EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids
By Dr. Taylor Day
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welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism.
I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade.
on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here.
***disclaimer: not clinical advice, for educational purposes only***
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216 | can kids actually mask? understanding autism in high-masking children
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May 20, 2026 |
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215 | parent therapy beyond talking: EMDR, IFS, ketamine, and intensive therapy with Dr. Carolyn Solo
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May 14, 2026 |
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214 | what autism looks like in toddlers (and why it’s often missed)
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May 07, 2026 |
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213 | "could I be autistic too?" what many parents realize after their child’s diagnosis
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Apr 29, 2026 |
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212 | is this autism? 6 questions parents search (and what actually matters)
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Apr 22, 2026 |
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211 | does my child need supplements? how to support nutrition in autistic kids with Brittyn Coleman
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Apr 15, 2026 |
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210 | confusion isn't the problem in autism parenting. this is...
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Apr 08, 2026 |
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209 | what autism acceptance actually means (and why this month can feel like a lot)
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Apr 01, 2026 |
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208 | what does an autism evaluation look like as an adult? (and is it worth it?)
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Mar 25, 2026 |
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207 | everything feels connected… where do I even start? untangling complex autism needs
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Mar 19, 2026 |
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206 | will an autism diagnosis help or hurt my child?
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Mar 12, 2026 |
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205 | is medication the missing piece? what it can do for your autistic child
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Mar 07, 2026 |
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204 | am I doing too much... or not enough?
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Feb 26, 2026 |
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203 | from shame to strategy: rethinking screen time with Ash Brandin
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Feb 11, 2026 |
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202 | a live coaching session on grief, acceptance, and trusting yourself as an autism parent
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Feb 04, 2026 |
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201 | when an autism diagnosis brings more questions than answers
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Jan 30, 2026 |
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200 | celebrating 200 episodes: values, visibility, and coming back after the pause
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Jan 29, 2026 |
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199 | should my autistic child do a social skills group?
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Nov 13, 2025 |
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198 | the role of parents as co-regulators for autistic children with Lisa Candera
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Nov 05, 2025 |
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197 | developing impulse control in autistic children
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Oct 29, 2025 |
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196 | understanding interoception and supporting body awareness in autistic kids with Kelly Mahler
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Oct 22, 2025 |
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195 | perfectionism, over-accommodation, and finding the middle ground
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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194 | embracing humanity + connection in autism with jessie caraway of the if you know one project
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Oct 08, 2025 |
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193 | instagram live q&a replay: autism headlines, affirming supports, + the just one thing challenge
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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192 | processing the press on autism and Tylenol
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Sep 25, 2025 |
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191 | navigating demands + boundaries with the 3 bucket approach
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Sep 18, 2025 |
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190 | jealousy in autism parenting: why it’s normal (and what to do with it)
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Sep 10, 2025 |
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189 | building a neuro-inclusive family through couples therapy with Dr. Ali
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Sep 03, 2025 |
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188 | the chaos of the new school year
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Aug 28, 2025 |
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187 | a membership sneak peek: neuroaffirming ways to share a diagnosis Q+A
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Aug 20, 2025 |
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186 | do you really need the ADOS-2 to diagnose autism?
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Aug 13, 2025 |
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185 | it’s ok to three-putt: golf metaphors for autism parenting
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Aug 06, 2025 |
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184 | respecting autonomy and honoring differences in autism parenting with @sprinkledspectrum
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Jul 30, 2025 |
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183 | holistic approaches to co-occurring health conditions in autistic individuals with Dr. Melissa Houser
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Jul 23, 2025 |
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182 | structure seeker, autonomy craver, or shape shifter? a sneak peek into EVOLVE the membership
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Jul 17, 2025 |
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181 | seeking support and decreasing stigma around your own medication use
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Jul 09, 2025 |
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180 | complex emotions in autism parenting: the path from grief to acceptance
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Jul 02, 2025 |
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179 | navigating autism misdiagnosis with Dr. Marie Hooper
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Jun 25, 2025 |
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178 | peeling back the layers: identity and self-discovery
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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177 | navigating medication conversations with your autistic child: insights from Dr. Stacy Greeter
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Jun 11, 2025 |
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176 | understanding your inner authority: insights from human design with Rosy Crescitelli
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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175 | how questions propel progress (and an exciting announcement!)
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May 29, 2025 |
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174 | masking, delayed diagnosis, and autism identification in females with Amanda Moses
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May 21, 2025 |
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173 | overthinking, fire ants, and big decisions
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May 14, 2025 |
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172 | shining light on high support needs with Jessie Mewshaw, MS, CCC-SLP
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May 07, 2025 |
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171 | embracing uncertainty in this season: personal reflections and parenting applications
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Apr 30, 2025 |
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170 | let’s chat shame, language, and autism research
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Apr 23, 2025 |
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169 | from navigating a medical condition and developmental disabilities to advocacy with Camille Joy
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Apr 16, 2025 |
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168 | what therapies are families ACTUALLY doing?
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Apr 14, 2025 |
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167 | declarative language with Linda Murphy: from introduction to in-depth application
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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166 | the power of noticing wins in autism parenting (without toxic positivity!)
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Apr 07, 2025 |
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165 | the fight for equal opportunity and inclusion with Lo Farmer
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Apr 02, 2025 |
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164 | 5 key reasons to seek an autism evaluation NOW
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Mar 31, 2025 |
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163 | "Autism Handbooks": understanding autism in today's world with Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep
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Mar 26, 2025 |
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162 | preparing for Autism "Awareness" Month
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Mar 24, 2025 |
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161 | parenting, emotions, and cultural reflections with Lisa Jean-Francois
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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160 | is there an intersection between evidence-based practice and neurodiversity affirming care?
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Mar 17, 2025 |
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159 | understanding apraxia and its connections to autism with Jordan LeVan @fightingformyvoice
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Mar 12, 2025 |
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158 | unshaming neurodivergence: a deep dive into parenting and self-discovery with Isabeau Korylak @neurofriendlybeau
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Mar 05, 2025 |
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157 | A Kid’s Book about Neurodiversity: celebrating the 2nd edition release with Laura Petix @theotbutterfly
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Feb 26, 2025 |
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156 | SPECIAL EPISODE education laws under siege: what it means for your autistic child
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Feb 21, 2025 |
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155 | autism, ARFID, and parental advocacy with Mercedes Palermo @autismoutloud
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Feb 19, 2025 |
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154 | sex education for autistic youth with Dr. Michelle Fardella
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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153 | a new era of pediatric care with Dr. Mona Amin @pedsdoctalk
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Feb 05, 2025 |
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152 | how US policy updates impact the neurodiversity movement
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Jan 29, 2025 |
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151 | school vs. clinical: autism diagnosis and eligibility differences with Briana Drimmer
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Jan 22, 2025 |
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150 | unlocking the world of sign language with Marissa Ramos @riseandsigntherapies
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Jan 15, 2025 |
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149 | the EF toolkit: supporting autistic children with navigating life in a neuroaffirming way with Iris Wong
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Jan 08, 2025 |
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148 | Counting Down the Top 10 Episodes in Autism and Parenting for 2024
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Dec 31, 2024 |
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147 | my epic fail and where to go from here
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Dec 19, 2024 |
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146 | a mindset shift to presume competence in her autistic adult son with Betsy Hicks
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Dec 11, 2024 |
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145 | seclusion rooms exposed: the need for awareness and advocacy
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Dec 04, 2024 |
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144 | REPLAY of “preparing for the holiday season: mindful approaches and tips for families with autistic children”
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Nov 27, 2024 |
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143 | an episode for family + friends: supporting your autistic loved one this holiday season
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Nov 25, 2024 |
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142 | navigating your autistic child’s educational rights (including due process) with special education attorney Ashley Barlow
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Nov 20, 2024 |
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141 | building inclusive and sensory-friendly classrooms to promote regulation and learning
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Nov 13, 2024 |
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140 | creating more than toys: Solobo Toys' mission to support every child
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Nov 06, 2024 |
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139 | all things psychiatry: a follow-up Q+A with Dr. Arielle Rubin
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Oct 30, 2024 |
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138 | 7 themes I’m seeing for autistic kids as a child psychologist
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Oct 23, 2024 |
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137 | understanding trauma-informed care with Rachel Archambault @ptsd.slp
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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136 | understanding obsessive traits in autism
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Oct 09, 2024 |
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135 | discovering your neurodivergence: autism and ADHD diagnosis in adults with Dr. Salena Justice
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Oct 02, 2024 |
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134 | the real meaning behind child-led therapy with Nicole Casey @connectionsspeechpathology
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Sep 25, 2024 |
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133 | PDA and ODD: clarifying the differences
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Sep 23, 2024 |
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132 | unlocking communication: an introduction to Spell to Communicate with Kaley Stymeist
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Sep 18, 2024 |
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131 | the privilege of choice: nuanced discussion around ABA
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Sep 13, 2024 |
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130 | navigating fatherhood and autism with Rob Gorski
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Sep 11, 2024 |
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129 | from diagnosis to adulthood: author Carrie Cariello's insights
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Sep 04, 2024 |
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128 | ACT and neurodiversity affirming approaches in ABA with Unfurling Littles
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Aug 21, 2024 |
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127 | launching “EVOLVE the membership”: in-depth neurodiversity affirming education + support
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Aug 14, 2024 |
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126 | AAC part 2 with speech therapist Rachel Madel
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Aug 07, 2024 |
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125 | AAC part 1 with Lilly's Voice
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Jul 31, 2024 |
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124 | navigating social media, research, and BIPOC representation in the autistic community with Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar
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Jul 24, 2024 |
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123 | nurturing yourself: self-compassion and self-care with Emily Hamblin
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Jul 17, 2024 |
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122 | PANS, PANDAS, and neurodivergence with Dr. Joy Eberhardt
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Jul 10, 2024 |
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121 | navigating culture and religion with Sunita Theiss
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Jul 03, 2024 |
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120 | embracing uncertainty and making mistakes in parenting your autistic child
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Jun 26, 2024 |
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119 | navigating neurodiversity and inclusion in education with Chandele Morris
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Jun 19, 2024 |
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118 | how to support sensory regulation at home with occupational therapist Courtney English
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Jun 12, 2024 |
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117 | exploring DIRFloortime in autism care with parent and advocate, Dr. Daniella Boyd
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Jun 05, 2024 |
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116 | nurturing growth through relationships: an introduction to RDI with Dr. Sarah Wayland
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May 29, 2024 |
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115 | PDA and IEPs: bridging the gap between home and school for autistic learners
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May 22, 2024 |
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114 | beyond stereotypes: recognizing autism in females
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May 20, 2024 |
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113 | the art of low demand parenting: redefining connection and shifting expectations with Amanda Diekman
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May 15, 2024 |
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112 | a parent's path to supporting her PDA teen with Steph Curtis
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May 08, 2024 |
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111 | unraveling sleep challenges in autistic children: expert insights with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown
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May 01, 2024 |
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110 | what is PDA?
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Apr 24, 2024 |
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109 | navigating and processing 3 autism diagnoses with parent Amber Arrington
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Apr 17, 2024 |
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108 | neuroaffirming speech therapy with @sensory.slp and @speechdude
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Apr 10, 2024 |
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107 | is there a cure for autism?
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Apr 03, 2024 |
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106 | insights from autistic voices: the Aut2Ask survey
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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105 | navigating homeschooling for your autistic child with Malia Phelps Waller
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Mar 20, 2024 |
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104 | why sensory experiences impact your autistic child’s eating with Brittyn Coleman
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Mar 13, 2024 |
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103 | how to discuss your child's autism diagnosis with Dr. Liz Angoff of Explaining Brains
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Mar 06, 2024 |
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102 | an autism vocabulary list with Dr. Donna Henderson
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Feb 28, 2024 |
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101 | a behind-the-scenes of my entrepreneurial journey (and a sneak peek!)
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Feb 26, 2024 |
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100!!!!!! | celebrating 100 episodes of autism education: the importance of consistency + a HUGE giveaway announcement
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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99 | is Taylor Swift neurodivergent? and why it matters
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Feb 19, 2024 |
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98 | why my love life applies to you + your autism parenting journey
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Feb 16, 2024 |
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97 | tantrums vs. meltdowns: what's really the difference?
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Feb 14, 2024 |
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96 | key autism parenting mindset shifts
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Feb 07, 2024 |
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95 | an autistic PDA parent's journey towards self-discovery with Katherine L'Etang
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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94 | understanding psychiatry, medication, and autism: a deep dive with Dr. Arielle Rubin
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Jan 24, 2024 |
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93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFT
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Jan 17, 2024 |
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92 | POP CULTURE MINI SERIES: getting “delulu” in autism parenting / the power of self-belief
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Jan 10, 2024 |
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91 | manifestation, slowing down, and loosening expectations with autism parent Marisa Hohaia
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Jan 03, 2024 |
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90 | reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024 as an autism parent
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Dec 27, 2023 |
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89 | my candid thoughts as an autism sibling on fairness
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Dec 22, 2023 |
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88 | why your child's handwriting is important with Kelli Fetter
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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87 | staying present in the midst of hardships: my personal story applied to autism parenting
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Dec 15, 2023 |
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86 | pediatrics, autism, and direct primary care with Dr. Phil Boucher
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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85 | neurodivergence and the state of autism research: insights from Autistic researcher Chelsea Verrette
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Dec 06, 2023 |
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84 | building community: an autism mama's story with Jamie Lin Brown
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Nov 29, 2023 |
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83 | preparing for the holiday season: mindful approaches and tips for families with autistic children
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Nov 22, 2023 |
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82 | advocacy, social media, and the power of parental support: a conversation with with Dr. Myava Clark and her son, Chris Clark
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Nov 15, 2023 |
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81 | drowning prevention and swim safety for autistic children with Kira La Forgia
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Nov 08, 2023 |
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80 | the power of stillness: navigating autism parenting with intention and self-care
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Nov 01, 2023 |
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79 | Autistic Not Weird: neurodiversity + advocacy with Chris Bonnello
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Oct 25, 2023 |
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78 | what it means to be 2E: identifying and assessing twice-exceptional kids with Dr. Nicole Michaeli
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Oct 18, 2023 |
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77 | a deep dive into gestalt language processing and AAC with speech-language pathologist Katja Piscitelli
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Oct 11, 2023 |
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76 | tackling burnout and perfectionism: life + podcast updates and a message for YOU!
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Oct 04, 2023 |
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75 | can my child see a psychologist? (and why would they?)
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Sep 29, 2023 |
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74 | the power of love and advocacy in autism with Theresa Noye
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Sep 27, 2023 |
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73 | harnessing the power of YET
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Sep 25, 2023 |
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72 | the art of advocacy: navigating the tough conversations with others about autism
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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71 | breaking down autism causes, myths, and nutritional considerations with Dr. Steve Chaney
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Sep 20, 2023 |
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70 | why we need to always presume competence
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Sep 18, 2023 |
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69 | "can a child outgrow autism" Q+A
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Sep 15, 2023 |
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68 | AAC and Gestalt Language Processing with Erin @spinsandstomps - finding her daughter's voice
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Sep 13, 2023 |
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67 | practical strategies to get sh*t done today
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Sep 11, 2023 |
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66 | "I'm feeling depressed" Q+A: unmasking the silent battle for autism parents
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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65 | is your child not speaking in public? a deep dive into selective mutism and autism with Eleanor Ezell, LCSW
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Sep 06, 2023 |
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64 | identifying autistic traits in yourself (or in your co-parent)
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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63 | Q+A: my child just got diagnosed. now what?
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Sep 01, 2023 |
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62 | facing parenting fears about vacations with travel specialist and autism mom Kayla Castro
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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61 | a heart-to-heart: navigating care for autistic children vs. family needs
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Aug 28, 2023 |
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60 | DR. TAY'S BIRTHDAY EPISODE: hope, acceptance, and personal growth without a crystal ball
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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59 | early intervention: harnessing the power of parents and redefining success
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Aug 23, 2023 |
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58 | POP CULTURE MINI SERIES: what autism and Taylor Swift's fans have in common
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Aug 21, 2023 |
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57 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 4: answering your questions about special education and IEPs
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Aug 18, 2023 |
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56 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns
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Aug 16, 2023 |
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55 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 3: remix of episode 12 with former special education teacher Molly Johnson
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Aug 14, 2023 |
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54 | understanding and managing aggressive behavior Q+A
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Aug 11, 2023 |
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53 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 2: replay of "autism and special education rights with attorney Ashley Barlow"
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Aug 09, 2023 |
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52 | POP CULTURE MINI SERIES: what the Barbie movie can teach us about autism and neurodiversity
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Aug 07, 2023 |
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51 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 1: deciding the best educational path for your autistic child Q+A
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Aug 04, 2023 |
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50 | the intersection of autism and ADHD: a deep dive with Dr. Carrie Jackson
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Aug 02, 2023 |
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49 | how to pivot when things don't go according to plan
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Jul 31, 2023 |
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48 | Q+A: a closer look into Dr. Tay's concierge private practice for autism support
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Jul 28, 2023 |
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47 | masking, sensory experiences and the journey of late identification with autistic therapist Sam Marion
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Jul 26, 2023 |
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46 | telehealth evaluations: a new era in autism diagnosis
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Jul 24, 2023 |
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45 | Q+A: can autism be diagnosed before 18 months of age? insights into early identification
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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44 | the transforming power of autism on family dynamics: a personal conversation with my mom
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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43 | embracing the unconventional in clinical care and personal growth
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Jul 17, 2023 |
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42 | beyond the diagnosis Q+A: navigating emotions, therapy choices, and advocacy
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Jul 14, 2023 |
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41 | decoding your child's autistic brain: a discussion of executive functions with Dr. Abbie Jones
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Jul 12, 2023 |
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40 | the two key (but possibly missing) components of effective intervention
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Jul 10, 2023 |
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39 | is my child nonverbal? Q+A
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Jul 07, 2023 |
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38 | redefining {autism} parenting through Human Design with Allison Cullen
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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37 | daring to embrace fear: personal stories and applications to parenting
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Jul 03, 2023 |
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36 | parents, autism, and self-care Q+A: destigmatizing the need for help
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Jun 30, 2023 |
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35 | unlocking better healthcare for neurodivergent children with developmental behavioral pediatricians Dr. Ayesha Cheema-Hasan and Dr. Angelica Robles
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Jun 28, 2023 |
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34 | letting go of perfection and embracing your emotions
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Jun 26, 2023 |
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33 | boundary vs. accommodation Q+A
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Jun 23, 2023 |
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32 | did TV make my child autistic?
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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31 | three "system issues" you may be facing with your child's autism care
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Jun 19, 2023 |
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30 | navigating autism and friendship Q+A
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Jun 16, 2023 |
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29 | how I realized my son might be autistic with business coach Kelsey Kerslake
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Jun 14, 2023 |
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28 | the gap and the gain in parenting
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Jun 12, 2023 |
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27 | listening to (our) gut - podcast update + the message YOU need to hear today
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Jun 09, 2023 |
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26 | why ABA therapy is controversial?
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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25 | autism and special education rights with attorney Ashley Barlow
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May 31, 2023 |
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24 | is it autism or something else?
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May 24, 2023 |
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23 | overcoming the obligation cycle as a parent of an autistic child
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May 17, 2023 |
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22 | physical therapy and autism with Cynthia Hughell
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May 10, 2023 |
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21 | the 3 key components that make up quality autism care: what I believe your family deserves!
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May 03, 2023 |
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20 | dietary supports with naturopath Dr. Nina-Marie Rueda
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Apr 26, 2023 |
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19| how to support your non-autistic children in the autism journey
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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18 | sensory processing with occupational therapist Dr. Sam Goldman
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Apr 12, 2023 |
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17 | all things sleep with sleep consultant Courtney Zentz
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Apr 05, 2023 |
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16 | "I see you" - my story and introduction to autism, and why I chose my career path
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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15 | the emotional journey of getting an autism diagnosis with Chelsea Farmer
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Mar 22, 2023 |
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14 | q&a: autism levels, finding professionals, and supporting your needs
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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13 | picky eating with Dr. Patty Ann Ford
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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12 | autism consultant Molly Johnson on visual supports
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Mar 01, 2023 |
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11 | why positive thinking doesn't work (and what to do instead)
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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10 | the ABCs of challenging behavior
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Feb 15, 2023 |
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9 | goodbye to status quo: lessons and insights inspired by my personal evolution (part 1)
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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8 | Dina Daniels and the journey of becoming an advocate
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Feb 02, 2023 |
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7 | candid conversation on neurodiversity
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Jan 25, 2023 |
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6 | navigating autism when your circle is unsupportive
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Jan 18, 2023 |
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5 | are you losing your voice?
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Jan 11, 2023 |
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4 | what is autism? signs, symptoms, and neurodiversity
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Jan 04, 2023 |
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3 | regulating your emotions and supporting your child's emotional development: part 2
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Dec 28, 2022 |
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2 | regulating your emotions and supporting your child's emotional development: part 1
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Dec 21, 2022 |
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1 | why this podcast is needed
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Dec 13, 2022 |