Sexy Marriage Radio

By Dr. Corey Allan

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Straight-forward, honest conversations about what goes on behind closed doors in your marriage. Turn on Sexy!

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Trusting After Porn #424
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The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husband disclosed his porn usage for over 12 years of their marriage. Another wife emails wanting to know how to […] The post Trusting After Porn #424 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jul 17, 2019
Wife Wants Variety #423
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The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every time she brings it up with her husband he reverts back to what they’ve always done. And an email […] The post Wife Wants Variety #423 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jul 10, 2019
One Sided Sex In Marriage #422
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The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sided Sex in marriage. Taken from an article found on Psychology Today. On the Xtended version … Part two of the SMR […] The post One Sided Sex In Marriage #422 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jul 03, 2019
Lasting Longer and Squirting #421
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The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A husband calls in with 2 questions, how can he last longer during sex and would we talk about squirting and how to explore it or if you should. On the Xtended version […] The post Lasting Longer and Squirting #421 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jun 26, 2019
Something Worth Wanting #420
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On today’s regular version of the show … A husband looking for more information on how to present something worth wanting. A wife wanting to know how to keep triggers from happening in the bedroom. On the Xtended version … A little more on the idea of the thinking brain and the feeling brain, particularly […] The post Something Worth Wanting #420 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jun 19, 2019
Boundaries #419
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On today’s regular version of the show … A husband is looking for how to add more variety to his sex life when his wife has fear of pain during sex. A wife describes a gridlock with her husband surrounding his higher interest in sex than hers. Can your spouse be an accountability partner in […] The post Boundaries #419 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jun 12, 2019
Masturbation and Massage #418
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On today’s regular version of the show … Two different questions about masturbation. What if it could be reframed as a path forward and what about the woman’s side of this act? Plus a conversation with Denis Merkas from MELT, Couples Massage Courses about how massage is such a good addition to any marriage. On […] The post Masturbation and Massage #418 appeared first on SMR Nation.
Jun 05, 2019
Accelerators and Brakes #417
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On today’s regular version of the show … We don’t french kiss anymore. How can I get it started again in my marriage? Plus we’re joined by Seth and Melanie Studley from the Anatomy Of Marriage for a conversation about the idea of your accelerators and brakes in your sex life. On the Xtended version […] The post Accelerators and Brakes #417 appeared first on SMR Nation.
May 29, 2019
Premature Ejaculation #416
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On today’s regular version of the show … How do I help my spouse believe they are attractive when it’s not what they believe about themself? Plus I’m joined by Dr. Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First, to answer a listener’s question about premature ejaculation. On the Xtended version … A deeper conversation […] The post Premature Ejaculation #416 appeared first on SMR Nation.
May 22, 2019
Is Sex Addiction Real? #415
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On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails about the pressures that are felt in married life. From changes to sex to foreplay. On the Xtended version … Sex addiction is a term used quite a lot in the media and our culture lately. But is it accurate, real, and even an addiction […] The post Is Sex Addiction Real? #415 appeared first on SMR Nation.
May 15, 2019
What Is Normal #414
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On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails from the SMR Nation ranging from how does a wife better handle her husband’s struggle with looking at pornography to how do you address a spouse who’s upbringing around the subject of sex created a real discomfort even talking about the subject now. On the […] The post What Is Normal #414 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 08, 2019
State of the Union #413
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On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do when your husband goes straight for the genitalia in foreplay? A caller asking for more information about the State of the Union conversations you can have with your spouse. On the Xtended version … What if? Conflict and how this all creates a […] The post State of the Union #413 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 01, 2019
Masturbation and Expectations #412
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On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin. On the Xtended version … Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do […] The post Masturbation and Expectations #412 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 24, 2019
Talking #411
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On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the Sexy Marriage Nation asking for help in the conversations that take place in their marriage. An additional voicemail to add to the Oral Sex shows we’ve had lately. On the Xtended version … What are the elements necessary for […] The post Talking #411 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 17, 2019
It Takes One To Tango #410
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […] The post It Takes One To Tango #410 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 10, 2019
Tastes and Not Going to Happen #409
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two follow up emails from episode #407. One sharing their surprise that Schnarch’s work was not mentioned in the episode 2 weeks ago and another from […] The post Tastes and Not Going to Happen #409 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 03, 2019
Spectrum Relationships and Giving vs Giving In #408
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Eva Mendes LMHC, NCC about her work with neurodiverse marriages – meaning when one member of the relationship is on the Autism […] The post Spectrum Relationships and Giving vs Giving In #408 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 27, 2019
Oral Sex and Gagging #407
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like […] The post Oral Sex and Gagging #407 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 20, 2019
Confidence #406
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 5 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband who had his confidence rattled by a statement his wife said about her sexual past and their present. Plus I’m […] The post Confidence #406 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 13, 2019
Hold Onto Yourself #405
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Why didn’t we use the term addiction in last week’s conversation? An email from a husband asking about the differences in desire vs. priorities. On […] The post Hold Onto Yourself #405 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 06, 2019
Cruelty In Marriage #404
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband looking for ways to help his wife who has pain during intercourse. Plus an email from a wife who’s husband […] The post Cruelty In Marriage #404 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 27, 2019
Missionary Position and Love Languages #403
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from last week’s email from a husband who’s wife only likes missionary position sex. On the Xtended version … A discussion about […] The post Missionary Position and Love Languages #403 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 20, 2019
Healing From Betrayal #402
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email looking for our thoughts about his wife’s unwillingness to do anything other than missionary position sex. A discussion with Dr. Debi Silber about her work in helping women […] The post Healing From Betrayal #402 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 13, 2019
Sex As A Weapon #401
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … What this past weekend’s Super Bowl can teach you about marriage. An email from a wife looking for more information about how sex is used as […] The post Sex As A Weapon #401 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 06, 2019
Celebrating 400 Episodes #400
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Celebrating 400 Episodes of Sexy Marriage Radio. Messages from the Sexy Marriage Nation as well as hear from old voices that have helped make this milestone […] The post Celebrating 400 Episodes #400 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 30, 2019
Saying Yes #399
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … Is marriage more of a partnership than longing and love like we believe going into it? What makes saying […] The post Saying Yes #399 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 23, 2019
Desire Differences and Communication #398
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … How do you make sense of desire differences for sex when both spouses are higher desires? A follow-up to […] The post Desire Differences and Communication #398 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 16, 2019
Repeated Betrayals and Power #397
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … A caller who practices natural family planning yet struggles with some of the roles each of them have agreed […] The post Repeated Betrayals and Power #397 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 09, 2019
Too Tired For Sex #396
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you […] The post Too Tired For Sex #396 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 02, 2019
More Wine? #395
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … A look back the 2018 for Sexy Marriage Radio. An email from a husband concerned about his wife’s […] The post More Wine? #395 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 26, 2018
Faking It #394
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … A wife who’s husband is asking for pictures of her to masturbate to when she’s unavailable. And a wife who admits to faking it at the beginning of their […] The post Faking It #394 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 19, 2018
Clitoral Orgasms #393
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … We address some feedback we’ve received from the SM Nation regarding last week’s show with Pam Costa. An email from a wife who can only achieve orgasm via clitoral […] The post Clitoral Orgasms #393 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 12, 2018
Awaken Female Desire #392
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a higher desire wife who’s in a catch-22. Plus a conversation with Pam Costa on her journey and work about reclaiming female sexual desire. On the […] The post Awaken Female Desire #392 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 05, 2018
Being Sexy and Connecting #391
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Do you have to believe you’re sexy before you can be sexy? How do you connect better with your spouse? And a follow-up to last week’s episode. On the […] The post Being Sexy and Connecting #391 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 28, 2018
Power and Sexlessness #390
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Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of callers who feel powerless in their marriage either because of a husband’s continued use of porn or a wife’s non-existent desire for sex in their sexless […] The post Power and Sexlessness #390 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 21, 2018
Getaway and Masturbation #389
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On today’s regular version of the show … Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Plus an email from a listener asking about masturbation and religion. And a second opinion segment with Dale Sadler where we answer an email from a wife who’s husband […] The post Getaway and Masturbation #389 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 14, 2018
When Sex Seems Like Work #388
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On today’s regular version of the show … A lengthy conversation with Jessa Zimmerman about how sex can be a lot of work, as well as some discussion of the Higher and Lower Desire paradigm when it comes to sexual differences. On the Xtended version … A deeper discussion of the Higher and Lower Desire […] The post When Sex Seems Like Work #388 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 07, 2018
Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband #387
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On today’s regular version of the show … How to break the negative interaction cycles that can happen in marriage. Plus a conversation with a married couple that’s part of the Sexy Marriage Nation. We dive into why she’s not sexually attracted to her husband and some things they could do to possibly create a […] The post Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband #387 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 31, 2018
Masculine and Feminine Energy #386
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On today’s regular version of the show … More conversation about what do you do when trust is broken in marriage based on a callers response to a previous episode. Sexy Halloween – what role can dressing up play in married life? Plus a caller asking for our help in creating pick up lines to […] The post Masculine and Feminine Energy #386 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 24, 2018
Sexual Attraction and Fantasy with Dr. Julie Slattery #385
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On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do if you find you’re not sexually attracted to your spouse? We have emails from both genders. A Second Opinion segment. Dr. Julie Slattery joins me to answer a Sexy Marriage Nation member’s question about unwanted fantasies. On the Xtended version … A more […] The post Sexual Attraction and Fantasy with Dr. Julie Slattery #385 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 17, 2018
Seven Year Itch #384
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SEXY MARRIAGE RADIO TURNS SEVEN THIS WEEK!!!! On today’s regular version of the show … A man calls in who was able to shut down desire and arousal as a kid because of the guilt associated with the subject but now as a husband he has trouble performing. Another husband calls in as the low […] The post Seven Year Itch #384 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 10, 2018
Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383
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Marriage is mostly on the job training. And there’s a purpose for the relationship that not enough people are talking about. Marriage is designed to help you grow up. Period. Today I’m a guest on my own show as we discuss the journey of Sexy Marriage Radio and its message. Enjoy the show! __________ Got […] The post Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 04, 2018
Repeated Betrayals and The Wife Is The Higher Desire #382
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A caller asks us for help in understanding why he would seek attention elsewhere when his marriage is really good. And a wife calls trying to understand what she can do to get her husband interested in sex more than just on the weekends. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or […] The post Repeated Betrayals and The Wife Is The Higher Desire #382 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 01, 2018
Sex After 50 With Laurie Betito #381
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Aging impacts us all. It’s inescapable. But that doesn’t mean sex is over or even fades. Dr. Laurie Betito joins me today to discuss ways to keep sex going after you’ve turned 50. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Laurie’s work here – http://www.drlaurie.com/ Watch SMR on YouTube here. __________ Got a question? CALL […] The post Sex After 50 With Laurie Betito #381 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 27, 2018
Unilateral Marriages #380
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What do you do when you find yourself stuck against a stone wall in marriage? And that wall is your spouse and they’re unwillingness or disinterest in participating in sex? Also, a woman calls in wanting help understanding what to do since her breasts don’t arouse her since having a child. And our thoughts on […] The post Unilateral Marriages #380 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 24, 2018
Puppy Dogs and Pussy Cats With Sheri Winston #379
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There are differences between men and women. These differences can sometimes cause some issues in marriage. What if the differences can be captured with the images of a puppy dog and a pussy cat? That’s what Sheri Winston joins me on the show to discuss. Enjoy the show! You can find Sheri’s work here – […] The post Puppy Dogs and Pussy Cats With Sheri Winston #379 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 20, 2018
Emptiness vs Fullness #378
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A member of the SM Nation adds to the conversation regarding the optimum penis size. Is there a Sexy Marriage Diet? Translation, foods that will aid your sex life. Pinching. It may not be what you thing. Plus hear our thoughts for a caller who’s at an impasse with his wife and his desire to […] The post Emptiness vs Fullness #378 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 17, 2018
Marriage Roundtable: Breaking Free of Ruts #377
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Life has ruts and routine. So do relationships, families and marriages. So how do you break out of these ruts? And when should you? That’s what we discuss today – and we’re joined by our friends Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and Seth and Melanie Studley of The Anatomy of Marriage. Enjoy […] The post Marriage Roundtable: Breaking Free of Ruts #377 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 13, 2018
Someone Has To Lead #376
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Hear several callers each wanting assistance with how to approach rejection, engagement from their spouse during sex, and how to handle being the Higher or the Lower Desire in the marriage. Plus some push back from a caller regarding our past show with Dr. Snyder (Episode #365) And a fellow member of the Sexy Marriage […] The post Someone Has To Lead #376 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 10, 2018
The Ultimate Intimacy App #375
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We continue on the topic of intimacy today. Although we also add in some technology. The Ultimate Intimacy App is a fantastic resource for marriage and sex. It’s a great blend of provocative and informational. And it’s free! Enjoy the show! You can download the app here – Ultimate Intimacy App Watch SMR on YouTube […] The post The Ultimate Intimacy App #375 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 06, 2018
Tastes, Body Is Not My Own, More Foreplay #374
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Today we cover several different topics as well as a follow-up from last week’s show. What can help change the taste of my semen? A husband and wife disagreeing about the scripture “Your body is not your own.” And a caller wanting help with confronting his wife’s attitude of “Hurry up and get this over […] The post Tastes, Body Is Not My Own, More Foreplay #374 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 03, 2018
Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373
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Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You can find Steven’s work here – stevening.com Or check out his TED talk here – What’s your magic […] The post Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 30, 2018
Semen, Breasts and Fantasy #372
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Today is another potpourri show as well as a couple of follow-ups from last week’s show. A wife emails us for help in how to better handle her reaction to her husband’s semen. Another emailer asks if there is any research on the benefits of breast play. And a caller wanting help in how to […] The post Semen, Breasts and Fantasy #372 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 27, 2018
Broken Trust #371
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Unfortunately everyone is likely going to face the topic of today’s show. Betrayal, deception and the pain it creates in relationships are far too common. That’s why Dr. Tim Cole joins me for today’s episode. Enjoy the show! You can find more about Dr Cole’s here – Broken Trust: Overcoming An Intimate Betrayal Watch the […] The post Broken Trust #371 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 23, 2018
Honesty, Ickiness and Waited Now Terrified #370
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Today is a potpourri show where we cover three different emails. How do you tell a spouse the truth when they ask you “Was it good for you?” Some thoughts for helping with the ickiness of sex. And a question from a newlywed who is now terrified of sex after a rough beginning to their […] The post Honesty, Ickiness and Waited Now Terrified #370 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 20, 2018
Better Sex Through Mindfulness With Lori Brotto #369
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There are many shows and books and articles aimed at helping you achieve better sex. Sexy Marriage Radio exists to try and help as well. And throughout the 6 1/2 years worth of shows we’ve yet to discuss our topic for today. Mindfulness is a better way to experience more in life, and sex. Dr. […] The post Better Sex Through Mindfulness With Lori Brotto #369 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 16, 2018
Negotiation In Marriage #368
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Negotiation can be a part of business. Even part of relationships. But what if it’s actually part of the growth process in life and marriage? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Get even more help in the Academy Get help […] The post Negotiation In Marriage #368 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 13, 2018
Sex, God and Church With Tina Schermer Sellers #367
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Why is there so much shame surrounding sex and sexuality? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers joins me today as we discuss her research and work around this subject. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Seller’s work and book here – Sex, God and the Conservative Church: Erasing Shame From Sexual Intimacy Or check out her […] The post Sex, God and Church With Tina Schermer Sellers #367 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 09, 2018
Toys, Erotica and Fantasies #366
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We have discussed the use of toys and fantasy in the past, but this time we venture into the topics a little differently, and also address the world of erotica. Enjoy the show! Looking for more of a community? Find it in the Sexy Marriage Academy. Interested in the Private Affair Game? Pick it up […] The post Toys, Erotica and Fantasies #366 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 06, 2018
Love Worth Making With Stephen Snyder #365
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Dr. Stephen Snyder joins me today as we discuss what can make sex in a long lasting marriage fantastic. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Snyder’s book here – Love Worth Making Watch the show on YouTube here. __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post Love Worth Making With Stephen Snyder #365 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 02, 2018
Living In Community With Others – #364
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We all live among other people – but how deep are we really in a community of others? There’s tremendous benefit to living life on a deeper level with others. That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! Looking for more of a community? Find it in the Sexy Marriage Academy. __________ Sponsor: This episode […] The post Living In Community With Others – #364 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 30, 2018
Good Girls And Sex With Sheila Wray Gregoire #363
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There are many women who grew up thinking sex was something bad, and they’ve carried this belief into adulthood and marriage. Today Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we discuss how sex is a beneficial thing in marriage, and life. Enjoy the show! You can find Sheila’s work here – To Love Honor And Vacuum […] The post Good Girls And Sex With Sheila Wray Gregoire #363 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 26, 2018
When One Spouse Is Too Busy #362
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We all live busy lives. Perhaps too busy. But what happens when one spouse is just too busy for what they say they want in marriage? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice. http://covenantspice.com __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at […] The post When One Spouse Is Too Busy #362 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 23, 2018
Spirituality and Sexuality With Chuck MacKnee #361
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Is there a link between spirituality and sexuality? Can that link be greater than we think? Dr Chuck MacKnee joins me on today’s episode as we discuss these questions and discover the answer is yes, to both. Enjoy the show! You can contact Dr Macknee here – macknee@twu.ca Watch the show on YouTube here. __________ […] The post Spirituality and Sexuality With Chuck MacKnee #361 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 19, 2018
When Roles Reverse #360
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There are roles each spouses play in marriage and family life. What happens when the traditional roles you play get reversed? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter the code word SEXY at checkout to receive a free bottle of […] The post When Roles Reverse #360 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 16, 2018
Grief and Sex With Elise Thompson #359
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Grief is a reality of life. And when one or both spouses are directly impacted by loss it can affect the marriage in several ways. My colleague Elise Thompson, LMFT joins me to discuss this today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US […] The post Grief and Sex With Elise Thompson #359 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 12, 2018
Teaching Intimacy To Your Kids #358
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We are big proponents of teaching our children about sex. But an emailer asks us how do you teach them about intimacy? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy […] The post Teaching Intimacy To Your Kids #358 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 09, 2018
Seeking Your Pleasure In Sex With J Parker #357
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On today’s episode I’m joined by J. Parker or Hot, Holy, Humorous – a blogger, podcaster and author who leads the conversation about how wives should seek their own pleasure in sex. You can find more of J.’s work on her site: Hot, Holy, Humorous Sex Chat For Christian Wives Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: […] The post Seeking Your Pleasure In Sex With J Parker #357 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 05, 2018
Wedding Vows, Sex Vows and Erotic Vows #356
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Everyone is likely familiar with the idea of wedding vows. The commitments we make to our spouse regarding our life we’re beginning together. But what about vows for our sex life? Or our erotic life? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show! __________ Got […] The post Wedding Vows, Sex Vows and Erotic Vows #356 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 02, 2018
How To Awaken Desire #355
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On today’s episode I’m joined by Laurie Watson, a LMFT, Sex therapist and author who leads the conversation about how to create desire in marriage, specifically for women. You can find more of Laurie’s work on her site: http://awakeningscenter.org/ Foreplay Radio Sex Therapy Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed […] The post How To Awaken Desire #355 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 28, 2018
When The Dynamics Of Sex Are Unfair #354
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There are many things about life that may seem fair, or unfair. What about the dynamics of sex that may not seem fair? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. https://smrnation.com/smracademy __________ […] The post When The Dynamics Of Sex Are Unfair #354 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 25, 2018
Simplicity, Habits and Marriage #353
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On today’s episode I’m joined by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. He and I discuss how his journey of simplicity and habits has impacted his life, marriage and family. Find Leo’s work at Zen Habits. Enjoy the show! You can also watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or […] The post Simplicity, Habits and Marriage #353 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 21, 2018
Conditions and Imbalance in Marriage #352
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Today we cover a couple of emails from the Sexy Marriage Nation. Are there conditions in marriage? And love? How do you address major unbalances in marriage? Enjoy the show. Editor’s Note: Due to some repeated sound issues shows are not appearing on YouTube until this is resolved. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by […] The post Conditions and Imbalance in Marriage #352 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 18, 2018
More Love, Less Conflict #351
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On today’s episode I’m joined by Johnathan Robinson, a psychotherapist and a professional speaker who leads our conversation about how to create more love with less conflict in our relationships. You can find more of Johnathan’s work on his site: www.FindingHappiness.com Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A […] The post More Love, Less Conflict #351 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 14, 2018
Libido and Oxytocin #350
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There are many times we receive an email about how a spouse has no, or low libido. This will impact the relationship and their life, but is their baseline level of libido that important? Or is there something else to focus on in this area of life? Enjoy the show. Editor’s Note: Due to some […] The post Libido and Oxytocin #350 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 11, 2018
Becoming Cliterate #349
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Today the Sexy Marriage Nation hears from Dr. Laurie Mintz, a professor at the University of Florida and a Licensed Psychologist. Her new book is the topic of our conversation – Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters, And How To Get It. Find more about Dr Laurie here. Enjoy the show. You can also watch […] The post Becoming Cliterate #349 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 07, 2018
Our Journey Of 25 Years #348
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We celebrated 25 years of marriage last week! Join us as Pam and I discuss some of how our 25 years of marriage together have impacted us, and how Sexy Marriage Radio has impacted us as well. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups […] The post Our Journey Of 25 Years #348 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 04, 2018
Menopause and Marriage #347
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Today’s show is a continuation of the menopause discussion. This week Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley joins me to explore the subject from her view as an OB-GYN. Find more about Dr Carol here. Enjoy the show. You can also watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio […] The post Menopause and Marriage #347 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 31, 2018
Masturbation In Married Life #346
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Today my wife Pam and I follow from last week’s episode on sex toys in marriage. This time we discuss more about the use of toys but land more in the area of masturbation and married life. Enjoy the show! Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked […] The post Masturbation In Married Life #346 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 28, 2018
Menopause and Hormones #345
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One topic has shown up a lot recently in the Inbox of feedback@sexymarriagereadio.com is how to address menopause and hormones. Well today I have Nancy Houston, LPC and Certified Sex Therapist join me as we cover these issues directly. You can find more about Nancy here – http://nancyhouston.net/ And pick up her book here, Love […] The post Menopause and Hormones #345 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 24, 2018
When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344
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Sex toys are great! Or they’re a threat! Join us as Pam and I discuss the history of vibrators and answer a couple of emails about confidence and sex toys. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: Dr. Allan’s book: Naked Marriage: Uncovering Who You Are And Who You Can […] The post When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 21, 2018
Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343
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Our first ever Marriage Roundtable! Today Pam and I are joined by Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and Seth and Melanie Studley of The Anatomy of Marriage. In this episode we discuss the best and the worst marriage advice we’ve heard in our lives and our practices. You can find more about […] The post Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 17, 2018
Talking About Sex With The One You Have It With #342
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Talking about sex is an important aspect of marital, and sexual satisfaction in life. But it is also a difficult conversation for some to being, get through, or feel like they get anywhere with. Today we dive more into the struggles many people have talking about sex with their spouse, and give several ideas about […] The post Talking About Sex With The One You Have It With #342 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 14, 2018
Communication of Desire #341
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Communication is a big deal in life, and marriage. Everything we do (and don’t do) communicates. So how does this all play out when it comes to our desires in marriage? When it comes to sex in marriage? Lorraine Wrage, LPC is a Certified Sex Therapist and she joins me as we discuss the importance […] The post Communication of Desire #341 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 10, 2018
Welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio 3.0 #340
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WELCOME to SMR 3.0!!!!! And yes, it’s Monday and there’s a new episode. Why? You may ask. Listen to the show to hear all about the new things happening in SMR 3.0. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! Enjoy the show. And thanks for joining us. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the […] The post Welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio 3.0 #340 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 07, 2018
SMR#339: Sexually Confident Husband
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Today we tackle a couple of emails following up the Pain During Intercourse Episode and then cover a voicemail on the idea of regaining your sexual confidence as a husband when his wife says she wants more erotism during sex but doesn’t follow through. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the […] The post SMR#339: Sexually Confident Husband appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 02, 2018
SMR#338: Sexual Compatibility
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What exactly does it mean to be compatible? Specifically sexually compatible? That’s what we explore today. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. https://smrnation.com/smracademy __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Get even more help in the Academy Get […] The post SMR#338: Sexual Compatibility appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 25, 2018
SMR#337: Authenticity and Saying No
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Today we have a couple of calls – one with a great idea to spice up your TV watching and other asking how do you be authentic in your life while struggling to say yes or no to sex with their higher desire spouse. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Man […] The post SMR#337: Authenticity and Saying No appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 18, 2018
SMR#336: Pain During Intercourse
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There are times when sex is not pleasurable at all. In fact there are women who experience pain during sex. Today I’m joined by a colleague, Debby Wade, LMFT, LPC who works with women and couples who experience pain during sex. Enjoy the show. Resources mentioned … Vaginismus.com When Sex Hurts Heal Pelvic Pain __________ […] The post SMR#336: Pain During Intercourse appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 11, 2018
SMR#335: A Sexual Moratorium
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Perhaps you’ve heard of this idea, or not. What would happen in your marriage if you took an extended, purposeful break from sex in your marriage? It may surprise you. Plus a couple of voicemails on porn and marriage. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. […] The post SMR#335: A Sexual Moratorium appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 04, 2018
SMR#334: Defensiveness In Sex
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Today my first co-host of Sexy Marriage Radio joins me on the air. Gina Parris and I discuss the differences between higher and lower desire in sex through the lens of offense and defense. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter the code word SEXY […] The post SMR#334: Defensiveness In Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 28, 2018
SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create
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There are many differences between spouses in marriage. Higher vs Lower Desire. Initiating vs Responding. Connecting to be interested in sex vs sex to feel connected. Today my wife Pam and I discuss how these differences can actually create energy for each of you. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The […] The post SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 21, 2018
SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers
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Today my wife Pam and I cover a couple of related topics … What does a husband do when his wife doesn’t initiate sex? And an email from a listener asking for more information about bringing triggers out in the open in the marriage. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked […] The post SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 14, 2018
SMR#331: Looking Back And Forward
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Join us for Shannon’s farewell episode as we look back on our journey together on the show – and a brief look forward towards what is yet to come. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice. http://covenantspice.com __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post SMR#331: Looking Back And Forward appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 07, 2018
SMR#330: Priming the Pump
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There are many times when one spouse wants the other to change something, stop something or start something. Losing weight, better diet, more initiation, etc. So how does the Higher Desire spouse address this with their mate? That’s what we discuss today. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Woman at the […] The post SMR#330: Priming the Pump appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 28, 2018
SMR#329: Mindsets Toward Sex
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Have you ever looked at the mindset you have towards your sex life? That’s what we explore in this episode. Plus, there’s an important announcement towards the end of the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter the code word SEXY at checkout to receive a free […] The post SMR#329: Mindsets Toward Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 21, 2018
SMR#328: I Want You To Want Me
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It’s a common human desire to feel wanted. But what most often keeps us from feeling this way in marriage? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. June 21-24, 2018 at the Marriott Solana in Westlake, TX (just north of DFW Airport). Register to join us […] The post SMR#328: I Want You To Want Me appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 14, 2018
SMR#327: Past Used Against You
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What happens when your past (or a fantasy you’ve shared) is used against you by your spouse? Shannon is back to help me explore. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter the code word SEXY at checkout to receive a free bottle of massage oil. […] The post SMR#327: Past Used Against You appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 07, 2018
SMR#326: Positive Emotional Tension
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Dr. Robert Glover joins me again as we discuss the idea of creating positive emotional tension in married life. Check out more of his work at https://www.drglover.com Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. June 21-24 at the Marriott Solana in Westlake, TX (just north of […] The post SMR#326: Positive Emotional Tension appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 31, 2018
SMR#325: Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway and Initiation
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Announcing the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2018! June 21-24 at the Marriott Solana in Westlake, TX (just north of DFW Airport). This is our fourth annual getaway and it looks to be one of the best. Register to join us today. Plus, an email from a wife who asks about her struggle of initiating sex […] The post SMR#325: Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway and Initiation appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 24, 2018
SMR#324: Birthday Sex, Shower Sex, Oral Sex
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Emails from listeners … I’m fascinated by the differences between higher and lower desires – particularly about Birthday Sex. A discussion about the logistics of shower sex. And how does a wife grow more comfortable with oral sex on her husband? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio […] The post SMR#324: Birthday Sex, Shower Sex, Oral Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 17, 2018
SMR#323: Lingerie For Your Bed
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This month we have a new sponsor for SMR – Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet® designed to help you let go and experience more in your intimate moments in marriage. Today I’m joined by the creators of Naked Bed and talk about their story behind the idea, as well as how it will help […] The post SMR#323: Lingerie For Your Bed appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 10, 2018
SMR#322: Kids and Money in Married Life
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Voicemails from two listeners … What are some tips to help recapture married life and sex before kids? How can we approach money in our married life better in 2018? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice. http://covenantspice.com __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post SMR#322: Kids and Money in Married Life appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 03, 2018
SMR#321: Helpful Tips For Married Life
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Email from a listener … What are some things you’d recommend for young married couples (or every couple) since you’re wife is on air with you now and you’ve been married for almost 25 years? We don’t get to 20, but we have some good ones. Enjoy the show. __________ This episode is sponsored by […] The post SMR#321: Helpful Tips For Married Life appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 27, 2017
SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex
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Voicemail and email from listeners today … What is the difference between longing vs lusting? (@ 2:30 mark) Tips for sex over the Holidays, especially when traveling with family. (@ 27:33 mark) My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. […] The post SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 20, 2017
SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection
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Voicemails from listeners today … What can you do to establish a deeper connection after discovery of pornography use? And a caller who is interested in how to keep a deeper connection with his wife during sex. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ This episode is sponsored by […] The post SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 13, 2017
SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire
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Voicemails from a couple of listeners today … How do you get back to normal sex after pregnancy? How do you deal with being the higher desire when your spouse responds to your levels with “But we have sex the normal amount of time.” My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the […] The post SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 06, 2017
SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy
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Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … What makes married sex so great? How to feel cherished and loved. Breaking the intergenerational Nice Guy trait. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 29, 2017
SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments
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Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … Animals in bed. No kissing in the marriage, even during sex. My spouse will not accept my compliments. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Take our brief survey – https://s.surveyplanet.com/rJPdn-jJM __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email […] The post SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 22, 2017
SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage
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We’ve covered the topic of pornography on several past shows, but not quite in this way. What do you do after you discover your spouse’s porn usage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode to unpack this struggle and the path towards growth. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 15, 2017
SMR#314: Marriage Undone Then Redone
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Today I’m joined by Tray and Melody Lovvorn of Undone Redone, a podcast and ministry willing to wade into the messiness of life and marriage. Listen to their story of how their marriage ended in divorce, then 6 years later remarriage. Enjoy the show. __________ A couple of the links mentioned on the show: How […] The post SMR#314: Marriage Undone Then Redone appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 08, 2017
SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance
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Maintenance is a known requirement when it comes to our cars, homes, and other things we own. But what about our relationships? Especially our marriage? What are the ways we can practice maintenance in our marriage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode. Enjoy the show. __________ A couple of the links mentioned on […] The post SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 01, 2017
SMR#312: The Nice Guy
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I’ve talked about the idea of the Nice Guy before on Sexy Marriage Radio, today I’m joined by a friend and mentor of mine Dr. Robert Glover. He’s the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. In this episode we discuss how the nice guy impacts relationships and how to change from being a nice […] The post SMR#312: The Nice Guy appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 25, 2017
SMR#311: Vanilla Fantasies
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There are people and couples who may not have fantasies, or if they do they are very vanilla. So what do you do if this is you, or you’re married to them? That’s what we discuss today. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Get […] The post SMR#311: Vanilla Fantasies appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 18, 2017
SMR#310: The Silence Is Killing Me, Part 2
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In case you missed the beginning of our discussion on this idea, check it out here. Today we continue with some practical ways you can confront the silence that many couples face in married life. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#310: The Silence Is Killing Me, Part 2 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 11, 2017
SMR#309: The Silence Is Killing Me
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An email from a listener helps set the stage for this episode. One answer to the conflict we have in marriage surrounding sex could be one thing, but it could also another thing that all of us will face in married life. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to […] The post SMR#309: The Silence Is Killing Me appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 04, 2017
SMR#308: Listener Emails – The D Word, Spouse Is My Anything, Oral Sex
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Listener driven radio happens this week. We cover emails about The D Word, can my spouse be my anything, and oral sex. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#308: Listener Emails – The D Word, Spouse Is My Anything, Oral Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 27, 2017
SMR#307: I Do Not Know What I Want
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There are times in life, sometimes many times, when we may not know what I want. What do I do when this happens in my sex life? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#307: I Do Not Know What I Want appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 20, 2017
SMR#306: Sex and Infertility
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There are many couples who struggle with infertility issues. But what makes this struggle even greater is the way this struggle impacts the marriage’s sex life. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#306: Sex and Infertility appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 13, 2017
SMR#305: Can Marriage Be Solved?
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There are many times when we fall victim to the belief that marriage is an issue that can be solved. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#305: Can Marriage Be Solved? appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 06, 2017
SMR#304: My Spouse Is My Everything
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Far too often we have placed unrealistic expectations and requirements on marriage and our spouse. What has been the fall out from this pressure? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#304: My Spouse Is My Everything appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 30, 2017
SMR#303: Redefining A Stud
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There are many definitions of a stud (not talking about building materials). So how do you define what makes a stud? Or makes someone sexy? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#303: Redefining A Stud appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 23, 2017
SMR#302: Handling Regrets in Marriage
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Regret is something humans face in many facets of life and relationship. But how do we handle regret better in marriage? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#302: Handling Regrets in Marriage appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 16, 2017
SMR#301: Abstinence and Married Life Follow Up
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Several episodes ago we talked about the abstinence movement and its impact on married life. This show resulted in lots of emails from our listeners. Because of the way the conversation was heard by many of you, today we’re circling back to the topic. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post SMR#301: Abstinence and Married Life Follow Up appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 09, 2017
SMR#300: Episode 300!
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EPISODE 300!!!! What a great milestone. Listen as we celebrate this accomplishment – live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#300: Episode 300! appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Aug 02, 2017
SMR#299: Overreacting To Triggers
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Overreactions run rampant in marriage. And it can cause quite a bit of trouble in like. So how do you get better hold of overreactions to triggers in life and marriage? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? […] The post SMR#299: Overreacting To Triggers appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 26, 2017
SMR#298: Self-Soothing
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One of the main ideas that will help grow us up is our ability to learn how to self-soothe. What exactly does this look like? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to […] The post SMR#298: Self-Soothing appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 19, 2017
SMR#297: Men Can Also Be Crock-Pots
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It has been said that women are like crock-pots and men are like microwaves. But what if men are like crock-pots as well? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#297: Men Can Also Be Crock-Pots appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 12, 2017
SMR#296: Abstinence and Married Sex
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Many listeners may have been raised with an abstinence message when it came to sex before marriage. While this message is important it can also have some unintended consequences. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#296: Abstinence and Married Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jul 05, 2017
SMR#295: Antidepressants and Sex
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One theme in our Inbox keeps being repeated, how medications for depression, anxiety and the like impact sex life in marriage. It can be a real issue. But there are some things you can do that will help. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#295: Antidepressants and Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 28, 2017
SMR#294: Power of the Third Follow Up
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In episode 292 we interviewed a listener and his struggle with the power of the third in his marriage. Based on feedback from several listeners, this concept deserves to be explored more. Here you go! Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#294: Power of the Third Follow Up appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 21, 2017
SMR#293: He Comes First
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We have scripts that we follow in married sex. One of the most common would be she comes first. What if he comes first? Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#293: He Comes First appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 14, 2017
SMR#292: The Power of The Third
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One thought we have talked about is this idea of “the power of the third.” The idea that we are trying to live fully alive lives, which will possibly be noticed by others. In this episode a listener joins us to discuss to struggle of using the power of the third. Enjoy the show. Still […] The post SMR#292: The Power of The Third appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jun 07, 2017
SMR#291: Potpourri Feedback from Listeners
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Sexy Marriage Radio listeners are the best in the world. Especially when they call us to task and keep us in check. Like today’s show where we answer some criticism from several listeners. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? […] The post SMR#291: Potpourri Feedback from Listeners appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 31, 2017
SMR#290: Security and Desire
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We have discussed how women are security seeking creatures and when a husband’s job outlook fluctuates it could impact security. Today we are joined by a caller who wants help increasing her desire for her husband when her security feels threatened. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – […] The post SMR#290: Security and Desire appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 24, 2017
SMR#289: Solidness
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One of our challenges is for us as married people to be more solid. So what does solidness mean? That’s what we discuss. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#289: Solidness appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 17, 2017
SMR#288: Sexual Laziness
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Laziness can be something many people face in life. But what about in marriage? In sex? That’s what we cover in today’s episode. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#288: Sexual Laziness appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 10, 2017
SMR#287: Sexless Marriages – Power And Control
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Last week we covered Sexless Marriages, and we struck a nerve with several of our listeners. Lots of times what is really happening in a sexless marriage comes down to power and control. That’s the angle we take for this topic today. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – […] The post SMR#287: Sexless Marriages – Power And Control appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
May 03, 2017
SMR#286: Sexless Marriages
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We have episodes on this topic in the archives, but it’s so worth covering again. The sexless marriage. It’s quite a bind – for both spouses. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#286: Sexless Marriages appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 26, 2017
SMR#285: Soft and Hard and Scheduling
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Soft and hard – the words can bring very different thoughts to mind. Especially within the context of sex. Same with the word scheduling. Want to know what meaning we attach to these words? Listen. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a […] The post SMR#285: Soft and Hard and Scheduling appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 19, 2017
SMR#284: The Dance of Desire Differences
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This week we are joined by a listener looking for help in understanding the differences in desire levels and the dance that causes in his marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#284: The Dance of Desire Differences appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 12, 2017
SMR#283: Americans Are Having Less Sex
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Research from late last year states that Americans are having less sex that they were a couple of decades ago. Why do you supposed that is? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email […] The post SMR#283: Americans Are Having Less Sex appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Apr 05, 2017
SMR#282: Pursuing vs. Asking
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To ask for sex or pursue it. It can be quite the quandary. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#282: Pursuing vs. Asking appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 29, 2017
SMR#281: Cuckolding
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Perhaps you’ve never heard about cuckolding. Well, after today’s show that will no longer be the case. Enjoy. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#281: Cuckolding appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 22, 2017
SMR#280: Sexual Confidence Or Vulnerability
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Another listener joins us for this episode. Join us as Molly asks how she can increase her sexual confidence. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#280: Sexual Confidence Or Vulnerability appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 15, 2017
SMR#279: What Is It Like To Have Sex With You?
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We have asked this question before … Would you want to be married to you? Today we ask – What is it like to have sex with you? Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to […] The post SMR#279: What Is It Like To Have Sex With You? appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 08, 2017
SMR#278: Low Desire But Likes The Chase
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This week a listener joins us on the air to explore her issue of feeling like she is the low desire spouse, yet wants to be the chaser in the marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at […] The post SMR#278: Low Desire But Likes The Chase appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Mar 01, 2017
SMR#277: Trust Equals Lust
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Trust equals lust. But trust isn’t just about infidelity or affairs. It is so much more. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#277: Trust Equals Lust appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 22, 2017
SMR#276: Dirty Talk, RV Sex, Dealing With Rejection
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It’s been a while since we’ve done a potpourri show. In this week’s episode we cover three different emails from listeners: Dirty talk RV sex Dealing with rejection Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to […] The post SMR#276: Dirty Talk, RV Sex, Dealing With Rejection appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 15, 2017
SMR#275: Spouse Shuts Down Because of Past Abuse
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The things that happen to us when we’re young can impact us for a long time. In today’s episode we discuss an email from a listener that faces shutting down sexually when things get too close to feeling out of control or uncomfortable. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, […] The post SMR#275: Spouse Shuts Down Because of Past Abuse appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 08, 2017
SMR#274: 2017 SMR Getaway
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Valentine’s Day is fast approaching? Have you thought about what you can do to enhance your relationship? What about coming to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, June 22-25, 2017? Register to Getaway That’s what we talk about in this episode. You can also take advantage of the sale our friend’s are having at Couple’s Massage […] The post SMR#274: 2017 SMR Getaway appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Feb 01, 2017
SMR#273: Behind Your Spouse’s Back
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Some things happen behind your spouse’s back. But what about when those things actually involve them, or betray them? That’s what we talk about in this episode. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#273: Behind Your Spouse’s Back appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 25, 2017
SMR#272: Being Vulnerable With You
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Each week you guys faithfully tune into our show. You email, you ask questions, you give feedback and you support us. This week we offer up a new level of vulnerability with you and share what’s been going on behind the scenes. What is that, you ask? Listen to the show. __________ Got a question? […] The post SMR#272: Being Vulnerable With You appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 18, 2017
SMR#271: Tests in Marriage
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Perhaps you don’t think of some aspects of the marriage as tests, but there are things that happen that may in fact be just that. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#271: Tests in Marriage appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 11, 2017
SMR#270: The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy
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Welcome to 2017! Interested in a new resource that will help take your marriage to the next level? Consider joining the Sexy Marriage Radio Academy That’s what we cover in this episode. Join the Academy __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#270: The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Jan 04, 2017
SMR#269: How The High Desire Wife Gets In Her Own Way
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There are many couples that face the dilemma of the the wife being the high desire partner. While the dynamic between the high desire and low desire has some similarities when she is the high desire – there are things she can do that doesn’t help. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got […] The post SMR#269: How The High Desire Wife Gets In Her Own Way appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 28, 2016
SMR#268: How the High Desire Gets In Their Own Way
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We have talked at length about the high desire and the low desire. Many times the low desire partner gets all the focus, but there are some things the high desire does that gets in their own way. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to […] The post SMR#268: How the High Desire Gets In Their Own Way appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 21, 2016
SMR#267: 10 Hot Spots To Touch
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There are many areas worth touching when it comes to foreplay and sex. But what about some areas that may get overlooked? That’s what we cover in this episode. To check out the couple’s massage course MELT, click here. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#267: 10 Hot Spots To Touch appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 14, 2016
SMR#266: Redefining Normal
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Normal. What exactly does that mean? This question is particularly troubling sometimes when it comes to marriage and sex That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#266: Redefining Normal appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Dec 07, 2016
SMR#265: How To Connect When You Don’t Agree
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The political season has given way to the Holiday Season – but what do you do when the prior season found you and your spouse (or family) on opposite sides? How do you connect when you simply don’t agree? That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post SMR#265: How To Connect When You Don’t Agree appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 30, 2016
SMR#264: Naked Marriage, Getaway, and SMR Academy
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Today we take care of a little house-keeping. There are some great things happening at Sexy Marriage Radio … The Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2017 Bed Buddy Club Members can register now (you will have to log into your account to access the payment page) Register Now The SMR Academy (more details coming later) Naked […] The post SMR#264: Naked Marriage, Getaway, and SMR Academy appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 23, 2016
SMR#263: Books That Shaped Our View, Part 2
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Last week we covered several books that helped shape our views about marriage, sexuality and our role as counselors. This week is part two of our list. Enjoy. Shannon’s books: Arousal – Michael Bader Divine Romance – Gene Edwards The Mystery of Marriage – Mike Mason The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands – Laura […] The post SMR#263: Books That Shaped Our View, Part 2 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 16, 2016
SMR#262: Books That Shaped Our View
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There are many things that influence and define our view or life, marriage, and sex. In today’s episode we discuss the impactful books that helped shape us professionally. Enjoy. Shannon’s books: Daily Meditations for Women Who Love Too Much – Robin Norwood A Celebration of Sex – Doug Rosenau The Naked Now – Richard Rohr […] The post SMR#262: Books That Shaped Our View appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 09, 2016
SMR#261: Knowing vs Caring, Part 2
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There is a difference between knowing something and caring about something. In episode #257 we began this conversation, today we expand it. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#261: Knowing vs Caring, Part 2 appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Nov 02, 2016
SMR#260: Bids For Relationship
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We make bids every day. Some are more overt and straight-forward than others. So how do bids play out in your marriage? What’s that? You don’t know what a bid is? Then listen to today’s episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#260: Bids For Relationship appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 26, 2016
SMR#259: When A Spouse Does Not Like To Talk
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In every marriage relationship there is a talker and a no-talker (or a talk-less talker). This can create a great deal of angst both within you and between you. That’s what we discuss in today’s episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#259: When A Spouse Does Not Like To Talk appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 19, 2016
SMR#258: Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 5!
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On October 10, 2011 Sexy Marriage Radio hit the airwaves! Join us this week as we celebrate 5 years! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#258: Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 5! appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 12, 2016
SMR#257: Knowing vs. Caring
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Many of us believe that if our spouse knew what we struggle with or what we need then they would offer it or change it. But what if they do know and we interpret that as they don’t care? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post SMR#257: Knowing vs. Caring appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Oct 05, 2016
SMR#256: Fetishes
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What’s a fetish? If you don’t know, be sure to listen. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#256: Fetishes appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 28, 2016
SMR#255: Stop Shoulding On Yourself
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Shoulds are everywhere. Far too often it’s our shoulds that cause the most frustration and pain. How often do the shoulds impact your marriage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#255: Stop Shoulding On Yourself appeared first on SMR Nation.
      
Sep 21, 2016