Habits for Your Happily Ever After: Relationship Communication Advice

By Rebecca Mullen

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Each episode offers a date-night-discussion to foster conversation, as well as a tiny habit to keep you and the one you love connected: Because happily ever after isn’t a destination, it’s a journey. Habits for Your Happily Ever After is a place to get clear about your marriage communication. Because when your relationships are strong, you’re able to concentrate at work, reduce conflict at home, and receive support for your dreams so you have courage to live your best life. Relationship Coach, Rebecca Mullen, hosts the show filled with stories about relationship struggles and successes.

Episode Date
Better Vacations: Plan Together and Reduce Conflict
Jul 23, 2026
The Partner Role in Your Relationship
Jul 20, 2026
Better Vacations: Dream Bigger and Increase Connection
Jul 16, 2026
The Friend Role in Your Relationship
Jul 09, 2026
6 Kinds of Fun for Your Relationship
Jul 02, 2026
49 Years Later, They're Still Each Other's Favorite Date
Jun 25, 2026
Better Communication Begins with You
Jun 18, 2026
What if They Don't Need You to Fix it? with Dr. David Marcus
Jun 11, 2026
Protective Defensive Maneuvers vs “Presenting the Deeper Me”
Jun 04, 2026
Recognize the Trigger. Rewrite the Story with Michael and Penny Gold
May 28, 2026
What if You’re Both Wrong? The Seductive Power of Either/Or
May 21, 2026
How Do You Say Hello to Your Partner?
May 14, 2026
Is Your Brain Answering the Wrong Questions?
May 07, 2026
You say yes. Your partner hears no. What happened?
Apr 30, 2026
How to Be Your Own Life Coach Part 4: What’s Your Takeaway?
Apr 23, 2026
How to Be Your Own Life Coach Part 3: Tools and Invitations
Apr 22, 2026
How to Be Your Own Life Coach Part 2: “Good to Notice”
Apr 21, 2026
How to Be Your Own Life Coach Part 1: Celebrate Your Strengths
Apr 20, 2026
Why Humor Connects You to Your Partner with Guest, Chris Duffy
Apr 16, 2026
Dirty Asks Cleaned Up
Apr 09, 2026
What Happens to Your Relationship When Your Partner Takes a Moonshot with Laverne McKinnon
Apr 02, 2026
Could a Practical Joke Save Your Marriage?
Mar 26, 2026
How Does the Loss of a Job Impact Your Relationship? with Laverne McKinnon
Mar 19, 2026
Make the Invisible Visible: The Compounding Power in Your Relationship
Mar 12, 2026
What does forgiveness have to do with setting boundaries? With Dr. Lee Baucom
Mar 05, 2026
The Seductive (and Toxic) Power of Drama in Relationships
Feb 26, 2026
A Habit That Could Save Your Marriage with Divorce Mediator Joe Dillon
Feb 19, 2026
Dating the Friend: The Date Night That Helps You Feel Known
Feb 12, 2026
Dating the Lover: The Date Night That Wakes Up Your Desire
Feb 05, 2026
Dating the Partner: The Date Night Most Couples Skip
Jan 29, 2026
The Three Roles in Your Relationship with Dayna Haig-Conway
Jan 22, 2026
The Most Important Habit to Form: Joy as Jet Fuel
Jan 15, 2026
What’s Wrong? Why Your Brain Obsessively Notices the Worst
Jan 08, 2026
How to Get Where You Want to Go: A Quote from Jim Rohn
Jan 01, 2026
Are You Alone on Christmas Day?
Dec 25, 2025
Choose Sober, Stay Connected: How to Fit In Without Giving In
Dec 18, 2025
Redefine Sobriety: A Compassionate Look at Your Limits
Dec 11, 2025
52 Ways to Ask "What's Your Favorite?"
Dec 04, 2025
Pause More, Fight Less: Your Holiday Survival Skill
Nov 27, 2025
Bonus: How to Find What's Funny
Nov 21, 2025
Dysfunctional Family Bingo and Other Games for the Holidays
Nov 20, 2025
Boundaries Unbound: A Discussion about Kasia Urbaniak's Book
Nov 13, 2025
How to Feel Better
Nov 06, 2025
Reckoning with Difference: How to Stay Married with Bonnie Comfort
Oct 30, 2025
How to Cultivate Relationship When You Vote Differently
Oct 23, 2025
Money Mindset Part 3: 4 Steps to Financial Freedom
Oct 16, 2025
Money Mindset Part 2: How to say NO so you can say YES!
Oct 09, 2025
Money Mindset Part 1: 3 Tools to Connect with Your Partner
Oct 02, 2025
Bonus: 11 Questions from Dr. Zoe Shaw
Sep 26, 2025
Shame Stops the Love You Feel with Dr. Zoe Shaw
Sep 25, 2025
Our First Book Club Book is Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power
Sep 22, 2025
Bern Mendez: Why Falling in Love with Yourself Will Deepen Your Relationship
Sep 18, 2025
Love Reading About Relationships? Join My New Book Club
Sep 15, 2025
You Assume. You Judge: The Secret to Staying in Your Own Business
Sep 11, 2025
I'm Starting a Book Club. Here's How to Join.
Sep 05, 2025
The Single Most Important Habit for Your Marriage
Sep 04, 2025
When Your Body Budget Is Overdrawn, Your Relationship Pays the Price
Aug 28, 2025
Dr. Diana Hill and Her Husband, Who Desperately Wanted to See Her
Aug 21, 2025
From Conflict to Connection: How to Communicate About Money in Your Relationship
Aug 14, 2025
“I’m hurting too,” What to do when you didn’t see your partner’s pain
Aug 07, 2025
“The Damage Was Mine to Repair” – Jen Price on Healing in Marriage
Jul 31, 2025
When You’re Overwhelmed, Trust Your Parenthood Heart
Jul 24, 2025
Love is What You Do: How NaTasha Richburg Built a 43-Year Marriage
Jul 17, 2025
3 Summer Dates to Nurture the 3 Roles in Your Relationship
Jul 10, 2025
How to Make a New Friend as an Adult
Jul 03, 2025
Is Your Child’s Behavior Hurting Your Marriage?
Jun 26, 2025
How Failure Helps You Communicate
Jun 19, 2025
Comfort, Courage and How to Reach for Your Happiness Handles
Jun 12, 2025
The Secret to Meaningful Summer Memories: Why Everyone's Joy Matters
Jun 05, 2025
“Why Can’t I Be Like Her?”—and Other Lies Comparison Tells Us
May 29, 2025
Romance? Or Roommates? How Affection Keeps Love Alive
May 22, 2025
“Thank You” Feels Awkward: But it’s the Bridge to Intimacy
May 15, 2025
The Thank You Experiment: Cultivating Tenderness in Relationships
May 08, 2025
Fear Keeps Your Desire Silent: Say YES! Instead
May 01, 2025
Winning the Fight, Losing the Love: Why Being Right Might Be the Wrong Goal in Your Relationship
Apr 24, 2025
Love Means Eating My Sh*t Sandwich…Right?
Apr 17, 2025
Why Doesn’t it Work to Put in the “Big Rocks” First?
Apr 10, 2025
Celebrating the 100th Episode!
Apr 03, 2025
Replace Mom-Guilt with Mom-Joy
Mar 27, 2025
When the “Hard Way” is the Best Way
Mar 20, 2025
The Power of Unstructured Play: A Stay-at-Home Mom's Perspective
Mar 13, 2025
Why an UNSKILLED Apology Actually Does More Damage
Mar 06, 2025
The Emotional Toll of Work Stress & How to Keep Your Relationship Strong
Feb 27, 2025
Desire, Instinct, & a Date Night for Lovers
Feb 20, 2025
Laugh, Listen, Belong: Building Best Friend Energy with Your Date Night
Feb 13, 2025
Don't Ruin Your Date Night
Feb 07, 2025
How to Build Boundaries Without Conditional Love
Jan 30, 2025
How to Ask for What You Want Without Drama
Jan 23, 2025
Whole Person, Whole Partnership: Building Balance in Love
Jan 16, 2025
Skip the Wine and Brew More Love in Your Alcohol-Free Relationship
Jan 09, 2025
Marriage Check-In: A Year-End Review for Your Relationship
Jan 02, 2025
December Rest Part 3: Different Kinds of Rest for Different Kinds of Tired
Dec 26, 2024
December Rest Part 2: How to Know When You’re at Capacity…and How to Nourish Yourself
Dec 19, 2024
December Rest Part 1: Notice Yourself to Nurture Your Relationship
Dec 12, 2024
Letting Off Steam: Kindness in Conflict Resolution
Dec 05, 2024
The Power of Traditions to Cultivate Intimacy in Your Relationship
Nov 28, 2024
Change Your Lens, Change Your Life: The Power of Perspective
Nov 21, 2024
Clueless & Codependent Part 3: The Relationship Dynamic
Nov 14, 2024
Clueless & Codependent Part 2: How to Let Go of Codependence
Nov 07, 2024
Clueless & Codependent Part 1: How to Wake Up From Cluelessness
Oct 31, 2024
Shared Values will Help You Find Harmony in Your Finances
Oct 24, 2024
"Baggage" as a Gift: How Your Past Shapes Your Present
Oct 17, 2024
Sacrifice or Self-Expression: Finding the Balance in Love
Oct 10, 2024
Love Without Laundry Lists: Stop Expecting, Start Connecting
Oct 03, 2024
Flow Together: How Water Can Transform Your Date Night
Sep 26, 2024
Love’s Double Helix: How Differences Strengthen Relationships
Sep 19, 2024
The Love Well: How to Overcome Loneliness and Feel Worthy of Love
Sep 12, 2024
Emotional Awareness will Turn Conflict into Connection
Sep 05, 2024
Bonus: An Alphabet of Affirmations
Aug 29, 2024
Bonus Mariah Edgington: How to Receive Love
Aug 29, 2024
Unintentional Hurts: How to Avoid, Heal, and Learn to Do Better
Aug 29, 2024
How to Use *Review* to Improve Your Marriage Meeting
Aug 22, 2024
How to Use *Plan* to Improve Your Marriage Meeting
Aug 15, 2024
A Marriage Meeting is Even Better for Your Relationship than Date Night
Aug 08, 2024
How Science Can Help Your Marriage Communication
Aug 01, 2024
Bonus: 60-Second Shakedown
Jul 25, 2024
Cultivate Resilience in Your Relationship: How to Begin Again. And Again.
Jul 25, 2024
More Pleasure. More Vitality. More Sex.
Jul 18, 2024
Bonus Courtney Fae Long and All-Day-Foreplay
Jul 18, 2024
How Fear is Killing Your Chemistry
Jul 11, 2024
Don't Let the Dinner Dilemma Haunt Your Family
Jul 04, 2024
Tired? 3 Kinds of Rest to Relaunch You
Jun 27, 2024
From Page to Pleasure: The Erotic Novel Effect
Jun 20, 2024
What is a Happy Marriage?
Jun 13, 2024
More with Dr. Zoe Shaw: Expectations, Communication + A Magic Question
Jun 06, 2024
Let Go of Shame. Own Your Story to Improve Your Relationship
May 30, 2024
Apologize Better: 4 Steps to Make Your Sorry More Effective
May 23, 2024
From Demands to Dreams: Inviting Connection in Your Relationship
May 16, 2024
Bonus: Make the Most of a Food Truck to Feed Wedding Guests
May 09, 2024
Why Laughter Helps in Your Relationship Communication
May 09, 2024
Why an Invitation is Better Than an Agenda for Your Relationship
May 02, 2024
Roles, Assumptions, Expectations and How 90 Seconds Can Change the Way You Argue
Apr 25, 2024
Pleasure: The Most Vulnerable Emotion + How to Cultivate Pleasure
Apr 18, 2024
Your Relationship Will Change when You Notice Without Judgment
Apr 11, 2024
Real Self Care is Built on Capacity and Nourishment
Apr 04, 2024
How to Build a Relationship as you Discipline Your Child
Mar 28, 2024
How Does the Death of a Child Impact Your Marriage?
Mar 21, 2024
If My Partner Loves Me, They'll Empty the Trash
Mar 14, 2024
What are Loving Lenses and How Do They Help Your Relationship?
Mar 07, 2024
Grief Can Be Wordless: Here's 2 Tools to Help You Grieve
Feb 29, 2024
Want a Lifetime Marriage? Advice from a 59-Year Relationship
Feb 20, 2024
Create a Pressure Relief Valve for Your Relationship
Dec 20, 2023
Bonus: Breathing Meditation Trees Make Oxygen for You to Breathe
Dec 20, 2023
Bonus Breathing Meditation You Are Enough
Dec 20, 2023
Bonus Breathing Meditation Notice Your Body
Dec 20, 2023
Your Breath Can Save Your Relationship
Dec 14, 2023
Do You Have Clear Boundaries in Your Relationship? Step 6 of Improve Your Relationship Communication
Oct 19, 2023
Get More "Thank Yous" Part 5 of Improve Your Relationship Communication
Oct 13, 2023
Improve Your Relationship Communication Step 4 Beware Conditions
Oct 05, 2023
Improve Your Relationship Communication Step 3 The Clean Ask Formula
Sep 28, 2023
Get Clear About What You Want to Reduce Marriage Conflict Part 2 of Better Communication
Sep 21, 2023
Improve Your Relationship Communication Step 1: Overcome Fear
Sep 16, 2023
Don't Let Your Inner Child Sabotage Your Relationship
Jun 28, 2023
When Happily Ever After for Your Relationship Includes Divorce
Jun 14, 2023
The Yin-Yang Balance in Your Relationship
Jun 06, 2023
Meet The Ghost in Your Relationship: Is Your Spouse Silent? Doesn’t Share News?
Jun 01, 2023
Meet The Saboteur: Is Your Partner Controlling or Critical? Are You?
May 24, 2023
The Vulnerability Hangover: What happens when you connect in two roles of your relationship, but neglect the other?
May 18, 2023
4 Ways "Thank you" Will Improve Your Relationship
May 11, 2023
Chores Workshop: How to Share the Labor in Your Relationship with Discussion Prompts
May 04, 2023
The Plane Didn't Land and How My Husband's Hand Created a Relationship Connection
Apr 20, 2023
Calendaring: Get Your Fabulous Date Nights Scheduled
Feb 28, 2023
Batch Your Date Nights
Feb 23, 2023
The Toxic Impact of Shame in Your Relationship
Feb 16, 2023
Relationship Magic: How Deep Listening Changes Your Relationship Memories
Feb 08, 2023
"What's for Dinner?" The Relationship Killer
Feb 02, 2023
Do You Ever Feel Used in Your Relationship?
Jan 26, 2023
How to Own Your Own Orgasm Part 2
Jan 18, 2023
Own Your Own Orgasm Part 1
Jan 12, 2023
How to Turn Relationship Conflict Into a Window of Connection
Dec 15, 2022
Why is Relationship Stress Romantic?
Dec 08, 2022
A Secret About the Power of Hello in Your Relationship
Nov 29, 2022
This Habit Will Keep Your Sex Life Exciting
Nov 24, 2022
Are You Sharing Secrets in Your Relationship or Do You Feel Left Out by Your Spouse?
Nov 17, 2022
Is it Hard to Get Your Partner to Clean the Toilet?
Nov 10, 2022
How to Invite Instead of Shove in Your Relationship
Nov 03, 2022
If You Keep Score in Your Relationship Your Love Will Feel Stingy
Oct 27, 2022
Joy Hides. Learn to Find it in Your Relationship
Oct 20, 2022
Promo
Oct 12, 2022
What Sean and Heather Don't Know About Their Sex Life
Oct 12, 2022