It’s Not About the Sex

By Westside Therapist

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It’s Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken heartedness. Each podcast he interviews other therapists who work with clients dealing with addictive behaviors around troubled relationships.

Episode Date
Guided Meditation: Compassion for Self and Others
Sep 13, 2026
Guided Meditation: Mindful Self-Compassion
Feb 12, 2026
Guided Meditation: Encountering Your Grief
Feb 12, 2026
Guided Meditation on Grief
May 20, 2025
Gratitude & Goodbye - Susskind & Merlino
May 02, 2025
Revitalizing Sexual Health - Susskind & Merlino
Apr 18, 2025
Coaching & Clarity: The Power of Clear Pathways - Sue Merlino, CADC
Apr 04, 2025
Receiving Love - Susskind & Merlino
Mar 21, 2025
The Necessity of Shame - Stefanie Klein, LCSW
Feb 28, 2025
Restoring Purpose - Susskind and Merlino
Feb 21, 2025
Redefining Recovery Through Connection and Purpose - Tim Harrington
Feb 07, 2025
Cultivating Contentment - Susskind & Merlino
Jan 24, 2025
A Gestalt Healing Perspective - Rafael Cortina, MFT
Jan 10, 2025
Feeling the Feelings - Susskind & Merlino
Nov 29, 2024
Sexual Identity Development - Katie Griffin, CGP
Nov 15, 2024
Regulating the Nervous System - Susskind & Merlino
Nov 01, 2024
Problematic Sexualized Drug Use - Dr. David Fawcett
Oct 18, 2024
Moving Beyond Narcissism - Susskind & Merlino
Oct 04, 2024
From Vocal Coach to Recovery Coach - Arnold McCuller
Sep 20, 2024
Psychodrama 101: It’s All About the Warm Up - Jean Campbell
Jul 19, 2024
Turning Down the Volume on Shame - Susskind & Merlino
Jun 21, 2024
Attachment Assessment DIY - Joni Lavick, LMFT
Jun 07, 2024
Living with Loss - Susskind & Merlino
May 24, 2024
A Grief Memoir - Jen Davis, MA, CLC
May 10, 2024
Emotional Resilience - Susskind & Merlino
Apr 26, 2024
Sexual Recovery: From a Nightmare to a Love Story - Steven Wolt
Apr 12, 2024
Virtual Book Launch Celebration - Susskind and Merlino
Mar 15, 2024
Lovingkindness Meditation - Susskind
Feb 16, 2024
The Over-Controlled Temperament - Dr. Tom Murray
Feb 02, 2024
Visioning 2024 - Susskind
Jan 19, 2024
Consensual Non-Monogamy - Mellissa McCracken, CADC, CSAT-C
Jan 05, 2024
Holiday Tips - Susskind & Merlino
Dec 22, 2023
Porn Literacy - Diane Gleim, LMFT
Dec 08, 2023
Guided Breathing Meditation - Susskind
Nov 24, 2023
Understanding Motivation for Change - Michael Vigorito, LMFT, CGP, CST-S
Nov 10, 2023
Navigating Depression - Susskind & Merlino
Oct 27, 2023
Becoming an Executive Coach - Klifton Fehr, LMHC
Oct 13, 2023
Five Years Later - Susskind & Merlino
Sep 29, 2023
Happy, Silly, Wise - Claudia Lewis, LMFT
Sep 15, 2023
Guided Meditation for Working with Difficulties - Susskind
Jun 23, 2023
Moving from Suffering to Savoring with Carlos Canales, Psy.D.
Jun 09, 2023
Window of Resilience - Susskind & Merlino
May 26, 2023
The Role of Community in Recovery - Nate Larkin, M.Div
May 12, 2023
Receiving Love - Susskind and Merlino
Apr 28, 2023
Core Roots & Sustainable Healing - Mariya Javed-Payne, LCSW
Apr 14, 2023
The Mystery of Men’s Group - Susskind & Merlino
Mar 17, 2023
Practical Psychotherapist - Joni Lavick, LMFT
Mar 03, 2023
Mission: Joy-Finding Happiness in Troubled Times - Susskind & Merlino
Feb 17, 2023
Vision Exercise - Susskind
Feb 03, 2023
Visioning - Susskind & Merlino
Jan 20, 2023
Beyond Anti-Depressants: TMS as an Alternative - Dr. Martha Koo
Jan 06, 2023
Got Consultation? - Susskind & Merlino
Dec 16, 2022
Reigniting Intimate Connection - Linda Landon, PCC
Dec 02, 2022
The MindTravel Experience - Susskind & Merlino
Nov 18, 2022
Sexual Integrity - Dr. Steven Davidson
Nov 04, 2022
Positive Psychology and Coaching - Susskind & Merlino
Oct 21, 2022
Self-Compassion Break - Susskind
Sep 23, 2022
Interview with Sue Merlino
Sep 09, 2022
Gut Health and Addiction - Edison DeMello, MD
Jul 22, 2022
Brainspotting - Susskind & Merlino
Jul 08, 2022
Psilocybin? Ketamine? MDMA?: Cutting-Edge Therapeutic Approaches - Dr. Eva Altobelli
Jun 24, 2022
The ABC’s of Dual Diagnosis - Susskind & Merlino
Jun 10, 2022
Cutting-Edge Treatment for Chronic Pain - Dr. Mel Pohl
May 27, 2022
A Day at the Beach - Guided Imagery
May 13, 2022
Demystifying Group Therapy - Susskind and Merlino
Apr 29, 2022
Unresolved Trauma and Sexualized Drug Use - Mellissa McCracken, CADC-II
Apr 15, 2022
Chinese Medicine and Trauma - Dr. Lucy Postolov DACM, L.Ac.
Apr 01, 2022
A Peaceful Place Guided Meditation - Susskind
Mar 18, 2022
Assessing Problematic Sexual Behavior - Bill Herring, LCSW, CSAT
Mar 04, 2022
Current Research Behind Compulsive Sexual Behavior - Dr. Shane Kraus
Feb 18, 2022
Examining the Five Love Languages
Feb 04, 2022
Gratitude Guided Imagery
Jan 21, 2022
The Eating Disorder Trap - Robyn Goldberg, RDN
Jan 07, 2022
Lonely for the Holidays - Susskind and Merlino
Dec 17, 2021
Guest Podcast: Healing Early Trauma Through Somatic Experiencing and Brainspotting with Andrew Susskind
Dec 03, 2021
Intimacy Avoidance - Susskind and Merlino
Nov 19, 2021
Porn Brain Rewire - Dr. Trish Leigh and Andrew Susskind
Nov 05, 2021
The Curious Voyage - Cynthia Schwartzberg, LCSW
Oct 22, 2021
The Opposite of Addiction - Susskind and Merlino
Oct 08, 2021
Sex, Money and Power - Debra Kaplan, MBA, CMAT, CSAT-S
Sep 24, 2021
Addict America: The Lost Connection - Dr. Carol Clark
Aug 13, 2021
Sex Addiction No More - Susskind and Merlino
Jul 30, 2021
Polyvagal Theory & Internal Family Systems - Terra Holbrook, LCSW, CADC, CSAT
Jul 16, 2021
Fantasy as a Survival Strategy - Susskind & Merlino
Jul 02, 2021
30 years in Review: 1991-2021 - Susskind and Merlino
Jun 18, 2021
Reimagining Midlife - Buck Dodson
Jun 04, 2021
Grounding Exercise
May 21, 2021
Out of Control Sexual Behavior - Douglas Braun-Harvey MFT, CGP
May 07, 2021
Taming the Inner Critic - Susskind and Merlino
Apr 09, 2021
Straight Men Who Have Sex with Men - Dr. Joe Kort, Ph.D
Mar 26, 2021
Working with Hurt - Susskind and Merlino
Mar 12, 2021
Trauma and Addiction Recovery - Tom Pecca, MA, LMHC, CSAT, CTT
Feb 19, 2021
The Resilience of Recovery - Susskind and Merlino
Feb 05, 2021
Brainspotting and Addictions - Dr. Roby Abeles, PsyD
Jan 22, 2021
Catch Your Breath (A 4-minute exercise) - Susskind
Jan 08, 2021
DBT and Recovery - Elle Michel, LMFT
Dec 11, 2020
Home for the Holidays - Susskind and Merlino
Nov 27, 2020
Sexual Boundaries for Professionals - Dr. Tracy Zemansky, Ph.D, CSAT-S
Nov 13, 2020
Obsession and Love Addiction Revisited - Susskind and Merlino
Oct 30, 2020
Inner Child Recovery Process - Eddie Capparucci, LPC
Oct 16, 2020