The Bad Influence Podcast with Bjordan Banderas

By Bjordan Banderas

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Welcome to The Bad Influence Podcast – the definitive source for bold, unfiltered conversations that challenge your mindset, transform your relationships, and ignite your motivation. Hosted by Bjordan Banderas, this podcast delivers the critical insights you need to conquer anxiety, dismantle toxic dynamics, and unleash your full potential. Whether you’re facing self-doubt, seeking authentic connections, or striving for personal excellence, The Bad Influence Podcast equips you with practical tools, straight talk, and powerful strategies to take control of your life.

Episode Date
Episode 261. Self-Belief Starts Where Excuses Die, Are You Ready?
Jul 18, 2025
Episode 260. The #1 Silent Killer in Modern Relationships (You Won’t See It Coming)
Jul 16, 2025
Episode 259. This Is How Laziness Is Secretly Destroying Your Life (And How to Kill It Now)
Jul 14, 2025
Episode 258. Your Mind Isn’t a Dumpster, Stop Letting People Dump in It.
Jul 11, 2025
Episode 257. Want Kids? Get a Puppy First or Regret It Later.
Jul 09, 2025
Episode 256. The Law of Attraction Isn’t Magic, It’s Mental Warfare.
Jul 07, 2025
Episode 255. Your Reaction Is Their Weapon, Disarm It Now.
Jul 04, 2025
Episode 254. Women Who’ve Been Hurt Often Do This and Men Hate It.
Jul 02, 2025
Episode 253. Want Progress? Inject Daily Discomfort and Burn the Old Script.
Jun 30, 2025
Episode 252. How Fear Labels You a ‘Monster’ and Why That’s Your Superpower.
Jun 27, 2025
Episode 251. Ditch the F*ckboy Mentality: Your Guide to Real Intimacy
Jun 25, 2025
Episode 250. Hijack Your Autopilot Brain & Dominate Stress Today.
Jun 23, 2025
Episode 249. Why Every “You Can’t” Is a Coward’s Lie (And How to Prove Them Wrong)
Jun 20, 2025
Episode 248. Body Count Myth EXPOSED: Build Deep Emotional Bonds Instead.
Jun 18, 2025
Episode 247. Train Your Mind to Thrive Under Pressure.
Jun 16, 2025
Episode 246. Slow Down to Level Up: The Secret to Unforgettable Communication.
Jun 13, 2025
Episode 245. The Real Reason You’re Losing Her & How to Stop.
Jun 11, 2025
Episode 244. Stop 'Busy' Lies, Master Your Time with These Ruthless Hacks.
Jun 09, 2025
Episode 243. Fake Logic Exposed: How to Rewrite Your Own Rules and Win.
Jun 06, 2025
Episode 242. Why You Can’t Change Your Partner (And What to Do Instead)
Jun 04, 2025
Episode 241. Crush Self-Doubt with This Ruthless Playbook.
Jun 02, 2025
Episode 240. The War on Self-Sabotage: 6 Tactics to Become Unbreakable.
May 30, 2025
Episode 239. Sancho Exposed: How Neglect Drives Infidelity.
May 28, 2025
Episode 238. How to Crush Negative Self-Talk Forever.
May 26, 2025
Episode 237. Master Your Mind-Body: Turn Emotional Wounds into Strength.
May 23, 2025
Episode 236. Don’t Be the Fixer, Be the Partner Who Truly Listens.
May 21, 2025
Episode 235. The 6 Brutal Steps to Crush Every Goal.
May 19, 2025
Episode 234. Logic Over Chaos: How to Defeat Emotional Hijacking.
May 16, 2025
Episode 233. Redefining Family When Your Partner Doesn’t Want Kids.
May 14, 2025
Episode 232. Forge Your Legacy: The Brutal Truth About Finding Your Purpose
May 12, 2025
Episode 231. Transform, Thrive, and Rise: The Power of Unfamiliar Happiness.
May 09, 2025
Episode 230. Unmasking Love: How Embracing Chaos Sparks Deep Connection.
May 07, 2025
Episode 229. Awaken Your Inner Power: Conquer Fatigue and Fuel Your Success.
May 05, 2025
Episode 228. No More Excuses: Build Hope from the Ashes of Despair.
May 02, 2025
Episode 227. The Brutal Truth About How Your Past Is Poisoning Your Love Life.
Apr 30, 2025
Episode 226. From Panic to Power: How to Channel Anxiety into Innovation.
Apr 28, 2025
Episode 225. No Guidance, No Limits: The Ultimate Self-Made Manifesto.
Apr 25, 2025
Episode 224. Exposing the Fear: Why Casual Hookups Are Sabotaging Your Love Life.
Apr 23, 2025
Episode 223. 7 Habits That Shattered Mediocrity: Transform Your Life Now!
Apr 21, 2025
Episode 222. No Excuses: The Brutal Truth About Overcoming Setbacks.
Apr 18, 2025
Episode 221. Mutual Empowerment: The Truth About Who Benefits in Marriage.
Apr 16, 2025
Episode 220. Stop Living on Autopilot: Transform Your Mindset Today.
Apr 14, 2025
Episode 219. The Harsh Truth: How Rejecting Comfort Fuels True Growth.
Apr 11, 2025
Episode 218. The Real Art of Love: Beyond Words & Into the Heart.
Apr 09, 2025
Episode 217. Master Your Destiny: The Ultimate Guide to Ruthless Focus.
Apr 07, 2025
Episode 216. Stop Giving Alone: Transform Your Friendships with Support.
Apr 04, 2025
Episode 215. Keep Your Spark: How Individuality Makes Your Relationship Unbreakable.
Apr 02, 2025
Episode 214. Stop the Anger: Transform Your Life with Forgiveness
Mar 31, 2025
Episode 213. No More Excuses: How to Transform Struggle Into success.
Mar 28, 2025
Episode 212. Stop Settling for Less: Build a Relationship That Lifts You Both.
Mar 26, 2025
Episode 211. Stop Hitting Snooze: Unleash the Power of Intentional Mornings.
Mar 24, 2025
Episode 210. The Raw Truth: Turn Every Failure into Fuel for Success
Mar 21, 2025
Episode 209. Are You the Only One Trying? Fix Your Relationship Today.
Mar 19, 2025
Episode 208. Rise Up: Turn Setbacks into Comebacks.
Mar 17, 2025
Episode 207. Break Free from Approval Addiction: Dominate Your Life.
Mar 14, 2025
Episode 206. Stop Underestimating Your Partner: Fuel Dreams with Honest “I Believe in You’s”
Mar 12, 2025
Episode 205. Action Over Comfort: The Blueprint to Life Transformation.
Mar 10, 2025
Episode 204. Unchain Your Potential: How to Rise Above Toxic Critics.
Mar 07, 2025
Episode 203. How Owning Your Mistakes Can Save Your Love Life.
Mar 05, 2025
Episode 202. The Truth About Purpose: Stop Chasing Others’ Dreams.
Mar 03, 2025
Episode 201. From Nightmare to Triumph: Mastering Post-Traumatic Growth.
Feb 28, 2025
Episode 200. From Coexisting to Thriving: The Bad Influence Relationship Reset.
Feb 26, 2025
Episode 199. Fight Back Against Negativity: Mindset Monday’s Tips.
Feb 24, 2025
Episode 198. No BS: How to Crush Fear and Unlock Your True Potential.
Feb 21, 2025
Episode 197. Ending the Cycle: How to Stop Narcissistic Abuse in Its Tracks in your Relationship.
Feb 19, 2025
Episode 196. Transforming your Anxiety into Unstoppable Power.
Feb 17, 2025
Episode 195. Ride the Lightning & Unleash Your Inner Badass.
Feb 14, 2025
Episode 194. Unmask Your Past: The Brutal Truth About Relationship Honesty.
Feb 12, 2025
Episode 193. Transform Your Mind, Transform Your Life.
Feb 10, 2025
Episode 192. Embrace the Chaos: Transform Emotions into Strength.
Feb 07, 2025
Episode 191. Creating a Partnership That Fuels Your Ambition.
Feb 05, 2025
Episode 190. How to Use Suffering as Your Superpower.
Feb 03, 2025
Episode 189. Tips to Stop Being Trampled By Setting Boundaries.
Jan 31, 2025
Episode 188. How to Crush Bad Listening Habits in Your Relationship.
Jan 29, 2025
Episode 187. How to Beat Laziness Once and For All.
Jan 27, 2025
Episode 186. No More Excuses: The Hard Truth About Success.
Jan 24, 2025
Episode 185. Break the Walls: How to Foster Genuine Intimacy with Your Partner.
Jan 22, 2025
Episode 184. Reclaim Your Life: Break the Chains of Your Past.
Jan 20, 2025
Episode 183. Why Being Honest is the Best Thing You Can Do.
Jan 17, 2025
Episode 182. Why Your Ego is the Silent Killer of Your Relationship.
Jan 15, 2025
Episode 181. Confidence Hacks You Need to Know to Succeed.
Jan 13, 2025
Episode 180. Your Heart Isn’t Broken—It’s Bleeding. Here’s How to Stitch It Up
Jan 10, 2025
Episode 179. No Instant Fix: Why Forgiveness Takes More Than ‘I’m Sorry.
Jan 08, 2025
Episode 178. Stop Letting Bad Habits Win—Rewrite Your Mind for Success.
Jan 06, 2025
Episode 177. Why Judging Others Is Holding You Back from Real Growth.
Jan 03, 2025
Episode 176. Why Real Love Means Being Each Other’s Therapist Sometimes.
Jan 01, 2025
Episode 175. Happiness Isn’t Luck—It’s a Choice. Here’s How to Make It.
Dec 30, 2024
Episode 174. The Real Cost of Silence: Why Your Voice Matters.
Dec 27, 2024
Episode 173. Why Lying to Your Man Hurts More Than You Think.
Dec 25, 2024
Episode 172. Feeling Lost? Here’s How to Find Your Passion and Live Fully.
Dec 23, 2024
Episode 171. Stop Wasting Time Proving Yourself to the Wrong People
Dec 20, 2024
Episode 170. Why Even “Small Lies” Can Ruin Your Relationship.
Dec 18, 2024
Episode 169. How to Build Discipline and Finally Crush Your Goals.
Dec 16, 2024
Episode 168. Being Nice Doesn’t Mean Being a Doormat—Here’s How to Set Boundaries!
Dec 13, 2024
Episode 167. The Real Reason Good Relationships Die: Avoiding Tough Conversations.
Dec 11, 2024
Episode 166. Reprogram Your Mind: Break Free from Negative Thinking for Good!
Dec 09, 2024
Episode 165. Overcome Insecurity: Stop Letting Self-Doubt Hold You Back.
Dec 06, 2024
Episode 164. The Silent Killer of Relationships: Unspoken Expectations Exposed!
Dec 04, 2024
Episode 163. Sick of Faking It? Here’s How to Live Authentically.
Dec 02, 2024
Episode 162. The Only Competition You Need: Yourself.
Nov 29, 2024
Episode 161. Forget Fairytales—This is What Love is Really Made Of.
Nov 27, 2024
Episode 160. How to Stay Calm When Others Try to Push Your Buttons.
Nov 25, 2024
Episode 159. The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Ahead—And How to Fix It!
Nov 22, 2024
Episode 158. Why Rushing a Relationship Can Lead to Heartbreak.
Nov 20, 2024
Episode 157. When Life Gets Brutal, Get Brutal Back.
Nov 18, 2024
Episode 156. Stop Hiding—Here's Why Standing Out Is Your Greatest Superpower.
Nov 15, 2024
Episode 155. Real Talk: Why Your Relationship Needs More Than Just Love.
Nov 13, 2024
Episode 154. How to Make Quiet Moves That Lead to Loud Success.
Nov 11, 2024
Episode 153. How Being Your Real Self Changes Everything.
Nov 08, 2024
Episode 152. Leveling Up Together: How Your Partner Should Challenge You.
Nov 06, 2024
Episode 151. Stop Trying to Fit In and Start Standing Out.
Nov 04, 2024
Episode 150. The Truth About Why You’re Stuck—And How to Break Free Today
Nov 01, 2024
Episode 149. The Secret Power of Socially Awkward People (And How to Use It)
Oct 30, 2024
Episode 148. Stop Pouring From an Empty Cup—Here’s Why.
Oct 28, 2024
Episode 147. Stop Fighting Your Awkwardness—It’s Your Biggest Strength.
Oct 25, 2024
Episode 146. Stop Rushing Through Life—How Hurried Child Syndrome Impacts You
Oct 23, 2024
Episode 145. The Power of Being 'You' in a World Full of Expectations.
Oct 21, 2024
Episode 143. The Hidden Power of Communication That Can Change Your Life.
Oct 18, 2024
Episode 143. The Hidden Power of Communication That Can Change Your Life.
Oct 16, 2024
Episode 142. Break Free from Expectations and Embrace Who You Really Are.
Oct 14, 2024
Episode 141. Why Society's Expectations for Men Are Unrealistic and How to Break Free.
Oct 11, 2024
Episode 140. Why Spending Time Alone Is the Best Thing You Can Do for Yourself.
Oct 09, 2024
Episode 139. Why Being Different Is Your Biggest Advantage.
Oct 07, 2024
Episode 138. How to Overcome Being Your Own Worst Enemy.
Oct 04, 2024
Episode 137. Master the Art of Self-Confidence.
Oct 02, 2024
Episode 136. Why You Shouldn’t Care If They Don’t Like You.
Sep 30, 2024
Episode 135. Stop Fighting It: How Social Discomfort Can Be Your Strength.
Sep 27, 2024
Episode 134. The Power of Starting from Nothing.
Sep 25, 2024
Episode 133. Stop Trying to Fit In—Here’s How to Stand Out as Yourself.
Sep 23, 2024
Episode 132. Life is Temporary—Here’s Why That’s a Good Thing.
Sep 20, 2024
Episode 131. The Power of Perseverance: Keep Trying Until You Find Your True Path.
Sep 18, 2024
Episode 130. Stop waiting for What You 'Deserve'—Start Making It Happen.
Sep 16, 2024
Episode 129. Crushing Insecurities: Building a Positive Self-Image.
Sep 13, 2024
Episode 128. From Victimhood to Victory: Reclaiming Your Power.
Sep 11, 2024
Episode 127. The Secret to Self-Discovery: Start Asking 'How Come?'
Sep 09, 2024
Episode 126. Break Free from Negative Self-Beliefs.
Sep 06, 2024
Episode 125. Why Growing Through the Storm Changes Everything.
Sep 04, 2024
Episode 124. Turning Pain into Growth.
Sep 02, 2024
Episode 123. Empower Yourself by Taming Your Triggers.
Aug 30, 2024
Episode 122. Why Empathy Beats Judgment Every Time.
Aug 28, 2024
Episode 121. Procrastination: The Silent Killer of Dreams.
Aug 26, 2024
Episode 120. Transform Your Life by Questioning Your Beliefs.
Aug 23, 2024
Episode 119. Why Ignoring Trauma Makes It Worse.
Aug 21, 2024
Episode 118. Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life.
Aug 19, 2024
Episode 117. Achieving success by embracing your flaws.
Aug 16, 2024
Episode 116. The Truth About Personal Growth.
Aug 14, 2024
Episode 115. The Power of Meaningful Conversations.
Aug 12, 2024
Episode 114. Beat Distractions.
Aug 09, 2024
Episode 113. Loaning Money? Think Twice Before You Say Yes.
Aug 07, 2024
Episode 112. Why Cutting Out Gossip Is Good For You.
Aug 05, 2024
Episode 111. Why Fitness is the Foundation to Success.
Jul 29, 2024
Episode 110. How to Network Correctly.
Jul 22, 2024
Episode 109. Declutter Your Space, Declutter Your Mind.
Jul 15, 2024
Episode 108. Transform Chaos into Control
Jul 08, 2024
Episode 107. Take Control of Your Time: Transform Your Life
Jul 01, 2024
Episode 106. Why Non-Negotiables Are a Game-Changer.
Jun 24, 2024
Episode 105. Taking Small Steps So You Win Big.
Jun 17, 2024
Episode 104. Finding what drives you.
Jun 10, 2024
Episode 103. Breaking through barriers.
Jun 03, 2024
Episode 102. Why you should question everything.
May 27, 2024
Episode 101. How Gratitude Can Change Everything.
May 20, 2024
Episode 100. Rewriting the Narrative: Overcoming Emotional Abuse.
May 13, 2024
Episode 99. What does the word woke mean to you?
May 06, 2024
Episode 98. Cracking the Code of Digital Age Dating.
Apr 29, 2024
Episode 97. Men, Myths, and Mental Health.
Apr 22, 2024
Episode 96. Mastering the Bulldozer Mindset.
Apr 15, 2024
Episode 95. Wrestling with the Ghost: Navigating Life with an Absent Parent.
Apr 08, 2024
Episode 94. From being Mr. Nice Guy to a Genuine Good Man
Apr 01, 2024
Episode 93. The key to creating clarity in your life.
Mar 25, 2024
Episode 92. The Powerful Magic of Emotional Bonds.
Mar 18, 2024
Episode 91. Dodging Life’s Drama Bombs.
Mar 11, 2024
Episode 90. How To Redefine Relationships with Unconditional Love.
Mar 04, 2024
Episode 89. The Truth About Why Women Withhold Sex In The Relationship.
Feb 26, 2024
Episode 88. How to Deal with Your Homie's Mistakes.
Feb 19, 2024
Episode 87. Navigating Men's Struggle for Worth.
Feb 12, 2024
Episode 86. The Art of Celebrating Small Wins
Feb 05, 2024
Episode 85  Finding Peace In The Middle Of Chaos.
Jan 29, 2024
Episode 84 Embracing Your True Self
Jan 22, 2024
Episode 83. How To Have Unfiltered Conversations.
Jan 15, 2024
Episode 82. Navigating Arguments Like a Pro.
Jan 08, 2024
Episode 81. How to master your emotions.
Jan 01, 2024
Episode 80. The liberating feeling of cutting ties.
Dec 25, 2023
Episode 79. It's You Versus You.
Dec 18, 2023
Episode 78. 10 Signs Your Relationship Will Last.
Dec 11, 2023
Episode 77. Mastering Boundaries in Every Relationship.
Dec 04, 2023
Episode 76. How to master chaos in today's world.
Nov 27, 2023
Episode 75. The Power of Curiosity in Relationships.
Nov 20, 2023
Episode 74. Your path to facing your inner demons.
Nov 13, 2023
Episode 73. The 10 Rules of Engagement for a Happy Relationship.
Nov 06, 2023
Episode 72. Are you bold enough to step out of your comfort zone?
Oct 30, 2023
Episode 71. The Ultimate Secret to Building a Rock-Solid Relationship
Oct 23, 2023
Episode 70. The Temptation of comparing your life with others on Social Media
Oct 16, 2023
Episode 69. Is the welfare system meant to keep people in poverty?
Oct 09, 2023
Episode 68 Man vs. Manchild: Unveiling the Essential Differences
Oct 02, 2023
Episode 67. The Power of Knowing what you want in life.
Sep 25, 2023
Episode  66. The Battle between Wife and Husband, then she gets sick
Sep 18, 2023
Episode  65. Do you see yourself having to go back to work after you retire?
Sep 11, 2023
Episode  64. The battle over returning to the office or not. 
Sep 04, 2023
Episode 63. Did social media change the dating scene?
Aug 28, 2023
Episode 62. Why is it so hard for men to talk about their issues?
Aug 14, 2023
Episode 61. Ever felt like quitting your job?
Aug 07, 2023
Episode 60. Why do you look up to certain people?
Jul 31, 2023
Episode 59. Are you the liability in your relationship?
Jul 24, 2023
Episode 58. Reality TV is Not Real Life!
Jul 17, 2023
Episode 57. Why I believe trust is the most important thing in a relationship.
Jul 10, 2023
Episode 56. What Does This Country Need More Than Anything?
Jul 03, 2023
Episode 55. What’s wrong with the healthcare system?
Jun 26, 2023
Episode 54. Why do we keep repeating our past?
Jun 19, 2023
Episode 53. Who is responsible for educating kids about the dangers of the internet?
Jun 12, 2023
Episode 52. Is it okay to reevaluate my relationship?
Jun 05, 2023
Episode 51. What's wrong with being with an independent woman?
May 29, 2023
Episode 50. How come people are getting offended so easily lately?
May 22, 2023
Episode 49. Do we really need communication in any of our relationships?
May 15, 2023
Episode 48. It’s easier said than done.
May 08, 2023
Episode 47. Have you ever thought about what your why in life is?
May 01, 2023
Episode 46. Did you know you have an inner bully?
Apr 24, 2023
Episode 45. Do younger people need to teach boomers about technology?
Apr 17, 2023
Episode 44. How come you’re wasting your time?
Apr 10, 2023
Episode 43. Is working on yourself that important?
Apr 03, 2023
Episode 42. How to Own Up and Move Forward
Mar 27, 2023
Episode 41. Can love change a man?
Mar 20, 2023
Episode 40. Agree to disagree. Why can’t we find common ground?
Mar 13, 2023
Episode 39. What it's like to be raised by a single mom.
Mar 06, 2023
Episode 38. Are you feeling lonely?
Feb 27, 2023
Episode 37. Is there an after-Valentine’s Day curse?
Feb 20, 2023
Episode 36. Who's insecurities are you carrying around, and why are you letting them hold you down?
Feb 13, 2023
Episode 35. Episode 35. Breaking free from my toxic family.
Feb 06, 2023
Episode 34. Do you know who you are?
Jan 30, 2023
Episode 33. What if you can’t or don’t want to have children?
Jan 23, 2023
Episode 32. Should you put your inner warrior down?
Jan 16, 2023
Episode 31. Don't let a single in your life day ruin your entire year.
Jan 09, 2023
Episode 30. Why is it so hard to support your partner?
Jan 02, 2023
Episode 29. What are your New Year’s resolutions?
Dec 26, 2022
Episode 28. Have you ever taken the bait?
Dec 19, 2022
Episode 27. What it's like to be married to someone from a different race.
Dec 12, 2022
Episode 26. When is it okay to let your inner "Karen" run wild?
Dec 05, 2022
Episode 25. Are you afraid of the B word?
Nov 28, 2022
Episode 24. So what if you have a past…
Nov 21, 2022
Episode 23. Maybe we shouldn't attack him.
Nov 14, 2022
Episode 22. Never let your critics get you down.
Nov 07, 2022
Episode 21. Why are you staying in the relationship that you are in?
Oct 31, 2022
Episode 20. Why are we all so angry?
Oct 24, 2022
Episode 19. The debate about working from home.
Oct 17, 2022
Episode 18. What I found while browsing the net.
Oct 10, 2022
Episode 17. Is it worth it to be loyal to your employer?
Oct 03, 2022
Episode 16. The process of buying a house.
Sep 26, 2022
Episode 15. What is only fans?
Sep 19, 2022
Episode 14. What’s the biggest challenge you have encountered in your relationship?
Sep 12, 2022
Episode 13. What I learned from a 12 year old.
Sep 05, 2022
Episode 12. Are you quiet quitting?
Aug 29, 2022
Episode 11. Opinions are not facts.
Aug 22, 2022
Episode 10. It's back to school season.
Aug 15, 2022
Episode 9. It’s ok to quit your job.
Aug 08, 2022
Episode 8. I want a good relationship.
Aug 01, 2022
Episode 7. So what if I'm not a handyman?
Jul 25, 2022
Episode 6. Don’t Minimize their pain.
Jul 11, 2022
Episode 5. I was illiterate.
Jul 04, 2022
Episode 4. I used to hate my name.
Jun 27, 2022
Episode 3. Why do you swear so much?
Jun 20, 2022
Episode 2. What do you think about the Johnny Depp VS. Amber heard trial?
Jun 13, 2022
Episode 1. Am I a bad influence?
Jun 06, 2022