The Psychology of Us

By RJ Starr

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The Psychology of Us explores how persons and systems think, feel, identify, and make meaning. Created by RJ Starr, a structural theorist in theoretical and integrative psychology, the show extends his Psychological Architecture framework into questions of identity, emotion, meaning, culture, social behavior, and institutional life. This is psychology as serious inquiry into the structures beneath human experience.

Episode Date
Psychological Vocabulary Is Not Psychological Literacy
Oct 07, 2026
Why “Everything Happens for a Reason” Survives Failure
Sep 30, 2026
The Identity Collapse Cycle: Why Losing a Role Can Feel Like Losing Yourself
Sep 23, 2026
The Labor of Being Seen
Sep 16, 2026
Why Self-Awareness Isn't Enough: The Mirror and Map of Self-Knowledge
Sep 09, 2026
The Psychology of What We Talk About
Sep 02, 2026
The Architecture of Intactness
Aug 26, 2026
What We Cannot Fear, We Learn to Despise: The Architecture of Contempt
Aug 19, 2026
The Witch, the Comet, and the Machine
Aug 12, 2026
The Mirror Function: Why Desire Never Sees Its Object
Aug 05, 2026
Feelings Are Data, Not Directives
Jul 29, 2026
The Psychology of Hoarding: Why Letting Go Feels Unsafe
Jul 22, 2026
My Truth, Your Truth, and the Cost of Neither Being True
Jul 15, 2026
Workplace Cliques: When Belonging Becomes Exclusion
Jul 08, 2026
The Performance of Public Life
Jul 01, 2026
No Dead Air: When Silence Became a Problem
Jun 24, 2026
When Dysfunction Becomes the Rule
Jun 17, 2026
The Psychology of the Critic
Jun 10, 2026
The Architecture of the Mind: A New Framework for Understanding Human Experience
Jun 03, 2026
The Psychology of the Cyberbully
May 30, 2026
The Architecture of Pride: How Group Identity Forms, Excludes, and Endures
May 27, 2026
The Tragedy of Almost-Connection
May 23, 2026
When Interpretation Becomes Defense
May 20, 2026
The Architecture of Dreaming: Why the Mind Lets Reality Collapse at Night
May 16, 2026
Unfinished Houses: The Architecture of Psychological Adulthood
May 13, 2026
The Blueprint of Human Experience: Psychological Architecture
May 06, 2026
The Quiet Collapse: Why Connection Is Breaking Down
May 02, 2026
Ghosting and the Human Brain: Why Silence Feels So Destabilizing
Apr 29, 2026
Parochial Attribution: Why the Unfamiliar Looks Broken
Apr 25, 2026
The Psychology of Talking to Machines: Existential Reflection in the Age of Artificial Companions
Apr 22, 2026
The Judgmental Mind: Why It Can't Turn Itself Off
Apr 18, 2026
Why the Internet Feels So Lonely Now
Apr 15, 2026
The Self That Requires an Audience
Apr 11, 2026
Meaning, Dissolution, and the Architecture of a Livable Life
Apr 08, 2026
The Psychology Behind Political Breakdown: A Special Edition Conversation
Apr 03, 2026
When Change Gets Loud: Understanding the Extinction Burst
Apr 01, 2026
When an Answer Isn’t Enough: The Psychology of Endless Questioning
Mar 25, 2026
Conspiracy Thinking as Psychological Structure
Mar 25, 2026
Why Your Body Reacts to Thoughts: The Hidden Architecture of Emotion
Mar 18, 2026
Why Some People Stay Calm Under Pressure | The Emotional Maturity Index
Mar 11, 2026
Why Psychology Needs Structure: Introducing Psychological Architecture
Mar 04, 2026
What Writing Does After Loss
Feb 25, 2026
Why Some People Always Need the Last Word
Feb 18, 2026
When Explanation Stops Helping
Feb 11, 2026
Emotional Threat Registers: Why Intensity Feels Like Understanding (and Often Isn’t)
Feb 04, 2026
When Emotion Decides For You
Jan 28, 2026
Why Feeling Behind in Life Feels So Convincing
Jan 21, 2026
The Monks, the Walk for Peace, and the Psychology of Non-Reactivity - SPECIAL EPISODE
Jan 16, 2026
Being Reasonable Does Not Make You Safe
Jan 14, 2026
Why the New Year Doesn’t Feel the Way You Thought It Would
Jan 07, 2026
January Is Not a Reset: The Psychology of the New Year
Dec 31, 2025
The Gift of Attention: A Christmas Eve Episode
Dec 24, 2025
The Performance of Generosity: The Psychology Behind Public Acts of Kindness
Dec 17, 2025
The Unfinished Mind: Why Incomplete Tasks Disturb Our Peace
Dec 10, 2025
The Psychology of Honor: Reclaiming a Lost Virtue in an Age of Image and Convenience
Dec 03, 2025
The Hidden Anxiety of Thanksgiving: Why Togetherness Doesn’t Always Feel Like Connection
Nov 26, 2025
The Psychology of Manifestation: When Belief Feels Like Magic
Nov 19, 2025
The Psychology of the Commons: Why Some People Care When No One’s Watching
Nov 12, 2025
The Psychology of Having an Opinion: Why We Care How Other People Live
Nov 05, 2025
Becoming Real: The Psychology of Selfhood in an Imitative Age
Oct 29, 2025
The Psychology of Restraint: The Quiet Strength Within
Oct 22, 2025
The Psychology of Self-Righteousness
Oct 15, 2025
Mean World Syndrome: The Psychology of Fearful Perception
Oct 08, 2025
The Psychology of Interruptions: Power, Anxiety, and Disregard in Everyday Talk
Oct 01, 2025
The Psychology of Dehumanization and Moral Disengagement
Sep 24, 2025
SPECIAL EDITION: Psychology of the Current Cultural Chaos
Sep 21, 2025
The Psychology of Entitlement: Why Some People Always Feel Owed
Sep 17, 2025
The Psychology of Empathy: Why It Matters More Than You Think
Sep 10, 2025
The Need to Be Offended: A Psychological Look at Outrage Culture
Sep 03, 2025
Their View, Your Mirror: The Psychology of Envy
Aug 27, 2025
I Could, But I’m Not Going To The Quiet Power of Values in Action
Aug 20, 2025
The Psychology of Needing to Be First
Aug 13, 2025
The Psychology of Sarcasm
Aug 06, 2025
The Quiet Panic of Being Alive
Jul 30, 2025
Why Jealousy Hits So Hard: The Psychology of Rivalry, Love, and Insecurity
Jul 23, 2025
Let Them Tell the Story: Aging, Memory, and the Right to Re-imagine
Jul 16, 2025
Beyond the Mirror: The Psychology of Self-Perception, Aging, and Identity
Jul 09, 2025
When Dreams Get Loud: What Your Mind Is Trying to Tell You
Jul 02, 2025
The Psychology of Confident Ignorance
Jun 25, 2025
The Psychology of Attire: How Clothing Shapes Identity and Perception
Jun 18, 2025
The Psychology of Approval: Why Being Liked Feels Like Survival
Jun 14, 2025
Regret and the Mind: Why We Dwell on What Could Have Been
Jun 10, 2025
The Psychology of Ethics, Dogma, and Morality: How We Decide What’s Right and Wrong
Jun 07, 2025
Why Smart People Make Dumb Emotional Decisions
Jun 03, 2025
Why We Need to Be Liked: The Emotional Cost of Validation
May 27, 2025
Why We Love Violence: The Dark Psychology Behind Our Social Urge to Win, Control, and Punish
May 24, 2025
Why the Bad Sticks: the Psychology of Negativity Bias
May 20, 2025
Memory Home: When the Place That Held You Is Gone
May 17, 2025
The Psychology of Perception
May 13, 2025
Psychology of Rejection Sensitivity
May 10, 2025
The Psychology of Mockery: Why Some People Derive Pleasure from Others’ Distress
May 06, 2025
When All You Can Do Is Witness
May 03, 2025
The Lie of Finding Yourself: Why Self-Authorship Is the Real Work
Apr 29, 2025
Why We Hate to Wait: The Psychology of Patience
Apr 26, 2025
Anywhere But Here: Longing, Escape, and the Myth of Arrival
Apr 24, 2025
The Psychology of Denial in a Crumbling America
Apr 21, 2025
The Psychology of Self-Preservation
Apr 19, 2025
Extinction Bursts – Why We Resist Change Before We Adapt
Apr 15, 2025
The Psychology of Emotional Unintelligence in Public Life
Apr 13, 2025
The Age of Shallow Learning: How Superficial Knowledge is Changing Us
Apr 12, 2025
The Psychology of Values: How Your Beliefs Shape Your Life Choices
Apr 08, 2025
Fragmented Focus: Why Our Attention Spans Are Shrinking and How to Reclaim Them
Apr 05, 2025
The Psychology of Belief: Why We Believe What We Do
Apr 01, 2025
Why People Bully: The Psychology Behind Power and Control
Mar 29, 2025
The Psychology of Dishonesty: Why People Lie and How to Spot It
Mar 25, 2025
FOMO Unpacked: The Psychology of Missing Out in a Social Media World
Mar 22, 2025
The Worry Trap: Why We Overthink and How to Break Free
Mar 18, 2025
The Psychology of Censorship and Control
Mar 15, 2025
Eremitism: The Psychology of Solitude and the Desire to Be Alone
Mar 11, 2025
The Roots of Anger: Why We Lose Our Cool
Mar 07, 2025
Why People Annoy Us: The Psychology of Irritation
Mar 04, 2025
Midterm Mayhem: How to Manage Academic Stress and Study Smarter
Feb 27, 2025
Psychology of Values: The Hidden Compass Guiding Your Life
Feb 25, 2025
Stereotypes, Discrimination, and the Reality of Asian Women
Feb 21, 2025
Ghosting: Why People Disappear and the Psychology of Avoidance
Feb 18, 2025
Psychology of Procrastination: Why We Put Things Off
Feb 13, 2025
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: Beyond the Stereotypes
Feb 10, 2025
McVulnerability: When Online Emotion Becomes a Performance
Feb 07, 2025
Psychology of Gaslighting: Reclaim Your Reality
Feb 04, 2025
Psychology of Moral Panic: Fear, Backlash, and Culture Wars
Feb 01, 2025
Aging: The Afternoon of Life, a Journey to Meaning and Freedom
Jan 28, 2025
Political Theater: Psychology of Manipulating Emotions and Shaping Society
Jan 25, 2025
Psychology of Jealousy: Why We Feel Green with Envy
Jan 22, 2025
Psychology of Division: Why Some Leaders Thrive on Conflict
Jan 18, 2025
The Impact of Social Media on Self-Esteem and Identity
Jan 15, 2025
Psychology of Dying: A Continuation, Not a Conclusion
Jan 12, 2025
Cultural Anxiety: Psychology of Collective Experience
Jan 10, 2025
Emotional Intelligence: Navigating Your Feelings and Actions
Jan 08, 2025
Unpacking Self-Awareness: Understanding Your Inner World
Jan 07, 2025
Introduction Episode
Jan 06, 2025