Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

By Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts and speaks on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health and faith. She is a LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Episode Date
Intimacy in Mormon Marriages

In this podcast episode Don Wotherspoon facilitates a discussion with Dr. Finlayson-Fife, Carol Lynn Pearson and Stephen Carter for the Mormon Matters podcast.

Listen to this episode to hear more about...

- The effects of the history of polygamy on modern mormon marriages.   

- Some beliefs or meaning frames that can hinder intimacy in mormon marriages.  

- How the history of polygamy and patriarchy affect both women and men.  

- How a cultural script can inhibit personal and spiritual development. 

- How marriage can be the best opportunity for intimacy, joy and development in this life. 


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

Www.Finlayson-Fife.Com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Feb 16, 2021
Valentines Day and Improving Your Sex Life

In this new podcast episode Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Courtney Anderson, host of The Glow Boss Podcast, to discuss Valentines Day and some easy and concrete ways to spice up your sex life.

Listen to this episode to hear more about...

- How expectations affect your relationship . 

- How to reframe your thoughts about Valentine’s Day (and other holidays where there are expectations ). 

- How to express what really matters to you and also accept how your spouse cares for you. 

- How to navigate Valentines Day if you are going through a hard time.   

- How to spice up your sex life! 

- Potential roadblocks keeping you from improving your sexual relationship. 

AND we are having a Valentine's Day Sale on all of our online courses!   Take advantage and save 20% on each course (AND save an additional 10-15% if you purchase more than one)!  


Invest in your relationship this Valentines Day and purchase courses that teach you how to address the stumbling blocks in your intimate relationship! 


Visit our course page to take advantage of this rare opportunity to participate in life-changing courses!


Www.Finlayson-Fife.Com/Courses


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

Www.Finlayson-Fife.Com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Feb 10, 2021
Growing Beyond Transactional Faith

In this new podcast episode discussing faith and faith development with Sherrae Phelps, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the topic of...

Transactional Faith and how we grow into a higher understandings of Faith.


Listen to this episode to hear more about...


-The different stages of spiritual development

-How to develop a stronger sense of integrity

-Trials, blessings and how to understand the relationship between the two.  


AND we are having a Valentine's Day Sale on all of our online courses!   Take advantage and save 20% on each course (AND save an additional 10-15% if you purchase more than one)!  


Invest in your relationship this Valentines Day and purchase courses that teach you how to address the stumbling blocks in your intimate relationship! 


Visit our course page to take advantage of this rare opportunity to participate in life-changing courses!


www.finlayson-fife.com/courses


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Feb 02, 2021
How to Strive for Excellence (and Still Be Human!)

Jennifer and her sister Carolyn Bever speak with Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast all about how to develop ourselves without perfectionism getting in the way!

Listen to hear more about...

- How Carolyn went from only being able to run down the block to qualifying for the Boston Marathon.

- What parenting has taught Jennifer about herself and her own problematic perfectionism.

- How to overcome fears of failure or discomfort.

- The normalcy of perfectionism, the false ideas within it, and how we can transcend it.

This is a unique self-development podcast that you don't want to miss!

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Listen to a full version of this episode, including Monica's notes and thoughts about the interview at www.aboutprogress.com or by visiting Monica's Instagram page at @aboutprogress.

Jan 13, 2021
Betrayal Trauma, Part 1 & 2

Are you dealing with betrayal trauma?

Today we are reposting a popular podcast in which Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Scabs of @bloomforwomen about...

-Dishonesty in marriage.

-Healing from marital betrayal.

-How to move forward after a breach of trust.

-What infidelity in marriage can show you about your spouse and yourself.

-How you can become stronger in the face of betrayal.

-How to rebuild trust.

This episode was originally published in two parts but is being released today as one combined episode full of all the information you need to overcome betrayal trauma.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Jan 11, 2021
The Teachings of Dr. David Schnarch

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins colleague Natasha Helfer to discuss Dr. Schnarch's teachings and legacy. They take up

-Differentiation theory and Dr. David Schnarch's impact in the field of therapy.

-Differentiation and how it's related to strong relationships and a solid sense of self.

-How to better manage anxiety within your relationship and family.

-Common relational and sexual challenges facing those who have grown up in a religiously conservative culture.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Jan 07, 2021
Dr. Finlayson-Fife Talks With Colleague About Dr. Schnarch's Impact and Differentiation-Based Work

In honor of David Schnarch, professional colleague Dr. Dave Jenkins, interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about

-How she came to find Dr. Schnarch's work

-Personal growth that has come from her experience as a therapist and coach.

-The value of seeking for truth even when it's disorienting.

-How her practice has been influenced by Dr. David Schnarch's life and work.

-The importance of differentiation in human development and creating peace within oneself and healthy relationships

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Jan 05, 2021
Supporting Healthy Sexuality and Identity in Our LDS LGBTQ Children

Talking to your kids about sex is a high anxiety experience for many parents!

For LDS families with an LGBTQ child, it can be even more challenging.

In this podcast episode, Allison from www.liftandlove.org and Jenie with Jenie Hunter Coaching talk with Dr. Finlayson-Fife about how to raise LGBTQ children and youth with a healthy sense of their sexuality and of their identity as a child of God.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Jan 02, 2021
The Perils of Perfectionism

Monica Packer of the About Progress Podcast asks Dr. Finlayson-Fife for her thoughts on perfectionism, how to make sense of it, and how to overcome it.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Dec 23, 2020
Creating Intimacy and Friendship in a Two-Career Household

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Monica Tanner of the "On The Brighter Side" podcast talk about entrepreneurism and its impact on relationships.  Jennifer and Monica discuss..


-Why it can be difficult to ask for support from a spouse when you have a meaningful ambition.

-The challenges that entrepreneurs often confront in their intimate relationships, given the sacrifices and emotional demands of a creative endeavor.

-How to maintain your sense of self in the midst of entrepreneurial demands along with the responsibilities of marriage, and  parenting, and work.   

-How to address resentment that emerge in marriage productively.


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.


Dec 21, 2020
Whole Hearted Loving & Stage 3 Sex

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Dan Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On podcast.


They discuss...


-The 3 stages of sexual development, and how to bring your marriage to the next level.

-The importance of fostering erotic energy in your relationship.

-How to go from having sex to deep connection through love-making.


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Dec 21, 2020
When You Feel Like You’re Trying More Than Your Spouse

In this conversation with Tony Overbay of the Virtual Couch podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about living with a narcissistic spouse AND the frustrating pursuer-distancer dynamic common to many couples.  


Here are some of the specific things Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses....


-How to function in a relationship when your spouse has narcissistic traits or tendencies.


-Where you are vulnerable when living with or loving someone who won't self-confront or change. 


-How to make sense of and address the experience of feeling more invested than your spouse. 


-How to grow in your capacity for an open hearted relationship if you tend to stay arm's length. 


-Understanding attachment or relational styles (such as being “clingy”, or “walled off” in relationship) and how to grow into a more self-sustaining and relational position.

 

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.


Dec 14, 2020
Developing Spiritual Maturity

Jody Moore of the Better Than Happy Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of Spiritual Maturity. They discuss..

-The importance of spiritual maturity and how to achieve it.

-How to live life more honestly and in line with your integrity.

-The process of approaching obedience with wisdom.

-The true meaning of modesty and how to teach it wisely.

-How perfectionism is a counterfeit virtue, and what real goodness looks like.

-What the fruits of spiritual maturity are.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Dec 07, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 3

In this popular three-part interview from 2012, Dr. Finlayson-Fife with the Mormon Mental Health podcast discusses her dissertation research on LDS women and sexuality.

This is part 3 of Jennifer's first-EVER podcast appearance!


Jennifer discusses the questions and findings of her research, looking at LDS women and the impact of a patriarchal religious structure on their peace with sexuality and sense of sexual agency.


The third and final part of this conversation covers the following topics...


-How to stand up for better in a sexless marriage

-How to foster desire in marriage

-Masturbation in marriage

-Erotica and pornography


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Dec 04, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 2

In this popular 2012 interview, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Natasha Helfer of the Mormon Mental Health podcast to discuss her dissertation research on LDS women and sexuality.


This 3-part interview was Jennifer's first-EVER (and one of her most-listened-to) podcasts!


Jennifer discusses the questions and findings of her research, looking at LDS women and the impact of a patriarchal religious structure on their peace with sexuality and sense of sexual agency.


The second part of this unique conversation covers the following topics...


-How parents can teach healthy sexuality

-The impact of the language we use around sexual addiction and pornography addiction

-Low desire in women and

-How to understand fantasy 


Part 3 will be released later this week!


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.


Dec 03, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 1

In this 2012 interview, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Natasha Helfer of the Mormon Mental Health podcast to discuss her dissertation research on LDS women and sexuality.  


This 3 part interview was Jennifer's foray into podcast interviewing!  Jennifer discusses the questions and findings of her research, look at LDS women and the impact of a patriarchal religious structure on their peace with sexuality and sense of sexual agency. 


This unique conversation delves deeply into Dr. Finlayson-Fife's experiences leading up to her research, that informed her questions and perspectives that she now uses in all her most popular courses.


Parts 2 and 3 will be released later this week!


To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

www.Finlayson-Fife.com

You can also listen to this episode on Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyTuneIn, and Stitcher.

The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.


Dec 03, 2020
Overcoming Unwanted Pornography Use

In this interview, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Cameron Staley, clinical psychologist and researcher, to discuss the topic of unwanted pornography use and how to address it.


This podcast episode is for...


-Those personally struggling with unwanted pornography use.

-The spouse of someone who views pornography. 

-Anyone seeking to better understand and protect against unhealthy sexual behavior patterns.


Watch this interview on YouTube by clicking HERE.


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This episode was originally aired on November 11, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Dec 03, 2020
How to Own Your Desires & The Art of Intimacy

In her conversation with Felica Allen of "Find The Magic Podcast", Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses

-How women can find authentic pleasure in sexuality.

-How to forge meaningful happiness.

-How to take deeper responsibility for your life

To hear more from Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of female sexuality, click HERE!

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This episode was originally aired on October 27, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Nov 17, 2020
Sex Advice For Women

In this interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Courtney of the The Spa Trouve Podcast to talk about...


Developing comfort with one's own sexuality.

The importance of communicating honestly with a partner.

What to do about painful of uncomfortable sex.

And how to increase one's desire for sex.


To hear more from Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of singles and sexuality, click HERE! We've created an entire blog post dedicated to articles, presentations, videos, and podcasts in which Dr. Finlayson-Fife tackles this important subject!

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This episode was originally aired on October 27, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Nov 09, 2020
Why The Struggle Is Worth It

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kami Banks of the Beyond Your Comfort Zone Podcast to discuss...

How and why to invest in yourself

The importance of differentiation and independence in being happy

How to self-validate and gain greater confidence in who you are

Learning from challenges

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This episode was originally aired on October 21, 2020.

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Nov 02, 2020
Chastity, Consent, and Other Sexy Things

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Find Your Person Podcast to discuss the topic of singles, relationships, and sexuality!


She address...


What healthy boundaries during dating look like.

The importance of sexual attraction in dating and marriage choice.

How to "course correct" while dating and recommit to shared goals.

Differences and similarities between male and female sexuality.

How to foster healthy sexuality in a dating relationship while staying true to ideals such as the law of chastity.

To hear more from Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of singles and sexuality, click HERE! We've created an entire blog post dedicated to articles, presentations, videos, and podcasts in which Dr. Finlayson-Fife tackles this important subject!

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This episode was originally aired on October 22, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Oct 23, 2020
How to Improve Your Relationships By Improving Yourself

In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sarah Bauer of the @artofplaypodcast to discuss

✔️What your feelings of resentment are trying to tell you

✔️How to foster greater self-respect

✔️How self-development will positively benefit all your relationships

✔️How to tap into your own desires

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This episode was originally aired on October 9, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Oct 12, 2020
How to Fix Your Relationship With a Partnership Mindset

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jeff and Sheldon of the Idea Gym podcast to talk about...

✔️ The foundational structure of an intimate marriage.

✔️ How to participate in a marriage where both partners thrive.

✔️ How to come to peace with our desires (both sexual and otherwise).

✔️ The importance of honesty with yourself and within your marriage in creating a peaceful partnership.

✔️ The difference between intimacy and validation. AND MORE!

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This episode was originally aired on September 30, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Oct 02, 2020
What to Do When You Hate Sex

In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast to discuss

-How to stop hating sex

-How to make sense of your negative feelings towards physical intimacy.

-The importance of sexual self-development in your personal confidence.

-The importance of pleasure in living joyfully.

AND MORE!

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This episode was originally aired on September 25, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Sep 28, 2020
Sexuality & Happiness, A Positive View of Sex and Sexuality

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andy Proctor of the @morehappylife podcast to discuss…

-How parents can better talk to their kids about sexuality and pleasure (without embarrassment).

-The gift of human embodiment and sensuality.

-How people who experience themselves as addicted to sex can take more control of their choices.

-How to think about sexuality as a religious single person in a way that facilitates your well-being.

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This episode was originally aired on September 18, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Sep 23, 2020
Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this episodes, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Allan and Katie from the Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of sexuality and garments in a mixed-faith marriage.


This episode also includes discussion about...


-Why we are often quick to judge others choices when they invalidate our own.

-How and why we try to control or manipulate our spouse's beliefs or choices and how to better control ourselves (rather than others).

-How to better respect integrity-based decisions, even when they differ from our own.


Listen now by clicking on the link in our bio or by tuning in to Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive, now available on all your favorite podcast platforms!


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This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.


Sep 21, 2020
Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Bree and Adam of the Better Me with BodyByBree podcast to do a couples' coaching session! During their conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -Differences/imbalances in desire between them -She exposes the implicit meaning frames between them that create resentment and undermine desire -She offers them a new way of thinking about their choices to create a sense of closeness and friendship -How to develop more confidence and courage in the marriage To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.  www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
Sep 10, 2020
Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tamara K. Anderson of the “Stories of Hope in Hard Times” podcast to discuss

-Self sufficiency

-Overcoming self-doubt

-Building self-confidence

-Finding strength in trails and

-Learning from the imperfections of life.

Jennifer talks about her own experiences with self-doubt and suffering and the lessons she learned about herself, life, and God in the face of these challenging times.

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This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Sep 03, 2020
Finding Common Ground in a Mixed-Faith Marriage

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of mixed faith marriage!


Jennifer addresses topics such as

✔️How you can find shared values and spiritual practices when one stops believing.

✔️How you can deal with condescension from family or friends about a spouse's shift in belief.

✔️How each person in the couple can handle the difference in belief maturely or tyrannically.

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This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Aug 25, 2020
How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Mike Frazier with Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast to talk about...

-Female sexuality and desire.

-Why you need to stop being “pathetic” :-) and what to do instead.

-How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s attractive and effective.

-How to better take ownership of your own sexuality in a way that will bless your marriage.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.

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You can learn more about Mike Frazier, MD here.

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Aug 13, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.

QUESTION #1

My wife had a baby 6 months ago, and is afraid to have sex with me again. I've tried to get her to open up to me about what is going on, and why she is so anxious. I've let her dictate the pace of things so far, but if it were up to her, I'm not sure we'd ever have sex again.

Before the baby, sex was a struggle for her. She was unsure of what she liked and what felt good. If I accidentally stumbled on something that felt good, and she had an orgasm, I would try to repeat whatever I was doing during the next session, but that was rarely successful. I'm beside myself trying to figure out what can be done to help her learn to enjoy being intimate with me. What can I do? Or, what can I encourage her to do? Help!

QUESTION #2

I think I had an emotional affair. I’ve been married to my wife for almost a decade, and she’s the absolute best. She truly is my best friend and a wonderful mother to our three kids. After almost 10 years of marriage things have gotten pretty routine, but not necessarily complacent. We still laugh and talk and enjoy each other, but sometimes the routine gets a little stale.

A couple of years ago, I texted a female friend. We were friends in high school but hadn’t kept in touch until I reached out about a business proposition. It was pretty innocent, but over time became pretty flirty until she eventually proposed the idea of an affair. I immediately severed ties with her and told my wife what she had said. This happened more 7 months ago. We haven’t spoken since, but I honestly miss her. I think about her all the time, almost daily. I miss how we would make each other laugh and our deep conversations through texts. I miss being desired by someone new... or at all. It has gotten easier over time, but I could use some direction.

Was this an emotional affair? Should I tell my wife about it? How can I phrase it sensitively, if so? And how can I deal with this feeling of wanting to reach out to my former friend all the time? How do I replace the feelings of excitement that I was getting from her? Or do I have to learn deal without that excitement all together? I know... I’ve got issues.

QUESTION #3

My question is about sexuality and chronic illness. How do you navigate sexuality and desire when one partner has a normal high sex drive and the other is sick and has barely any energy for anything. Even washing my hair is difficult most days.

Before we were married I had a great drive, but very soon after I became very very sick. I try to be sexual as much as possible, but I feel guilty about not being able to meet his needs. Most of the time I would rather die than put the necessary energy into sex. Do you have any ideas for strategies to employ when his desire is high but my energy is low?

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Aug 10, 2020
Obedience and Integrity

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to talk about the topic of obedience. They discuss questions such as…

-When is it good to yield to the authority of another?

-What is the difference between the choice to comply based in moral courage vs. obedience that is dangerous?

-What is the risk in valuing obedience as an inherent virtue, and how do we reconcile the value of humility with moral responsibility?

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

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Jul 29, 2020
How to Choose More Happiness

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities.

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

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Jul 15, 2020
Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Dan Wotherspoon, host of "Mormon Matters" interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Natasha Helfer Parker about the messaging around modesty and sexuality and how to teach our sexual values most productively.

Topics that come up during this discussion include:

-Modesty

-Rape culture

-The rhetoric we use in the church surrounding modesty.

-How to talk to young women about modesty.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jul 02, 2020
Men and Intimacy

In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about...

-False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality.

-How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal.

-How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma.

-A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)!

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jun 22, 2020
Defining Ourselves Through External Influences

In a conversation with life coach Heather Frazier of Pivot Parenting Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about...

✔️ Why we measure ourselves by external things.

✔️ How to be true to yourself.

✔️ How to foster integrity and confidence in your children.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jun 17, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 31 - LIVE

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions relating to…

-Depression and sexual arousal.

-Loss of attraction for a spouse.

-Sexuality and desire during pregnancy.

-Fantasy as a form of intimate connection.

-Making sense of the practice of polygamy and how the theology can impact intimacy in modern marriages.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Jun 04, 2020
The Psychology of Men's Sexuality

In a conversation with clinical psychologist Zac Rhodenizer of The Psychology Of Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the the psychology of male sexuality.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like...

-What women have a hard time understanding about male sexuality.

-What men have a hard time understanding about male sexuality.

-How to respond to sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, and performance anxiety, etc.).

-Understanding the male lower desire partner.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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May 25, 2020
How to Own Your Highest Desires

In a conversation with Makenzie VanWinkle of the "My Audience Is Me" Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about what it looks like to live your life from your highest desires.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics like...

-Why it’s important to lean into our desires.

-The difference between desire from the best in ourselves vs. the worst in ourselves.

-How people pleasing can negatively impact your relationship and peace of mind.

-What a life led by your higher desires might look like and how to get there.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

May 14, 2020
Interfaith Relationships & Faith Crisis During Marriage

In this discussion with Sarah Mendenhall of the Sitting Down With Sarah Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to questions such as…

-What are the stages that couples go through when facing a faith challenge?

-Can you arrive at shared values in a mixed-faith relationship?

-Can you live in two different paradigms of belief and still be friends and good parents?

-How can you talk to your kids about a parent's faith transition?

-How can you teach your children shared values when each parent believes differently?

-How can you find the courage to love in the face of difference?

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

May 07, 2020
Self-Development For Men - Part 2

In part two of of her discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...

✔️Taking greater responsibility for yourself.

✔️Finding greater meaning and purpose in your life.

✔️How to better measure success and happiness.

✔️Understanding sex as a powerful form of communication.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

May 05, 2020
Self-Development For Men - Part 1

In a discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...

✔️Understanding the relationship between anxiety and depression and externalized expectations.

✔️Claiming your life choices in the face of pressures from others.

✔️Understanding resentment and what it can teach you about yourself.

✔️Balancing expectations and freedom appropriately to foster self-development in your child.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 29, 2020
The Higher Desire Wife

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to discuss the higher desire wife and the lower desire husband relationship dynamic.

This episode addresses

-The difference between validation and intimacy.

-The difference between noble sacrifice and martyrdom.

-Some of the reasons for low desire in a husband.

-How to create a more honest and intimate relationship with your spouse.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 22, 2020
Sex After Loss

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Amy Watson from the Smooth Stones Podcast to discuss intimacy after loss.

This episode addresses

-How to keep anxiety about pregnancy from affecting your sexual relationship.

-How to address feelings of guilt about sex and pleasure following the loss of a pregnancy.

-How to compassion towards self and others is fundamental to processing loss and grief.

-How to maintain a healthy relationship with your body, even if it has let you down.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Apr 16, 2020
Developing Emotional Maturity
00:45:54

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson Fife and Preston Pugmire of the Next Level Life Podcast examine emotional maturity, its roots, its effects and how to invest in your own self-development in order to thrive in relationships and business.

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Apr 09, 2020
Women's Bodies and Cultural Religious Mixed Messages

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cherie Burton to talk about:

-How women often become disempowered sexually in religious traditions.

-How many religious traditions (often unknowingly) contribute to body shaming, inhibit self-expression, and undermine self-development.

-How women can foster a stronger self in their lives and spiritual practices.

-How women can foster peace with their sexuality.

AND MORE!

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Mar 31, 2020
Devoutly Religious and Sex Positive

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins The Betrayed, The Addicted, and The Expert Podcast to talk about:

-The common relational patterns at the root of addiction and betrayal and how to change these dysfunctional dynamics.

-How to relate to religious belief to foster courage and integrity rather than fear.

-What “sex-positive” means in a religious context.

-How women can integrate their sexuality without being vulnerable to a sexually irresponsible or indulgent spouse.

-How to understand aspects of sexual compulsivity.

AND MORE!

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Mar 26, 2020
Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human
00:54:10

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Preston from the Mettle Mentality Podcast to talk about the following:

-The importance of intimacy in happiness.
-Perfectionism and its challenge to openness / intimacy.
-Understanding shame and guilt.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Mar 18, 2020
Resentment and How it’s Affecting Your Marriage
01:07:28

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sara Payne from the The Doctor’s Wife Podcast to talk about resentment. Listen to this episode and learn the following:

-Learn what resentment can teach you about yourself

-Understand how resentment affects sexual desire

-Learn about intimate marriages and making room for two equal partners.

-Understand how you may participate in being taken for granted.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Mar 09, 2020
Setting Boundaries
00:21:25

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cami Hurst from the Sex Therapy 101 Podcast to talk about learning to say no safely. They talk about topics such as learning to set boundaries and dealing with a spouse’s pornography use.

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Mar 03, 2020
Understanding Sexual Development
00:22:38

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about healthy sexual development. They talk about how to teach your kids about sexuality without shame and fear.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Feb 24, 2020
Understanding Desire
00:42:56

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate a Good Life Podcast to talk about desire. They talk about what desire is, why it matters, and how to identify and develop the desires you have.

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Feb 20, 2020
Interview With my Mom - (AKA Dr. Finlayson-Fife)
00:17:42

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins her daughter Jane to talk her career as a marriage counselor and the things she’s learned along the way. This interview was done for a journalism project in Jane’s 8th grade class. We ask that you please excuse any background noise caused by Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s family and dog.

This episode also covers topics like how to create a happy marriage, the kind of impact your marriage is having on your kids, and what Dr. Finlayson-Fife wishes more people knew before getting married.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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Feb 13, 2020
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Mormon Sex Therapist Talks About Integrity and Sexuality
01:02:49

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Women With Fire Podcast to talk about topics such as sexuality, integrity, and teaching our kids about sex and desire.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares about her experiences that led her to become a relationship and sexuality therapist. This episode also covers topics like female sexuality and desire, integrity versus compliance, and how to teach youth about sexuality.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on September 24th 2019.

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Feb 12, 2020
HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE BY HEALING YOUR BODY IMAGE

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Stephanie Webb from Eat Confident Co to talk about body image.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers her perspective on how a woman’s relationship with her body influences her intimate relationship, how to set healthy boundaries in a marriage, and how to empower yourself as an equal partner in your marriage by healing your relationship with your body.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on February 5th 2020.

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Feb 05, 2020
Choosing Your Partner
00:36:30

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rich and Celeste from the Marriage Theraoke podcast to talk about how we deal with the dissatisfaction in our marriages and how to more fully CHOOSE our partner every day.

This podcast episode explains how you can get from “I HAVE to be with my partner” to the freedom of “I CHOOSE to be with my partner”.

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This episode was originally aired on January 24th 2020.

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You can access our VALENTINE'S DAY SALE here. This sale begins on January 29th 2020.

Jan 28, 2020
Goal Setting and Collaboration in Marriage
00:31:26

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Monica Tanner of On The Brighter Side Podcast. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about setting personal goals and setting goals as a couple. She goes into detail about what collaborative goals look like and common pitfalls/problems that come up when trying to keep new goals, and how to overcome these.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife ends the episode talking about how to care for your mental health this year and how to have the best 2020 possible.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on January 6th 2020.

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Jan 14, 2020
Q&A With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
00:59:04

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Ray Cox and Ellen Hersam from the Improving Intimacy in Mormon Marriages Facebook group. Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions about neediness, using sex to avoid conflict, differences in desire, and advice for newly weds.

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This episode was originally aired on January 6th 2020.

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Jan 09, 2020
The Lower Desire Wife
00:29:44

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife.

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This episode was originally aired in October, 2019.

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Jan 06, 2020
Raising Our Children in an Over Sexualized World
00:43:01

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Jodi Chaffee from Our Modern Heritage about how to raise kids in an overly sexualized world.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on December 17th, 2019.

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Dec 19, 2019
Singles and Sexuality - Navigating With Clarity and Integrity
00:45:03

This podcast episode is an audio recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s presentation Sexuality and Singledom: Navigating with Clarity and Integrity. This presentation was recorded in New York City at a singles’ conference called “Of One Body: The State of Mormon Singledom.”

This recording was originally published by Mormon Singledom on Soundcloud 4 years ago.

Because this presentation was recorded on a cell phone, the audio is rather quiet. You may need to turn up the volume higher than your used to on this one!

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You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 13, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 2
00:30:18

In this episode, Bloom for Women interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. This is a continuation of the discussion that was begun in part 1. The topic of this conversation is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on June 1st 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at Bloomforwomen.Com.

Dec 12, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 1
00:21:04

The Bloom for Women team interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. The topic is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on May 28th 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at Bloomforwomen.Com.

Dec 12, 2019
The Art of Belonging
00:30:22

In an interview for the Love Rice podcast series from Bloom for Women, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about how to belong to others as well as ourselves. She also explains how reconciling these tensions is related to our spiritual development.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on February 16th, 2017.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at bloomforwomen.com.

Dec 09, 2019
How to Choose More Happiness
00:34:08

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 06, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 5

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the the Rational Faiths Podcast Team to answer two questions:

Question number one is about how to teach young women about the Law of Chastity

Question number two is about the problem of pornography.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 1st, 2015.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Dec 04, 2019
Developing Selfhood

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the question:

How does one develop a solid sense of self within groups that celebrate "selflessness" as a feminine virtue?

Christy Crowe Hughes interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of women, selfhood, and moral development, referencing Carol Gilligan’s Stage Development Theory.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 19th 2015.

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Nov 29, 2019
Can You Choose Love?
00:13:34

The Mormon Channel Daily interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on love and how to make your marriage better.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on January 16th 2018.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 27, 2019
Women's Sexuality, Desire, Pornography, and Talking to Our Kids About Sex
00:30:56

In this episode, Jody Moore interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about women's sexuality and desire, pornography and talking to our kids about sex.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 10th 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 26, 2019
Virtue, Passion, and Owning Your Desire
00:53:14

In this interview with Nate Bagley from the Loveumentary, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about the following topics: how a patriarchal view of sex can be damaging to your relationship, why it's important to take ownership of your own desires and your own sexuality, helpful tips for experiencing orgasm, and how good sex takes lots of practice.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on December 1st 2016.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 25, 2019
The Law of Chastity - Shame Free
00:43:52

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jody Moore for a discussion about how to teach our kids about their sexuality and the law of chastity without inviting shame, with children from infancy through the young adult years.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on February 24th 2017.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.t our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 24th 2017.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 22, 2019
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Therapist, Counselor, Mormon
00:50:27

In this episode, Latter Day Lives Podcast host Sean Rapier interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about her journey discovering worth and strength as a woman in the church. They also talk about the marriage, intimacy and issues facing today’s LDS couples.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on July 8th 2018.

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Nov 21, 2019
Developing a Relationship With Your Sexuality and Desire
00:47:14

In an interview with Rhonda Farr, an LDS sexual intimacy coach, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses the importance of developing one’s relationship with one’s own sexuality and desire. Rhonda Farr and Dr. Finlayson-Fife talk about how understanding the parts of yourself that you don't currently love, can actually lead you to find greater confidence. You can also listen to this interview on YouTube.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on November 5th 2018.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 20, 2019
The Higher Desire Partner
00:47:11

In this episode, the Marriage Laboratory interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife in an episode focusing on the high desire partner in a sexual relationship.

“This can be a tricky position to be in because you can feel very stuck and powerless to improve your situation. Manipulating, coercing, and pressuring may get you what you want in the short term, but have lots of negative consequences in a relationship.”

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on February 14th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

In an interview with Rhonda Farr, an LDS sexual intimacy coach, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses the importance of developing one’s relationship with one’s own sexuality and desire. Rhonda Farr and Dr. Finlayson-Fife talk about how understanding the parts of yourself that you don't currently love, can actually lead you to find greater confidence. You can also listen to this interview on YouTube.

Nov 19, 2019
Sexuality and Healthy Marriage Relationships
00:51:39

In this podcast episode, Greg Reynolds from the Marriage Mastery Podcast speaks with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the importance of healthy sexual expression in marriage. They touch on topics such as the differences in male and female sexuality and how to create a happy relationship in which both members can thrive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on September 5th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 18, 2019
Help! I Want to Change My Spouse!
00:34:30

In a new "About Progress" Podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Monica Packer about our fruitless efforts to change a loved one, and what productive choices you can make instead!


"It's easy to take out your anger on a spouse. It's much harder to tolerate addressing hard things, that destabilize both of you, and stay on it long enough to solve it.”

-Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on November 13th 2019.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 14, 2019
LDS Conceptions of Motherhood
01:43:47

In this podcast episode, Dan Wotherspoon from Mormon Matters Podcast, Chelsea Fife, Chelsea Strayer, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife discuss Mormonism’s messages about motherhood.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.

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This episode was originally aired on August 30th 2011.

You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.

Nov 12, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 29 - LIVE
00:40:14

In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to address the following questions…

Question # 1 - “My wife and I are trying to conceive. This is one of the most stressful times of my life, and stress is a major anti-aphrodisiac for me. How do I confront the pressure to perform?”

Question # 2 - "My wife has a “fun” sexual past with her high school boyfriends. Before we dated she had shared too many of those experiences with me. I was fine with it, until I woke up to her crying on our wedding night. It triggered a jealousy and resentment where I feel she gave “them” her fun self. I got the Mormon prude and they got the fun girl. I love her, but I feel like she has never chosen me. I get that I’m at fault with the unforgiving heart and mad with jealousy that has built emotional walls. I feel like all our sex has been mercy sex. I don’t even want to have sex with her because that’s what it is. When we become intimate all I can see is her doing “this” with “them.” It makes me regret and feel bitterness that I strived to stay a virgin and be as "clean" as I could. I feel like I have lived life wrong. Since she is a terrific good person and she has the “dirty” past, she is the better more healthy person while I am the bitter/resentful seminary graduate boy. It makes me hate myself that I can’t get over that. I’m over 15 years into this and the cloud just gets darker and bigger. How can I start becoming more intimate with my wife while suffering with this intense jealousy? I just finished your course enhancing sexual intimacy and I am grateful for you and what you are doing. So, thank you and I would love to here your answer knowing it will be painful.”

This episode is part two of the two part live podcast recording.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 11th 2019.

Nov 06, 2019
Cognitive Dissonance and Faith Transition
01:20:15

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins A Thoughtful Faith Podcast to discuss the topic of cognitive dissonance and faith transition.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 25th 2013.

Nov 05, 2019
Dealing With a Pornography Disclosure
01:19:21

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Natasha Helfer Parker from Mormon Sex Info to discuss the topic of how to best handle a pornography disclosure within a couple system.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 10th 2019.

Nov 05, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 28 - LIVE
00:53:35

In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to talk about…

-The story of what inspired Dr. Finlayson-Fife to dedicate her education and career to helping LDS women and couples improve their relationships and their lives.

-Two questions are answered, both asked by women:

Question ONE addresses the cultural pressure to suppress sexuality and how to overcome it. Because the stereotype of a good LDS woman seems to not include comfort with her sexuality, how does one not succumb to this instinctively?

Question TWO addresses one woman’s inability to orgasm. Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the psychological shifts as well as behaviors that can help achieve or expand one’s capacity for climax.

This episode is one of two parts of the live recording. Part 29 is the second half of this live interview.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 6th 2019.

Oct 22, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 27
00:40:44

The Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast series has moved from Rational Faiths to Mormon Marriages with Nate and Angilyn Bagley. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics such as managing different levels of desire and premature ejaculation.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 14th, 2019.

Oct 21, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 26
00:49:38

In this Rational Faiths podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers two new questions:

The first question covers the question of how to make sense of wet dreams in the context of marriage, and how to address differences in sexual desire and biological needs in constructive ways.

The second question addresses the role of erotica and visually explicit imagery in a woman cultivating her desire in marriage. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also addresses the upcoming transition for the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on July 9th 2019.

Oct 18, 2019
The Lower Desire Wife
00:29:33

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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Oct 17, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 25
00:45:16

In this podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to address three questions sent in by listeners. The first question is regarding maintaining intimacy in long distance relationships, the second is about discomfort with “talking dirty” during sex, and the last question is about masturbation.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on December 18th 2018.

Oct 17, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 24
00:44:24

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to respond to two questions. One question is about navigating intimacy after having learned to orgasm after many years of going without. The second question asks how to respond in a relationship in which the spouse is habitually deceptive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 18th 2018.

Oct 16, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 23
00:48:25

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to respond to three new questions, all coming from men, covering topics of intimacy after tragic loss, disparity in desire, and becoming a more confident lover.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 21st 2018.

Oct 15, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 22
00:55:37

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to answer two questions : The first question is about the impact of childhood sexual abuse and parental negligence on desire and intimacy in one woman's marriage. The second question is about a man whose wife wants him to be more sexually assertive.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 6th 2018.

Oct 14, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 21
00:41:06

Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths team tackle two questions submitted by listeners. The first asks about “dirty/degrading” talk during sex and the second seeks advice on teaching about sex in a positive way.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 28th 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 19
00:46:27

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer two questions submitted by listeners about infidelity in marriage.

One question comes from a man whose wife had a series of affairs, and the other question from a woman whose husband was deceptive about his involvement with another woman. Both questions address the issue of trust and trustworthiness : How it is created or ascertained, and how we sometimes collude in not knowing things about our spouse we are not sure we can handle.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife also makes a distinction between forgiving a spouse vs. reconciling with a spouse, and how to participate in creating a more trustworthy marriage.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on May 3rd 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 18
00:52:46

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer three listener questions. The first question is about a sexually entitled husband who is unresponsive to his wife’s wishes, the second question is about the use of vibrators, and the third question is from a person navigating a mixed-orientation marriage

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on April 4th 2017.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 16
00:52:17

In the 16th installment of the Ask A Mormon Sex Therapist series Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to two more questions submitted from listeners. One focuses on nudity and modesty, and the second question comes from a person in a really tough position in a sexless marriage in which discussion and negotiation of sexual relations are off limits.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 30th 2016.

Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 15
00:34:08

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss the results of a study about sexual arousal, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers a question from a listener who is frustrated at inability to reach orgasm during intercourse.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on August 8th 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 14
01:00:30

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about understanding and responding to pornography challenges as well as low sexual desire in men.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on June 3rd 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 13
00:38:26

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss ways to spice up your sex life, how to navigate a robust sex life with older children in the home, and how to cope with physical ailments that often come with age like erectile dysfunction.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on February 2nd 2016.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 12
00:52:15

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to take on questions about the cultural anxiety surrounding oral sex in a married relationship, and about objectification and appropriate lust.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on November 22nd 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 11

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about overcoming the perceived threat of spouse's previous sexual experiences (including pornography), and the effect on desire and self-confidence. They also address the topic of long distance sexual relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on October 16th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 10
00:42:51

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about how to raise children (especially girls) to own their sexuality and how to help children navigate worthiness interviews.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on September 6th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 9
00:41:48

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about what you can do as the higher desire person to improve your sexual relationship. They also have a discussion on LDS male sexuality.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on July 24th 2015.

Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 8
00:51:52

In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths Podcast team discuss household duties, relationship dynamics, female desire, and LDS singles and sexuality.

To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events.

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This episode was originally aired on May 30th 2015.

Oct 09, 2019