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The research says the key to a happy life is happy relationships. But how exactly do you make your relationships better? That’s what this show is all about.
I’m Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and (according to my kids) the bossy Jewish mom you didn’t know you needed. With decades of experience and millions of listeners in over 180 countries, I give you the no-fluff, research-backed strategies to make all your relationships better: with your partner, your family, your friends, and (most importantly) yourself.
Every week on the Relationships Made Easy podcast, I mix straight talk, humor, and science to help you communicate effectively, set healthy boundaries, and stop second-guessing yourself. Because great relationships aren’t built in a day. Great relationships are built daily.
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380. The 7 Childhood Experiences That Shape Every Relationship You'll Ever Have
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Apr 27, 2026 |
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379. You're Not Overreacting. Here's What's Actually Happening.
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Apr 20, 2026 |
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378. Stuck in a Situationship? Here's What's Really Going On
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Apr 13, 2026 |
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377. Relationship Anxiety Explained: Why You Feel Insecure Even When Your Partner Is Safe
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Apr 06, 2026 |
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376. Why Do I Always Feel Like a Victim? Here's What's Really Going On
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Mar 30, 2026 |
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375. Are You Codependent or Just a Good Person? Here’s How to Tell
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Mar 23, 2026 |
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374. Is It Love or Limerence? How to Tell the Difference
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Mar 16, 2026 |
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373. Hustle Culture Is Lying to You: Make More Money by Working Smarter, Not Harder
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Mar 09, 2026 |
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372. Why You Can't Get Out of Bed: Understanding Nervous System Shutdown vs. Rest
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Mar 03, 2026 |
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371. Co-Regulation Explained: Why You Absorb Other People's Emotions (And How to Stop)
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Feb 24, 2026 |
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370. Should You Have Kids or Not? The Psychology Behind One of Life’s Biggest Decisions
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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369. Avoidant Attachment: How to Love an Avoidant Partner Without Chasing or Losing Yourself
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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368. When Your Partner Needs Constant Reassurance: What Helps and What Hurts
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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367. Why Anxious and Avoidant Partners Keep Getting Stuck in the Same Cycle
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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366. Divorcing a Narcissistic Ex: Why It Escalates and How to Protect Yourself and Your Kids
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Jan 20, 2026 |
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365. Should You Stay or Leave Your Relationship?
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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364. You Think Everyone Is Judging You, But They Aren’t
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Jan 06, 2026 |
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363. What to Do When Your Partner Shuts Down in Conflict
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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362. They Were There But Not Really: Healing From Neglectful Parents
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Dec 09, 2025 |
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361. How to Stop Freaking Out When Life Feels Uncertain
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Dec 02, 2025 |
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360. Why You Keep Getting Triggered and How to Finally Break the Pattern
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Nov 25, 2025 |
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359. Soothing Yourself First: Why Relying on Others Isn’t the Answer
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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358. Holiday Peace On Demand: What to Do When Family Drama Boils Over
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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357. Talk So They Lean In: The 5 Moves for Difficult Conversations
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Nov 03, 2025 |
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356. When Kindness Has Claws: Dealing With Relational Aggression
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Oct 27, 2025 |
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355. What to Do When Someone Gives You the Silent Treatment
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Oct 20, 2025 |
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354. How to Get Motivated and Stay Motivated: Science-Backed Strategies That Work
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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353. When to Speak Up: What to Do If You Think Your Friend’s Relationship Is Toxic
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Oct 06, 2025 |
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352. Is Your Anxiety Trying to Protect You?
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Sep 29, 2025 |
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351. Tired of Being the Scapegoat? How to Handle Blamers Without Losing Your Mind
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Sep 22, 2025 |
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350. Can You Be in Love but Live Apart? The Truth About LAT Relationships
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Sep 15, 2025 |
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349. Can AI Replace Your Therapist? Here’s What You Need to Know Before You Try
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Sep 08, 2025 |
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348. Love Goggles: Why You Ignore Red Flags When You’re Falling for Someone
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Sep 01, 2025 |
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347. When Your Partner Takes Other People’s Side (And What to Do About It)
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Aug 25, 2025 |
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346. Why You Stay: The Brain Science of Trauma Bonding and How to Break Free
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Aug 18, 2025 |
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345. Forgiveness Is a One-Person Job: Why You Don’t Need Them to Feel Better
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Aug 11, 2025 |
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Season 8 Sneak Peek: New Format, Big News, and How to Get Involved
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Jul 28, 2025 |
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344. Why Is Dating So Damn Hard Right Now? (And How to Spot Real Emotional Availability)
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Jul 21, 2025 |
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343. Micro-Gaslighting: The Tiny Cuts That Undermine You
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Jul 14, 2025 |
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342. You Don’t Have to Earn It: Breaking Free from Transactional Self-Worth
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Jul 07, 2025 |
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341. When Your Partner Is Being Evasive, Withholding Information, or Lying: A Guide to Navigating Relationship Deception
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Jun 30, 2025 |
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340. Judgment Detox: 8 Steps to Be Less Critical and More Connected
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Jun 23, 2025 |
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339. Why You Keep Proving Yourself Right (Even When You're Miserable): The Psychology of Confirmation Bias and Defense Mechanisms
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Jun 16, 2025 |
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338. How to Stop Taking It Personally: 5 Steps to Listen Without Getting Defensive
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Jun 09, 2025 |
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337. Why We’re So Afraid to Be Alone (and the Five Steps to Feel at Ease with Yourself)
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Jun 02, 2025 |
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336. Is Food Addiction Real? Here’s the Truth (and 5 Steps to Healing)
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May 26, 2025 |
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335. Are You a Narcissist and Don’t Know It? The Truth About Healthy Selfishness vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder
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May 19, 2025 |
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334. Dopamine Detoxing is a Scam (But You Should Still Do It)
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May 12, 2025 |
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333. Why You (or Your Partner) Struggle to Talk About Feelings: Understanding Alexithymia
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May 05, 2025 |
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332. Why We Eat Our Feelings: Understanding and Overcoming Emotional Eating
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Apr 28, 2025 |
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331. A New Mindset for Navigating Neurodiverse Relationships
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Apr 21, 2025 |
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330. Codependency and Boundary Red Flags When Dating
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Apr 14, 2025 |
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329. The Science of Friendship: How to Build, Keep, and Let Go of Friends as an Adult
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Apr 07, 2025 |
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328. Stop Feeling Overwhelmed: The Four Steps to Set Healthy Boundaries with Family
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Mar 31, 2025 |
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327. Fear of Rejection vs. Fear of Abandonment: How to Tell the Difference and Heal Both
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Mar 24, 2025 |
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326. What Narcissists Do When Backed into a Corner: Lessons from Celebrities Who Lost Control
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Mar 17, 2025 |
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325. Seven Powerful Techniques to Breathe Yourself to Calm
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Mar 10, 2025 |
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324. Emotional Triggers: Understanding Your Brain and How to Keep It in Check
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Mar 04, 2025 |
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323. Reclaiming Yourself: A Step-by-Step Guide to Self-Healing and Reparenting Yourself
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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322. How to Move Past the Dysfunction or Trauma of Unhealthy Parenting
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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321. How to End a Relationship Without Breaking Each Other
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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321. How to End a Relationship Without Breaking Each Other (Patreon Exclusive)
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Feb 08, 2025 |
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320. How to Beat Stress and Overwhelm: 8 Research-Backed Tips for a Calmer Life
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Feb 04, 2025 |
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319. How to Make Long-Distance (and Live-In) Relationships Work: Proven Tips for Building Connection and Trust
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Jan 28, 2025 |
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318. Why Body Image and Acceptance Can Be Tough: Five Steps to Make Peace with Your Body
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Jan 21, 2025 |
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317. Emotional Healing Techniques: Mastering Mindfulness and Self-Acceptance/Compassion
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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316. How to Heal Yourself Emotionally: Mastering Self-Regulation for a Happier Life
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Jan 07, 2025 |
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315. The Big Mistake You Make When Setting Goals (and How to Actually Achieve Your Goals This Year)
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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314. What to Do When They Need Constant Reassurance and Validation
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Dec 10, 2024 |
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313. Entitlement in Relationships: How to Recognize It and Break the Cycle
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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312. The Five Steps to Resolving Conflict in Any Relationship
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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311. Overcoming Self-Doubt: Five Steps to Confident Decision-Making
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Nov 19, 2024 |
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310. Radical Acceptance: 5 Steps to Embrace Reality for Lasting Peace
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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309. How to Survive (and Enjoy!) the Holidays Without Losing Your Mind: 5 Steps for a Joyful Season
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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308. How Childhood Neglect Impacts Your Adult Relationships and How to Heal: 3 Key Steps
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Oct 28, 2024 |
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307. What Is Compassion Fatigue? Signs, Causes, and 3 Powerful Tips to Overcome It
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Oct 21, 2024 |
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306. Can You Trust Again After Betrayal? Three Key Areas to Heal Any Relationship
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Oct 14, 2024 |
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305. How to Identify and Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs
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Oct 07, 2024 |
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304. Three Holistic Approaches to Your Mental Health
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Sep 30, 2024 |
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303. The Secret to Changing Your Unwanted Habits
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Sep 23, 2024 |
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302. Why You Feel Lonely (Even if You Have Friends) and Three Solutions that Work
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Sep 16, 2024 |
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301. Is There a Healthy Way to Cut People Off?
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Sep 09, 2024 |
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300. Three Simple Habits to Structure and Plan Your Day so You Can Be Effective, Productive and Calm
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Sep 02, 2024 |
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299. How to Deal with Someone Being Mad at You: The Four Things You Can Do
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Aug 26, 2024 |
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298. How to Overcome Social Anxiety: My Top Five Tips for Creating a More Relaxed and Connected Life
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Aug 19, 2024 |
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297. How to Stop Feeling Frustrated and Angry in Your Relationships
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Aug 12, 2024 |
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296. How Do You Know if You’re in a Healthy Relationship? Five Signs to Look for
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Jul 15, 2024 |
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295. The Three Surprising Reasons Why Relationships Fail
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Jul 08, 2024 |
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294. Seven Effective tools to deal with stress in your relationship
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Jul 01, 2024 |
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293. How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Abandonment
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Jun 24, 2024 |
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292. Two Steps to Stop Morning Anxiety
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Jun 17, 2024 |
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291. Five Steps to Stop Ruminating and Repetitive Negative Thinking
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Jun 10, 2024 |
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290. The Four Ways to Be More Resilient So You Can Be Happier in All Your Relationships
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Jun 03, 2024 |
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289. Should You Date While You’re Going Through Therapy and Working on Healing?
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May 27, 2024 |
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288. Can Introverts and Extroverts Be in a Relationship? Three Steps for Making an Introvert/Extrovert Relationship Work
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May 20, 2024 |
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287. You Can You Change Your Personality by Doing This One Thing
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May 13, 2024 |
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286. Best Dating App Advice: An Interview with the Pros
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May 06, 2024 |
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285. Feeling Misunderstood, Disrespected or Dismissed? The 3 Steps to Be Heard in Any Relationship
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Apr 29, 2024 |
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284. What To Do (and Not Do) if Your Partner is Jealous
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Apr 22, 2024 |
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283. How to Forgive Yourself: Five Tips to Let Go of Guilt, Shame and Past Regrets
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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282. The Five Steps to Know if an Open Relationship is Right for You
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Apr 08, 2024 |
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281. How to Take a Healthy Relationship Break: The Three Questions You Need to Ask
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Apr 01, 2024 |
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280. How to Effectively Deal with Triggers in Your Relationships
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Mar 25, 2024 |
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279. Do You Have an Adjustment Disorder and Don’t Know It?
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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278. Relationships and Money: How to Have Effective Conversations About Your Finances
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Mar 11, 2024 |
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277. How Do You Know if You’re Making the Right Decision/Following Your Gut?
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Mar 04, 2024 |
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276. Is Toxic Shame Hurting Your Relationship and You Don’t Realize It?
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Feb 27, 2024 |
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275. Jealous of Your Partner’s Past Relationships? What Retroactive Jealousy is and My Top 5 Tips to Make it Stop
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Feb 20, 2024 |
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274. Three Steps to Having an Amazing Valentine’s Day (Even if You’re Single)
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Feb 13, 2024 |
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273. Do the Love Languages Really Work?
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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272. Being Curious Will Improve All Your Relationships: Here’s How to Do It
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Jan 30, 2024 |
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271. Ask Dr. Abby: When You Feel on the Outside with Your Partner, Their Ex, and Their Kids
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Jan 23, 2024 |
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270. Having a Growth Mindset is the Key to an Empowered Mindset
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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269. The Five Steps to Having an Empowered Mindset
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Jan 09, 2024 |
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268. The #1 Reason Why You Don’t Hold Your Boundaries
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Dec 19, 2023 |
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267. Why it's Hard to Ask for Help and 3 Tips for Making it Easier
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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266. Are Relationship Doubts Normal? Four Questions to Get Your Answer
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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265. Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness
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Nov 28, 2023 |
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264. What to Do if Your Partner is Friends with Past Partners or Hookups
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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263. How to Keep Your Boundaries Around the Holidays
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Nov 14, 2023 |
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262. How Do You Know When a Relationship is Over?
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Nov 07, 2023 |
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261. What You Need to Know About Defense Mechanisms
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Oct 30, 2023 |
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260. What to Do When You Can’t Get Through to Them
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Oct 23, 2023 |
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259. The Five Keys to Positive Communication
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Oct 16, 2023 |
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258. Getting the Sizzle and that Loving Feeling Back in Your Relationship
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Oct 09, 2023 |
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257. What Patience Really is and How to Have More of It
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Oct 02, 2023 |
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256. The Four Ways to Solve Any Problem
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Sep 25, 2023 |
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255. Focus on Self-Love Not Just Self-Compassion
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Sep 18, 2023 |
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254. The Seven Habits of Intimate Relationships (backed by research)
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Sep 11, 2023 |
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253. Focus on These Five Things to Make All Your Relationships Great
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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252. Instead of Date Nights, Work on Micro-Connections
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Aug 28, 2023 |
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251. Is it Love Bombing or Codependent Affection Flooding?
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Aug 21, 2023 |
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250A. Conquering Your Quarter-life Crisis
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Jul 31, 2023 |
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250. The Secret to a Happy Life and Relationships: Resilience
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Jul 24, 2023 |
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249. Five Tips for Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex
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Jul 17, 2023 |
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248. How to Make Happier Joint Decisions with Your Partner (in 5 Easy Steps)
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Jul 10, 2023 |
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247. Adult ADHD at Work: How to Get Shit Done
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Jul 03, 2023 |
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246. How to Deal with a Loved One Who has ADHD
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Jun 26, 2023 |
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245. Why People Chase Toxic Relationships and Unavailable Partners
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Jun 19, 2023 |
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244. How to Deal with Annoying (I Mean Difficult) Coworkers
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Jun 12, 2023 |
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243. Do You Have Relationship OCD?
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Jun 05, 2023 |
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242. Six Habits to Make All Your Relationships Successful
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May 29, 2023 |
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241. The Key to Letting Go of Resentment
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May 22, 2023 |
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240. What to Do When Your Partner Changes the Rules of Your Relationship
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May 15, 2023 |
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239. What to Do if You're a Control Freak
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May 08, 2023 |
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238. How to Deal with Controlling People
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May 01, 2023 |
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237. Should You Be Journaling?
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Apr 24, 2023 |
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236. Five ways to cultivate self-love
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Apr 17, 2023 |
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235. Self-Sabotage: What it Is and How to Stop Doing It
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Apr 10, 2023 |
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234. Are you Trauma Bonding in Your Relationships and Don’t Realize it?
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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233. Five Things to Do When You Feel Like You’re Being Criticized
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Mar 27, 2023 |
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232. When They Keep Bringing up the Past and Won’t Let it Go
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Mar 20, 2023 |
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231 The Five Steps to Effective Negotiation in All Your Relationships
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Mar 13, 2023 |
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230. Managing Different Spiritual Beliefs in Your Relationship
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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229. Are You Being Manipulated? Learn the Signs and How to Stop It
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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228. Do Opposites Attract? What to Do When You and Your Partner Seem Like Opposites
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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227. The Secrets to Effectively Dealing with Stress and Anxiety: Part Two
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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226. The Secrets to Effectively Dealing with Stress and Anxiety: Part One
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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225. Seven Tips for Dealing with Technology in Your Relationships
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Jan 31, 2023 |
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224. How to Rebuild Intimacy with Your Partner After Having Kids
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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223. How to Handle Aggressive or Confrontational People
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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222. Closure: What it Really is and How to Get it
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Jan 10, 2023 |
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221. The Five Reasons People Pick Fights and Three Things to Do About It
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Jan 03, 2023 |
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220. Five Goals Every Couple Should Set
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Dec 13, 2022 |
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219. How to Cope When a Loved One has Borderline Personality Disorder
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Dec 06, 2022 |
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218. Dealing with Low Emotional Intelligence (in Yourself or Others)
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Nov 29, 2022 |
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217. How Changing Your Breathing and Posture Can Change Your Life
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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216. Is it Ever a Good Idea to Get Back Together with Your Ex?
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Nov 15, 2022 |
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215. Create Connection and Joy this Holiday Season by Doing This One Thing
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Nov 08, 2022 |
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214. How to Convince Someone to Go to Therapy
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Oct 31, 2022 |
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213. How to Set Boundaries at Work and Avoid Burnout
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Oct 24, 2022 |
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212. How to Stop People Pleasing
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Oct 17, 2022 |
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211. Finding Connection Again After an Argument (with Anyone)
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Oct 10, 2022 |
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210. How to Resolve an Argument (that Didn’t Get Resolved the First Time)
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Oct 03, 2022 |
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209. The 5 Signs of Healthy Relationships
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Sep 26, 2022 |
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208. The Secret to Managing Your Emotions: A Step-by-Step Guide
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Sep 19, 2022 |
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207. How Your Attachment Style Affects You at Work
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Sep 12, 2022 |
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206. How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Personal Relationships
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Sep 05, 2022 |
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205. My Top 5 Rules for Couples Who Work Together
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Aug 29, 2022 |
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204. Abby’s Step-by-Step Guide to Starting Your Day Right
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Aug 22, 2022 |
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204. Abby’s Step-by-Step Guide to Starting Your Day Right
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Aug 22, 2022 |
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203. Why Awe Will Help You Have an Awesome Life and Relationships
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Aug 15, 2022 |
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202. 7 Tips for Ending a Relationship the Healthiest Way Possible
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Aug 08, 2022 |
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201. How to Be Honest and Build Trust in a Relationship
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Aug 01, 2022 |
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200. My Top 10 Tools for Effective Communication in Every Relationship
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Jul 11, 2022 |
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199. The 10 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married or Moving in Together
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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198. The Secret to Difficult Conversations
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Jun 27, 2022 |
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197. Are You Staying In a Relationship for the Wrong Reasons?
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Jun 20, 2022 |
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196. 5 Things to Do When a Conversation Turns Negative
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Jun 13, 2022 |
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195. This One Thing Will Improve Your Relationships: Making and Answering Bids
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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194. How Do You Know If You Really Love Someone?
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May 30, 2022 |
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193. How Meditation Benefits Your Relationships (and There's An Easy Way to Learn!)
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May 23, 2022 |
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192. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do if You’re Embarrassed by Your Partner
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May 16, 2022 |
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191. How to Be an Assertive and Effective Communicator
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May 09, 2022 |
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190. How Childhood Abuse and Trauma Affects Your Adult Relationships
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May 02, 2022 |
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189. How Can I Make My Partner Put More Effort Into Our Relationship?
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Apr 25, 2022 |
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188. The Secret to Happy and Successful Relationships: Attention and Intention
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Apr 18, 2022 |
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187. 5 Research-Backed Ways to Have More Self-Discipline and Self-Control
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Apr 11, 2022 |
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186. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do If Your Partner is Friends with an Ex (and You Don't Like It)
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Apr 04, 2022 |
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185. Ask Dr. Abby: How to Discuss Relationship Problems with Your Partner Without it Turning into a Fight
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Mar 28, 2022 |
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184. How to Save a Damaged Relationship: Restart Your Relationship Right Now
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Mar 21, 2022 |
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183. What to Do When You Can’t Let Go of Your Unhealthy Relationship
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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182. How to Have a Long, Happy Relationship Backed by Research
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Mar 07, 2022 |
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181. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do When Your Ex Seems Happy in a New Relationship
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Feb 28, 2022 |
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180. How to Practice Self-Acceptance: My Top 5 Tips
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Feb 21, 2022 |
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BONUS: The 5 Things Women Need to Know About Men with Shana James
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Feb 17, 2022 |
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BONUS: How 20-Somethings Can Find Happiness and Clarity in Love and Work with Tess Brigham
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Feb 16, 2022 |
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179. 7 Habits That Are Sabotaging Your Relationship
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Feb 14, 2022 |
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178. How to Deal with a Defensive Person Who Won't Listen
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Feb 10, 2022 |
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177. How to Stop Being a Perfectionist So You Can Start Being Happy
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Jan 31, 2022 |
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176. How to Stop Having the Same Argument Over and Over Again in Your Relationship
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Jan 24, 2022 |
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175. 3 Big Mistakes You're Making When Your Kids Don't Like Your New Relationship and 1 Thing to Do to Turn It Around
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Jan 17, 2022 |
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174. How to Stop Being Insecure in Your Relationships
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Jan 11, 2022 |
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173. How to Stop Being Self-Conscious in All Your Relationships
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Jan 04, 2022 |
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172. Mismatched Sex Drives: What to Do if You Want More (or Less) Sex Than Your Partner
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Dec 14, 2021 |
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171: Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do If Your Partner Won’t Move In Together
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Dec 07, 2021 |
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170. Developing Empathy in Relationships is the Key to Connection and Communication
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Nov 30, 2021 |
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169. What to Do If Your Partner is Conflict Avoidant Plus Dealing with Your Own Conflict Avoidance
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Nov 23, 2021 |
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168. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do If Your Partner Doesn't Want to Get Married
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Nov 16, 2021 |
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167. How to Stay Calm and Centered When Dealing with Family Stress and Dysfunction During the Holidays
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Nov 09, 2021 |
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166. Signs that Someone is Gaslighting You and What to Do About It
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Nov 02, 2021 |
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165. Ask Dr. Abby: Unfair Relationships: What to Do When Your Relationship Doesn't Feel Fair
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Oct 26, 2021 |
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164. How to Overcome Guilt and Regret When Setting Boundaries
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Oct 19, 2021 |
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163. How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You in 5 Steps
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Oct 12, 2021 |
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162. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do If Your Partner Blames You When Things Go Wrong and Gaslights You
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Oct 05, 2021 |
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161. Forgiveness is a Choice: Interview with Dr. Robert Enright
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Sep 28, 2021 |
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160. When You Feel Angry and Don't Know Why
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Sep 21, 2021 |
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159. Got Family Stress? How to Not Get Triggered by Family
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Sep 14, 2021 |
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159. Got Family Stress? How to Not Get Triggered by Family
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Sep 14, 2021 |
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158. How to Stop Overthinking and Let Things Go That Bother You
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Sep 07, 2021 |
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157. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do When a Family Member is Creating a Toxic Environment
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Aug 31, 2021 |
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156. Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do When Your Partner Avoids Difficult Conversations
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Aug 24, 2021 |
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155. Overcoming Insecurity and Silencing Your Inner Critic
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Aug 17, 2021 |
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154. Ask Dr. Abby: I Feel Unloved and Not "Good Enough." Is This a "Me" Problem or Is My Partner Causing It?
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Aug 10, 2021 |
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153. The 5-Step Process to Effective Communication in Any Relationship
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Aug 03, 2021 |
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152. How to Know If They've Stopped Listening and You're Not Communicating Anymore
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Aug 03, 2021 |
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151. The 3 Reasons Why You’ve Tried Communication Tools in the Past and They Haven’t Worked
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Aug 03, 2021 |
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150. What to Do When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Something
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Jul 13, 2021 |
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149. Negative Friends and Family: 5 Steps to Deal with Emotionally Draining People
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Jul 06, 2021 |
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148. Is Porn Ok in Your Relationship?
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Jun 29, 2021 |
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147. Your People Pleasing Might Be a Trauma Response!
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Jun 22, 2021 |
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146. You Might Not Realize You're Suffering from Unhealed Trauma
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Jun 15, 2021 |
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146. Unhealed Trauma Might Be Ruining Your Relationship
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Jun 15, 2021 |
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145. How to Deal with Toxic Positivity in All Your Relationships
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Jun 08, 2021 |
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145. How to Deal with Toxic Positivity in All Your Relationships
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Jun 08, 2021 |
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144. One-Sided Friendships: The 5-Step Process to Loving or Leaving Them
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Jun 01, 2021 |
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143. Is Your Relationship Worth Saving?
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May 25, 2021 |
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142. The 5 Ways Imposter Syndrome is Hurting All Your Relationships
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May 18, 2021 |
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141. How to Stop Rescuing and Start Supporting
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May 11, 2021 |
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140. How to Own Your Shit and Stop Blaming Other People
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May 04, 2021 |
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139. 3 Steps to Loving Detachment
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Apr 27, 2021 |
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138. The Easiest and Most Effective Way to Solve Any Problem
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Apr 20, 2021 |
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137. The 5 Signs That You're Not Communicating
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Apr 13, 2021 |
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136. Codependency, Counter-Dependency and Narcissism, Oh My!
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Apr 06, 2021 |
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135. FOMO: Why You Have it and How to Make it Stop
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Mar 30, 2021 |
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134. Unsupportive Friends and Family: The 5 Things You Want to Do
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Mar 23, 2021 |
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133. Negative Self-Talk and Your Inner Critic Need to Go
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Mar 16, 2021 |
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132. Emotional Affairs: What to Do and What to Avoid
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Mar 09, 2021 |
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131. What to Do if Your Partner Threatens a Breakup or Divorce
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Mar 02, 2021 |
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130. Self-Sabotage: What it is, Why You Do It, and How to Stop it
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Feb 23, 2021 |
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129. Regret Sucks: The 3-Step Process to Make it Stop
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Feb 16, 2021 |
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128. How to Stop Caring So Much About What Other People Think
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Feb 09, 2021 |
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127. Coping with Grief and Loss: From Breakups to Death to Losing a Job
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Feb 02, 2021 |
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126: Moving On After a Divorce or Break Up
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Jan 26, 2021 |
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125: 3 Tips for Effective Communication in any Relationship
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Jan 19, 2021 |
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124: How to Listen Without Getting Defensive and Hurt
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Jan 12, 2021 |
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123: What Self-Care Really Means (It's Not What You Think)
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Jan 05, 2021 |
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122: How to Deal with a Narcissist
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Dec 22, 2020 |
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121: What to Do If you Don't Like Your Partner's Friends or Family
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Dec 15, 2020 |
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120: Dealing with Judgmental and Critical People this Holiday Season
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Dec 08, 2020 |
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119: Tiny Habits: How Small Changes Get Big Results. An Interview with BJ Fogg
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Dec 01, 2020 |
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118: How to Get Grounded and Balanced this Holiday Season
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Nov 24, 2020 |
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117: What to Do When Someone You Love is Struggling with Drugs and Alcohol
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Nov 17, 2020 |
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116: Top 5 Coping Skills to Deal with Family Driving You Crazy During the Holidays
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Nov 10, 2020 |
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115: 3 Ways to Deal with Loneliness and Isolation during the COVID Holidays and Beyond
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Nov 03, 2020 |
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114: The Simple Hack to Stop Your Negative Thoughts All Day
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Oct 27, 2020 |
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113: The Secret to Positive Thinking in All Your Relationships
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Oct 20, 2020 |
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112: Finally Stop Having Negative Thoughts
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Oct 13, 2020 |
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111: The Real Reason You Have Negative Thoughts and 2 Things You Can Do About It
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Oct 06, 2020 |
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110. How to Stop Being Jealous in a Relationship
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Sep 29, 2020 |
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109: What to Do if Your Partner is Jealous
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Sep 22, 2020 |
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108: Pandemic Burnout: How to Stay Calm and Focused
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Sep 15, 2020 |
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107: Ask Dr. Abby: What to Do if You and Your Partner Want Different Things in Bed
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Sep 08, 2020 |
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106: What to Do if My Partner is Depressed (and How to Know if They're Just Sad)
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Sep 01, 2020 |
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105: What to Do When the Honeymoon Phase Ends in Your Relationship
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Aug 25, 2020 |
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104: How to Fight Fair: The 3 Rules for Having an Effective Argument
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Aug 18, 2020 |
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103: Ask Dr. Abby: My Partner Doesn't Listen to Me
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Aug 11, 2020 |
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102 Why Sleep is the Secret to Great Relationships
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Aug 04, 2020 |
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101 The 3 Best Tools to Use in Every Relationship
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Jul 28, 2020 |
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100 How to Create Resilient Relationships So You Can Feel Ease, Joy and Connection
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Jul 20, 2020 |
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099 How to Deal with Passive Aggressive People
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Jul 14, 2020 |
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098 How Do You Build a Healthy Relationship?
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Jul 07, 2020 |
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097 How to Identify Your Relationship Blindspots
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Jun 30, 2020 |
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096 My Partner Won't Listen to Me!
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Jun 23, 2020 |
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095 My Partner Is Driving Me Crazy in Quarantine!
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Jun 16, 2020 |
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094 What to Do if You're Being Treated Unfairly
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Jun 09, 2020 |
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093 How Emotional Labor is Killing Your Relationship and What to Do About It
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Jun 02, 2020 |
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092 How to Say "No" and Stick to It
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May 26, 2020 |
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091 How to Stay Sane When the World is Going Crazy
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Apr 14, 2020 |
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090 Best Relationship Advice: 5 Key Philosophies
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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089 How to Deal with People Who Get on Your Last Nerve
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Mar 31, 2020 |
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088 How to Apologize for Real! (And Why It's So Hard)
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Mar 24, 2020 |
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087 What to Do if Your Partner Is Having a Midlife Crisis
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Mar 17, 2020 |
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086 Best Relationship Advice: 5 Quick Wins
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Mar 10, 2020 |
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085 Make Your Long Distance Relationship Great
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Mar 03, 2020 |
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084 Shame: The Silent Killer in Relationships
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Feb 25, 2020 |
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083 Is Self-Compassion the Secret to a Happy Relationship?
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Feb 18, 2020 |
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082 8 Ways to Build Your Confidence and Self-Esteem
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Feb 10, 2020 |
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081 Are You Falling Into the Snuggie Trap?
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Feb 04, 2020 |
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080 Eight Rules for Giving Great Feedback
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Jan 28, 2020 |
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079 Your Expectations Are Making You Unhappy
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Jan 20, 2020 |
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078 You’ve Got to Have High Standards and Low Expectations
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Jan 14, 2020 |
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077 How to Get Out of Negative Thinking
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Jan 06, 2020 |
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076 Getting Out of the Roommate Rut
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Dec 31, 2019 |
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075 The Three Steps to Thrive through the Holidays (Even if You See Your Family)
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Dec 17, 2019 |
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074 Gratitude is a Gateway Drug
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Dec 10, 2019 |
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073 Why Appreciation is Different Than Gratitude
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Dec 03, 2019 |
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072 If You Want to Communicate, You’ve Got to Listen First
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Nov 25, 2019 |
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071 Great Communication is All About Timing
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Nov 18, 2019 |
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070 Two Strategies You Need to Communicate Effectively
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Nov 12, 2019 |
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069 It’s Time to Up Your Communication Game
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Nov 05, 2019 |
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068 How to Stop Being Distracted
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Oct 29, 2019 |
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067 Four Ways to Be More Self-Aware
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Oct 22, 2019 |
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066 How to Make Mindfulness a Habit
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Oct 15, 2019 |
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065 Distraction is the Termites Eating at the Foundation of Your Relationship
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Oct 08, 2019 |
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064 How 5 Minutes of Mindfulness a Day Can Make Your Relationship Great!
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Oct 01, 2019 |
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063 Being Happy for Your Partner = A Happy Relationship
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Sep 24, 2019 |
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062 Relationships Aren't Fair
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Sep 17, 2019 |
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061 Keeping Score Stops You From Connecting
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Sep 10, 2019 |
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060 The Real Problem in Your Relationship
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Sep 03, 2019 |
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059 How to Manage Money in Every Stage of Your Relationship
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Aug 27, 2019 |
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058 How the Law of Attraction Works in Your Relationship
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Aug 20, 2019 |
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057 Change Your Feelings with This One Easy Tool
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Aug 13, 2019 |
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056 Feng Shui Your Relationship with Patricia Lohan
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Aug 06, 2019 |
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055 Complaining is as Bad for You as Bacon
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Jul 30, 2019 |
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054 How to Figure Out the Real Cause of a Problem
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Jul 23, 2019 |
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053 Getting Your Sexy Back in the Kitchen with Kiele Jael
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Jul 09, 2019 |
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052 If You Want Your Partner to Change, Do This.
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Jul 02, 2019 |
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051 The 5 Step Formula for Getting to Consensus
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Jun 25, 2019 |
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050 Male/Female Understanding: An Interview with Robert Kandell
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Jun 18, 2019 |
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049 Effective Strategies for Dealing with Difficult Relationships
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Jun 11, 2019 |
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048 How Attached are You to Your Partner?
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Jun 04, 2019 |
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047 How to Make Your Partner Feel Like a Priority
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May 28, 2019 |
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046 How to Bring Spirituality to Your Relationship with TJ Woodward
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May 21, 2019 |
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045 How to be Heard in Your Relationship
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May 14, 2019 |
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044 Relationship ESP: A Conversation with Ken Blackman
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May 07, 2019 |
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043 The Secret to Changing (Relationship) Habits
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Apr 30, 2019 |
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042 Launching Your Twentysomething with Tess Brigham
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Apr 23, 2019 |
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041 What Anxiety Really is and How to Stop It
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Apr 16, 2019 |
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040 How to Stop Stress from Hurting Your Relationship
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Apr 09, 2019 |
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039 The 8 Habits of Happy and Successful Couples
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Apr 02, 2019 |
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038 You've Got to Love Yourself First if You Want a Great Relationship Interview with Anastasia Frank
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Mar 26, 2019 |
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037 What to Do and Not Do if Your Partner Cheats
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Mar 19, 2019 |
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036 Can I Ever Trust my Partner Again if They Cheated?
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Mar 12, 2019 |
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035 Are You Being Triggered in Your Relationship?
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Mar 05, 2019 |
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034 Safe to Love Again: Interview with Gary Salyer
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Feb 26, 2019 |
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033 Finding the Spark Again (or for the first time)
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Feb 19, 2019 |
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032 No More Date Nights
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Feb 12, 2019 |
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031 Fall in Love with Your Partner Again
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Feb 05, 2019 |
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030 Boundaries: How to Make Them and How to Hold Them
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Jan 29, 2019 |
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029 What to Do if Your Partner is Controlling
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Jan 22, 2019 |
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028 How to Deal with Your Control Issues
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Jan 15, 2019 |
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027 The Three Keys to Building Trust in Your Relationship
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Jan 08, 2019 |
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026 The Truth About Setting Relationship Goals
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Jan 01, 2019 |
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025 Getting the Sizzle Back in Your Relationship
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Dec 11, 2018 |
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024 It's Not Time Management, it's Attention Management
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Dec 04, 2018 |
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023 What to Look for in a Couples' Counselor
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Nov 27, 2018 |
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022 Have a Couples Business Meeting
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Nov 20, 2018 |
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021 My Top 7 Holiday RelationTips!
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Nov 13, 2018 |
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020 The Seven Beliefs About Money that are Hurting Your Relationship
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Nov 06, 2018 |
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019 Make Your Relationship Awesome by Focusing on Bright Spots
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Oct 30, 2018 |
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018 How Your Lizard Brain is Keeping you Stuck
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Oct 23, 2018 |
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017 Have Sex, Not a Drink
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Oct 16, 2018 |
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016 Why You Get Upset in Your Relationship
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Oct 09, 2018 |
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015 9 Tips for Making Mornings Great (Even if you have Kids)
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Oct 02, 2018 |
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014 The 5 Step Process for Getting out of Analysis Paralysis
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Oct 01, 2018 |
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013 5 Signs You're in an Unhealthy Relationship
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Sep 18, 2018 |
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012 The 5 Secrets to Never Fighting with Your Partner Again
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Sep 11, 2018 |
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011 What's Your Communication Style in Your Relationship?
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Sep 04, 2018 |
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010 How to Get Out of Being Angry in Your Relationships
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Aug 28, 2018 |
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009 Are You Codependent?
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Aug 21, 2018 |
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008 Stop Phubbing and Start Connecting
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Aug 14, 2018 |
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007 How Your Language is F*$#!ing Up Your Relationship
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Aug 07, 2018 |
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006 The importance of Answering Bids in Your Relationship
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Jul 31, 2018 |
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005 How to Effectively Deal with Conflict in Your Relationship
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Jul 24, 2018 |
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004 Self Awareness is the Most Important Thing in Your Relationship
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Jul 14, 2018 |
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003 Thinking Your Day Has 24 Hours is Wrong
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Jul 14, 2018 |
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002 Keeping Score Makes You lose
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Jul 14, 2018 |
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001 Three Lies Keeping You Stuck in Relationship Gridlock
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Jul 14, 2018 |
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Introducing Relationships Made Easy
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Jun 30, 2018 |