Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
By Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. & Tara Blair Ball
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Are you in a relationship that confuses you and leaves you feeling attacked or walking on eggshells? Maybe you've left one but aren't sure what to do next.
Learn more about narcissistic abuse from Dr. Kerry McAvoy, a mental health clinician and author of Love You More, and Tara Blair Ball, Certified Relationship Coach and author of Reclaim and Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal, as they tackle toxic relationship dynamics.
Listen as they describe destructive personalities, typical partner profiles, progressive stages of abuse, and common manipulation tactics. Find out why these relationships are difficult to avoid, what makes them tough to leave, and how to recover and find self-love again.
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Could you be at risk? Why you should be afraid of the Dark Triad Personality
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In this episode, Kerry and Tara discuss a particularly dangerous group of people, the Dark Triad Personality Disorders. And today's self-help tip is how to assess if someone you know is a one. |
Jun 05, 2023 |
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Friends as Enemies: What to do when those you love are narcissistic
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In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle how complicated it can be when the narcissists in your life can also be friends or family members. And the self-help tip is a visualization strategy for your boundaries. |
May 22, 2023 |
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How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily? The Problem of Grief
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Victims of narcissistic abuse often complain about seeing happy photos of their exes on social media. In this episode, Kerry and Tara will discuss why some people move on so quickly and easily after leaving a relationship. And the Self-Help Tip will be how to use "containment" for intense emotions like grief. |
May 15, 2023 |
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Waking up to a Stranger: What Happens Once Love Bombing is Over
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Have you noticed how narcissists and toxic people morph into someone new once love-bombing is over? In this episode, Kerry and Tara examine the chameleon-like nature of personality disorders and how this creates confusion and self-doubt for victims. And the self-help tip is a helpful exercise to expose if this dynamic is happening in your current relationship. |
May 08, 2023 |
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Announcement
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Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse will be dropping a new episode on May 8, 2023. In the meantime feel to listen to previous episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391 |
Apr 24, 2023 |
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Could I be the narcissist? The power of reactive abuse to make victims feel crazy.
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara tackle the power of reactive abuse to make some narcissistic abuse victims feel crazy. And the self-help tip is how to increase the effectiveness of an affirmation by pairing it with a positive behavior. |
Apr 17, 2023 |
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Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you.
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper. |
Apr 10, 2023 |
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Aren’t narcissists fantastic lovers? Tackling the myth of great sex in abusive relationships
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the myth of sex in the narcissistic relationship, and how it might be bad, weaponized, or even assaultive. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice red light/green light in assessing if and what you should do in regards to physical intimacy in a current or new relationship. |
Apr 03, 2023 |
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Why do I feel so confused and awful? Are these signs of cognitive dissonance?
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it can have on us physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice H.A.L.T in order to get back to practicing the basics. |
Mar 27, 2023 |
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Are you a gaslighter? How we might unintentionally gaslight in even healthy relationships
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss how we might actually gaslight in healthy relationships and how to avoid doing this in the future. And, the self-help tip is on letting others "earn" our trust before blindly giving it to them. |
Mar 20, 2023 |
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Is Codependency a Bad Word? Should it be Used to Describe Narcissistic Abuse Victims?
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss codependency vs. Super Traits, what's the difference, and why we differ in how we feel about each of the terms. And, the self-help tip is on how to create a list of top lines for yourself. |
Mar 13, 2023 |
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Why do I love my abuser? The power of a trauma bond explained
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara give an intimate look at the emotional power of a trauma bond. How trauma bonds create mental confusion and a psychological dependence on the abuser. And, the self-help tip is on the importance of identifying and protecting non-negotiable boundaries. Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 58: Why can't I leave my partner? The seven stages of a trauma bond Listen here. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Leave us a review and let us know what you think about the podcast, send an email to hello@breakingfreewithkerrytara.com More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Mar 06, 2023 |
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What's best for the kids, leaving or staying in a toxic relationship?
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss co-parenting challenges when you have a toxic ex. How do you stay regulated when kids are involved, and what do you do when the kids are being used as pawns? Today's self-help tip is learning to talk to yourself as if you were a friend. Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 66: Is the abuse harmful to children? Two survivors share their personal experiences. Listen here. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Recommendations for coparenting apps: Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Feb 27, 2023 |
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Can we still be friends? How to handle the toxic post-split lovebomb request
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss why your toxic ex might come back and try to lovebomb you after the break-up through, what may seem like, innocent requests of friendship. We agree that while their offer may seem tantalizing, DON'T do it! Today's self-help tip is a different way to approach communicating with toxic people. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Feb 20, 2023 |
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Do I really need to go no contact with my narcissistic ex?
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In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss following through with limited contact or no contact after a break-up. What is limited vs. no contact? How long should you do it for? And WHY should you do it? Today's self-help tip is one way to self-soothe during reactive abuse. Make sure to check out Tara's 30-day SMS course, "How to Go No Contact With Your Ex," and use the code "PODCAST" to receive 35% off! Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Feb 13, 2023 |
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Help, I think I'm being financially abused! What can I do about it?
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Research has found that over 99% of victims in abusive relationships were also being financially abused. Could you be experiencing financial abuse? In this episode, Kerry and Tara will identify the common indicators of this abuse type along with some suggestions on how to overcome it. And today's self-help tip discusses the importance of leading with your head and not your heart when making big relationship decisions. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts. Are you struggling with challenging family relationships? Maybe you’re experiencing damaging power plays, maddening triangulation, or tattling in the form of gossip? Join the upcoming webinar on February 9, 2023, Best Coping & Management Strategies for Toxic or Narcissistic Families: Surviving the chaos of a narcissistic family member. Get your tickets now. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Feb 06, 2023 |
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What to do when your narcissistically abusive ex tries to come back
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In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the common problem of exes trying to return after a breakup. Tara also shares why it's necessary to be careful with following self-help advice in this week's self-help tip. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts Are you struggling with challenging family relationships? Maybe you’re experiencing damaging power plays, maddening triangulation, or tattling in the form of gossip? Join the upcoming webinar on February 9, 2023 Best Coping & Management Strategies for Toxic or Narcissistic Families: Surviving the chaos of a narcissistic family member. Get your tickets now. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More available at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jan 30, 2023 |
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What Is "Narcissistic Abuse?" How Is It Different from Abuse? Is It Being Overused?
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In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the use of narcissistic abuse. It's become a very popular topic on social media. Is it being overused? Then in the Self-Help Tip for today, we'll share how to handle a common argument tactic like DARVO. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts Are you struggling with challenging family relationships? Maybe you’re experiencing damaging power plays, maddening triangulation, or tattling in the form of gossip? Join the upcoming webinar on February 9, 2023 Best Coping & Management Strategies for Toxic or Narcissistic Families: Surviving the chaos of a narcissistic family member. Get your tickets now. Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jan 23, 2023 |
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As a survivor of abuse, are you setting realistic goals for yourself in 2023?
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In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss setting realistic goals in 2023 and the Self-Help Tip is a simple strategy on how to hold better boundaries. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jan 16, 2023 |
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Big changes for the new year! Let’s make it one of wholeness & health
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Welcome back to a new season! I’m being joined with a co-host, Tara Blair Ball, author & relationship coach and kicking off a new self-help tip segment. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook: Kerry's accounts & Tara's accounts Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross. Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Seeking help? Book a coaching session with Tara. Reclaim & Recover: Heal from Toxic Relationships with a 7-Step Guided Journal. Get the Journal on Amazon. Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jan 09, 2023 |
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Ready for the holidays? My three top tips for dealing with difficult relatives and in-laws
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Narcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you. In this episode I’m going to offer three of my favorite tips on how to manage this year’s holiday season so that it’s more manageable and meaningful. I'll be back next year for season 2! Register now to 6 Steps to Reclaiming Inner Peace and Confidence. Group coaching with Trey de la Torre and Dr. McAvoy. Next six sessions start January 7th. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 22, 2022 |
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I've lost my sense of self after narcissistic abuse. How do I reclaim it?
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Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us. This episode will look closely at this process and how abuse impacts it as well as outline some ways to begin healing self-esteem after abuse. Get early bird tickets to How Could He Do That? Live Interview with Lundy Bancroft. Watch the webinar live and have some of your questions answered. Ticketholders will also get a recording of the webinar. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 19, 2022 |
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Why does every issue turn into an argument? My partner says I'm the problem
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Have you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem. In this episode, we will explore this common dynamic, including how to determine who’s creating the problems. Register now to 6 Steps to Reclaiming Inner Peace and Confidence. Group coaching with Trey de la Torre and Dr. McAvoy. Next six sessions start January 7th. Join our community for support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 15, 2022 |
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Is the abuse harmful to children? Two survivors share their personal experiences
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Does abuse affect children the same way as the adult partner? Today, I’m joined by Bri Peterson of Abuse is Abuse. Both of us experienced emotional or narcissistic abuse as children and adults. In this episode, we will explore the differences between both types of abuse. Was the cognitive dissonance the same? How did that affect our sense of self? Watch the replay of the webinar with Dr. Sandra L. Brown "How Could I’ve Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Get early bird tickets to How Could He Do That? Live Interview with Lundy Bancroft. Watch the webinar live and have some of your questions answered. Ticketholders will also get a recording of the webinar. Follow Bri Peterson on her social media channels. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Let me know how we can improve the podcast. Send me a DM. Also follow Bri on her Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 12, 2022 |
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Why can't I find a therapist who knows something about narcissistic abuse?
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Anyone looking for a mental health clinician with expertise in narcissistic abuse knows this is challenging. What makes this so difficult? In this episode, we’ll explain why finding a therapist is difficult and give tips on how to vet a potential one. Watch the replay of the webinar with Dr. Sandra L. Brown "How Could I’ve Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Get early bird tickets to How Could He Do That? Live Interview with Lundy Bancroft. Watch the webinar live and have some of your questions answered. Ticketholders will also get a recording of the webinar. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 08, 2022 |
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I think I'm trauma bonded. Now what? How do I start my healing?
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Trauma bonds are painful connection with another person that is based on fear. There’s an addictive quality making them very hard to break. In this episode, we will briefly define a trauma bond and then identify the initial steps to breaking one. Get early bird tickets to How Could He Do That? Live Interview with Lundy Bancroft. Watch the webinar live and have some of your questions answered. Ticketholders will also get a recording of the webinar. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 05, 2022 |
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Is it healthy to obsess over my past narcissistic partner and what happened to me?
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It’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us. In this episode, we’ll explore whether this way of thinking is good for us and how to tell if we’re falling into unhealthiness as we try to make sense of the past. Sandra L. Brown Webinar Video Replay. How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man? Watch it here. You don't have to stay locked in the emotional prison from narcissistic abuse. Join this series of Group Coaching sessions with me, Kerry McAvoy and Trey De La Torre starting January 7, 2023 called 6 Steps to Reclaiming Inner Peace and Confidence after Narcissistic Abuse. Register now for an early bird rate! Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Dec 01, 2022 |
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How do I combat my partner turning every issue into a "me" problem?
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Have you heard of the acronym DARVO? It’s a nasty type of gaslighting that flips the script and attacks us when we bring up an issue. In this episode, we will address the underlying dynamic of this abusive practice along with the three steps to combatting it effectively. Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 28, 2022 |
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How do I rebuild trust in myself after surviving narcissistic abuse?
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It’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt? In this episode, we will examine why reclaiming our self-integrity and relying on our intuition is challenging, along with a few practical steps to begin your healing. The interview with Sandra L. Brown, mentioned several times, went fantastic. If you missed it, the replay video is now available for purchase. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 21, 2022 |
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What people don’t understand about abuse and why it’s hard to leave a toxic relationship
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The most common, useless advice given to victims is just to leave. Why do we say this when we know it’s hurtful and probably, not useful? In this episode, we will examine the underlying biases and assumptions about abuse and abuse victims. Why there’s a cultural blindness to victims’ plight and how it leads us to neglect this most vulnerable group. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 17, 2022 |
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Should we blame victims for not spotting the signs they've met a dangerous person?
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I recently started reading a book that’s been around a while—Neil Strauss’ book called The Game, though he’s since come out against the practices described in it. It’s all about his experiences of learning how to manipulate women sexually through post-hypnotic suggestions and other psychologically manipulative strategies. Despite knowing there are online resources and groups encouraging predatory behavior, we tend to hold victims responsible for the abuse. In this episode, we will take a closer look at the dynamics of abuse and the responsibility for the abusive & predatory behavior. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Become a member of Dr. Kerry McAvoy's exclusive Facebook group, Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 14, 2022 |
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Why can't I leave my partner? The seven stages of a trauma bond
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Have you heard of the term “trauma bond?” It’s a condition similar to being brainwashed by Stockholm’s Syndrome. Victims recovering from narcissistic abuse liken the breaking of a trauma bond to overcoming a heroin addiction. In this podcast episode, we will cover the seven stages of a trauma bond and how to begin recovery. If you think you’re struggling with a trauma bond, here are two incredible resources: First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist and The Trauma Bond Recovery Course. First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist will help you resolve the paralyzing mental confusion so you can take control of your life again and The Trauma Bond Recovery Course will help break the intense connection you feel with your toxic partner. Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist https://resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com The Trauma Bond Recovery Course by Stronger Than Before Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 10, 2022 |
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What quality did I miss when I got into a relationship with a toxic person?
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Every victim wants to know how they got into a toxic or dangerous relationship. Was there an early sign of danger that they missed? Were they too trusting, gullible, or naive? Most victims have been accused of being codependent. What does research have to say? In this episode, we will dig deeper into this topic, particularly Sandra L. Brown’s groundbreaking research into the dynamics of pathological love relationships. What personality qualities made us predator’s target, and how can we protect ourselves better? Speaking of Sandra Brown, I’ll be interviewing her live Thursday evening. There are still a few remaining tickets to that event. This interview will debunk many commonly held myths about victims. Find out the truth about predatory behavior and pathological love relationships. Get your tickets through the link in the show notes. And if you’re hearing this after November 10, no worries. You can still purchase the video replay to keep in your library of mental health resources. Book: Women Who Love Psychopaths How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man Webinar with Sandra L. Brown November 10 from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. Central Time. Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. https://resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Sign up for the online course! First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Support the show |
Nov 07, 2022 |
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Is it too much masculine energy for women to protect their boundaries?
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On social media, it’s gotten popular to discuss masculine and feminine energy. Boundaries have come under attack as something masculine. In this episode, we will define what a personal boundary is and what makes healthy and unhealthy. We’ll also touch on why cheating happens in narcissistic and non-narcissistic relationships. Ben Taylor of Raw Motivations: Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Nov 03, 2022 |
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Could chronic stress or trauma be making me sick?
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Why are we surprised that there is a mind-body connection? That what we experience, like abuse, will affect us physiologically? We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including how we see the world blinds us from recognizing dangerous people, the possibility of having narcissism and other mental health conditions, and defining dog-whistling when it comes to abuse. How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man Webinar with Sandra L. Brown Nov 10 from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. Central Time. Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. https://resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 31, 2022 |
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What is a Dark Triad Personality, and how dangerous is this person?
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Have you heard of the Dark Triad Personality disorder? Some have suggested this is a new personality type. In this episode, we are going to take a look at the makeup of this individual and why they pose such a risk to us. We’ll also discuss ambiguous grief and the importance of allowing ourselves to process all kinds of losses, even toxic relationships, safely. How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man Webinar with Sandra L. Brown Nov 10 from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. Central Time. Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 27, 2022 |
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Am I a bad friend if I shut someone down for talking about a toxic relationship?
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It’s become popular to call it “trauma dumping” when someone talks about their abuse. But is that an accurate description? Might we be harming others when we pathologize their need to share? In today’s episode, we’ll look closely at why victims tend to overshare traumatic experiences and how we can help support them in the healing process. How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man Webinar with Sandra L. Brown Nov 10 from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. Central Time. Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 24, 2022 |
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I just left the narcissist; how do I stop this terrible pain?
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I can’t even begin to describe the horrific pain I felt after leaving a narcissistically abusive relationship. The intense confusion, rage, sense of betrayal, and fear. Some have likened this stage to heroin withdrawal. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to begin healing after leaving a toxic relationship. We’ll also touch if spirituality can save narcissists from this disorder and if the partner gets a better version of our narcissistic ex. How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of a Male Intimate Abuser by Don Hennessy How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man Webinar with Sandra L. Brown Nov 10 from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. CST. Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 20, 2022 |
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Why doesn't my partner want sex? Is it because of women's sex drive?
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There are many assumptions and myths about sexuality, especially regarding the differences between men and women. How does the objectification of women impact their sexuality, particularly their interest in sex? And what improves a couple’s connection when it comes to sex? In this episode, we will be looking at some of the common dynamics that affect physical intimacy. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. The Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, Ph.D. Isn’t Having Sex My Right? Live Webinar Oct 20. Get your ticket here! Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 17, 2022 |
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Isn't there any way to make leaving a narcissist easier?
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Why do victims find it so hard to leave a difficult or toxic relationship? Conventional wisdom says it should be as simple as just leaving, but it’s not. In this episode, we’ll explore the challenges victim face when trying to leave a narcissist or an even more dangerous type of person. First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist. Sign up for the online course! Insight is 20/20 by Chelli Pumphrey Sandra L. Brown Webinar: "How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Nov 10 6:30 p.m. EST -Get your ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 13, 2022 |
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Is this really abuse? Maybe my partner or parent just lacks kindness
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What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits. "Isn’t Having Sex My Right: Why Sexual Coercion is Abuse" Come listen to a panel of experts, including two psychologists, a pastor, and a reformed husband, discuss sex, intimacy, and sexual coercion on October 20th at 6:30 p.m. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! More at resources.kerrymcavoyphd.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 10, 2022 |
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How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily after saying they loved me?
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Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at these different frameworks and their impact on understanding ourselves and the world. Learn more about Deborah Tannen’s work. Sandra L. Brown Webinar: "How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Nov 10 6:30 p.m. EST -Get you ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 06, 2022 |
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How does a narcissist or a psychopath differ? Aren't both abusive?
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What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive? In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break. What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral Looking to understand why you can’t leave? Dr. Milstead explains what traps us in this video. Get your tickets to the Sandra L. Brown Webinar: "How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Nov 10 6:30 p.m. EST. All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Oct 03, 2022 |
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I think my partner is an addict. Will they become a narcissist too?
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It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder? In this episode, we explore the effects of addiction on personality, the roots of narcissism, and if we should hold out hope for our narcissistic partner to make changes. Is your partner dangerous, toxic, or capable of change? Take this free survey and find out! Meet the Narcavengers and book an interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 29, 2022 |
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How could I've fallen for the narcissist's love-bombing tactics?
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After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid. In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective. "Isn’t Having Sex My Right: Why Sexual Coercion is Abuse" Come listen to a panel of experts, including two psychologists, a pastor, and a reformed husband, discuss sex, intimacy, and sexual coercion on October 20th at 6:30 p.m. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 26, 2022 |
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What's wrong with me? Why isn't my partner interested in sex?
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Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned. In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse. Meet the Narcavengers and book an interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 22, 2022 |
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What emotional voodoo has the narcissist used to keep me trapped?
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During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing. Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 19, 2022 |
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If narcissists are born this way, are they responsible for the abuse?
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Research confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode. If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 15, 2022 |
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Should I let my narcissistic ex come back and be a part of the family?
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Narcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.” In this podcast episode, we’ll explore if agreeing to this request is wise, define “breadcrumbing,” and take a closer look at the connection between gaslighting and cognitive dissonance. Get your ticket now! Isn't Having Sex My Right? Webinar with Lisa Sonni. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 12, 2022 |
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Why do we keep picking dangerous people as romantic partners?
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The bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous? In this podcast, we’ll take a closer look at how we confuse intensity for attraction, the ten different personality disorders, and the common problem of the non-apology apology. The Narc and Me’s account on Instagram, and Tiktok Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX -- Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 08, 2022 |
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What's wrong with me? Why I can't I leave this toxic relationship?
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A trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck. In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism. If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Sep 01, 2022 |
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My partner tells me I'm the problem. How do I know I'm not being gaslit?
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Gaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims. In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent. Get $3 off the first three months with the coupon code HEALNOW22 --- Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 29, 2022 |
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Is the term narcissism being overused? Aren't all of us a bit narcissistic?
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With the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members. If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 25, 2022 |
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The trauma bonding has me trapped, and I don't know how to leave!
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There’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult? In this podcast episode, we’ll explore the role mental confusion and fear play in creating an intense bond with the one harming us. If you missed the live webinar with Dr. Milstead, copies of the replay are now available. Other books referenced: Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown, LCSW Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 22, 2022 |
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Can't a narcissist be changed by love or God?
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Most of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 18, 2022 |
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How I became confused and trapped because of cognitive dissonance
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I drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed? In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then. Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 15, 2022 |
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I know I should leave this toxic relationship but why can't I?
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What makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 11, 2022 |
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Is all this talk about narcissism good? Isn't it demonizing hurting people?
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Is all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them? In this episode, I tackle this tough topic, the difference between a mental condition and a personality disorder, how to recognize a toxic person on the first meeting, and what to do about a smear campaign. Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 08, 2022 |
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How do I know I've healed enough from abuse to start dating again?
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Surviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 04, 2022 |
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Something is really wrong with this relationship, could I be the narcissist?
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When relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse. Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Aug 01, 2022 |
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Help, I'm married to a narcissist and don't know how to get out
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Most of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing with a gaslighting co-parent and a vengeful partner, and finally some discussion on using the Gray Rock technique. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 28, 2022 |
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Is there something wrong with me for falling in love with a narcissist?
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Nearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play? In this episode we’ll talk about the latest research into this area as well as discuss the definition of marital coercion and how to grow empathy in our children. For more on marital coercion, see Nat’s (@mendingme) account. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 25, 2022 |
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Wondering if you met your soulmate? Here's how narcissists make us fall in love
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If narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 21, 2022 |
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I think this relationship is killing me. Why does it feel heartless to set boundaries?
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We often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 18, 2022 |
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Why can't I tell if I'm in a relationship with someone good or bad?
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Narcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 14, 2022 |
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If it’s that bad, why don’t narcissistic abuse victims just leave?
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It takes the average narcissistic victim an average of seven tries before they are able to leave. I contemplated abandoning the relationship for a long time before I finally was able to. Why are these toxic relationships so difficult to end? As mention in this episode, here are the channels of Sam Vaknin and Dr. Ramani. Here are the books referred to: Something’s Not Right by Wade Mullen and Sandra Brown: Women Who Love Psychopaths Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Subscribe to my Youtube channel Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 11, 2022 |
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Why is it so hard to please someone narcissistic? Am I the problem?
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Have you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live. Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jul 07, 2022 |
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Do narcissists know they're hurting those who love them? Do they even care?
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Are narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths. Kolhberg's Theory of Moral Development Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Be sure to get your ticket today! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 30, 2022 |
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What should I do when a narcissistic family member starts to make trouble?
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Do you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live. Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 27, 2022 |
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To avoid being lovebombed by a narcissist, how much is too much to share?
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When we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 24, 2022 |
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Are narcissists different than the rest of us? Might they be evil?
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The latest research has found the brain of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths to be different, causing them not to see the world differently. In this episode we will tackle this difficult topic, including if it's going too far to call narcissists' behavior evil. You don’t want to miss this incredible live webinar, “Why Can’t I Just Leave?” on August 18th 6:30 pm EST. Psychologist and author, Dr Kristen Milstead will discuss the power of cognitive dissonance to confuse us and best steps to break our emotional paralysis. Get your ticket here! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 20, 2022 |
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How could I be so stupid to have missed the red flags?
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Why did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay. Want to know what the 12 areas of ego strengths are? Check out this video! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 17, 2022 |
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Is it my fault that I'm trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship?
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Are victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 13, 2022 |
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What should I do if my children are protective of the toxic ex-parent?
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In this episode we will review Dr. Milstead's definition of narcissistic abuse along with address how to handle the tricky situation of co-parenting with a toxic parent. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 06, 2022 |
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Am I a narcissist if I want to be special? To have others understand me?
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How do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Jun 03, 2022 |
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Could this friendship be narcissistic or does abuse only happen in love relationships?
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Does narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 31, 2022 |
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What’s wrong with me that I can’t leave this toxic relationship?
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Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 27, 2022 |
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Could I be the one with the problem? Maybe I'm overreacting.
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Do you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse. YOU MIGHT ALSO BE INTERESTED IN Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 23, 2022 |
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My narcissistic partner says they're working hard to change. Am I silly to believe them?
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Do narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 20, 2022 |
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Help! My ex is using the legal system to abuse me!
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Narcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 16, 2022 |
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I’m stressed and overwhelmed--is this cognitive dissonance?
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What is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 13, 2022 |
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Am I co-dependent if I've fallen for a narcissist?
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Have you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 09, 2022 |
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Who's more narcissistic: men or women?
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In this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 06, 2022 |
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Is this “thing” I feel what's called a trauma bond?
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In this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
May 02, 2022 |
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Is this relationship asking too much of me?
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What's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. A replay of the April 6th webinar How to Recognize and Overcome Narcissistic Abuse is now available here! Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Apr 29, 2022 |
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Why can't I relax after surviving narcissistic abuse?
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Are you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Apr 25, 2022 |
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What? I have basic emotional rights?
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Did you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Apr 22, 2022 |
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Are you being groomed by a narcissist?
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In this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Apr 18, 2022 |
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Managing Healthy Boundaries: What are They?
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In this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club! Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse? LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross Available here at the following online stores. And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show |
Apr 15, 2022 |
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Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse (Trailer)
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Apr 14, 2022 |