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Corrine and Neil Stokoe: Finding Healing From Pornography Addiction
Mint Arrow is a well-known fashion deals blog and brand. Husband and wife duo, Neil and Corrine Stokoe, are the power couple behind the operation. But in a social media world that frequently presents the ideal as day-to-day reality, the couple recently opened up about an underlying struggle that couldn’t be seen in their smiling faces: a battle against pornography addiction.
"I had to get to know Jesus in a way that I wouldn't know Him if I hadn't gone through the steps and if I didn't feel so desperate that I really was saying, 'I will do anything to overcome this and to feel better and to find peace.'" -Corrine Stokoe
1:40- First Contact With Pornography/Talking With Kids About Pornography
7:21- Telling Corrine
20:10- Intimacy Vs. Lust
25:36- ARP: AA Meets The Gospel
37:18- Why Do You Need A Sponsor?
42:06- Why Do the 12 Steps as the Spouse of an Addict?
46:27- Surrendering to the Savior Through the 12 Steps
49:08- Grateful for Addiction
52:46- A Message to Those Struggling With Addiction Now
54:18- A Message to The Spouse of an Addict
56:55- What Does It Mean To You To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ?
Listen to the Mint Arrow Messages episode featuring Kristen Jenson, the author of "Good Pictures, Bad Pictures" by clicking here.
Purchase "Good Pictures, Bad Pictures," here.
Watch: What Should I Do When I See Pornography? for families
Read Neil and Corrine’s Real Life Love Story on Mint Arrow.
Read Part Two of Neil and Corrine’s Real Life Love Story.
An introduction to Mandi and Court Gubler's story from the Deseret News.
Listen to Corrine's recent interview with Mandi Gubler on Mint Arrow Messages.
”We don’t have to take things so personally. We take things to heart that we have no business taking to heart. For instance, saying “If you loved me you wouldn’t drink” to an alcoholic makes as much sense as saying “If you loved me, you wouldn’t cough” to someone who has pneumonia. Pneumonia victims will cough until they get appropriate treatment for their illness. Alcoholics will drink until they get the same. When people with a compulsive disorder do whatever it is they are compelled to do, they are not saying they don’t love you—they are saying they don’t love themselves.”-Melody Beattie in "Codependent No More"
Visit the Church's "Addressing Pornography" website.
"We need to be more patient with the process. We need to worry less about the speed at which we are moving and more about the direction we are going. We will not fully realize our divine potential in this life. And while we need to make wise use of our time in our mortal existence, we should remember that God does not deal with time in the same way we do. In fact, time as we understand it may not bind Him at all. As Alma noted, 'Time only is measured unto men.' Because speed is a measure of distance over time, if time becomes less relevant, so does speed. Thus, in eternal things, such as our ongoing progress in becoming like God, direction is more important than speed. In the long run, the direction we are headed matters much more than the rate at which we are moving." Kevin Worthen, "Knowing Who You Are."
Read Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s “Cast Not Away Therefore Your Confidence."
Of all the illustrations of faith in the Lord, few stories are more powerful than that told of the pioneer who years later stood to defend the decision of the Martin Handcart Company to start for the Salt Lake Valley late in the year of 1856. He had been one of the nearly 3,000 Saints who walked from Iowa and Nebraska to Utah between 1856 and 1860 in one of 10 companies pushing and pulling handcarts loaded with their belongings.
|Jul 17, 2019|
Melissa Inouye: Why Loving One Another is More Than Bringing Casseroles
Identity, creating understanding, covenants, a worldwide Church, faith crises, change in the Church—these are topics Melissa Inouye, a scholar, addresses in an effort to explain how she has “found the fruits of this life (the life of a Latter-day Saint) to be worthwhile—costly, to be sure, but also rich and nourishing, a source of deep joy.”
"I believe that Christ is here in the Church and I've felt the power of God. And so, having had those experiences, I am absolutely committed to being where I am."
1:51- A Latter-day Saint Seven Days a Week
2:56- The Church Influencing Worldview
6:38- Lessons Learned From Being a Missionary
12:14- Belonging and Identity
18:44- Wins and Losses
20:57- Creating Unity in the Church
23:41- Helping Amidst Faith Crises
29:56- An Evolving Church
36:47- What Does It Mean to Be All In The Gospel of Jesus Christ?
|Jul 10, 2019|
Dean Hughes: Digging Into Polygamy and Other "Muddy" Issues
When Dean Hughes began writing his latest book, he didn't plan on writing about polygamy but the topic became impossible to ignore. At times, there are things (both past and present) that may affect our beliefs and be impossible to ignore. Dean describes these things as "muddy," but explains that there are faithful ways to approach seemingly messy aspects of our faith or our Church's history.
"There's never a time when the questions end but if you've had certain experiences in your life that verify your faith, then you rely on those."
3:47-Polygamy—Not an isolated challenge
5:57-Getting historical figures right
10:26- Balancing obedience and agency
17:14-Looking at history through a 2019 lens
23:29- Honoring uncomfortable aspects of our heritage
24:21- Putting historical characters on a pedestal
30:20-An international Church
34:54- Approaching muddy topics today
38:12- What does it mean to be all in the gospel of Jesus Christ?
|Jul 03, 2019|
Mark and Lee Anne Pope: “All In” On and Off the Basketball Court
There have been two constants in the lives of Mark and Lee Anne Pope—change and the gospel of Jesus Christ. But they are all about leaving it all on the court and not holding anything back, regardless of what might change. In their family, in their communities, on their teams and in the Church, Mark and Lee Anne Pope choose to be “All In.”
"Being 'All In' also requires faith...it is quintessentially a leap of faith, to say, you know what? I can't guarantee this is going to work out. But I'm not going to keep a backup plan."
3:32- The daughter and wife of basketball coaches
6:25- Life in the NBA
10:20- Working for David Letterman
16:16- A love story
26:21- A foundation of gospel living
31:22- The vulnerability of being "All In"
37:30- Peter, the apostle
39:22- What does it mean to be "All In"
|Jun 26, 2019|
Olga Campora: Finding the Gospel Behind the Iron Curtain
During the early 1980s in Communist-ruled Czechoslovakia, Olga Campora, then a young college student, became interested in yoga. Her interest led her to the home of a man who first taught her more about yoga, but eventually introduced her to the gospel of Jesus Christ.
"I have learned, through my life, how really important it is not to be afraid to take the imperfect action because it is by doing things that we really learn."
2:43- Religious climate behind the Iron Curtain
|Jun 19, 2019|
Barbara Morgan Gardner: How Women (and Men) Misunderstand the Priesthood + What We Can Do About It
Barbara Morgan Gardner’s journey to understanding her access as a woman to priesthood power began as a young girl wondering which scriptures applied to her and which didn’t. Today on “All In,” she shares both doctrinal insights and practical tips for accessing and celebrating the gift of priesthood power to both men and women.
"There's no blessing, there's no privilege, there is no covenant, that God isn't allowing the women to partake of that He is allowing the men to partake of..."
1:27- How the Ensign article came to be
2:35- The dangers of a "horizontal" culture
6:09- Why should we care about women's access to the priesthood?
9:38- A personal desire to understand
16:43- The Oath and Covenant
21:17- How do we keep up?
27:11- Why presiding matters
32:19- Opportunities available to Latter-day Saints
35:20- Why we need priesthood holders
40:14- Giving credence to women's voices
43:42- What does it mean to you to be "All In" the gospel of Jesus Christ?
|Jun 12, 2019|
Steven Collis: Freedom To Live Our Beliefs
The first time Steven Collis needed the protection of religious liberty came when he was a teenage boy with questions about God and the purpose of life. His thirst for truth as a youth led to deep convictions as an adult. Since joining the Church, Collis has devoted his professional life to protecting the rights of others to also find and live what they believe.
|Jun 05, 2019|
Erik and Emily Orton: Navigating the Seas of Marriage
This week, Emily and Erik Orton's book, "Seven At Sea," was recommended by The New York Times as one of the best travel reads of the summer but on this week's episode of "All In," the Latter-day Saint couple talks navigating the choppy seas of marriage. From communication to trust to embracing life together, Emily and Erik share their advice for marital smooth sailing.
"He doesn't often calm the storm, even though He can. ...But He will and can calm us in the storm."
2:34- Living in a NYC apartment with seven people
3:58- An intentionally balanced partnership
7:57- Fostering open communication in marriage
12:19- The middle school class that has impacted their marriage
18:05- Acknowledging and supporting your spouse's ideas
21:30- How sailing impacted their marriage
30:09- The wind and waves obey thy will
33:01- What does it mean to you be "All In" the gospel of Jesus Christ?
39:37- Addendum from Emily
|May 29, 2019|
Tad Callister: Making a Case for the Book of Mormon
Tad R. Callister is among the most beloved Latter-day Saint authors whose titles include "The Infinite Atonement" and "The Inevitable Apostasy." In his new book, “A Case for the Book of Mormon,” the former Sunday School general president builds upon his general conference talk, which makes a full case (including what detractors might say) for this keystone of the Latter-day Saint faith, complete with witnesses, evidence and a closing argument.
"I don't think anyone can gain a better understanding of the Savior and His Atonement and His all-encompassing powers, His love for us, than you can gain from the Book of Mormon. And so if you have a testimony of the Book of Mormon, you will have a testimony of Jesus Christ, you will have a testimony of His Atonement. It will give you hope, it will give you comfort, it will give you direction in life, purpose in life, meaning in life. It will be a rock foundation upon which to build."
4:20-Why a Case for the Book of Mormon?
6:21-Why understanding the opposition is important
10:05- Brother Callister's personal testimony of the Book of Mormon
11:58- A book with a heartbeat
13:32- Why seek a personal witness of the Book of Mormon?
15:06- Arguments against the Book of Mormon
18:55- Responding to criticisms without contention
20:56- The importances of witnesses in making a case
22:05- Findings through writing "A Case for the Book of Mormon"
27:57- Parting words after release as Sunday School general president
29:06- Next year's "Come Follow Me" with the Book of Mormon
32:15-An exciting time to be a member of the Church
34:00-Closing argument and why Brother Callister is "All In"
|May 22, 2019|
Emily Snyder: "Choosing Deliberate" in an Unexpected Life
Magnolia Chief of Staff Emily Snyder never imagined her life would include working for well known, influential people or getting an MBA from an Ivy League School. In fact, all she ever dreamed of becoming was a mother but when her life began to look very different than her dreams, she decided she couldn’t let it stop her from taking full advantage of her “one precious life.”
“If I'm already a daughter of God, He already sees me as that. I don't have to become His daughter. I am. He loves me completely. And all these opportunities of growth and progression, and heartache, and brokenness are not things that I have to become something through. But they are simply opportunities for me to see who He already sees me to be, to see the strength that I already have.”
1:09- Have her bosses been as great as they seem?
2:39- A Life Different Than Planned
5:07- The Dream of Motherhood
8:48- Trusting Your Life To God
11:57- Marriage or Jesus Christ?
13:58- Choose Deliberate
19:42- The Road to Magnolia
23:52- Unity in Christ
24:43- Become Vs. Be
38:02- Lessons Learned From Julie, Clay, Chip and Joanna
42:33- What Does it Mean To You To Be All In?
|May 15, 2019|
Bonus: The Bonner Family: Instilling a Love for Jesus Through Music
Debra Bonner didn’t know she could sing and she didn’t know Jesus until a friend invited her to church when she was 13 years old. Since then, she has spent her life singing the good news of a Savior while instilling a love for Him in her eight children and to all within the sound of her voice.
|May 11, 2019|
Bishop Gérald Caussé and Nicolas Giusti: Why the Presiding Bishop and His Friend Recorded An Album of Piano Duets
In his spare time (that we doubt exists) the Presiding Bishop of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Gérald Caussé, recently practiced and recorded piano duets with his Latter-day Saint friend, Nicolas Giusti, an acclaimed Italian composer and opera conductor from Rome. We spoke with the duo about their European heritage, how their families found the gospel and why Primary pianist is one of the best callings in the Church.
"Now I can see a temple from the windows of my house. And so every morning when I wake up, I go and have my breakfast, and I look to the temple. And I think of when I was a young boy, and it would take two days to get to the temple in Switzerland. And it's almost as if I have to pinch myself and I say to myself, every time I see the temple, 'You must not consider this as commonplace. Don't get used to seeing the temple every day. This is a miracle everyday.'"
1:50- A European Kinship
4:01- Finding the Gospel
13:21- The Temples They Dreamed Would Be Built
19:00- A Love for Music
22:58- Primary Pianist, The Best Calling in the Church
26:56- A Universal Language
28:21- Why An Album of Piano Duets?
32:22- "Where Can I Turn For Peace," a Joyful Hymn
33:33- What does it mean to be "All In" the gospel of Jesus Christ?
|May 08, 2019|
Scott O’Neil: Why This NBA CEO Joined the Church After Being Married To A Latter-day Saint For Over 20 Years
Scott O'Neil, CEO of the NBA's Philadelphia 76ers, doesn't have any hobbies. He is a husband, father, NBA CEO and a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who believes prioritization is not a matter of balance but of being 100 percent present wherever he may be in the moment. He is the guy who smiles and says hi to every person he passes, calling many of them by name, and the recent convert who believes we all need to do more to share the gospel of Jesus Christ.
"We need to do more. We need to be less insular. We need be more loving. We need to be more open. We need to be more assertive. We need to leverage social media. We need to leverage the people we know, the influence we have, and we need to do a better job because this gospel is too special and we need to do a better job sharing it."
1:46- Scott's love for sports is NOT why he loves his job
2:54- Scott O’Neil, the recreation league girls basketball coach
5:54- How Scott O’Neil became an NBA CEO
7:22- When Scott met Lisa
23:12- Scott’s decision to meet with the missionaries
32:32- Experiencing “firsts” as a new member of the Church
36:55- Why being sealed to his family was significant/memories
39:20- Advice to other part-member families
41:18- Why Scott believes he joined the Church at the right time
43:20- Call for missionary work
44:03- Gratitude for his wife
45:58: Balancing being a husband, father, member of the Church and an NBA CEO
48:53- What it means to Scott to be “All In” the gospel of Jesus Christ
|May 01, 2019|
Sheri Dew: Lessons Learned From (Literally) Following the Prophet
Sheri Dew has written books about three presidents of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. In this week’s episode, she shares stories and observations from a lifetime of documenting and witnessing the lives of living prophets.
|Apr 24, 2019|
Surviving Columbine: God in the Midst of Tragedy with Will Beck
Will Beck was a sophomore at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999, the day of the Columbine shooting. 20 years have passed since that fateful day but on this week’s episode of “All In,” we talk with Will about his memories of that day, what he learned from that experience and how it has shaped his life in the years since. He also responds to those who may question where God was that day.
|Apr 17, 2019|
Rob Gardner: Portraying the Savior in Music
Rob Gardner is the composer of the well-known Easter oratorio “Lamb of God,” and the arranger of the Latter-day Saint favorite, “Savior, Redeemer of my Soul.” On this week’s episode, in preparation for Easter, we sit down with Rob to discuss what he has learned from composing music about the Savior. We also get Rob’s thoughts about what he believes those who knew and loved Christ during His mortal ministry must have felt and experienced during the final week of His life.
|Apr 10, 2019|
Wendy Ulrich: How God Expects Women to Use Priesthood Power
Are women meant to simply be recipients of the blessings of the Priesthood or do women actively participate in the Priesthood? Wendy Ulrich, who recently authored a book on the topic of women’s access to God’s power, explains that there are many ways women are able to, and even expected to, exercise Priesthood power.
|Apr 03, 2019|
Spencer Hyde: Living With OCD
Spencer Hyde first began to recognize symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder when he was 6-years-old. Since that time, he has repeatedly seen God’s hand in his battle against OCD. In this week's episode, we talk with Spencer about why God allows His children to struggle with mental illness and how the scriptures have aided him in that fight.
|Mar 27, 2019|
Directing The Tabernacle Choir with Mack Wilberg and Ryan Murphy
What would you ask the directors of the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square if you could sit with them in the basement of the historic Salt Lake Tabernacle? We put a call out on Twitter for questions and Mack Wilberg and Ryan Murphy set out to answer them (and a few of our own) on this week’s episode of "All In."
|Mar 06, 2019|
Experiencing Excommunication with Perri Correia and Rory Mele
Excommunication. It’s something we don’t talk about much within the Church but what motivates someone to return to Church membership after excommunication? What is the purpose of excommunication from the perspective of those who have experienced it? This is what we discuss with two men who have experienced excommunication firsthand on this week’s episode of “All In.”
|Feb 27, 2019|
Greg McKeown: Essentialism—A Disciple’s Path
Greg McKeown has taught the principles of his book, “Essentialism,” to some of the most reputable companies in the world. On this week’s episode, McKeown explains why the way of the essentialist is really an effort to follow the example of Jesus Christ.
|Feb 20, 2019|
Kim White: Choosing Faith in a Fight Against Cancer
Kim White is a Latter-day Saint woman, a mother, a wife, a daughter and a friend who has been battling stage 4 cancer for nearly five years. On today’s episode, we talk with the woman thousands of Instagram users have come to love and pray for through her account @KimCanKickIt.
|Feb 13, 2019|
Single in the Church Pt. 2 with Steve Soelberg and Sefa Palu
Last week, we heard two young single adult women discuss their experience as Latter-day Saints but this week, we get the male perspective as “All In” host Erin Hallstrom sits down with two single Latter-day Saint men.
|Feb 06, 2019|
Mallory Everton: Single in the Church Pt. 1
In the first episode of this series about being single Latter-day Saints, “All In” host Morgan Jones and Mallory Everton, who is best-known for her work on BYUtv’s “Studio C,” discuss their experience as young single adult women in the Church.
|Jan 30, 2019|
Nathan Pacheco: Consecrating Our Talents
Nathan Pacheco was a senior at Brigham Young University when he heard Elder Jeffrey R. Holland make a statement that gave him the courage to pursue a career in music. He has since learned that sometimes dreams come true quickly and other times a bit more gradually. He has also found that dreams can change with time and sometimes living out those dreams looks different than we anticipated but if we consecrate those talents to the Lord, we will discover something even greater than we imagined.
|Jan 23, 2019|
Bre Lasley: Recognizing God's Hand After Surviving an Attempted Murder
Three years ago, Bre Lasley lived out most people’s worst nightmare when a stranger climbed through her bedroom window and attacked her. However, in a video following the attack Bre can be heard saying, “Heavenly Father was there the entire time, the entire time.” On this week’s episode of “All In,” Bre testifies of a living God who loves all of His children, even her attacker.
|Jan 16, 2019|
Gerald Lund: Signs of the Second Coming
Elder Gerald Lund began writing his first book about the Second Coming nearly 50 years ago. He has devoted much of his life to studying the topic and recently began working on a rewrite of “The Coming of the Lord.” In this week’s episode, Elder Lund answers questions from Twitter users about the Second Coming.
|Jan 09, 2019|
Jane Clayson Johnson: Depression in The Lives of Latter-day Saints
After a very successful career in network news, broadcast journalist Jane Clayson Johnson was finally the wife and mother she had always dreamed of becoming when she found herself overcome with a darkness she didn’t recognize. On this week’s episode, Jane discusses the clinical depression that blindsided her and what she has learned from interviewing over 150 Latter-day Saints who are also facing this difficult challenge.
|Jan 02, 2019|
David Butler: When God Doesn’t Intervene, Does It Mean He’s Absent?
David Butler’s love for God is contagious and, in this episode, we discuss God’s love for His children and our love for Him. How does God balance His love as a father with his allowance of our agency? If He truly loves us, why doesn’t He always intervene in times of trouble?
|Dec 19, 2018|
Pt. 2: Bruce and Marie Hafen: Understanding and Navigating Stages of Faith
“Being a doubting Thomas is not the end point of the journey of discipleship.” In part two of our conversation with Emeritus General Authority Bruce C. Hafen and his wife Marie, we delve deeper into why complexity and skepticism may be necessary for some people in the development of their faith.
|Dec 12, 2018|
Bonus Episode: Introducing LDS Living’s This Is The Gospel Podcast
The stories we tell matter. They can build our faith, help us empathize with others, demonstrate the true power of God in our lives, and help lead us to Christ. This Is the Gospel, a new storytelling podcast from LDS Living, collects and shares personal stories that illustrate the challenges and triumphs of living in the latter days.
|Dec 07, 2018|
Pt. 1: Bruce and Marie Hafen: Understanding and Navigating Stages of Faith
“Trust me, it’s going to be good.” We often speak of trusting God but will everything really be good in the end? Should we be worried when we, or those we love, are struggling to trust Him? Emeritus General Authority Bruce C. Hafen and his wife Marie share their concept of three stages of faith after a lifetime spent exploring difficult topics and seeking peace amid the complexities we all face in real life.
|Dec 05, 2018|
Brad Wilcox: The ‘We’ in ‘After All We Can Do’
You’ve likely read the scripture in 2 Nephi 25:23 that says, “It is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do." But who is the "we"? Does it simply refer to me and you? Or does the word "we" represent something more? Author and scholar Brad Wilcox shares his thoughts on this and other questions related to the topic of grace in this week’s episode of All In.
|Nov 29, 2018|
Camron Wright: Finding God’s Plan for Your Life
Camron Wright, author of “The Rent Collector” and “The Orphan Keeper,” attributes his becoming an author to somewhat of a mid-life crisis. What do we do when we feel like life comes to a standstill? How can we seek and find God’s direction for our lives while maintaining hope when answers are slow in coming? Is his guidance always manifest in miraculous ways? Wright shares his personal experience in this week’s episode of All In.
|Nov 21, 2018|
Jon and Michelle Schmidt: Grace Found In the Search for Annie
When Jon and Michelle Schmidt's daughter Annie disappeared while hiking in Oregon's Columbia River Gorge in 2016, they faced every parent's worst nightmare. On this episode, Jon and Michelle share with "All In" host Jamie Armstrong how their faith in the gospel sustained them during the grueling three-week search for Annie and how her body was miraculously found.
|Nov 14, 2018|
Emily Belle Freeman and Nish Weiseth: Different Faiths and Deep Friendship
How can we do a better job of building on common ground rather than creating artificial divides? Authors Emily Belle Freeman, a Latter-day Saint, and Nish Weiseth, a non-denominational Christian, are best friends who have built a strong friendship on a foundation of Christ.
|Nov 07, 2018|
Brandon Mull, NYT Best-Selling Fantasy Author, Explains what Worldbuilding has Taught Him about God
In the fourth episode of All In, host Erin Hallstrom talks with the author of the Fablehaven and Dragonwatch series, Brandon Mull, who reveals his past jobs and how he became a fantasy author. Brandon also discusses what creating a fantasy world has taught him about God and parenting.
|Oct 31, 2018|
Zandra Vranes of “Sistas In Zion” and Laurel Christensen Day: Racism In the Church
Zandra Vranes and Laurel Christensen Day’s friendship requires a conscious, deliberate effort to create trust. In this episode, they talk with “All In” host Erin Hallstrom about why they have chosen to create a strong relationship and understanding with one another by refusing to shy away from difficult conversations. Vranes and Day discuss how racism is manifest in the Church today and what we can all do to help each other feel at home in the gospel of Jesus Christ.
|Oct 23, 2018|
Tim Ballard: Searching for Hope in the Fight Against Modern-Day Slavery
Tim Ballard shares with “All In” host Jamie Armstrong the miraculous story of how two of the children he rescued became his own. Ballard explains how he discovered a passion for rescuing children from sex slavery, his gratitude for the influence of his wife and how he is able to bring light into the darkness because of the faith that carries him.
|Oct 23, 2018|
Jenny Reeder and Janiece Johnson: How Church History Can Help Rather than Hurt Your Faith
“All In” host Morgan Jones talks with two historians, Janiece Johnson and Jenny Reeder, who work to uncover and bring to light the stories of women in Church history. Janiece and Jenny discuss how Church history has strengthened rather than weakened their testimonies, the women they most admire from the past and what it means to be “All In” the gospel of Jesus Christ. They also discuss the historicity of “Jane and Emma” and whether it is okay to fictionalize history in film.
|Oct 23, 2018|