Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

By Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts and speaks on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health and faith. She is a LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Episode Date
Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Bree and Adam of the Better Me with BodyByBree podcast to do a couples' coaching session! During their conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -Differences/imbalances in desire between them -She exposes the implicit meaning frames between them that create resentment and undermine desire -She offers them a new way of thinking about their choices to create a sense of closeness and friendship -How to develop more confidence and courage in the marriage To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.  www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
Sep 10, 2020
Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tamara K. Anderson of the “Stories of Hope in Hard Times” podcast to discuss

-Self sufficiency

-Overcoming self-doubt

-Building self-confidence

-Finding strength in trails and

-Learning from the imperfections of life.

Jennifer talks about her own experiences with self-doubt and suffering and the lessons she learned about herself, life, and God in the face of these challenging times.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Sep 03, 2020
Mixed Faith Marriage Q and A

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of mixed faith marriage!


Jennifer addresses topics such as

✔️How you can find shared values and spiritual practices when one stops believing.

✔️How you can deal with condescension from family or friends about a spouse's shift in belief.

✔️How each person in the couple can handle the difference in belief maturely or tyrannically.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Aug 25, 2020
How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Mike Frazier with Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast to talk about...

-Female sexuality and desire.

-Why you need to stop being “pathetic” :-) and what to do instead.

-How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s attractive and effective.

-How to better take ownership of your own sexuality in a way that will bless your marriage.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

You can learn more about Mike Frazier, MD here.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Aug 13, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.

QUESTION #1

My wife had a baby 6 months ago, and is afraid to have sex with me again. I've tried to get her to open up to me about what is going on, and why she is so anxious. I've let her dictate the pace of things so far, but if it were up to her, I'm not sure we'd ever have sex again.

Before the baby, sex was a struggle for her. She was unsure of what she liked and what felt good. If I accidentally stumbled on something that felt good, and she had an orgasm, I would try to repeat whatever I was doing during the next session, but that was rarely successful. I'm beside myself trying to figure out what can be done to help her learn to enjoy being intimate with me. What can I do? Or, what can I encourage her to do? Help!

QUESTION #2

I think I had an emotional affair. I’ve been married to my wife for almost a decade, and she’s the absolute best. She truly is my best friend and a wonderful mother to our three kids. After almost 10 years of marriage things have gotten pretty routine, but not necessarily complacent. We still laugh and talk and enjoy each other, but sometimes the routine gets a little stale.

A couple of years ago, I texted a female friend. We were friends in high school but hadn’t kept in touch until I reached out about a business proposition. It was pretty innocent, but over time became pretty flirty until she eventually proposed the idea of an affair. I immediately severed ties with her and told my wife what she had said. This happened more 7 months ago. We haven’t spoken since, but I honestly miss her. I think about her all the time, almost daily. I miss how we would make each other laugh and our deep conversations through texts. I miss being desired by someone new... or at all. It has gotten easier over time, but I could use some direction.

Was this an emotional affair? Should I tell my wife about it? How can I phrase it sensitively, if so? And how can I deal with this feeling of wanting to reach out to my former friend all the time? How do I replace the feelings of excitement that I was getting from her? Or do I have to learn deal without that excitement all together? I know... I’ve got issues.

QUESTION #3

My question is about sexuality and chronic illness. How do you navigate sexuality and desire when one partner has a normal high sex drive and the other is sick and has barely any energy for anything. Even washing my hair is difficult most days.

Before we were married I had a great drive, but very soon after I became very very sick. I try to be sexual as much as possible, but I feel guilty about not being able to meet his needs. Most of the time I would rather die than put the necessary energy into sex. Do you have any ideas for strategies to employ when his desire is high but my energy is low?

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

To learn more about Mormon Marriages click Here.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Aug 10, 2020
Obedience and Integrity

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to talk about the topic of obedience. They discuss questions such as…

-When is it good to yield to the authority of another?

-What is the difference between the choice to comply based in moral courage vs. obedience that is dangerous?

-What is the risk in valuing obedience as an inherent virtue, and how do we reconcile the value of humility with moral responsibility?

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

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Jul 29, 2020
How to Choose More Happiness

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

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Jul 15, 2020
Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Dan Wotherspoon, host of "Mormon Matters" interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Natasha Helfer Parker about the messaging around modesty and sexuality and how to teach our sexual values most productively.

Topics that come up during this discussion include:

-Modesty

-Rape culture

-The rhetoric we use in the church surrounding modesty.

-How to talk to young women about modesty.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jul 02, 2020
Men and Intimacy

In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about...

-False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality.

-How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal.

-How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma.

-A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)!

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jun 22, 2020
Defining Ourselves Through External Influences

In a conversation with life coach Heather Frazier of Pivot Parenting Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about...

✔️ Why we measure ourselves by external things.

✔️ How to be true to yourself.

✔️ How to foster integrity and confidence in your children.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jun 17, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 31 - LIVE

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions relating to…

-Depression and sexual arousal.

-Loss of attraction for a spouse.

-Sexuality and desire during pregnancy.

-Fantasy as a form of intimate connection.

-Making sense of the practice of polygamy and how the theology can impact intimacy in modern marriages.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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To learn more about Mormon Marriages click here.

Jun 04, 2020
The Psychology of Men's Sexuality

In a conversation with clinical psychologist Zac Rhodenizer of The Psychology Of Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the the psychology of male sexuality.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like...

-What women have a hard time understanding about male sexuality.

-What men have a hard time understanding about male sexuality.

-How to respond to sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, and performance anxiety, etc.).

-Understanding the male lower desire partner.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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May 25, 2020
How to Own Your Highest Desires

In a conversation with Makenzie VanWinkle of the "My Audience Is Me" Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about what it looks like to live your life from your highest desires.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like...

-Why it’s important to lean into our desires.

-The difference between desire from the best in ourselves vs. the worst in ourselves.

-How people pleasing can negatively impact your relationship and peace of mind.

-What a life led by your higher desires might look like and how to get there.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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May 14, 2020
Interfaith Relationships & Faith Crisis During Marriage

In this discussion with Sarah Mendenhall of the Sitting Down With Sarah Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to questions such as…

-What are the stages that couples go through when facing a faith challenge?

-Can you arrive at shared values in a mixed-faith relationship?

-Can you live in two different paradigms of belief and still be friends and good parents?

-How can you talk to your kids about a parent's faith transition?

-How can you teach your children shared values when each parent believes differently?

-How can you find the courage to love in the face of difference?

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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May 07, 2020
Self-Development For Men - Part 2

In part two of of her discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...

✔️Taking greater responsibility for yourself.

✔️Finding greater meaning and purpose in your life.

✔️How to better measure success and happiness.

✔️Understanding sex as a powerful form of communication.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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May 05, 2020
Self-Development For Men - Part 1

In a discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...

✔️Understanding the relationship between anxiety and depression and externalized expectations.

✔️Claiming your life choices in the face of pressures from others.

✔️Understanding resentment and what it can teach you about yourself.

✔️Balancing expectations and freedom appropriately to foster self-development in your child.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 29, 2020
The Higher Desire Wife

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to discuss the higher desire wife and the lower desire husband relationship dynamic.

This episode addresses

-The difference between validation and intimacy.

-The difference between noble sacrifice and martyrdom.

-Some of the reasons for low desire in a husband.

-How to create a more honest and intimate relationship with your spouse.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 22, 2020
Sex After Loss

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Amy Watson from the Smooth Stones Podcast to discuss intimacy after loss.

This episode addresses

-How to keep anxiety about pregnancy from affecting your sexual relationship.

-How to address feelings of guilt about sex and pleasure following the loss of a pregnancy.

-How to compassion towards self and others is fundamental to processing loss and grief.

-How to maintain a healthy relationship with your body, even if it has let you down.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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To access the sale mentioned in the beginning of this episode, visit the Art of Desire online course page and use the discount code: STAYATHOME30

Apr 16, 2020
Developing Emotional Maturity
00:45:54

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson Fife and Preston Pugmire of the Next Level Life Podcast examine emotional maturity, its roots, its effects and how to invest in your own self-development in order to thrive in relationships and business.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 09, 2020
Women's Bodies and Cultural Religious Mixed Messages

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cherie Burton to talk about:

-How women often become disempowered sexually in religious traditions.

-How many religious traditions (often unknowingly) contribute to body shaming, inhibit self-expression, and undermine self-development.

-How women can foster a stronger self in their lives and spiritual practices.

-How women can foster peace with their sexuality.

AND MORE!

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Mar 31, 2020
Devoutly Religious and Sex Positive

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins The Betrayed, The Addicted, and The Expert Podcast to talk about:

-The common relational patterns at the root of addiction and betrayal and how to change these dysfunctional dynamics.

-How to relate to religious belief to foster courage and integrity rather than fear.

-What “sex-positive” means in a religious context.

-How women can integrate their sexuality without being vulnerable to a sexually irresponsible or indulgent spouse.

-How to understand aspects of sexual compulsivity.

AND MORE!

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Mar 26, 2020
Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human
00:54:10

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Preston from the Mettle Mentality Podcast to talk about the following:

-The importance of intimacy in happiness.
-Perfectionism and its challenge to openness / intimacy.
-Understanding shame and guilt.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Mar 18, 2020
Resentment and How it’s Affecting Your Marriage
01:07:28

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sara Payne from the The Doctor’s Wife Podcast to talk about resentment. Listen to this episode and learn the following:

-Learn what resentment can teach you about yourself

-Understand how resentment affects sexual desire

-Learn about intimate marriages and making room for two equal partners.

-Understand how you may participate in being taken for granted.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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We currently have several events planned for the future for which tickets have already been released! To learn more about these events, Click Here.

Mar 09, 2020
Setting Boundaries
00:21:25

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cami Hurst from the Sex Therapy 101 Podcast to talk about learning to say no safely. They talk about topics such as learning to set boundaries and dealing with a spouse’s pornography use.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

We currently have several events planned for the future for which tickets have already been released! To learn more about these events, Click Here.

Mar 03, 2020
Understanding Sexual Development
00:22:38

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about healthy sexual development. They talk about how to teach your kids about sexuality without shame and fear.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

We currently have several events planned for the future for which tickets have already been released! To learn more about these events, Click Here.

Feb 24, 2020
Understanding Desire
00:42:56

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate a Good Life Podcast to talk about desire. They talk about what desire is, why it matters, and how to identify and develop the desires you have.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

We currently have several events planned for the future for which tickets have already been released! To learn more about these events, click here.

Feb 20, 2020
Interview With my Mom - (AKA Dr. Finlayson-Fife)
00:17:42

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins her daughter Jane to talk her career as a marriage counselor and the things she’s learned along the way. This interview was done for a journalism project in Jane’s 8th grade class. We ask that you please excuse any background noise caused by Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s family and dog.

This episode also covers topics like how to create a happy marriage, the kind of impact your marriage is having on your kids, and what Dr. Finlayson-Fife wishes more people knew before getting married.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Feb 13, 2020
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Mormon Sex Therapist Talks About Integrity and Sexuality
01:02:49

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Women With Fire Podcast to talk about body image.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares about her experiences that led her to become a relationship and sexuality therapist. This episode also covers topics like female sexuality and desire, integrity versus compliance, and how to teach youth about sexuality.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on September 24th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

You can access the VALENTINE’S DAY ONLINE COURSE SALE mentioned at the end of the podcast Here.

Feb 12, 2020
HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE BY HEALING YOUR BODY IMAGE

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Stephanie Webb from Eat Confident Co to talk about body image.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers her perspective on how a woman’s relationship with her body influences her intimate relationship, how to set healthy boundaries in a marriage, and how to empower yourself as an equal partner in your marriage by healing your relationship with your body.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on February 5th 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

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Feb 05, 2020
Choosing Your Partner
00:36:30

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rich and Celeste from the Marriage Theraoke podcast to talk about how we deal with the dissatisfaction in our marriages and how to more fully CHOOSE our partner every day.

This podcast episode explains how you can get from “I HAVE to be with my partner” to the freedom of “I CHOOSE to be with my partner”.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on January 24th 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

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Jan 28, 2020
Goal Setting and Collaboration in Marriage
00:31:26

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Monica Tanner of On The Brighter Side Podcast. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about setting personal goals and setting goals as a couple. She goes into detail about what collaborative goals look like and common pitfalls/problems that come up when trying to keep new goals, and how to overcome these.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife ends the episode talking about how to care for your mental health this year and how to have the best 2020 possible.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on January 6th 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Jan 14, 2020
Q&A With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
00:59:04

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Ray Cox and Ellen Hersam from the Improving Intimacy in Mormon Marriages Facebook group. Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions about neediness, using sex to avoid conflict, differences in desire, and advice for newly weds.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on January 6th 2020.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Jan 09, 2020
The Lower Desire Wife
00:29:44

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired in October, 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Jan 06, 2020
Raising Our Children in an Over Sexualized World
00:43:01

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Jodi Chaffee from Our Modern Heritage about how to raise kids in an overly sexualized world.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on December 17th, 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

You can watch this episode on YouTube here.

Dec 19, 2019
Singles and Sexuality - Navigating With Clarity and Integrity
00:45:03

This podcast episode is an audio recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s presentation Sexuality and Singledom: Navigating with Clarity and Integrity. This presentation was recorded in New York City at a singles’ conference called “Of One Body: The State of Mormon Singledom.”

This recording was originally published by Mormon Singledom on Soundcloud 4 years ago.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 13, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 2
00:30:18

In this episode, Bloom for Women interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. This is a continuation of the discussion that was begun in part 1. The topic of this conversation is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 1st 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at Bloomforwomen.Com.

Dec 12, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 1
00:21:04

The Bloom for Women team interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. The topic is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on May 28th 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at Bloomforwomen.Com.

Dec 12, 2019
The Art of Belonging
00:30:22

In an interview for the Love Rice podcast series from Bloom for Women, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about how to belong to others as well as ourselves. She also explains how reconciling these tensions is related to our spiritual development.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 16th, 2017.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at bloomforwomen.com.

Dec 09, 2019
How to Choose More Happiness
00:34:08

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 06, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 5

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the the Rational Faiths Podcast Team to answer two questions:

Question number one is about how to teach young women about the Law of Chastity

Question number two is about the problem of pornography.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 1st, 2015.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 04, 2019
Developing Selfhood

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the question:

How does one develop a solid sense of self within groups that celebrate "selflessness" as a feminine virtue?

Christy Crowe Hughes interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of women, selfhood, and moral development, referencing Carol Gilligan’s Stage Development Theory.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 19th 2015.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 29, 2019
Can You Choose Love?
00:13:34

The Mormon Channel Daily interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on love and how to make your marriage better.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on January 16th 2018.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 27, 2019
Women's Sexuality, Desire, Pornography, and Talking to Our Kids About Sex
00:30:56

In this episode, Jody Moore interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about women's sexuality and desire, pornography and talking to our kids about sex.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 10th 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 26, 2019
Virtue, Passion, and Owning Your Desire
00:53:14

In this interview with Nate Bagley from the Loveumentary, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about the following topics: how a patriarchal view of sex can be damaging to your relationship, why it's important to take ownership of your own desires and your own sexuality, helpful tips for experiencing orgasm, and how good sex takes lots of practice.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on December 1st 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 25, 2019
The Law of Chastity - Shame Free
00:43:52

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jody Moore for a discussion about how to teach our kids about their sexuality and the law of chastity without inviting shame, with children from infancy through the young adult years.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 24th 2017.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 22, 2019
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Therapist, Counselor, Mormon
00:50:27

In this episode, Latter Day Lives Podcast host Sean Rapier interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about her journey discovering worth and strength as a woman in the church. They also talk about the marriage, intimacy and issues facing today’s LDS couples.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on July 8th 2018.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 21, 2019
Developing a Relationship With Your Sexuality and Desire
00:47:14

In an interview with Rhonda Farr, an LDS sexual intimacy coach, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses the importance of developing one’s relationship with one’s own sexuality and desire. Rhonda Farr and Dr. Finlayson-Fife talk about how understanding the parts of yourself that you don't currently love, can actually lead you to find greater confidence. You can also listen to this interview on YouTube.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 5th 2018.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 20, 2019
The Higher Desire Partner
00:47:11

In this episode, the Marriage Laboratory interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife in an episode focusing on the high desire partner in a sexual relationship.

“This can be a tricky position to be in because you can feel very stuck and powerless to improve your situation. Manipulating, coercing, and pressuring may get you what you want in the short term, but have lots of negative consequences in a relationship.”

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 14th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 19, 2019
Sexuality and Healthy Marriage Relationships
00:51:39

In this podcast episode, Greg Reynolds from the Marriage Mastery Podcast speaks with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the importance of healthy sexual expression in marriage. They touch on topics such as the differences in male and female sexuality and how to create a happy relationship in which both members can thrive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on September 5th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 18, 2019
Help! I Want to Change My Spouse!
00:34:30

In a new "About Progress" Podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Monica Packer about our fruitless efforts to change a loved one, and what productive choices you can make instead!


"It's easy to take out your anger on a spouse. It's much harder to tolerate addressing hard things, that destabilize both of you, and stay on it long enough to solve it.”

-Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 13th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 14, 2019
LDS Conceptions of Motherhood
01:43:47

In this podcast episode, Dan Wotherspoon from Mormon Matters Podcast, Chelsea Fife, Chelsea Strayer, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife discuss Mormonism’s messages about motherhood.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 30th 2011.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 12, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 29 - LIVE
00:40:14

In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to address the following questions…

Question # 1 - “My wife and I are trying to conceive. This is one of the most stressful times of my life, and stress is a major anti-aphrodisiac for me. How do I confront the pressure to perform?”

Question # 2 - "My wife has a “fun” sexual past with her high school boyfriends. Before we dated she had shared too many of those experiences with me. I was fine with it, until I woke up to her crying on our wedding night. It triggered a jealousy and resentment where I feel she gave “them” her fun self. I got the Mormon prude and they got the fun girl. I love her, but I feel like she has never chosen me. I get that I’m at fault with the unforgiving heart and mad with jealousy that has built emotional walls. I feel like all our sex has been mercy sex. I don’t even want to have sex with her because that’s what it is. When we become intimate all I can see is her doing “this” with “them.” It makes me regret and feel bitterness that I strived to stay a virgin and be as "clean" as I could. I feel like I have lived life wrong. Since she is a terrific good person and she has the “dirty” past, she is the better more healthy person while I am the bitter/resentful seminary graduate boy. It makes me hate myself that I can’t get over that. I’m over 15 years into this and the cloud just gets darker and bigger. How can I start becoming more intimate with my wife while suffering with this intense jealousy? I just finished your course enhancing sexual intimacy and I am grateful for you and what you are doing. So, thank you and I would love to here your answer knowing it will be painful.”

This episode is part two of the two part live podcast recording.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 11th 2019.

Nov 06, 2019
Cognitive Dissonance and Faith Transition
01:20:15

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins A Thoughtful Faith Podcast to discuss the topic of cognitive dissonance and faith transition.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 25th 2013.

Nov 05, 2019
Dealing With a Pornography Disclosure
01:19:21

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Natasha Helfer Parker from Mormon Sex Info to discuss the topic of how to best handle a pornography disclosure within a couple system.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 10th 2019.

Nov 05, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 28 - LIVE
00:53:35

In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to talk about…

-The story of what inspired Dr. Finlayson-Fife to dedicate her education and career to helping LDS women and couples improve their relationships and their lives.

-Two questions are answered, both asked by women:

Question ONE addresses the cultural pressure to suppress sexuality and how to overcome it. Because the stereotype of a good LDS woman seems to not include comfort with her sexuality, how does one not succumb to this instinctively?

Question TWO addresses one woman’s inability to orgasm. Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the psychological shifts as well as behaviors that can help achieve or expand one’s capacity for climax.

This episode is one of two parts of the live recording. Part 19 is the second half of this live interview.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 6th 2019.

Oct 22, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 27
00:40:44

The Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast series has moved from Rational Faiths to Mormon Marriages with Nate and Angilyn Bagley. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics such as managing different levels of desire and premature ejaculation.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 14th, 2019.

Oct 21, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 26
00:49:38

In this Rational Faiths podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers two new questions:

The first question covers the question of how to make sense of wet dreams in the context of marriage, and how to address differences in sexual desire and biological needs in constructive ways.

The second question addresses the role of erotica and visually explicit imagery in a woman cultivating her desire in marriage. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also addresses the upcoming transition for the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on July 9th 2019.

Oct 18, 2019
The Lower Desire Wife
00:29:33

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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Oct 17, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 25
00:45:16

In this podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to address three questions sent in by listeners. The first question is regarding maintaining intimacy in long distance relationships, the second is about discomfort with “talking dirty” during sex, and the last question is about masturbation.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on December 18th 2018.

Oct 17, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 24
00:44:24

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to respond to two questions. One question is about navigating intimacy after having learned to orgasm after many years of going without. The second question asks how to respond in a relationship in which the spouse is habitually deceptive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 18th 2018.

Oct 16, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 23
00:48:25

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to respond to three new questions, all coming from men, covering topics of intimacy after tragic loss, disparity in desire, and becoming a more confident lover.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 21st 2018.

Oct 15, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 22
00:55:37

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to answer two questions : The first question is about the impact of childhood sexual abuse and parental negligence on desire and intimacy in one woman's marriage. The second question is about a man whose wife wants him to be more sexually assertive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 6th 2018.

Oct 14, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 21
00:41:06

Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths team tackle two questions submitted by listeners. The first asks about “dirty/degrading” talk during sex and the second seeks advice on teaching about sex in a positive way.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 28th 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 19
00:46:27

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer two questions submitted by listeners about infidelity in marriage.

One question comes from a man whose wife had a series of affairs, and the other question from a woman whose husband was deceptive about his involvement with another woman. Both questions address the issue of trust and trustworthiness : How it is created or ascertained, and how we sometimes collude in not knowing things about our spouse we are not sure we can handle.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife also makes a distinction between forgiving a spouse vs. reconciling with a spouse, and how to participate in creating a more trustworthy marriage.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on May 3rd 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 18
00:52:46

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer three listener questions. The first question is about a sexually entitled husband who is unresponsive to his wife’s wishes, the second question is about the use of vibrators, and the third question is from a person navigating a mixed-orientation marriage

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on April 4th 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 16
00:52:17

In the 16th installment of the Ask A Mormon Sex Therapist series Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to two more questions submitted from listeners. One focuses on nudity and modesty, and the second question comes from a person in a really tough position in a sexless marriage in which discussion and negotiation of sexual relations are off limits.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 30th 2016.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 15
00:34:08

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss the results of a study about sexual arousal, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers a question from a listener who is frustrated at inability to reach orgasm during intercourse.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 8th 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 14
01:00:30

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about understanding and responding to pornography challenges as well as low sexual desire in men.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 3rd 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 13
00:38:26

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss ways to spice up your sex life, how to navigate a robust sex life with older children in the home, and how to cope with physical ailments that often come with age like erectile dysfunction.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 2nd 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 12
00:52:15

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to take on questions about the cultural anxiety surrounding oral sex in a married relationship, and about objectification and appropriate lust.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 22nd 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 11

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about overcoming the perceived threat of spouse's previous sexual experiences (including pornography), and the effect on desire and self-confidence. They also address the topic of long distance sexual relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 16th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 10
00:42:51

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about how to raise children (especially girls) to own their sexuality and how to help children navigate worthiness interviews.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on September 6th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 9
00:41:48

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about what you can do as the higher desire person to improve your sexual relationship. They also have a discussion on LDS male sexuality.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on July 24th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 8
00:51:52

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths Podcast team discuss household duties, relationship dynamics, female desire, and LDS singles and sexuality.

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This episode was originally aired on May 30th 2015.

Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 7
00:42:32

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to have a discussion on the loss of sexual desire upon marriage, how to respond to it, and more on fantasy and how to reconcile it with goodness.

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This episode was originally aired on April 26th 2015.


Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 6
00:49:30

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with the Rational Faiths Podcast team all about re-framing masturbation and sexuality for children/youth and staying sexy while accepting the effects of age.

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This episode was originally aired on March 14, 2015.

Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 3
00:45:45

In this episode, the Rational Faiths Podcast team and Dr. Finlayson-Fife tackle the following questions:

"How do I feel more sexual desire?" and "What is acceptable in an LDS sexual relationship?"

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 11, 2015.


Oct 09, 2019
The Divinity of Desire
00:50:33

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Angilyn and Nate Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast to talk about intimacy, sexuality and the meaning frames or "false traditions" that limit our relational and sexual development in marriage. To hear more from Nate and Angilyn, visit them at www.mormonmarriages.com .

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This episode was originally aired on February 5th 2018.


Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 2
00:35:11

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Paul Barker of the Rational Faiths Podcast about advice to give a virginal couple who is about to get married and the role of fantasy in sexual relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Oct 04, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 1
00:36:09

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Paul Barker of the Rational Faiths Podcast about issues of modesty within a school setting, romance novels as a form of erotica, what is “acceptable” within marriage & what is not, divorce and intimacy, and talking to kids about sex.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Oct 04, 2019
What Every Woman Needs to Know about Female Sexuality and Navigating Their Relationships
00:29:22

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Buffy Stinchfield from the Birth Ready and Beyond Podcast, all about how to overcome the issue of painful or uncomfortable sex.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Oct 03, 2019
Developing Emotional Maturity
00:57:37

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson Fife and Preston Pugmire of the Next Level Life Podcast examine emotional maturity, its roots, its effects and how to invest in your own self-development in order to thrive in relationships and business.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Oct 02, 2019
Modesty
00:41:50

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife chats with Michelle Stevenett from the Mind. Body. Boss. Podcast all about modesty. They cover topics like how to teach modesty and what modesty is and is not.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Oct 02, 2019
On Women and Sexuality
00:58:46

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Tony Overbay on his podcast, The Virtual Couch, to talk about the challenges around sexuality that women (and men) face growing up in a faith-based culture.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 30, 2019
Partner Desirability and High/Low Desire Dynamics
00:48:31

In this podcast episode with Tony Overbay, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses what to do if you no longer find your partner physically attractive, as well as how to communicate in a relationship where one partner has a high desire for intimacy and one has a low desire. She also engages in a discussion about how to deal with deception within a relationship (ex. pornography or infidelity).

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 30, 2019
Keys To Marriage Relationships That Last
00:32:31

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Chanelle Neilson from the Moms Who Know Podcast about keys to a healthy marriage and intimate relationship. Her focus on changing oneself rather than one’s spouse is a powerful way to really improve a marriage.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 27, 2019
Body Image
00:41:48

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife chats with Michelle Stevenett from the Mind. Body. Boss Podcast about body image. They cover topics like fostering self-compassion, feeling at peace with our bodies, and how body image impacts relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 27, 2019
Sexuality and Healthy Marriage Relationships
00:51:39

In this podcast episode, Greg Reynolds of the Marriage Mastery Podcast talks with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the importance of healthy sexual expression in marriage. They touch on topics such as the differences in male and female sexuality and how to create a happy relationship in which both members can thrive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 27, 2019
Why You Need to Know Who You Are (& How)
00:45:46

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is back with another interview with Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast. Monica interviews Jennifer addressing the importance of self-development (developing our gifts and capacities) to forge a stronger sense of self. Listen in to hear why knowing who you are and developing who you are is vital for growth and happiness, and how to start working on developing yourself through this knowledge.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
Improving Your Love Life By Loving Your Body
00:50:25

Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about body image and gaining greater self confidence.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
The Perils of Perfectionism
01:01:42

Monica Packer of the About Progress Podcast asks Dr. Finlayson-Fife for her thoughts on perfectionism, how to make sense of it, and how to overcome it.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
Approval-Seeking VS. Goodness
00:44:06

Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast interviews me on the topic of Goodness---How creating goodness is different from approval-seeking, as well as perspectives on how to develop and discern what is good when faced with real and imagined pressures.


Jennifer also offers how to live up to our core desires, more fully cultivate our gifts, and better tolerate the internal and external push-back we may experience as we develop true goodness within ourselves and in our lives.

This interview is one worth listening to several times to fully glean Jennifer's wisdom. There are many ways to apply this discussion to parenthood, marriage, "control freaks," "victims," and those who live their lives based on others' approval."

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
"Get Over Yourself" - When Perfectionism Undermines Your Development, Relationships, And Peace Of Mind
00:43:21

Have you ever heard the saying, "I am my own worst enemy?" If you've thought or said that about yourself, then this episode is for you.  (And if you haven't, then this episode is also for you.)

All of us carry the innate tendency to mask our own humanity--our flaws--from those we love.  Doing so actually inhibits our growth, creates tension in our relationships, and leads to inner turmoil.  The only way to get over all that is to get over ourselves.

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, being interviewed once again by Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast, teaches us what this tendency looks like in action, and what we can do to fix it by facing our own flaws with compassion and true moral courage.  She also helps us see what we get out of doing so: a life filled with challenges, but also more love, fulfillment, and freedom. 

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
Healthy Perspectives On Sexuality
00:57:37

Bill Reel, host of Mormon Discussions, interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about healthy sexuality in a LDS context.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

Sep 26, 2019
Single Moms Thriving
00:50:23

In this episode, Molly from Divorced Mormon Mom Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discusses the challenges of being a divorced, faithful Mormon who is committed to keeping covenants and also has experienced a sexual relationship before. Molly asks about common concerns and questions including fears with sex, complexities of dating after divorce, and sexual compatibility.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our website, check out our course page, and take a look at our upcoming events.

Sep 26, 2019
Being a Whole Woman Part 2
00:34:00

Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with life/relationship coach Trina Glines all about being a whole woman.

Sep 24, 2019
Being a Whole Woman Part 1
00:32:00

Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with life/relationship coach Trina Glines all about being a whole woman.

Sep 24, 2019
Differing Views and Beliefs Part 2
00:18:03

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of The Christian Doormat Podcast about how to respect the differing views and beliefs of others as well as how to approach difficult or uncomfortable conversations about religious topics. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and The Christian Doormat podcast, visit her at Www.Thechristiandoormat.Com.

Sep 24, 2019
Talk to Your Kids About Sex - Shame Free
00:17:27

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how you can help teach your kids about sex without making them feel like it's a bad thing or that they are bad for being curious.

Sep 24, 2019
Why the Sex Talk is More Than Just a Talk
00:37:52

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to create a culture of openness around sex and sexuality so your kids will be more likely to adopt healthy views of their own. And don't worry if you have older kids, Dr. Fife says it's never too late to start implementing healthy attitudes around sex, or repairing any well-intended missteps.

Sep 24, 2019
When You Have a Desire...For More Sexual Desire
00:19:12

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss what factors can affect desire in women and how you can overcome some of them.

Sep 24, 2019
How to Talk to Your Kids About Abuse
00:20:32

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to talk with your kids about sex and abuse. To hear more from Lindsay Aerts, you can follow her on Instagram at @kslmomshow.

Sep 24, 2019
How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex
00:21:16

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to talk with your kids about sex and abuse. To hear more from Lindsay, you can follow her on Instagram @kslmomshow .

Sep 24, 2019
Differing Views and Beliefs Part 1
00:19:51

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of The Christian Doormat Podcast about how to respect the differing views and beliefs of others as well as how to approach difficult or uncomfortable conversations about religious topics. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and The Christian Doormat podcast, visit her at Www.Thechristiandoormat.Com.

Sep 13, 2019
Is it Ever Virtuous to Submit?
00:20:47

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of The Christian Doormat Podcast about the topic submission. In this episode you will learn more about what submission means and how it can be driven either by fear or moral courage. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and The Christian Doormat podcast, visit her at Www.Thechristiandoormat.Com.

Sep 12, 2019
Thinking and Acting For Yourself
00:44:29

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of The Christian Doormat Podcast about the topic of thinking for ourselves. In this episode you will learn more about how to make your own decisions based on your integrity and moral compass rather than approval of others. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and The Christian Doormat podcast, visit her at www.thechristiandoormat.com.

Sep 12, 2019
Indulgent Suffering
00:19:31

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of The Christian Doormat Podcast about the topic of indulgent suffering. In this episode you will learn more about how to act out of virtue and integrity and how to let go of immature thought patterns that can be harmful to personal development. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and The Christian Doormat podcast, visit her at www.thechristiandoormat.com.

Sep 12, 2019
Forgiving Others
00:35:59

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Sherrae Phelps on her podcast The Christian Doormat. They discuss the different “versions” of forgiveness and how to forgive in a way that is healing and not harmful. To hear more from Sherrae Phelps and her podcast, you can visit her website at www.thechristiandoormat.com.

Sep 12, 2019
What Happened to My Sex Drive? And What Can I Do to Get it Back?
00:37:38
What happened to my sex drive? And how can I get it back?
Sep 12, 2019
How to Create and Maintain a Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood
00:33:17

February 12, 2019

In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by holistic nutritionist and eating psychology coach, Stephanie Webb all about how to create and maintain a sexual sense of self while in the throes of motherhood. You can hear more from Stephanie by visiting her website, EatConfident.co, or by following her on her Instagram, @stephanie__webb.

Sep 09, 2019