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Partnered with a Survivor is a professional-focused podcast created and produced by Ruth Reymundo and hosted by the Safe & Together Institute. What began as intimate conversations between Ruth and David Mandel—founder of the Institute and creator of the Safe & Together Model—about violence, relationships, abuse, and the systems that respond to them has grown into a global conversation about systems and culture change.
Hosted by Ruth and co-hosted by David, the podcast features in-depth, professionally grounded discussions about how institutions respond to domestic abuse, gender-based violence, and child maltreatment. Many episodes also feature global leaders working across fields such as child safety, men and masculinity, perpetrator accountability, fatherhood, and partnering with survivors.
Together, these conversations examine how systems often fail adult and child survivors, how societal narratives about masculinity and violence shape professional practice, and how intersectional realities—including cultural and religious beliefs, racialised identities, LGBTQ+ experiences, immigration status, disability, and other structural vulnerabilities—shape responses to abuse and violence.
The podcast offers an insider lens into how professionals navigate systems not only as practitioners, but also as parents and partners. Through candid dialogue and critical reflection, Ruth and David challenge the assumptions and structures that limit meaningful accountability, safety, and healing. The goal is collective movement across systems, cultures, and families toward greater safety, nurturance, and sustained change.
Disclaimer: Episodes contain sensitive topics and occasional mature language that may be difficult for some listeners. The views and opinions expressed by podcast guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the Safe & Together Institute or its staff.
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Season 7 Episode 17: “Shop Still Open?”: Sexual Violence, Consent & Gender Double Standards
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Oct 27, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 16: The Myth of Perpetrator Accountability
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Sep 21, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 15: Why Men’s Behaviour Change Requires More Than a Program Tick Box
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Sep 14, 2026 |
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Special Episode: A Safe & Together Expert at Your Side: The Digital Coach and Insight Engine
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Aug 03, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 14: Working with Your Partner: Family Business, Culture & Power with Aiwan Obinyan and Dr. Tamanda Walker
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Jul 21, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 13: Reproductive Coercion: Breaking Down the Hidden Signs with LC De Shay
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Jul 08, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 12: Clare's Law Explained: What Survivors Deserve to Know About Their Partner's Past
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 11: Why Coercive Control Laws Alone Won't Protect Women and Children with Dr. Marsha Scott
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May 20, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 10: The Assumptions That Put LGBTQ Survivors at Risk
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May 11, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 9: When Systems Fracture Identity: A Métis Perspective on Belonging and Accountability
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May 01, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 8: Shifting Domestic Violence Practice in Japan with Professor Kanako Masui
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Apr 03, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 7: Coercive Control and Children: What Systems Miss | 2026 Asia Pacific Conference Wrap-Up
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Mar 23, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 6: Domestic Abuse in Queer Relationships
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Mar 16, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 5: AI in Child Protection: Can Technology Make Social Work Safer?
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Feb 25, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 4: When Violence Hides In Plain Sight: Expanding Clinical Curiosity to Protect Children with Dr. Norell Rosado
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 3: How Systems Become Tools of Coercive Control and What Professionals Must Change: An Interview with Valerie Frost
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Jan 26, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 2: 7 Years of Partnership: Survivor Leadership, Systems Change & What Comes Next
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Jan 17, 2026 |
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Season 7 Episode 1: No, You Can’t Arrest Your Way to Healing and Healthy Relationships with Nneka MacGregor
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Jan 05, 2026 |
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Season 6 Episode 24: If “Mother Is In Denial About Domestic Violence” Had a Buzzer, We’d Smash It!!!
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 23: Being Seen at 60: A Birthday Conversation About Vocation, Violence & Hope
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Dec 19, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 22: Real Talk, Real Dads: From Brooklyn to Boyhood to Fatherhood with Kenneth Braswell
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 21: David Challen on How Growing Up with Coercive Control Warps Childhood and Manhood
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 20: Shame, Love & the Truth About Male Violence
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Dec 07, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 19: Inside Ten To Men: What Male Health Reveals About Partner Violence
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Dec 01, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 18: Broken: Women Who Survive and Cause Harm with Lisa Young Larance
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Nov 16, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 17: From Boys to Men: Dr. Kate Fitz-Gibbon on Coercion, Misidentification & Real Prevention
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Nov 06, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 16: Centering Survivor Voices: How Scottish Services Shift Blame, Raise Fatherhood Standards & Heal Families
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 15: When Seeking Safety Makes You More Vulnerable: Migrant Survivors' Dilemma
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 14: Violent Crime & Religion: How Religious Teachings Are Used as Justification for Child Abuse
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Aug 23, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 13: Your Pet Is Not Safe When You're Not Safe: Understanding Animal Abuse in Coercive Control
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Aug 18, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 12: Power and Pulpits: The Truth About How Religious Leaders Groom Adults
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Aug 12, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 11: We Are Not Our Trauma: Exploring Post-Traumatic Growth Beyond Deficit Models in Therapy with Oli Doyle
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Jul 29, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 10: A Champion's Journey to System-Wide Change: A Conversation with Kyra Feetham About Transforming Practice
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 9: See the Person, Not Just the Problem: Kelly Daley's Award-Winning Approach
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 8: The Prevention-Response Nexus: Keeping Children Safe While Breaking Cycles of Abuse
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May 14, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 7: Every Man: A Candid Conversation on Male Violence and Social Change with Jackson Katz
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May 05, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 6: Broken Blue Line: Confronting Officer-Perpetrated Domestic Violence
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 5: Coercive Control and Children 2025: Conference Insights from Melbourne
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 4: The Paradox of Proximity: Understanding Domestic Abuse in Rural and Remote Communities
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Feb 10, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 3: Rethinking Gender-Based Violence Prevention: A Call to Action with Jess Hill and Michael Salter
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Jan 31, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 2: Coercive Control and Children
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Jan 25, 2025 |
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Season 6 Episode 1: "Just Leave": Examining Displacement-Based Responses to Domestic Violence
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Jan 02, 2025 |
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Season 5 Episode 13: Coercive Control & Children Conference Podcast: The Role of Language in Global Responses to Domestic Abuse
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Dec 19, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 12: Challenging the Gospel of Sacrifice: Faith, Domestic Abuse & Institutional Transformation
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Dec 19, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 11: Empowering Children: Healing from Domestic Abuse with Dr. Asha Patel
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Dec 11, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 10: Beyond Presence: Redefining Responsible Fatherhood in a Domestic Abuse–Informed World
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Oct 23, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 9: Partnering vs. Practicing: The Hidden Bias in Professional Crisis Work
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Oct 22, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 8: The Myth of the Domestic Violence Incident
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Jul 29, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 7: Childhood Domestic Violence Exposure Is “Pivotal”: An Interview with Professor Daryl Higgins
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Jul 23, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 6: This Work Is Sacred: An Interview with Beth Ann Morhardt
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Jun 05, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 5: A Trauma History Is Not an Excuse for Acting Abusively
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May 20, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 4: Unveiling the Impact of Domestic Violence on Children: Beyond the Myth of the Child Witness
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Apr 16, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 3: An Introduction to David Mandel’s book “Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers”
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Apr 02, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 2: Women’s Use of Force in Intimate Relationships: An Interview with Lisa Young Larance
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Feb 18, 2024 |
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Season 5 Episode 1: Sexual and Domestic Violence In the Military
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Feb 11, 2024 |
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Season 4 Episode 12: Research That Puts Survivors at the Center
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Dec 09, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 11: Human Resources Policy & Domestic Violence: Creating a Domestic Violence–Informed Organization
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 10: Ensuring the Voice of the Child Is Heard and Child’s Best Interests Are Considered in Domestic Abuse Cases: How the Safe & Together Model Helps Promote the Rights of Children
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Nov 18, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 9: The Last Drop Film: A Revolutionary New Tool for Professionals Working with Young People Around Coercive Control
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Nov 01, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 8: “Heart Healing”: An Interview with Mibbinbah’s Lisa and Jack Bulman
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Oct 18, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 7: Survivors Are Better Parents Than Most People Think (Even Survivors Themselves)
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Jul 06, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 6: "The Professional Part of Me Is Not Separated from the Personal": An Interview with Nneka MacGregor
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Jun 26, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 5: An interview with Caring Dads co-creator Dr. Katreena Scott
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Jun 20, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 4: Being Abused by a Partner While Advocating for Others: An Interview with Leah Vejzovic, Safe & Together Institute's North American Regional Manager
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May 23, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 3: The Silent Effects of Non-Fatal Strangulation: A Conversation with International Lived Experience Expert Nneka MacGregor
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May 05, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 2: Coming “Out” as a Survivor in a Professional Setting: A Practitioner’s Journey
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Apr 27, 2023 |
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Season 4 Episode 1: Using the Concept of Partnering with Survivors to Promote Worker Health and Well-Being
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Feb 27, 2023 |
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Season 3 Episode 13: What Domestic Violence Perpetrators Steal From Survivors
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Dec 20, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 12: Weaponise & Fabricate: How Domestic Violence Perpetrators’ Behaviours Intersect with Survivors’ Mental Health and Substance Misuse Issues
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Nov 20, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 11: Pivoting to the Perpetrator: An Essential Tool for Interrupting Victim-Blaming
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Nov 11, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 10: “Slow Motion Murder:” Widening the Understanding of the Link Between Domestic Violence and Child Deaths
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Oct 14, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 9: Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives: An Interview with Author and Academic Dr. Emma Katz
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Sep 22, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 8: Understanding Reproductive Coercion: An Interview with Dr. Heather McCauley
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Aug 18, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 7: Understanding and Validating Survivors' Acts of Resistance
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Jun 05, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 6: 7 Myths about the Safe & Together Model
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Jun 03, 2022 |
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Season 3 Special Minisode: Interview with Celine Donovan, a New Zealand Safe & Together Model Certified Trainer
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May 27, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 5: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well-Being: Managing Your Own Fears About the Safety of the Family
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May 15, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 4: Reproductive Coercion
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May 10, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 3: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well-Being: When Workers Have Their Own Histories of Abuse
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Feb 06, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 2: Perpetrators' Weaponisation of Mental Health and Addiction Against Survivors
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Jan 17, 2022 |
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Season 3 Episode 1: "This Is a Collective Male Problem:" An Interview with International Journalist Grant Wyeth
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Jan 10, 2022 |
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Season 2 Episode 24: From Police Inspector to “Moral Rebel”: An Interview with Graham Goulden
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Dec 24, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 23: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well-Being: When Workers Are Survivors Themselves
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Nov 27, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 22: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well-Being: The Connection Between Worker Safety and Victim-Blaming
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Nov 27, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 21: Minisode Series on Worker Safety & Well-Being: When Workers Are Targeted by the Perpetrator
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Nov 07, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 20: Minisode Series on Worker Safety & Well-Being: Intro to the series
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Oct 31, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 19: Using the concepts of collaborative co-parenting to hold perpetrators more accountable in family court
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Oct 31, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 18: Multiple Pathways to Harm: An Assessment Approach That Better Mirrors the Lived Experience of Survivors
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Oct 13, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 17: Intervening with Domestic Violence Perpetrators: "We Can't Leave Anything on the Table"
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Sep 18, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 16: "We Have to Remember Who We Are Advocating For": An Interview with Aboriginal Domestic Violence Leader Ashlee Donohue
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Sep 03, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 15: She Is Not Your Rehab: A Global Invitation to Men to End Abuse of Women and Children Through Radical Self-Responsibility and Healing
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Aug 24, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 14: How to Perpetrator-Proof Custody and Access Processes
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Aug 16, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 13: Reparations and the Unique Experience of Black Domestic Violence Survivors: An Interview with Courageous Fire
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Jul 12, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 12: How Coercive Control Harms Child Safety and Well-Being: An Interview with Dr. Emma Katz
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Jun 29, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 11: “We Need a Revolution”: Integration of Trauma Healing and Behavior Change for People Who Choose Violence
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Jun 04, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 10: Trauma-Informed Is Not the Same as Domestic Violence–Informed: A Conversation About the Intersection of Domestic Violence Perpetration, Mental Health & Addiction
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May 17, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 9: Finally! A Realistic Feature Film About Coercive Control: An Interview with Chyna Robinson and Tracy Rector
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Apr 26, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 8: “I Spiraled Down to a Dark Place”: An Interview with a Survivor of Officer-Involved Domestic Violence and His Mum
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Mar 23, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 7: “Radical Resistance to the Status Quo”: A Look Behind the Scottish Coercive Control Law with Dr. Marsha Scott
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Mar 11, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 6: The Male Victim
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Feb 27, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 5: How Professionals and Systems Can Avoid Being Manipulated by Perpetrators
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Feb 16, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 4: Making Good Decisions: How Professionals Use the Safe & Together Model's Critical Components to Help Survivors
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Feb 07, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 3: “Cultural Tsunami”: How the Safe & Together Institute Seeks to Transform Systems
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Jan 31, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 2: Coercive Control Laws: A Discussion with Investigative Reporter and Author Jess Hill
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Jan 18, 2021 |
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Season 2 Episode 1: 6 Steps to Partnering with Survivors
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Jan 16, 2021 |
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Season 1 Episode 33: Our First Season Wrap-Up: Looking Back on PWAS 2020
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Dec 20, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 32: Domestic Violence Advocacy in a Time of Police Reform: An Interview with Leigh Goodmark and the Staff of a Survivor Agency
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Dec 18, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 30: 4 Ways the Concept of Trauma Bonding Works Against Survivors
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Dec 05, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 31: “Acting in Bad Faith”: UK Centre for Women’s Justice Files Groundbreaking “Super-Complaint”
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Dec 05, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 29: Family Courts Are Failing the “Best Interests” of Adult and Child Abuse Survivors: An Interview with Joan Meier
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Nov 12, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 28: “I Have Something I Want to Talk to You About”: A Conversation with Dr. Leanor Boulin Johnson
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Oct 28, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 27: “How Much Crime Are You Willing to Let Your Police Commit?”: An Interview with Retired Lieutenant Detective Mark Wynn and Retired Police Chief Tom Tremblay
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Oct 16, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 26: Listening to the Voices of Survivors of Officer-Involved Domestic Violence: An Interview with Nanette Chezum
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Oct 06, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 25: When Police Officers Commit Domestic Violence: An Interview with Alex Roslin
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Sep 30, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 24: The Healing Power of Survivor Impact Panels
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Sep 23, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 23: Unraveling the Gender Paradox at the Center of the Safe & Together Model
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Sep 07, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 22: When Culture, Religion & Domestic Violence Meet
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Aug 31, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 21: Listening to the Voices of Children and Young People Harmed by Fathers Who Choose Violence: An Interview with Professor Cathy Humphreys and Dr. Katie Lamb
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Aug 21, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 20: Partnering with Survivors Using Restorative Practices: An Interview with Dr. Eloise Sepeda
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Aug 19, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 19: 9 Ways to Collude with a Person Who Chooses Violence
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Jul 30, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 18: Survivors Aren’t Broken: An Intimate Discussion About Support and Partnership in Relationships
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Jul 17, 2020 |
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Special Episode: Charlie Webster Undiscussible on Talk Radio: Recognizing Spiritual and Domestic Abuse
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Jul 08, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 17: Choose to Change: A New Community-Based Men’s Behavior Change Toolkit
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Jun 18, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 16: Family and Friends Guide: How to Be an Ally to a Loved One Who Is Being Abused
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May 04, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 15: Coercive Control, Entrapment & Isolation: An Interview with Luke & Ryan Hart
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Apr 25, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 14: Caring for Self While Caring for Others: An Interview with Laura van Dernoot Lipksy
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Apr 02, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 13: Mapping Domestic Violence Perpetrators' Use of the COVID-19 Pandemic to Increase Coercive Control
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Mar 24, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 12: COVID-19: Helping Families Impacted by Domestic Abuse in a Time of Crisis
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Mar 20, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 11: Getting Inside the Mind of Men Who Use Violence
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Mar 15, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 10: Lived Experience with Ryan Hart and Berry Street's Y-Change Team
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Feb 28, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 9: “My Daughter Is Being Abused and I Don’t Know What to Say”: The Friends & Family Episode
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Feb 21, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 8: Male Parental Development and How Fathers’ Parenting Choices Matter
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Feb 09, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 7: Torture Tactics: How Coercive Control Is Similar to Torture in Its Methods and Impact on Victims
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Feb 06, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 6: Beyond “Toxic Masculinity”: Power, Care & Accountability
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Feb 05, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 5: What We Bring With Us: Trauma, Safety & Professional Practice
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Jan 30, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 4: Gender Double Standards
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Jan 23, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 3: Language and Professional Terms That Cover Up Realities of Abuse
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Jan 15, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 2: Victim-Blaming Is a Systems Problem
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Jan 13, 2020 |
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Season 1 Episode 1: Coercive Control and Consent
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Jan 12, 2020 |