Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra

By Nikki Spo

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Welcome to The Becoming HER Podcast with me, Nikki Spoelstra. This is a space where we explore the human experience and the challenges, obstacles, and resiliency that shape who we are. Alongside expert guests and featured friends, I am here to host meaningful conversations that tackle life's complex challenges with humor, grace, and sass. Each episode is designed to inspire collective growth and deepen our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.XO Nikki Spo

Episode Date
Stop Waiting for the Green Light: Be Your Own Permission Slip with Simone Knego. Ep. 208
Oct 28, 2025
The Hidden Energy Crisis in Ambitious Women with Lauren Papanos. Ep. 207
Oct 21, 2025
Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206
Oct 14, 2025
Specialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205
Sep 30, 2025
How to Choose the Right Attorney if you are Facing a Divorce. Part 2 with Rachel Kipnis. Ep. 204
Sep 23, 2025
How to Approach a Prenup with Clarity & Confidence with Rachel Kipnis. Pt 1. Ep. 203
Sep 16, 2025
10x Your Life & Cut OUT the Hustle with Tanya Jane. Ep. 202
Sep 09, 2025
Keeping the Stars in Your Eyes with Alexia Echavarria. Ep. 201
Sep 02, 2025
Unconscious Moderation and Sober Curiosity with Silvia Subriana. Ep. 200
Aug 19, 2025
Strong Women, Strong Men, Stronger Self with Yuri Cordero PT. 2. Ep. 199
Aug 12, 2025
Real Talk: What Your Kids Need to Hear (Even if It's Hard) with Erin Williamson Ep. 198
Aug 06, 2025
Hormones, Hustle, and WTF is Happening to Me? A REAL Convo for 30 Somethings Re: Perimenopause with Dr. Jila Senemar. Ep. 197
Jul 29, 2025
The Sustainable Entrepreneur and How to Create a Business Plan. Ep. 196
Jul 22, 2025
Grace, Grit, & Growth with Yuri Cordero. Ep. 195
Jul 15, 2025
Overcoming the Fear of Being Alone with Jaime Morgan. Ep. 194
Jul 08, 2025
Parenting with Purpose: Empathy, Accountability & Life Lessons with Ayana Rodriguez. Ep. 185 Part TWO
Jul 08, 2025
Becoming Your Favorite Version of Yourself with Alethea Crimmins. Ep. 193
Jul 01, 2025
Defeating the Cultural Lie That Life Should Be Hard with Keren Eldad. Ep. 192
Jun 24, 2025
The CATCH Code: Becoming a Power Couple with Naketa Ren Thigpen. Ep. 191
Jun 17, 2025
No Bullsh*t Motherhood with Erin Morrison. Part 2. Ep. 190
Jun 10, 2025
No Bullsh*t Motherhood with Erin Morrison. Part 1. Ep. 189
Jun 03, 2025
You Are So Much More Than Your Circumstances with Kat Vigo II. Ep. 188 Part TWO
May 27, 2025
Build It Back and Build It Better with Sarah Akiba. Ep. 187 Part TWO
May 20, 2025
Do You Like Yourself? with Sarah Akiba. Ep. 186
May 13, 2025
Adopting a Courage Practice with Scott Simon. Ep. 185
May 06, 2025
Your Body is a House of Truth with Kat Vigo II. Ep. 184 Part ONE
Apr 29, 2025
Building Grit and Resiliency in Children with Ayana Rodriguez. Ep. 183 Part ONE
Apr 22, 2025
Beyond the Recipes: Nicole Keshishian on Life, Business & Belief. Ep. 182
Apr 15, 2025
Transforming Pain Into Purpose: How @kalejunkie’s Nicole Keshishian Overcame Her Eating Disorder and Found Food Freedom. Ep. 181
Apr 08, 2025
Dating Younger, Living Boldly, and Rewriting the Rules with Asha Elias. Ep. 180
Apr 01, 2025
Bridging the (Age) Gap in Relationships: Love, Growth & Fear with Asha Elias. Ep. 179 Part ONE
Mar 24, 2025
Do No Harm, Take No Sh*t: The No-Nonsense Guide to Showing Up Fully with Johanna Ricouz aka Jungle Johanna. Ep. 178
Mar 18, 2025
Get Your BAG: Passion, Purpose, and PROFIT with Johanna Ricouz aka Jungle Johanna. Ep. 177 Part One
Mar 11, 2025
NEW NEW! Welcome to Becoming: HER! Ep. 176
Mar 04, 2025
When Your Net Worth and Your Self Worth are Aligned with Myra Salzer. Ep. 175
Jan 21, 2025
Leaning into Career with Jamie Ruiz. Ep. 174
Jan 07, 2025
Nikki Spoelstra on the Surviving Roots Podcast. Ep. 173
Dec 31, 2024
Parenting with Dignity with Evelyn Mendal. Ep. 172
Dec 24, 2024
Sober Curiosity + The LEVEL UP of Your Life with Amanda Kuda. Ep. 171
Dec 17, 2024
Remembering Yourself with Case Kenny. Ep. 170
Dec 10, 2024
Becoming a Generator Through Quantum Energy with Jocelyn Sandstrom Part 2. Ep. 169
Dec 03, 2024
Find What You’re Looking For Through Quantum Energy with Jocelyn Sandstrom Part 1. Ep. 168
Nov 26, 2024
IS THAT YOUR MAN? Or is He Just: Hope, Fantasy, Projection, and Potential? With Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz Ep. 167
Nov 19, 2024
How We Became Magical AF ft. Jamie Ruiz. Ep. 166
Nov 12, 2024
Take the Garbage Out (Of Your Head) with Lauren Brill. Ep. 165
Nov 05, 2024
Sex Talk with the STUD of All Studs: Jackson Hightower. Part 2! Ep. 164
Oct 29, 2024
Sex Talk with the STUD of All Studs: Jackson Hightower. Part 1! Ep. 163
Oct 22, 2024
Alive, Luminous, and Desirable: What Every Woman Needs to Know with Jayne Gottlieb. EP 162
Oct 15, 2024
AFFAIRS… Handle your Sh*t (ASAP). Ep. 161
Oct 08, 2024
Age Gaps in Relationships with Jamie Ruiz. Ep. 160
Oct 01, 2024
New Level, New Devil: The Dating Game and *REALLY* Understanding What You Want. Ep. 159
Sep 17, 2024
Omg…Sex After Childbirth. Send This to your baby daddy PART 2 with Dr. Kat Vigo. Ep. 158
Sep 03, 2024
Divorce & Co-parenting with Michelle Dempsey-Multack PART 2. Ep. 157
Aug 20, 2024
Divorce & Co-parenting PART ONE with Michelle Dempsey Multack. Ep. 156
Aug 06, 2024
Narcissism in a Family Dynamic. Ep. 155
Jul 30, 2024
Narcissism Q&A with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri. Ep. 154
Jul 23, 2024
So You’re Having a Baby? Send This to your baby daddy…Ep. 153
Jul 09, 2024
Fall in Love With Your Life... OFF SCREEN with Palak Dave. Ep. 152
Jun 25, 2024
Bag... SECURED. Pt 2. Ep. 151
Jun 11, 2024
Bag… SECURED. Nikki Gets Interviewed by Jamie Ruiz. Ep. 150
May 28, 2024
Breaking Cycles of Toxic Parenting with Cari Fund. Ep. 149
May 21, 2024
Narcissism in Relationships with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri (Part 2). Ep. 148
May 14, 2024
Understanding Narcissism with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri. Ep. 147
May 07, 2024
Women and Wealth Ep. 146
Apr 30, 2024
From Trauma to Triumph with Alreen Haeggquist. Ep. 145
Apr 23, 2024
Birth Control and Cycle School with Kate Morton. Ep. 144
Apr 16, 2024
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Virtuosity in Relationships with Dr. Joli Hamilton. Ep. 143
Apr 09, 2024
GET YOUR MONEY RIGHT with Amber Frankhuizen. Ep. 142
Apr 02, 2024
Should You Stay or Should You Go with Kate Anthony. Ep. 141
Mar 26, 2024
Figuring Out What You're Good At and Running With It with Allison McNamara. Ep. 140
Mar 19, 2024
Unleashing the Marketing Magic with Nikki Nash. Ep. 139
Mar 12, 2024
Oh, So You’re Dating?! with Evan Marc Katz. Ep. 138
Mar 05, 2024
Building Your Brand with Amy Peterson. Ep. 137
Feb 27, 2024
The Power of the Pussy with Kim Coffin. Ep. 136
Feb 20, 2024
Maybe it's NOT a Mid-Life Crisis with Kathy Batista. Ep. 135
Feb 13, 2024
The Entrepreneurial Mindset with Shiri Sarfati. Ep. 134
Feb 06, 2024
133. SO... You're Getting a Divorce!? with Michelle Suarez
Jan 30, 2024
132. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: The Loneliness Epidemic
Jan 23, 2024
131. Breaking Free with Monica Del Valle
Jan 09, 2024
130. Experiential Billionaire with Joe Huff
Jan 02, 2024
129. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Sober During the Holidays? Let’s Talk!
Dec 19, 2023
128. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Love is Not Dead
Dec 12, 2023
127. Boundary TF Up for the Holidays with Erin Morrison
Dec 05, 2023
126. You’re Not Hard to Love with Paul Scanlon
Nov 28, 2023
125. How to Handle the Heated Topics with Sonni Abatta
Nov 21, 2023
124: Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Forgiveness
Nov 14, 2023
123. Getting Vulnerable on Nikki Spo // Unveiled
Nov 07, 2023
122. Nikki Spo on The Mindful Corner with Dr. Erika Velez
Oct 31, 2023
121. Nikki Spo on Motherish with Pamela Silva and Karen Comas
Oct 24, 2023
120. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: The Magic is YOU
Oct 17, 2023
119. Athletes and Mental Health with Daphne Faldi
Oct 10, 2023
118. Recreating Yourself on Your Terms With Iman Hasan
Oct 03, 2023
117. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Boundary TF Up
Sep 26, 2023
116. The Laughing Survivor Alexandra Ford on Human Trafficking, Sexual Abuse, and Being a Badass
Sep 19, 2023
115. Nikki Spo UNVEILED // Let's Go Glamping
Sep 12, 2023
114. Advocating, Understanding, and Supporting LGBTQ+ Youth with Dr. Natasha Poulopoulos
Sep 05, 2023
113. Discussing Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
Aug 29, 2023
112. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: BREAKING! I’m Not Healed
Aug 22, 2023
111. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Energy Vampires
Aug 15, 2023
110. Pushing Boundaries with Candice Horbacz
Aug 08, 2023
109. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: You Don’t Own Me
Aug 01, 2023
108. NOT THE DOUBLE LIFE! with NoorJehan Tourte
Jul 25, 2023
107. Power of a Voice: Survival and Advocacy with Former US Gymnast Sarah Klein
Jul 18, 2023
106. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Making Boredom Work for You
Jul 11, 2023
105. Film, Sex, and Magic with Emily Ruhl
Jul 04, 2023
104. Nikki Spo // UNVEILED: Who Takes Care of YOU
Jun 27, 2023
103. It Takes a Village with Ayana Rodriguez
Jun 20, 2023
102. Leveling Up with Elle Leonard
Jun 13, 2023
101. The Imperfect but Mindful Parent: Doing Our Best with Dr. Erika Velez
Jun 06, 2023
100. Compassion & Vulnerability with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
May 30, 2023
99. Nikki Spo: UNVEILED// Are We All F*cked Up?
May 23, 2023
98. Reclaiming Our Sexual Power with Dr. Peter Khamvongsa
May 16, 2023
97. Intuition and Karmic Relationships with Nikki Novo
May 09, 2023
96. Mental Health Awareness Month: My Wellness Journey with Nikki Spo
May 02, 2023
95. The Power of Food, Delegation, and Creating Healthy Habits with Diana Arango
Apr 25, 2023
94. Healing Through Your Work with Sherry Platt
Apr 18, 2023
93. #GOALS with Nikki Spo
Apr 11, 2023
92. Business and Beauty with Nancy Jarecki
Apr 04, 2023
91. Celebrating You with Nikki Spo
Mar 28, 2023
90. The Shift with Melody Godfred
Mar 21, 2023
89. The Way of Integrity Recap with Nikki Spo
Mar 14, 2023
88. Hope and the Human Experience with George Ovalle
Mar 07, 2023
87. Creating Your Mom Crew with Nikki Spo
Feb 28, 2023
86. Why Putting Your Kid in Occupational Therapy is NOT Taboo with Linda Matthews
Feb 21, 2023
85. The Self-Love Club with Nikki Spo
Feb 14, 2023
84. The 3 Pillars of Transformation with Jessica Lorion
Feb 07, 2023
83. The Real Life of RHOM (and Anesthesiologist) Dr. Nicole Martin
Jan 31, 2023
82. You're the Cure with Asha Walker
Jan 24, 2023
81. Revamping Your Relationships with The Gottman Method and Jaime Morgan
Jan 17, 2023
80. Attached to Nothing and Connected to Everything with Nikki Spo
Jan 10, 2023
79. Until Every Woman Heals with Dr. Kat Vigo and Dr. Luly Diez
Jan 03, 2023
78. Swerving and Serving with Nikki Spo
Dec 27, 2022
77. Motherhood on Your Terms, LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME, and Coming Out with Linda Fruits
Dec 19, 2022
76. Combating the Holiday Blues with Nikki Spo
Dec 13, 2022
75. Abundant, Unapologetic, and Fierce AF with YesJulz
Dec 06, 2022
74. Main Character Energy Through Style + Fashion with Cecie Gonzalez
Nov 29, 2022
73. IT'S A TAKEOVER! 4 Steps for Getting Into Alignment With Your 2023 Self with Jamie Lee Ruiz
Nov 22, 2022
72. The REAL Reason Why I'm Not Breastfeeding with Nikki Spo
Nov 15, 2022
71. Freeing Your Inner Creatress and Building Confidence with Susie Garcia
Nov 08, 2022
70. My Experience Having a C-Section with Nikki Spo
Nov 01, 2022
69. Candid Convos: Life, Playboy, and Self-Worth with Cassandra Dawn
Oct 25, 2022
68. Why You Should Give Your Kids an Allowance with Nikki Spo
Oct 18, 2022
67. A Daily Dose of Determination with Divya Gugnani
Oct 11, 2022
66. Nikki Spo on the Pillow Talk Podcast Hosted by Will Beck
Oct 04, 2022
65. Real Life: I'm a Sober Woman with Joelle Ashley
Sep 27, 2022
64. Debunking Sobriety Myths for Recovery Awareness Month with Nikki Spo
Sep 20, 2022
63. Releasing Spiritual Entanglements with Joyce Haddad
Sep 13, 2022
62. Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month - A Journey with Nikki Spo
Sep 06, 2022
61. Diet Culture, Exercise, & The Stories We Tell Ourselves with Danielle Crease
Aug 30, 2022
60. WHO is Influencing YOU? with Nikki So
Aug 23, 2022
59. Understanding Your Assignment with Cathy Heller
Aug 16, 2022
58. Trophy Life with Nikki Spo
Aug 09, 2022
57. RAISING STANDARDS with Kornelija Slunjski @kokobeaute
Aug 02, 2022
56. Life Mountains with Nikki Spo
Jul 26, 2022
55. COLUMBINE: Surviving, Remembering, and Life Afterwards with Will Beck
Jul 19, 2022
54. Some Days Are Hard with Nikki Spo
Jul 12, 2022
53. Fostering Change with Your Platform with Charell Star
Jul 05, 2022
52. What I Learned About Giving Birth - Nikki Spo
Jun 28, 2022
51. Let's Talk about LIBIDO with Libido Expert Dr. Renee Wellenstein
Jun 21, 2022
50. "I'm Having a GIRL!" - Nikki Spo
Jun 14, 2022
49. Changing Your Life with Gigi Vogel
Jun 07, 2022
48. What I Would Tell My 20s Self with Nikki Spo
May 31, 2022
47. Impressing Yourself with Katya Elise Henry
May 24, 2022
46. Am I a Feminist? with Nikki Spo
May 17, 2022
45. PART TWO: The Mother Wound with Bethany Webster, Author of Discovering the Inner Mother
May 10, 2022
44. PART ONE: The Mother Wound with Bethany Webster, Author of Discovering the Inner Mother
May 03, 2022
43. Shining Your Light Through the Darkness with Jamie Kolnick, Founder + CEO of Jam with Jamie
Apr 26, 2022
42. DUI, Drinking to Cope, and Other Red Flags with Nikki Spo
Apr 19, 2022
41. Finding Your Way with Jane Jourdan-Hunter, Founder + CEO of way
Apr 12, 2022
40. Can YOU Make Single Your Superpower?! with Case Kenny
Apr 05, 2022
39. The Mindset Mission
Mar 29, 2022
38. Big Nik Energy
Mar 22, 2022
37. Talking Divorce and Moms Moving On with Michelle Dempsey
Mar 15, 2022
36. Don't Sleep on Your 40s with Marilyn Sanchez
Mar 08, 2022
35. YOUR Empowered Life! with Susan Burrell
Mar 01, 2022
34. Having Hope with Nikki Spo
Feb 22, 2022
33. $1 or $1,000,000… It’s Time to Invest! with Moe Peguero
Feb 15, 2022
32. Manifest or Bust! A Look into Our Relationships with $$$$ with Laina Caltagirone
Feb 08, 2022
31. My MONEY Story - Nikki Spo
Feb 01, 2022
30. Marriage & INTIMACY with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell
Jan 25, 2022
29. Loving the Woman in the Mirror with Nikki Spo
Jan 18, 2022
28. The Next Generation of STRONG GIRLS with Virginia Akar, CEO of Girls, Inc.
Jan 11, 2022
27. Releasing Fear in the New Year with ME! Nikki Spo
Jan 04, 2022
26. Let it Be Easy with Susie Moore
Dec 28, 2021
25. Glowing Up with Jamie Lee Ruiz
Dec 21, 2021
24. Strength Beyond Circumstance with Danielle Crease
Dec 14, 2021
23. Creating Awareness as Parents and Establishing Leadership in the Workplace with Natalie Norfus of The Norfus Firm
Dec 07, 2021
22. 'Tis the Season for Family Boundaries
Nov 30, 2021
21. Defying All Odds with Cancer Survivor and Senate Candidate Janelle Perez
Nov 23, 2021
20. Choosing Ourselves with Kenya Raymer
Nov 16, 2021
19. It's Never Too Early to Find Your Passion with KicksBySammy Founder and CEO Sammy Handler
Nov 09, 2021
18. Influencing, Entrepreneurship, and Living with PCOS with Candice Craig
Nov 02, 2021
17. Nikki Spo on The Game of Life Podcast, Hosted by Gale Nelson
Oct 26, 2021
16. Conscious Health: Small Changes Big Impact with Lindsey Kaszuba
Oct 19, 2021
15. Life + Motherhood After Loss with Michelle Valiukenas
Oct 12, 2021
14. Living Unapologetically with CAA Executive Lisa Joseph Metelus
Oct 05, 2021
13. Living a Fully Charged Life with Meaghan B Murphy
Sep 28, 2021
12. Women in Art ft. Gallerist Jacquelin Napal
Sep 21, 2021
11. Mindful Parenting with Josephine Atluri
Sep 14, 2021
10. Sobriety Through Spirituality with Sloane Spanierman
Aug 31, 2021
9. Steph Shep on Saying Yes, Showing Up, and Being Present for Your Life & Planet
Aug 17, 2021
8. Using Style to Claim Your Confidence with Kimmie Sussman
Aug 03, 2021
7. Trauma Psychologist Dr. Andrea Loeb: Tools for Life & Recovery from Trauma
Jul 20, 2021
6. Restoring Balance with Jaycee Gossett Kallen of The Class
Jul 06, 2021
5. Tina van der Ven on How to Succeed
Jun 21, 2021
4. Cheryl Lau Gonzalez on Using Personal Experience to Enhance Your Professional Life
Jun 07, 2021
3. Artist Monica Mendes on Redefining Yourself at Any Age
May 24, 2021
2. Evelyn Mendal, LMHC: Parenting with Confidence + Thriving Through Infertility
May 11, 2021
Lauren Book’s Inspiring Journey of Overcoming Trauma and Walking the Long Road to Senate. Ep. 1
Apr 20, 2021