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Welcome to Love Fully, formerly known as The Roadmap to Secure Love—a podcast dedicated to helping you build secure, fulfilling relationships by understanding secure attachment and learning how to live it out in everyday life.
For years, this podcast focused on secure attachment—and that foundation still matters deeply. Attachment science helps us understand our nervous systems, our reactions, and the relationship patterns that shape how we give and receive love. But over time, we noticed something important—in our therapy rooms, in our inboxes, and in our own lives.
People didn’t just want to understand their attachment style.
They wanted to know how to love and live differently.
That’s why The Roadmap to Secure Love is now the Love Fully Podcast.
Hosted by Dr. Kimberly Castelo and Kyle Benson, certified Emotionally Focused therapists passionate about relational healing, Love Fully blends attachment science, clinical insight, and deep human conversation.
Each episode offers practical tools, honest reflection, and real-life guidance to help individuals and couples move from survival patterns into secure, meaningful connection.
This podcast goes beyond identifying attachment styles to explore how we love ourselves, show up in relationships, set boundaries, navigate conflict, and stay connected through life’s many transitions—because secure attachment gives us the map, and loving fully is the journey.
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Episode 39-Turn Common Mistakes into Connection
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Oct 17, 2025 |
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Episode 38-Are You Betraying Your Partner Without Knowing It? What You Share Could Break Trust
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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Episode 37-Rewriting the Family Script: How to Protect Your Partner Without Betraying Your Parents
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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Episode 36-Work out the Knots Before You Tie the Knot for Marriage
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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Episode 35-Sexual Ethics: A Crucial Conversation Before Marriage
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Jun 26, 2025 |
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Episode 34-They Want a Divorce—You Don’t. Here’s How to Heal
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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Episode 33-Surviving the Aftermath of Divorce
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Jun 03, 2025 |
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Episode 32-Why Pleasing Your Partner Could Be Hindering Great Sex.
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May 27, 2025 |
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Episode 31-Healing the Ghost of Past Relationships
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May 08, 2025 |
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Episode 30-Embrace the Soft No’s in Sexual Intimacy
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Apr 29, 2025 |
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Episode 29-Having Boring Sex? Here's How to Talk About It
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Episode 28-4 Steps to Stop Doubting Yourself and Build Secure Self-Trust
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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Episode 27-Fight, Flight, or Love? How to Rewire Your Reactions in Relationships
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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Episode 26-The Parenting Hack No One Talks About: How Taking Care of Yourself Creates Secure Kids
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Apr 01, 2025 |
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Episode 25-From Bee Phobia to Relationship Drama: The Hidden Link You Never Knew!
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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Episode 24-From Reacting to Responding: How to Create Space for Growth in Your Relationship
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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Episode 23-From Chaos to Connection: 5 Tips for Parenting and Partnership Success
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Jan 21, 2025 |
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Episode 22- 2024 in review: Developing a secure self by building resilience and welcoming grief.
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Jan 16, 2025 |
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Episode 21-Dating & Attachment Styles: Navigating New Relationship Energy with Confidence
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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Episode 20-From Walls to Warmth: How Vulnerability Builds True Intimacy in Couples
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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Episode 19-Jealousy and. Envy: How Attachment Styles Shape the Emotions That Can Make or Break Love
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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Episode 18-Secure Society: Supporting Each Other Through Crisis and Loss
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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Episode 17-Overcoming the Tit-for-Tat Trap: The Path to Partnership and Peace
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Oct 08, 2024 |
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Episode 16-Own Your Pleasure: How Secure Solo Sex Enhances Relationships
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Oct 01, 2024 |
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Episode 15-Reclaiming Erotic Power: A Guide for Low Libido Partners
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Sep 24, 2024 |
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Episode 14-Desire Discrepancy Demystified: How to Thrive with a Higher Libido
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Sep 17, 2024 |
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Episode 13-Breaking the Brick Wall: Navigating Stuck Relationships
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Sep 10, 2024 |
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Episode 12-Boundaries and Secure Attachment: A Roadmap to Emotional Safety
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Sep 03, 2024 |
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Episode 11-Disconnected Desires: How to Reignite Sexual Connection in Long-Term Relationships
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Aug 27, 2024 |
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Episode 10-Shame: The Kryptonite of Secure Relationships
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Aug 20, 2024 |
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Episode 9-The Heart That Hears Can Heal: Creating Secure Attachment
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Aug 13, 2024 |
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Episode 8-From Memory to Resilience: Using Attachment Theory to be Confident
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Aug 06, 2024 |
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Episode 7-Own It: How Taking Responsibility Can Revive Your Relationship
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Jul 30, 2024 |
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Episode 6-Rupture to Repair: 5 Steps to Effective Attachment Apologies
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Jul 23, 2024 |
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Episode 5-From Ick to Intimacy: Navigating Neediness with Connection
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Jul 16, 2024 |
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Episode 4-Consent and Curiosity: Building a Foundation for Extraordinary Sex
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Episode 3-From Smoothies to Fruit Salads: Navigating Autonomy and Connection in Love
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Episode 2- Activation Points: Managing Conflict and Intimacy Through Attachment Theory
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Episode 1- Emotional Connection Strategies: Navigating Head vs. Heart in Relationships
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Jul 09, 2024 |