Connection Codes
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Episodes: 212
Heather Haye
Oct 12, 2023
Love these subjects, the candid discussions, and the authentic revealing of emption! This has been so helpful in our marriage.
John Columbus Ohio
Oct 10, 2022
Glenn and Phyllis share the most clear practical and realistic ways to connect. This will change your life in every area!
Description
We often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of miscommunication and frustration. We don't know how to convey how we feel OR we burst out and create even more pain. Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill have spent years researching human connection and how to break that cycle. The Connection Codes is the guide to helping couples conquer conflict and it is the tool to break the cycle of pain and live in peace together.
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
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Reignite Your Marriage: The Product That is Changing How Couples Connect
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Apr 08, 2026 |
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Reclaiming Your Desire: The 5 Things That Will Make or Break Your Marriage, Career, & Mental Health
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Mar 31, 2026 |
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Emotions Are More Than Just Joy & Anger: How Learning the 8 Core Emotions Can Transform Your Marriage & Life
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Mar 23, 2026 |
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Why Your Marriage Feels Disconnected (And the Emotional Tool That Actually Fixes It)
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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The Way Through Grief: Healing Through Emotion, Identity, and Community When Loss Changes Everything
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Mar 10, 2026 |
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The Emotions Behind ADHD (& Why It Doesn't Mean Your Brain is Broken - It's Just Wired Differently)
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Mar 03, 2026 |
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Why Ignoring Your Emotions is Destroying Your Health (And What You Should Be Doing Instead)
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Feb 24, 2026 |
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The Neuroscience of Connection: How Active Listening Releases Oxytocin in Your Marriage
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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How to Be a Good Listener (The 2-Second Fix That Changes Everything)
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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The Hidden Gut Issues Hijacking Your Emotions (& How To Fix Them) | With Allison Jordan
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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Walking Through Difficulty Over & Over Again - How Creativity Heals Identity When Life Falls Apart
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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From Judgment to Curiosity: What Judgment Is Costing You and What Changes When You Get Curious
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Jan 20, 2026 |
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When Pain Becomes Home: Breaking the Pattern That Keeps You Stuck
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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Why Your Emotions Are Throwing a Temper Tantrum (And What to Do About It)
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Jan 06, 2026 |
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The Monday Mindset: Breaking The Cycle & Actually Starting Fresh in 2026
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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Shrimp Rings & Silver Trees: The Holiday Traditions That Made Us Who We Are
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Dec 23, 2025 |
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When Humor Hurts: Navigating Experiencing the Same Situation Differently
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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"I'd Rather Be Alone Than Feel Alone": Why Loneliness Isn't What You Think & What Actually Helps
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Dec 09, 2025 |
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From Fear to Freedom: A Marriage Coach's Journey to Breakthrough Sexual Connection | With Dan Purcell
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Dec 02, 2025 |
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The Difference Between No Conflict and Real Connection | Elijah Runyan
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Nov 25, 2025 |
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Connection That Changed Generations | Friedemann Pache
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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From a Facebook Message to Life Change | Annemiek Vernhout
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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Rebel Against the Silence: How One Decision Changed Everything About My Marriage and Mental Health (with Laurel Simpson)
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Nov 04, 2025 |
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Why Your Marriage Keeps Repeating the Same Fight (Identity Loss Explained)
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Oct 27, 2025 |
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Why We're Choosing Identity Over Truth (And It's Destroying Our Relationships)
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Oct 21, 2025 |
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When Your Partner Is Struggling and Real Talk About Recovery and Pain
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Oct 15, 2025 |
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Why Vulnerability Isn’t Weakness and How to Build Safety Through Sharing
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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When Forgiveness Feels Impossible: A New Path to Healing and Connection
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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Sex After Kids: Rebuilding Intimacy with Ally Bullock (184)
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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Don’t Drown in Your Emotions—Process Them - Paul & Hannah McClure’s Story (183)
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Sep 16, 2025 |
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The School of Connection Is Here (182)
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Sep 09, 2025 |
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"I'm So Lonely in This Relationship": When Your Partner Can't See Your Pain with Zephan & Sarah McMinn (181)
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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Why No One Is Too Young to Learn Emotional Intelligence: A Conversation with Asher Hill (180)
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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The Role of Vulnerability in Personal Growth (179)
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Aug 19, 2025 |
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Processing Emotions Without Judgment with Jonathan Hernandez (178)
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Aug 12, 2025 |
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What’s Really Driving Your Relationship (177)
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Aug 05, 2025 |
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Living and Loving with Neurodivergence (176)
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Jul 29, 2025 |
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What Your Emotions Are Trying to Tell You (175)
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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Are We Traumatizing Our Kids to Sit Still? (173)
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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(Replay)Adding depth to your relationship & working with your partner, not against them...(71)
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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How Connection Beats Guilt Every Time with JoAnn Crohn (172)
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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Healing Isn’t Just in Your Head (171)
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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Learning to Move Before It All Makes Sense(170)
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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You Can’t Heal If You Keep Hiding (169)
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Jun 11, 2025 |
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What Happens When You Start Showing Up for Yourself with Bridgett Blood(168)
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Jun 03, 2025 |
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Naming This Emotion Could Save Your Relationship(167)
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May 27, 2025 |
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We Didn't Know How Disconnected We Were Until We Finally Connected(166)
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May 20, 2025 |
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Connection Doesn’t Require You to Shrink (165)
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May 13, 2025 |
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Why Shame Isn’t the End of the Story with Vanessa Marin (164)
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May 06, 2025 |
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Emotional Safety Is the Secret Weapon in Relationships (163)
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Apr 29, 2025 |
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What Your Body is Trying To Tell You (162)
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Navigating Hurt: How to Hold Space for Your Partner’s Pain and Transform Shame into Connection (161)
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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Stop Wearing the Hat They Gave You(160)
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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How Identity Can Heal the World (Yes, Really)(159)
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Apr 01, 2025 |
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Why You Miss Each Other in Stress(158)
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Mar 25, 2025 |
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The Emotional Cost of Stunt Doubling(157)
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Mar 18, 2025 |
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Codependency Feels Like Love—Until It’s Not with Echo Hill-Vetter(156)
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Mar 11, 2025 |
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Are You Running on Desire Instead of Capacity?(155)
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Mar 04, 2025 |
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Your Body Remembers What You Refuse to Feel with Echo Vetter(154)
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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Stage 4 Cancer and an Unshakable Will to Live with Meaghan Hill (153)
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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How to Own Your Sexual Energy Without Fear or Judgment with Bridgett Blood (152)
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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Why We Choose to Suffer Alone with Bridgett Blood(151)
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Feb 04, 2025 |
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Parenting in the Age of Anxiety with Elijah Runyan(150)
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Jan 28, 2025 |
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How to Recognize Fear of Shame to Get Unstuck with Elijah Runyan (149)
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Jan 21, 2025 |
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A Blueprint for Financial Peace in Any Relationship with Dan and Kay Ockey(148)
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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Dream Big, Start Small: How to Build Momentum in 2025(147)
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Jan 07, 2025 |
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Letting Go of a Life We Built: Behind the Decision(146)
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Dec 31, 2024 |
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How to Stop Resentment from Ruining the Holidays(145)
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Dec 24, 2024 |
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How Pain Became My Compass for Change(144)
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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How to Stay Curious When it Hurts(143)
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Dec 10, 2024 |
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When Emotions Sneak Up On You(142)
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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What Fear Can Teach Us About Unity with Sharon McMahon(141)
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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Why Conflict May Be the Key to Closeness with Jordan and Erika Koop(140)
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Nov 19, 2024 |
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Why We Ignore Our Own Needs—and How to Stop(139)
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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Why Changing Beliefs Feels Hard (But Can Be Worth It)(138)
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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Sex, Shame, and Society’s Messages to Men(137)
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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From Purity Culture to Sexual Confidence(136)
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Oct 22, 2024 |
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The Sex Talk Men Never Got with Sam Jolman(135)
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Oct 15, 2024 |
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How Being Right Could Destroy Your Relationship is great(134)
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Oct 08, 2024 |
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From Childhood Trauma to Adult Dysfunction: Breaking the Cycle(133)
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Oct 01, 2024 |
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Are You Weaponizing Your Emotions? How to Avoid Emotional Harm in Parenting (132)
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Sep 24, 2024 |
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He Wanted to Quit: The Key to Turning Our Marriage Around(131)
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Sep 17, 2024 |
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Family, Trauma, and Survival: Why You Disassociate and How to Stop(130)
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Sep 10, 2024 |
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Signs of Living in Emotional Pain (129)
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Sep 03, 2024 |
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The Silent Killer of Your Productivity and Success(128)
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Aug 27, 2024 |
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What safety in a relationship looks like-- and how to get it (127)
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Aug 20, 2024 |
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The Truth About 'The One' - The Key to Lasting Relationships(126)
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Aug 13, 2024 |
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How to Ask A Question Without Triggering Your Partner(125)
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Aug 06, 2024 |
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Why Pain Management Is Not Enough(124)
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Jul 30, 2024 |
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Is Forgiveness Enough?(123)
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Jul 23, 2024 |
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Healing Childhood Trauma and Discovering Yourself(122)
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Jul 16, 2024 |
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How Memories Shape Our Identity from Childhood to Adulthood(121)
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Understand Anxiety to Reduce it(120)
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Jul 02, 2024 |
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Engaging Respectfully in Tough Conversations with Justin Jones-Fosu(119)
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Jun 25, 2024 |
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Reaching Health Goals Starts Here with Elijah Runyan (118)
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Jun 18, 2024 |
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The Shocking Benefits of Emotional Vulnerability with Jordan and Erika Koop(117)
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Jun 11, 2024 |
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Navigating Love and Fear with Lydia and Sebastian Gerhardt(116)
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Jun 04, 2024 |
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Overcoming Numbing pain & Addiction with Elijah Runyan(115)
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May 28, 2024 |
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Dating with Intention with Bridgett Blood(114)
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May 21, 2024 |
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Connection as Correction in Parenting with Echo Hill Vetter(113)
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May 14, 2024 |
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Shaping a Compassionate Future for Our Children(112)
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May 07, 2024 |
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Is sex a need or just a desire?(111)
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Apr 30, 2024 |
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Opening Up About Sex through the Hard Conversations(110)
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Apr 23, 2024 |
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Finding Joy in the Middle of Pain(109)
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Apr 16, 2024 |
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When Internship Turns Into Family with Jordan and Erika Koop(108)
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Apr 09, 2024 |
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When Faith Meets Psychology with Dr. Margaret Nagib(107)
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Apr 02, 2024 |
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When Joy is Damaging(106)
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Mar 26, 2024 |
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Anger in Depth: Exploring Its Role in Connection and Disconnection(105)
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Mar 19, 2024 |
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An update we wish we didn't have to give (104)
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Mar 12, 2024 |
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Stop feeling what you are feeling (103)
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Mar 05, 2024 |
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How to process childhood pain with parents with Echo Vetter (102)
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Mar 01, 2024 |
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Shifting from burnout to energy with Echo Vetter (101)
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Feb 20, 2024 |
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The Key to Sexual Liberation: Reclaiming Joy and Connection in the Bedroom (100)
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Feb 13, 2024 |
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How to be a bold wife with Alisa DiLorenzo (099)
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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The Role of Emotions in Sex (098)
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Jan 30, 2024 |
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Slicing it thinner-- going deeper to get to the root (097)
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Jan 23, 2024 |
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Pushing Through the Pain: Tools for Perseverance and Growth (096)
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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How to actually achieve the goals you set (095)
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Jan 09, 2024 |
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How to increase longevity in your life (094)
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Jan 02, 2024 |
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How to stop creating massive blow ups in your relationship (093)
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Dec 26, 2023 |
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How to connect when you don't feel like you "fit" (Episode 092)
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Dec 19, 2023 |
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Processing holiday loneliness (Episode 91)
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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090: Managing the Mental Load: Tools for a Successful Partnership with Zach Watson
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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089: The Art of Listening: Insights from Connection Coders Fab and Claire
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Nov 28, 2023 |
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088: Can we change our emotions? A Conversation with Josh Haas
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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087: How we got here: Tera's story to the Connection Codes
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Nov 14, 2023 |
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086: Finding Unity amidst Division: The Role of Identity in War
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Nov 07, 2023 |
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085: How to talk to your kids about sexuality with Clint Davis
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Oct 31, 2023 |
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084: Growing Together: A Conversation on Intimacy and Emotion
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Oct 24, 2023 |
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083: Understanding the Purpose of Shame and How It Can Help Us Grow
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Oct 17, 2023 |
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082: Strengthening Family Bonds with Connection Codes
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Oct 10, 2023 |
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081: Below the Surface: The 90% We Hide from the World
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Oct 02, 2023 |
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080: Finding Freedom: How Uncovering Childhood Pain Transforms Relationships
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Sep 26, 2023 |
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078: Long term effects of criticisism
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Sep 19, 2023 |
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077: Being weighed down by life & how to soften the load
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Sep 12, 2023 |
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076: Flirting & sexual banter setting expectations for sex
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Sep 05, 2023 |
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075: In-Session: Janet & Rich change the dance after 42 years
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Aug 29, 2023 |
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074: Learning to process your emotions is the most important thing you can do this year-- but why?
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Aug 22, 2023 |
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073: The Human Experience of Concealed Pain and the 'Happy Face' Mask
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Aug 15, 2023 |
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072: How to spark joy when there are so many "negative" emotions
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Aug 08, 2023 |
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071: Adding depth to your relationship & working with your partner, not against them...
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Aug 01, 2023 |
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070: Increase learning capacity in kids with Mark & Teresa Lubovich
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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068: Trauma, Natural Consequences, and Parenting with Echo Vetter
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Jul 11, 2023 |
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067: Body Image and Intimacy
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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066: In-Session: Emotional eating and processing joy
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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065: In Session: Night Terrors, Separation, and Creating Safety
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Jun 20, 2023 |
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064: How to transition from tension to fun in your relationship
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Jun 13, 2023 |
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063: In session- Small Moments, Big Conflicts
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Jun 06, 2023 |
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062: Q&A- Pressure in Sex, expectations in chores, and sharing the CC with friends
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May 30, 2023 |
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061: In Session- How to connect when an emotion feels imbalanced
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May 23, 2023 |
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060: Finding the right time to connect when you are balancing a lot
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May 16, 2023 |
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059: Big ball of yukiness- the difference between guilt & shame
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May 09, 2023 |
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058: Friendship and Feelings: Navigating Emotional Safety and Regulation Without a Co-Regulator
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May 02, 2023 |
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057: He Said, She Said: Navigating Relationship Conflicts and Resolving Disagreements
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Apr 25, 2023 |
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056: Emotional Intensity: Why Some Feelings Hit Harder Than Others
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Apr 17, 2023 |
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055: Unpacking Anger: Navigating the Emotion and Finding Peace
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Apr 11, 2023 |
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054: How to overcome decision fatigue
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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053: Am I enough? And other question you ask after a big life change.
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Mar 28, 2023 |
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052: How to move forward when your partner is shut down
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Mar 20, 2023 |
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051: Defensiveness, Parenthood, and life after the Connection Codes with Chris Cruz
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Mar 14, 2023 |
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050: (Part 2) Living with Narcissism & Psychological Disorders
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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049: (Part 1) Living with Narcissism & Psychological Disorders
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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048: Childhood trauma affecting who we are in relationships
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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047: Physical touch-- What is happening under the skin?
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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046: Obligation sex during a holiday
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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045: Is experiencing fear & shame unbiblical?
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Jan 31, 2023 |
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044: In Session: Elijah's Journey to Rediscovering Himself and His Family
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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043: How to Human with Carlos Whittaker
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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042: Am I proud of myself?
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Jan 10, 2023 |
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041: How to create habits that will change your life
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Jan 03, 2023 |
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040: Goal setting for 2024
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Dec 27, 2022 |
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039: My partner doesn't want to talk about emotions...
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Dec 20, 2022 |
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038: When your marriage hits a wall
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Dec 13, 2022 |
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037: How to help someone struggling with depression... even if that someone is you.
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Dec 05, 2022 |
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036: "I felt like I was too much for people"
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Nov 29, 2022 |
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035: How to make it through the holidays without a fight
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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034: This action is damaging your relationship-- and you don't even know it
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Nov 15, 2022 |
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033: How to help someone grieving
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Nov 08, 2022 |
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032: Sex questions answered
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Nov 01, 2022 |
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031: Kleptomania, building community, and processing loss
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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030: Should I do individual therapy or couples therapy?
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Oct 18, 2022 |
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029: Being defensive, pointing the finger, and growing pains
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Oct 11, 2022 |
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028: What is a low libido?
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Oct 04, 2022 |
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027: When you operate at different speeds than your partner
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Sep 27, 2022 |
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026: Wanting to change your partner
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Sep 20, 2022 |
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025: Sex for connection... not just for pleasure
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Sep 13, 2022 |
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024: How to gain more energy in your day
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Sep 07, 2022 |
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Mini 002: How to rebuild a relationship with your child
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Sep 02, 2022 |
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023: What safety in a relationship looks like-- and how to get it
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Aug 30, 2022 |
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022: {Mini} Managing the before-school breakdowns with your kids
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Aug 26, 2022 |
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021: Raising a passionate child, managing logistics, and building connection with your kids
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Aug 23, 2022 |
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020: Anxiety and depression in kids
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Aug 16, 2022 |
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019: Pressure from sex (Part 2)
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Aug 09, 2022 |
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018: In Session- Unspoken emotions causing years of pain
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Aug 02, 2022 |
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017: I am tired of pressure from sex
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Jul 26, 2022 |
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016: "That happened 20 years ago." Fights from the past causing fights today.
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Jul 18, 2022 |
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015: "I didn't know he deals with OCD"
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Jul 11, 2022 |
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014: In Session- I thought I was a good husband because I didn't yell at my wife
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Jun 21, 2022 |
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013: Her husband wants more sex. She wants more connection.
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Jun 14, 2022 |
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O12: Take your sex life to the next level
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May 31, 2022 |
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011: Avoiding emotions... especially the bad ones
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May 24, 2022 |
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010: In Session: Postpartum trauma and staying connected during difficulty
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May 17, 2022 |
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009: I want to punish my partner for hurting me...
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May 10, 2022 |
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008: How we navigate trigger Topics- Family, Sex, Finances
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May 03, 2022 |
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007: In Session: He hung up on me.
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Apr 26, 2022 |
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006: The top reasons people go to therapy--- from a therapist perspective
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Apr 19, 2022 |
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005: Following the energy, moving forward after an argument, and codependency
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Apr 12, 2022 |
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004: How to be a smarter, healthier version of yourself (Part 2)
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Apr 05, 2022 |
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003: How to be a healthier, smarter version of yourself (Part 1)
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Mar 22, 2022 |
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002: Taking steps towards healing (Part 2)
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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001: Living in a marriage filled with pain (Part 1)
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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Intro to the Connection Codes Podcast
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Mar 09, 2022 |