Recovering with Danie | Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

By Danie van Kay | Licensed eating disorder recovery coach

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Episodes: 173

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​In this podcast, I will cover eating disorder recovery related topics, and I will also sprinkle in conversations on dating, intimacy, self reflection, inner critic, having a chronic illness, navigating life in your 30s... basically anything that has to do with normal day today life as a fully recovered eating disorder recovery coach! Whether you struggle with anorexia, bulimia, or something in between, I'd love to take you along on the road to full food freedom! If you want to know more or get in touch, you can find me on Instagram @danievankay or website www.danievankay.com

Episode Date
#173: Everyone Wants to Be Recovered. No One Wants to Be in Recovery.
Jan 14, 2026
#172: All-In or Burnout? The Truth About Motivation, Your Nervous System, and Real Change
Jan 07, 2026
#171: What Working With Hundreds of Clients Taught Me About Recovery
Dec 22, 2025
#170: From Voice Notes to Inbox - Your Top Questions on Mental Hunger & Weight Gain
Dec 10, 2025
#169: I’m Gaining Weight on Purpose And I’m Stepping Back From Coaching.
Nov 27, 2025
#168: Q&A with Megan from @megsy_recovery - Embracing Weight Gain and Finding Freedom
Nov 11, 2025
#167: I Tried Gaining 10–15 Pounds on Purpose — Here’s What Happened After One Month
Nov 02, 2025
#166: Why I Don’t Use the Word Intuitive Eating Anymore: From Energy Deficit to Restorative to Functional Eating
Oct 26, 2025
#165: Bonus ep. IG live: Navigating Weight Gain, Body Image And More with Zeynep
Oct 23, 2025
#164: Bonus episode - How to get unstuck from quasi recovery & exclusive LIVE IG Q&A with Amalie Lee
Oct 16, 2025
#163: When Your Body Changes Faster Than Your Mind, Q&A and more!
Oct 15, 2025
#162: All In or Slow Steps? Navigating Autism, Recovery, and What ‘Healthy’ Really Means
Oct 08, 2025
#161: Residential treatment is NOT recovery
Oct 01, 2025
#160: I’m at a Healthy Weight — and Choosing to Gain 10-15 Pounds
Sep 24, 2025
#159: The Biology Behind Rapid Weight Gain in Recovery
Sep 17, 2025
#158: The Real Difference Between People Who Recover and People Who Don’t
Sep 10, 2025
#157: What I Ate in Full Extreme Hunger Recovery
Sep 03, 2025
#156: Dating, Identity, and Fear Foods - Real Recovery Q&A
Aug 27, 2025
#155: Your Recovery Questions Answered - Hunger, Weight Gain & Healing at Any Age
Aug 18, 2025
#154: You’re Not Addicted to Food—You’re Deprived
Jul 30, 2025
#153: The Problem with Measuring Everything in ED Recovery
Jul 23, 2025
#152: Ask Danie - Navigating Extreme Hunger, Weight Gain & Movement in Recovery
Jul 16, 2025
#151: When Therapy Hurts - Talking About Harm from Mental Health Professionals
Jul 09, 2025
#150: Being High-Functioning with an Eating Disorder Is the Most Dangerous Kind
Jul 04, 2025
#149: The Obsession with Calories Is Keeping You Stuck
Jun 28, 2025
#148: The Permission Paradox
Jun 17, 2025
#147: The Recovery Method That Actually Works
May 28, 2025
#146: Resistance Day - When Recovery Gets Real
May 13, 2025
#145: Natalia’s Recovery Story - Healing Against All Odds
May 02, 2025
#144: Skinny Is Trending Again—And So Is My Bone Medication
Apr 22, 2025
#143: Six Months In & Still Afraid: Am I Failing Recovery?
Apr 08, 2025
#142: Quickie - my extreme hunger journey
Apr 01, 2025
#141: Wellness culture traps in eating disorder recovery
Mar 29, 2025
#140: Recovery vs. full (food) freedom
Mar 18, 2025
#139: When a routine becomes a rigid nightmare
Mar 04, 2025
#138: Antidepressants, medications & weight gain
Feb 25, 2025
#137: Why I think Intuitive eating is also functional & emotional
Feb 17, 2025
#136: 12 ways to combat bad body image days
Feb 11, 2025
#135: Recovery aftercare and the maintenance phase
Jan 27, 2025
#134: My thoughts about the Oura ring and lots of ways to spice up your recovery
Jan 21, 2025
#133: Recovering Healthfully
Jan 14, 2025
#132: Recovering fast in 2025?
Jan 06, 2025
#131: Productivity amongst eating disorders
Dec 23, 2024
#130: Will I ever eat normally again?
Dec 16, 2024
#129: Why food feels rewarding
Dec 09, 2024
#128: "Calorie budget" and IIFYM
Dec 02, 2024
#126: Controlling someone else's food
Nov 25, 2024
#127: Rapid fire Q&A - Broken metabolism, feeling invalid, and more
Nov 25, 2024
#125: Asking for permission - how helpful is it?
Nov 04, 2024
#124: Q&A with my mum pt. 1 - How did she support me?
Oct 29, 2024
#123: My truth about ALL-IN
Oct 21, 2024
#122: What to do with no appetite
Oct 14, 2024
#121: Lola’s Recovery story
Oct 07, 2024
#120: Binging/feasting on safe foods
Sep 30, 2024
#119: Atypical anorexia vs. anorexia & building muscle while underweight
Sep 23, 2024
#118: How long does recovery take & extreme thirst
Sep 16, 2024
#117: Breaking up with diet/wellness culture to sustain your recovery
Sep 09, 2024
#116: Settling for mediocrity
Sep 02, 2024
#115: "Help, I'm triggered!" & a new Bootcamp offer
Aug 26, 2024
#114: Weight restored but incredibly disordered, and a Q&A
Aug 19, 2024
#113: Q&A - Going in patient, feasting, and more
Aug 12, 2024
#112: Q&A - All about being stuck and overcoming your fears
Aug 05, 2024
#111: How my physical health struggles almost fired off my genetic predisposition
Jul 17, 2024
#110: The "getting unstuck" phase in recovery
Jun 24, 2024
#109: YOU asked me about my recovery journey pt.2
Jun 17, 2024
#108: YOU asked me about my recovery journey pt.1
Jun 12, 2024
#107: What I ate as an intuitive eater on holiday with a chronic illness
Jun 03, 2024
#106: Extreme hunger & autism - a Q&A with a guest!
May 27, 2024
#105: Is this level of extreme hunger normal?
May 20, 2024
#104: How I made sure to get enough calories in during adversity
May 13, 2024
#103: The truth about enabling in recovery
May 06, 2024
#102: GI issues and chronic illness in recovery
Apr 29, 2024
#101: ANNOUNCEMENT - THE DVK RECOVERY METHOD® IS HERE!
Apr 22, 2024
#100: Your relationship with exercise needs to be questioned
Apr 15, 2024
#99: All things weight-gain
Apr 08, 2024
#98: The most sleep deprived podcast ep (not my best work) / how many calories does the body need?
Apr 01, 2024
#97: Recovering on your own
Mar 25, 2024
#96: Relapses + my own experience
Mar 18, 2024
#95: Q&A - weight-gain due to meds, fasting during recovery, inpatient comparison and more
Mar 11, 2024
#94: Trauma healing (EMDR) & recovery
Mar 04, 2024
#93: Recovery with intolerances/allergies
Feb 26, 2024
#92: Chronic illness/adversity in life & relapses
Feb 19, 2024
#91: Q&A - The difference between EH & feasting, getting your period back, team recommends treatment
Feb 13, 2024
#90: "You have osteoporosis because you don't drink milk"
Feb 05, 2024
#89: Rapid fire Q&A - comparing, realistic extreme hunger, going cold turkey and more
Jan 29, 2024
#88: Dating with an eating disorder
Jan 22, 2024
#87: The honest truth on whether recovery is worth it when having comorbidity
Jan 15, 2024
#86: Gaining weight without the presence of extreme hunger & chronic discomfort PTSD
Jan 08, 2024
#85: The plate-by-plate approach®
Jan 01, 2024
#84: Weight gain - how to stop postponing the inevitable
Dec 25, 2023
#83: Here's your reminder that event restriction needs to STOP!
Dec 22, 2023
#82: "Feasting" after being recovered
Dec 11, 2023
#81: Coping with going ALL-IN during Christmas and family members
Dec 04, 2023
#80: When to transition from a meal-plan to intuitive eating?
Nov 27, 2023
#79: Why quasi recovery is the most dangerous phase to be in
Nov 20, 2023
#78: Eating in abundance & WTF are clinics doing?
Nov 12, 2023
#77: Can I recover in 6 weeks?
Nov 06, 2023
#76: Q&A pt 5: Edema, protein bars, period at a low weight and more
Oct 30, 2023
75: Q&A part 4: identity crisis in recovery, food guilt, body shaming, counting calories and more
Oct 23, 2023
#74: Q&A pt 3 - Recovering when not underweight, cope with weight gain, going inpatient & I can’t stop eating sugar
Oct 16, 2023
#73: Q&A pt 2 - Can I still recover at age 40, recovering in a thin body, exercise compulsion and more
Oct 09, 2023
#72: Q&A - my dating life, night eating, feasting & recovery burnout
Oct 02, 2023
#71: Do I need a mealplan or plan in general?
Sep 25, 2023
#70: The dangers of negative self talk in recovery
Sep 18, 2023
#69: The honeymoon phase & “you have to gain weight anyway”
Sep 11, 2023
#68: Recovery trends: All-in, Minnie Maud, and recovery TikTok
Sep 04, 2023
#67: Mindful eating and intuitive eating in recovery
Aug 28, 2023
#66: Will I develop Binge Eating Disorder after having had a restrictive ED?
Aug 21, 2023
#65: Life after recovery
Aug 16, 2023
#64: "Help, I’m triggered!"
Aug 07, 2023
#63: This might be why you’re not feasting
Aug 01, 2023
#62: I’ve been robbed and my mum is sick
Jul 27, 2023
#61: Life update & advocating for yourself
Jul 17, 2023
#60: Bite size ep "Gaining weight on a low intake"
Jul 10, 2023
#59: Bite size episode "future tripping in recovery"
Jul 03, 2023
#58: Imposter syndrome in recovery
Jun 26, 2023
#57: Sometimes the best treatment is no treatment
Jun 19, 2023
#56: My best mastra's and the mistakes I made during my own recovery
Jun 12, 2023
#55: "Strong, but not skinny"
Jun 05, 2023
#54: BONUS ep. NEW PROGRAM! The Mini Recovery Bootcamp
Jun 03, 2023
#53: The difference between eating disorders and disordered eating
May 29, 2023
#52: Doing recovery on your own pt. 2, and is having a recovery buddy helpful?
May 22, 2023
#51: What is the pace of recovery?
May 15, 2023
#50: When should I start eating a balanced diet again?
May 08, 2023
#49: How does it feel to be recovered, lack of family support and my future goals
May 05, 2023
#48: Let's stop moralizing food & holiday recap
Apr 24, 2023
#47: How much food do I actually need?
Apr 17, 2023
#46: Eating induced hunger & night hunger
Apr 10, 2023
#45: Rewiring whilst nutritionally rehabilitating
Apr 03, 2023
#44: Feeling lonely in recovery & a personal update
Mar 27, 2023
#43: Going ALL-IN from day one?
Mar 20, 2023
#42: 3 crucial elements in recovery
Mar 13, 2023
#41: How to recover on a budget
Mar 06, 2023
#40: Can I still honor my hunger if I've gained weight?
Feb 27, 2023
#39: Q&A pt 3 - Orthorexia and anorexia & how to retrain your brain
Feb 20, 2023
#38: Q&A pt 2 - The binge restrict cycle, recovery tummy and more
Feb 13, 2023
#37: Dating update & Recovery Q&A Part 1
Feb 06, 2023
#36: Feeling lonely and Zoom fatigue
Jan 26, 2023
#35: MY STORY - forklifting my way out of my eating disorder
Jan 19, 2023
#34: Starting recovery at a higher weight
Jan 12, 2023
#33: You are not that unique
Jan 05, 2023
#32: Reflecting upon 2022 - the honest truth
Dec 29, 2022
#31: Misassumptions about what BEING RECOVERED looks like
Dec 22, 2022
#30: Not well, bitch
Dec 16, 2022
#29: The "magic" formula to recovery
Dec 09, 2022
#28: Can you still feast when you're recovered?
Nov 30, 2022
#27: How to deal with the holiday season
Nov 22, 2022
#26: Flipping the switch in recovery
Nov 18, 2022
#25: Why you should stop weighing yourself
Nov 11, 2022
#24: Going all-in and rapid weight gain
Nov 04, 2022
#23: Hustle culture during and post recovery
Oct 28, 2022
#22: How long does it take to recover?
Oct 21, 2022
#21: Veganism & vegetarianism in recovery
Oct 14, 2022
#20: Sex, dating, and vaginismus with Amalie
Oct 07, 2022
#19: Tummy troubles & I made a mistake
Sep 30, 2022
#18: Is food addiction a thing?
Sep 23, 2022
#17: Overshoot/recovery weight
Sep 16, 2022
#16: Mechanical Eating Queens (featuring Amalie)
Sep 09, 2022
#15: The fear of being unhealthy in recovery
Sep 02, 2022
#14: Force feeding yourself
Aug 26, 2022
#13: Binge/feast eating in recovery
Aug 19, 2022
#12: Figuring out your style post recovery
Aug 16, 2022
#11: 5 second rule, breathing method & recovery toolbox
Aug 05, 2022
#10: I'm a little drunk, event restriction and dating the Tinder Swindler?
Jul 29, 2022
#9: Why I went ALL-IN & Lyme Disease can fuck off
Jul 23, 2022
#8: Boredom eating & I'm not OK
Jul 15, 2022
#7: Do I get triggered and all forms of restriction
Jul 08, 2022
#6: Dating files (Pt. 3) - Dating fatigue
Jul 01, 2022
#5: Dating Files (Pt 2) - Ghosted, rejected & neglected
Jul 01, 2022
#4: Dating Files (Pt. 1) - How it all started
Jul 01, 2022
#3 RECOVERY BURNOUT
Jun 24, 2022
#2: How I create a girl squad in every city
Jun 20, 2022
#1: Being hit on at the hairdresser and all the things I recovered for
Jun 17, 2022