I Said What I Said

By Mukundwa

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Episodes: 137

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I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me!


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Episode Date
164. Your Dream Life is CLOSER than you think, mama!!!
Mar 26, 2026
163. Life is a privilege and an honour!!! 5 things I’m taking into my new year
Mar 17, 2026
162. Wanna get coached by me? ⭐ Take a listen
Feb 06, 2026
158. Love is Blind S9: Ep12+Reunion - wealth gaps, naivety and outsourcing our intuition
Nov 09, 2025
157. Should you take Responsibility for your own Suffering? Manifestation, Fate, Fortune and Suffering
Oct 31, 2025
156. Love is Blind S9: Ep6-11: substance abuse, sexual coercion and breaking relational patterns (everyone’s getting slapped!!!)
Oct 23, 2025
155. Love is Blind S9: Ep1-5: racism, biohacking and arrested development
Oct 17, 2025
153. 'Materialists' movie review: love as the last uncolonized frontier 
Oct 02, 2025
150. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep10 & 11: self sabotage and the promise of happily ever after
Sep 12, 2025
149. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep5-9: bro code, provider men and low self-esteem women
Sep 04, 2025
148. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep1-4: spiritual bypassing, gender roles, attachment styles.
Aug 27, 2025
144. Laverne Cox: MAGA, intersectionality and living out our politics (including COMPASSION)
Jul 24, 2025
141. Race and identity politics are a scam and I am DONE!!!
Jul 02, 2025
140. Listener Question: How to strengthen your intuition
Jun 22, 2025
138. The limits of the Law of Attraction/Abraham Hicks
Jun 08, 2025
137. "Sinners" movie is a spiritual call to action. Will you answer?
Jun 01, 2025
136. Processing emotions like a big gworl: envy, embodiment, self trust
May 25, 2025
Girls and Gays for a Free Palestine 🍉 : donating Patreon proceeds
May 19, 2025
133. Lying is a form of masking and is ruining your self esteem
May 02, 2025
132. what shame and envy tell us about ourselves
Apr 25, 2025
129. Think Less, Feel More: presence and submitting to the undulations of life
Mar 31, 2025
128. Never been in a serious romantic relationship? Listen to this
Mar 24, 2025
127. Happy birthday to me! Reflections on emotionality and life being an algorithm
Mar 17, 2025
126. Making friends, challenging biases, keeping humble
Mar 10, 2025
125. astrological transits, fate vs. free will, surviving Trumpiana
Mar 03, 2025
124. ’Babygirl’ gets real about desire, power and gender dynamics
Feb 24, 2025
121. The Ultimatum Season 3 Ep7-10: Abstinence, betrayal and redemption arcs
Feb 10, 2025
120. Trump, Apartheid Clyde and personal power
Feb 03, 2025
119. 2025 ins and outs: no more windmilling in comment sections!!!
Jan 27, 2025
118. The Ultimatum Season 3: Ep4-6 - lies, sex and anger issues
Jan 20, 2025
117. Becoming a spiritual scientist(4): presenting 2024's findings
Jan 06, 2025
116. 2024 lessons in relationships: people pleasing, boundaries, reciprocation ft. Nyak
Dec 30, 2024
115. Pop culture round-up: "Violence isn’t the answer" - since when?! Luigi Mangione, UHC, social murder
Dec 27, 2024
114. Meeting your Higher Self: Breathwork, Channeling and Dream Interpretation
Dec 23, 2024
112. The Ultimatum Season 3: Ep1-3 - hate, hall passes and fetishization
Dec 16, 2024
111. People Pleasers to the front! A 101 on Boundaries
Dec 09, 2024
110: Boundaries! Cultivating a relationship with self, and culling toxicity
Dec 03, 2024
No Episode Today (postponed to next week)
Oct 28, 2024
109. Love is Blind DC Ep10-11: Tantrums, Lies and Demands for Sex
Oct 21, 2024
108. Love is Blind DC Ep6-9: Hidden children, Cheating & Condom-gate
Oct 14, 2024
107. Love is Blind DC Ep1-5: Trauma dumping, manipulation and the one drop rule
Oct 07, 2024
Back for October!
Sep 30, 2024
Hiatus: See you in 2025!
Sep 06, 2024
106. Love is Blind UK Ep10-11 + reunion: ambition, cultural clashes and white woman tears
Sep 02, 2024
105. Love is Blind UK Ep7-9: bullies, immigrant mums and astrology
Aug 26, 2024
104. Love is Blind UK Ep1-6: Intuition, Manipulation, and Beauty Standards
Aug 19, 2024
103. Becoming a Spiritual Scientist (3): Presenting my findings
Aug 12, 2024
102. When autism & Spirituality intersect ft. Brown Intuitive
Aug 05, 2024
100. Becoming A Spiritual Scientist (1): Is Manifestation Real?
Jul 22, 2024
99. How to recover from ennui
Jul 15, 2024
98. A Spiritual guide to sustainable activism
Jul 08, 2024
97. The Process of Building Self-Esteem
Jul 01, 2024
96. Hope, Burnout and Depression
Jun 20, 2024
95. "The Ultimatum South Africa" Ep 6-9 and Reunion
Jun 13, 2024
93. Yoh! The "Ultimatum South Africa" Review (Ep1-5)
May 31, 2024
91. Amorality, Suffering and Manifestation (Part 1) ft. Jaliessa Sipress
May 24, 2024
90. People Pleasing Causes More Conflict than it Resolves
May 17, 2024
81. Leave Amanda Seales alone! Black Autistic Women are Targets
Apr 04, 2024
80. The will to live amidst societal collapse
Apr 04, 2024
79. Hey Girls and Gays, We're Back! (and mostly on Patreon)
Apr 04, 2024
78. 2020 in review: intuition, self development and manifestation
Dec 23, 2020
77. Belief Systems, Personal Power and Radical Pleasure in the face of white supremacy
Jun 01, 2020
76. Should our friendships inspire us? ft. Bobos Void
May 25, 2020
75. Holding Space: Is wanting to fix other people's issues compassionate or selfish?
May 18, 2020
74. Bodies under quarantine: boundaries, beauty and elusive weight loss
May 11, 2020
73. Ironic but true: your dreams are holding you back
May 04, 2020
72. Would you join a cult?
Apr 27, 2020
71. Wait, what day is it? shifting efforts in relationships under lockdown
Apr 20, 2020
70. Destructive Hookup Styles, Botched Boundaries & Vulnerability Sweats
Apr 13, 2020
69. Is Authenticity Overrated? Leaning into Perception and Determining your Value Add
Apr 06, 2020
68. Are you too old to be special?
Mar 30, 2020
67. The Future of Personal Finances, Career & Trigger Warnings under COVID-19
Mar 23, 2020
66. Love In A Time of Corona virus - conspiracy theories, social isolation and unrequited love
Mar 16, 2020
65. Corona virus frenzy, financial freedom and workplace scams
Mar 09, 2020
64. Love is Blind until its not: on preference, prejudice and fantasy
Mar 04, 2020
63. Is Gwyneth Paltrow trying to Kill You?
Feb 24, 2020
62. Why be ambitious when the world is ending?
Feb 17, 2020
61. Mum, Dad - I've outgrown you: hard conversations, constructive conflict and power dynamics
Feb 10, 2020
59. Celebrating 1 Year of ISWIS with a hectic Q&A
Jan 27, 2020
58. Dear White People - on navigating racial dynamics with POC
Jan 20, 2020
57. How To Communicate Better in 2020
Jan 13, 2020
56. Can we hold our Depressed friends accountable?
Jan 05, 2020
55. Are some Friendships too much work? Emotional labour, boundaries and pity friendships
Dec 23, 2019
54. Family Dynamics: To Fight or Not to Fight? That is the Question
Dec 17, 2019
53. Should Sex feel like this? Vaginismus and Gym Orgasms
Dec 10, 2019
52. Cannibalism, anyone? Survival, Morality and Body Autonomy
Dec 02, 2019
51. Exercise, clean eating trends and the new face of diet culture
Nov 25, 2019
50. Is the Pursuit of Happiness the greatest scam ever?
Nov 18, 2019
49. Noisy headspace, Psychics and Accent Wars
Nov 11, 2019
48. Clout as Currency ft. Bobo & Flex / Flex Mami
Nov 04, 2019
47. Friendship Dilemmas: Breakups, Money and Attraction
Oct 28, 2019
46. Working is the Ghetto, Sexual Fantasies, are you Lucky or Privileged?
Oct 21, 2019
45. The Cost of Sugar: the rise of blesser culture and its unseen labour
Oct 14, 2019
44. Growing Pains: managing life transitions and relinquishing control
Oct 07, 2019
43. I'm Mediocre, Now What? On Excellence, Realism and the Law Of Attraction
Sep 30, 2019
42. Are you Ugly? Neutrality, Positivity and Body Image Propaganda
Sep 23, 2019
41. Serial Dating, Self Worth and Saying NO to the Romance Agenda
Sep 16, 2019
40. Trigger Warnings and Bums on Mars
Sep 09, 2019
39. Toxic Self-Preservation: you're isolating yourself and it shows!
Sep 05, 2019
38. Dating while Bitter/Better - desire, energy and resistance (Part 2)
Aug 26, 2019
37. Dating while Bitter/Better - Are Woke Men Born or Built? (Part 1)
Aug 19, 2019
36. Dunking on Self Dev: the duality of therapy, diagnoses and western medicine
Aug 12, 2019
35. Clocking out: Creating meaning and value beyond Career
Aug 05, 2019
34. Mid Year Musings - growth, glow ups and what we're leaving behind
Jul 29, 2019
33. The Friendship Audit - the results of facilitating theoretical conflict
Jul 22, 2019
32. The Friendship Grind Part 2: hard decisions, priorities and performativity
Jul 15, 2019
31. The Friendship Grind Part 1: Transitions, Loyalty, and Complacency
Jul 08, 2019
30. Do You Boo: Internet Activism, Tangible impact and Retweet Complacency
Jul 01, 2019
29. Envy? I don't Know Her! Comparison and the in\ability to Fulfil our Dreams (Part 2)
Jun 24, 2019
28. Envy and Comparison: I Met My Tethered and She's THRIVING! (Part 1)
Jun 17, 2019
27. Is your sexual pleasure worth prioritising?
Jun 10, 2019
26. Throw her in the trash? On bending vs. breaking friendships
Jun 03, 2019
25. "Forever After" (and other scams) ft. Retha
May 27, 2019
24. Cute or Concerning? Social Media Stalking and Transparency
May 20, 2019
23. Social Media flexing and Tapdancing for the D - ft Abolade
May 13, 2019
22. Suicide, Life And Death Q&A ft. Ushbah (Part 2)
May 06, 2019
21. Would You Date Yourself? ft. Nunu & Abolade
Apr 29, 2019
20. Polyamory vs. Romantic Longevity - ft. Nunu
Apr 22, 2019
19. Suicide, Life and Death ft. Ushbah (Part 1)
Apr 15, 2019
18: The Beauty Myth: Shifting beauty trends in women
Apr 08, 2019
17. Fast Money & Motivation: is wealth karmic?
Apr 01, 2019
16. Dating in Denial: looking for love in all the wrong places
Mar 25, 2019
15. Ageing Anxiety: On Comparison, Purpose And TeamNoSleep - ft Retha
Mar 17, 2019
14. The Irony Of Conflict Avoidance
Mar 12, 2019
13. Parents and the Pursuit of Respect - ft. Lethabo
Mar 04, 2019
12. Sexcetera:(Life Before)Celibacy Ft. Mica
Feb 25, 2019
11. #FupaMustFall: on the collective fear of Fatness
Feb 18, 2019
10. Seasons of friendship: lean in or let go?
Feb 11, 2019
9. Gender Wars: Men Are from Mars, Period! - Ft. Boris
Feb 04, 2019
8. Should We Respect Boundaries We Don't Agree with?
Jan 28, 2019
7. Dating while Fat, Black And Picky ft. Retha
Jan 21, 2019
6. Who wins in Cancel Culture? Ft. Tloukie
Jan 14, 2019
5. 2018 Year Review: A Scam or A Success?
Jan 07, 2019
4. Why did you ghost me?! A postmortem discussion with my Ex
Dec 19, 2018
3. Is Romance Realistic? Ft. Bobos Void
Dec 19, 2018
2. Surprise! YOU are the Toxic friend
Dec 18, 2018
1. Fight Me: does conflict make or break friendships?
Dec 10, 2018