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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.
Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.
When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce
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Jan 28, 2026 |
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The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship
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Jan 21, 2026 |
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When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré
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Dec 17, 2025 |
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Intimacy Started When This Secret Came to Light ft. Jonathan Van Ness
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Dec 01, 2025 |
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Navigating Parenting Differences as Lovers
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Nov 26, 2025 |
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Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio
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Nov 19, 2025 |
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Seema Anand on Overcoming Shame with the Kama Sutra’s Secrets
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Nov 12, 2025 |
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Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe ft. Tanerélle
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Nov 05, 2025 |
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What My Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Love and Feeling Safe ft. Chrisette Michele
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Oct 29, 2025 |
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Is It Too Late to Become Who I Thought I’d Be? ft Chy Fontenette
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Oct 22, 2025 |
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Should Relationships be THIS Hard? ft. Beleaf & Yvette Henry
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Oct 15, 2025 |
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Could a Single Moment Be Controlling Your Love Story? Ft Andre Holland
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Oct 08, 2025 |
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How Inner Child Work Can Save Your (love) Life featuring Lilly Singh
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Oct 01, 2025 |
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How Jemele Hill is Fighting Back Against America’s #1 Sex Life Killers
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Sep 24, 2025 |
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The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta
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Sep 17, 2025 |
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Am I Still Who You Want? Are You Becoming Who I Need? A Relationship Check-In + Free Guide ft Jared Brady
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Sep 10, 2025 |
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My Mom Talked to Me About Sex, And It Made Me Rebel ft. Blair Imani
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Sep 03, 2025 |
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What holds a relationship together when life falls apart ft Dr. Laura Berman
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Aug 27, 2025 |
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Inside the Male Fantasy: The Surprising Request Men Keep Paying For ft. The Pink Parley
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Aug 20, 2025 |
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He Had Multiple Lovers and I Was Good with Just Him. Alyson Stoner On Their Intro To Polyamory
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Aug 13, 2025 |
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The Eartha Kitt Effect Why Women Are Happily Choosing the Single Life for Life
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Aug 06, 2025 |
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No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is ft. Krista Williams
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Jul 30, 2025 |
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Is a Good Man Good Enough? ft. Miranda Rae Mayo
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Jul 23, 2025 |
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Are They Your Type or Your Trauma Response ft. Anwar White
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Jul 16, 2025 |
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What’s the Emotional Tax on Casual Sex? ft. Decisions Decisions
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Jul 09, 2025 |
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Too Many of Us Are Living with High-Functioning Depression ft. Dr. Judith Joseph
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Jul 02, 2025 |
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Kama Sutra Secrets Every Woman Deserves to Know ft. Seema Anand
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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He Was Never Going To Commit And Here's Why ft. Duckwrth
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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I Wanted My Man, Not the Sex: Tamsen Fadal on Losing Her Libido At the Worst Possible Time
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Jun 11, 2025 |
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Go Where you are Celebrated, Not Just Tolerated ft. Kennedy Ryan
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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Having the Sex I’d Want My Daughter to Expect with Xosha
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May 28, 2025 |
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Jessie Woo Opens Up About Surviving Sexual Assault, Reclaiming Pleasure and Building Healthy Love After Trauma
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May 21, 2025 |
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Alessia Cara Opens Up About How Death Anxiety Affects Her Relationships
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May 14, 2025 |
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Raven-Symoné and Miranda on How Sleep Divorce Strengthened Their Marriage
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May 07, 2025 |
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Cree Summer Opens Up About How Emotional Safety Reignited Her Sex Drive After 50
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Apr 30, 2025 |
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Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!
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Apr 23, 2025 |
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B. Simone Opens Up About Putting God First, Chastity and Demisexuality
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Apr 16, 2025 |
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Karamo Brown on Evolving Sexual and Emotional Needs Over Time
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender Roles to Save Their Marriage
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Apr 02, 2025 |
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Jessie Reyez on Why Boundaries Are a Form of Love
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Mar 26, 2025 |
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Deepica Mutyala Breaks Down Dating as a Successful Woman and Manifesting a Relationship With Purpose
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Lena Waithe Reflects on Emotional Intimacy and Platonic Relationships
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Mar 12, 2025 |
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Tika Sumpter Breaks Down What Sex Education Looks At Home
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Mar 05, 2025 |
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Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma
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Feb 26, 2025 |
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Forget What You Thought You Knew About Good Sex and Start HERE
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Feb 21, 2025 |
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Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets
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Jul 26, 2024 |
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Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires
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Feb 26, 2024 |
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Ride Our Emotional Roller Coaster: The Concluding Episode of Lovers & Friends
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Dec 27, 2023 |
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Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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If Someone Says I’m Too Feminine or Too Masculine, I Know We Won’t Work feat. Mal Wright
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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A Therapist and Her Husband Chose To Be Childfree. Here's Why feat. Vanessa and Xander Marin
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Dec 06, 2023 |
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If You Haven’t Found Your Go To Position, Try These from the Kama Sutra feat. Seema Anand
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Nov 29, 2023 |
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Tonight's Conversation vs Lovers and Friends: Orgasm Gap and Relationships Being Mid
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Nov 22, 2023 |
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Why Is ShxtsNGigs Dominating the Sex / Relationship Podcast Game?
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Nov 15, 2023 |
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I Love Older Men, but I Regret Dating Them in My Twenties feat. Anna Akana
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Nov 08, 2023 |
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No, THAT’S Not Normal! How Hormones Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life and Health
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Nov 01, 2023 |
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Self Love: My Key to Not Being Blinded By Hurt and Constant Criticism
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Oct 25, 2023 |
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I Understand Jada Pinkett Smith and Will's Relationship because of This
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Oct 19, 2023 |
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I Never Stayed Past the Honeymoon Phase and Here’s Why feat. Brenden Durell
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Oct 11, 2023 |
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How I Stopped Searching for Love in Lost People feat. Leah Lamarr
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Oct 04, 2023 |
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Do Relationships Really Need To Be Hard Work? A Reality Check feat. Nina Westbrook
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Sep 27, 2023 |
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CONFESSIONS FROM A SEX COACH FOR MEN ft. Alex Grendi
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Sep 20, 2023 |
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An Uncommon Guide to the Kama Sutra (You'll Be Shocked By What We Found) feat. Seema Anand
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Sep 13, 2023 |
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How to Stay Together When The World Around You Is Falling Apart
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Sep 06, 2023 |
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What it REALLY Takes to Get in the Mood at the Same Time Ft. Elaine Welteroth & Jonathan Singletary
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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This Is What Happens When You Marry Your Maybe feat. The Marriage Pact Couples
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Aug 24, 2023 |
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The TRUTH About Freaky Women and Men Who Can’t Stay with Them feat. Ashley Cobb
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Aug 16, 2023 |
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Do YOU Do These 5 Things? Find Out If You're A Freak Or Prude ft. Andrea Lewis and Glam Erotica
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Aug 09, 2023 |
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Saggy Breasts, Strong Confidence- Embracing Ourselves Before S*x ft Jessie Paege
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Aug 02, 2023 |
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Pointless Sex? The Truth About Not Orgasming Feat. Pour Minds
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Jul 26, 2023 |
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Is SEX Ruined By OVERTHINKING? Tell the Truth, is it Pee? Is it Monogamy if We Have Threesomes? Your Questions Answered with Ricky Shucks
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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Keke Palmer's Baby Mama Drama, Jonah Hill Gets Out Of Line with Boundaries, and Adam 22 Wants Outrage Over His Open Marriage
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Jul 12, 2023 |
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From Being Flewed Out to Flying Solo ft Qimmah Russo
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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Your F*ck Buddy Might be The One ft. Siffat Haider and Nish Samantray
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Jun 28, 2023 |
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The Hidden Cost of Ungratefulness in Relationships feat. Dante Jones
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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More Sex Does Not Make You Better in Bed, but THIS Will feat. Emily Morse
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Jun 14, 2023 |
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If You're Not Paying the Bills, What ARE You Doing? Feat. Cocktales
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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I Want You to Be Obsessed with Me - Raven Ross' Highs & Dangerous Lows Being a Hopeless Romantic
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May 31, 2023 |
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This is What it Sounds Like When a Man Cries feat. Dom Gabriel
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May 24, 2023 |
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Why Did He Suddenly Lose Interest In Sex? Feat. Drew Love
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May 17, 2023 |
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Love At First Sight Almost Sabotaged My Marriage
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Apr 26, 2023 |
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When a Man Submits to Her Success feat. Jade Novah and Devin Johnson
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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Everything You Pray You Won't Have to Know About Infertility feat. Deja Riley's story
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Apr 12, 2023 |
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Family Discussion: Sex, Aging and Our Relationship Dynamics feat. My Mom
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Apr 05, 2023 |
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Losing Our Baby Broke Me, BUT I Never Told Her That feat. Mike Johnson
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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Saving Our Relationship By Having an Open One feat. Bayleigh and Swaggy C
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Mar 22, 2023 |
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Becky G Opens Up About Being Sick and Sick and Tired of Hating Herself
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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I'm a Grown Ass Woman Woman Without Any Friends... feat. Krista from Almost 30
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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Sex: Your Steamy Questions with My Husband
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Mar 01, 2023 |
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It Could've Worked Out But... ft. Lauren Jauregui on Breaking Up with Ty Dolla $ign
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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When Your Soulmate Becomes Your Ex
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Feb 18, 2023 |
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I Thought I Was Straight Until I Met You Feat Kiana Lede
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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Celibutt...Good Lord It's Hard Ft Stephan Speaks
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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If You're Single, You Have to Listen to This Feat Glo Atanmo
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Jan 25, 2023 |
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The Surprising Highs and Lows of Sex and Love(?) Under the Influence feat. Sarah Levy
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Jan 18, 2023 |
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Dangerously in Love feat. Nick Viall
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Jan 11, 2023 |
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The Butt Plug Story that Summarized 2022 + 20 Other Questions to Ground Your Year
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Jan 05, 2023 |
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Good Sex because of My Best Friend feat. Good Moms Bad Choices
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Dec 14, 2022 |
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Yes, I was the Villain in My Relationship feat. Jessie Reyez
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Dec 07, 2022 |
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If You Really Knew Me, You’d Leave Me feat. Steelo Brim
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Nov 30, 2022 |
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I'm Concerned About Our Love After Kids Ft. Jared Brady
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Nov 16, 2022 |
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Go to Therapy or We're Over Ft. David So
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Nov 11, 2022 |
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This is What Happens When a Single Woman Turns 30, feat Kamie Crawford.
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Nov 02, 2022 |
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Longterm - Sex Is Hard (NO pun intended..or maybe it is) feat. Kev On Stage and Mrs Kev On Stage
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Oct 27, 2022 |
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Dating in Your Twenties (is) For Dummies FT. Harry Jowsey and Georgia Hassarati
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Oct 20, 2022 |
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Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe Featuring Tanerélle
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Oct 12, 2022 |
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I Don't Sleep with Women, But I Do Have Sex with Them feat. Sincere Show
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Oct 06, 2022 |
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He's a cheating, code-less mother fucker feat. Tefi Pessoa
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Sep 29, 2022 |
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Tall, Dark, Handsome and Sexually Insecure feat. Mike Johnson
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Sep 21, 2022 |
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Do We Believe Her? ft. Abby De La Rosa + Submissive Women Episode Response
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Sep 14, 2022 |
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Giving Birth, Saying Bye to My Husband and Discovering Who TF I Am
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Aug 23, 2022 |
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My Nightmare Living With A Pregnant Woman - Jared Brady Takeover!
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Aug 02, 2022 |
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I'm Ready to Give Birth and I'm Still Not...Excited. What Now? feat. Shanola Hampton
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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Help! Should I Leave Him or Double Down on Loving Him? feat. Tee
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Jul 20, 2022 |
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Soul Mates or Settling? The Friends to Lovers Story feat. Ezee and Natalie
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Jul 12, 2022 |
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Men's Ego: The Real Cock Blocker for Great Sex feat. Tim Chantarangsu
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Jul 06, 2022 |
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I Baby My Man and It Works For Us feat. Jasmin "Watch Jazzy" Brown
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Jun 28, 2022 |
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Blowjobs: Everything You Didn’t Know You Needed to Know feat. Rayna Greenberg GGE
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Jun 22, 2022 |
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Toxic Self Love feat. Nina Parker
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Jun 08, 2022 |
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Don’t Ask Me My Sign
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Jun 01, 2022 |
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My Breakup was a Break Free ft/ Sorelle Amore
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May 25, 2022 |
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I (kinda) Hate My Lover ft/ Jazzmyne Jay
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May 18, 2022 |
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The Debatable Legacy of Kevin Samuels
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May 11, 2022 |
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Let’s Talk About They, Baby
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May 04, 2022 |
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Sex and the Saints w/ Shameless Maya
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Apr 27, 2022 |
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Am I Undateable? w/ Khleo Thomas and Mandii B
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Apr 13, 2022 |
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My Ex Was a Gaslighter w/ Melissa Rivers
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Apr 06, 2022 |
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You're Dating Out of Your League w/ Harry Jowsey
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Mar 30, 2022 |
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The Funny Thing About Love And Sex w/ Hannah Berner
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Mar 23, 2022 |
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This Baby Is Killing Our Sex Life
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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Why Straight Men Are Boring In Bed
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Mar 09, 2022 |
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Breaking Up Is Fun To Do w/ Kamie Crawford
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Feb 23, 2022 |
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Dating In Your Twenties. One Word: Resentment
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Feb 16, 2022 |
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The Naked Truth On Loving Your Body
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Feb 09, 2022 |
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Boss In The Streets And (Currently) Meh In The Sheets w/ Rachel Lindsay
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Feb 02, 2022 |
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Hi, Meet My Mental Illness!
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Jan 26, 2022 |
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Is It Cheating? Or Is It An Open Relationship?
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Jan 19, 2022 |
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Hey, Can We Try Something Freaky?
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Jan 12, 2022 |
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Are You Caught Up?
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Dec 29, 2021 |
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I Don't Want To Break Up But I Need Some Space
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Dec 22, 2021 |
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Just So You Know...We Ain't F*ckin!
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Dec 15, 2021 |
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I Do...Think About Divorcing You
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Dec 08, 2021 |
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He Might Be Better In Bed Than You
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Dec 01, 2021 |
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Naked Barbies and Humping Pillows
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Nov 24, 2021 |
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Rape is Not Sex
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Nov 17, 2021 |
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I'm Done Waiting For A Ring
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Nov 10, 2021 |
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Porn Sucks!
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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She Switched Up Since She Got a Man Feat Jeannie Mai
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Oct 27, 2021 |
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Do We Really Want Vulnerable Men?
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Oct 20, 2021 |
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Did You Hear She Has Herpes?
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Oct 13, 2021 |
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Help! Why Can't I Orgasm?
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Oct 06, 2021 |
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Hello, Lovers And Friends
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Sep 20, 2021 |