The Secret Lives of Black Women

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 Aug 15, 2019


 Aug 3, 2019

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Join close friends Charla Lauriston and Lauren Domino on their hunt for the ‘secrets’ that have helped black women flourish through the bullsh*t. They connect with guests over shared experiences by wading through everything from sex and self-care to rage and anxiety. Each conversation centers on creating a space for joy with some newfound besties while asking: how do the black women we admire stay incredibly phenomenal?


Episode Date
12. Being A Bawse with Kerry Coddett
00:47:00

In this season 1 finale, Charla and Lauren reminisce on the journey to making this show and how in some ways, it’s one step on the road to being their own bosses. Actor, Comedian and writer Kerry Coddett shares her own complicated and hilarious journey in entrepreneurship. Throughout the episode, Kerry talks about how advocating and believing in yourself is applicable to any field. 


We’ll be back with Season 2 after a brief break. In the meantime, feel free to keep up with us on our socials below- thanks for supporting our show! 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 


You can check out Charla’s comedy album now at https://linktr.ee/charlalauriston

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Kerry Coddett @OverFab on Twitter and Instagram 


This episode is sponsored by Acuity (www.acuityscheduling.com/secretlives), Bombas (www.bombas.com/SECRETLIVES), and Audible (www.audible.com/secretlives or text SECRETLIVES to 500-500).

Oct 10, 2019
11. Staying in Process with Morgan Jerkins
00:42:35

When Charla and Lauren decided to do a podcast, they wanted it to be a space where they didn’t have to apologize for who they were. That’s why when they had a live event to kick off the show, Morgan Jerkins felt like a perfect guest. In this episode, Morgan discusses how her writing is an extension of her truest experiences and what it took for her to truly be secure in who she was in all facets of her life. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 


You can check out Charla’s comedy album now at https://linktr.ee/charlalauriston

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Morgan Jerkins @MorganJerkins on Twitter and @_MorganJerkins on Instagram 



This episode is sponsored by Blume (text SECRET to 79-79-79) and Dipsea (www.dipseastories.com/secretlives).

Oct 03, 2019
10. Challenging the Status Quo with Jamilah Lemieux
00:39:41

Charla and Lauren have used Twitter to follow people they admire while learning information that they might not have found elsewhere. That’s why watching our guest Jamilah Lemieux challenge the status quo has been a thrilling longtime activity. In this conversation Charla and Lauren find out exactly how she has been able to fight the trolls while also maintaining a sense of self. They also get into topics like abortion, motherhood and what it really means to get older. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 


You can Pre-Order Charla’s comedy album at https://linktr.ee/charlalauriston

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Jamilah Lemieux @JamilahLemieux on Twitter and Instagram 


This episode is sponsored by Lola (www.mylola.com code: SECRETLIVES), Birchbox (www.birchbox.com/SECRETLIVES code: SECRETLIVES), and Acuity (www.acuityscheduling.com/secretlives).

Sep 26, 2019
9. Telling Our Stories with Marina Franklin
00:37:53

There’s something freeing about realizing that no one really knows what they are talking about. Charla felt a particular sense of freedom when she discovered comedy. The same can be said for actor, writer and comedian Marina Franklin, who knows that standup saved her life. In this episode we talk about how comedy shaped Marinas’ world, how the industry hasn’t really changed that much and the courage it took for her to do something she’s been hungry to do for a long time.  


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Marina Franklin @marinayfranklin on Twitter and Instagram 



This episode is sponsored by VitaCup (www.vitacup.com code: SECRETLIVES), Credo Mobile (www.credo.com/slobw), and Away (www.awaytravel.com/secretlives code: SECRETLIVES).

Sep 19, 2019
8. Doing the Work with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford
00:38:10

Therapy is a staple in Charla and Lauren’s life. They use it as a way to not only deal with major life incidents, but everyday maintenance. Dr. Joy Harden Bradford knows that finding a mental health professional who speaks to the experiences of black women can be tough. That’s why she created the podcast Therapy for Black Girls and an online directory to find black therapists in your area. In this conversation, we dig into ways to dismantle the stigma of mental health particularly when it relates to black women and some accessible resources to find a therapist in your area. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Dr. Joy Harden Bradford @hellodrjoy on Twitter and Instagram 



This episode is sponsored by Credo Mobile (www.credo.com/SLOBW), Hug Me by Blume (text SECRET to 79-79-79), and Acuity (acuityscheduling.com/secretlives).

Sep 12, 2019
7. The Sun and the Moon with Mecca Woods
00:37:47

Lauren loves astrology and Charla does too; but in a more cautiously optimistic way. One of the things they like the most about it is how it has become a tool for black women to navigate the world. This uptick in interest is something astrologer Mecca Woods has noticed. She explains some of the basics of astrology, gives insight into Charla and Laurens’ chart and talks about how in the end astrology shouldn’t make us feel bad. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Mecca on Twitter @TheMeccanism and Instagram @1meccanism


This episode is sponsored by VitaCup (www.vitacup.com code: SECRETLIVES).

Sep 05, 2019
6. Sex and Power with Numa Perrier
00:33:10

This was a tough one for Charla and Lauren to chat about. Maybe it’s because so often when we talk about sex and power, black women are seen as peripheral to mainstream stories. That’s why actor, writer and director Numa Perrier wanted to create her movie Jezebel. In this episode, we talk about what happens when a black woman takes power over her own sexuality and how we can feel more free to talk about these two things at the same time.


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Numa on Twitter and Instagram @missnuma


This episode is sponsored by I'm Telling The Truth But I'm Lying and Acuity (acuityscheduling.com/secretlives).

Aug 29, 2019
5. Overcoming the Fear with Cleo King
00:33:11

When there’s an obstacle between you and your dreams, what steps do you take to conquer it? A life changing quote covers Charla’s desktop background while Lauren readjusts where fear lives in her mind. Living your best life despite the fear is something our guest, Cleo King, has been doing for her whole career. Having credits in some of the best TV shows and movies out there (Pineapple Express, Magnolia, The Hangover) Cleo has been around the business long enough to know that overcoming fear is one of the keys too true self discovery.


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

For a full list of all the shows and movies Cleo King has been in, see her IMDB page here: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0454598/ 



This episode is sponsored by HarperCollins - I’m Telling the Truth, But I’m Lying.

Aug 22, 2019
4. Finding the Joy with Demetria L. Lucas
00:37:38

Relationships, whether you’re in one or not, are a tough thing to navigate. Charla and Lauren have the bad date stories to prove it. Cultural critic and writer Demetria L. Lucas, who has spent plenty of time talking about love, sex and dating, joins in discussing how to mine relationships particularly as a black woman. This deeply personal conversation with Demetria centers on the social pressure to be in a relationship and what happens when things don’t turn out like you thought they would. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Demetria on Twitter and Instagram @demetriallucas



This episode is sponsored by Money Ha Ha podcast and HBO - A Black Lady Sketch Show.

Aug 15, 2019
3. Ambitious but Lazy with Tarriona ‘Tank’ Ball
00:35:02

After a long day of work, Charla and Lauren love to chill. Sleep keeps Charla balanced, Lauren loves a good bathtub session and our guest Tarriona ‘Tank’ Ball is all about some ice cream. But when does that tub time, sleep and ice cream turn from self care to self indulgence? Tank talks through how she balances the two while also sharing the confirmations that ground her band ‘Tank and The Bangas’ on the road to success. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 

Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Tank on Instagram @thinktank20



This episode is sponsored by Money Ha Ha podcast and HBO - A Black Lady Sketch Show.

Aug 08, 2019
2. Black Beauty Standards with Xosha Roquemore
00:29:49

What happens when the standard of black beauty isn’t quite black? Charla and Lauren discuss how social media has affected their journey to self love. Xosha Roquemore (Precious, The Mindy Project) highlights her personal experiences online in this hilarious and thoughtful conversation centered on what it means to be beautiful in a culture that can sometimes ignore true #blackgirlmagic. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 


Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Xosha Roquemore on Twitter @XoshaRockstar and on Instagram @xoshroq



This episode is sponsored by HBO - A Black Lady Sketch Show.

Aug 01, 2019
1. Being A Black Face In A White Space with Bari A. Williams
00:45:54

When Charla and Lauren first met, they were two of three black women in their department. They share stories of being in a white workspace with lawyer, tech executive and advisor Bari A. Williams. Bari, who has built a career around advocating for diversity in Silicon Valley, dishes advice on how to overcome barriers that black women deal with on a constant basis when trying to simply do their job. 


You can find more about The SLBW at https://www.instagram.com/theslbw/ 


Follow SLBW on Twitter and Instagram @theslbw

Find Bari A. Williams on Twitter @BariAWilliams 


This episode is sponsored by Lola (www.mylola.com code: SECRETLIVES), Green Chef (www.greenchef.us/secretlives75), and Care/of (www.takecareof.com code: SECRETLIVES).

Jul 25, 2019
Introducing The Secret Lives of Black Women!
00:02:13

Each week, Charla Lauriston and Lauren Domino center the stories of love, sex, work, fame and more by asking, how do the black women we admire most make it through? Subscribe now and follow the show @theslbw on Twitter and Instagram for more information!

Jul 09, 2019