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The Art of Managing Your Brain

System Strategy for Women Misnamed as the Problem

You’ve been called too intense. Too emotional.

Too sensitive. Too cold.

Too kind. Too reactive.

Too difficult. Too accommodating.

Too much.

And somehow—still expected to carry more.

The system was never built for women who see what’s wrong before it explodes.

So when you react? They misname it.

When you speak up? They call it a problem.

When you say “something feels off”? They tell you to calm down.

What most people label as “not being able to hack it” is usually just a survival instinct—one you were never taught how to manage.

This podcast gives you what no one else will:

• Not mindset resets.
• Not mantras or mood boards.
• Not another list of what you should be doing differently.

Because let’s be honest: You’ve already tried that.

And none of it tells you what to do when it actually hits.

What if this sounds like you?

• Your brain bolts before you even know why.
• Your voice disappears the second you need it most.
• Your fight instinct pops off—then you spiral in guilt.
• You vanish before the drama even starts.

This isn’t failure. It’s instinct.

And it’s time you finally understood what yours is trying to do.

It kicks in before you can explain it.

• The shutdown that buys you time—but costs you the truth.
• The fake yes you gave because it wasn’t safe to say no.
• The snap-back you regret… even though they had it coming.

You saw it coming.

But they’ve trained you to second-guess—because calling you “too sensitive” is easier than admitting you were right.

Or maybe it’s that eerie calm—the one that shows up while they’re still pretending everything’s fine. But you already know how this ends—and it’s not worth sticking around for.

Whatever shape it takes—there’s a name for it.

And it’s not failure.

It’s instinct.

Each one shows up differently. But they all have one thing in common:

They’ve been working hard to protect you—but nobody ever taught you how to manage them.

Hosted by Dr. Charlie M. Hornes, DMin, BCC, MCPC

Board-Certified Clinical Strategist and creator of the Survival Instinct Archetypes.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• What to do when your nervous system locks the door before you know what’s wrong
• How to speak when people-pleasing flattens your voice
• Why your brain tracks danger early—and how to use that as strategy
• How to name the setup that makes you doubt your intelligence
• What it takes to stop misreading your survival as failure

Start here:

Take the free Survival Instinct Archetype Quiz: https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/quiz

Then come back here.

We’ll teach you how to manage the part of your brain that’s always blamed—but rarely understood.

New episodes weekly.

Bring your instinct.

Not your apology.