The Art & Skill of Coaching: Get any client any result using trauma-informed coaching strategies

By Jess DeMarchis

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If you're a coach, therapist, or individual interested in personal growth who wants to create real client transformation, not just surface-level change, this podcast is for you. Hosted by Jessica DeMarchis, a licensed trauma therapist turned life coach with over a decade of clinical and coaching experience and more than a million dollars in coaching revenue, this show goes beyond basic mindset tips and into the actual skills and tangible tools that drive client growth. Inside each episode, you'll learn advanced, trauma-informed coaching tools, psychology-backed techniques, and practical strategies to help you understand how people think, why they stay stuck, and how to create lasting behavioral and emotional change. This is not about giving advice, asking better questions, being motivational, or chasing more clients, it's about becoming the kind of coach who gets any client any result. Jess is the creator of The Art and Skill of Coaching certification, a trauma informed coach training program, and host of a top 2% globally ranked podcast. She is known for her direct, evidence-based approach to coaching and client transformation. This podcast is for coaches who want to feel confident in their sessions, therapists who want to integrate coaching tools into their work, and high-achieving individuals who are ready to deepen their self-awareness and gain real tools to expand their capacity. Expect solo trainings, real client examples, and actionable coaching frameworks you can apply immediately to improve your skills, elevate your impact, and grow your business through better client results.

Episode Date
You Don't Need to Be Fully Healed to Be an Effective Coach
May 26, 2026
Why You Still Don't Feel Confident as a Coach- Even after all the podcasts, books and certifications
May 19, 2026
More Clients Won't Fix Your Coaching Business
May 12, 2026
Coaches vs Therapists: The Truth No One Is Saying
May 05, 2026
Stop getting friend zoned as a coach
Apr 28, 2026
You're Busy, But You're Broke: Why Coaches Confuse Being Booked With Building a Business
Apr 21, 2026
High-Achieving vs. Overfunctioning: How to Tell the Difference and Why It Matters for Trauma Survivors in Coaching
Apr 14, 2026
From Panic Attacks to Promotion: What Trauma-Informed Coaching Actually Does (A Real Client Story)
Apr 07, 2026
If You're Successful But Exhausted — Listen to This
Mar 31, 2026
Heartbreak, Lawsuits, and IVF — And My Biggest Business Quarter Yet Life Blew Up — My Business Didn't. Here's Why.
Mar 24, 2026
Why Your Success Feels Exhausting — And How to Increase Your Income and Impact Without Working More
Mar 17, 2026
How Indecision Is Costing You Money, Energy, and Opportunities
Mar 10, 2026
The Truth About Balance for Ambitious Women & Coaches Career, Marriage, Motherhood & Self-Care: Is 'Having It All' Possible?
Mar 03, 2026
From New Coach to Expert: The 5 Stages of Coaching Skill Development
Feb 24, 2026
Why your clients keep repeating the same patterns
Feb 17, 2026
Why Most Coaches Burn Out: Coaching From Energy Instead of Skill
Feb 10, 2026
Why Smart Coaches Still Freeze on Calls (And How We're Fixing It) The Missing Link Between Knowing and Coaching Well
Feb 03, 2026
Is a Coaching Certification Worth It? A Real ASC Student Breaks Down Her Experience
Jan 27, 2026
The Kind of DEEP Coaching That Actually Creates Lasting Change
Jan 20, 2026
You're Not Lazy—You're Stuck in Movement (Here's How to Create Momentum)
Jan 13, 2026
Ask Me Anything: Coaching, Business, Money, and Life as a Therapist-Turned Coach
Jan 06, 2026
Master Coach Series (Ep. 4): Why You're Not Improving as a Coach — And How to Accelerate Your Mastery
Dec 30, 2025
Master Coach Series (Ep. 3): How the Best Coaches Create Faster, Deeper Change
Dec 23, 2025
Master Coach Series (Ep. 2): 7 Coaching Mistakes Keeping Your Clients Stuck (and How Master Coaches Avoid Them)
Dec 16, 2025
Master Coach Series (Ep. 1): 4 Skills Coaches Think They Have… But Don't
Dec 09, 2025
I've Been Fired by Clients — Here's What It Taught Me About Coaching (No One Talks About This)
Dec 02, 2025
Why Most Coaches Struggle With Sales — And How to Fix It
Nov 25, 2025
The Right Way to Use the Wheel of Life in Coaching
Nov 18, 2025
Stop Trying to Motivate Your Coaching Clients: Do This Instead
Nov 11, 2025
7 Advanced Coaching Questions That Reveal Blind Spots and Break Dysfunctional Patterns
Nov 04, 2025
How to Structure a Coaching Session That Actually Creates Change | Coaching Skills for Better Results
Oct 28, 2025
The Coaching Gap: What Separates Good Coaches from Great Coaches
Oct 21, 2025
Want to Be a Coach? Here's Exactly How to Get Started
Oct 14, 2025
​​Why Audit Feedback is the Fastest Way to Grow as a Coach
Oct 07, 2025
The Empty Chair Technique: A Powerful Tool for Coaches
Sep 30, 2025
Are You Self-Protecting or Self-Sabotaging? The Coaching Question You Need to Ask
Sep 23, 2025
Stop Fixing your Emotions: How to Check the Story Behind your Client's Feelings
Sep 16, 2025
The 5 Unfiltered Truths I'd Tell You If I Weren't a Coach
Sep 09, 2025
My 4-Day Workweek: How I Built a Multi-Six-Figure Coaching Business Working 24 Hours
Sep 02, 2025
Why Swearing Works in Coaching
Aug 26, 2025
How to Integrate Shadow Work & Parts Work into Your Coaching Sessions
Aug 19, 2025
You're Not Just a Life Coach — You're Running a Business
Aug 12, 2025
You Don't Need to Hustle—But You Do Have to Work Hard
Aug 05, 2025
Why Intuition Isn't Coaching: How to Spot and Stop Projection in Sessions
Jul 29, 2025
The Science of Reframing: A Powerful CBT Tool Every Coach Should Use
Jul 22, 2025
Why Mindset and Action Aren't Always Enough: Using the PIE Framework in Coaching
Jul 15, 2025
Decode Your Client's Mind: CBT & NLP Tools for Masterful Coaching
Jul 08, 2025
Why Your Coaching Feels Off (And How Taking Notes Can Fix It)
Jul 01, 2025
3 Levels of Coaches- What is Your Next Level?
Jun 24, 2025
What Made a 6-Figure Coach Join ASC (And How It Changed Her Practice)
Jun 17, 2025
ASC Coaches Grow Their Coaching Skill by 126%
Jun 10, 2025
5 Signs You've Outgrown Basic Coaching Skills
Jun 03, 2025
What To Do When Your Client Won't Stop Crying
May 27, 2025
Structure a Sustainable and Successful Coaching Practice
May 20, 2025
Advanced Coaching- The Skills They Don't Teach You in Certification
May 13, 2025
How to Avoid Abrupt and Messy Endings with Coaching Clients
May 06, 2025
Group Coaching with Disruptive Members
Apr 29, 2025
10 Things I Stopped Doing as a Life Coach
Apr 22, 2025
What I Still Struggle with as a Therapist and Life Coach
Apr 15, 2025
Giving and Receiving Feedback as a Life Coach
Apr 08, 2025
Ethical Dilemmas: How to Manage Conflicting Values with Your Client
Apr 01, 2025
How to Come Across Authentic AND Maintain Privacy as an Oline Coach
Mar 25, 2025
Personal vs. Professional Development as a Coach
Mar 18, 2025
3 Tips to Coach Frustrating Clients
Mar 11, 2025
Good Coaching Goals VS Premature Problem Solving
Mar 04, 2025
How Do I Coach Others When My Life is Falling Apart?
Feb 25, 2025
Close 75% of Your Coaching Consults
Feb 18, 2025
Client Results Come from Building Client Responsibility
Feb 11, 2025
How Did I Grow My Coaching Business by 25% in 2024?
Feb 04, 2025
What To Do When You Are Hitting Walls in Your Coaching Sessions?
Jan 28, 2025
How Coaching Helped Me Breakthrough Self-Imposed & Societal Limitations
Jan 22, 2025
Passive vs. Active Coaching
Jan 21, 2025
You Need BOTH- Soft & Hard Skills to be a GREAT Coach
Jan 14, 2025
Coach From Skill NOT Energy
Jan 07, 2025
Dealing with Strong Emotions as a Coach
Dec 31, 2024
Feel Like an Imposter as a Coach?
Dec 24, 2024
What Life Coaching Actually Is & How It Works
Dec 17, 2024
Boundaries You Need to Have as a Coach
Dec 10, 2024
Always Run Over on Coaching Calls?
Dec 03, 2024
"BAD" Questions to Ask as a Coach
Nov 26, 2024
Measure Effort vs. Accomplishment
Nov 19, 2024
How to Create Psychological Wholeness for Clients
Nov 12, 2024
Assess Beyond the Presenting Problem to Create Results that Last
Nov 05, 2024
How to Work with 'Stuck' Clients
Oct 29, 2024
How to Build REAL Confidence as a Coach
Oct 22, 2024
How to Breakthrough All or Nothing Thinking
Oct 15, 2024
The 3 Beliefs You Need As a Coach
Oct 08, 2024
Which is More Motivating- Pain or Pleasure?
Oct 01, 2024
The 15 Year Journey to The Art & Skill of Coaching
Sep 24, 2024
Don't Skip the Set Up in Coaching
Sep 17, 2024
What to Do When Your Client Doesn't Know What to Talk About
Sep 10, 2024
3 Tips for Coaching High Achievers
Sep 03, 2024
When is Self Disclosure Helpful?
Aug 27, 2024
How I Have Changed My Mind as a Coach
Aug 20, 2024
ASC Coaching Philosophy
Aug 13, 2024
Where are ASC Graduates Now
Aug 06, 2024
Inside ASC's Process
Jul 30, 2024
HOW to Actually Reflectively Listen as a Coach
Jul 23, 2024
Coaching on the Subconscious Level
Jul 16, 2024
Entrepreneurship is Lonely
Jul 09, 2024
More Time Does NOT Equal More Value As a Coach
Jul 02, 2024
How to Motivate Any Client
Jun 25, 2024
Mindset vs. Behavior Coaching
Jun 18, 2024
How to Manage Rambling Clients
Jun 11, 2024
How ASC Student 3x Her Income
Jun 04, 2024
Solo Travel (As a Woman)
May 28, 2024
Don't Project Your Sh*t Onto Your Clients
May 21, 2024
How to Change the Result Even if the Situation Doesn't
May 14, 2024
50% Coach & 50% Entrepeneur
May 07, 2024
The REAL ROI of Coaching
Apr 30, 2024
(Mal)Adaptive Coping
Apr 23, 2024
F*ck Fear
Apr 16, 2024
Mental Health vs. Self Help- How to Know the Difference
Apr 09, 2024
The Intangible Resume
Apr 02, 2024
What would the BEST version of you do MORE & LESS of?
Mar 26, 2024
SMART vs Stong Coaching
Mar 19, 2024
Slow Down Your Coaching
Mar 12, 2024
Coach Series w/ Lyssa Scott
Mar 05, 2024
Coach Series w/ Steph Gold
Feb 27, 2024
Coach Series w/ Shelby Kurz
Feb 20, 2024
Coach Series w/ Lindsey Mango
Feb 13, 2024
Coach Series w/ Marsha Vanwynsberghe
Feb 06, 2024
Coach Series w/ Kasey Orvidas
Jan 30, 2024
Coach Series w/ Emily Cassel
Jan 23, 2024
How I Found My Way Into Coaching
Jan 16, 2024
Healing Stories in Coaching
Jan 09, 2024
Inside The Art & Skill of Coaching Training
Jan 02, 2024
My TOP Lessons from 2023
Dec 26, 2023
The Invisible Energetics of Coaching
Dec 19, 2023
Toxic Positivity in the Coaching Industry
Dec 12, 2023
The Pros & Cons of Group Coaching
Dec 05, 2023
How to Structure a Coaching Session
Nov 28, 2023
Good vs. Great Coaching
Nov 21, 2023
What Coaching IS and IS NOT
Nov 14, 2023
Questions to Get Clients Unstuck
Nov 07, 2023
Woo Woo in Coaching
Oct 31, 2023
Coaching Clients Through Break Ups
Oct 24, 2023
Don't Get Stuck in the Small Details or Big Picture
Oct 17, 2023
The Hero's Journey in Coaching
Oct 10, 2023
Coaches Can't Diagnosis
Oct 03, 2023
TOP 3 Thinking Errors
Sep 26, 2023
The Shadow Side of Caring
Sep 19, 2023
Behind the Scenes of My Business
Sep 12, 2023
Goal Setting with the Subconscious
Sep 05, 2023
Creating Joy vs. Chasing Happiness
Aug 29, 2023
My 10 Favorite Coaching Questions
Aug 22, 2023
Comfort Zone- Shrink or Grow It?
Aug 15, 2023
Create ANY Emotion ANY Time
Aug 08, 2023
A Thought Is Just a Thought
Aug 01, 2023
Tapping to Feel Better FAST
Jul 25, 2023
Needs vs. Values
Jul 18, 2023
You Don't Have to Follow the "Rules"
Jul 11, 2023
What is the Art & Skill of Coaching
Jul 04, 2023
What To Do When You are Fighting Against Yourself
Jun 27, 2023
4 Questions To Get Motivated
Jun 20, 2023
The Unspoken Ethics of Life Coaching
Jun 13, 2023
Trauma-Informed Coaching (Part 2)
Jun 06, 2023
Trauma-Informed Coaching (Part 1)
May 30, 2023
The Emotional Ladder
May 23, 2023
3 Non-negotiables of Life (Everyone WILL Experience)
May 16, 2023
Why, What, How (And In That Order)
May 09, 2023
Good vs. GREAT Coaching
May 02, 2023
4 Lessons From Dating in My 30's
Apr 25, 2023
Ditch the Hustle Culture
Apr 18, 2023
You can be BIG just not too big
Apr 11, 2023
How to Make Friends As An Adult
Apr 04, 2023
You Regress When You Are Stressed
Mar 28, 2023
The Inside Scoop on The Art & Skill of Coaching from Recent Graduates
Mar 21, 2023
Your Future Starts NOW
Mar 14, 2023
Coaching is a Science
Mar 07, 2023
You are Your BEST Investment
Feb 28, 2023
My Mental Health Journey
Feb 21, 2023
How to Build Self-Love
Feb 14, 2023
Client Spotlight- Dating as a High Achiever
Feb 07, 2023
Healthy Striving vs. Perfectionism
Jan 31, 2023
Quiet the Internal Critic
Jan 24, 2023
Implicit Bias in the Personal Growth Industry
Jan 17, 2023
Attachment vs. Commitment
Jan 10, 2023
HOW to Change Your Thoughts
Jan 03, 2023
Client Spotlight- Marlene
Dec 27, 2022
Less is More
Dec 20, 2022
Train Your Brain with a Mindfulness Practice
Dec 13, 2022
How I Coach Myself
Dec 06, 2022
What NOT to do During a Conflict
Nov 29, 2022
GROW Model: How to Make a Decision and Move Forward Fast
Nov 22, 2022
Client Spotlight- Rebecca Breaking Through Her Self Imposed Limitations
Nov 15, 2022
Building Self-Trust
Nov 08, 2022
What's the Function in the Dysfunction?
Nov 01, 2022
You are doing it backwards (Be Do Have)
Oct 25, 2022
Codependency
Oct 18, 2022
Build Successful Habits
Oct 11, 2022
Client Spotlight- Cat the Corporate Dropout
Oct 04, 2022
How to Have Difficult Conversations
Sep 27, 2022
Coping with Outgrowing People & Places
Sep 20, 2022
Confidence Mini-Masterclass
Sep 13, 2022
Therapy vs. Coaching
Sep 06, 2022
How to Make Your Goals a Reality
Aug 30, 2022
Balancing Your Masculine & Feminine Energy
Aug 23, 2022
How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Aug 16, 2022
Attachment vs. Love
Aug 09, 2022
The 3 Deadly P's: Permanence, Personalization & Pervasiveness
Aug 02, 2022
Just Say No
Jul 26, 2022
The top 5 fake beliefs
Jul 19, 2022
Anxiety is your Friend
Jul 12, 2022
LIVE coaching on starting a business
Jul 05, 2022
What is 'real' success
Jun 28, 2022
Sustainable Self-Care
Jun 21, 2022
4 Steps to being more Decisive
Jun 14, 2022
Boundaries Aren't Bad
Jun 07, 2022
Fail Hard, Fail Often
May 31, 2022
Bust Through Your Limiting Beliefs
May 24, 2022
LIVE Coaching On Self-Forgiveness & Compassion
May 17, 2022
We All Experience Trauma
May 10, 2022
Self-Kindness Makes you Stronger
May 03, 2022
Preparing vs. Changing your Life
Apr 26, 2022
Smart People Make Dumb Decisions
Apr 19, 2022
Multi-taskers are Ineffective
Apr 12, 2022
Knowing your values makes you happier
Apr 05, 2022
LIVE Coaching Call- Stuck at my Job
Mar 29, 2022
Confusion is a feeling not a circumstance
Mar 22, 2022
Update your mental apps
Mar 15, 2022
Reverse Goal List
Mar 08, 2022
How to Stop Overthinking
Mar 08, 2022
Busy is Bad
Mar 08, 2022
How It All Started
Mar 03, 2022