Not As We Planned

By Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

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When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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Episode Date
My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 01, 2026
Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 26, 2026
Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 19, 2026
When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 12, 2026
Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 05, 2026
I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 25, 2026
Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 19, 2026
You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 12, 2026
The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 05, 2026
Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jan 29, 2026
Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jan 22, 2026
I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married
Jan 15, 2026
Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set Boundaries and Gain Self Worth.
Jan 08, 2026
Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 18, 2025
The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 11, 2025
Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 04, 2025
The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 27, 2025
The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 20, 2025
The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 13, 2025
When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 06, 2025
The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 30, 2025
Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 22, 2025
It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 15, 2025
Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 08, 2025
Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 01, 2025
I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 24, 2025
Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 17, 2025
The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 11, 2025
We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 03, 2025
100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…
Jul 30, 2025
99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault
Jul 23, 2025
98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!
Jul 16, 2025
97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire
Jul 09, 2025
96. An Unexpected Turn of Events
Jul 02, 2025
95. The Signs Of An Affair
Jun 25, 2025
94. A Massive Orange Dildo
Jun 18, 2025
93. I Thought He Would Change For Me
Jun 11, 2025
92. Describe Your Ex As a Brand
Jun 04, 2025
91. She’d Flirt With a Pint Of Milk
May 29, 2025
90. You Hooked Up With a Murderer
May 22, 2025
89. It’s Giving… Love Bomb
May 15, 2025
88. I Tried To Tame a F*** Boy
May 08, 2025
87. Comparing Myself To The 'Other Woman'
May 01, 2025
86. Catfish and Chlamydia
Apr 24, 2025
85. Things Just Got Juicy
Apr 17, 2025
84. How To Text a Guy
Apr 10, 2025
83. He Had a Whole Other Family
Apr 03, 2025
82. My Gut Told Me To Look At His Phone
Mar 27, 2025
81. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
Mar 20, 2025
80. Are They Swingers?
Mar 13, 2025
79. Something Is Wrong With Me
Mar 06, 2025
78. His Accountant Sent Him Vagina Pictures
Feb 27, 2025
77. Me and My Boyfriend Broke Up
Feb 20, 2025
76. Are We Dating The Same Guy?
Feb 13, 2025
75. Get the F*ck Out
Feb 06, 2025
74. He Was Messaging Other Girls On OnlyFans
Jan 30, 2025
73. He Has 6 Girlfriends
Jan 23, 2025
72. He Cheated On Me With My Midwife
Jan 16, 2025
71. We May Be The Villain But They Are The Clowns
Jan 09, 2025
70. If She Asks, Say I Was With You!
Jan 02, 2025
69. He’s Unstable
Dec 19, 2024
68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask
Dec 12, 2024
67. He Would Shag His Mum If He Could
Dec 05, 2024
66. I’m a Girlfriend
Nov 28, 2024
65. I Knew He Was Proposing
Nov 21, 2024
64. You’ve been Exposed!!
Nov 14, 2024
63. Your Husband Gave You Chlamydia
Nov 07, 2024
62. His Thumb Was Bigger Than His D***
Oct 31, 2024
61. Baby Loss Awareness Month
Oct 24, 2024
60. I’m One Of Those Men Who Cheated
Oct 17, 2024
59. Green Flag or Bare Minimum
Oct 10, 2024
58. I Fell In Love With My Friends Husband
Oct 03, 2024
57. What A Mistake I Made
Sep 26, 2024
56. I Met HER
Sep 19, 2024
55. He Had a Porn Addiction
Sep 12, 2024
54. A LOT happened this summer….
Sep 05, 2024
53. My Husband Had an Affair With a Lesbian
Jul 25, 2024
52. Not Just Another One… Another 3
Jul 18, 2024
51. The Micro Penis Debate...
Jul 11, 2024
50. All He’s Bringing To The Table Is Chlamydia
Jul 04, 2024
49. Can Women Really Have Casual Sex?
Jun 27, 2024
48. Control Your Hapiness
Jun 20, 2024
47. The Hunky Hot Fireman
Jun 13, 2024
46. He Left because I Got Too Fat
Jun 06, 2024
45. Gaslighting 101
May 30, 2024
44. What's That Around Your Ankle?
May 23, 2024
43. I Want to Store You In My Basement In a Duffle Bag
May 16, 2024
42. A 3 Year Age Gap Between your Daughter and Mistress
May 09, 2024
41. The Home Wrecking Teenage Work Colleague
May 02, 2024
40. The Live Podcast
Apr 25, 2024
39. He's Literally a Walking Talking Red Flag
Apr 11, 2024
38. One of the Confessions Is Mine!
Apr 04, 2024
37. Good Luck to the New Woman
Mar 28, 2024
36. You Make Your Bed, You Lay In It
Mar 21, 2024
35. Apparently I Give Better Blowjobs
Mar 14, 2024
34. Buy Me a F****** Meal First Hun
Mar 07, 2024
33. Lydia Bright: The Single Mum Club
Feb 29, 2024
32. Hindsight Is A Wonderful Thing
Feb 22, 2024
31. Babe... He's Married!
Feb 15, 2024
30. What Would You Rather??
Feb 08, 2024
29. You Made a Lucky Escape
Feb 01, 2024
28. He Actually Spent the Evening In a Motorway Hotel
Jan 25, 2024
27. We Broke Up
Jan 18, 2024
26. Jessica Hayes: An Honest Chat About Being a Single Parent
Jan 11, 2024
25. A Fresh New Year
Jan 04, 2024
24. He Was Cheating on Me With 4 People
Dec 21, 2023
23. That’s Triggering
Dec 14, 2023
22. Shelley J Whitehead: Healing your Heartbreak
Dec 07, 2023
21. Tis the Season
Nov 30, 2023
20. The Legal Queen: The Knowledge of all Things Divorce
Nov 23, 2023
19. Daniel Chidiac: His Take on Relationships
Nov 16, 2023
18. Reasons to Stay or Leave
Nov 09, 2023
17. Trying to Parent With Your Ex
Nov 02, 2023
16. The Downside of Social Media
Oct 26, 2023
15. Mum Guilt... But has Anyone Heard of Dad Guilt?
Oct 19, 2023
14. He Asked Me If I Wanted to Be Spanked and Whipped
Oct 05, 2023
13. Friends… some you gain and some you lose
Sep 28, 2023
12. Continuing the Healing Journey
Sep 20, 2023
11. Becoming a Mother
Sep 14, 2023
10. Dating in your 30s
Sep 07, 2023
9. Manifesting a positive mindset
Aug 31, 2023
8. Second Chances
Aug 24, 2023
7. Let’s Talk Dating Apps
Aug 17, 2023
6. Our First Holiday As Solo Parents
Aug 10, 2023
5. Trusting Again After Heartbreak
Aug 03, 2023
4. Red Flags
Jul 27, 2023
3. New Beginnings
Jul 20, 2023
Motherhood:Not As We Planned (Trailer)
Jul 13, 2023
1. It's Over
Jul 13, 2023
2. Having your psycho moment
Jul 13, 2023