At Peace Parents Podcast

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The At Peace Parents Podcast is your source for all things related to understanding, supporting, accommodating, and advocating for your demand avoidant or PDA child. It will completely transform the way you think about your PDA child's brain, behavior, and parenting, and support you in finding your path to more peace and stability in the home. For more information see www.atpeaceparents.com

Episode Date
Throwback: 5 Ways to Recognize Pathological Demand Avoidance at School | Ep. 179
Sep 08, 2026
Educational Exclusion, Radical Trust, and What PDA-Affirming Schooling Looks Like: Otto Specht School | Ep. 178
Sep 01, 2026
One Year Later: Justin's Story of Progress With His PDA Son | Ep. 177
Aug 25, 2026
Basic Needs and Pathological Demand Avoidance: Toileting, Sleep, Hygiene, Eating, and Safety | Ep. 176
Aug 18, 2026
Throwback: Is Pathological Demand Avoidance the Same as Autism, ADHD, or Anxiety? | Ep. 175
Aug 11, 2026
Why You're Walking On Eggshells: Cumulative Nervous System Activation And Your PDA Child Or Teen | Ep. 174
Aug 04, 2026
Finding Meaning as a Parent of a Pathological Demand Avoidance Child or Teen | Ep. 173
Jul 28, 2026
Shame, Power, and Pathological Demand Avoidance in Children and Teens with Dr. Gillian Boudreau | Ep. 172
Jul 21, 2026
Why Lowering Demands May Not Be Enough For Your PDA Child | Ep. 171
Jul 14, 2026
Using the PDA Lens to Change Your Parenting With Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 170
Jul 07, 2026
Addictive Behaviors and the Nervous System in PDA: A Conversation With Jan Winhall | Ep. 169
Jun 30, 2026
Understanding the Root Cause of Pathological Demand Avoidance and Equalizing Behavior | Ep. 168
Jun 23, 2026
Individualized Education Plan (IEP) Advocacy for Pathological Demand Avoidance with Dr. Destiny Huff | Ep. 167
Jun 16, 2026
Four Ways To Create Calm With Your Pathologically Demand Avoidant Child | Ep. 166
Jun 09, 2026
A PDA Neuropsychologist on How Pathologically Demand Avoidant Brains Actually Work | Ep. 165
Jun 02, 2026
How A Dad Changed His Parenting To Stop Fighting His Child With Pathological Demand Avoidance: An Interview With My Husband | Ep. 164
May 26, 2026
Giftedness, Pathological Demand Avoidance and Burnout in Adults: My Story | Ep. 163
May 19, 2026
A Speech Language Pathologist on Selective Mutism, Pathological Demand Avoidance and So Much More | Ep. 162
May 12, 2026
What Occupational Therapists Need to Know: Restrictive Eating and Pathological Demand Avoidance Part 4 | Ep. 161
May 05, 2026
Practical Autonomy-Based Tools for Families Stuck in Food Struggles - Restrictive Eating and Pathological Demand Avoidance Part 3| Ep. 160
Apr 28, 2026
10 Misconceptions About Eating And Pathological Demand Avoidance Part 2 l Ep. 159
Apr 21, 2026
My Son Only Ate Three Foods - Eating and Pathological Demand Avoidance Part 1 | Ep. 158
Apr 14, 2026
Getting Husband and Parents On Board with Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 157
Apr 07, 2026
What Radical Acceptance Actually Looks Like for Pathological Demand Avoidance Parents | Ep. 156
Mar 31, 2026
Raising Twin Pathologically Demand Avoidant Boys: Socialization, Therapeutic Equalizing, and the Long Game | Ep. 155
Mar 24, 2026
Entrepreneurship And The Strengths Nobody Talks About From A Pathologically Demand Avoidant Adult | Ep. 154
Mar 17, 2026
Addiction And The Long Game With Mom Of A Teen With Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 153
Mar 10, 2026
Practical Tips for Bathing, Hair, Nails, and Getting Dressed - Hygiene and Pathological Demand Avoidance Part 3 | Ep. 152
Mar 06, 2026
Ep. 151 - Teeth Brushing, Dentists and Pathological Demand Avoidance
Mar 03, 2026
Ep. 150 - Hygiene and Pathological Demand Avoidance - Part 1
Feb 27, 2026
Ep. 149 - Mom Can't Get To Her Bedroom Without Causing A Meltdown For 10-Year-Old PDAer
Feb 24, 2026
Ep. 148 - Tips for Parenting Your Pathologically Demand Avoidant Teen - Part 2
Feb 20, 2026
Ep. 147 - Tips for Parenting Your Pathologically Demand Avoidant Teen - Part 1
Feb 17, 2026
Ep. 146 - 10 Misconceptions About Pathological Demand Avoidance
Feb 13, 2026
Ep. 145 - Toilet Training and Pathological Demand Avoidance - Part 3
Feb 10, 2026
Ep. 144 - Helping Your PDA Child or Teen Get to A Doctor's Appointment
Feb 06, 2026
Ep. 143 - Toileting and Pathological Demand Avoidance - Part 2
Feb 03, 2026
Ep. 142 - Toileting and Pathological Demand Avoidance - Part 1
Jan 30, 2026
Ep. 141 - Getting Started Parenting Your PDAer
Jan 28, 2026
A Pathologically Demand Avoidant OT on Burnout, Recovery, and Supporting PDA Kids in Practice | Ep. 140
Jan 23, 2026
Ep. 139 - PDA Child Is Unable To Eat Or Drink Because Of Loose Tooth
Jan 21, 2026
Ep. 138 - The 10 Hardest Lessons I Learned in 2025 As A Mom of 2 PDA Kids (Part 2)
Jan 16, 2026
Ep. 137 - The 10 Hardest Lessons I Learned in 2025 As A Mom of 2 PDA Kids (Part 1)
Jan 14, 2026
Ep. 136 - Teaching Frustration Tolerance to My PDA Child?
Dec 09, 2025
Ep. 135 - PDA Teen Can't Stop Wrestling Dad
Dec 02, 2025
Ep. 134 - De-Escalating Your PDA Teen in Public
Nov 18, 2025
Ep. 133 - PDA and ASD Evaluations for You and Your Child
Nov 11, 2025
Ep. 132 - When PDA Child Won't Let Me Take a Pause
Oct 28, 2025
Ep. 131 - PDA Daughter Pinches and Scratches Me While Falling Asleep
Oct 21, 2025
Neighbors Repeatedly Visited By Son With Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 130
Oct 07, 2025
Seeking Novelty and Dopamine: Parenting a Teen with Pathological Demand Avoidance Who Wants to Buy Everything | Ep. 129
Sep 30, 2025
Ep. 128 - Recognizing My Second Son is PDA
Sep 23, 2025
Ep. 127 - How to Manage PDA Child Equalizing on the Walk to School
Sep 16, 2025
Ep. 126 - Supporting Your PDA Child Dysregulated by Boredom
Sep 09, 2025
Ep. 125 - Helping Sibling Understand PDA Sister's Equalizing
Sep 02, 2025
Ep. 124 - PDA Child's Equalizing Triggers My Trauma
Aug 26, 2025
Ep. 123 - When 4-Year-Old PDAer Equalizes on Younger Sibling
Aug 19, 2025
Ep. 122 - Radically Accepting My Child's PDA While Worrying What Others Think
Aug 12, 2025
Ep. 121 - Parental Burnout and PDA
Aug 05, 2025
Ep. 120 - Healthy Self-Concept for PDA Child or Teen
Jul 15, 2025
Ep. 119 - Life-Changing Impacts (for all) By Shifting How They Parented Their PDA Child
Jul 02, 2025
Ep. 118 - PDA, Screens, and AI - Oh My!
Jun 25, 2025
Ep. 117 - Is My Child PDA or Non-PDA Demand Avoidant?
Jun 17, 2025
Ep. 116 - Choosing Your Perspective While Parenting A PDA Child or Teen
Jun 10, 2025
Ep. 115 - Journey of a PDA Parent with a PDA Child
Jun 03, 2025
Ep. 114 - Is PDA always Autism?
May 27, 2025
Ep. 113 - You're Not Parenting Your PDAer Wrong!
May 20, 2025
Ep. 112 - Alumna Talks About Parenting PDA and Two Other Neurotypes
May 13, 2025
Ep. 111 - Compulsive Eating by Your PDA Child or Teen
May 06, 2025
Ep. 110 - Speech Dude and I Talk School Accommodations for PDA Children and Teens
Apr 29, 2025
Ep. 109 - My Conversation with Physician and Founder of All Brains Belong, Dr. Mel Houser
Apr 22, 2025
Ep. 108 - 10 Tips to Improve Connection and Communication with your PDA Child or Teen
Apr 15, 2025
Ep. 107 - 20 Things I'd Tell Myself About My PDA Child's Restrictive Eating
Apr 08, 2025
Ep. 106 - Screens and Your PDA Child or Teen
Apr 01, 2025
Ep. 105 - How to Know if Your Child or Teen is PDA
Mar 25, 2025
Ep. 104 - Harmful Myths About PDA in Children and Teens
Mar 18, 2025
Ep. 103 - Healing Your Nervous System as a Parent of a PDA Child or Teen
Mar 11, 2025
Ep. 102 - Six Things from Buddhist Psychology that Help Me Parent My PDA Child
Mar 04, 2025
Ep. 101 - The Biggest Surprise in 5 Years of Occupational Therapy with My PDA Son
Feb 25, 2025
Ep. 100 - What If My Partner Won't Accommodate Our PDA Child or Teen?
Feb 18, 2025
Ep. 99 - Helping Our PDA Children and Teens Build a Healthy Self Concept
Feb 12, 2025
Ep. 98 - What About When My PDA Child or Teen Grows Up?
Feb 04, 2025
Ep. 97 - Demi Burnett's Story as a PDA Autistic Adult
Jan 29, 2025
Ep. 96 - Could Making Your PDA Child Walk Prevent Them From Eating?
Jan 24, 2025
Ep. 95 - Where Parents, Therapists and Teachers of PDA Children and Teens Get Stuck
Jan 17, 2025
Ep. 94 - Normalizing PDA Parenting Techniques
Jan 09, 2025
Ep. 93 - Grief, Ableism and Other Diagnoses while Parenting Your PDA Child
Jan 03, 2025
Ep. 92 - Tips for Holiday Parenting Your PDA Child or Teen
Dec 18, 2024
Ep. 91 - School Advocacy For Your PDA Child or Teen
Dec 12, 2024
Ep. 90 - Offering Summer Camp to a PDA Child - An Alumni Story
Dec 05, 2024
Ep. 89 - Parenting PDA Children and Teens so They Access Basic Needs
Nov 26, 2024
Ep. 88 - Lowering Demands for Your PDA Child or Teen
Nov 15, 2024
Ep. 87 - Controlling, Criticizing and Destructive Equalizing in PDA Children and Teens
Nov 07, 2024
Ep. 86 - PDA en Español!
Nov 01, 2024
Ep. 85 - If Your Co-Parent Wants Evidence of PDA
Oct 21, 2024
Ep. 84 - Using Declarative Language with Your PDA Child or Teen
Oct 17, 2024
Ep. 83 - Misconceptions on Setting Boundaries with a PDA Child or Teen
Oct 10, 2024
Ep. 82 - Changing to a PDA Parenting Approach Can Be Awkward!
Oct 08, 2024
Ep. 81 - Is ABA Really the Gold Standard for Our PDA Children?
Oct 03, 2024
Ep. 80 - Can Therapies Help PDA Children and Teens?
Sep 30, 2024
Ep. 79 - When and How Do You Correct Your PDA Child or Teen?
Sep 26, 2024
Ep. 78 - Why Behavioral Approaches Don't Work With PDA Children and Teens
Sep 24, 2024
Ep. 77 - From Solution Seeking to Decision Making While Parenting A PDA Child
Sep 19, 2024
Ep. 76 - What the Lack of Research on PDA Means (and Doesn't Mean)
Sep 16, 2024
Ep. 75 - Signaling Safety to Your PDA Child or Teen
Sep 12, 2024
Ep. 74 - The 4S's of Nervous System Regulation for Your PDA Child or Teen
Sep 09, 2024
Ep. 73 - Interview with Kelly Edwards: Unschooling Your PDA Child or Teen
Sep 05, 2024
Ep. 72 - You Don't Have to Be Perfect!
Sep 03, 2024
Ep. 71 - The Role of Intuition While Parenting a PDA Child or Teen
Aug 29, 2024
Ep. 70 - Advocating With Your PDA Child or Teen's School
Aug 26, 2024
Ep. 69 - What to do when your PDA child or teen is controlling, criticizing, swearing at you...?
Aug 19, 2024
Ep. 68 - Externalized vs Internalized PDA
Aug 13, 2024
Ep. 67 - Donna Georgen: Expert Coach for Parents of PDA Tweens, Teens and Young Adults
Jul 27, 2024
Ep. 66 - None of This is Your Fault! (Shame and Parenting a PDA Child or Teen)
Jul 17, 2024
Ep. 65 - What is it like to grow up as an internalized PDAer?
Jul 09, 2024
Ep. 64 - Parenting a PDA Child like Scientist Would
Jun 26, 2024
Ep. 63 - Parenting PDA Children and Teens Amidst OCD, Violence and Siblings with Dr. Alex Klein
Jun 20, 2024
Ep. 62 - Violence and Risk Mitigation Raising a PDA Child or Teen
Jun 14, 2024
Ep. 61 - Kendahl Damashek: Expert Coach for Parents of 2E PDAers
Jun 05, 2024
Ep. 60 - Polyvagal Theory and Parenting a PDA Child or Teen
May 28, 2024
Ep. 59 - Angry and Exhausted from Advocating for Your PDA Child? These ideas can help.
May 16, 2024
Ep. 58 - How Polyvagal Theory Explains Masking in PDA Children
May 10, 2024
Ep. 57 - Conversation with Dr. Alex Klein, Clinical Psychologist
May 03, 2024
Ep. 56 - PDA Children Avoiding Writing and Drawing
Apr 24, 2024
Ep. 55 - Boundaries vs Rules with Your PDA Child or Teen
Apr 12, 2024
Ep. 54 - Play Therapy and PDA - A Conversation with Therapist Lauren Stern Noel
Mar 19, 2024
Ep. 53 - Parenting vs Caregiving for a PDA Child or Teen
Mar 12, 2024
Ep. 52 - Rhythms versus Routines when Parenting a PDA Child or Teen
Mar 04, 2024
Ep. 51 - Signalling Safety to Your PDA Child or Teen
Feb 26, 2024
Ep. 50 - Sensory Processing Disorder or Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Feb 23, 2024
Ep. 49 - Conversation with Lauren Stern Noel, Developmental Therapist (and great friend!)
Feb 14, 2024
Ep. 48 - Siblings and PDA (Again)
Feb 05, 2024
Ep. 47 - What skills do we need to parent our PDA children?
Jan 29, 2024
Ep. 46 - "Strewing" to Accommodate your PDA Child or Teen
Jan 24, 2024
Ep. 45 - First PDA Discussion with Dr. Alex Klein, Clinical Psychologist
Jan 16, 2024
Ep. 44 - Five places parents get stuck
Jan 08, 2024
Ep. 43 - Guilt and second arrows as parents of PDA children
Dec 21, 2023
Ep. 42 - Service Dogs and PDA
Dec 12, 2023
Ep. 41 - PDA and Taking a Research Perspective
Dec 04, 2023
Ep. 40 - If I accommodate now, what will happen when they grow up?
Nov 28, 2023
Ep. 39 - Parenting through the holidays
Nov 21, 2023
Ep. 38 - Is PDA on a spectrum?
Nov 13, 2023
Ep. 37 - Let's talk about empathy
Nov 07, 2023
Ep. 36 - Are you a PDA parent of a PDA child?
Oct 30, 2023
Ep. 35 - 6 Tips for Making Halloween More Manageable for your Family.
Oct 24, 2023
Ep. 34 - The fawn and freeze responses
Oct 23, 2023
Ep. 33 - Behavioral approaches and why they don't work
Oct 17, 2023
Ep. 32 - Is therapy good for PDA kids?
Oct 09, 2023
Ep. 31 - What does it look like long term if we don't correct our children's "bad behavior"?
Oct 02, 2023
Ep. 30 - Have you "radically accepted" your PDA child or teen?
Sep 27, 2023
Ep. 29 - Can you "heal" Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Sep 18, 2023
Ep. 28 - OCD, Anxiety or PDA?
Sep 08, 2023
Ep. 27 - Is My Child PDA or Autistic with Demand Avoidance?
Aug 03, 2023
Ep. 26 - What is the difference between PDA and trauma?
Jun 15, 2023
Ep. 25 - Reframing Progress as a Parent of a PDA Child or Teen
Jun 06, 2023
Ep. 24 - Finding *your* unique PDA child or Teen's Edge.
May 23, 2023
Ep. 23 - Sticker Charts and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Apr 25, 2023
Ep. 22 - Timelines, Pre-PDA Awareness, and My Son's Burnout
Apr 20, 2023
Ep. 21 - Marriage and Co-Parenting with a PDA Child or Teen
Apr 06, 2023
Ep. 20 - Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) vs. Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Mar 27, 2023
Ep. 19 - Identity: Yours, Your Child's, and Mine
Mar 16, 2023
Ep. 18 - Why is Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) so Hard to Understand? - Part II
Mar 08, 2023
Ep. 17 - Why is Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) so Confusing? - Part I
Mar 06, 2023
Ep. 16 - Toileting and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Feb 15, 2023
Ep. 15 - Siblings and PDA
Jan 26, 2023
Ep. 14 - Your "Secret" and "Inappropriate" Questions about PDA
Jan 18, 2023
Ep. 13 - The Three Stages Parents of PDA Children and Teens Go Through
Jan 12, 2023
Ep. 12 - Parenting a PDA Child or Teen with an Experimental Mindset
Jan 09, 2023
Ep. 11 - "Aren't You Just Rewarding Bad Behavior?"
Dec 28, 2022
Ep. 10 - Masking, PDA Children and Teens, and YOU!
Dec 16, 2022
Ep. 9 - How to Manage the Holidays with a PDA Child
Dec 08, 2022
Ep. 8 - How do I know if my child is PDA or Autistic with Demand Avoidance?
Dec 01, 2022
Ep. 7 - 4 Ways to Support Your PDA Child's Nervous System
Nov 30, 2022
Ep. 6 - What is a "Cognitive Loop" for a PDA Child or Teen?
Nov 29, 2022
Ep. 5 - Grief and Radical Acceptance as a Parent of a PDA Child
Nov 29, 2022
Ep. 4 - Boundaries and the PDA Child
Nov 21, 2022
Ep. 3 - Rewards and Consquences and the PDA Child
Nov 16, 2022
Ep. 2 - Supporting Eating for a PDA or Demand Avoidant Child
Nov 16, 2022
Ep. 1 - Recognizing Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) in an Educational Setting
Nov 15, 2022