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The “How Can I Say This…” podcast offers tips and advice for interpersonal communications challenges, such as difficult conversations, conflict, giving and receiving feedback, negotiating, and other situations where what you say and how you say it makes all the difference.
Your host is Beth Buelow, PCC, founder of ZOPA Consulting and author of “The Introvert Entrepreneur: Amplify Your Strengths and Create Success on Your Own Terms.” Beth’s credentialed professional coach and trained mediator. She loves finding the “Zone of Possible Agreement” (ZOPA!) in any situation that comes her way. She hosted The Introvert Entrepreneur Podcast from 2010-2018.
In every episode of "How Can I Say This...", you’ll find ideas about how to handle your communication conundrums; tips on feeling more confident and comfortable with conflict; opportunities to learn from real-life situations through questions shared by listeners; and ultimately, gain skills and techniques for dealing with sticky situations at work and home. Of course, we can’t be all talk and no action; each show will end with an invitation to try a particular technique or approach that came up in the episode.
Episodes will feature a mixture of commentary, listener questions, and expert guest interviews and contributions. The scope of conversation will evolve over time… we’re open to seeing where this goes. Thanks for joining us on the journey!
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Claiming Space with Eliza VanCort
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May 14, 2021 |
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Pausing and People Pleasing with Alan Heymann
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Apr 30, 2021 |
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The Language of DEI with Arlene Koth
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Apr 16, 2021 |
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How to Talk to Strangers (Listener Question)
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Mar 27, 2021 |
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How are you? as a gateway to connection
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Feb 22, 2021 |
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Calming Your Nerves (Listener Question)
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Feb 05, 2021 |
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Acknowledging the Good in the Bad
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Jan 09, 2021 |
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The Art of Letting Go
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Dec 31, 2020 |
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How to have meaningful virtual conversations with Jennifer Britton
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Dec 23, 2020 |
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Talking about Race at Work with Kwame Christian
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Aug 28, 2020 |
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Using Reflective Inquiry for Better Conversations with Marcia Reynolds
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Jun 04, 2020 |
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Couples Communication in Quarantine with Marianne van Dijk
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May 22, 2020 |
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Creating a Communication-Friendly Space with Rebecca West
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May 09, 2020 |
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Liars and Stonewallers: Listener Questions
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Apr 28, 2020 |
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Mori Taheripour Shares How to Bring Yourself to Negotiations
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Apr 14, 2020 |
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A Simple Mantra for a Complex Time
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Apr 02, 2020 |
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Difficult Conversations with Kern Beare
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Mar 21, 2020 |
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These 7 Words are Undermining Your Effectiveness
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Feb 22, 2020 |
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Humor: Helpful or Harmful?
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Feb 09, 2020 |
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Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety with Michelle Barry Franco
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Jan 31, 2020 |
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Ep61: Words Create Worlds
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Jan 24, 2020 |
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Ep60: Ending the Shame Game
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Jan 10, 2020 |
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Ep59: Working with Disrespectful Colleagues (Listener Question)
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Dec 21, 2019 |
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Ep58: Making Your Private Beliefs Public
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Dec 07, 2019 |
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Ep57: Avoiding Conflict During Thanksgiving
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Nov 27, 2019 |
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Ep56: Staying Civil on Social Media
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Nov 16, 2019 |
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Ep55: De-Escalating Internal Anger
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Nov 08, 2019 |
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Ep54: Anatomy of an Interaction
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Oct 26, 2019 |
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Ep53: When It Gets Personal (Listener Question with guest Arden Clise)
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Oct 18, 2019 |
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Ep52: Disagreeing Without Being Disagreeable
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Oct 12, 2019 |
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Ep51: Surviving Small Talk
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Oct 05, 2019 |
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Ep50: Drama Queens (Listener Question)
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Sep 21, 2019 |
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Ep49: Expressing Feelings at Work with Melanie Katzman
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Sep 13, 2019 |
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Ep48: Two Lessons from The Art of Gathering
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Aug 30, 2019 |
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Ep47: Cultivating Conversational Intelligence with Michael O'Brien
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Aug 23, 2019 |
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Ep46: Cross-Cultural Communication with Susan Shirley
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Aug 17, 2019 |
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Ep45: Poetry to Grieve By
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Aug 10, 2019 |
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Ep44: Generational and Gender Communication Differences with Lee Caraher
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Aug 02, 2019 |
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Ep43: Deep Listening with Oscar Trimboli
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Jul 26, 2019 |
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Ep42: Flipping Failure with Sarah McVanel Part 2
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Jul 18, 2019 |
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Ep41: Flipping Failure with Sarah McVanel (Part 1)
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Jul 12, 2019 |
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Ep40: Freedom of Speech Reflections
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Jul 05, 2019 |
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Ep39: Is It Empathy or Hijacking?
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Jun 21, 2019 |
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Ep38: Brave Interfaith Conversations in the Workplace with Zahabia Ahmed-Usmani and Kyle Kooyers
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Jun 13, 2019 |
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Ep37: Ethics, Criticism and Rivals with Yonason Goldson
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Jun 07, 2019 |
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Ep36: Introverts and Extroverts in Conversation
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May 31, 2019 |
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Ep35: Empathy in Action in Difficult Conversations
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May 10, 2019 |
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Ep34: Humility, Ego, and Civil Conversations
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May 04, 2019 |
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Ep33: How to Talk with Kids About Tough Topics with Dakota Duncan
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Apr 26, 2019 |
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Ep32: How to Ask Better Questions (Part 2)
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Apr 18, 2019 |
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Ep31: How to Ask Better Questions (Part 1)
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Apr 12, 2019 |
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Ep30: What To Do When You're Triggered
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Apr 06, 2019 |
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Ep29: Getting Past Fine with Matt Crevin
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Mar 29, 2019 |
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Ep28: Self-Awareness and Authority with Caryn Lee
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Mar 22, 2019 |
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Ep27: The Fragile Bully as Narcissist with Laurie Helgoe
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Mar 14, 2019 |
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Ep26: Your Questions: Resolving Conflict Within Community with Judy Hissong
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Mar 08, 2019 |
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Ep25: Communication Lessons from the Animal Kingdom
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Mar 01, 2019 |
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Ep24: Talking to Your Doctor with Tami Stackelhouse
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Feb 21, 2019 |
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Ep23: Complainers and Energy Drainers with Linda Swindling
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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Ep22: Money: Make the Case, Make the Ask with Grace Judson
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Feb 07, 2019 |
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Responding When Bad Things Happen to Good People
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Feb 01, 2019 |
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Ep20: Parker J. Palmer on Connection and Community
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Jan 24, 2019 |
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Using the Ladder of Inference to Reframe Conflict
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Jan 16, 2019 |
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Your Questions: When Someone is Gaslighting You
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Jan 02, 2019 |
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Your Questions: How to Rein in a Disruptive Colleague
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Dec 19, 2018 |
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Ep16: Busyness and Negative Framing
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Dec 05, 2018 |
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Charlotte Parsons, Modeling Healthy Conflict for Kids
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Nov 28, 2018 |
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Barbara McAfee, Using Your Full Voice
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Nov 15, 2018 |
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Kwame Christian, Compassionate Curiosity
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Nov 07, 2018 |
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Your Questions: How to Stop Rambling
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Oct 31, 2018 |
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Derek Pratt, Tips for Neighbor Conflicts
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Oct 23, 2018 |
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Your Questions: Negative People, Protecting Colleagues
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Oct 17, 2018 |
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Your Questions: Creating Closure from a Distance
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Oct 09, 2018 |
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Ep008: Veronica Cravener, Determining Your Interests and Wants
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Oct 03, 2018 |
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Grace Judson, Empathy in Conversations
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Sep 25, 2018 |
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Your Questions: Friendship Challenges, Generational Differences
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Sep 18, 2018 |
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Arden Clise, Tricky Feedback, Establishing Boundaries (Ep005)
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Sep 11, 2018 |
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Cinnie Noble, Navigating Conflict and Passive-Aggressiveness
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Sep 04, 2018 |
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Your Questions: TMI, Unsolicited Help, Releasing a Client
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Sep 04, 2018 |
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Laurie Helgoe, How to Handle Bullies and Narcissists
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Sep 04, 2018 |
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Bridging Political Divides with Kern Beare
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Sep 04, 2018 |