Survivor Sanctuary

By Kelly Downing

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Episodes: 132

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More than 20% of churchgoers are survivors of childhood sexual abuse, but sadly, church is the last place that most victims of abuse feel safe to go for help. I'm Kelly Downing, a survivor and advocate who wants to see that change. Survivor Sanctuary is a podcast for survivors of sexual abuse who are navigating the road to healing, and for anyone who wants to be a part of the major heart renovation the church needs so that our faith communities can truly become sanctuaries for survivors.

Episode Date
Episode 131: Abused in Jesus' Name - A Chat with Donna Bibeau Herring (Part 2)
Sep 12, 2024
Episode 130: Abused In Jesus' Name - An Interview with Donna Bibeau Herring (Part 1)
Sep 05, 2024
Episode 129: Worship and the... Child Molester with Pastor Robert Morris
Jul 04, 2024
Episode 128: Can Someone Please Glue John MacArthur's Mouth Shut? Asking for Survivors.
May 16, 2024
Episode 127: One Church, Three Sexual Predators
Mar 21, 2024
Episode 126: Florida Keys SBC Pastor Arrested for Sexually Assaulting Teen Girl
Mar 07, 2024
Episode 125: Why Survivors Protect Their Abusers
Feb 29, 2024
Episode 124: Mike Bickle Accused of Sexually Abusing Girls Ages 14, 15
Feb 22, 2024
Episode 123: Paige and Andy Weber on International House of Prayer and Mike Bickle (Part 2)
Feb 15, 2024
Episode 122: International House of Preyer? Andy and Paige Weber Share Insight on Mike Bickle and IHOP
Feb 08, 2024
Episode 121: Were You Sexually Abused? The Answer May Surprise You
Feb 01, 2024
Episode 120: Pastor Allegedly Hid Sexual Abuse, Hired Child Porn Defense Attorney to "Protect" Church's Children
Jan 25, 2024
Episode 119: Children are Now the Top Perpetrators of Child Sexual Abuse
Jan 18, 2024
Episode 118: No, Sexual Abuse Isn't Just Like Any Other Sin
Dec 14, 2023
EPISODE 117: Sacred Wholeness: A conversation on Mind, Body and Soul Healing with Joshua Yoder Part 2
Nov 23, 2023
EPISODE 116: Sacred Wholeness: A conversation on Mind, Body and Soul Healing with Joshua Yoder
Nov 16, 2023
Episode 115: The Silence of Sexual Abuse
Nov 02, 2023
Episode 114: Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis Take a Page from the Church's Abuse Playbook
Sep 20, 2023
Episode 113: Sound of Freedom - If "Conspiracy Theorists" Want to Save Kids from Sex Slavery, Please Shut All the Way Up and Let Them
Aug 09, 2023
EPISODE 112: Artificial Intelligence and the Surge in Child Sexual Abuse
Jul 26, 2023
Episode 111: On Pastors Who Preach About Drag Queen Story Hour, But Ignore Sexual Abuse In The Church
Jun 21, 2023
EPISODE 110: We Are Not Powerless When It Comes To Sexual Abuse In The Church
May 17, 2023
Episode 109: Selective Outrage: Chris Rock Just Defined the Church's Problem with Sexual Abuse
May 03, 2023
EPISODE 108: The Dalai Lama Reminds Me A Lot of My Childhood Abuser
Apr 12, 2023
Episode 107: Alleged Rapist Resigns, but Churchome Still Isn't Safe for Survivors
Mar 22, 2023
Episode 106: Churchome and Judah Smith Apparently Think It's "Fun" to Ask Victims to OK Hiring Their Alleged Rapists
Mar 01, 2023
Episode 105: Grace To You... Unless You're Being Abused
Feb 15, 2023
Episode 104: The Myth of "Radical Grace"
Jan 18, 2023
Episode 103: Accusations of Unforgiveness: Every Abuse Survivor's Battle
Jan 04, 2023
Episode 102: Steve Black on Facing Sexual Abuse Within the Family
Nov 30, 2022
Episode 101: Sexual Abuse and the Case for Digging Up the Past
Nov 16, 2022
Happy 100TH Episode, Survivor Sanctuary! (Plus Some Big News!)
Nov 09, 2022
Episode 99: Hunting Child Molesters on Tinder
Oct 26, 2022
Episode 98: Surviving Sexual Abuse Or Playing the Victim?
Oct 12, 2022
Episode 97: When Child Molesters Go Free (And Then Want To Follow Me On Twitter)
Sep 21, 2022
Episode 96: Beware Harmful Advice from Survivors and Advocates
Sep 07, 2022
Why Are Hardened Criminals More Enraged By Child Molesters Than The Church Is?
Aug 24, 2022
When Mothers Side With Their Child's Abuser
Aug 03, 2022
Counterfeit Confessions: How Abusers Use DARVO to Turn Churches Against Victims
Jul 20, 2022
Sexual Abuse Survivors and the Church's Phony Compassion for the Unborn
Jun 30, 2022
The One Time It's OK to NOT Believe Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Jun 23, 2022
Sheltered But Not Protected: A Chat with Justin Woodbury (Part 2)
Jun 01, 2022
Sheltered But Not Protected: A Chat with Justin Woodbury (Part 1)
May 25, 2022
Josh Duggar Keeps Telling His Family Who He Is. So Why Do They Refuse To Believe Him?
May 18, 2022
No, Mega Churches Are Not The Problem
May 11, 2022
The Importance of Understanding That An Abuser Can Be Anyone
Apr 27, 2022
On Christians Who Are More Bothered By Transgender Athletes Than Pedophile Pastors
Apr 20, 2022
No One Has Been Hurt By Church More Than Jesus (And Other Hot Takes Pastors Should Stop Sharing On Facebook)
Apr 13, 2022
Indonesian School Principal Sentenced to Death for Sexual Abuse of Students (America, Take Notes)
Apr 06, 2022
On John MacArthur, Churches That Support Abusers, and the "Worldliness" of Child Protection
Mar 23, 2022
No, Healing Is Not The "Responsibility" of Sexual Abuse Survivors
Mar 09, 2022
Orange Jumpsuits: The Antidote to the Church's Apathy Toward Victims of Sexual Abuse?
Feb 23, 2022
Dear Christian: Obesity & Gluttony Aren't Synonyms (And Why That Matters to Survivors of Sexual Abuse)
Feb 02, 2022
Sexual Abuse Survivors and the Struggle with Self Care
Jan 05, 2022
On Josh Duggar and the Church's Proclivity for Protecting Predators
Dec 15, 2021
When the Church Treats Sexual Abuse as a Partisan Issue: With Special Guest Joshua Yoder
Nov 24, 2021
Sexual Abuse, Body Autonomy, and How Vaccine Mandates Can Bring Up Trauma for Survivors
Nov 04, 2021
Hot Female Teachers and the Double Standard of Sexual Abuse Response in Schools
Oct 13, 2021
What the Gabby Petito Tragedy can Teach the Church about Believing Victims of Abuse
Sep 22, 2021
When a Survivor Refuses to be Silenced: A Chat with Mendy Hood
Sep 01, 2021
If Frank Houston Were A Serial Bomber Instead of a Serial Child Rapist, We Wouldn't Be Having This Conversation
Aug 12, 2021
To Those Who Think Sexual Abuse Ruins the Reputation of the Church
Jul 28, 2021
When Survivors are Bullied for Keeping the Faith
Jul 14, 2021
Church: A Highly Dangerous Rehab Facility for Child Molesters
Jun 30, 2021
Jesus Gave Up His Life... Why Can't "Repentant" Abusers Give Up the Pulpit?
Jun 18, 2021
Russell Moore, Leaked Emails and the Southern Baptist Convention's Contempt for Sexual Abuse Survivors
Jun 09, 2021
In Case You Were Wondering, I Don't Speak Out About Sexual Abuse for Fun
May 26, 2021
For the Fruit of the Spirit is... Niceness (Why the Church Fails to Recognize Wolves)
May 12, 2021
Christians Don't Actually Believe What the Bible Says About Wolves (And Other Reasons Sexual Abuse is Rampant in the Church)
May 05, 2021
When a Predator Shapes How You Pastor: A Chat with Bryan Holt (Part 2)
Apr 07, 2021
When a Predator Shapes How You Pastor: A Chat with Bryan Holt (Part I)
Mar 31, 2021
[In]Competent to Counsel: How "Biblical" Counseling Can Harm Sexual Abuse Survivors
Mar 24, 2021
Is Your Cardiologist A Christian? (How the Church Discourages Survivor Healing)
Mar 17, 2021
Life Without Parole: When Predators Offend and Victims Serve Their Sentence
Mar 10, 2021
Is My Podcast Sending People To Hell? And Other Questions About Speaking Out On Sexual Abuse
Feb 24, 2021
How Protectors Help Us Heal from Sexual Abuse
Feb 10, 2021
From Surviving to Advocating: Four Things You Should Know
Jan 13, 2021
Lessons on Sexual Abuse Prevention from a Covid-19 Scare
Dec 02, 2020
What an Oversized Fish Can Teach the Church About Dealing with Sex Offenders
Nov 04, 2020
Speaking Out on Sex Abuse: A Chat With Jimmy Hinton (Part 2)
Oct 28, 2020
Speaking Out on Sex Abuse: A Chat With Jimmy Hinton (Part 1)
Oct 21, 2020
Shining Light on Sexual Abuse Within Your Church: A Beginner's Guide
Oct 14, 2020
Sexual Abuse Actually Does Leave A Mark
Oct 08, 2020
The Damage Done By "Grooming"
Sep 23, 2020
When Our Theology Protects Predators Over Victims
Sep 16, 2020
When Church is a Trauma Trigger
Sep 02, 2020
Do You *Really* Want to #SavetheChildren?
Aug 26, 2020
Happy Anniversary, Survivor Sanctuary!
Aug 19, 2020
Megan and Dom Benninger: Cancelling the Culture of Silence
Aug 12, 2020
Exposing An Abuser: How Do You Know If You've Done Enough?
Jul 29, 2020
Confronting Your Abuser: Expectation vs. Reality
Jul 15, 2020
The Only Thing More Dangerous Than A Predator
Jul 01, 2020
Dear Churches: How About We Stop Funding Molestionaries? Thanks.
Jun 24, 2020
10 Reasons It's Totally Worth it to Heal from Sexual Abuse
Jun 10, 2020
Why Survivors Struggle to Ask for Help
May 28, 2020
Trauma and Healing Aren't One-Size-Fits-All
May 20, 2020
If Anxiety Is A Sin, My Amygdala Is Going to Burn In Hell
May 07, 2020
Hope for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Apr 29, 2020
You Are Enough (Really)
Apr 15, 2020
When Churches Use The Same Playbook for Sex Abuse And Coronavirus
Apr 01, 2020
Hello, My Name Is Warrior.
Mar 25, 2020
Let Me Prey Upon You: An Interview With Sandy Phillips Kirkham
Mar 19, 2020
Always (Standing Up for the) Broken: A Chat With Erik Pederson, Part II
Mar 11, 2020
Always Broken: A Chat with Erik Pederson
Mar 04, 2020
When the Bible is Wielded As A Weapon Against Sexual Abuse Survivors: With Special Guest Joshua Yoder
Feb 26, 2020
Entering the Struggle: The Courage to Face The Pain of Your Past
Feb 20, 2020
Love Always Protects: Rachel's Story
Feb 12, 2020
How to Apologize to Your Sexual Abuser and Other Important Lessons I Learned in Christian College
Feb 05, 2020
How to be a Hero to Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Cape Optional)
Jan 29, 2020
What A Sweaty Keanu Reeves Taught Me About Banishing Sexual Abuse “Survivor Guilt”
Jan 22, 2020
Interview with a Whistle-Blower: Meet Nicole Saylor
Jan 15, 2020
Survivor Resolutions for 2020
Jan 01, 2020
The Best Gift You Can Give Yourself This Christmas
Dec 18, 2019
My Heart Is Broken And So Is My Attachment Style (The Number One Reason I Despise Sexual Abuse)
Dec 11, 2019
The Effect of “Look-Back Windows” on Church Sexual Abuse
Dec 04, 2019
Name that Abuser! (Why Private Repentance is Not Enough)
Nov 27, 2019
So the Child Molester Says He's Sorry... Now What?
Nov 20, 2019
When Churches Respond Poorly to Abuse: An Interview with Katie Trout (Part 2)
Nov 13, 2019
When Churches Respond Poorly to Abuse: An Interview with Katie Trout (Part 1)
Nov 06, 2019
You Can't Serve God and Insurance Policies (Why the Church Sucks at Responding to Sexual Abuse)
Oct 30, 2019
A Tale of Two Felonies: How NOT to Handle a Sex Abuse Scandal in the Church
Oct 23, 2019
Sexual Abuse and the Struggle with Self-Blame
Oct 16, 2019
Sexual Abuse Is A Big Fat Liar
Oct 09, 2019
Should Sexual Abusers Be Spiritual Leaders?
Oct 02, 2019
Handling Your Story of Abuse With Care
Sep 25, 2019
The Choice to Speak Out About Sexual Abuse
Sep 18, 2019
STOP Telling People to Move On: How to Support Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Sep 11, 2019
A Chat with Ashley Easter, Creator of The Courage Conference
Sep 04, 2019
Snot On My Bedspread: The Accidental Way I Began to Heal from Childhood Sexual Abuse
Aug 28, 2019
When a Predator Becomes a Pastor - Interview with Kelly M. Haines
Aug 21, 2019
Survivor Sanctuary 101
Aug 14, 2019
Minisode #1 - Survivor Sanctuary Launches 8-14-2019
Aug 01, 2019