The Shrink Think Podcast

By Aaron Potratz & Nathan Hawkins

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Episodes: 243

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Welcome to the Shrink Think Podcast hosted by Aaron Potratz and Nathan Hawkins, two licensed counselors. With engaging, informative conversations and light-hearted humor, the Shrink Think Podcast aims to normalize and demystify therapy for those beginning or continuing their mental health journey; in short, to bridge the gap between clients and therapists. Episodes are geared toward simplifying complex therapeutic concepts, exploring personal contributions and needs in relation to therapy, and both informing and empowering individuals to know what to expect from the process and their own therapist.

Episode Date
243. If I’m Nice I’m Safe (People-Pleasing)
Sep 17, 2025
242. Your World Is A Reflection Of You
Sep 10, 2025
241. Stop Trying To Be A "Good Client" In Therapy
Sep 03, 2025
240. The Role of Spirituality in Therapy
Aug 06, 2025
239. Medication Can Play A Significant Role In Therapy
Jul 30, 2025
238. Saying "I'm Fine" Is Emotional Dishonesty
Jun 25, 2025
237. Why We Fear Change & Cling To The Unhealthy
May 21, 2025
236. Are You “Too Much” For Your Therapist?
May 21, 2025
235. NAMI Mental Health Resources: Interview w/ Amber Drake
May 14, 2025
234. Clients Who Intellectualize Their Problems But Struggle To Feel
May 07, 2025
233. Clients Who Don't Do Work Between Sessions
Apr 16, 2025
232. Don't Ask What To Do In Therapy
Apr 16, 2025
231. You Should Be Getting Better In Therapy
Mar 26, 2025
230. Is Therapy A Product Or A Service?
Mar 19, 2025
229. Tolerating Emotions
Mar 12, 2025
228. Verbal Processing In Therapy
Mar 05, 2025
225. Gottman’s Four Horsemen: Contempt
Mar 05, 2025
227. Gottman’s Four Horsemen: Stonewalling
Feb 19, 2025
226. Gottman's Four Horsemen: Defensiveness
Feb 13, 2025
224. Gottman’s Four Horsemen: Criticism
Jan 29, 2025
223. Are You Arguing Or Discussing?
Jan 22, 2025
222. Encouraging Someone To Go To Therapy
Jan 15, 2025
221. Get Curious About Yourself with Guest Tory Krone
Jan 08, 2025
220. When Your Therapist Is Extroverted
Dec 18, 2024
219. When Your Therapist Is Introverted
Dec 11, 2024
218. Defining Your Season
Dec 04, 2024
217. Genocide to Healing w/ Dr. David Niyonzima: Treatment or Healing?
Nov 27, 2024
216. Genocide to Healing w/ Dr. David Niyonzima: Discovering Mental Health
Nov 20, 2024
215. Genocide to Healing w/ Dr. David Niyonzima: Terror in Burundi
Nov 13, 2024
214. Sexual Differences in Long-Term Relationships
Nov 05, 2024
213. Knowing Your Needs Makes You Known
Oct 30, 2024
212. Why A Good Assessment Matters
Oct 23, 2024
211. Hallmarks of Quality Therapy
Oct 16, 2024
210. Part 2: Unsupported Wives & Passive Husbands
Oct 09, 2024
209. Part 1: Unsupported Wives & Passive Husbands
Oct 01, 2024
208. Replay of Types of Therapy: Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Sep 25, 2024
207. Loving Yourself Is Not Selfish
Sep 18, 2024
206. Aaron & Nathan Demonstrate IFS
Sep 11, 2024
205. The Real Story vs. The Story You Tell
Sep 03, 2024
204. Are You Emotionally Closed, Open, Or Available?
Aug 28, 2024
203. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Explained
Aug 14, 2024
202. Letting Go Of Relationships
Aug 07, 2024
201. Holding Space In Relationships
Jul 30, 2024
200. Celebrating Our 200th at Flyboy Brewing
Jul 17, 2024
199. Be IRL...IRL
Jul 10, 2024
198. Maturing In Marriage
Jul 03, 2024
197. Clinical Supervision in Counseling
Jun 26, 2024
196. How To Build Your Emotional Intelligence
Jun 19, 2024
195. Normalizing: Making the Strange Familiar
Jun 13, 2024
194. People-Pleasing & Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle
Jun 05, 2024
193. Dating: No Is The Best Way To Yes
May 29, 2024
192. Group Therapy
May 22, 2024
191. What It Takes To Be Successful in Private Practice
May 15, 2024
190. Scapegoating in Families
May 08, 2024
189. Let Your Teenager Learn
May 01, 2024
188. Raising Kids To Fear Or People-Please You
Apr 24, 2024
187. Are You Talking Too Much?
Apr 17, 2024
186. Living In Survival vs. Thriving
Apr 10, 2024
185. Did You Grow Up With Emotional Incest?
Apr 03, 2024
184. Take A Compliment, Bro!
Mar 20, 2024
183. Expectations Can Be Premeditated Resentments
Mar 20, 2024
182. Get Over Yourself
Mar 13, 2024
181. The Power of Core Beliefs
Mar 06, 2024
180. Relational Repair Requires Validation
Feb 27, 2024
179. Budget Your Energy
Feb 21, 2024
178. Fix It Don’t Fixate
Feb 14, 2024
177. The Victim Mindset
Feb 07, 2024
176. How To Not Lose Yourself In Relationships
Jan 31, 2024
175. What Is My "Self"?
Jan 24, 2024
174. YOU Are The Biggest Problem In Your Own Life
Jan 17, 2024
173. Why Do Premarital Counseling?
Jan 10, 2024
172. When Your Parents Won’t Change
Jan 03, 2024
171. Fix Your Parenting Mistakes!
Dec 27, 2023
170. Interview with Guest Andrew Lang on Inner Critic & Shadow Work (part 2)
Dec 21, 2023
169. Interview with Guest Andrew Lang on Inner Critic & Shadow Work (part 1)
Dec 13, 2023
168. Control Yourself Not Your Environment
Dec 05, 2023
167. What To Do When You're Emotionally Flooded
Nov 29, 2023
166. Use This Not A Grenade To Resolve Conflict
Nov 15, 2023
165. All About ADHD with Guest Martin Altman (part 2)
Nov 08, 2023
164. All About ADHD with Guest Martin Altman (part 1)
Oct 31, 2023
163. Being Responsible TO But Not FOR Others
Oct 25, 2023
162. Benefits of In-Person Therapy
Oct 18, 2023
161. Benefits & Drawbacks of Telehealth
Oct 11, 2023
160. What Do You Need From Therapy?
Oct 04, 2023
159. Attachment Styles with Guest Lisa Mustard (Part 2)
Sep 27, 2023
158. Attachment Styles with Guest Lisa Mustard (Part 1)
Sep 19, 2023
157. Enneagram “Roulette” - Type Responses
Sep 13, 2023
156. Orienting Couples to Counseling
Sep 06, 2023
155. Apologies Also Need Remorse
Aug 30, 2023
154. "It Feels Unsafe" Is Not The Same As "It IS Unsafe"
Aug 24, 2023
153. Enneagram: The Head Triad (5s, 6s, 7s)
Aug 09, 2023
152. Enneagram: The Heart Triad (2s, 3s, 4s)
Aug 09, 2023
151. They're Not Attacking You They're Defending Themselves
Aug 01, 2023
150. Don't Be Offended
Jul 25, 2023
149. Are You Triggered Or Just Overwhelmed?
Jul 19, 2023
148. Stop Asking Agenda-Based Questions
Jul 05, 2023
147. Dating 101: Some Do's and Dont's
Jun 28, 2023
146. Be Honest With Yourself
Jun 21, 2023
145. Stop Pretending-Tolerate Your Fear & Accept Reality
Jun 14, 2023
144. When You Have Value Differences With Your Therapist
Jun 07, 2023
143. When Do You Need Family Therapy?
May 31, 2023
142. Enneagram: The Body Triad (8s, 9s, 1s)
May 24, 2023
141. Helping Friends Who Are Suicidal
May 16, 2023
140. Enneagram Triads
May 10, 2023
139. When You Outgrow Friendships
May 03, 2023
138. Start Doing This To Deepen Connections In Your Relationships
Apr 20, 2023
137. Yung Pueblo's Observing Beyond Reactions
Apr 11, 2023
136. Transferring To A New Therapist
Apr 04, 2023
135. How The Enneagram Can Help Improve Your Relationships
Mar 29, 2023
134. Your Mental Health Diagnosis Is Not Your Identity
Mar 22, 2023
133. Is It Narcissism Or A Need To Feel Special?
Mar 15, 2023
132. Guest Pavel Ythjall Found Purpose & Joy From A Tragic Car Accident (Part 2)
Mar 08, 2023
131. Guest Pavel Ythjall Found Purpose & Joy From A Tragic Car Accident (Part 1)
Mar 01, 2023
130. Walk Yourself Out Of The Prison You're In (Forgive)
Feb 22, 2023
129. Don't Be So Attached
Feb 15, 2023
128. All About Extroverts
Feb 08, 2023
127. All About Introverts
Feb 01, 2023
126. Random Therapist Musings
Jan 24, 2023
125. Panel: On Being Men with Uriah Guilford, Ernesto Segismundo, Connor McClenahan (Part 2 of 2)
Jan 18, 2023
124. Panel: On Being Men with Uriah Guilford, Ernesto Segismundo, Connor McClenahan (Part 1)
Jan 11, 2023
123. Forgiveness
Jan 04, 2023
122. Why Do I Keep Picking The Same People To Be With?
Dec 28, 2022
121. Guest Lisa Mustard Shares Her Passion for Learning in Education and Podcasting
Dec 20, 2022
120. How To Be A Good Friend
Dec 14, 2022
119. How To Be Happy No Matter What
Dec 07, 2022
118. How Do Therapists Remember Everything?
Dec 01, 2022
117. The Point of Parenting
Nov 22, 2022
116. Are You A Content Or Process Communicator?
Nov 16, 2022
115. How Faith Can Help Your Therapy with Guest Whitney Owens
Nov 09, 2022
114. Gaslighting (Part 2 of 2)
Nov 02, 2022
113. Gaslighting (Part 1 of 2)
Oct 26, 2022
112. Intro To Blended Family Dynamics
Oct 19, 2022
111. What To Do When Everything Is Going Well
Oct 12, 2022
110. Regulate Your Body
Oct 05, 2022
109. Can You Talk Too Much In Therapy?
Sep 28, 2022
108. Your Sleep Affects Your Mental Health
Sep 20, 2022
107. Why Aren’t You Fixed Yet?
Sep 14, 2022
106. It IS All About You
Sep 07, 2022
105. This Isn’t What I Came To Therapy For
Aug 31, 2022
104. How Should You Feel When You Get Ghosted In Therapy?
Aug 24, 2022
103. When You Run Out Of Things To Talk About In Therapy
Aug 17, 2022
102. Moving From Parents of Children to Parents of Adults
Aug 09, 2022
101. Relating To Your Parents As An Adult
Aug 02, 2022
100. Celebrating The First One Hundo
Jul 27, 2022
99 - You Can Be Right But You Won't Win Hearts
Jul 20, 2022
98 - What Do YOU Mean By That?
Jul 13, 2022
97 - Internal vs. External Processing
Jul 06, 2022
96 - The Mind, Body, and Pain
Jun 29, 2022
95 - When Your Behaviors Don't Match Your Values
Jun 21, 2022
94 - I Don't Believe You're THAT Happy
Jun 15, 2022
93 - Does Your Grief Need Therapy?
Jun 08, 2022
92 - What Your Addiction Is Really About
May 31, 2022
91 - Why Do Therapists Ask About Childhood?
May 25, 2022
90 - Why You Need Different Perspectives To Change
May 18, 2022
89 - How To Receive Difficult Feedback
May 10, 2022
88 - Humility Is A Choice To Grow
May 04, 2022
87 - Do Your Beliefs Have To Align With Your Therapist?
Apr 26, 2022
86 - What Therapists Experience When You Contact Us
Apr 19, 2022
85 - When You’re Addicted To Your Anxiety
Apr 13, 2022
84 - Attachment Styles in Action: Anxious & Avoidant Types
Apr 06, 2022
83 - Attachment Styles in Action: Secure & Disorganized Types
Mar 30, 2022
82 - Things To Know About Couples Counseling
Mar 23, 2022
81 - What Even Is Therapy?
Mar 16, 2022
80 - Honesty & Openness in Therapy
Mar 08, 2022
79 - Can A Therapist’s Personal Experiences Be Helpful?
Feb 21, 2022
78 - Do Therapists Have Bad Days?
Feb 16, 2022
77 - What Is Informed Consent In Therapy?
Feb 09, 2022
76-[PANEL] Maintaining Intimacy & Connection In Relationships
Feb 01, 2022
75 - What A Therapist Is NOT (Part 2 of 2)
Jan 24, 2022
Ep. 74 - What A Therapist Is (Part 1 of 2)
Jan 19, 2022
Ep 73 - Resource Kit For Your Therapy Goals
Jan 12, 2022
Ep 72 - Bridging The Gap Between Clients & Therapists
Jan 04, 2022
Ep. 71 - When Your Child Has A Mental Health Disorder
Dec 22, 2021
70 - [PANEL] Things Therapists Wish Clients Would Stop Doing
Dec 15, 2021
Ep. 69 - [PANEL] How To Identify Obstacles To Your Growth
Dec 07, 2021
Ep. 68 - Evaluating Your Therapy Process
Dec 01, 2021
Ep. 67 - Preparing For The Holidays
Nov 23, 2021
Ep. 66 - So Your Kid Is In Therapy
Nov 17, 2021
Ep. 65 - Mental Illness & Diagnosis
Nov 10, 2021
Ep. 64 - Can Therapists Accept Gifts From Clients?
Nov 03, 2021
Ep. 63 - What's The Point of Homework in Therapy?
Oct 27, 2021
Ep. 62 - Self Help Can Help Therapy
Oct 20, 2021
Ep. 61 - When You Get Stuck in Therapy
Oct 13, 2021
Ep. 60 - Joe Sanok: Thursday Is The New Friday
Oct 04, 2021
Ep. 55 - Be Informed, Not In Fear
Oct 01, 2021
Ep 59 - How To Pick A Therapist (Part 3)
Sep 29, 2021
Ep. 58 - How To Pick A Therapist (Part 2)
Sep 22, 2021
Ep. 57 - How To Pick A Therapist (Part 1)
Sep 15, 2021
Ep. 56 - Confrontation In Therapy
Sep 08, 2021
Ep. 54 - Oversensitivity
Aug 25, 2021
Ep. 53 - Destigmatizing Mental Health
Aug 18, 2021
Ep. 52 - Types Of Therapy: EMDR, SE, Neurofeedback, Brainspotting (Part 2)
Aug 11, 2021
Ep. 51 - Types Of Therapy: EMDR (Part 1 of 2)
Aug 03, 2021
Ep. 50 - Types of Therapy: Internal Family Systems
Jul 27, 2021
Ep. 49 - Types of Therapy: Psychodynamic
Jul 21, 2021
Ep. 48 - Types of Therapy: CBT
Jul 14, 2021
Ep. 47 - Mental Clarity & Peace Of Mind
Jul 07, 2021
Ep 46 - Dawn Gabriel On Therapists With Their Own Grief In Session
Jun 30, 2021
Ep. 45 - Self-Knowledge: How To Know Yourself
Jun 23, 2021
Ep. 44 - Courage
Jun 16, 2021
Ep. 43 - Facing Your Fears
Jun 09, 2021
Ep 42 - Unmasking Anxiety
Jun 02, 2021
Ep. 41 - All About Empathy
May 26, 2021
Ep. 40 - Imposter Syndrome
May 19, 2021
Ep. 39 - Confidence To Defeat Anxiety
May 12, 2021
Ep. 38 - You Are NOT Your Stress
May 05, 2021
Ep. 37 - Making Space For Others
Apr 28, 2021
Ep. 36 - Relationships That Respect From Love
Apr 21, 2021
Ep. 35 - Relationships That Respect From Fear
Apr 14, 2021
Ep. 34 - "I Know"
Apr 07, 2021
Ep. 33 - Saying I'm Sorry
Mar 31, 2021
Ep. 32-Reasons vs. Excuses and Intent vs. Impact
Mar 23, 2021
Ep. 31 - When Trauma Is All In The Family (Part 2)
Mar 16, 2021
Ep. 30 - When Trauma Is All In The Family (Part 1)
Mar 09, 2021
Ep. 29 - Pandemic Anxiety and Creative Solutions
Mar 02, 2021
Ep 28 - Pandemic Depression And Creative Solutions
Feb 23, 2021
Ep. 27 - Depression and Anxiety in a Pandemic
Feb 16, 2021
Ep 26 - Interview with Kasey Compton
Feb 09, 2021
Ep 25 - Interview With Les Parrott
Feb 03, 2021
Ep 24 - Interview With Stephanie Konter-O'Hara
Jan 27, 2021
Ep 23 - Interview With Scott Waters
Jan 20, 2021
Ep 22 - What You Wish You Could Ask Your Therapist
Jan 12, 2021
Ep 21 - Our Vision for STP in 2021
Jan 05, 2021
Ep 20 - Goodbye 2020
Dec 30, 2020
Ep 19 - Christmas Fun
Dec 23, 2020
Ep 18 - Forgiveness & Self-Compassion
Dec 16, 2020
Ep 17 - Shame
Dec 09, 2020
Ep 16 - Preparing For The Holidays
Dec 02, 2020
Ep 15 - Interview With Julie Herres
Nov 24, 2020
Ep 14 - Interview With Billy & Brandy Eldridge
Nov 17, 2020
Ep 13 - Interview With Amanda Patterson
Nov 09, 2020
Ep 12 - Interview With Randy Kinnison
Nov 03, 2020
Ep 11 - Interview With Whitney Owens
Oct 27, 2020
Ep 10 - Getting Off The Triangle
Oct 21, 2020
Ep 09 - Victim
Oct 14, 2020
Ep 08 - Rescuer
Oct 06, 2020
Ep 07 - Persecutor
Sep 30, 2020
Ep 06 - Intro to the Fear Triangle
Sep 22, 2020
Ep 05 - The Human Side
Sep 17, 2020
Ep 04 - Being A Therapist
Jul 22, 2020
Ep 03 - Interview With Nathan Hawkins
Jul 22, 2020
Ep 02 - Interview With Aaron Potratz
Jul 22, 2020
Ep 01 - Intro To The Podcast
Jul 22, 2020