Too Tired to be Crazy

By Violet Benson

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How do you get over someone you never dated and when did dating become so 50 shades of complicated?! I’m getting anxiety just thinking about it. If he likes my picture is he flirting? Why is he ghosting me but watching my stories? Whats the meaning of life? And why can’t I sleep?! I don’t know about you guys, but I’d listen to me talk each week about dating and LA and life and whatever else comes to mind. So here we are and welcome to Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ ). Don’t forget to subscribe!!

Episode Date
The Hardest Part About Dating With Amy and Jack

We start the episode with coming out stories before diving right into everything you need to know about being a Scorpio or a cancer and dating one. from the good, to the loving to the toxic.

We then get into if it's necessary to always date a few people at the same time, how to not get affected with being ghosted, our love for toxic people, and the hardest part about dating.

We continue with why we push people away, love at first sight, why you shouldn't change yourself for someone, myths about gays and lesbians, vageens insecurities, and open relationships in the gay community.

We end the podcast with sex sex sex!!! spitting, orgies, toys, my ex asking me to send him his own d*ck pic, letting someone watch, Amy's type, and Jack's butthole but not before I talk about why love is so beautiful and cry about it.... as usual.

Check out Amy Ordman's and Jack Doge's podcast @DatingStraight on every Tuesday!!! and follow them on their social media platforms @JackDodge & @AmyOrdman

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Oct 11, 2019
I Was Born With A Birth Defect

I finally open up about being born with a birth defect, how I fixed it and years of hating myself.

This episode goes more in depth to teach us that no matter how much you'll fix what you don't like about yourself on the outside, if you don't love who you are on the inside, you will never find true happiness.

Time Stamps:

4:46 - Birth defect explained

23:18 - Becoming Daddy Issues and life after fixing my birth defect

33:49 - Learning that beauty is on the inside

41:39 - F*ck the current beauty standards

48:23 - Small daily tricks to learn how to love yourself

Rate and subscribe now! New episode every Thursday!!! Follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy! and check out my youtube page:

Oct 07, 2019
You Make Me Cum With Lena The Plug

She's just this ferocious slut that masturbates all the time or so you think.... She's actually so much more.

Lena The Plug joins me as we discuss how she got into porn, being both a youtuber and a pornstar, Trisha Paytas, making a sex tape, f*cking her boyfriend on camera, origination of the name Lena The Plug, crazy fan stories, her childhood and growing up in a strict Armenian household.

We the move into how she lost her virginity, the first time she watched porn, loving her body, the porn industry, her sexuality, what she looks for in a girl, and the difference between Only Fans, Patreon, Live cam sites, and Premium Snapchat, and which one she’s on.

We end the podcast with sex, sex, sex and more sex from loving anal, toys, size really does matter, what makes her cum, eating a girl out, eating ass, threesomes, queefing, common myths about pornstars, having a roast beef p*ssy and even getting gonorrhea.

Follow Lena Nersesian at @LenaThePlug on Instagram and youtube.

Follow my podcast @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram and check out my youtube channel: don’t forget to like and subscribe!!!

Sep 26, 2019
Daddy Issues With Kristen Mcatee

Kristen and I discuss what it’s like coming from a humble upbringing and how it shaped us to be the women we are today.

We also discuss Kristen’s childhood, having divorced parents and not having her biological father in her life, moving to LA, becoming a YouTuber, her relationship with youtuber Scotty Sire, being part of the vlog squad, and being a chef.

 Follow Kristen at @KristenMcatee on Instagram and youtube.

Follow my podcast @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram and check out my youtube chanel: don’t forget to like and subscribe!!!

Sep 20, 2019
I Don't Wanna Be Sad Anymore

In honor of September’s #SuicidePreventionMonth today’s episode covers depression because doesn’t it sometimes just feel like everyone’s depressed??? It’s because everyone probably is. 

On today’s episode I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling with clinical depression 3 years ago and how I almost didn’t think I’d survive it. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinical depression. 

Please know that you are not alone, that you are loved, I’m so proud of you for getting out of bed today, and that the pain you are feeling won’t last forever. You will smile again one day, I promise.

If you or anyone you know is battling with depression or having suicidal thoughts, please speak up. Please reach out. 

Self Harm Hotline: 1-800-366-8288

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration (SAMHSA) Helpline: 1-800-662-4357

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project Lifeline: 1-866-488-7386

National Hopeline Network: 1-800-442-4673

LGBT National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564

The Friendship Line: 1-800-971-0016

Los Angeles County Suicide Prevention Center - 1-877-727-4747

Sep 05, 2019
What’s Your Love Language? with Nazanin Mandi

On this episode with Nazanin, we discuss growing up mixed, being a child of divorce and how it affects your outlook on love, zodiac signs, her tattoos, and her most traumatic memory at 8 that she never told anyone before. 

We then dive into her definition of happiness and how its changed over the years, how she learned to love herself, what she does to stay so positive, her ongoing battle with body image, abusing diet pills, and how she got back into a healthy mindset. 

We end the podcast discussing her famous relationship with singer/songwriter Miguel, how they met, how they made it to 14 years, what keeps the spark alive, how breaking up made them stronger, surviving long-distance, the importance of couple’s therapy, reasons why she never gets jealous, love non-negotiable, what constitutes a healthy relationship, their love language, cheating, interracial dating, kids, and we even answer some questions from the listeners. 

Follow Nazanin at @NazaninMandi on Instagram & check out her podcast, The Ladies Like Us

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Aug 29, 2019
I Can't Be Gay! With shannon beveridge
On this episode I have Shannon come on and discuss everything LGBT from coming out, accepting herself, dating boys, when she realized she was gay, dealing with hate, We also confront myths and misconceptions about lesbians, we discuss sex from scissoring to anal to toys, battling depression, and being an ally for the LGBT communityFollow Shannon at @NowThisIsLiving on Instagram, Youtube and TwitterFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Watch this episode on my youtube channel at more about your ad choices. Visit more about your ad choices. Visit
Aug 22, 2019
Why You’ve Been Ghosted

I start the episode with setting the record straight about my hangout with Tyler C from The Bachelorette, I then give advice on winning a job interview, why people who hurt you pretend like you’re the bad person, and why it’s easier to put up a front with people, 

We then get into GHOSTING!! I ask 50,000 people their definition of ghosting, if they ever ghosted, been ghosted, and why they've ghosted. 

I give advice on what to do when you’ve been ghosted, what it feels like, why you didn’t see it coming, why it hurts so much, steps to move on, and the type of person that ghosting affects the most.

I end the podcast with some research, a discussion about the effects of loneliness, getting rejected, ruminating, having low self esteem, and the importance of building emotional resilience for a better quality of life.

Rate and subscribe now! New episode every Thursday!!! And don’t forget to follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy! 

Thank you for listening! 

Aug 16, 2019
Get In Bed With Hasan Piker
On this episode I have woke 6'4 bae, Hasan Piker open up on how he lost 80 pounds, found courage to talk to girls, overcame his insecurities, found love, and dated a porn star.We then discuss Leo traits, what men want, whether guys care about a girl’s labia, sex, eating ass, open relationships, f*ck buddies, and toys, We end the podcast with fear of rejection, being vulnerable, coming off overbearing, and the struggle to find love with you don’t love yourself. Follow Hasan at @HasanDPiker on Instagram & HasanAbi on TwitchFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Aug 09, 2019
Meet Maluma’s Girlfriend With Natalia Barulich
Natalia breaks her silence and discusses what it’s like dating one of the hottest, biggest, and most wanted Latin artists in the world aka MALUMA! On this episode, we start with the bizarre way we met, seeing each other naked, how Natalia met Maluma, the pressure of being in the public eye, from the sex, private jets, and vacations to the tabloids, hate, and the moments she was ready to walk away. Natalia then discusses setting boundaries in order to maintain a successful relationship, doing long distance, thoughts on marriage, the importance of communication and having your own career and life, and how she keeps the romance alive with her man.We end the podcast with Natalia sharing some crazy stories, she then confronts cheating rumors, spills the tea on dealing with thirsty ho*s, and gives some amazing dating advice on knowing your worth and finding your person. Follow Natalia at @Natalie & @NatalieAndEsther on Instagram and @NataliaAndEsther on YoutubeFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Also check out this episode on my youtube channel at more about your ad choices. Visit
Aug 01, 2019
Surviving a public breakup with Lauren Riihimaki
On this episode with Lauren Riihmaki aka LaurDIY aka everyone's DIY-obsessed bestie, we cover how she survived a public breakup and was able to heal and find love after a heartbreak.The most logical girl I’ve ever met teaches me how to move on with grace and allows me to get down and dirty with personal question about her old relationship from parting ways, to regrets, to what she learned, to accepting it was over, to being a youtube couple and how she’d never do it again, and much more.We also touch on the importance of non-negotiables when it comes to dating, your friends meeting your new man is a requirement, what she looks for in a new partner, dealing with conflict, and how she found her perfect man.We end the episode with advice to her younger self, a day in the life of a youtuber, dealing with failure, and always staying positive. Follow Lauren at @LaurDIY on Instagram, Youtube, Twitter and Tiktok Follow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Watch this episode on my youtube channel at more about your ad choices. Visit
Jul 25, 2019
Can A Cheater Change?


I start this episode with some ass play, tips for a successful anal, my daddy issues and even share a poem I wrote my dad.

I get into what love means to me, signs he’s cheating on you sis, what's considered cheating, reasons he’s cheating, what it feels like to get cheated on, why it’s so hard to move on, and reasons why we stay.

I end the episode with reasons why he’s so mean to you after he’s the one that cheated, why cheaters keep in touch, the damaging emotional effect it has on future relationships, tips to fixing a broken heart and moving on.

And don’t forget kween, if he cheats on you, then he doesn’t deserve you. You are more than enough!!

Rate and subscribe now! New episode every Thursday!!!Follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy!

Jul 19, 2019
Life's Too Short for Bad Sex with Emily Morse
Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse, teaches you how to cum over and over again so have a seat because you’re gonna wanna listen to this.On this episode we discuss how to, get a guy to go down on you, have multiple orgasms, find your G spot, swallow, spice up your sex life and the #1 ORAL METHOD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR GIRL CUM EVERY TIME.We continue with how size doesn’t matter, the importance of lube, loving your sexy body in the bedroom, communicating your desires, best toys to use in bed, and the best positions to help you cum.We end the episode with, deep throating, bad sex experiences, squirting, unrealistic porn standards, tips to not cum too fast, why I love uncircumcised penises, eating ass, anal, and our unhealthy pattern to the men we attract. For more sex tips follow Emily at @Sexwithemily on Instagram and her podcast on weekdays.Follow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Watch this episode on my youtube channel at more about your ad choices. Visit
Jul 11, 2019
I’m 30 But My Vagina’s 17 with Lauren Elizabeth
On this episode with Lauren Elizabeth, we discuss, the benefits of therapy, battling with anxiety/depression and how we cope with it, being a cancer, losing a loved one, and our pierced nipples.We also dive into, me looking for someone to put a baby in me, getting out of a tiny d*ck appointment, keeping your ex a secret, and getting your crush to follow you back on IG.We then end the podcast with relationship advice from fighting with your partner to better understanding each other, different languages of love, healthy space vs. too much space,  flirting while in a relationship: Do’s/Dont’s, proper trick to “grab and go” at the club, and thoughts on your man having female friends, Follow Lauren at @LaurenElizabeth on Instagram and Youtube and check out her clothing line XLE Label at Follow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! Watch this episode on my youtube channel at more about your ad choices. Visit
Jul 04, 2019
Signs of a Toxic Friendship
I start the episode with a Q&A on why I hate vegans, saving turtles, eating ass, trick to stop queefing, why I don’t wear fake eyelashes, and how to win an argument with your man.I then get into - signs you’re in a toxic friendship, why we stay, steps to end a toxic friendship, signs YOU are the toxic friend, two types of toxic people, and steps to changing if you are toxic. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe and follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy! New Episode every Thursday!! and catch the longer video version on youtube!! Thank you for listening!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jun 27, 2019
Is Your Vagina Normal? with Dr. Nazarian
Today’s episode is all about BIG P*SSY LIPS ENERGY!! Including my own since I share 22 pics of my taco with Dr. Nazarian to get her professional opinion on my beef curtains. On this episode, Sheila Nazarian joins me, an award-winning plastic surgeon and one of the top vaginal/ labiaplasty surgeons in Los Angeles, to discuss EVERYTHING VAGINA. We cover every myth and all of your questions; you’d be surprised by some of the answers.We get down and dirty on what is considered a "normal vagina", “outtie” vs “innie”, why one labia side hangs lower than the other, bad odor down there, how shaving can cause discoloring, vageen changes after pregnancy/hormonal changes, tucking in your labia, porn star vag, getting wet, discharge, how a larger labia’s provides higher sexual sensation and so much more!!!Dr. Nazarian also shares some plastic surgery horror stories, different non-invasive/invasive procedures you should consider, and SPOILER ALERT she says I have a barbie vagina so TIME TO WIFE ME UP BOYS!!!!Follow Dr. Sheila Nazarian at @DrSheilaNazarian on Instagram and check out her site https://nazarianplasticsurgery.comFollow me at @VioletBenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!!! New episode every Thursday!! Pls rate and review!!!Full video is uploaded to youtube every Friday on more about your ad choices. Visit
Jun 20, 2019
Bad Timing Or Wrong Person?
It’s not bad timing, It’s just the wrong person - What you’re not seeing.On this episode, I discuss what your friends are not telling you, signs you’re being played, how "bad timing" is just a myth, and how to make a long distance relationship work.I also reveal something EMBARRASSING that I do when I like someone that I've never told anyone before, losing my virginity, my trick to getting over someone, and making the first move.I end the episode with signs you’re currently in a toxic relationship/friendship, signs that you may be the toxic friend - (this may surprise you), and steps on healing, changing and growing as a person.Don’t forget to rate and subscribe and follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy! New Episode every Thursday!! and catch the longer video version on youtube!! Thank you for listening!!! <3Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jun 13, 2019
Your BF Has A Baby D*ck with Sophia Miacova
On this episode with Sophia ‘Miacova’ Esperanza, we discuss, being vegan & an environmentalist, vaginas, reasons why we stay in a controlling toxic relationship and how to get out, toxic friends and when it’s time to let go, and even our own friendship breakup - awkward...We also dive into the different types of vaginas there are and which one we each have, your BF’s baby d*ck, being a crazy ex, having a positive outlook on your breakup, how social media is making us insecure and how to accept our bodies. We then end the podcast with tips on how to love yourself, even on a bad day. Follow Sophia at @SophiaEsperanza on Instagram and YoutubeFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! New episode every Thursday!*This episode has been edited.* To view the FULL episode, head to: new video every Friday!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Jun 06, 2019
Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup
On this episode we discuss friendship breakup and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of mine that no one knows about. We then dive into how to spot a ride or die BFF, why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of mine. Tune in next week for pt.2 where we’ll cover toxic friendships!! New episode every Thursday. Pls rate & subscribe and don’t forget to follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazyLearn more about your ad choices. Visit
May 30, 2019
We Never Had Sex with Logan Paul
On this episode with Logan Paul, we discuss that time I tried to bang him, Logan’s type, Japan, depression, James Charles, cancel culture, and my embarrassing drunk texts. We then get into a more serious discussion like the first time Logan touched a wiener, our most embarrassing sex stories, and what everyone’s been dying to know…  who’s d*ck is bigger - LOGAN or JAKE?!?! Which team are YOU on!?! Length or girth?We end the podcast with final thoughts on sending nudes, f*cking on the first date, going through your partner’s phone and what it means when he watches your IG story but doesn’t call (spoiler alert: It don’t mean sh*t).Follow Logan at @loganpaul and check out his podcast, Impulsive!Follow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don’t forget to subscribe!! New episode every Thursday!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
May 23, 2019
How to Get Over Someone You Never Actually Dated
On this episode I give you 9 steps to get over that fuckboy that’s ruining your life and answer some of your questions like, 5 things you don’t know about me, being rejected, and how being 'Daddyissues' has actually affected my love life in a negative way. GURL, If we're not best friends by the end of this episode and you don’t feel empowered and deserving of love then bishhh DM ME because, you amazing, you are loved, and you are going to be OKAY. I’m here to remind you of that.Below are 9 steps to get over someone, no matter how many times his pipi was inside your vageen:1. Cut communication2. Cry, like a lot3. Get a hobby4. Don’t react to anything5. Get your ass out of the house6. Find yourself a rebound7. Forgive your ex8. Trust that time heals9. Forgive yourself and LOVE YOURSELFIf you need dating advice or have questions, please dm me at @violetbenson for a chance to be featured on my podcast. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe!!! New episode every Thursday! Thank you for listening and see you next week! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
May 16, 2019
You were inside of me. It’s done. We're together. With Nick Viall
On this episode with Nick Viall, we re-live Nick’s bachelor season and discuss the demise of his and Vanessa’s relationship. We also cover, what Nick looks for in a partner, being a Libra, our definition of love, finding love, soulmates, the rules of sleeping with me, dating in 2019, and going through a heartbreak.Lastly, consider taking a shot every time I break into a nervous laugh or unsuccessfully hit on Nick while he brushes it off, and pretends it’s not happening. REHEEEEEJECTED! Follow Nick at @NickViall and check out his podcast Viall Files every Wednesday. Follow me at @VioletBenson and don’t forget to rate and subscribe to my podcast! New episode every Thursday! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
May 10, 2019
Single and Rejected: Horror Stories with Alisha Marie and Remi Cruz
On this episode, Remi Ashten and Alisha Marie join me to discuss being single, feeling rejected, getting cheated on, how to win a breakup even if you never actually dated, the importance of friendships, and how to stop looking for love in all the wrong places! We end this episode on a hilarious note where I share fan’s first date horror stories like maybe don’t leave a Ziplock bag with your poop in someone kitchen??? Enjoy because it’s gonna be a sh*t show! Pun intended. Follow Alisha at @Alisha, follow Remi Ashten at @missremiashten and check out their podcast @prettybasicLastly, follow me at @violetbenson and don’t forget to rate and subscribe to this podcast!! New episode every Thursday. ️Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
May 02, 2019
Are you dating a F*ckboy?
Welcome to the first episode of Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ )!!Today we’re talking about my insane dating life and even crazier mind. So grab a bottle of wine and some tissues because you’re about to get on an emotional rollercoaster called “He’s wasting your time 2019”. On this episode, we discuss our own f*ckboy experience, answer your questions, and give advice on how to end a toxic cycle and love yourself.Don’t forget to subscribe and tell a friend!!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
Apr 18, 2019