The Allender Center Podcast
By The Allender Center | Dr. Dan Allender
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The Allender Center Podcast features Dr. Dan Allender and his team engaging topics on healing and restoration through the unique intersection of theology and psychology. Through questions submitted by listeners, stories, interviews, and conversations, we engage the deep places of heartache and hope that are rarely addressed so candidly in our culture today. Join us to gain refreshing insight into understanding your story, handling relational struggles, recovering from trauma and abuse, and more.
The mission of The Allender Center is to help people tell their stories with awareness and integrity, and to train them to listen to the stories of others with care, artistry, and skill so that they may foster redemption and healing in their lives. The Allender Center is a pioneering organization committed to boldly engaging the impact of trauma and abuse, providing healing and teaching to individuals, couples, and communities, and training professionals to listen and enter into stories in a way that facilitates transformation and hope. For information on all our programs and live events, visit theallendercenter.org
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Psalm 13, Erin Brockovich, and the Debris of Sexual Abuse
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Oct 31, 2025 |
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"Holy Hurt" with Hillary L. McBride, PhD
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Oct 24, 2025 |
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"Sacred Attachment" with Michael John Cusick
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Oct 17, 2025 |
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"Surrendered Sexuality" with Dr. Juli Slattery
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Oct 10, 2025 |
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Church & Mental Health with Laura Howe
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Oct 03, 2025 |
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Living Theology
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Sep 26, 2025 |
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Recovery Week Reflections
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Sep 19, 2025 |
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The Cost and Gift of Creativity in Relationships with John and Sue Cunningham
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Sep 12, 2025 |
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Bickering, Kindness, and the Deep Roots of Love
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Sep 05, 2025 |
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"Enneagram and Marriage" with Christa Hardin
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Aug 29, 2025 |
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Moving from Broken to Beloved with Brian Lee
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Aug 22, 2025 |
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Being a Faithful Witness in Harrowing Times with Rev. Marcos Canales & Rev. Dr. Robert Chao Romero
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Aug 15, 2025 |
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"Raising Securely Attached Kids" with Eli Harwood
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Aug 08, 2025 |
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Trauma, Grief, and Disrupting Death-Dealing Systems with Dr. Jamie Eaddy
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Aug 01, 2025 |
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A Sabbath Summer, Part 3: Reflecting and Savoring
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Jul 25, 2025 |
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A Sabbath Summer, Part 2: Play, Disappointment, and Daring to Hope
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Jul 18, 2025 |
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A Sabbath Summer, Part 1: Anticipating Rest
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Jul 11, 2025 |
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The Dynamics of DARVO
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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How to Bring Story Work to Your Faith Community with Petra Malekzadeh
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Jun 27, 2025 |
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"Heaven Help Us" with John Kasich
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Jun 20, 2025 |
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"Experience Jesus. Really." with John Eldredge
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Jun 13, 2025 |
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"Saving Face" with Aimee Byrd
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Jun 06, 2025 |
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Trauma, Addiction, and the Twelve Steps – Part 2 with Ian Morgan Cron
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May 30, 2025 |
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Trauma, Addiction, and the Twelve Steps – Part 1 with Ian Morgan Cron
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May 23, 2025 |
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"How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities" with Dr. Andrew J. Bauman
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May 16, 2025 |
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The Research Behind Narrative Focused Trauma Care®
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May 09, 2025 |
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"Make Sense of Your Story" with Adam Young, LCSW
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May 02, 2025 |
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The Support That Ministry Leaders Need with Dr. Rose Madrid Swetman
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Apr 25, 2025 |
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The Narrative of Good Friday
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Apr 18, 2025 |
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Sibling Dynamics
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Apr 11, 2025 |
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Revisiting "The Sex Talk You Never Got" with Sam Jolman
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Apr 04, 2025 |
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Food, Sex, and Shame, Part 2
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Mar 28, 2025 |
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Food, Sex, and Shame, Part 1
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Mar 21, 2025 |
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Honoring Origin Stories with Pastor James A. White
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Mar 14, 2025 |
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Confronting Christian Nationalism - Part 2 with Rev. Dr. David Rice
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Mar 07, 2025 |
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Confronting Christian Nationalism - Part 1 with Rev. Dr. David Rice
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Feb 28, 2025 |
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Who Is Your Neighbor? with Dr. J. Derek McNeil
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Feb 21, 2025 |
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The Disruptive Power of Kindness
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Feb 14, 2025 |
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"Roots and Rhythm" with Charlie Peacock
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Feb 07, 2025 |
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Why Does My Healing Matter?
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Jan 31, 2025 |
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Story Work: What It Is and Why It Matters with Adam Young, Cathy Loerzel, and Dan Allender
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Jan 24, 2025 |
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Tending to One Another's Stories in Marriage with Dan & Becky Allender
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Jan 17, 2025 |
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Creating a Better Marriage Through Story with Becky Allender
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Jan 10, 2025 |
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Is Hope Worth the Risk?
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Jan 03, 2025 |
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Reflections on the Year with Dr. Dan & Becky Allender
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Dec 27, 2024 |
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The Complexities of Christmas
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Dec 13, 2024 |
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Advent and the Light
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Dec 06, 2024 |
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Advent and the Word
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Nov 29, 2024 |
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The Culture of Spiritual Abuse
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Nov 22, 2024 |
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The Attachment Wounds of Spiritual Abuse
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Nov 15, 2024 |
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Checking In, Part 2
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Nov 08, 2024 |
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Checking In, Part 1
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Nov 01, 2024 |
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Grounding Through Poetry with Sue Cunningham
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Oct 25, 2024 |
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Scripture and Society with Dr. J.P. Kang
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Oct 18, 2024 |
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"Healing What's Within" with Chuck DeGroat
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Oct 11, 2024 |
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"The Mary We Forgot" with Dr. Jennifer Powell McNutt
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Oct 04, 2024 |
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"Ghosted" with Nancy French - Part 2
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Sep 27, 2024 |
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"Ghosted" with Nancy French - Part 1
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Sep 27, 2024 |
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Parenting with Kindness (To Ourselves)
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Sep 20, 2024 |
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Who Can Help Us Heal From Abuse?
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Sep 13, 2024 |
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What Keeps Us From Dealing With Sexual Abuse?
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Sep 06, 2024 |
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Healing With Spiritual Direction with Vanessa Sadler
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Aug 30, 2024 |
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Spiritual Formation & White Racial Identity Development
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Aug 23, 2024 |
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How to Have Honest Conversations with Your Kids About the Body, Sex, and Desire with Jay Stringer and Heather Stringer
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Aug 16, 2024 |
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Listener Questions: Spiritual Abuse & Healing
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Aug 09, 2024 |
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Things I Didn't Expect When Healing From Trauma, Part 3 with Rachael Clinton Chen
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Aug 03, 2024 |
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Summer Replay: Attachment Stories in Marriage with Dr. Steve and Lisa Call
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Jul 26, 2024 |
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Summer Replay: "Everybody Come Alive" with Marcie Alvis Walker
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Jul 19, 2024 |
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Summer Replay: "Holy Runaways" with Matthias Roberts
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Jul 12, 2024 |
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Things I Didn't Expect When Healing From Trauma, Part 2 with Rachael Clinton Chen
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Jul 05, 2024 |
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"Why Everything That Doesn't Matter, Matters So Much" with Charlie Peacock and Andi Ashworth
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Jun 28, 2024 |
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Tempus Fugit (Time Flies)
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Jun 22, 2024 |
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"The Sex Talk You Never Got" with Sam Jolman
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Jun 14, 2024 |
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Things I Didn't Expect When Healing From Trauma, Part 1 with Rachael Clinton Chen
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Jun 07, 2024 |
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The Role of Story
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May 31, 2024 |
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Redefining Our Relationship with Honor
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May 24, 2024 |
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"I Shouldn't Feel This Way" with Dr. Alison Cook
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May 17, 2024 |
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Renewing the Mind
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May 10, 2024 |
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Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Mike Boland
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May 03, 2024 |
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Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Petra Malekzadeh
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Apr 27, 2024 |
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Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth
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Apr 19, 2024 |
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Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Stasi Eldredge
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Apr 12, 2024 |
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A Guided Journey with Aundi Kolber
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Apr 05, 2024 |
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Church Family History with The Rev. Dr. Jennifer Powell McNutt
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Mar 29, 2024 |
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Bearing Witness to Stories of Sexual Abuse and Racial Trauma
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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The Cost of Engaging Stories of Sexual Abuse
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Mar 15, 2024 |
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Racial Trauma: The Blessing & Cost of Resilience
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Mar 08, 2024 |
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The Foundations of Narrative Focused Trauma Care
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Mar 01, 2024 |
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The Heart of Narrative Focused Trauma Care
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Feb 23, 2024 |
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Qualities of a Good Friendship
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Feb 16, 2024 |
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The Sweetness of Discipline
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Feb 10, 2024 |
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Leadership, Uncertainty, and Hope with Dr. J. Derek McNeil
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Feb 02, 2024 |
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Engaging Stories of Spiritual Abuse
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Jan 26, 2024 |
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Identifying Systems of Spiritual Abuse
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Jan 19, 2024 |
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Containment and Attunement
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Jan 12, 2024 |
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"The Anxiety Opportunity" in the New Year with Curtis Chang
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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Reflections on the Year with Dan and Becky Allender
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Dec 29, 2023 |
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The Sensuality of the Table with Lauren Peiser
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Dec 22, 2023 |
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"The Paradise King" with Blaine Eldredge
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Dec 15, 2023 |
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Bonus Episode: The Healing Power of Understanding Your Story with Adam Young, Cathy Loerzel, and Dan Allender
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Dec 11, 2023 |
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Gifts of Delight and Wonder
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Dec 08, 2023 |
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Engaging Memory and Holiday Nostalgia
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Dec 01, 2023 |
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Food Insecurity with Diane Summers
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Nov 17, 2023 |
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Adult ADHD with Dr. Pam Davis
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Nov 10, 2023 |
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What is Effective Trauma Care?
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Nov 03, 2023 |
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Humility & Repair
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Oct 27, 2023 |
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"Strong Like Water" with Aundi Kolber
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Oct 20, 2023 |
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The Tension of Telling the Truth
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Oct 13, 2023 |
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Why We Don't Tell the Truth
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Oct 06, 2023 |
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"Holy Runaways" with Matthias Roberts
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Sep 29, 2023 |
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Celebrating 500 Episodes: Listener Questions
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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Church After Mars Hill with Joel Kiekintveld
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Sep 15, 2023 |
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The Importance of Discourse With Dr. J. Derek McNeil
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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Neurotheology, Part 2: The Formation of Hope with Curt Thompson, MD
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Sep 01, 2023 |
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Neurotheology, Part 1: The Origins of Shame with Curt Thompson, MD
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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Understanding Gaslighting
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Aug 18, 2023 |
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3 Steps for Trauma Triage
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Aug 11, 2023 |
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Connecting Through Prayer with Jill Dyer
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Aug 04, 2023 |
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Epistemology: How We Know with Esther Lightcap Meek
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Jul 28, 2023 |
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"Everybody Come Alive" with Marcie Alvis Walker
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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The Eternality of Parenting
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Jul 14, 2023 |
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Returning to Unresolvable Conflicts
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Jul 07, 2023 |
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Creating Safety in Relationships
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Jun 30, 2023 |
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The Spirituality of Rest
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Jun 23, 2023 |
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The Spirituality of Song with Lowland Hum
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Jun 16, 2023 |
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The Spirituality of Craft with Melissa and Jordan Dowell
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Jun 09, 2023 |
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Stories of Our Bodies
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Jun 02, 2023 |
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Stories of Shame
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May 26, 2023 |
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"The Anxiety Opportunity" with Curtis Chang
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May 19, 2023 |
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The Transformative Journey of Pilgrimage with Brad & Rita Berglund
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May 13, 2023 |
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Processing Trauma Through Poiesis
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May 05, 2023 |
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Moving Through Grief
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Apr 28, 2023 |
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Friendship Cycles, Part 2
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Apr 21, 2023 |
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Friendship Cycles, Part 1
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Apr 14, 2023 |
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Defusing Triggers
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Apr 08, 2023 |
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Exposing the Schemes of Evil
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Apr 01, 2023 |
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Connecting Dots: Making Sense of Our Stories
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Mar 25, 2023 |
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Healing to Lead, Part 2
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Mar 18, 2023 |
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Healing to Lead, Part 1
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Mar 11, 2023 |
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Welcome Back, Rachael!
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Mar 04, 2023 |
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Memory and Story
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Feb 25, 2023 |
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Betrayal in Marriage
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Feb 18, 2023 |
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Attachment Stories in Marriage
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Feb 11, 2023 |
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Family of Origin with Dr. Dan Allender and Adam Young
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Feb 04, 2023 |
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Parenting the Parent
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Jan 28, 2023 |
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Unresolvable Conflict
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Jan 21, 2023 |
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Act Justly, Love Mercy, Walk Humbly
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Jan 14, 2023 |
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Intentions for the New Year
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Jan 07, 2023 |
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Meditation on the Year
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Dec 31, 2022 |
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The Disruption of the Incarnation
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Dec 24, 2022 |
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How the Incarnation Invites Creativity
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Dec 16, 2022 |
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Sharing in the Creativity of Christmas with Sue Cunningham
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Dec 10, 2022 |
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The Presence of the Incarnation with Alexander John Shaia
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Dec 03, 2022 |
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The Nature of Disappointment
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Nov 26, 2022 |
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Holiday Madness
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Nov 19, 2022 |
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Listener Questions: Engaging Past Trauma and Our Families of Origin
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Nov 12, 2022 |
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"Exit the Cave" with Blaine Hogan
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Nov 05, 2022 |
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Engaging Triggers in Marriage
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Oct 29, 2022 |
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Does Time Heal All Wounds?
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Oct 22, 2022 |
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Becoming a Sage
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Oct 15, 2022 |
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The Beauty of Intersectionality
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Oct 08, 2022 |
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The Narratives of Marginalization
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Oct 01, 2022 |
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Systems of Separation
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Sep 24, 2022 |
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Nuanced Identities
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Sep 17, 2022 |
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The Violence of Marginalization
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Sep 10, 2022 |
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Desire and Disappointment
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Sep 03, 2022 |
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Resilient Spirit: A Conversation with John Eldredge
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Aug 27, 2022 |
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Rushing for Relief: A Conversation with John Eldredge
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Aug 20, 2022 |
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Anchoring Rituals, Part 2 with Dr. Chelle Stearns and Matthias Roberts
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Aug 13, 2022 |
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Anchoring Rituals, Part 1 with Dr. Chelle Stearns and Matthias Roberts
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Aug 06, 2022 |
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Replay and Rest: Imagination and Hope
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Aug 05, 2022 |
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Replay and Rest: The Cost of Rest
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Jul 23, 2022 |
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Replay and Rest: Self Care with Practical Grounding Techniques
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Jul 16, 2022 |
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Rachael's Maternity Leave
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Jul 09, 2022 |
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How Did We Get Here? With Pete Wehner
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Jul 02, 2022 |
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How Did We Get Here? With Pete Wehner
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Jul 02, 2022 |
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"This Here Flesh" with Cole Arthur Riley, Part Two
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Jun 25, 2022 |
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"This Here Flesh" with Cole Arthur Riley, Part One
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Jun 18, 2022 |
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Story Engagement with Kalee Vandergrift-Porter
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Jun 11, 2022 |
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Story Engagement with Jeanette White
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Jun 04, 2022 |
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Why Story?
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May 28, 2022 |
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The Origins of Dr. Dan Allender's Work
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May 21, 2022 |
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Healing from Spiritual Abuse
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May 14, 2022 |
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Revisiting Spiritual Abuse
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May 07, 2022 |
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Care and Mercy for Post-Traumatic Stress
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Apr 30, 2022 |
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The Impacts of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
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Apr 23, 2022 |
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What the Resurrection Brings
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Apr 16, 2022 |
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Experiencing Wholeheartedness
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Apr 09, 2022 |
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Becoming More Wholehearted
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Apr 02, 2022 |
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The Vulnerability of Christ
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Mar 26, 2022 |
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The Connection Between Supremacy and Sexual Abuse
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Mar 19, 2022 |
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Pornography & Our Stories of Desire (Part of the Sexual Abuse series)
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Mar 12, 2022 |
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Transforming Stories with the Enneagram
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Mar 05, 2022 |
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Lessons Learned in Parenting Adult Children
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Feb 26, 2022 |
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Relating To Parents As We Age
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Feb 18, 2022 |
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Addressing Our Trauma Stories Within Marriage
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Feb 12, 2022 |
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Deconstructing Our False Edens
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Feb 06, 2022 |
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Engaging Story in Lifelong Relationships
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Jan 29, 2022 |
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Self Care with Practical Grounding Techniques
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Jan 22, 2022 |
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Navigating Transitions One Step at a Time
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Jan 15, 2022 |
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Rituals & Rhythms for Intentionality
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Jan 08, 2022 |
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Rituals & Rhythms for a New Year
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Jan 01, 2022 |
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Mary's Song: A Christmas Reading
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Dec 25, 2021 |
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The Gift of Connectedness
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Dec 18, 2021 |
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The Revolution in Mary's Magnificat
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Dec 11, 2021 |
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Collective Healing: 10 Year Celebration
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Dec 04, 2021 |
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Grief & Gratitude in Partnerships and Parenting
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Nov 27, 2021 |
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Grief & Gratitude with Family of Origin
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Nov 20, 2021 |
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Relationship Between Grief & Gratitude
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Nov 13, 2021 |
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Remembering Formational Stories: 10 Year Celebration
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Nov 06, 2021 |
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When Hiding Keeps Us From Authenticity
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Oct 29, 2021 |
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Sabotage, Self-Contempt & Reenactment
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Oct 23, 2021 |
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Scapegoating, Projection, and Envy
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Oct 16, 2021 |
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When Rage Keeps us from Community
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Oct 09, 2021 |
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Friends from the Beginning: 10 Year Celebration
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Oct 01, 2021 |
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Healing from Spiritual and Sexual Abuse
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Sep 25, 2021 |
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Connections Between Spiritual and Sexual Abuse
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Sep 18, 2021 |
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The Making of Redeeming Heartache
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Sep 11, 2021 |
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Stories from 10 Years of The Allender Center
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Sep 03, 2021 |
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Engaging Our Stories with Adam Young
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Aug 27, 2021 |
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Engaging Our Stories with Sue Cunningham
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Aug 20, 2021 |
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Engaging Our Stories with Gwen St. John
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Aug 14, 2021 |
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Fly Fishing, Play, and Restoration
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Aug 06, 2021 |
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Curiosity and Hospitality
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Jul 30, 2021 |
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Providing Hospitality: A Conversation with Becky Allender
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Jul 23, 2021 |
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What Is Hospitality? A Conversation with Dr. Tremper Longman III
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Jul 17, 2021 |
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Trauma-Informed Parenting with Abby Wong-Heffter
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Jul 09, 2021 |
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Trauma-Informed Care with Abby Wong-Heffter
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Jul 03, 2021 |
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Food, Kindness, and Our Bodies
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Jun 26, 2021 |
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Engaging Food & Body
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Jun 19, 2021 |
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Flourishing and Anticipation
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Jun 12, 2021 |
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A Different Kind of Flourishing
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Jun 05, 2021 |
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Defining Spiritual Abuse
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May 29, 2021 |
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Collective Grief
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May 22, 2021 |
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Encountering Grief: Jeanette White
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May 14, 2021 |
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Encountering Grief: Mary Ellen Owen
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May 08, 2021 |
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Revisiting Our Stories, Part Two
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May 01, 2021 |
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Revisiting Our Stories, Part One
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Apr 24, 2021 |
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Stop Asian Hate: Christian Responses to Anti-Asian Racism – Real Talk from Impact Movement
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Apr 17, 2021 |
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Stop Asian Hate: Christian Responses to Anti-Asian Racism – Real Talk from Impact Movement
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Apr 17, 2021 |
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The Resurrection Story
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Apr 09, 2021 |
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Disruption and Defiance in the Resurrection
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Apr 02, 2021 |
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Mental Health: How to Help Kids in a Pandemic
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Mar 26, 2021 |
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Play, Anxiety, and Resilience: How to help kids in a pandemic
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Mar 19, 2021 |
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Practicing Kindness: Trauma and the Body
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Mar 12, 2021 |
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Trauma and the Body in Pandemic
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Mar 04, 2021 |
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Connection in Relationships
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Feb 26, 2021 |
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Conflict in Relationships
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Feb 20, 2021 |
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Keeping Sabbath
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Feb 13, 2021 |
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Sabbath, Explained
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Feb 06, 2021 |
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Racial Reconciliation with Dr. Brenda Salter McNeil and Wendell Moss
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Jan 29, 2021 |
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Listener Questions about Narcissism with Chuck DeGroat
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Jan 22, 2021 |
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Narcissism and the Church with Chuck DeGroat
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Jan 15, 2021 |
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Engaging and Navigating Regret
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Jan 08, 2021 |
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Holding Hope for a New Year
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Jan 01, 2021 |
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How to Remember a Year
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Dec 25, 2020 |
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Living into the Tension of Advent: Rev. Michael S. Chen
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Dec 18, 2020 |
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Living into the Tension of Advent: Cole Arthur Riley
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Dec 11, 2020 |
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Living into the Tension of Advent: Dr. J. Derek McNeil and Kate Davis
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Dec 04, 2020 |
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Holding the Tension of Grief, Gratitude, and Grace
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Nov 25, 2020 |
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Engaging Grief and Gratitude
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Nov 20, 2020 |
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Contempt and Kindness in the Kingdom of God
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Nov 13, 2020 |
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Engaging Fear and Uncertainty in the Kingdom of God
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Nov 06, 2020 |
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Calling & Character: King and Queen Archetype
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Oct 30, 2020 |
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Calling & Character: Prophet Archetype
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Oct 24, 2020 |
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Calling & Character: Priest Archetype
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Oct 16, 2020 |
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Calling & Character: Priest, Prophet, King
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Oct 09, 2020 |
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How Are You Doing? Checking in with Dan and Rachael
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Oct 02, 2020 |
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Relationships between Married Couples and Single People
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Sep 25, 2020 |
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Rituals to Redeem Your Marriage
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Sep 18, 2020 |
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Engaging Triggers in Marriage
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Sep 11, 2020 |
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The Reality of Marriage in COVID-19
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Sep 05, 2020 |
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Developing a Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns
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Aug 28, 2020 |
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The Particulars of Spiritual Abuse: Dissociation and Healing
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Aug 21, 2020 |
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The Particulars of Spiritual Abuse: Mind Control and Loyalty
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Aug 14, 2020 |
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Curiosity & Commitment: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
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Aug 07, 2020 |
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Courage: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
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Jul 31, 2020 |
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Kindness: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
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Jul 24, 2020 |
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Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
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Jul 17, 2020 |
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A Conversation with Sarah Bessey
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Jul 10, 2020 |
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Pause: Looking Ahead to the Summer
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Jul 03, 2020 |
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Listener Questions: Trauma and Relationships
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Jun 26, 2020 |
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Listener Questions: Bad Theology
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Jun 19, 2020 |
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Partnerships in Racial Justice Work
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Jun 12, 2020 |
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Racial Trauma and White Supremacy
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Jun 06, 2020 |
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Connection in Marriage During a Pandemic
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May 29, 2020 |
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Parenting in the Midst of a Pandemic
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May 22, 2020 |
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Routine and Rituals in Covid-19, Part Two
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May 15, 2020 |
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Routine and Rituals in Covid-19, Part One
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May 08, 2020 |
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Food and Body, Part Three
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May 01, 2020 |
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Food and Body, Part Two
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Apr 24, 2020 |
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Food and Body, Part One
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Apr 17, 2020 |
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Holding the Tension of Holy Saturday
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Apr 10, 2020 |
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Preparing for Holy Week
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Apr 03, 2020 |
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Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part Three
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Mar 27, 2020 |
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What Does it Mean to Submit to Authority?
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Mar 20, 2020 |
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Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part Two
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Mar 19, 2020 |
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Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part One
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Mar 17, 2020 |
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Trust and Submission to Authority
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Mar 13, 2020 |
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Complexity in Authority
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Mar 06, 2020 |
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Attachment and Relationships, Part Three
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Feb 28, 2020 |
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Attachment and Relationships, Part Two
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Feb 22, 2020 |
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Attachment and Relationships, Part One
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Feb 14, 2020 |
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Reconnection in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call (re-release)
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Feb 12, 2020 |
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What Women Wish Women Knew about Women's Sexuality
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Feb 07, 2020 |
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What Women Wish Men Knew about Women's Sexuality
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Jan 31, 2020 |
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A Time of Transition, Part Two
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Jan 25, 2020 |
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A Time of Transition, Part One
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Jan 17, 2020 |
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Ending and Beginning: Regret
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Jan 10, 2020 |
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Ending and Beginning: Regret
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Jan 03, 2020 |
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Implications of the Incarnation: Becoming the Word Flesh
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Dec 27, 2019 |
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Implications of the Incarnation: Flesh: The Word Became
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Dec 20, 2019 |
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Implications of the Incarnation: The Word Made Flesh
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Dec 13, 2019 |
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Gratitude and Repentance, Part Three
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Dec 06, 2019 |
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Gratitude and Repentance, Part Two
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Nov 26, 2019 |
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Gratitude and Repentance, Part One
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Nov 22, 2019 |
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Complexities in Leadership, Part Two
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Nov 15, 2019 |
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Complexities in Leadership, Part One
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Nov 08, 2019 |
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What Men wish Women Knew about Sexuality
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Nov 01, 2019 |
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What Men Wish Men Knew About Sexuality
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Oct 25, 2019 |
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Becoming an Anti-Racist, Part Two
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Oct 18, 2019 |
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Becoming an Anti-Racist, Part One
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Oct 11, 2019 |
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Planning and Remembering Weddings, Part Two
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Oct 04, 2019 |
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Planning and Remembering Weddings, Part One
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Sep 27, 2019 |
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Facing Failure, Part 3
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Sep 20, 2019 |
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Facing Failure, Part 2
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Sep 13, 2019 |
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Facing Failure, Part 1
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Sep 06, 2019 |
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Aging, Part Three
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Aug 30, 2019 |
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Aging, Part Two
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Aug 24, 2019 |
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Aging, Part One
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Aug 17, 2019 |
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Scapegoating, Part Three
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Aug 09, 2019 |
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Scapegoating, Part Two
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Aug 02, 2019 |
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Hope in Trauma with Abby Wong-Heffter
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Jul 31, 2019 |
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Scapegoating, Part One
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Jul 26, 2019 |
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A Summer of Play, Part Four
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Jul 19, 2019 |
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A Summer of Play, Part Three
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Jul 12, 2019 |
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A Summer of Play, Part Two
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Jul 05, 2019 |
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A Summer of Play, Part One
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Jun 28, 2019 |
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Imagination and Hope in Psalm 131
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Jun 21, 2019 |
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Calm and Quiet in Psalm 131
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Jun 14, 2019 |
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Entitlement and Pride in Psalm 131
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Jun 07, 2019 |
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Defiance and Healing from Spiritual Abuse
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May 24, 2019 |
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Dissociation and Shame in Spiritual Abuse
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May 17, 2019 |
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Suspicion and Loyalty in Spiritual Abuse
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May 10, 2019 |
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Mind Control and Dogmatism in Spiritual Abuse
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May 03, 2019 |
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Caring for Leaders in Erotic Entanglement, Part Two
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Apr 26, 2019 |
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Caring for Leaders in Erotic Entanglement, Part One
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Apr 19, 2019 |
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Caring for Leaders, Part Two
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Apr 12, 2019 |
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Caring for Leaders, Part One
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Apr 05, 2019 |
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Not Doing Well, Part Three
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Mar 29, 2019 |
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Not Doing Well, Part Two
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Mar 22, 2019 |
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Not Doing Well, Part One
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Mar 15, 2019 |
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Family of Origin: Redeeming Triangulation
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Mar 08, 2019 |
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Family of Origin: Triangulation
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Mar 01, 2019 |
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Family of Origin: Patterns and Particularities
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Feb 22, 2019 |
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Family of Origin: Attachment and Epigenetics
|
Feb 15, 2019 |
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Reconnection in Marriage, Part Two
|
Feb 08, 2019 |
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Reconnection in Marriage, Part One
|
Feb 01, 2019 |
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Delight, Discernment, and Decision-making, Part Three
|
Jan 25, 2019 |
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Delight, Discernment, and Decision-Making, Part Two
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Jan 18, 2019 |
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Reconnection in Marriage, Part Two
|
Jan 11, 2019 |
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Delight, Discernment, and Decision-Making, Part One
|
Jan 11, 2019 |
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Starting a Year with Intention and Care
|
Jan 04, 2019 |
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Looking Back on the Year
|
Dec 28, 2018 |
|
Home for the Holidays, Part Three
|
Dec 21, 2018 |
|
Home for the Holidays, Part Two
|
Dec 14, 2018 |
|
Home for the Holidays, Part One
|
Dec 07, 2018 |
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Stumbling Toward Wholeness, Part Two
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Nov 30, 2018 |
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Stumbling Toward Wholeness, Part One
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Nov 23, 2018 |
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Defiant Joy with Stasi Eldredge, Part Two
|
Nov 16, 2018 |
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Defiant Joy with Stasi Eldredge, Part One
|
Nov 09, 2018 |
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Trauma and Memory in The Tale, Part Two
|
Nov 02, 2018 |
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Trauma and Memory in The Tale, Part One
|
Oct 26, 2018 |
|
Four Years of The Allender Center Podcast
|
Oct 19, 2018 |
|
Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part Three
|
Oct 12, 2018 |
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Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part Two
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Oct 05, 2018 |
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Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part One
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Sep 28, 2018 |
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Trauma, Race, and Masculinity with Wendell Moss, Part Two
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Sep 21, 2018 |
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Trauma, Race, and Masculinity with Wendell Moss, Part One
|
Sep 15, 2018 |
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Intriguing Scriptures, Part Four: Dr. Craig Detweiler
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Sep 07, 2018 |
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Intriguing Scriptures, Part Three: Dr. Derek McNeil
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Aug 31, 2018 |
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Intriguing Scriptures, Part Two: Dr. Angela Parker
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Aug 24, 2018 |
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Intriguing Scriptures, Part One: Dr. Chelle Stearns
|
Aug 17, 2018 |
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Parenting Adult Children, Part Two
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Aug 10, 2018 |
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Parenting Adult Children, Part One
|
Aug 03, 2018 |
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An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part Three
|
Jul 27, 2018 |
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An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part Two
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Jul 20, 2018 |
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An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part One
|
Jul 13, 2018 |
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Spiritual Formation with Nancy Kane, Part Two
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Jul 06, 2018 |
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Spiritual Formation with Nancy Kane, Part One
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Jun 29, 2018 |
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Summer Hospitality, Part Two
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Jun 22, 2018 |
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Summer Hospitality, Part One
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Jun 15, 2018 |
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Summer Reading: Just Mercy
|
Jun 08, 2018 |
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Summer Reading: Survivor Cafe
|
Jun 01, 2018 |
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A Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns, Part Two
|
May 25, 2018 |
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A Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns, Part One
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May 18, 2018 |
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Telling Stories with Dr. Craig Detweiler, Part Two
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May 11, 2018 |
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Telling Stories with Dr. Craig Detweiler, Part One
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May 04, 2018 |
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Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part Three
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Apr 27, 2018 |
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Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part Two
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Apr 20, 2018 |
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Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part One
|
Apr 13, 2018 |
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Trauma and Healing in Black Panther, Part Two
|
Apr 06, 2018 |
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Trauma and Healing in Black Panther, Part One
|
Mar 30, 2018 |
|
Listener Feedback: Spiritual Abuse
|
Mar 23, 2018 |
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Spiritual Abuse, Part Three
|
Mar 16, 2018 |
|
Spiritual Abuse, Part Two
|
Mar 09, 2018 |
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Spiritual Abuse, Part One
|
Mar 02, 2018 |
|
Story Sage, Part Three
|
Feb 23, 2018 |
|
Story Sage, Part Two
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Feb 16, 2018 |
|
Story Sage, Part One
|
Feb 09, 2018 |
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Dan and Becky Allender: Hiding No More, Part Two
|
Feb 02, 2018 |
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Dan and Becky Allender: Hiding No More, Part One
|
Jan 26, 2018 |
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Hospitality in Music: An Interview with Lowland Hum, Part Two
|
Jan 19, 2018 |
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Hospitality in Music: An Interview with Lowland Hum
|
Jan 12, 2018 |
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Writing a New Story in 2018
|
Jan 05, 2018 |
|
Ending the Year with Intention
|
Dec 29, 2017 |
|
Deeper Levels of Disruption: Advent, Part Three
|
Dec 15, 2017 |
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Advent, Part Two: Dazed and Confused
|
Dec 08, 2017 |
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Advent, Part One: Conflict around Christmas
|
Dec 01, 2017 |
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Opening Up to Receive and Give
|
Nov 24, 2017 |
|
Race and Trauma, Part Three
|
Nov 17, 2017 |
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Race and Trauma, Part Two
|
Nov 10, 2017 |
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Race and Trauma, Part One
|
Nov 03, 2017 |
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Dealing with Difficult People, Part Three
|
Oct 27, 2017 |
|
Dealing with Difficult People, Part Two
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Oct 20, 2017 |
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Dealing with Difficult People, Part One
|
Oct 13, 2017 |
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Processing by Active Participation: Healing the Wounded Heart, Part 2
|
Oct 06, 2017 |
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The Power of Community: Healing the Wounded Heart, Part 1
|
Sep 29, 2017 |
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Story Writing: Revealing What You Could Not See (Part 4 on Story)
|
Sep 23, 2017 |
|
Story Themes: How Particulars Form Threads (Part 3 on Story)
|
Sep 16, 2017 |
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Irritation or Intrigue: You Choose (Part 2 on Story)
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Sep 09, 2017 |
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Catastrophic Stories: In Response to Houston
|
Sep 02, 2017 |
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Reflection and Transition: A Summer Reprise
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Aug 26, 2017 |
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Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Four
|
Aug 19, 2017 |
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Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Three
|
Aug 12, 2017 |
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Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Two
|
Aug 05, 2017 |
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Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part One
|
Jul 29, 2017 |
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Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part Three
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Jul 22, 2017 |
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Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part Two
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Jul 15, 2017 |
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Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part One
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Jul 08, 2017 |
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Grief, Emotions, and Essential Oils, Part Two
|
Jul 01, 2017 |
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Grief, Emotions, and Essential Oils, Part One
|
Jun 24, 2017 |
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Hitting the Road
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Jun 17, 2017 |
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Training for a Church That's Not Here Yet, Part Two
|
Jun 10, 2017 |
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Training for a Church That's Not Here Yet, Part One
|
Jun 03, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrants, Part Six
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May 27, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrants, Part Five
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May 20, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrant, Part Four
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May 13, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrants, Part Three
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May 06, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrants, Part Two
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Apr 29, 2017 |
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The Marriage Quadrants, Part One
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Apr 22, 2017 |
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Grieving the Death of a Parent, Part Two
|
Apr 15, 2017 |
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Grieving the Death of a Parent, Part One
|
Apr 08, 2017 |
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Spiritual Warfare, Part Four
|
Apr 01, 2017 |
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Spiritual Warfare, Part Three
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Mar 25, 2017 |
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Spiritual Warfare, Part Two
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Mar 18, 2017 |
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Spiritual Warfare, Part One
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Mar 11, 2017 |
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Ambivalence and Our Wounded Hearts, Part Two
|
Mar 04, 2017 |
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Ambivalence and Our Wounded Hearts, Part One
|
Feb 25, 2017 |
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The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Four
|
Feb 18, 2017 |
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The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Three
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Feb 11, 2017 |
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The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Two
|
Feb 04, 2017 |
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The Grief of Miscarriage, Part One
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Jan 28, 2017 |
|
Sabbath, Part Two: 40 Years of Marriage
|
Jan 21, 2017 |
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Sabbath, Part One: A Taste of the Kingdom
|
Jan 14, 2017 |
|
Beginning a New Year
|
Jan 07, 2017 |
|
Ending a Year
|
Dec 31, 2016 |
|
Advent, Part 4: Celebrating
|
Dec 24, 2016 |
|
Advent, Part 3: Welcoming
|
Dec 17, 2016 |
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Advent, Part 2: Preparing
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Dec 10, 2016 |
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Advent, Part 1: Anticipating
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Dec 03, 2016 |
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Gratitude
|
Nov 26, 2016 |
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Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part Three
|
Nov 19, 2016 |
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Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part Two
|
Nov 12, 2016 |
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Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part One
|
Nov 05, 2016 |
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Celebrating 100 Episodes: Dissociation in Marriage
|
Oct 29, 2016 |
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Celebrating 100 Episodes
|
Oct 22, 2016 |
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What a Therapist Looks for in a Client, Part Two
|
Oct 15, 2016 |
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What a Therapist Looks for in a Client, Part One
|
Oct 08, 2016 |
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How to Pick a Therapist, Part Two
|
Oct 01, 2016 |
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How to Pick a Therapist, Part One
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Sep 24, 2016 |
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Healing the Wounded Heart: A New Offering
|
Sep 17, 2016 |
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The Four J's: Jonah the Self-righteous Prophet
|
Sep 10, 2016 |
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The Four J's: Joseph the Humbled King
|
Sep 03, 2016 |
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The Four J's: Jeremiah the Mad Prophet
|
Aug 27, 2016 |
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The Coach and the Therapist: A Conversation with Rick Maguire, Part Two
|
Aug 20, 2016 |
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Beautiful Risks: A Conversation with Rick Maguire, Part One
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Aug 13, 2016 |
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The Four J's: Jacob the Trickster
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Aug 06, 2016 |
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The Four J's: An Introduction to Character
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Jul 30, 2016 |
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The Trauma of Microaggressions: The Spectrum of Trauma, Part Three
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Jul 23, 2016 |
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Trauma and Desire: The Spectrum of Trauma, Part Two
|
Jul 16, 2016 |
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The Spectrum of Trauma, Part One
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Jul 09, 2016 |
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Authenticity and Humility: The Binds of Leadership, Part 3
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Jul 02, 2016 |
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Hope and Envy: The Binds of Leadership, Part 2
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Jun 25, 2016 |
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The Binds of Leadership: A Conversation with Rachael Clinton
|
Jun 18, 2016 |
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Join the Work of Multiplying Transformation
|
Jun 11, 2016 |
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Listening in Lament: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
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Jun 04, 2016 |
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Mysticism and Pragmatism: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
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May 28, 2016 |
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Spirituality of Listening: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
|
May 21, 2016 |
|
Wisdom in Relationships
|
May 16, 2016 |
|
Wisdom and the Inner Ring
|
May 07, 2016 |
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Wisdom and Foolishness
|
Apr 30, 2016 |
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Wisdom, Part One
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Apr 23, 2016 |
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A Story Worth Living, Part Two
|
Apr 16, 2016 |
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A Story Worth Living
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Apr 09, 2016 |
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Dan Allender and Tremper Longman on the Nature of Friendship, Part Two
|
Apr 02, 2016 |
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Dan Allender and Tremper Longman on the Nature of Friendship, Part One
|
Mar 26, 2016 |
|
Training Wounded Healers, Part Three
|
Mar 19, 2016 |
|
Training Wounded Healers, Part Two
|
Mar 12, 2016 |
|
Training Wounded Healers, Part One
|
Mar 05, 2016 |
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Healing the Wounded Heart, Part Three
|
Feb 27, 2016 |
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Healing the Wounded Heart, Part Two
|
Feb 22, 2016 |
|
Healing the Wounded Heart, Part One
|
Feb 13, 2016 |
|
Restoration of the Heart, Part Two
|
Feb 06, 2016 |
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Restoration of the Heart, Part One
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Jan 30, 2016 |
|
Listener Questions, Part Three
|
Jan 23, 2016 |
|
Listener Questions, Part Two
|
Jan 16, 2016 |
|
Listener Questions, Part One
|
Jan 09, 2016 |
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Beginning the Year Well
|
Jan 02, 2016 |
|
Ending the Year Well
|
Dec 26, 2015 |
|
Home for the Holidays, Part 3
|
Dec 19, 2015 |
|
Home for the Holidays, Part 2
|
Dec 12, 2015 |
|
Home for the Holidays
|
Dec 05, 2015 |
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Grandparenting
|
Nov 28, 2015 |
|
Grace Is in the World
|
Nov 21, 2015 |
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Marriage: Becoming One Flesh, Part 1
|
Nov 14, 2015 |
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Marriage: Becoming One Flesh, Part 1
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Nov 07, 2015 |
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Marriage: Cleaving and Soul Connecting, Part 2
|
Oct 31, 2015 |
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Marriage: Cleaving and Soul Connecting
|
Oct 25, 2015 |
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Marriage: The Trials of Leaving, Part 2
|
Oct 17, 2015 |
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Marriage: The Trials of Leaving
|
Oct 10, 2015 |
|
Restoration of the Heart: A Conversation with John Eldredge
|
Oct 03, 2015 |
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Design of Desire: The Delight of Desire
|
Sep 27, 2015 |
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Design of Desire: God's Engagement with Desire
|
Sep 19, 2015 |
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Design of Desire: Creational Desires
|
Sep 12, 2015 |
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Design of Desire: The Struggle with Desire
|
Sep 05, 2015 |
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Play, Part Four
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Aug 22, 2015 |
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Play, Part Three
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Aug 15, 2015 |
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Play, Part Two
|
Aug 08, 2015 |
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Play, Part One
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Aug 01, 2015 |
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Play, Story, and Motorcycles: A Conversation with John Eldredge
|
Jul 25, 2015 |
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High School Reunion, Part 2
|
Jul 18, 2015 |
|
An Interview with John Cunningham, Part 2
|
Jul 11, 2015 |
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An Interview with John Cunningham, Part 1
|
Jul 04, 2015 |
|
High School Reunion
|
Jun 27, 2015 |
|
An Interview with Susan Cunningham
|
Jun 20, 2015 |
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Questions of engaging my story.
|
Jun 13, 2015 |
|
What if I fear my story?
|
Jun 06, 2015 |
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How do I trust my memory?
|
May 30, 2015 |
|
No one's story is normal
|
May 23, 2015 |
|
When endings don't go well
|
May 16, 2015 |
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Ending Well
|
May 09, 2015 |
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Sabotage - Endings
|
May 02, 2015 |
|
Endings
|
Apr 25, 2015 |
|
Owning our work
|
Apr 19, 2015 |
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Carrying Trauma - part 2
|
Apr 11, 2015 |
|
Carrying Trauma - part 1
|
Apr 04, 2015 |
|
Trauma Care in Galatians 6 - Restoring
|
Mar 28, 2015 |
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Vicarious Trauma and the Church
|
Mar 21, 2015 |
|
Trauma, marriage, and the church
|
Mar 14, 2015 |
|
Trauma and the church
|
Mar 07, 2015 |
|
Naming and reflecting the beauty of God in our stories
|
Feb 28, 2015 |
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Naming our wounds
|
Feb 21, 2015 |
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Learning to bless our stories
|
Feb 14, 2015 |
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The cost of rest
|
Feb 08, 2015 |
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Sabbatical & Sabbath
|
Jan 30, 2015 |
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The first step in helping others
|
Jan 16, 2015 |
|
Our past and the role of attachment
|
Jan 02, 2015 |
|
Advent Joy: Rejoice & Lament
|
Dec 19, 2014 |
|
Engaging Our Story of Harm and Abuse.
|
Dec 12, 2014 |
|
Defining Trauma and Abuse
|
Dec 05, 2014 |
|
History of Harm
|
Nov 28, 2014 |
|
Why is sex important to God?
|
Nov 21, 2014 |
|
An Honest Conversation.
|
Nov 14, 2014 |
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Writing "God Loves Sex"
|
Nov 07, 2014 |
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How does my relationship with my family of origin impact my marriage?
|
Oct 31, 2014 |
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How does past sexual experiences impact my marriage?
|
Oct 24, 2014 |
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How can my spouse and I do better at resolving ongoing conflict?
|
Oct 17, 2014 |
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How can I build greater intimacy with my spouse?
|
Oct 10, 2014 |