
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Episode 202: Of Course Things Came Out Sideways!
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Jul 18, 2022 |
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Episode 201: Where Are They Now? Pt. 4
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Jul 14, 2022 |
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Episode 200: Here's To Another 200 Years!
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Jul 11, 2022 |
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Episode 199: I Love Pizza AND My Wife
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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Episode 198: Multiple Sexual Apartments
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Jun 27, 2022 |
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Episode 197: Not All Podcast Hosts Are For Us
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Jun 20, 2022 |
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Episode 196: Sam and Sierra's Rainbow Tower
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Jun 13, 2022 |
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Patreon Bonus: Continuing The Conversation
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Jun 08, 2022 |
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Episode 195: The Parent Episode
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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Episode 194: A Whole Jar of Pickles
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May 30, 2022 |
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Episode 193: Butt Stuff Is the Trojan Horse
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May 23, 2022 |
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Episode 192: ALL CAPS WORK EMAILS
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May 16, 2022 |
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Episode 191: Let Yourself Hear What They're Saying
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May 09, 2022 |
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Episode 190: Where Are They Now? Pt. 3
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May 02, 2022 |
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Episode 189: Love Sandwich
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Apr 25, 2022 |
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Episode 188: Where Are They Now? Pt. 2
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Apr 18, 2022 |
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Patreon Bonus: More Love Songs!
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Apr 13, 2022 |
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Episode 187: The Sexisode: Labyrinth of the Labia
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Apr 11, 2022 |
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Episode 186: Where Are They Now? Pt. 1
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Apr 04, 2022 |
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Episode 185: Sam "Galaxy Brain" Blackwell
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Mar 28, 2022 |
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Episode 184: Toxic Positivity Villain
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Mar 21, 2022 |
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Episode 183: The Taco Bell of Sex
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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Episode 182: The Vulnerability Garden
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Mar 07, 2022 |
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Episode 181: Things Will Always Be Weird
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Feb 28, 2022 |
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Dating, Self-Care, and Chronic Illness: An Interview with Tonya Ingram
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Feb 24, 2022 |
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Episode 180: More Than the Sum of Our Butts
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Feb 21, 2022 |
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Episode 179: Sex Is Like Soup
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Feb 14, 2022 |
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Relationship Patterns and Working with Friends: An Interview with Trina Olson and Alfonso Wenker
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Feb 10, 2022 |
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Episode 178: A Blanket Statement You Can Unpack In Therapy Later
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Feb 07, 2022 |
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Accessing Your Higher Self: An Interview with Bunny Michael
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Feb 03, 2022 |
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Episode 177: The Introspective Elevator
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Jan 31, 2022 |
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Episode 176: Prioritize Your Peace
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Jan 24, 2022 |
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Desire and Communication: An Interview with Sex Therapist Casey Tanner
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Jan 20, 2022 |
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Episode 175: There's Something Better Out There
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Jan 17, 2022 |
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Episode 174: Our Tiny Little Brains!
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Jan 10, 2022 |
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Polyamory & Non-Monogamy: An Interview with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
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Jan 06, 2022 |
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Episode 173: A Band-Aid for a Wound of Insecurity
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Jan 03, 2022 |
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Patreon Bonus: Humbled by the Breadth of Human Experience
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Dec 27, 2021 |
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Episode 172: Is It Us, or Is It Capitalism?
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Dec 20, 2021 |
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Navigating Grief & Cultivating Joy in Partnerships: An Interview with Alyesha Wise and Matthew Cuban-Hernandez
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Dec 16, 2021 |
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Episode 171: Traditions Are Just Patterns
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Dec 13, 2021 |
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Episode 170: You Deserve to be Caretooketh
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Dec 06, 2021 |
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Online Dating & Interracial Relationships: An Interview with Melissa Lozada-Olivia
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Dec 02, 2021 |
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Episode 169: Humans Are Faulty
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Nov 29, 2021 |
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Episode 168: You Are Infinitely Capable
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Nov 22, 2021 |
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Body Positive Dating + Relationships - An Interview with Virgie Tovar
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Nov 18, 2021 |
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Episode 167: Let's Destigmatize "Experimenting"
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Nov 15, 2021 |
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Episode 166: Normal is Just a Setting on a Washing Machine
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Nov 08, 2021 |
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Emotional Maturity + Healing Parental Wounds - An Interview with Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson
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Nov 04, 2021 |
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Episode 165: Feelings Happen
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Nov 01, 2021 |
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Episode 164: How Are You Cherishing Yourself?
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Oct 25, 2021 |
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Episode 163: Returning to the Goo State
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Oct 18, 2021 |
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Episode 162: Clarity Makes the Heart Grow Stronger
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Oct 11, 2021 |
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Episode 161: There’s No Healthy Conflict On TV
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Oct 04, 2021 |
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Episode 160: Cool Bro, Good Luck with Your Parents
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Sep 28, 2021 |
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Episode 159: No Brakes on the Love Train
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Sep 20, 2021 |
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Episode 158: We’re All Just Sloppy
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Sep 13, 2021 |
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Patreon Episode: Trick That Lizard Into Chilling Out
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Sep 08, 2021 |
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Episode 157: Aging Into PBS’ Target Audience
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Aug 30, 2021 |
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Episode 156: It Doesn't Have to Make Sense to Be True
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Aug 23, 2021 |
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Episode 155: Real World Compatibility
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Aug 16, 2021 |
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Episode 154: Attraction is Subjective
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Aug 09, 2021 |
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Episode 153: Sam’s Not Here to Talk About Genitals
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Aug 02, 2021 |
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Episode 152: We’re All Uniquely F’d Up
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Jul 26, 2021 |
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Episode 151: Trying to Solve an Unsolvable Equation
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Jul 20, 2021 |
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Episode 150: JBU Turns Three!
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Jul 12, 2021 |
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Episode 149: Not a World For Naive Idealists
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Jul 05, 2021 |
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Episode 148: A Swimming Pool of Success
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Jun 28, 2021 |
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Episode 147: All Relationships Are Weird All The Time
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Jun 21, 2021 |
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Episode 146: Sam and Sierra Are Fighting
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Jun 14, 2021 |
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Episode 145: He’s Just a Dude
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Jun 07, 2021 |
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Episode 144: Noted, and Ignored
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May 31, 2021 |
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Episode 143: Uncomfortable Doesn't Necessarily Mean Unsafe
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May 24, 2021 |
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Episode 142: You Can't Date Half a Person
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May 17, 2021 |
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Episode 141: Having a Big Feeling
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May 10, 2021 |
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Episode 140: Everyone Is Annoying
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May 03, 2021 |
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Episode 139: The Sierra Sear
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Apr 26, 2021 |
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Episode 138: How Do You Block Someone On Linkedin?
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Apr 19, 2021 |
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Episode 137: 90% of Human Interaction Hurts
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Apr 12, 2021 |
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Episode 136: Hundreds of Small Decisions
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Apr 05, 2021 |
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Episode 135: You're Having Two Different Conversations
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Mar 29, 2021 |
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Episode 134: You Don't Need Anything Else
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Mar 22, 2021 |
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Episode 133: Sam the Time Travelin' Man
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Mar 15, 2021 |
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Episode 132: All In or All Out
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Mar 08, 2021 |
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Episode 131: Wrestling? Baseball? What’s the Difference?
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Mar 01, 2021 |
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Episode 130: Intimacy Is Like Exercise
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Feb 22, 2021 |
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Episode 129: The First Pancake Always Sucks
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Feb 15, 2021 |
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Invite Those Emotions In (Patreon bonus episode)
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Feb 10, 2021 |
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Episode 128: There Is No Normal
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Feb 08, 2021 |
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Episode 127: Receive Their Love!
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Feb 01, 2021 |
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Episode 126: You Didn’t Betray Yourself
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Jan 25, 2021 |
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Episode 125: Recognizing the Complexity
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Jan 18, 2021 |
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Episode 124: We're Allowed to Change Our Minds
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Jan 11, 2021 |
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Episode 123: Is the Juice Worth the Squeeze?
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Jan 04, 2021 |
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Episode 122: A Real Man Would Just Die In His Sleep
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Dec 14, 2020 |
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Episode 121: Blocker's Remorse
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Dec 07, 2020 |
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Episode 120: The Boring Love Story
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Nov 30, 2020 |
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Episode 119: We're All Still Learning
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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Episode 118: JBU Middle School
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Nov 16, 2020 |
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Episode 117: Does This Feel Good?
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Nov 09, 2020 |
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Episode 116: Accountability To The Self
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Nov 02, 2020 |
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Episode 115: Who Does This Serve?
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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Episode 114: You're Doing The Right Thing
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Oct 19, 2020 |
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Episode 113: Navigating The Nuance
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Oct 12, 2020 |
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Episode 112: You’re Worth More Than Crumbs
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Oct 05, 2020 |
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Episode 111: A Long-Term Waste Of Time
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Sep 28, 2020 |
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Episode 110: Don't Abandon Yourself
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Sep 21, 2020 |
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Episode 109: Intimacy Isn't Necessarily Compatibility
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Sep 14, 2020 |
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Episode 108: People Fall Out Of Love All The Time
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Sep 07, 2020 |
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Episode 107: Choosing The Unknown
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Aug 31, 2020 |
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Episode 106: Thomas the Train Wreck
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Aug 24, 2020 |
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Episode 105: We Have Time to Become More of Ourselves
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Aug 17, 2020 |
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Episode 104: A Weak Broth
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Aug 10, 2020 |
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Patreon Episode - April 29, 2020 [Gaslighting]
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Aug 03, 2020 |
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Episode 103: All Relationships Are Risks
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Jul 27, 2020 |
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Episode 102: 2-Year Anniversary Live Show!
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Jul 20, 2020 |
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Episode 101: Faith In My Feelings
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Jul 13, 2020 |
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Episode 100: And You Can Cook With It!
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Jul 06, 2020 |
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Episode 99: We'll Never Love Anyone Perfectly
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Jun 29, 2020 |
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Episode 98: You Are Whole, Even As You Become
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Jun 22, 2020 |
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Episode 97: Your Boyfriend Probably Has Debt
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Jun 15, 2020 |
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Episode 96: White Supremacy and Being Antiracist
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Jun 08, 2020 |
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In Solidarity
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Jun 01, 2020 |
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Episode 95: There Are No Rules
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May 25, 2020 |
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Episode 94: Relationships Are Hard Enough Already
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May 18, 2020 |
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Episode 93: The Rom Com Outcome
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May 11, 2020 |
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Episode 92: Thanks, But No Thanks
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May 04, 2020 |
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Episode 91: Just Wake Up
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Apr 27, 2020 |
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Episode 90: Emotional Labor
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Apr 20, 2020 |
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Episode 89: @Sam's_Muscles
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Apr 13, 2020 |
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Episode 88: I Started Dating the Abundance of the Universe
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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Episode 87: A Messy-Hearted Adult Baby
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Mar 30, 2020 |
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Episode 86: Their Love Is Not Going To Fix Your Life (Live From Oklahoma)
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Mar 23, 2020 |
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Episode 85: You're Doing This For You
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Mar 16, 2020 |
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Episode 84: Awkward Isn't Real
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Mar 09, 2020 |
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Episode 83: Being Young Sucks, I Don't Know Anything
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Mar 02, 2020 |
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Episode 82: Trauma Bonding
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Feb 24, 2020 |
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Episode 81: A Multifaceted Person Who Routinely Messes Up (Live in Brooklyn)
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Feb 17, 2020 |
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Episode 80: Boundaries First
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Feb 10, 2020 |
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Episode 79: It's Ok To Breakup With A Friend
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Feb 03, 2020 |
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Episode 78: You Are Not Asking For Too Much
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Jan 27, 2020 |
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Episode 77: Not All People Are For Me
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Jan 20, 2020 |
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Episode 76: AH! There's a Robot in my Bed!
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Jan 13, 2020 |
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Episode 75: What Does Trust Look Like?
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Jan 06, 2020 |
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Episode 74: The Diet Coke of Dating
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Dec 16, 2019 |
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Episode 73: You Deserve Someone Who Wants You
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Dec 09, 2019 |
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Episode 72: I'm Unhappy, Bye!
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Dec 02, 2019 |
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Episode 71: Divorce is Just Part of Life
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Nov 25, 2019 |
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Episode 70: Your Happiness Lies Ahead of You
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Nov 18, 2019 |
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Episode 69: Life is Too Short to be in a Mess Like This
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Nov 11, 2019 |
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Episode 68: I Want To Be Like Wet Clay (Live from Austin)
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Nov 04, 2019 |
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Episode 67: Ghost Boy
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Oct 28, 2019 |
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Episode 66: Can You Really Stay Friends With An Ex?
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Oct 21, 2019 |
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Episode 65: A New Nipple Hair
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Oct 14, 2019 |
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Episode 64: It's Okay To Want More
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Oct 07, 2019 |
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Episode 63: Cani Getadate
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Sep 30, 2019 |
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Episode 62: Do You Like Me or Like Like Me?
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Sep 23, 2019 |
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Episode 61: Choke Me Daddy
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Sep 16, 2019 |
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Episode 60: Drunk Texting “I Miss You” on a T9 Phone
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Sep 09, 2019 |
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Episode 59: I Wasn’t Being Uncommunicative; I Was In Vietnam for 7 Weeks and Didn’t Have Service
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Sep 02, 2019 |
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Episode 58: The FBI Has Seen All Angles Of My Naked Body
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Aug 26, 2019 |
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Episode 57: You May Never Know If They Cheated On You
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Aug 19, 2019 |
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Episode 56: Come On Voldemort, Let's Go To The Beach
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Aug 12, 2019 |
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Episode 55: Destigmatize the Sex Rut
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Aug 05, 2019 |
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Episode 54: Live Anniversary Show!
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Jul 29, 2019 |
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Episode 53: Making His Life Perfect & Mine a Living Hell!
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Jul 22, 2019 |
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Episode 52: He Is Not Worth Erasing Yourself Everyday For a Year
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Jul 12, 2019 |
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Episode 51: You Know What To Do
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Jul 08, 2019 |
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Episode 50: Romantic Convicts
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Jun 30, 2019 |
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Episode 49: Emotional Connection is My Drug of Choice
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Jun 24, 2019 |
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Episode 48: The Brain is a Bonkers Place
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Jun 17, 2019 |
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Episode 47: A Bit of a Pickle
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Jun 10, 2019 |
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Episode 46: Weird Sexual Encounters of the Third Kind
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Jun 03, 2019 |
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Episode 45: Dear Ex, I Hope You're In Therapy
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May 23, 2019 |
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Episode 44: Boom Boom Boom Boom AHHhhAahhhaaa
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May 20, 2019 |
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Episode 43: Everybody's Dumpable
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May 10, 2019 |
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Episode 42: When All Your Hard Work Just Doesn’t Work
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May 06, 2019 |
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Episode 41: Sam's Nightmare, Sierra's Wet Dream
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Apr 29, 2019 |
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Episode 40: Frolicking With a Peasant Boy Named Ralph
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Apr 22, 2019 |
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Episode 39: This Is Your Heart On Heartbreak
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Apr 14, 2019 |
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Episode 38: Totally Not About Butt Stuff
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Apr 08, 2019 |
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Episode 37: In Which Sam Attempts to Quote Wayne Gretzky
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Apr 01, 2019 |
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Episode 36: Hippie Woo Woo Bullsh*t Self Love Bla Bla Bla #Instagram F*ckin Whatever
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Mar 25, 2019 |
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Episode 35: Fluent In The Language Of “Well, He Did It Because...”
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Mar 18, 2019 |
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Episode 34: Boy Bye (Pay Us $1000)
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Mar 11, 2019 |
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Episode 33: Back in My Day, You Just Poked A Man With A Stick
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Mar 04, 2019 |
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Episode 32: An Emotionally Unavailable Kitchen Sponge of a Human
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Feb 25, 2019 |
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Episode 31: You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Your Exes
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Feb 18, 2019 |
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Bonus Episode: 10 Tips for Surviving February 14th
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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Episode 30: How to Not Take Someone Else's Relationship Personally
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Feb 11, 2019 |
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Episode 29: Overextending Yourself Isn't Love
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Feb 04, 2019 |
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Episode 28: I Don't Trust You But Here Is My Heart
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Jan 21, 2019 |
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Episode 27: Pedastool
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Jan 14, 2019 |
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Episode 26: Tiny Little Boner in Your Heart
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Jan 07, 2019 |
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Episode 25: In What Way Has This Been Great For You
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Dec 17, 2018 |
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Episode 24: Fa La La La Block
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Dec 10, 2018 |
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Episode 23: Shame Can't Live in the Dark...I Mean Light
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Dec 03, 2018 |
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Episode 22: Ghosts Can't Text
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Nov 26, 2018 |
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Episode 21: To Know You And Love You So Simply
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Nov 19, 2018 |
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Episode 20: Surprise Boner!
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Nov 12, 2018 |
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Episode 19: I Wanna Be Happy For You But I'm Insanely Jealous
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Nov 05, 2018 |
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Episode 18: Peanut Butter in Bed
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Oct 29, 2018 |
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Episode 17: The Word of the Day Is Sustainability
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Oct 22, 2018 |
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Episode 16: I Don't Want Your Wishy-Washy Tepid Bullshit
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Oct 15, 2018 |
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Episode 15: Let Me Be Great
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Oct 08, 2018 |
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Episode 14: It Will Never Make Sense
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Oct 01, 2018 |
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Episode 13: I'm Not Listening to the Words He's Saying
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Sep 24, 2018 |
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Episode 12: Quit This S*** Girl
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Sep 17, 2018 |
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Congratulations Sam & Peter!
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Sep 15, 2018 |
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Episode 11: There Are Whole States I Can't Go Back To (with Olivia Gatwood)
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Sep 10, 2018 |
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Episode 10: The Relationship Dump
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Sep 03, 2018 |
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Episode 9: Affirmation Masturbation
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Aug 27, 2018 |
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Episode 8: I Too Have Loved A Tank of Toxic Sludge
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Aug 20, 2018 |
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Episode 7: Two Virgins Who Can’t Drive
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Aug 13, 2018 |
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Episode 6: Frickin' Robert Frost
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Aug 06, 2018 |
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Episode 5: That Butterfly Is Intimacy
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Jul 30, 2018 |
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Episode 4: Don't You Know That You're Toxic?
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Jul 23, 2018 |
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Episode 3: #BlockBlockBlockBlockBlock
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Jul 16, 2018 |
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Episode 2: I Just Unbuttoned My Pants
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Jul 16, 2018 |
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Episode 1: Tent Sex
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Jul 16, 2018 |